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Case Of The Ex · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: All right, time for second date update. We're going to Newington.
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  Speaker 1: Ambers on the line. Good morning, Amber, Good morning, Hey,
• 0:06
  Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Obviously, second date update. You've been
• 0:08
  Speaker 1: on a great first date and you're getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I one of my nightmares.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I hope we can get you some answers, because
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  Speaker 1: it is tough when you go on a first date.
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  Speaker 1: You put yourself out there, you're on the date, and
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  Speaker 1: then you get ghosted. I hate that feeling. It's happened
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  Speaker 1: to me too. You went out with a guy named Brady.
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  Speaker 1: Tell us about this great first date.
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  Speaker 2: It was amazing. We went out to a Mexican restaurant
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  Speaker 2: and that's my favorite truth, my favorite cuisine, and we
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  Speaker 2: taught margarita. We laughed, and we had an incredible conversation.
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  Speaker 2: Amazing first impressions I felt, and I really felt like
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  Speaker 2: chemistry too.
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  Speaker 1: So you have a great time. You're on the date,
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  Speaker 1: you're having Margarita's. At any point were you too drunk
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  Speaker 1: on Margarita's? Did you have too many margarita's?
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  Speaker 3: Did he look?
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  Speaker 2: I don't think I had a lot, Like I had
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  Speaker 2: just enough?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, and in order like the table side guawk,
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  Speaker 4: did you because sometimes with I mean, there we go,
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  Speaker 4: there we go. It's a little expensive, the old table side.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, let's let's let's put it this way,
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  Speaker 2: that the guawk is the same whether they bring it
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  Speaker 2: from out back or make it at your table.
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  Speaker 4: It's so expensive though, I know if you get the
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  Speaker 4: chips and salsa.
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  Speaker 3: Anyway, were you ripping tequila shots? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Like why not?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, but then let's just jump in and
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  Speaker 3: call them.
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  Speaker 1: Because you were ripping shots, you order the table side guawk.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe that's the reason. And if it is, it is right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, somebody takes me to Mexican and they want
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  Speaker 1: to do a shot at tequila, I'm all in.
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  Speaker 3: I mean it sounds like a great day.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, So I'm gonna put you on hold.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna call it Brady. You're gonna be listening in
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  Speaker 1: and we're just gonna ask them to be honest at
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  Speaker 1: any point of if you want to jump in on
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  Speaker 1: the conversation, you can, Okay, sure, Well.
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  Speaker 3: Hi is Brady there? Hey Brady, it's Courtney Brady. It's Walmart. Hey,
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  Speaker 3: it's Savannah.
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  Speaker 1: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. I have
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  Speaker 1: to tell you're on the radio this morning.
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  Speaker 5: Oh okay, hello, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: Hey Hody.
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  Speaker 1: So you're on something called second date update. That's when
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  Speaker 1: somebody goes on a first date. They have a great time,
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  Speaker 1: but they get ghosted and they want answers. We try
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  Speaker 1: to get some answers, and that's why we're calling you
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  Speaker 1: this morning.
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  Speaker 4: Oh all right, okay, So.
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  Speaker 1: Amber called us said, you guys went out for Mexican.
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  Speaker 1: It was fabulous. The food was great, the drinks were great,
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  Speaker 1: good chemistry. She thought you guys had a connection. She
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  Speaker 1: did say that she was doing shot at tequila with you.
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  Speaker 1: She says she wasn't drunk, but for some reason she
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  Speaker 1: doesn't understand why you're a ghostinger, like, how was the
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  Speaker 1: date for you?
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  Speaker 3: Was she drunk? What happened?
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  Speaker 5: No? No, no, I wasn't strong. The food was great,
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  Speaker 5: it was I thought that we connected. It was a
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  Speaker 5: good date. So then I'll tell you what. She started
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  Speaker 5: texting your eggs. She first of all just kept talking
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  Speaker 5: about how toxic this past relationship was and her ex
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  Speaker 5: was so toxic. And I'm like, okay, sure I could
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  Speaker 5: see that. Everybody has a pass yep and she starts
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  Speaker 5: she gets a text from them, and then they just
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  Speaker 5: start going back and forth right then and there in
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  Speaker 5: front of me. I don't need that. I can't. I can't.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want toxic women in my life. That doesn't
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  Speaker 5: look good in my opinion. And that's a red flag.
