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Stepping Into 2024 Like... · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, y'all?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of
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  Speaker 3: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.
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  Speaker 3: This is your co-host, AJ Holiday.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, team? I want to dedicate this last one
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  Speaker 2: of the year to these people. Niggas and hoes. One
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  Speaker 2: more time for the year. Might as well. Hey, y'all. Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: We love y'all, man. Hope y'all had a good Christmas.
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  Speaker 2: I enjoyed Christmas. I was about to ask you the
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  Speaker 2: same thing. You go first.
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  Speaker 3: My Christmas was cool. Okay, so remember I told y'all
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  Speaker 3: last week we were doing family pictures. So we did
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  Speaker 3: do that on Christmas Eve. I did everybody's makeup.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, that was nice. Except for my oldest niece, Chaka.
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  Speaker 3: She's extra boozy. She had to go get her shit
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  Speaker 3: done by someone. But I did everybody else's. And we
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  Speaker 3: looked really nice, man. Look, my daddy and my stepmom,
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  Speaker 3: who's the same age as my middle sister, they came
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  Speaker 3: to take pictures because.
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  Speaker 2: We all won Big Happy Family. Y'all took pictures all together?
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  Speaker 2: That was nice. Everybody. It was 12 of us. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: that was real nice. Are y'all going to print them? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I'm waiting for the guy. I want one. Send me one. Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: The guy had, I know the guy, the photographer, because
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  Speaker 3: my niece was, this was her idea, but somehow it
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  Speaker 3: landed in my fucking lap last minute. So I found
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  Speaker 3: somebody to come take the pictures. And when my daddy
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  Speaker 3: and his wife was taking the pictures together, I was like,
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  Speaker 3: I told the photographer, I said, tell everybody this is
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  Speaker 3: my stepmama.
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  Speaker 2: She's 45. Hey, D. Hey, D. Girl, my daddy is 73, girl.
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  Speaker 2: With a 45-year-old wife? Yeah, big Romey Rome. That's what
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  Speaker 2: come after that. Yeah, but and then Christmas Day.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, girl, last night we went to a big ass,
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  Speaker 3: like I wish my family was like this lit. I
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  Speaker 3: went to a house Christmas party. And apparently these people
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  Speaker 3: do this shit every year. It's a preacher and his wife,
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  Speaker 3: but it's my friends.
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  Speaker 2: My friends. My nigga. Homeboy family. His mom and dad.
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  Speaker 3: Girl, when I tell you, we pulled up with so
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  Speaker 3: many people there. They had a live band inside the house.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. It was lit. Okay. All you can eat food
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  Speaker 2: and drinks. It was really, really nice.
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  Speaker 3: I wish my family was that dope, but they not.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody be doing their own little separate shit in their house.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 2: Every year.
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  Speaker 1: It was just me, my mom, and my sister this year.
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  Speaker 1: And they came up on Christmas Eve. And I made
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  Speaker 1: us hot chocolate, and I put liquor in me and Tanya's,
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  Speaker 1: but I ain't tell my mama because I was driving
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  Speaker 1: us around to go look at Christmas lights.
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  Speaker 2: Not DUI shorty. It was just a little tab. It
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  Speaker 2: wasn't a whole bunch of hot chocolate.
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  Speaker 3: I know she probably saw you change, though. You know
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  Speaker 3: how motherfuckers be changing when they start drinking.
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  Speaker 1: So we went past this house and there was a
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  Speaker 1: Santa Claus. Literally, they had the house lit up so big.
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  Speaker 1: I found all these places to go online. And so
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  Speaker 1: we rode past this house and it was a Santa
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  Speaker 1: outside and he was passing out candy canes.
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  Speaker 2: And you could leave donations that they were giving to
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  Speaker 2: a charity.
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  Speaker 1: And you had to get in line. So we sat
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  Speaker 1: in that line and we gave him some money. And
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  Speaker 1: I asked him, could I have some break pads for Christmas?
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  Speaker 1: Because I was squeaking all the way down the motherfucking line.
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  Speaker 2: It was embarrassing. You asked Santa for break pads? He
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  Speaker 2: was like, break pads? Oh, no, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: But that was fun. And then we came back here
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  Speaker 1: and we made some s'mores. I had got one of
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  Speaker 1: those tabletop fire pits that I saw on Pinterest.
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  Speaker 2: And we made s'mores and watched the five heartbeats. So
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  Speaker 2: that was good. And we went to bed. Then Christmas...
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  Speaker 2: We got up.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, no, we made a TikTok that night before bed.
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  Speaker 1: You know, the one where I got to send it
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  Speaker 1: to you.
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  Speaker 2: It's so funny. My mama's a trip. The one where
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  Speaker 2: you like moving slow and then when you flash the lights,
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  Speaker 2: you go crazy. Yeah, we made that one. It wasn't good. No,
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  Speaker 2: because it wasn't good. I embarrassed. But I'll send it
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  Speaker 2: to you. Then we went to bed. And then on
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  Speaker 2: Christmas Day, we had matching pajamas. So we took pictures.
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  Speaker 2: We even got Bella matching pajamas.
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  Speaker 1: Took pictures on the couch and then we opened up
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  Speaker 1: all our gifts and then uh we chilled for the
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  Speaker 1: rest of the day ate some food and then we
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  Speaker 1: went to go see the color purple that night and
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  Speaker 1: we wore purple uh like oprah requested but i guess
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  Speaker 1: everybody didn't hear oprah's request because i feel like it
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  Speaker 1: was just us and a couple people who actually came
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  Speaker 1: in the color purple to the show and i really
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  Speaker 1: enjoyed it my mom was acting all stanky in the.
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  Speaker 2: Beginning she's like this is a fucking musical I was like, yes.
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  Speaker 2: But once she got into it, it was really good.
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  Speaker 2: We enjoyed it. Now, let me just say this.
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  Speaker 1: There was a trailer for that movie, The American Society
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  Speaker 1: of Magical Negroes.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all, go look at that. Oh, I can't wait for that.
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  Speaker 2: I like the title of that. No, you're not going
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  Speaker 2: to like it.
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  Speaker 1: I like the title and I was excited because I
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  Speaker 1: was expecting some nigga Hogwarts shit, right?
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 1: This movie is about magical Negroes who use their powers
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  Speaker 1: to make sure white people are happy. So white people
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  Speaker 1: don't hurt black people. And the main character, you're right.
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  Speaker 1: And the main character, he starts liking this white girl
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  Speaker 1: and his job is to keep this white man happy.
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  Speaker 1: And the white man likes the white girl. So he
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  Speaker 1: has a conflict of like getting with this white girl
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  Speaker 1: or making this white man happy.
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  Speaker 2: And there's a white, white tears odometer girl. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: come on. Who the fuck is this for? Who this for?
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  Speaker 2: Hold on. What's the title again?
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  Speaker 1: The American Society of Magical Negroes That Make White People Happy.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I literally, in the movie, I said, boo,
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  Speaker 1: real loud. Everybody started laughing in the movie theater. Because
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  Speaker 1: who the fuck?
