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THE POWER OF DESTINY · Apostle Joshua Selman

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  Speaker 1: Welcome our Father, God's prophet appost to Joshua Selman. Come on,
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  give it a Jesus hallelu yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Praise the Lord.
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  Speaker 3: I want to salute you again for the endurance and
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  the discipline to come with God.
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  Speaker 2: You will never be the same. This is for sure.
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  Speaker 3: This is the kind of time and energy that our
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  destinies require. And when we spend that time giving us
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  all to Jesus, I can assure you. The Bible says
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  he that sow to the flesh, will of the flesh
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  rip corruption. But he that's also the spirit, well of
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  the spirit, reap life eternal. You are so into the
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  spirit now for some of you. You are not the
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  only ones who will repeat. Your children and your children's
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  children will read from this conference. In the name of Jesus,
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  I like you to please join me. Honor every man
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  and woman of god Father's and let me also honor
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  our father and the Lord, the general of us here
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  made the Lord bless you and honor you, sir, in
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  the name of Jesus Christ.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to teach this.
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  Speaker 3: Morning or afternoon session who was in my heart to
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  teach us on.
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  Speaker 2: The power of mentorship.
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  Speaker 3: But while I was listening and picking parts of the
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  teachings that I understan. They were teachings along the lines
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  of relationships, and I decided to teach.
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  Speaker 2: Allelujah.
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  Speaker 3: I decided that since I was speaking those teachings, let
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  me teach us something about destiny relationships that will bless us.
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  Speaker 2: Allelujah. Praise the name of the Lord.
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  Speaker 3: I guarantee you, by the God of Heaven that if
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  you pay attention to what you're about to learn, you
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  will reap from this harvest for the rest of your life.
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  Speaker 2: In the name of Jesus.
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  Speaker 3: Father, open my eyes, open my ears, and give me
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  an encounter.
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead and pray.
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  Speaker 3: Open my eyes, open my ears, give me an encounter,
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  Give me an encounter.
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  Speaker 2: Allelujah. Father.
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  Speaker 3: We pray that your word will come to us again
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  with clarity and with precision. We're ready to move from
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  where we are even to the place of destiny. We
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  receive understanding. In Jesus name, I pray. Let me see
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  that God bless you.
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  Speaker 2: Show us the ancient path.
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  Speaker 4: Will you lead us along e turnal high?
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  Speaker 2: We want to fall the ways of Jesus.
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  Speaker 4: We want to enter your rest. Will you shows the shaper?
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  Will you lead us alone? It turn a highway. We
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  want to fall a the food steps of Jesus.
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  Speaker 2: We want to win your rest. Listen to me, please.
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  Speaker 3: The difference between any great destiny, destiny of beauty and
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  color and grace, and a destiny that ends up in
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  shame and frustration largely is the kind and the quality
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  of information that they receive. It takes more than a
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  sincere desire to rise and fulfill your destiny. You must
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  access light knowledge, high level spiritual illumination. It is lying
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  upon line, It is precept upon precept. The Bible says
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  here a little and there a little, and then you
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  are built and established in righteousness, asks Chapter twenty and
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  verse thirty two. It says, and now, brethren, I commend
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  you to God and to the word of his grace.
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  I commend you to God and to the world of
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  his grace, which is able. Please give us KJV is
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  able to build you up and to give you an inheritance.
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  Among them that are sanctified that the word of God
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  is his primary tool for building, and it is the
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  primary tool that hands you over Your inheritance in Christ.
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  Speaker 2: Means if you ignore the word.
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  Speaker 3: Of God and the wisdom that comes from the world
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  of God. There is no guarantee for a fulfilling and
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  an excelling life. Allelujah, the power of Destiny relationships. May
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  this teaching change your life in the name of Jesus Christ,
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  the Power of Destiny relationships. Three scriptures, and then I'll
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  begin to teach Proverbs chapter thirteen and verse twenty. I'm
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  going to be requiring us to read together. So please
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  write and then be attentive. Proverbs thirteen and verse twenty.
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  Are you ready to read? One to read? He that
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  worked with wise men shall be wise, but a companion
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  of fools shall be destroyed. One more time, he that
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  worked with wise men shall be wise, but a companion.
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  Speaker 2: Of fools shall be destroyed.
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  Speaker 3: Matthew, Chapter four, from verse seventeen to twenty two. Matthew
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  Chapter four. That's our second scripture. The Bible says, from
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  that time Jesus began to preach and to say repent,
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  for the Kingdom of Heaven.
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  Speaker 2: Is at hand verse eighteen.
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  Speaker 3: And Jesus, walking by the sea of Galilee, saw two brethren,
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  Simon called Peter and Andrew, his brother, casting a net
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  into the.
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  Speaker 2: Sea, for they were fishers. Read verse the next verse.
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  Speaker 3: Now that will be nineteen one to read, and he
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  said onto them, but it can be anything.
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  Speaker 2: Follow me and I will make you a champion.
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  Speaker 3: Follow me, and I will make you an exceptional student.
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  Follow me, and A will make you an exceptional parrot.
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  Follow me, and I will make you an exceptional leader.
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  So our making in life largely depends on our followership
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  and our associations. Acts Chapter four will begin our reading
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  from verse seven, and will end with their teen Acts.
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  Speaker 2: Chapter four.
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  Speaker 3: The Bible says this was after the healing of the
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  man at get Beautiful. The apostles were summoned and Peter
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  was being proved as to how he got the power
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  to heal that man who had sat at get Beautiful
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  for a long time.
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  Speaker 2: Verse seven.
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  Speaker 3: Now, and when they had set them in the midst
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  they asked, by what power or by what.
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  Speaker 2: Name have you done this?
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  Speaker 3: And Peter filled with the Holygo seven to them, Ye,
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  rulers of the people and elders of Israel, if we
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  this day be examined of the good deed, don't to
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  the important.
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  Speaker 2: Man by what means he was made whole.
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  Speaker 3: Ten be it known unto you all and to all
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  the people of Israel, that by the name of Jesus
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  Christ of Nazareth, whom he crucified, who God raised from
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  the dead even by him.
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  Speaker 2: Do this man stand before you all. Verse eleven.
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  Speaker 3: This is a stone which was set at naught by
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  you builders, which is become the.
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  Speaker 2: Head of the corner. Twelve.
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  Speaker 3: Neither is there salvation in any other the Bible says,
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  for there is none other name under Heaven given among
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  men by which we must be saved.
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  Speaker 2: Verse thirteen.
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  Speaker 3: Please I like you to read the whole of verse thirteen,
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  as you said, ready, one you read now. When they
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  saw the boldness of Peter and John and perceived that
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  they were unlined and ignorant.
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  Speaker 2: Men, they marveled, and.
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  Speaker 3: They took notes knowledge of them that they had been
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  with Jesus, that we once knew these men to be
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  ignorant men, to be unlarded. What changed about their destiny
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  that today they had become champions working miracles like this?
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  And they took note of the fact that the secret
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  to their greatness was their association. They changed association they had.
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  Speaker 2: Been with Jesus. Is someone learning already?
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  Speaker 3: In fact, let me give you one more scriptural reference,
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  and then would teach Genesis Chapter twelve.
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  Speaker 2: Will read the first four verse.
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  Speaker 3: Then will go to chapter thirteen Genesis, chapter.
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  Speaker 2: Twelve from verse one to four. Let's start from there.
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  Speaker 3: Then will connect it with chapter thirteen. Again I will read,
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  and then I'll ask you somewhere along the line to
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  join me. Now, the Lord had said onto Abraham, get
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  thee out of thy country, thy kindred, thy father's house,
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  onto a land.
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  Speaker 2: That I will show you.
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  Speaker 3: It says, and I will make up the a great nation.
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  Says I will bless them that bless you. And it says,
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  I will make your name great, and thou shalt be
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  a blessing. Verse three, I will bless them that bless you,
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  and curse him that curseth the And then it says,
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  in d shall all the families of the head be blessed.
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  Speaker 2: Verse four, it says.
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  Speaker 3: So Abraham departed as the Lord had spoken onto him.
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  Now who did God speak to? Who did God speak to?
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  God made a promise to Abraham that if you obey me,
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  this will happen. But the Bible records something very interesting.
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  Please keep that scripture there. It says, and Lot went
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  with him.
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  Speaker 2: God did not call Lot. God did not.
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  Speaker 3: Ask Lot to follow the instruction the promise, and the
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  blessing was to Abraham and his seed. But Lod said,
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  even though God did not speak to me, I will
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  find one that I know God is speaking to. And
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  follow Genesis thirteen, beginning from verse one to five.
