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Sexual Assault Awareness Needs Real Action, Not Just Promises | Episode 484 · Voices for Voices®

• 0:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Hi everyone, it's Justin here, Voices for Voices.
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• 1:01
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• 1:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And thank you so much for all you do for Voices for Voices.
• 1:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh we uh had a uh as every day and every month is is turned out for us in a good good way.
• 1:37
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Busy days, and uh what I wanted to do for at least part of part of the show is so I just came to the realization that there are a lot of holidays or days of remembrance or awareness days each and every month.
• 2:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And uh we we don't and haven't covered those as much as I guess we we could.
• 2:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh one of the big reasons is because we feel that every day should be one of those days that we it's great to have a day set aside for a particular uh topic, uh a particular thing, uh people.
• 2:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh that's that's all it's all well and good, but we feel that every day should be like that, that we shouldn't just uh you know one day out of the year remember and and bring up uh a particular holiday or a day of remembrance.
• 3:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So uh while we usually don't do this, uh I I in the month of April, uh I wanted to cover three.
• 3:13
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, and two of them have already uh well at least yeah, at least at least two of them have already uh have passed by since we're you know turning uh towards the second half of the month of April.
• 3:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh April 1st is April Fool's Day.
• 3:38
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh I I I'm not big in into that.
• 3:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um people are.
• 3:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh you know, we have to live in an uh an era in the world where there's a tends to be almost like a fine line or a gray area between some kind of pranks that are just that.
• 4:14
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They're they're pranks, they're not intended to harm, hurt at all anybody.
• 4:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then we get into some things that could be could be doing that.
• 4:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, and and I guess that's probably one of the reasons I never got real real big in into that.
• 4:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But if you you have, uh maybe you can comment below, let us know uh what one uh of your uh your your most favorite pranks that you have uh done over the the years, or if somebody has pranked you.
• 4:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So that was April 1st.
• 4:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: April 7th, World Health Day.
• 5:00
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so what this is, or what this was because it was on April 7th, and we've already passed that, is a global health awareness day.
• 5:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Again, we think that each and every day we should feel that way.
• 5:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The health and awareness, it shouldn't be just one day that we recognize like, oh wow, like we should we should work on being more healthy.
• 5:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh we we we could probably do that, or we should do that all year long.
• 5:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, I'm not the best of keeping up with that, however, I don't think that having one day of saying, okay, this is World Health Day.
• 5:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I think every day should be World Health Day.
• 6:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We want everyone, friends, foes, uh we want everybody to be happy, healthy, prosperous, in the best way that they uh they can be and that they want to be.
• 6:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And obviously we're we're talking about things that are that are legal, not illegal.
• 6:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So if somebody is prosperous for doing something that is illegal, so not legal, we we do not we do not condone that activity.
• 6:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh April 10th was National Siblings Day.
• 6:53
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Again, we we shouldn't have to just focus on this one uh one day out of the year.
• 7:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh I do have one one sibling.
• 7:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I have a sister, she's older, uh, four years, I think four years school-wise, and then like three years age-wise.
• 7:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So uh again, we I I I would think that we should not just wait for one one specific one specific day.
• 7:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's Earth Day, so a day dedicated to environmental protection.
• 7:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And all these are being brought to you by DuckDuckGo.
• 7:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's the resource I'm using.
• 7:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And we should try to be as cognizant of our environment as we as we can be.
• 8:00
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh we we celebrated, which was actually uh earlier uh Easter Sunday, and so that Easter Sunday, where it's been turned into another commercial holiday of Easter egg hunts and the bunny, and and I'm not trying to burst anybody's bubble.
• 8:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I have a uh my wife and I, we have a child, and we we don't want to burst her bubble on on any of that, but the real reason why it is Easter, uh Easter Day, it is marking the resurrection of Jesus Christ.
• 8:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So that's again, we should celebrate the fact that at least for me, I'm a believer that Jesus Christ He died for all of our sins to be forgiven.
• 9:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And like Hallmark and uh lot of a lot of companies, right?
• 9:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, you know candy and eggs and I mean I I I think families getting together.
• 9:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I think that's the big takeaway from Easter, that if we're able to get together with family, that's that's that's the big takeaway, I think.
• 9:53
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh I also think that it's a it's a holiday that has been commercialized.
• 10:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: How much m I don't I don't know how much money I'm sure there's I'm sure there's a figure somewhere that tells us annually how much money is spent on Easter.
• 10:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I would bet a high percentage of it, like ninety plus percent, is on eggs and gifts and uh Easter egg hunts and all those types of things, as opposed to again, if we're gonna celebrate Easter and we're gonna do the Easter egg hunts and all those, we have to really stop and say, What does this day really actually even mean?