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  Speaker 2: They missed the mark for me.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's a satire, and I get that it's
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  Speaker 1: a satire, but I feel like Based on the trailer,
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  Speaker 1: they're missing the mark completely for me.
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  Speaker 2: So, I don't know. Directed by Colby Libby. Yeah, it's
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  Speaker 2: not giving. It's not giving.
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  Speaker 3: I won't tell you what he looks like. He looks
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  Speaker 3: like he is mixed with black and something else.
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  Speaker 2: I won't tell you what he looks like. He looks
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  Speaker 2: like he's mixed with black and something else. So yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that ain't it.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all go check out the trailer and y'all come back
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  Speaker 1: and tell us what y'all think. But it's just not.
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  Speaker 1: I was offended by that shit. But otherwise, the movie
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  Speaker 1: was good. And then we came back here, ate leftovers
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  Speaker 1: and went to bed.
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  Speaker 2: That was it. So Color Purple was good. It was good.
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  Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. There was a few moments where I
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  Speaker 1: was like, hmm. But for the most part, I loved it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm actually at them even doing a remake. I understand
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  Speaker 3: it's a musical, but they should have just left it
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  Speaker 3: as a Broadway play. I don't know that I want
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  Speaker 3: to see it in theaters paying. Anyway, I'll wait for it.
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  Speaker 2: To come on Netflix. Well, I think you're going to
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  Speaker 2: enjoy it. It was good.
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  Speaker 1: You know, if you take the movie out of your
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  Speaker 1: head and just let it be what it is, I
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  Speaker 1: think you'll like it. Taraji....
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  Speaker 3: You know, Color Purple just has so many stereotypes and
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  Speaker 3: shit like that.
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  Speaker 2: I just.
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  Speaker 3: I just want black people to be fucking great moving forward.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so tired of living in the past.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay?
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  Speaker 3: 2024 and beyond. I just want us to start a
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  Speaker 3: fucking new. Leave all that old shit back there.
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  Speaker 2: Be the old shit. Be the old shit. Mm-hmm. That's
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  Speaker 2: how I feel, man. Because it's like, it's programming. You
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  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? It's programming. I don't like it. Anyway,
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  Speaker 2: I will watch Color Purple when it comes out on TV. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear what you think. In 2027
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  Speaker 2: when it drop on TV. Right. Should be dropping early now.
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  Speaker 2: It'd be like two months.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of Color Purple and Taraji, Taraji, she did an
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  Speaker 1: interview and she was very emotional about the disparaging between
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  Speaker 1: Black female payment as actresses and their counterparts. She wasn't
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  Speaker 1: happy with how much You know, they get paid and
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  Speaker 1: then how much they end up paying out and how
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  Speaker 1: much they end up, they're left with in the end
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  Speaker 1: of it all.
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  Speaker 2: And, you know, I understand that, right?
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  Speaker 1: I can understand that, you know, because based on these
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  Speaker 1: iHeart checks, baby, I don't know. But I just, they,
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  Speaker 1: she gets paid. I looked, I went and Googled her
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  Speaker 1: net worth and I just felt like maybe Taraji just
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  Speaker 1: speaking to a whole different group of people than me,
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  Speaker 1: you know?
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  Speaker 2: I can't.
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  Speaker 1: A different demographic, exactly. Yeah, than me, because I would
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  Speaker 1: be so happy with what she got. I was upset
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  Speaker 1: that Honeybaked Ham was charging $ 68 for a half a ham.
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  Speaker 1: It was almost $ 80 with tax and shit for a
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  Speaker 1: half a ham, and I was upset.
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  Speaker 2: So that's a different tax bracket than I am. So
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  Speaker 2: I can't. She's speaking to somebody else. How you feel
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  Speaker 2: about that? It's for sure right.
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  Speaker 3: So this article I'm looking at is saying that she
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  Speaker 3: rests at $ 12 million. So that's her net worth right now.
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  Speaker 3: And this conversation was with another rich bitch, Gayle King, okay?
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  Speaker 3: Oprah homegirl, slash, slash. And she was visibly emotional. She
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  Speaker 3: was crying about it. And the thing is, when you
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  Speaker 3: become the commodity, right?
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  Speaker 2: She's the business.
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  Speaker 3: So she's responsible for the success of other people as well.
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  Speaker 3: When I was looking up this article, I also saw
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  Speaker 3: that she fired her whole team. After being on, what's
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  Speaker 3: the TV show?
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  Speaker 2: Empire. The Lions. Empire. After Empire and.
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  Speaker 3: The success of it, she said she fired her whole
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  Speaker 3: team because she felt like her career did.
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  Speaker 2: Not catapult after that.
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  Speaker 3: So she just needed to start fresh with a new
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  Speaker 3: group of people because what the fuck y'all doing?
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  Speaker 2: What am I paying? What is next? She said, what's
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  Speaker 2: next for me? Y'all ain't have nothing set up. Right. Right.
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  Speaker 3: She probably needs to talk to some of the older
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  Speaker 3: women that have been acting.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: Maybe she should have had a conversation with Cicely Tyson
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  Speaker 3: before she left. Because I'm pretty sure they wasn't making
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  Speaker 3: all crazy money in comparison to the white counterparts.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And then now, on top of that, they outsource everything
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  Speaker 3: in America. Every job, every corporation is outsourcing. And it's
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  Speaker 3: no different with acting. They go to other countries for
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  Speaker 3: actors to play American people.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Especially British actors take everything. Yeah. Right.
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  Speaker 3: So, I mean, I think it starts with maybe doing
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  Speaker 3: your own shit.
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  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm. Right? She might need to look. Take a page
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  Speaker 2: out of Master P book. Master P. Yeah, just start producing.
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  Speaker 2: Creating and producing. Yeah, just start producing your own. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Doing your own thing because you can't depend on these
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  Speaker 3: people because then there's going to always be a ceiling
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  Speaker 3: for your pay.
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  Speaker 2: Right? Mm-hmm. There's always going to be a ceiling.
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  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 3: But I think her doing a show, it's just weird
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  Speaker 3: to me. This is the part that it kind of
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  Speaker 3: gets me at, right? Why now, while doing Color Purple, right?
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  Speaker 3: Because she even stated in that interview with Gayle King
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  Speaker 3: that she was ready to walk away from Color Purple
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  Speaker 3: at one point, right? Why is this conversation coming up
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  Speaker 3: when you're now dealing with Black folks and their pocketbooks
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  Speaker 3: in pain? Because most of the movies that you've done.
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  Speaker 2: The big ones, right? They probably Well, I guess with Empire,
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  Speaker 2: that was a Lee Daniels. What's the guy? Lee Daniels, right?
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  Speaker 2: I think.
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  Speaker 3: But anything else, most of the other movies that she's done,
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  Speaker 3: like big movies, it was.
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  Speaker 2: White people pockets.
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  Speaker 3: So you allowed them to pay you pennies, and now
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  Speaker 3: here you coming under this black lady, and this black man,
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  Speaker 3: Tyler Perry and Oprah Winfrey. now you on TV crying
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  Speaker 3: with her home girl about how you ain't getting no money.