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  Speaker 2: So follow the story.
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  Speaker 3: Now God calls Abraham, Lot went with him Genesis thirteen,
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  from verse one. And Abraham went out, or Abrahm went
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  out of Egypt, he and his wife and all that
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  he had, The Bible says.
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  Speaker 2: And Lot with him.
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  Speaker 3: You see there again Lot continued to follow. He valued
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  that relationship next verse. And Abraham, as a result of
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  his obedience, was very rich in cattle, in silver, and
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  in gold verse three. And he went on his journeys
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  from the south, even to Bethel, onto the place where
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  his tent had been at the beginning between.
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  Speaker 2: Bethel and Ai. Verse four.
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  Speaker 3: It says, onto the place of the altar, which he
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  had made there at the first and Abrahm called on
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  the name of the Lord.
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  Speaker 2: Next verse.
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  Speaker 3: Please read verse five if you are a Christian ready
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  want to read. And Lot, also, which went with Abraham,
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  had flowed and hurts and tends my goodness stopped there.
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  God called Abram and said, Abraham, obey me I'm about
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  to make you a blessing, and someone who was not
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  part of the promise followed Abraham. By the time we
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  get to chapter thirteen, the same thing the man of
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  promise had, the one who understood relationship also had it.
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  You would not even know the difference. Again, who God
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  called and who followed. Write this down, Liz, that Steny
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  fulfillment is impossible without relationships, associations, and connections.
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  Speaker 2: Please write this down. That Stendy fulfillment is impossible.
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  Speaker 3: Without relationships, without association, and without connections. That means it
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  is impossible to actualize destiny without relationships, without associations, and
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  without connections. For instance, it is your relationship with Jesus
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  today that has formed the basis of your being saved
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  and has giving you a guarantee towards an excelling life.
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  You needed a relationship with Jesus Christ. It is the
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  absence of relationship that takes men to hell. It is
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  the presence of relationships that take men to heaven. Relationships
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  are that powerful it can determine your eternal destiny.
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  Speaker 2: What are relationships? Please write this down.
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  Speaker 3: Relationships advantageous connections. In simple terms, relationships are advantageous connections
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  onder line the world. Advantageous relationships are advantageous connections. Relationships
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  are connections that are mutually beneficial to the parties involved.
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  Relationships are connections are you writing that are mutually beneficial
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  to the parties involved. They are advantageous connections. They are
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  connections that are mutually beneficial to the parties involved.
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  Speaker 2: This is very powerful.
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  Speaker 3: So when we talk about relationships, when we talk about associations,
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  they are advantageous connections that are mutually or should be
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  mutually beneficial to the parties that are involved. Please write
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  this down. The easiest way to succeed in life is
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  through relationships and destiny connections. The easiest way to succeed
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  in life is through relationships and destiny connections. An example
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  is what we read in Genesis twelve and thirteen that
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  Lot went with Abraham, and everything God gave Abraham, God.
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  Speaker 2: Also gave Lot.
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  Speaker 3: The easiest way to succeed in life is through relationships
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  and destiny connections.
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  Speaker 2: Please look up. There is no great.
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  Speaker 3: Man on it today, whether in the secular or in
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  the church, whether a believer or unbeliever, it is when
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  you are dealing with the subject of religion, I mean relationships.
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  Speaker 2: This is the.
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  Speaker 3: Subject where both science, sociology, psychology, and religion unanimously agree
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  that without relationships there is no progress. In fact, the
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  statement be fruitful means be relational, because without relationships there
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  is no fruitfulness. It takes a union and a relationship
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  between a husband and his wife for procreation to happen.
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  That is true for plans, that is true for animals,
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  that is.
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  Speaker 2: True for all living things.
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  Speaker 3: The easiest way to succeed in life is true relationships
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  and destiny connections. Remember what David said in the Bible
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  when he became king.
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  Speaker 2: He said, is there any.
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  Speaker 3: Man in the house of Saul that I may show
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  him kindness for Jonathan's sake? And they went down to
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  a place called Laudebah. They called a man called Siba
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  and sent him to Lordoba to go and fetch a
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  man who did not have the capacity. He was completely
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  crippled from beth and he did not even have the
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  capacity to do anything for himself. Called me fisboshd is
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  it in your Bible? And the Bible says that they
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  brought Mephiboshet. And the king said, you will sam with
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  me for the rest of your life, and told the
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  fifteen sons of Ziba that they will go and plot
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  the land for him.
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  Speaker 2: Relationships are powerful.
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  Speaker 3: In one night, your destiny can change because of relationships,
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  And in one night your destiny can be this Troy
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  because of relationships. Write this down, please, very important thought.
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  Relationships are also currencies. Relationships are also currencies. Just like
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  you have nyra, you have your dollar, you have your pound.
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  Relationships are also currencies. They can buy anything that money
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  can buy. Relationships are also currencies. They can buy anything
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  that money can buy. If money can buy you a house,
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  relationships can buy you that house. If money can buy
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  you a car, relationships can buy you that car. If
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  money can pay your school fees, relationships can pay the
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  school fees. Anything money can buy, relationships can those by.
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  Whenever I teach along these lines, I pray a prayer
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  for my people that I want to pray for you now,
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  that may you never be so poor that the only
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  thing you have in your life is money.
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  Speaker 2: Did you hear what I said?
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  Speaker 3: Did you understand the prayer that if the only thing
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  you have in your life.
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  Speaker 2: Is money, you are very poor.
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  Speaker 3: Because there are many currencies in life that we used
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  to purchase the things that pertain to destiny. There are
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  rams you get to where your money becomes like ashes.
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  Speaker 2: It can't buy anything in that realm.
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  Speaker 3: You will need to use and not that kind of currency,
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  and relationship is one of the currencies.
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  Speaker 2: Are you learning?
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  Speaker 3: Unfortunately, we live in a world where we think that
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  money naira and copple and dollars is everything. The centurion
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  was not a poor man. He had money, but money
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  could not heal his child. He needed a relationship and
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  not that kind of currency for that child to be saved.
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  Speaker 2: Are we together now?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, Nico Demos was not a poor man, but he
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  needed a relationship to give him enlightenment about the things
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  of the kingdom. Money is important, but in addition to money,
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  make sure you get others superior currencies, because you will
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  get to rems in life and destiny where everybody has
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  the money you have, so you will need to use
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  another kind of currency.
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  Speaker 2: Are you learning already?
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  Speaker 3: The easiest way to succeed in life, I said, is
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  through relationships and destiny connections that relationships are currencies. They
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  can buy anything money can buy. I will tell you
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  sincerely the reason why I am here standing right now is.
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  Speaker 2: Because of relationships.
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  Speaker 3: That is the reason why you are able to hear
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  and receive what God has in store for you. The
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  reason why you will be great in life is because
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  of relationships. If you ignore relationships and ignore connections, you
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  have ignored success in its entirety. Everyone knows that the
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  best time to have strategic relationships is at the level
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  that you are. That you are now in life, because
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  you have the liberty to see people in about the
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  purest form they can ever be. I hope you know
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  that most of the people you will meet now, they
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  most likely don't have money yet, they most likely don't
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  have influence yet, so the corruption of the day that
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  can turn them into something evil is they've not been
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  battered by the evil in life, so you can easily.
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  Chances are excellent that if you wi at your relationships
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  in this level, they will truly be destiny relationships.
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  Speaker 2: Please write this down everyone.
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  Speaker 3: There are three levels of relationships, or you may call
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  them three kinds of relationships that everyone on earth would
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  require to.
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  Speaker 2: Succeed and to excel. There are.
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  Speaker 3: Three kinds and three levels of relationships. Number one, there
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  are general relationships. Please say aff time in general relationships
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  one more time, say general relationships. So the first kind
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  and the first level of relationships is called general relationships.
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  Speaker 2: For as long as you are alive, you will interact
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  with people in your environment.
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  Speaker 3: You go to the shop or a mall to buy something,
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  for the five minutes or ten minutes you are there,
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  you will interact with people. You could find someone buying
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  the same item, you could love, crack a joke or two,
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  and never see the person.
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  Speaker 2: In your life again.
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  Speaker 3: If you board an uber, or a bolt or a
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  boss within the time the distance of your journey, you
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  can have interactions with a person driving you, or maybe
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  the boss conductor, or maybe a flight you're traveling somewhere
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  within the fifteen minutes forty five minutes, even if it's
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  ten thirteen hours, no matter how long, within that time,
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  you can have a chance to talk with people.
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  Speaker 2: Generally.
