Love Don't Cost A Thing

The General's Briefing · Oct 29, 2026 · 19m

This week, I went under contract on my first home. And I was $1,000 short on my earnest money.

I reached out to the men in my life, the ones who want access to my body, my time, my love, who have told me they want to marry me, and heard silence.

And I thought about Karrine Steffans. A woman who was in rooms with some of the most powerful men in hip-hop history. Who gave those men access to everything she had. And when she needed saving, she had to save herself.

This episode asks the question Black women have been asking for centuries and have never been given an honest answer to: Who saves…