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  Speaker 2: Like, what's up? Why now?
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  Speaker 1: I guess she's just fed up now. Maybe she's like,
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  Speaker 1: and the black, I ain't, I ain't expect this from us.
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  Speaker 2: Look, I'd be feeling like I expect, honestly, man, it's
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  Speaker 2: the game, man. I don't have the game. Yes, exactly.
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  Speaker 3: I don't have expectations for nobody.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Come to that money. That's the only color that'd be
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  Speaker 1: counting at that point.
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  Speaker 2: Green, okay?
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  Speaker 3: Because when you get into managerial and director and all
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  Speaker 3: that shit, your main goal as a CEO or owner
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  Speaker 3: of any company is income. How can I make the
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  Speaker 3: most money? And who the fuck can I pay a
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  Speaker 3: little bit to make me the most money? It is
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  Speaker 3: what it is, so now you got to become the boss.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So what are you going to do, Taraji?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Start making your own shit. We're going to support
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  Speaker 1: you either way. We're a fan and we love you.
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  Speaker 2: And budget, bitch. Just because you... Look, obviously you need
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  Speaker 2: a budget, right?
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  Speaker 3: Because we know when you start making more money, you
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  Speaker 3: start spending more money. So you get the bigger house,
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  Speaker 3: bigger vacations, bigger cars, all this shit.
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  Speaker 2: But we require.
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  Speaker 1: We have so much requirements for our stars too now.
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  Speaker 2: You got to look a certain way. You got to
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  Speaker 2: dress a way. Why she got that same wig on from...
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  Speaker 2: Color purple. So, you know, I feel her and then
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel her at the same time. You know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Fantasia has been looking very slippy as of late. Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: She been looking good everywhere. Yes. That's it. She look
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  Speaker 2: like she got a check off of Color Purple. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know. I said, new Color Purple checks were good
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  Speaker 2: to Fantasia. Yes. Ain't no way, bruh. Fantasia looking so good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: she do.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all go see it. What else you got on the docket?
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  Speaker 2: Go support them black ladies so they can get their-
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  Speaker 2: I know, so Taraji can get her check up. Right.
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  Speaker 1: And listen to We Talk Back because we need a
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  Speaker 1: little check too, goddamn.
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  Speaker 2: Right. Tune in. The fuck? All right. So Dr.
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: Jackie Law, and she's on the docket for Stupid Internet
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  Speaker 3: News this week. So recently she had to sit down
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  Speaker 3: with VP Kamala Harris, a virtual conference on Zoom to
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  Speaker 3: talk about the maternal health crisis, right? So listen, TikTok
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  Speaker 3: is not safe, okay? TikTok is unruly over there. If
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  Speaker 3: you want the real by anything, go to TikTok because
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  Speaker 3: they're going to expose your ass and they got all
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  Speaker 3: the information on TikTok. So TikTok has now Pulled up
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  Speaker 3: a resurfaced video of her.
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  Speaker 2: I think it was, what's the other crazy ass one? Dr.
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  Speaker 3: Heavenly off of Married to Medicine. And she was saying
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  Speaker 3: how black women, because she's an OBGYN, she was saying
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  Speaker 3: how black women cry wolf when it comes to pain
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  Speaker 3: because they want time off from work.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, in other countries, women don't work. When
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  Speaker 2: they're pregnant. Right?
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  Speaker 3: And I only know a few companies in America that
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  Speaker 3: even give men maternal leave to be with their wives.
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  Speaker 3: Because then that would probably decrease the amount of paternal.
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  Speaker 2: What did I say? Oh, paternal. You know what I mean. Anyway,
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  Speaker 2: y'all know what I mean. Anyway.
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  Speaker 1: You were saying only a few companies even let men
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  Speaker 1: have paternal leave to be off when they have a kid.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, paternity leave to be off when they have children.
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  Speaker 3: Which would probably decrease the amount of, what's the show called? Postpartum.
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  Speaker 2: Postpartum.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I believe postpartum comes from a lack of
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  Speaker 3: support a lot of times for the mothers.
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 3: So now you got to go right back to work
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  Speaker 3: after six weeks. No, I need my whole pregnancy off
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  Speaker 3: plus maybe six or seven months off being paid.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely. Because in other countries, this is standard. Right?
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  Speaker 3: So she's saying Black women specifically cry wolf. And the
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  Speaker 3: thing is, how are you going to sit down with
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  Speaker 3: the vice president to talk about the maternity crisis when
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  Speaker 3: black women were number one? You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: For us to pass away and things like that when
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  Speaker 3: having a baby. We don't survive a lot of times.
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  Speaker 3: So you're a part of the problem. If a mother
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  Speaker 3: comes in and say, hey, I'm in pain. Oh, it's
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  Speaker 3: a black woman. So she automatically lying.
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  Speaker 2: That's a problem. That's a huge problem. But she apologized.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: She came back and apologized for saying that because I
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: guess she understood that that's not right. And that's a
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: lot of reason why we have a maternal crisis as
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: it is. Because people don't respect black women's pain. And
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: as a black woman, you should be the first one
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: to align with that.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: Exactly. Exactly.
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: But the thing is, we have to take into consideration
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: that though she's a black woman, she was also indoctrinated
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: by this white system. So that's why she still sees
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: it how they teach it. I saw a video where
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: one of her old patients went live and said that
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: her son has.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: A delay in learning.
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: And she's trying to stem it back to her pregnancy.
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: And when she had her son, said she was in
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: labor for three days. And then she ended up having
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: to have an emergency C-section. Her heart rate, the baby
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: heart rate was dropping the whole time. And she didn't
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: see Dr. Jackie until the very end.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: And now what I.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: Did research is that doctors don't get paid if they
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: aren't in the room when you have the baby. So
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: they be asking women to hold on, hold up a sec.
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: People scheduling unnecessary C-sections because they want to go on
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: vacation and shit. So you want all your mothers, you
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: want to get all the women out the way so
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: you can go have a life. We got to remember
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: that being a doctor is still a fucking job. People
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: get tired of going to work. But you have people's
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: lives in your hands.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: You, you, it's just a difference.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: It's not the same as working at the fucking.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Library, bitch. Okay. Right. You think you could come in
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: next Thursday? What?
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: You know, and you know, I, I believe that doctors
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: intentionally keep cutting black women. We get a lot of
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: unnecessary C-sections, bitch. I don't have a baby and I
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: got a C-section.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Me too. Unnecessarily. You know what I'm saying?
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: I could have had microscopic surgery. Liposcopic. Liposcopic is what
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: they call it.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: I could have gotten that as opposed to you cutting
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: me open, but I feel like they like to scar
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: black women.