• 11:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like, why are we doing an Easter egg hunt on this particular day?
• 11:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Or for this particular for this particular holiday, when the true reason why we celebrate is marking the resurrection of Jesus Christ.
• 11:29
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I think that's a key key one for us believers uh to make sure we keep that top of mind all the time, but especially around the Easter holiday.
• 11:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I I guess, you know, you can do the Easter egg hunts and and that.
• 11:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh I I I just think there's uh I just think there's just uh too heavy of a you know, go spend money on this.
• 12:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, we could come up for it with a holiday, and then people will be like, oh, we need to spend money on this holiday.
• 12:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I just have a hard time with with words for this because a lot of these holidays, again, we should be celebrating all year round.
• 12:42
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And of those that are holidays or days of remembrance, we should really get back to the core of why we celebrate Easter.
• 12:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Don't you think?
• 13:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I think so.
• 13:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then the one that we're we'll we'll close out with is National Sex Assault Awareness and Prevention Month.
• 13:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And that is to aim at raising awareness about sexual assault.
• 13:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh we've had, oh boy, we've had quite a few guests on.
• 13:34
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh we've had Ryan Schmelz on, we've had Kathy Picard on uh David Solomon.
• 13:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I know there's there's many more that we've had on that unfortunately have been a victim of sexual assault.
• 14:00
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And like the other days of remembrance and holidays, we should we should have that top of mind every single day.
• 14:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That sexual assault is not not okay, no matter what day of the month, what day of the year, what country we're in, where we're where we're at in the world, sexual assault just should not should not exist is really the key takeaway.
• 14:38
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I'd like to see our courts take a more proactive approach with survivors of any type of assault, really.
• 14:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But when we're talking about sexual assault, talk about mental health, people talk about trauma, people.
• 15:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The rest of their lives.
• 15:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Yes, maybe they're able to work through some parts with therapy and and other and other help.
• 15:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But we need more organizations that actually help.
• 15:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Unfortunately, there's a lot of organizations that talk about helping, give us a call, we'll help.
• 15:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh they're getting grant money left and right.
• 15:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Everybody on the board's being paid, and uh and that that's that's all well and good.
• 16:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Except if you if your if your way of helping somebody is to get give them a phone number, is only to give a phone number, not to give, you know, a name, a phone number, an email address, uh connecting, right?
• 16:29
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A three-way call, helping 24 hours a day, seven days a week, all year long.
• 16:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's the part that I'd say in the last year and a half or so for sure, um that I've been disappointed in.
• 16:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And it's not just the sexual assault organizations.
• 17:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Yeah, they'll they'll they'll have, you know, maybe a a speaker and that, and they'll pay them a couple thousand dollars, maybe ten, I don't know.
• 17:14
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then they'll say, yeah, like be part of our organization.
• 17:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But at the end of the day, are they getting the people help?
• 17:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Are are they are they getting a RAPE kit tested?
• 17:37
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Are they being uh taken for medical care and not have to pay for it?
• 17:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Cause just think a person's been sexually assaulted or any type of assault, and then they're not given the right tools and resources, and oh yeah, we can fit you in in six months.
• 18:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, guess what?
• 18:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That doesn't work.
• 18:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I tried it when I hit my lowest.
• 18:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: By the time I figured out that I needed some help, I was told it wasn't a life and death problem.
• 18:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I was told that since I didn't have a referral, that it was gonna be something like six months, and I'm trying to survive, I'm trying to, you know, have my life for better terms, you know, get my get my ducks in a row, you know, get get get my head right, get get the help I need, and I get a response once I finally get to somebody after I've explained my story like 50 million times, that's a that's an exaggeration 50 million times.
• 19:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Any of you out there know when you go to get help, everybody wants to hear the story.
• 19:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But the help, it's lacking.
• 19:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's why we have voices for voices.
• 19:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Is a podcast and that.
• 19:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, I got news for you, or there's gonna be news for you uh coming up at some point in the future, potentially.
• 19:50
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then we'll start talking about clean content.
• 20:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't want my child watching or reading books that are not appropriate for them.
• 20:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Yet they're they're still there.
• 20:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, I don't like regulations like the next person.
• 20:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But when we're talking about people, we're talking about little people that are growing and they're being molded each and every day.
• 20:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And when they're exposed to watching or reading books, shows, these YouTube channels that all they do are these challenges, or let me find, let's let's make a secret room.
• 21:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And here I'm gonna throw all these colored balls into my multi-million dollar pool, and you have 30 seconds, and you got to get as many balls out, and then and then the person that has the most balls with their color, or you know, the color they picked, they win a brand new iPhone or something.