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  Speaker 3: There there is no definite commitment to those relationships. It
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  is the lowest level of relationships, general relationships. What can
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  I tell you the truth, Every relationship, no matter how great,
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  starts from there. That means if you are ineffective in
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  managing your general relationships, it will not be able to
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  graduate to the others that I'll be showing you The
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  key to maintaining and managing general relationships is friendliness and honor.
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  Speaker 2: Write it down, please, The key to.
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  Speaker 3: Managing and maintaining general relationships is friendliness and honor.
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  Speaker 2: In fact, I may want to add discernment.
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  Speaker 3: Because there are times that the greatest gifts in your
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  life will come informs that you may not easily accept.
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  Speaker 2: So in addition to friendliness, in.
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  Speaker 3: Addition to the heart that communicates honor to all men,
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  you will also add discernment. Is someone learning already general relationships?
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  Now watch this, come, my friend. Let me use this
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  man for an example. Let's assume this man, maybe he
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  doesn't know who I am, doesn't know anything about me.
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  We can be passing somewhere, and this gentleman can see
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  me and just say good afternoon, sir, not knowing that
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  God has called me and mandated me to help him,
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  maybe not even knowing that I have a relationship with
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  his parents. But just that act of honor and courtesy,
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  I can look at him and say, my friend, where
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  are you from, and begin to.
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  Speaker 2: Find out about him. You see that.
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  Speaker 3: Now, imagine that this gentleman is looking for admission save
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  for instance, in the university, and not knowing that I'm
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  the jum registrar, for instance, or I'm the closest friend
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  to the jam registrar. He's dishonor to me and not
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  being friendly and just looks at me and pushes me.
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  I can leave him in peace, and then one day
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  they drag him into a jam center and say we're
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  looking for help.
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  Speaker 2: And I remember.
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  Speaker 3: People forget what you tell them, but they will not
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  forget how you made them feel. They will remember that
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  this gentleman treated me bad. And you can recycle needless
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  years of pain. Is someone learning thank you? General relationships,
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  you must learn how to be friendly. To be friendly
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  does not mean to be a clown laughing up and down.
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  It means to have a warm personality, a personality that
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  is always receptive, and then to be able to show people.
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  Speaker 2: On those who understand onor are never stranded.
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  Speaker 3: In life, and then to discern because most times, answers
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  to prayer comes when men come. God answers prayer not
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  only by sending power. He answers prayer by sending men.
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  So while you are praying, take note of the man
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  who comes in answer to your prayer.
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  Speaker 2: Prayer. The answer to your prayer could be in a man.
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  In fact, I teach it this way that all blessings.
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  Speaker 3: Come from God through man to man. Nothing comes directly
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  from God to a man. There must be a man
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  midwife in what leaves heaven and arrives the earth. General
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  relationships Number two. The second level and the second kind
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  of relationships are called seasonal relationships.
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  Speaker 2: Please write it down.
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  Speaker 3: Most believers are ignorant of this level and this kind
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  of relationship.
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  Speaker 2: Seasonal relationships.
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  Speaker 3: Now please look up. These are relationships from the name.
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  There are relationships in your life that are not meant
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  to be destiny relationships. They are there for a season,
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  a time, and a purpose. That means these relationships are
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  time taped. You have to maximize the blessing and the
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  benefit that comes from them within the time allotted, because
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  once the time elaps ellapses, whatever you did not get
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  you may lose forever. Seasonal relationships. I'll give you an example,
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  your classmates. I'll give you an example, your schoolmate. There
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  are relationships whose life span can be two years, three years,
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  five years, seven years, and you may never see them again.
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  There are some of you, for instance, shortly after school
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  or shortly after your time in Nigeria. You may relocate
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  and go abroad, and certain relationships that you now enjoy,
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  you may never have the opportunity to have and enjoy
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  them again.
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  Speaker 2: But the lessons, the wisdom.
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  Speaker 3: The benefits and the advantages from those relationships you can
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  discern and receive them. Most people do not understand seasonal relationships.
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  Speaker 2: Now, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 3: With seasonal relationships, the advantage and the benefit from seasonal
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  relationships only remain within the lifetime of that relationship. You
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  must have the courage to know when seasonal relationships have
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  come to an end. Because if you do not understand
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  when seasonal relationships come to an end, what wants blessed
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  you can also cost you Listen carefully and learned. Many
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  people do not know when seasonal relationships come to an end,
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  and they continue to force it to walk to their detriment.
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  You have to know when seasonal relationships in your life
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  and destiny come.
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  Speaker 2: To an end.
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  Speaker 3: Allelujah, this is very powerful. I remember many years ago
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  there was this gentleman. For some reason, I live quite
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  a very busy life, honestly, but for some reason I
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  saw the text of this gentleman, and he.
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  Speaker 2: Showed to be a very sincere person.
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  Speaker 3: And I reached out to him, and when I reached
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  out to him, he cried that this was his background,
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  and you know, he wanted to learn to know the
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  things of God. He was simply looking for a chance
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  to live a meaningful life. And I said, I can't
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  commit to this, gentleman.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even have the time. But I made up
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  my mind.
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  Speaker 3: I said, even if it's two weeks, let me give
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  this gentleman dedicated attention and see what I can do
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  to contribute to his destiny. And I would give him assignments,
• 33:35
  scriptures to read, give him certain Sometimes I would call him,
• 33:40
  you know, or when he calls me. I would call
• 33:43
  when I'm back, maybe from a meeting, or sometime I'm.
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: Even praying or studying, and here is his call. You know.
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  Speaker 3: I just felt this was an honorable gentleman, very respectful
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  as he sounded. And he was surprised because I would
• 33:56
  call him sometimes for over thirty minutes. Can you imagine
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  and talk with him, share, get tell him to get
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  a pen and a paper, make reference to materials to
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  help him. In fact, I remember a few times when
• 34:10
  I even made transfers to him, and I said, gentlemen,
• 34:12
  go and buy books with this make sure and he
• 34:15
  was surprised. Sometimes you will send the text and say, God,
• 34:18
  what have I done? And I taught him something. I said,
• 34:21
  my friend, let me tell you something. Inasmuch as I
• 34:24
  love you, don't you think it to continue this way?
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  Maxims every day and every moment that you.
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  Speaker 2: Will have alle lujah? Yes.
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  Speaker 3: And one time the gentleman started calling, calling, ringing. I
• 34:40
  remember I returned from a meeting. I told him to
• 34:44
  follow everywhere I am meeting and listen to the messages.
• 34:48
  It's part of the mentorship system. And one time, I
• 34:50
  remember I was preaching somewhere. I didn't save his number,
• 34:54
  but I could see the digits, and he kept calling
• 34:57
  while I was on stage. He clearly was not following
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  the meeting, calling, calling and disturbing and writing.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: Have I offended you? What is this now?
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: I thought you were going to help, I said, oh,
• 35:08
  the seasons you have. Let me tell you one of
• 35:10
  the ways. You know seasons have come to an end.
• 35:14
  The blessing that maintained it lists that blessing that listen.
• 35:18
  This is a powerful revelation. The blessing that is in
• 35:23
  it lifts not because you are bad, but it is
• 35:27
  a way of making you know. When a baby is
• 35:31
  in the womb of his mother, after nine months the
• 35:36
  same pregnancy that the woman would dance and be happy about,
• 35:40
  she becomes dissatisfied, and even the baby lets her know,
• 35:43
  I'm tired of this place.
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  Speaker 2: Correct.
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: The baby now begins to engineer all kinds of skills
• 35:51
  to force her to tell her, madam, you have to
• 35:54
  get me out of this place, and let me tell
• 35:56
  you whether it is by normal delivery or se us,
• 36:00
  that baby will come out for sure, now hear me.
• 36:05
  Never try to resurrect what God is the one killing.
• 36:10
  This is the mistake that many believers make. Can I
• 36:13
  tell you this. When a tree is dying, you can
• 36:17
  wantry to come back to life, But when it is dead,
• 36:21
  there is nothing you can do for it to come
• 36:23
  back to life.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: Be careful less.
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: The people who were in your seasonal relationships keep putting
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  pressure on you. Remember we're primary school classmates, and they
• 36:41
  keep inconveniencing you crying for a space in your destiny,
• 36:46
  and you keep feeling guilty. No, you don't have to
• 36:50
  be evil. That relationship was for a season. Now that
• 36:54
  the season has ended, you must know when to move forward.
• 36:57
  Can I tell you this the Bible which us these
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  seasonal relationships.
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: In the journey of Abraham. Please listen carefully.