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: So that's a whole nother episode, child. Anyway.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say after that shit.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: Moving, let's move on.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: A woman sues a dentist who allegedly performed eight crowns
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: and four root canals and 20 fillings.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: In one visit, leaving her disfigured. Now, who the... That's
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: fucking stupid.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: First of all, your first mistake was not brushing your
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: teeth ever in life to need all of this shit
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: at one time. And then the second mistake was getting
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: your dentist off Groupon because you had to get your
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: dentist off Groupon to do this.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: Like me, I do. I do. I definitely get no
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: $ 50 cleanings. Let's be very clear. I do not pay
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: for dental because I got good teeth. So I just
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: get my $ 50 cleanings. I need one right now. Don't
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: go to no $ 50 dentist, girl.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: You're going to mess around and come out with veneers
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: when you have.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: The last- What?
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: Don't go to no $ 50 person cleaning your teeth.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: I just pay $ 400 for a cleaning. That's just to
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: get you in the office.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: Well, if you need a deep cleaning, then they'll let
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: you know like, hey, we can do this today, but
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: you need to come back for a deep cleaning.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: But just like a simple cleaning, why am I spending
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: all that money?
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: I don't like to do x-rays because I'm not putting
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: that fucking radiation in my goddamn body.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: Got no x-ray.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: So just clean me up and let me go on
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: about my way. The last guy had a very nice,
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: fine-ass black man.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: Okay, off Groupon. Just be very clear.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: Stop going on Groupon for your teeth. Your teeth are
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: too pretty to play with them like that. You're going
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: to be writing an article with this lady.
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: Using Groupon as a form of.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: You're going to be in the next article right next
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: to this lady.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: Going to that $ 50 holler.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: Okay, when I saw this article, I definitely was thinking
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: about me. And that guy that I went to was
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: not off of Groupon. This is my regular dentist when
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: I was living.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: In South Carolina.
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: And this is why I have TMJ today. From dental work,
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: from having my mouth open so fucking long, doing too
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: many fillings at one time. So I can only imagine
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: how fucked up this lady's mouth is. Because my shit
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: has been fucked up since 2008. My jaw has been clicking.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: And there's no remedy for it. Well, I started going
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: to the chiropractor for it, but now I can kind
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: of massage it out if it gets inflamed itself. But yeah,
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: it's the lifelong thing. A lot of times you can't
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: even sue doctors for real, man. You got to damn
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: near die and your family got to sue for your
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: death when they fuck your shit up.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: But nothing occurred to her that when he told her
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I'm doing all of this at once, like maybe we
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: should split this into three different appointments. This is a
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: lot of shit. Eight crowns, four root canals, and 20 feelings?
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: Just give this bitch some ditches. He should have just
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: took all her teeth out and just gave her a
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: whole new mouth because....
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: Poor baby. I hope she feel better. He said every.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: He said every tooth in her mouth had decay. And
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: she's suing for $ 50, 000.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: $ 50, 000? I mean, he probably... That ain't enough. That's it.
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: It seems like he was trying to work a miracle
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: in five hours because that's how long she was in there.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: So for five hours, she had all that shit done.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out where he went to school.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: Did he go to school? That might be that black
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: boy that had that practice. He went to Walmart.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I bet you it's that young black boy from Florida
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: who opened that practice.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: He was a doctor. Now he a dentist. Dr. Love.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Now he a dentist, love. Dr. Love.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: The crazy thing about that boy, you know he in
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: prison right now for scamming. But the crazy thing about
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: him is he had great reviews on his practice. He
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: literally was healing people with love.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: And doing referrals to other people and all kind of shit.
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: He was like.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Remember that movie with Leonardo DiCaprio, Catch Me If You Can?
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: He was a pilot. Yes. Then he was a doctor.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: Then he was an attorney. Same shit. But.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: Okay, now hold on. Now hold on now. That is
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: based on a true story.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: And that white man ended up working for the FBI
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: because he was so good. So why y'all keep putting
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: this young black boy in prison?
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Right. Y'all should let him help y'all.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: He's 19 years old. Yeah, y'all should let him do something.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: Like, obviously he's talented. The nigga opened a whole practice.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Where did he get the money from? He had a building, everything.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: That's amazing. Good reviews. Look, one more, one more, one more.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: This is the very last stupid internet news.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: All right, so influencer blasted for life hack plan to
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: return used Christmas tree and people are calling her a
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: horrible person. A life hack-tivist is being dragged online as
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: a horrible person after promoting a controversial method of scoring
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: a free Christmas tree In a popular TikTok video, a
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: five-second clip that has already racked up more than a
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: quarter million views, Mai of the duo Mason and Mai
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: can be seen striding confidently through an unnamed store and
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: picking up a boxed artificial tree from the shelves before
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: turning around and walking away, all his shoes beginning to
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: look a lot like Christmas.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: Blah, blah, blah, blah. Anyway, this bitch returned the goddamn
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: tree after Christmas. Don't a lot of people do that shit?
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Why not? I didn't use it. I didn't use it.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: I didn't use it again. But she filmed it, though.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know why she thought this was a
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: good idea to put on TikTok, but a lot of.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: People be returning all kind of shit after Christmas. Right?
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: That is so ghetto.
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: It is ghetto, but she ain't the first person. They
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: put so much ratchet shit on black people. White people
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: be wilding. Do you see that Vara video? the Marshalls
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: in Charlotte, these two white women are just casually walking
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: out the front door with baskets of shit.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Stealing. Nobody's stopping them. Yes. Just casually stealing. No, I
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: missed that.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: They're not getting chased by random customers trying to be
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: superheroes about another store's shit.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: Nothing. They just walked out like it wasn't nothing.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: Meanwhile, when you see a bunch of black people bum-rushing
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: a Gucci store in the comments.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: Like, oh, these niggers. These people are so racist online.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: It's ridiculous, dog. It's ridiculous.
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: So that's stupid internet news for the day, y'all. Listen,
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: we hope everybody had a great Christmas, okay? And New
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: Year's is coming up, all right? This is our New
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: Year's episode. So we want to talk about you know,
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: how do we plan for new years? Everybody always has,
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: have resolutions. Resolutions are not a bad thing. I think
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: you should set them every year, even if it doesn't
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: fall through.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: Just don't do it. Shit. Just do that shit. Y'all
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: we'll be back after this. Hold on.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: You know, that girl with the mean walking up the
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: boxes with the bag and to be like walking into
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: the new year and the.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: Steps be like all the things she gonna change. The
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: same fucking steps every year. Great steps.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: She ain't made it up four steps yet since 2014
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: when that shit came out.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: I hadn't seen a new one yet. I want to
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: see what this one say. I'm going to put my
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: face on that bitch this year and post it. Because
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: I'm making changes.
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: I did not see anything about lace fronts on there.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: That's coming with us. We'll be right back, y'all. All right, y'all.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: We back. Okay.
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: And again, we want to talk about New Year's. How
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: do we plan for the New Year? Do you have
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: any things you do routinely when the New Year is
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: coming in? Anything you do really to prepare for.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: The New Year? Besides from douching? I don't douche my pussy,
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: first of all. Second of all. Where that came from, bitch?