• 21:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I'm like, this is on a six and seven-year-old computer from school that's given to them.
• 21:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I've talked about this, I know I talked about this hard the one time one episode.
• 21:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm gonna talk about it again because I'm fired up about it.
• 21:55
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Because I see I see this first hand, just about it.
• 21:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Every single day, just about every single day.
• 22:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And it just it gets me.
• 22:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So we have people that are in information technology, you know, oh well, we'll fix this and that on computers.
• 22:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And okay.
• 22:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, guess what?
• 22:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You want your six-year-old, your seven-year-old exposed to some uh some of these uh and again, some of these challenges, it's not so much that that content is bad, it's that that's how they're supposedly learning.
• 22:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's that's not how I think we we learn.
• 22:50
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We learn through the curriculum.
• 22:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We don't learn, and yeah, we do have a YouTube channel.
• 22:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, we're a nonprofit with over 480 episodes, we're not four, six, seven, and eight nine-year-old.
• 23:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If they stumble onto one of our shows, that this is not for them.
• 23:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Not only are our kids getting these computers, laptops, and able to just what it seems freely go to YouTube and these other chan these other areas and watch these these shows.
• 23:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I'm thinking it from a practical standpoint, right?
• 23:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: On average, the average person's trying to survive, trying to survive life.
• 23:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so when these different shows are there, which oh, by the way, um they're the the people in the shows are being paid by the companies.
• 24:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So they'll they'll be doing some kind of challenge, and then somewhere in the middle of there, there'll be a product placement where we would think of if we watch, you know, old school Seinfeld, Friends, others where there would be particular product placement.
• 24:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Heck, Fuller House, Fiji Water, that's one of them that they have people kissing literally every 15, 20, 30 seconds, and now we have seven, six, seven, eight-year-olds that are thinking that's okay.
• 25:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And okay.
• 25:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You might say, well, it's not for you to get involved with other people's lives.
• 25:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: No, I just don't think that our seven-year-olds should be kissing each other on the lips.
• 25:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Do you cool with that?
• 25:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm not.
• 25:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's not like Alan and uh Alan and Phil at the Caesars Palace saying, hey, if we're bunking, I'll bunk with Phil.
• 25:34
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Is that alright with you, Phil?
• 25:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Phil's like, no, that's not alright, Alan.
• 25:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so, no, you the regular YouTube should not be available to a six-year-old.
• 25:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Not to mention the commercials are for people that are older.
• 25:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: My daughter, who is seven, is not gonna purchase a Ram truck.
• 25:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Get the fuck out of here.
• 26:00
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So now I gotta put that it's explicit, because I use explicit language, okay.
• 26:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's fine with me.
• 26:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Because that's how fired up I am about this.
• 26:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I think if more parents gave a shit and were around, instead of going, okay, we got ten minutes left, or twenty minutes left, or five minutes, and people, these minds of these little people, it's like clay.
• 26:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They're being molded.
• 26:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We know that the brain forms from the back to the front, and the frontal and prefrontal cortex.
• 26:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's about reasoning.
• 27:00
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like, is this right?
• 27:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Is this wrong?
• 27:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Is this okay?
• 27:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so I'm guessing for me, it took a little extra time for my for my brain to develop, or I was setting it back days or months with things I was doing.
• 27:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I'm coming from a place of been there, done that kind of deal.
• 27:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Yeah, we didn't have YouTube, but we still had the alcohol, the drugs, uh the all all those those things.
• 27:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so we're starting seven-year-olds out with people making out every 15 seconds, showing them the yeah, you're you know, when we go to the store, we can buy all 20 of these princess dresses and then try them on at home, and then do all the, you know, what whatever, have have some some type of event, or it's not it's not realistic, people.
• 28:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The average person is not able to buy 20.
• 28:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So you know damn well that the company that is selling those 20 dresses is paying for product placement, and that's that's okay.
• 28:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But when I have a child that every time we go to the store expects to get something because of what they see and what they're exposed to, it's like, oh well, this person, Salish, she got this, and I'll just close on one of the episodes that I find is uh uh that that hit hits home.
• 29:17
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So her daughter was on her on her computer, watching YouTube, watching the Sailor show with her dad, which I don't know if it's really her dad, which is the other thing, is they bring people from other families, they put them together, and then they record the show based off of like that's my mom, that's my dad, my brothers and sisters.
• 29:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I don't know, I don't know if this Jordan Matter character is um say the Salish's real dad or not.
• 29:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't I don't know.
• 29:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um so my uh my daughter's watching her you know YouTube watching this show, and the gist of the show was they were gonna be going on a flight.