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  Speaker 3: The Bible says when Abraham left, he went to go
• 37:10
  and sacrifice Isaac. When you read from Genesis twenty two,
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  he went with his servants.
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: They started the journey together. But when he.
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: Got to the base of the mountain, he turned to
• 37:20
  them and said, gentlemen, you have tried for me.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: From here. It is only me and.
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  Speaker 3: My sacrificer to go upwards. Did they do wrong? They
• 37:28
  don't have to do wrong. He's just saying, your season,
• 37:32
  the validity of your contribution has come.
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: To an end. Can I tell you this.
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: There are things God will not do with you till
• 37:42
  you allow relationships that have ended to end. Indeed, there
• 37:48
  are certain things God cannot do with you and in
• 37:52
  your life.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: Now, let me tell you this.
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: Because of the emotional nature of humans, it is usually
• 38:00
  very difficult. It's the reason why many young men cannot
• 38:05
  leave home when they're supposed to leave home. That doesn't
• 38:08
  mean you stop relating with your parents, but you have
• 38:11
  come of age. If you don't leave home, you can
• 38:14
  never be established, even if it is one room back
• 38:17
  out and go to that one room and start so
• 38:20
  that you can have your testimony that you will give
• 38:22
  your children that, like my father, I also know God
• 38:26
  is faithful. I started with a recharged card and a mattress.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: Look what God has done. Now.
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: Many people cannot experience more of God because they hold
• 38:36
  onto seasons that have come to an end.
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  Speaker 2: With someone learning seasonal relationships.
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: In Nigeria, there are songs that came in certain seasons,
• 38:57
  and everybody sang those songs, including you. Remember how many
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  times you listen to those songs. They look like you
• 39:04
  will never listen to any song again. But after a while,
• 39:08
  to your shock, you will live on here the song
• 39:10
  in your car and flip to the next song. Not
• 39:12
  because the song is wrong. The anointing that came with
• 39:16
  it with that season has sound is purpose every man
• 39:31
  of God and every champion on earth with respect to Destiny,
• 39:38
  our voyage on earth, YEA is a seasonal relationship because
• 39:43
  one day, whether you like it or not, like I
• 39:45
  said yesterday, prepared or not, your season will come to
• 39:49
  an end. How many of you remember any name col
• 39:52
  Rain hard Bunk? Wave your hands?
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: How many of you remember any name called Billy Graham?
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: Wave your hands. How many of you remember any name
• 40:00
  called tel Osborne?
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: Wave your hands?
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: How many of you remember any name call Sir Isaac Newton?
• 40:06
  Wave your hands? Question where are they today? How many
• 40:17
  of you remember any name in the Bible called Peter
• 40:22
  Paul Silas. You would think that these people their seasons
• 40:31
  would not end because of the high level impact. If
• 40:36
  Christ taries after one hundred years, say, for instance, it
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  will not wait that long, I assure you He's coming soon.
• 40:44
  I can assure you this by the authority of scripture.
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  We're not going to wait that long before he comes.
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  But then, save for instance, the head remains for the
• 40:53
  next one hundred.
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: And fifty years.
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: Do you know if we don't give back to anybody
• 40:59
  again after one hundred and fifty.
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  Speaker 2: Years, even the baby today may be gone.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: The whole heath will be empty, because every one's season
• 41:07
  would have come to end.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: Remember when you found last year.
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: You were happy when you saw the maze growing, and
• 41:17
  the way you pampered the maze, the maze, you know,
• 41:21
  the stalk. It was as if it to live forever,
• 41:24
  and all that pampering was just for four months. The
• 41:26
  day you will have vested it. You did not even
• 41:28
  pity what you want pampered. You remove the corn and
• 41:32
  matched everything, and that was it, ready for another planting season.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: You must understand seasons.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: The key to maximizing seasons, even seasonal relationships, is to
• 41:46
  discern and to take advantage of the blessing and the benefit. Listen,
• 41:52
  look up, let me teach you something. There are some
• 41:56
  of you who grew up with aunties and grew up
• 42:00
  with uncles. Some of you grew up in families that
• 42:05
  may not have treated you well. Some of you are
• 42:08
  even working jobs you don't like, and you are wondering
• 42:12
  why God put you there. Realize that you are therefore
• 42:16
  His seas it. Instead of complaining the stop watch is
• 42:21
  counting down. You may be there with your auntie and
• 42:25
  your uncle, staying with them. They may not have treated
• 42:29
  you well, but God is using that season to Buistamini
• 42:32
  in you so that you can survive any other thing
• 42:35
  in the future. Instead of complaining and getting angry this
• 42:40
  under season because one day what you are running away
• 42:43
  from today you will miss it when the season passes.
• 42:50
  I would always give this example. Have you seen little
• 42:54
  children who want to be adults by force? You come
• 42:59
  back and you find them trying to act like mummy.
• 43:02
  They will carry Mummy's cloth and weare and is flowing.
• 43:05
  I sit, they're an angel and they're happy. Sometimes they
• 43:10
  try to do what Daddy is doing. And may God
• 43:13
  not help you that your child finds a khaki and
• 43:16
  goes to open the car and it's like he's struggling
• 43:19
  to touch everything, and he's just doing whatever he can
• 43:22
  do because he thinks the seasons are too slow. He
• 43:26
  will wake up and find out that he's fifty years
• 43:28
  old and miss those days and wish he could go back.
• 43:31
  An example of what I'm talking about is you who
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  would believe that you have come this far. I had
• 43:44
  the privilege to see one of my dear people who
• 43:47
  trained me growing up, and my goodness, he was an
• 43:50
  old man. I saw one of my pictures one time
• 43:55
  and I couldn't believe it. I said, this is a joke.
• 43:59
  You may have grown like this. Where am I running too?
• 44:09
  But what you do with seasons is what determines whether
• 44:15
  you will go far.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: Or you will remain where you are. It's God teaching
• 44:20
  someone now. So a quick.
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: Recap that there are three levels and three kinds of relationships.
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  Number one is what general relationships, your interaction with your
• 44:30
  environment every day. Number two, seasonal relationships. Number three the
• 44:40
  highest level of relationship, and this is the one that
• 44:44
  lasts throughout the lifetime of your destiny. They are called
• 44:48
  destiny or covenant relationships. Please write it down destiny or
• 44:57
  covenant relationships. What are these relationships? They are relationships that
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  have a role to play in your life all through
• 45:11
  your lifetime, for as long as you are alive.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: Those relationships should remain.
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: And these are the relationships that you should pay any
• 45:21
  price on the God to maintain because something about the
• 45:25
  overall picture of your destiny is connected to those relationships.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: Is God speaking to someone.
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: An example of destiny relationships is your prophetic connection. An
• 45:40
  example of destiny relationships. Your relationship with your parents an
• 45:46
  example of destiny relationships, your relationship with your spouse, your
• 45:51
  relationship with your children, and then your relationship with strategic friends,
• 45:57
  connections mentors that God brings to your life. War Besides,
• 46:03
  a man who does not invest in destiny relationships, you
• 46:12
  may never be able to actualize destiny. I want to
• 46:16
  say something, respectfully speaking, when you see people in old age, isolated, frustrated,
• 46:24
  with no help whatsoever.
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: Some of them will give.
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: Excuses like I didn't have the opportunity to go to school.
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but I disagree.
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: It does not take education to invest in relationships.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: It takes or not discernment and humility.
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: How can God give you a gift of forty years,
• 46:45
  thirty years, fifty years and there is nobody on it
• 46:49
  who found you relevant enough to connect.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: With you for destiny?
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: You must be a dangerous blessing them. Someone somewhere should
• 47:00
  like you enough and be willing to say I believe
• 47:03
  in you and I see you an advantage to my life.
• 47:12
  This place is quiet. I'm sure God is speaking to
• 47:15
  you now because some of you are about.
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: To destroy destiny relationships.
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: Some of you, that classmate you met is not just
• 47:25
  a classmate. There is something connected to destiny.
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: For some of you.
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: This ministry that God brought you, it's not just an
• 47:34
  option just because you are looking this destiny connection. Now,
• 47:39
  let me show you what happens when we do not
• 47:42
  discern destiny relationships.
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: Are you ready?
• 47:46
  Speaker 3: Genesis thir team, Let's continue from where we left off.
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: Will start from verse seven.
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: Remember the story God called Abraham and went with him.
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  God trust what Abraham and God trust what Lot who
• 48:05
  went with him. But something started happening. Pay attention to
• 48:11
  my message. Now the spirit of God is speaking. There
• 48:15
  was a strife between the headmen of Abram, of Adam's cattle,
• 48:21
  of Abraham's cattle, and the head men of Lord's cattle.