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: You get on my nerves.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: You need a fresh start I make sure my house
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: is clean and there's no dirty clothes in the house
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: cause that's bad luck I make sure that a man
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: is the first person to walk through the door after
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: the new year.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: I make me a pot of greens and black eyed.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Peas money I used to take my Christmas tree down
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: they said don't let the new year come but my
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: shit stayed up till July last year I might take
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: it down this year cause shit was kinda rough this
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: year and it might have something to do with that
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: but that's really it i thank the lord at midnight
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: for me seeing another year and that's my only you
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: know real traditions what about you.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: Um same thing i try to like assess my current
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: year how i want to show up next year um.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: I always write down.
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: Goals do i revisit them But I have a plan
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: for this year. Doing some research in this episode, I
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: think I got a plan to make sure I execute
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: on all my, I don't want to call them resolutions,
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: all my things for next year.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: I got you another book for Christmas. bitch.
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: Another book for me to write my name in. I'm
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: going to at least let.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: People know who Book is. I'm not going to tell
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: you what it is. I'm going to just show it
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: to you because this one is different. It's different than
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: all the ones I've given you before. So you might
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: like this one better because you're supposed to only use
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: it on drugs.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: What? You're only supposed to write in it when you're high.
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: You know what I missed is Shiana had a singing
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: bowl meditation situation. on Christmas Eve. No, not Christmas Eve.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: This is Saturday.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: I wish I could have gotten there in Columbia. I
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: want some fucking singing bowls. That would have been a
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: good Christmas gift for somebody to get me.
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: At least one. But... I don't really have.
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: Oh, one thing I do do is go to fucking
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: Michael's and buy one of them $ 30 planners to write
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: nothing in.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: For the whole year. Oh, a planner?
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: Yes, I buy an annual planner and don't use it.
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: I'm going to do better this year, though. I can
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: feel it. I can feel it, man. We're going to
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: pull them out and we're going to use it all year.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: I can already feel it. Maybe you should get like
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: a digital planner for your phone. Hmm.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: That might be better for you because you don't like
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: physically writing anything, y'all.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: You always make fun of me when I write shit down.
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: You be like, look at her. Prehistoric bitch with a pen. Bitch,
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: you literally write everything.
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: No, but I do want to write more things down
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: because that's where the magic comes from.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: Actually writing shit down. Right?
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: Typing it, I don't think it works as good. So yeah,
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: I want to start writing my shit down.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: As well, bitch. But you.
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: Lord, this bitch was like, let me go get my
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: computer out the car and came back with a notebook, bitch.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: Came back with a notebook. Where's the laptop?
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I had to go out and buy one for this
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: shit because I just.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: Had an iPad. That was it. Yeah, so that's it.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Just writing new shit down, getting a planner. Yeah, that's
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: what I've been doing. And it has been working. Of course,
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: we always have Resolutions about losing weight. New Year's resolutions,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: lose weight. I've actually started going to the gym and
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: shit more, trying to get back on a routine the
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: last month or so.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: So I'm set with that shit, bitch.
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: Because listen, I'm turning 40 this year, y'all.
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: Congratulations. We're old, girl. I'm so happy for you. Girl,
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: fuck you, girl.
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: And I want to be in the best shape of
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: my life for 40, okay? That's what I got planned
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: for 2024. But, all right, so this is from Forbes.com, y'all.
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: It says, many people will make New Year's resolutions. However,
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: the majority will also fail to achieve them. But making
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: resolutions is still a good idea with plenty of positive effects, okay?
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: It says, most popular New Year's resolutions are about self-improvement.
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: Living healthier, 23% of people. Getting happy, 21% of people.
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: That might be one of my resolutions. I'm not not happy,
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: but I want to be happier.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: Losing weight, duh, 20% of people. Exercising more, 7%. 5%
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: of people want to stop smoking. 2% want to reduce drinking.
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: It doesn't say stop drinking, reduce drinking. And as an addition,
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: people resolve... to meet career or job goals, 16%, and
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: improve their relationships, 11%. But it says only 8% of
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: people out of that big pie will actually meet their
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: resolutions by the end of the year. So yeah, still
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: setting a resolution is still a good thing, right? So
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: number one, you have to have intention. Being honest with
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: yourself about your current conditions And the distance to your
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: preferred situation is key to improvement. And being intentional about
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: how you want to grow and develop will help you
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: achieve results. This intentionality will also contribute to your happiness
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: and fulfillment when you're moving forward with clear direction. You
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: make a positive contribution to your emotional and mental health.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: So this is one of the reasons why you should,
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: you know, still go ahead and set resolution and ways
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: to follow through with them.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: Hope and engagement.
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: Making New Year's resolutions is inherently hopeful and optimistic. You
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: expect things can get better for you, for your work experience,
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: or your community. This positive view of the future, in turn,
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: tends to motivate action. If you don't believe tomorrow can
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: be better, you're unlikely to take steps to improve yourself
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: or your community, so optimism is doubtfully.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: Beneficial.
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: Contributing to your own mental health, but also engaging you
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: toward positive action, which has an effect on those around you.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: Okay? Responsibility, bitch. Why you say that to me? I
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: be responsible.
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: It says most New Year's resolutions have some impact on others,
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: even if they are about individual self-improvement. But you know,
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: when you start doing better, a lot of times if
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: people really fuck with you, it kind.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Of rubs off on everybody else. Right? I agree.
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: Approving yourself affects your families, friends, and colleagues, and communities.
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: Your resolution to get healthy will keep you around longer
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: for your family and friends. Your resolution to stop procrastinating.
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: That's one of mine, bitch.
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: Will contribute to a positive team dynamic with your coworkers.
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: And we ain't talk about work. I'm not talking about work.
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: That's no goddamn resolution. What is wrong with y'all?
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Well, some people are trying to get their money up.
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think a lot of people probably want
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: to start their own business so they can get from
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: underneath somebody. You're still always going to have to work, right?
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: But you want to get from underneath somebody else.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get up under somebody in 2024. You're
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: trying to be a dependent? Yeah, I want me a husband.
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: What are you doing? Okay, you want a husband for
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: New Year's. What are you doing? Well, not for New Year's,
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: but in 2020.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: I don't want a nigga to pop up on 12
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: o'clock like, bang. No, I don't want that. I just
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: want everybody be in my comments. Like when I post
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: my little hoe pictures, they be like, I can't believe
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: you ain't got no man.
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: Believe it, bitch. I ain't got one. I don't have,
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: it's not that I couldn't have, like I couldn't have
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: a nigga. Let's be clear.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: It just gotta be the right one, you know? I
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: don't want just a nigga. I want what God has
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: for me.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: So why did you refer to it as a whole picture?
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: Do you think your future husband wants to know that
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: you post whole pictures?
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: It's not a whole picture.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: I just had on some biker shorts and I get
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: sexualized by people because of my body type. So that's
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: why I called it that. But it's not a whole picture,
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: you know? It ain't even a thirst trap. If I
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: was really trying to thirst trap, I would post bathing
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: suit and ass out Kim K type pictures, but I
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: don't post that kind of stuff.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: I could go there. I could, but I don't.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: I could have on the same biker shorts that somebody
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: smaller than me has on, but I just get sexualized
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: because of it.