• 30:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They were gonna be flying in an airplane from an airport, like a lot of us, I don't say a lot of us, but you know, if we've been able to fly, uh you know, you're at an airport, and you also know that there's heightened security at an airport, and you get always hear over the loudspeaker that you know if you don't leave a bag unattended.
• 30:50
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If you if you see one that's unattended, tell somebody.
• 30:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and then you gotta go through all the you know the TSA checkpoints and uh anyways, Salus, which is this girl on the high school, I guess, and the dad, which is also why it's kind of the creep, kind of creepy that they're doing the show together.
• 31:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I I don't know.
• 31:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And actually, I do know.
• 31:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I I I think it's pretty creepy.
• 31:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So you got that, you got that, okay.
• 31:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They're at the airport, and Jordan Matters has prosthetics, like a fake face and nose, and and sailors are trying to, I don't know, I guess find like recognize them.
• 31:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So like they're dropped off maybe at two different spots, and then they have to find find each other.
• 31:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So Salish is going around looking and blah blah blah, and Salish leaves a bag and asked somebody to watch it.
• 32:14
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Right at a fuck we're at a fucking airport, people.
• 32:17
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're at an airport.
• 32:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They weren't through security, but they're still at an airport.
• 32:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What did I just say?
• 32:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If you don't leave your bag unattended and and and uh in that and so she asks a random stranger, wash my bag.
• 32:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm just doing this prank with my dad.
• 32:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then I don't know what ended up happening, except for the dad, goes into the bathroom and starts ripping off the face.
• 32:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's fake.
• 33:00
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And there's security, and they don't arrest them, they don't pull them aside.
• 33:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: He just says, Oh, we're doing this thing on YouTube, and uh, you know, I had I was using prosthetics, and and so that's what I'm that's what I'm doing here.
• 33:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm taking those off.
• 33:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so now we're gonna have probably a bunch of people that think it's okay to do these pranks and do these shows at airports, which we wanna have we want every place to be safe.
• 33:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But they're doing these shows.
• 33:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So what are they teaching our six, seven, eight, nine-year-olds?
• 33:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That it's okay to do that.
• 34:00
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What happens when your child or somebody else's child and parent when they do get arrested, and they try to say, Well, I saw this show on YouTube and they did this, and you see what we're talking about, people?
• 34:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So mental health is definitely in play.
• 34:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Because say, let's she's still grown, her her brain isn't totally developed either, and so all the things and all these uh challenges and whatever you call them, they're it I I just don't understand them.
• 34:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I don't think that I don't think they should be on computers, laptops, whatever you want to call them, for six-year-olds.
• 34:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I I think those should not be available, okay?
• 34:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There, I said it.
• 35:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's for public safety.
• 35:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's why.
• 35:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Not just for my child, but for your child and all the children out there whose brains are being molded day by day by what they see and what they hear.
• 35:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And we need to take the commercials off.
• 35:29
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, of course, Google or whoever makes these deals with the schools for these computers.
• 35:42
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Of course, they're like, well, yeah, as long as we can have commercials on here.
• 35:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And the schools are like, yeah, yeah, that's fine, that's fine.
• 35:53
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Because if it wasn't fine, it wouldn't be on there.
• 35:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So people are like probably laughing at me and be like, oh, Justin's full of it.
• 36:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Okay.
• 36:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You don't think that comes up came up in a negotiation at some point?
• 36:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Are there any advertisements?
• 36:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then they go, oh yeah, well, my children watch, and and so it's okay for you know the 2,000 students in my school district that we're gonna all they're all gonna have their own.
• 36:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Yeah, there's there's programs learned to learn on there.
• 36:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I think that's all that should be on there.
• 36:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I think that's all that should be on there.
• 36:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Just like I teach college students, and there's certain quizzes and exams where when they start, they have to go through a certain, they have to double-click on a certain program, through that program is where the the quiz or exam is, and then what happens is everything else freezes in the background, so they can go try to click, you know, Google or uh DuckDuckGo, Chrome, Firefox, as when they're going through their quiz and exam, and it won't work.
• 37:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It freezes everything.
• 37:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So you can't tell me you can't do that for six-year-olds.
• 37:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Where, okay, we got these programs on here, why don't we just freeze them?
• 37:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If we can't get them, take them all the way off, just freeze them so they can't be used.
• 38:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And the only things that can be used are the actual learning programs.
• 38:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So we got a little bit got me a little fired up here today on this show.
• 38:26
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Been a pleasure.
• 39:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm Justin Alan Hayes.
• 40:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Have a great day, and we'll see you on the next episode of the show.
• 40:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Bye for now, everybody.
• 40:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: See you next time.