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: Can you imagine.
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: But the one who carried the promise and the covenant
• 48:30
  and the one who followed became so blessed.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: But with every blessing.
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: And with every lifting, there are always issues, the Bible says,
• 48:42
  and the Canaanite and the.
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: Perizide dwelt in the land. Next verse.
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  Speaker 3: Verse eight says, and Abraham said to Lot, let there
• 48:56
  be no strife. Please follow carefully. I pray the between
• 49:00
  me and thee. He said, I'm between my hurts men
• 49:03
  and thy hurts man. Why for we be brethren? Verse nine,
• 49:09
  he said, it's not the whole land before thee. Separate yourself.
• 49:16
  Now there is a problem. You know what Abraham was
• 49:20
  telling lords. It seems like now you don't even know
• 49:23
  why God blessed you. Because you followed me. You partook
• 49:28
  of the grace upon my life. Now you have increased
• 49:31
  and you did not mentor and train your people to
• 49:34
  know why God blessed them, that it was a destiny
• 49:37
  connection that brought the blessing. Let there be no strife. Go,
• 49:41
  he said, separate yourself. You never allowed this to happen
• 49:49
  over destiny relationships. This may happen for general relationships, this
• 49:55
  may happen for seasonal relationships, but when it has to
• 49:59
  do with destiny relitionationships, swallow your pride, because we are
• 50:03
  about to learn a lessons from Lot.
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: Now are you ready? Please give it to us.
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: Separate yourself, Abraham told Lot, I pray thee from me.
• 50:13
  If thou wilt take the left hand, I will go
• 50:16
  to the right, Or if thou wilt depads to the right,
• 50:21
  I will take the left. Abraham was telling him it
• 50:24
  does not matter the location. What is on me will
• 50:27
  sort me out. But you choose any direction and go.
• 50:32
  Now watch the foolishness of Lot, which is the foolishness
• 50:36
  of many people on it.
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: Today.
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: God has brought you to this camp to give you
• 50:43
  wisdom for destiny, the Bible says. And Lot lifted his
• 50:48
  eyes and beheld all the plane of Jordan, that it
• 50:54
  was well watered, where before the Lord destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah,
• 51:00
  even as the garden of the Lord, like the garden
• 51:03
  of Eden. As thou comest onto soar.
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: Hey.
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: Then Lord shows him all the plane of Jordan and
• 51:14
  Lord Johnny East, and they separated themselves one.
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: From the other.
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: Now follow carefully, Abraham dwelt in the land of Canaan.
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: Where did Lord go to help me?
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: Lord dwelt in the cities of the plane and pitched
• 51:34
  his tent towards Sodom. This is what separation from destiny.
• 51:39
  Relationships can bring. The first decision that Lord will be
• 51:44
  taken outside of that relationship landed im in Sodom. Can
• 51:51
  I tell you this? There are relationships God brought you to.
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: Because he knows that if you take certain decisions without
• 51:59
  these relationships, what happened to.
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: Your father will still happen to you. God brought you
• 52:05
  to certain relationships as a covenant binding, so that you
• 52:09
  can be a packtaker of certain blessings that are men.
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: This is true. Lot went unfortunately to Sodom. Question.
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: By the time Abraham came to rescue Lot, where did
• 52:29
  he find Lot?
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: He did not find him. At the gate of Sodom.
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: Lot had moved in, moved in, and he was at
• 52:37
  the center of sodom even though he remained a righteous man.
• 52:43
  But there was still trouble. Because if you are righteous
• 52:46
  and your environment is polluted, you will still suffer it.
• 52:51
  If someone learning God connected you to a friend, that
• 52:56
  friend was the one who helps you pray. That friend
• 53:00
  was the one who helps you first. Every time you
• 53:03
  are backsliding, God will show that friend in a dream
• 53:06
  and you say, my brother, I had this dream. I
• 53:09
  just noticed that is there's something wrong with your spiritual life.
• 53:12
  Let me tell you what Satan does to keep when
• 53:15
  he wants to destroy them. Please look up and learn.
• 53:18
  The first thing Satan does when he wants to attach
• 53:21
  your destiny is to look for everybody who can help
• 53:25
  you when you are down. He will create trouble between
• 53:28
  you and them so that all of them will leave you.
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: When you are alone.
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: In pride, he will now attach you because anybody who
• 53:36
  can help you there is no peace between you for
• 53:38
  the rescue. This is how people die, and this is
• 53:41
  how people are destroyed. Satan will never attach you when
• 53:45
  he knows who are surrounded by destiny relationships. The first
• 53:52
  thing he will do is to surround you with wrong
• 53:56
  people or take away good people from your life. Lord
• 54:03
  would have said, Abraham, I know there is strife between
• 54:06
  my people and your people.
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: Please let me talk to them.
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: I can't let you go because I remember what I
• 54:13
  was and where I was before God brought me to you.
• 54:18
  I believe it's a destiny connection. My apologies, Let me
• 54:22
  work on it. Only God knows what else would have
• 54:24
  learned about lot destiny relationships. There are doors today that
• 54:42
  have been opened in my life to my life as
• 54:48
  a person and in ministry because of destiny strategic destiny relationships,
• 54:57
  and by the privilege of God's grace, God use me
• 55:00
  through destiny connections to also open doors for others. Many
• 55:10
  of you here respectfully about to get crash your life
• 55:15
  because you don't have value for anybody. You have a
• 55:19
  narrative in your life. I don't need anybody to hell
• 55:23
  with you.
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: You can go.
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  Speaker 3: Be careful who you are driving away from your life.
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  You may drive one man that is equal to the
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  next ten years of your peace. Go and find out
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  what happened to the disciples when they run away from Jesus.
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  Jesus is not the kind of person you run away from.
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  Or they run away and within seventy two hours their
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  whole life scattered Peter that was geting relevance.
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  Speaker 2: In seventy two hours.
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  Speaker 3: Peter went back to fishing and was wasting his time
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  there when Jesus came in John twenty one. It said,
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  little children, have you any catch? He didn't even know
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  it was Jesus. He said, cash your net to the
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  right side. When he can't say it his net. As
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  soon as Jesus returned to his life, in one statement,
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  he caught fish that he had been struggling and he
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  did not catch.
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  Speaker 2: Is someone learning? Before I continue, Please lay.
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  Speaker 3: Your hand on your head and say, Lord, give me
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  the discernment to know the relationships that my destiny depends on.
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  Speaker 2: Lay your hands on your head and pray.
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  Speaker 3: Grant me that grace so that I don't use foolishness,
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  our pride, or lack of discernment and destroy valuable relationships
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  that can hold the key to many, many, many, many
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  chapters of my life.
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  Speaker 2: She Ascal Brandga devous crack at the bell, last off, friend,
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  get de bed lecosia. Hallelujah, hallelujah.
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  Speaker 3: Now very quickly, I'll read a scripture and I will
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  show you how to maintain destiny relationships, and will be done.
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  Speaker 2: Genesis twenty one for someone.
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  Speaker 3: When your life changes and people ask you, you will
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  tell them. I came for this student congress and I
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  found something. I found a key. Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 2: Now, for sake of time, I will save you a
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  lot of details as is twenty one. Let's start from
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  verse eight.
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  Speaker 3: This was the story between Abraham and his wife Sarah
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  and a maid called Hagar, the mother of Ishmael.
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  Speaker 2: Please follow very carefully. Let's start from verse eight.
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  Speaker 3: Now speaking about remember when Sarah could not be a child.
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  Speaker 2: Are we together? Now? Abraham now had.
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  Speaker 3: A child with Hagar, and the Bible says something that
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  Hagar was Sarah's maid. But the moment she had a
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  child and she saw that she was now in a
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  position of advantage, something began to happen. She started mocking
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  and acting sohny towards Sarah, and in anger, Sarah banished
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  her and said go. Abraham said, you can't do it
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  out whatever you want. So this is a story you're
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  about to learn verse eight very quickly. And the child
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  grew and was winned, and Abraham made a fist the
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  same day that Isaac was wing uh huh. And Sarah
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  saw the son of Hagar, the Egyptian. Now God giving
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  her own which was born on to Abraham. He said,
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  Wherefore she said on to Abraham verse ten, cast out
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  this bond woman and her son, for the son of
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  the bond woman shall not be heir with my son,
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  even with Isaac verse eleven. And the thing was very
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  grievous in Abraham's sight because of his son. Now watch this,
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  and God said to Abraham, let not it be grievous
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  in your sight, because of the lad and because of
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  the bond woman. In all that Sarah had said on
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  to thee how come to her voice, For Isaac shall
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  be thy seed?