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: Your husband is watching, bitch. Well, I hope he like
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: my pics.
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: All right so now this is this is the one
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: I need to help me write so this is four
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: steps to write a new year's resolution okay okay so
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: um if you're wondering how do you even um begin
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: to like how how do you even start to you
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: know what you want to do right you know how
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: you want to be how do you even get it
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: together to formulate it with a fucking pen and pad
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: this is what I'm doing this year So it says
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: four steps to write your new year's resolution. This is
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: from language tool dart.org.
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: Okay. Hold on. Okay.
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: So number one says, focus on your goals. You might
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: be tempted to work on two, three, even five resolutions
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: this upcoming year. And that's the problem for me. I
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: do be having too many resolutions. You really just need
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: to pick like one, like one real one. Right. And even,
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: even if like, Let's say you have financial goals for
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: the next year. Break it down into three like sub goals, right?
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: Like so you can achieve each one to make up
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: the whole goal. It says, but instead of giving a
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: small percentage of your effort to several goals, it's better
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: to give 100% to just one. Ask yourself, what is
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: my priority? Then make that your resolution for the year.
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: And if you have numerous priorities you want to accomplish,
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: at least focus on One of them at a time.
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: Once you've completed one, move on to the next. Remember,
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: our brains aren't great at multitasking. I get overwhelmed if
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: I try to do too many things at one fucking time,
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: and then I just don't do nothing.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: So I can write down five things I need to
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: do for today, and I'm going to do none of them.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: And I feel overwhelmed by the list. It's like, ugh. Right.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: I'm just going to binge watch the show. Bitch.
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: And bitch, and don't let nobody call me to add
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: me some shit, add some shit to my list that
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: they need me to do for them. Like, I'm really
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: like discombobulated at that point. Like, oh, you done ruined
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: my whole fucking day because you asked me to do
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: a favor.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: New Year's resolution. It's okay to tell people no. Absolutely. Yeah.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: I don't have a problem telling people no, girl. I don't.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: My mom says I'm selfish for that, but you know,
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: I'd rather say no than be having resentment towards people
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: because you did some shit you didn't want to do.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: People say selfish like, It's such a bad thing. It's
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: okay to be selfish sometimes. you know sometimes selfishness is
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: necessary because you be stressed so thin you ain't got
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: time for yourself so yep and then the people who
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: are used to you saying yes they only call you
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: because they know you're going to say yes people don't
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: call people they know they don't call me Let me
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: tell you something. Listen, if you call me asking for shit,
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: let me be your last resort. Because I will help
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: you come up with all the other options before me
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: on the phone.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: Shame.
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: All right, number two says, split the major goal into
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: smaller goals. So I said that once you've decided on
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: a resolution, split it into smaller, easier to achieve goals.
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: For example, the thought of writing a book might stop
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: you in your tracks, but it'll seem much more attainable
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: if you tell yourself to write one chapter a month.
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: Now that is one of my goals, y'all. I want
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: to have the two scripts I've been writing for the
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: last two years completed by June. And I also want
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: to have a book That I've been writing since 2011,
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: completed by June.
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a book that I want to finish
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: by my birthday. That's going to be my birthday gift
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: to the world. This book for kids. It's a children's book.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: So it ain't even a lot, but it's so cute.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to tell the story.
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, finish it.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: We doing big things this year, okay? Number three says,
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: decide on which actions you'll have to take. Once you've
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: decided on a goal, think about the specific actions you'll
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: have to take to help you reach it. Let's stick
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: to the writing example. There's much more to writing a
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: book than composing it. You also have to take time
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: to brainstorm, research, outline, write drafts, edit, and proofread. You
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: can think of actionable steps required for just about any goal.
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: Do you want to run faster? You'll have to also
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: take time to stretch, eat an optimal diet, And strength
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: train to support your leg muscles. So y'all know y'all
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: can get people to help you write. So I think
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: this year I am definitely going to team up with
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: somebody to help me finish writing the book, at least.
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: And I did purchase, so this is my, I already
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: started my little steps to do my thing. I purchased
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: Final Draft, which is an Adobe product.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: For writing scripts.
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: And other people can log in and write with you.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's dope.
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: So maybe I'll even get a writing partner for that,
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: which I have somebody in mind.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: I need an illustrator. For that as well. That's what
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: I need for my book. Because I don't want to...
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: Just go on Fiverr. Oh yeah, I could use Fiverr.
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: Good thinking, AJ. Girl, I use Fiverr for every fucking thing, okay?
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: Set a schedule.
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: Now that you have a list of actions you can
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: take to help you achieve your resolution, it's time to
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: create A detailed schedule. It should look something like this.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: If I want to write a book by writing one
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: chapter a month, I'll have to write for one hour,
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: two times a week. I'll take one additional day of
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: the week to brainstorm and research and the other day
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: to edit and proofread.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: So you're just breaking down each task. By actions instead
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: of time. So that you can. Exactly. That makes sense.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: All right, so those are the four steps that language
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: tool.org gives for you to set your New Year's resolutions.
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: Like just examples also with the book writing. If that's
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: a goal that you have, break it down in that way.
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: So this is how you set your resolutions. How do
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: you keep the resolutions though?
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: That part, because that bitch been walking up them steps
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: since 2014.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: I'm that bitch.
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: I've been trying to lose the same 20 pounds since 2017.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: Me too, girl.
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: Okay, and I feel like I didn't really eat that
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: much for Christmas and stuff, even for Thanksgiving.
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: Me neither.
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: But it's like the damn weight just won't leave me.
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: It won't stay off. What's up? It won't stay off.
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: I think they trying to force people to get on
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: those Zympic, dog. I really think that. Let me tell
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: you why.
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: I keep seeing these posts.
• 43:51
  Speaker 3: They're on Instagram, but they're TikTok posts from people saying
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: like they're showing videos of obese people. And then the
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: narrator would come back on screen and be like, that
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: person's dead. And then another fat person to show up
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: on the thing and then they'll come back. That person's dead.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: And it's multiple creators doing this.
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, are they just, are they trying to
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: force people to weight loss?
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: Like, damn, what kind of algorithm are you on, bitch?
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: That's pretty dark. One of the videos, a couple of
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: the videos people actually sent me. Like, what are y'all
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: trying to say? What the fuck?
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: But it's so fucked up. I'm like, are y'all trying
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: to force people on Ozempic? I don't want an Ozempic
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: butt and I don't want an Ozempic face.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: First of all, I've seen people where people have died
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: from Ozempic and I literally know somebody who got really
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: sick and was hospitalized from that shit.
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: So it's just not.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: They already have all the class action lawsuits ads out
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: here because it's given pancreatic cancer. some stomach shit, irritable
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: bowel syndrome, and all type of other stomach cancer.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: I got enough shit fucked up with me. I don't
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: need to add no new shit by trying.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: To get skinny. For 40 pounds. Yeah, when I can just.
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: Stay the fuck how I am or lose it naturally.
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: Get somebody else to do it.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: I'm fine either way.