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  Speaker 5: That's toxic, all.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So, brit So it's nothing to do with the
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  Speaker 1: shots of the drinking. Basically, she said she was her
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  Speaker 1: past relationship was toxic, and then she continued to engage
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  Speaker 1: with this toxic man during your date.
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  Speaker 4: Exactly, Yeah, Brady, And like you said, that's a big
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  Speaker 4: red flag. If the person that usually calls the other
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  Speaker 4: person toxic, they're always toxic.
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  Speaker 3: Well, no they are. Can we just I want to
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  Speaker 3: bring Amber and Amber.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, maybe it's Amber. I don't think I'm toxic. I
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  Speaker 2: think I was trying to defend my side when my
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  Speaker 2: ex was trying to talk to me, and I just
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  Speaker 2: needed to get it out of my head because it
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  Speaker 2: just couldn't I couldn't get over what he was saying
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  Speaker 2: to me.
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  Speaker 1: So you couldn't wait till after the date, Like.
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  Speaker 2: It was just so heated that I only thought of
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  Speaker 2: myself in that moment and I just had to like,
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  Speaker 2: like I had to get my word in. But yeah,
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  Speaker 2: he's just that toxic, you know, like he's just so
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  Speaker 2: he aggravates me so easily. So I just I just
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  Speaker 2: didn't even think I had to get it done in
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  Speaker 2: that home.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, but Amber, if he's that toxic, just block him, like,
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  Speaker 1: if you really want to move on.
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  Speaker 3: Like, just block him.
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  Speaker 5: I have.
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  Speaker 4: I have blocked him, well parently, not because you're getting
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  Speaker 4: texts from.
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  Speaker 2: Him, so like, you know what, like and I did, I.
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  Speaker 3: Just hold on Amber? He hung up.
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  Speaker 1: Well, listen, this is the first time. This is the
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  Speaker 1: most time a date has hung up on us.
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  Speaker 3: Amber Brady has hung up. Oh my god, Well listen.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think just that you're necessarily have moved on
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  Speaker 1: from your toxic relationship. I feel like if you had,
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  Speaker 1: you would have ignored those text messages. If you're on
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  Speaker 1: such a great date.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like I have. I feel like I have
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  Speaker 2: moved on.
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  Speaker 4: There are some women out there that love it, that
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  Speaker 4: live for the drama, and it sounds like you're one
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  Speaker 4: of those girls.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, I feel like I've moved on. I
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  Speaker 2: really like this guy, Brady, and I think he just
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  Speaker 2: hung up on me.
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  Speaker 3: That's okay.
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  Speaker 1: He hung up, and I don't think usually at the
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  Speaker 1: end I offer a second date. I'm not going to
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  Speaker 1: the fact that he hung up. We're just gonna leave
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  Speaker 1: it there. Yeah, he's not interested. And then I would
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  Speaker 1: just suggest, this is just a suggestion, if you're on
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  Speaker 1: another date, I wouldn't text anybody or answer any cause
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  Speaker 1: unless it was an emergency, just out of you know,
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  Speaker 1: be nice. Also, you might really want to like block
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  Speaker 1: him and keep him block if you're serious about, you know,
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  Speaker 1: moving on.
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  Speaker 2: I mean to me, that's not like an emergency, like
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  Speaker 2: I just like, he just keeps triggering me. Block.
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  Speaker 1: I will say, Amber, one of these days, you won't
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  Speaker 1: be triggered and that will happen with time. Steer clear
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  Speaker 1: of your X and everything's going to work out just fine.
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  Speaker 1: But thank you so much for being on a second
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  Speaker 1: date update.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks for having me