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  Speaker 2: Shall thy seed be called?
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  Speaker 3: For in Isaac shall thy sed be called, he says,
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  And also the son of the bond woman, I.
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  Speaker 2: Will make a nation, because he is thy seed.
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  Speaker 3: And a Braham rose off early in the morning, watched
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  this now and took bread and a bottle of water,
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  and gave it onto Hagar, putting it on her shoulder,
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  and the child Ahah and.
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  Speaker 2: Sent her away.
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  Speaker 3: And she departed and did what one dad in the wilderness.
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  She came to that house as a maid by reason
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  of all that happened. Regardless what happened, God lifted her
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  and sorted her. Now she separated, and one dad around
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  the wilderness, even to be a shiba.
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  Speaker 2: Next verse, the Bible says, And when the.
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  Speaker 3: Water was spent in the bottle, and she cast the
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  child under one of the shrubs uhuh.
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  Speaker 2: And she went and sat.
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  Speaker 3: Her down over against him a good way of a
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  said where a bowshot.
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  Speaker 2: For she said, let me not see the death of
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  the child.
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  Speaker 3: And she sat over against him and lived up her
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  voice and wept.
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  Speaker 2: Now the lesson begins. And God heard the voice of
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  the load.
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  Speaker 3: And the Angel of God called to Hagar out of
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  heaven and said, what let thee Hagar fear not?
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  Speaker 2: For God has heard the voice of the Lord where
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  he is.
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  Speaker 3: Now watch this, He said, our eyes, lift up the
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  load and hold him in thy hand, for I will
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  make him a great nation verse nineteen. And God opened
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  her eyes, and she saw a well of water. And
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  she went and filled the bottle with water, and gave
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  the lad drink. Next verse, and the Bible says, and
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  God was with the lad, and he grew and dwelt
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  in the wilderness, and he became an at cher, and
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  he dwelt in all of that, and all of that. Now,
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  when you read that scripture. Let me tell you what
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  I'm trying to pull out. The Bible said something very
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  instructive that both Hagar and the baby, two of them
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  were crying.
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  Speaker 2: But the Bible says when.
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  Speaker 3: God had he had only the voice of the baby.
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  The Bible never said he had the voice of Sarah
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  of Hagar. How come she was crying and the baby
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  was crying and only the voice of one child went
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  to heaven. You know why because even though she was
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  in rebellion, she had left her maid, that baby that
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  came out of her was still connected to that blessing
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  by covenant. And because of that covenant, God could not
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  deny the child. Even though the mother of the child
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  was in rebellion. He cried, she cried, God only heard
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  the voice of one child. Notice God did not even
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  say anything to solve her problem. Why are you crying
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  all the child? I want to speak about the child,
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  and that's it. How can I be crying and a
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  baby is crying? And God, here's the child, the cry
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  of the child and comes and answer civil I'm not here,
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  give our water, and now focus on speaking about the child.
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  Speaker 2: Because he was connected to Abraham. This is very powerful.
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  Speaker 3: Write this down, please, How to build lasting destiny relationships?
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  Speaker 2: I will only give you two keys.
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  Speaker 3: How do I build lasting destiny relationships?
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  Speaker 2: Number one?
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  Speaker 3: I wrote here, Usually God uses the various faces stages
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  of your life. He uses geographic locations, He uses church
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  and other occasions.
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  Speaker 2: To connect you to these relationships.
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  Speaker 3: That means destiny relationships happen in our lives primarily by
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  taking advantage of the faces and the stages in your life.
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  Speaker 2: For instance school.
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  Speaker 3: Now, within that three, four, five, six period period of school,
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  there are certain people that God will bring in your life,
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  and among them there will be destiny relationships. God can
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  also use your geographic location where you are domiciled.
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  Speaker 2: God can use your church.
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  Speaker 3: Like many of you, now, there was no other way
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  you would have met and known yourselves but for this platform.
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  God can also use other occasions and connect you to
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  these relationships.
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  Speaker 2: Now, let me tell you this.
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  Speaker 3: When you want to build destiny relationships, I wrote here,
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  you must be driven.
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  Speaker 2: You must all be driven.
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  Speaker 3: By similar foundational values about God and about life. It's
• 1:05:17
  impossible to build strategic destiny relationships until you are driven
• 1:05:24
  by similar values about God and about life. The Bible
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  says in amstep the three and US three can two walk.
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  Speaker 2: Together except they be agreed.
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  Speaker 3: The word agreed their means compatible similar in the foundational
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  understandings that they have. You cannot join yourself to people
• 1:05:51
  who do not have You don't agree as far as
• 1:05:55
  foundational values are concerned. You may define other areas, but
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  not about God and not about life. Is someone learning
• 1:06:09
  that means before you know who is what being a
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  destiny connection to you, you must have values that govern
• 1:06:17
  your life, values about God. When people are lawless and
• 1:06:21
  they don't live by values, they don't even know who
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  is what their life or who is not what, you
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  will open up your heart. The Bible says, a man
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  who does not have control over his.
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  Speaker 2: Spirit is like a city that is without wolves.
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  Speaker 3: A city without walls is one that is open for anyone, am, robbers, animals,
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  whatever they just flowed into your life. Let me wrap
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  up this teaching quickly by giving you six keys to
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  help you maintain. There's a difference between guilding and maintains.
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  For building destiny relationships, you must have foundational values and
• 1:07:06
  ensure that those who come into your life have consistent
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  or similar values as touching the things of God and
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  touching the matters of life and destiny. And then I
• 1:07:18
  told you that God uses the various faces and stages
• 1:07:21
  of our lives, alongside our geographic location and any of
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  the occasion to.
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  Speaker 2: Bring these people to our lives.
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  Speaker 3: But now the most important lesson I wanted to get
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  in this session is how to maintain destiny relationships. We're
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  going to learn from the mistake of Lot, learn from
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  the mistake of Hagar. Learn from the mistake of the
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  early apostles before they were reconnected back to Jesus. Otherwise
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  there would never be apostles in the first place. Six lessons?
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  Speaker 2: Are you ready?
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  Speaker 3: How to maintain destiny relationships and connections. Number one, Rise
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  are both competitive jealousy. You want to maintain destiny relationships,
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  you must make sure the success of the other party
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  does not threaten you. Rise are both competitive jealousy. I'll
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  give you two scriptures very quickly. Proverbs fourteen thirty. Sorry,
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  I'm going to be rushing so that we can finish
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  on time Proverabs fourteen, verse thirty, and then Proverbs twenty
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  seven and verse four.
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  Speaker 2: Proverabs fourteen thirty says.
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  Speaker 3: A sound art is the tree of life, but envy
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  is the rottiness of the bones Proverbs twenty seven and
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  verse four twenty seven and verse four Proverbs Proverbs twenty four.
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  Please help us media, just write it down for sake
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  of time.
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  Speaker 2: So that.
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  Speaker 3: Write it down, you can always go and read it
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  so that we conserve time. Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 2: So rise are both.
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  Speaker 3: Competitive jealousy for scripture reference Proverabs. Fourteen thirty, Proverbs twenty seven.
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  Speaker 2: And verse four.
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  Speaker 3: Alright, it's a rod is cruel and a guy is outrageous.
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  But who is able to stand before envy?
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  Speaker 2: Envs? That dangerous?
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  Speaker 3: Number Two, Avoid evil speaking and backbiting. You want to
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  maintain all relationships, but especially destiny relationships. Avoid evil speaking
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  and avoid backbiting. Write for reference Proverbs Chapter six from
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  verse sixteen to nineteen. The Bible talks about six things
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  that the Lord hates. A hard that device is evil,
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  one that sows the seed of discord. All of these
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  things God hates Probabs six sixteen to nineteen. Another scripture,
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  Roman sixteen and verse seventeen. Roman sixteen and verse seventeen.
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  Romans sixteen and verse seventeen. He said, now I beseech you, brethren,
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  mark them which cause divisions and offenses. Contrary to the
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  doctrine which we have learned and avoid them.
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  Speaker 2: Is it in your Bible?
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  Speaker 3: So when you become one who is given to evil
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  speaking and backbiting, the Bible says, to avoid you. It
• 1:10:47
  may be the reason why some of us don't have friends.
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  There is no lasting relationship in your life. The life
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  span of any relationship in your life is two weeks.