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: But yeah, I want to be, I look at these 50,
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: 60 year old ladies on Instagram who be like real
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: super fit, 70 year olds.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: They look amazing. Minimal wrinkles. You know what I'm saying?
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: Because what you, you are what you eat. I want
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: to be like that.
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: I don't want to do it the easy way. I don't.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: I want it to be sustainable. Likewise. All right.
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: So listen, y'all, this is 10 steps to help you
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: keep your new year's resolutions.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: Okay. All right. So be realistic. I know y'all like
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: to hallucinate a lot. Be realistic. The surest way.
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: To fall short of your goal is to make your
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: goal unattainable. For instance, resolving to never eat your favorite
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: food again is setting you up to fail. Instead, strive
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: for a goal that is attainable, such as avoiding it
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: more often than.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: You do now. What if your favorite food is cocaine?
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: That is not food, bitch. That is a nose supplement. Okay. Yeah,
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: so what's my favorite food? Football buns with the icing
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: down the middle?
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: Girl, I haven't had that shit since.
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: The beginning of the year. You love them football buns.
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: I know, I do. I do love those pastries, but
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: I haven't had them. What is a football bun? Y'all
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: don't listen to our show regularly if you don't know
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: what that is. I like these little, I like Asian pastries, right?
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: They have like the little coconut cream and coconut sprinkle
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: all on it. And it's just cream down the middle
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: of a football, big ass football that no one person
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: should be eating by themselves.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: I like those. She brought me, I was like, what
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: kind of pastry is this? I ain't never seen. It
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: was delicious though. She put it in the oven.
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: Uh, But maybe like for your resolution, split it in half.
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: Split whatever you love in half with somebody else.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: So you can still have it, but share some.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: So next time, instead of bringing two football boys, we'll
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: have one and cut it in half.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: Exactly. Okay. Plan ahead.
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: Number two says, don't make your resolution on New Year's Eve.
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: If you wait until the last minute, it will be
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: based on your mindset that particular day. Instead, It should
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: be planned well before December 31st arrives. And that's what
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: I've started doing. I already started jotting down all the
• 47:46
  Speaker 3: things I would like to change for 2024.
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: So y'all don't wait until December 21st. Shit, by the
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: time this episode come out, it's going.
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: To be too late. Well, December 21st is already gone.
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: December 31st. Y'all know. Oh my God.
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: Y'all, don't wait until December 31st, okay? Start today. Or
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: it might be too late by the time this episode
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: comes out.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: But anyway. Well, it won't be the 31st yet. It'll
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: be like the 28th. So they'll still have time. Yeah,
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: so start when you hear this, bitch. Outline your plan.
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: Decide how you will deal with the temptation to skip
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: that exercise class or have the piece of cake. This
• 48:32
  Speaker 3: could include calling on a friend for help That's accountability, partners.
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: Practicing positive thinking and self-talk or reminding yourself how your
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: bad behavior will affect your goal.
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: Talk to yourself, bitch.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: I have a screensaver that says, what's more important to you,
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: the body you've always wanted or this slice of cake
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: right now?
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: But it ain't work. So I don't know. Y'all might
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: could try something like this.
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: I was sitting the cake on top of the screen.
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: Not you using the phone as a plate.
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: That's some fat shit, bitch. We ain't doing that no more.
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: We ain't doing it no more, man. That shit over. with.
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: It's over with. It's over with. We about to have
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: the best bodies in life. Yes, we are. I got
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: me a mini stepper. Y'all should get y'all one. I
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: did order one. Mine's coming next week. I ordered one.
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: It look like it's easy, though. Legs burning on that bitch. Nope.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: When you put the resistance on. Nope.
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: You know, because I like the AMT machine at the gym,
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: which is the Adaptive Motion Trainer. And it's sort of
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: just like that. It got like an elliptical glide.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: Oh, I know what you're talking about. But it's also
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: like a step.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah. And listen, in an hour, 60 minutes, not even
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: 60 minutes, I'm burning 700 calories.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah. That's real good. On that machine. Mm-hmm. Yeah.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: So number four says, make a pros and cons list.
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: It may help to see a list of items on paper,
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: on paper, y'all, to keep your motivation strong. Develop a
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: list over time and ask others.
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: To contribute to it.
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: Keep your list with you and refer to it when
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: you need help keeping your resolve.
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: Okay? Talk about it.
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: I'm good at this. This is one thing I want
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: to change, though. I don't want to talk about things
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: anymore and not actually execute. So I'm keeping all my
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: shit aside from what I already shared today, right? to
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: myself until everything is, is, is done. But this says
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: to talk about it though, because you know, you, you
• 50:44
  Speaker 3: kind of force other people to hold you accountable. That's
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: why we don't like when somebody be like, and you
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: said you was on a diet.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: Mind your business. Don't your screensaver say, don't you not
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: eat cake? Shut up, bitch.
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: But it does say, talk about it. Number fives. Don't,
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: don't keep your resolution a secret. Tell friends and family members.
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: Who will be there to support your resolve to change
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: yourself for the better or improve your health? The best
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: case scenario is to find a buddy who shares your
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: New Year's resolution and motivate each other. Again, accountability partners
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: is always good.
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: I love to post in close friends. That's where I
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: post my fitness journey. I always post it in my
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: close friends because I feel like those are the people
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: who are rooting for me.
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: I don't post it for everybody. Right?
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: Reward yourself this doesn't mean that you can eat an
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: entire box of chocolates if your resolution is to eat
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: better eat a better diet instead celebrate your success by
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: treating yourself to something you enjoy that doesn't contradict your
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: resolution if you have been sticking to your promise to
• 51:52
  Speaker 3: eat better for example reward yourself with new fitness clothing
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: or by giving excuse me or by going to a
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: movie with a friend so yeah Don't reward yourself with cake.
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like if you're trying to quit coke, don't
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: reward yourself with some crack. Girl, I just feel like
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: you're going to sniff coke in 20 minutes. Don't say that.
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: Don't you speak that over me, Ricky Bobby.
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: I just feel like that's what we're heading at because, bitch,
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: you done mentioned coke.
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: Twice on this damn show. Well, I can't think of
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  Speaker 2: nothing else. What's up? That's all on your mind? I
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: don't know why. Coke, Coke, Coke, Coke, Coke, Coke. Remember
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: that on Instagram? It's like dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick. Bitch,
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: you got Coke, Coke, Coke, Coke, Coke, Coke, Coke on
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: your brain. I don't know why.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: I've never tried it. I don't have any desire to
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: try it anymore. So people have ruined that.
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: I distinctively remember y'all bitches just a few months ago
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: talking about if the world coming to an end like
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: zombie apocalypse or something, y'all would be sniffing Coke.
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, why not? Just like fucking. No, bitch, I'm trying
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: to live. I can't like run around high and laughing.
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: I'm trying everything. I ain't never tried. Everything. Shame. Might
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: as well. All right. Number eight says, don't beat yourself up. Okay, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: Obsessing over the occasional slip won't help you achieve your goal.
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: Do the best you can each day and take it
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: one day at a time. That is starting to sound
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: like AA.
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: For coke.
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: Shut up all right y'all we almost finished number nine
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: says stick to it experts say it takes about 21
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: days for a new activity to become a habit and
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: six months for it to become part of your personality
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: it won't happen overnight so be persistent and be patient
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: be patient with yourself be easy on yourself with these resolutions.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah just give yourself some grace man be kind to
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: yourself Especially if you have a diet goal or exercise goal.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: All right, here's this, ladies. You're probably going to fuck
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: up every now and then. But don't beat yourself up
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: about it. Just get back to it. You know, jump
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: back on the wagon.
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: And that's what number 10 says. It says, keep trying.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: If you have totally run out of steam when it
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: comes to keeping your resolution by mid-February, don't despair.
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: Start over again.
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: Recommit yourself for 24 hours. You can do anything for
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: 24 hours. The 24-hour increments will soon build on each other,
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: and before you know it, you will be back on track.
• 54:30
  Speaker 2: Keep trying. Keep going, bitch.
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: Keep walking up them steps with your bag on your shoulder.
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: Or instead of taking the elevator, walk up the steps.
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: Instead of looking for a parking spot in the front
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: of the fucking.
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 54:47
  Speaker 3: Go park in the very back when employees park and walk.
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Walk your fat ass. I do that. To get
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: them snacks. To get your Starbucks sugar cookie latte. That's
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: what I'm going to do. With 600 calories in the cup. Yo.
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: I mean, look.
• 55:12
  Speaker 3: If you're going to go get the snack, just park
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: in the back of the parking lot. Shit, I'll cut
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: some of the calories out. Or I like to eat
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: my calories. I'm not drinking on nothing with 600 calories.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: I know, but that should be so good, though. Don't
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: even feel like 600 calories. Don't feel like that.
• 55:37
  Speaker 2: Stupid. Oh, goodness.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: Starbucks is going to get me talking about their drinks.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: I don't know if they're 600 calories, but I'm sure
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: it's close to that.
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: Boy, there's no real easy way to say this, but look,
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: you're sick.
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: So I got an email from someone saying that they
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: need some advice. And it says that this is from
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: a male. And he says he's 39 with no kids, single, untouched,
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: and is willing and ready to cut up lustfulness.
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: One time. But he's so old and old-fashioned and he's lost.
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: What can I do?
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: I don't even have me time. So what, he trying
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: to get some pussy for the first time or something?
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: What are you asking me, nigga?
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: I was just about to say, is he asking you?
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: Is he propositioning you? To get some pussy for the
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: first time? Untouched, that sound like a virgin, right?
• 56:37
  Speaker 3: He want you to pop his cherry oh lord have
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: mercy no lemon blueberry cherry.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: Um plenty of fish get on plenty of fish.
• 56:49
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah that's where the hook up at if you
• 56:51
  Speaker 3: looking for the hose and.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: I think you'll find that women will like that you're
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: untouched the type of women that go on plenty of
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: fish is gonna like that you are some untouched fish
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: they'll definitely touch you up.
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: Real nice.
• 57:04
  Speaker 3: Cause them motherfuckers on plenty of fishes in heavy rotation.
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: It's the same people, child.
• 57:14
  Speaker 2: Okay. Well, I hope you are. I don't know what
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: the fuck. Give him some advice.
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: So your advice for him is just to get, Oh,
• 57:22
  Speaker 3: cause he doesn't have time.
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: Right? So a lot of people who have careers.
• 57:25
  Speaker 3: And stuff like that, who don't have a lot of
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: time to be social, like in public, They do be
• 57:30
  Speaker 3: on the dating websites.
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: It's real popular nowadays. Right, that's what I'm saying.
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: He might need to get that Tinder $ 4.
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: 99.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: Right, but he's saying that he wants lustfulness.
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: He's not saying, I want a wife. I want a relationship. Yeah,
• 57:44
  Speaker 2: he's trying to fuck. Yeah, he just wants sex. So
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: that's why I said Plenty Fish is where to go
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: for it.
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: This almost sounds like how women like to lie and
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: say they're a virgin. Or lie and say they ain't
• 57:54
  Speaker 3: have sex in a long time to make a nigga like, no.
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: I don't want no dick that ain't had no pussy
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: no longer. Or ever. Right. But some people might be
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: into that. No, man. Untouched, untainted. He might need to
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: go on Christian Mingle. Oh, yeah. That's a nice place
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: to go.
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: Go to Christian Mingle and meet you a nice young
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: lady who's, you know, also untouched.
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: You know? And y'all can touch each other.
• 58:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: That's the advice I'd give him. God bless you, brother.
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: Praise the Lord. All right, y'all. Hit it, AJ. Hold on. Wait,
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: you don't got no last words for 2024 for them? Girl,
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: it's coming to an end. This is it.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: My last words for 2024. Oh, well, I'll just say
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: once again that I love y'all and I appreciate y'all
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: for tuning in. Tell y'all friends and cousins and aunties
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: and uncles about our show because we trying to get
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: more money like Taraji. So we need y'all help. So
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: we need y'all support. Y'all are like friends and family
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: to us. It's like having a conversation with our sisters
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: that ain't here.
• 59:08
  Speaker 2: So thank you for that.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: Do your best to keep your resolutions for 2024 we
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: want to see all y'all do great things we watching
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: and that's all I got bitch I don't know what
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: you got.
• 59:24
  Speaker 3: Let me see I want everybody to reflect on their
• 59:30
  Speaker 3: achievements this year, any growth they've had. Don't be so
• 59:34
  Speaker 3: hard on yourself because we are all on a fucking
• 59:37
  Speaker 3: rollercoaster called life trying to drop our motherfucking ice cream.
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: So cheers to the new year, new opportunities and experiences.
• 59:47
  Speaker 3: But 2024, I wish everybody the best of luck. I
• 59:53
  Speaker 3: don't think this year is going to be any easier
• 59:55
  Speaker 3: than 2023.
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: Yes, it is.
• 59:57
  Speaker 2: We're going to speak easiness over it. But, I mean,
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: it's all relative, right? Do your best. That's all you
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 2: can do. Do your best. And call us.
• 1:00:12
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• 1:00:16
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• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: Not 24 hours a day, but we are here. If
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: you got some shit on your mind that you can't
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 3: talk to your homegirls about, head up.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: Well, you can book it anytime during the day. We
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: just ain't going to respond.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: If it's in the wrong time, if it's late, you
• 1:00:31
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• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: Not us. Because we ain't going to get to you
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: until the next day, baby. You so damn stupid. All right, y'all. Man,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: for real. Happy New Year. Okay.
• 1:00:49
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• 1:00:51
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• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: Thank you. All right, y'all.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: This is your co-host AJ Holiday 2.0 on Instagram.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: Kick it, Tam. I love y'all. I love y'all. I
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: love y'all. Remember to speak now or hold your resolution. No? Never. Never. Never, bitch.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 2: We doing all the things in 2024. Let's be clear.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: All right, y'all. We love you. Bye.