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  After two weeks you've gone to say so thing to
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  tear down people, and they said no, no, no, no
• 1:11:03
  this person. The next time another person wants to come,
• 1:11:06
  they will advise that person and say, be careful with
• 1:11:08
  this lady, be careful with this gentleman. Yes he prays
• 1:11:12
  in tongues, but he can tear you with envy and
• 1:11:16
  tear you down with evil speaking. I forbid that over
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  your life in the name of Jesus, titles chapter three
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  and verse two. Avoid evil speaking, avoid backbiting titles Chapter
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  three and verse two.
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  Speaker 2: The Bible says, to speak.
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  Speaker 3: Evil of no man, and to be no browtherers, but
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  only provoked, and it thinketh no evil rise above offense
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  Number four. Am I right on that the fourth key.
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  If you want to maintain strategic destiny relationships, practice forgiveness
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  and tolerance. Write it down, Please practice forgiveness and tolerance.
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  A man and his wife one time were quarreling. They
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  had a misunderstanding. They were about twelve thirteen years in marriage,
• 1:12:28
  and when they met the counselor, the woman was crying
• 1:12:32
  and she said, from the day she got married she
• 1:12:33
  had never found joy, that she's never been happy.
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  Speaker 2: And the man looked with shock on his face and said, so, all.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 3: The laughter and the joy, the trips, the travels, what
• 1:12:47
  happened that you're saying you've never been happy? And the
• 1:12:49
  counselor told them, he said, that's how women talk. She
• 1:12:52
  doesn't mean what she's saying. She just means I am
• 1:12:54
  offended right now. And the way she inter pretared our
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  fence is to say, from the day I got married,
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  I've never found joy and peace in this house. And
• 1:13:05
  the man stood the shocked, wondering all the bad day,
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  gifts and adversaries, travels and all the time. She said,
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  you are the best thing that happened to me. What
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  suddenly changed that you are saying from the day you
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  got married. I said that to teach you the difference
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  between forgiveness and tolerance. Let me teach you the difference
• 1:13:30
  between forgiveness and tolerance. Forgiveness means to pardon a default.
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  When you forgive, you bring pardon to an individual because
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  of a default.
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  Speaker 2: But when you tolerate, you create a.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 3: System of accommodation to manage a limitation that will happen
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  again and again and again. Are you seeing the difference now?
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  You need both forgiveness and tolerance. Remember how many times
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  we go to God and say, Lord, just bless me,
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  and I will never distop you again.
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  Speaker 2: God is not forgiving you.
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  Speaker 3: He's tolerating you because he knows you're coming back again
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  for sure.
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  Speaker 2: Look at me. The reason why many.
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  Speaker 3: Of you are giving yourself heart attack over relationships, all
• 1:14:35
  kinds of relationships, is because you do not know that
• 1:14:39
  you need both forgiveness and tolerance. If you keep forgiving
• 1:14:43
  what you should tolerate, you will cry every day. I repeat,
• 1:14:48
  If you keep forgiving what you should tolerate, you will
• 1:14:52
  cry every day. A talkative will always be a talkative.
• 1:14:58
  An introverted person will always be an introverted person.
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  Speaker 2: It's as simple as that.
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  Speaker 3: If a talkative tells you forgive me I was under pressure,
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  I won't talk again.
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  Speaker 2: If you forgive the person you are not wise. You
• 1:15:12
  need to tolerate.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 3: Because five minutes later the person you say, don't think
• 1:15:17
  I meant what I said.
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  Speaker 2: I was talking like that becausement practice forgiveness and tolerance.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 3: Are you seeing now that the person you are sitting
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  close to some of you you need to forgive them.
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  For others you need to tolerate them. Let me give
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  you two scriptures, Mark eleven and verse twenty five. Mark
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  eleven and verse twenty five. Then I'll give you Collotions
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  Chapter three from verse twelve and thirteen. The Bible says,
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  and when you stand praying forgive, if you have aught
• 1:15:57
  against any that your Father also, which is in heaven,
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  will forgive your trespasses. You must learn to forgive. Collosians
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  Chapter three, from verse twelve and thirteen. Collosians three twelve
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  and thirteen. The Bible says, put on therefore, as the
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  elect of God, powels of messy kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness,
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  long suffering. Next verse for peering one another. That's the
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  word there, for beering one another and forgiving one another.
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  Speaker 2: You see, they're not the same.
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 3: If any man have a quarrel against any even as
• 1:16:38
  Christ forgive you so also do ye. It's very very important.
• 1:16:46
  You must learn forgiveness and you must lend tolerance. Let
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  me give you the remaining two number.
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  Speaker 2: Is that five?
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  Speaker 3: What is the fifth key to maintaining strategic destiny relationships?
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  Speaker 2: Write this down.
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  Speaker 3: You must be an active contributa to the growth of
• 1:17:09
  the other party or the parties involved. You must be
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  an active contributal to the growth of the other party
• 1:17:19
  or the parties involved. You must be an active contributal
• 1:17:25
  to the growth of the other party or the parties
• 1:17:29
  involved in ants Chapter twenty and verse thirty five, very
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  popular scripture. The Bible says there that it is more
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  blessed to give than to receive. There are many people
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  whose relationship is called parasitic relationships. They are users, They
• 1:17:55
  are takers. They are not interested in giving anything. That
• 1:18:00
  call you is because they have a need. The day
• 1:18:03
  they come to your house is because they have trouble
• 1:18:06
  and they have exhausted all their options.
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 2: Can I tell you this.
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  Speaker 3: Nobody will be indefinitely committed to you if they know
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  that you are just a user and a taker. The
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  world does not embrace and celebrate users. You must be
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  an active contributor.
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  Speaker 2: To that relationship.
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  Speaker 3: Now please look up even our relationship with our precures Jesus,
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  it looks like we are serving him and just serving
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  him until you see what he has giving us, and
• 1:18:40
  he continues to give.
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  Speaker 2: Us the breath that we have, the life that we enjoy,
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  the health, the favor, all of these great things.
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  Speaker 3: When we begin to count our blessings and to name
• 1:18:54
  them one by one, the hymn writer says, it will.
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  Speaker 2: Surprise us what the Lord has done. Are we together?
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  Let me tell you this.
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  Speaker 3: Never commit yourself indefinitely to any relationship that does not
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  actively contribute to your growth. The contribution is mutual. It
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  is dangerous to be the only one giving the prayer,
• 1:19:23
  the only one giving the money. They are giving the support,
• 1:19:27
  giving everything, and the other party all they are doing
• 1:19:31
  is just to be taking.
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  Speaker 2: No is a dangerous kind of relationship.
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  Speaker 3: I used to have these interesting people because by the
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  privilege of God's grace, I try and do my best
• 1:19:47
  to be there.
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 2: For us many people. And there are all these people.
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  Speaker 3: Who is when they need help, you just get a
• 1:19:54
  text Calvary, Greetings Apostle, in the name of Jesus Christ.
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  It's been a long time I've not kept in touch.
• 1:20:02
  That text is following the real text coming now. Then
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  he says, sorry, just to let you know that in
• 1:20:06
  my rent we have come again. I hope you are
• 1:20:08
  not angry for one year. They don't care how you are,
• 1:20:12
  whether you woke up, whether you cried, whether you laughed,
• 1:20:15
  that's none of their business. The moment there is a
• 1:20:18
  need here they come again.
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  Speaker 2: There are some of you. You are like that as
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  you are looking at me.
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  Speaker 3: Given your biological parents, you don't send them a text
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  to say God bless you. But when there is a need,
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  when you have a bad dream, something is pursuing you.
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  You are coming from your village. All of a sudden,
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  you call somebody and say, sorry, it's been a while.
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  Did you say you have a conference somewhere?
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  Speaker 2: Can I tell you this?
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  Speaker 3: Nobody becomes indefinitely committed to you if you don't pay
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  attention to people. Relationships are investments? Is fraud to want
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  a return over an investment you did not make. Let
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  me tell you sincerely, and I say this by God.
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  As busy as I may seem to be, there are
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  people whose call I cannot ignore because of the level
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  and the extent of investments they have made.
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  Speaker 2: In my life.
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  Speaker 3: There are people today when I call, no matter what
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  they are doing, they will stop and pay attention to
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  it because of the level of investment I've made in
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  their lives.
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  Speaker 2: Now, let me tell you the mistake with our world.
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  Speaker 3: Don't want to sit in the position of intimacy over
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  a relationship you did not invest in. They met Jesus,
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  and the mother of James and John said, can you
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  grant that my sons will sit at your left hand?
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 3: Jesus said, this press is available, but there is a condition.
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  Can you drink of my cop and be baptized with
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  my baptism. There are people today even if I wake
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  them by two a m. And I tell them listen,
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  I'm stranded at the road, they will get up and
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  I have to come and pick me. Not because I'm
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  a man of God. Let me assure you every relationship
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  does not hold the same value. There are relationships that many.
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  There are people who can give up anything for certain relationships.
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  I've had the honor and the privilege of meeting many
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  of our fathers of faith. I am amazed that as
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  busy as they are, there are strategic relationships that, regardless
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  their schedules, they will invest in with joy and with honor.
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  Don't expect me to give you the same attention with
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  someone who thinks I am valuable to him or hah,
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  it can't be the same way.
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  Speaker 2: We're rapping up. Let me have two people.
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  Speaker 3: I want to teach you some powerful God bless you,
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  my friend. You stand here, just a turn faced the crowd,
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  My friend stand here.
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  Speaker 2: Now watch this.
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  Speaker 3: If this gentlemn cares about me so much, are we
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  together now that every time I meet him, maybe he's
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  holding a bottle of water and saying, Apostle, take you
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  may need this to quench your thirst.
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  Speaker 2: And every time he said how are you? How is
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  your health? How is your body?
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  Speaker 3: Everything that involves my life is interested in it. You
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  cannot expect me to be committed to this man the
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  same way I will be committed to someone who maybe
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  one day only when he has a need and he
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  will send the text and say, Apostle, bless you. Can
• 1:23:52
  you speak over my life? Today's my birthday. I will
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  speak God, bless you. God had yes and wisdom my
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  life to your yes in Jesus Amen. But for this man,
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  if he tells me, Apostle, I have headache, I would
• 1:24:06
  buy him a pharmacy not a drug.
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  Speaker 2: Is someone getting it? Now? Why?
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  Speaker 3: Because he has placed value on my life and my destiny,
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  I can't see how my life has advanced because of
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  his contribution.
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 2: I will not ignore him. Please hear me. Next time
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  you see men of God or your.
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  Speaker 3: Lecturers, pay attention to certain people within the boundaries of purity.
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  Now I'm teaching you this that when you see people
• 1:24:39
  pay attention to certain people more than others, don't get jealous.
• 1:24:45
  Find out the investment and the contributions.
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  Speaker 2: They have made.
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  Speaker 3: When I was thirsty, you didn't bring me water to drink.
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  There are people today. I have blessed them generally, I
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  have not made any significant personal investment in their lives.
• 1:25:07
  I would be stupid to expect them to give me
• 1:25:09
  such attention. I can't demand that because I've not made
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  the requesciited level of investment. Now look up, please, you
• 1:25:22
  can be this man who pays attention to the people
• 1:25:26
  that matter to your destiny, or you can be this
• 1:25:29
  man who does not care about anyone but wants to
• 1:25:34
  claim is taking people's success. The moment people succeed, you say,
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  remember I pray for you in the secret. Let God
• 1:25:40
  who sees you in the secret reward you there. But
• 1:25:42
  since I did not see you, for sure you not
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  get anything from me.
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 2: Someone learning this man you see compassers. I will tell you.
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  Speaker 3: One of the reasons why almost every year I think,
• 1:26:19
  without fail I come here. For many people they wonder,
• 1:26:22
  and they wonder why is it? Number One Because I
• 1:26:25
  love Jesus. Number one because I sincerely love your journal
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  over sea and the entire leadership and the ministry. I
• 1:26:32
  believe in what God is doing. But listen, in addition
• 1:26:36
  to that, you see this man here, This man has
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  mastered the art of investing in honor.
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 2: Now I'm not talking of human worship. No, there are people.
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  What they're demanding for a human worship that is nonsense.
• 1:26:54
  You see that.
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  Speaker 3: Every time you show people that you place value on them.
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  There are people who have come for me to pray
• 1:27:06
  for them. I just laid hands and said, God, bless
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  you given me. I know nothing left me to them.
• 1:27:10
  I just wanted them to give me a chance to
• 1:27:12
  enter the castle. I can go because the attitude there
• 1:27:15
  came with I know that no matter how I pray,
• 1:27:18
  nothing will leave me to them. And I'm not talking
• 1:27:23
  of kneeling down. You can kneel down and still be standing.
• 1:27:30
  Could it be that this is why some of you
• 1:27:33
  have not received from the grace that is upon this
• 1:27:36
  vision and upon this ministry. Because everybody is the same
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  to you, it doesn't matter which speaker comes to preach.
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 2: You just look at them.
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 3: You can see old people like our parents here come
• 1:27:47
  to talk to you, and you look at you are
• 1:27:49
  just laughing. Let me edit what they're saying. I'm not
• 1:27:51
  sure they know what they're saying. And it's not like
• 1:27:53
  you have any results. Most people who don't have results
• 1:27:58
  are the ones who sit down to asset Yes, the
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  works of people who are producing results. When I stand
• 1:28:04
  before great people, I stand like a sponge with my
• 1:28:08
  heart open to receive. Yes, I'm Aburian, but I humble
• 1:28:12
  myself to listen and to learn.
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 2: We're going to pray.
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 3: You can be this man ready to discern the relationships
• 1:28:23
  that are very important and strategic. You can be this
• 1:28:28
  man ready to trip your lives. Everybody, including Jesus Christ.
• 1:28:35
  What is there is the King of kings, and I
• 1:28:37
  ask him to die?
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 2: Is enough?
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 3: I've given my life to him. If you can't make
• 1:28:40
  there are other people, There are people like that. Nothing
• 1:28:44
  is ever want your attention in life. I want you
• 1:28:49
  to learn a lesson from this. Your leader learn a
• 1:28:53
  lesson from him. Humility and honor does not reduce you.
• 1:28:58
  In fact, it multiplies you. I'm saying this because may
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  God have messy your nous so that we don't become
• 1:29:10
  a very proud generation that tries to show glamor over nothing.
• 1:29:20
  It is said that the empty gung makes the loudest noise.
• 1:29:24
  You know great people by their humility to honor, the
• 1:29:28
  investment of God over others, and.
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 2: Their willingness to learn and to receive.
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 3: This may be a hard teaching, but you will thank
• 1:29:38
  me for it, and you will thank your leaders for it.
• 1:29:41
  You will go back to your various stations and the
• 1:29:44
  difference will be clear between you and other people.
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 2: In one week, you will see.
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 3: That strategic people have gravitated towards your life, and your
• 1:29:53
  life begins to move from one level to the other. Allelujah, God,
• 1:29:58
  bless yourself. Please all rise, Let's rise up.
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 2: What's that? So you're following number six? What is the
• 1:30:21
  sixth key to maintaining destiny? Relationships?
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 3: Practice genuine love, Practice genuine love. Let me tell you something.
• 1:30:33
  I remember a few years ago, maybe like four or
• 1:30:37
  five years a gentleman called me. I was crying and
• 1:30:41
  was crying and was crying. True story.
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 2: What happened?
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 3: The gentleman said, I'm not lazy, apostle. My final result
• 1:30:51
  just came out and I did very well. But I
• 1:30:53
  had one single course and it was a second semester course.
• 1:30:58
  He said, and where we like get the money? Me
• 1:31:01
  that I was happy that at least I would rest.
• 1:31:04
  You know, my mother has been waiting to just hear
• 1:31:07
  that my final result. And he cried and cried, and
• 1:31:10
  he said, well, he did not even call me to
• 1:31:13
  pray for him, maybe for a waiver or whatever it is.
• 1:31:16
  He just said, please, I should pray for him. That
• 1:31:21
  God will helped the mother understand. And then number two,
• 1:31:25
  that God who opened doors of favor. But he said
• 1:31:27
  he believed that he did.
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 2: That exam well.
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 3: And I said, really, so true story. I asked the person,
• 1:31:36
  I said, which school is that? Wait, university? And he
• 1:31:40
  mentioned the name. I said with faculty. When he mentioned
• 1:31:44
  the name, I said, are you a serious student? Said yes,
• 1:31:48
  this and that and that, and I told him, I said,
• 1:31:51
  all right, may God bless you. Whatever happens, call me
• 1:31:55
  true story. Little did the gentleman that I prayed for
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  someone in their faculty not too long and I called
• 1:32:05
  the person. I said, please, I said for the text.
• 1:32:09
  The man said to me to thank me, and when
• 1:32:12
  I found it, I said, please, sir, I know you
• 1:32:16
  respect God and you respect me. There is something I
• 1:32:20
  want to ask you for my apostle.
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 2: What is it?
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 3: And I said, there is this gentleman who called me
• 1:32:27
  so so so so so and so is the name.
• 1:32:30
  And the man asked a few questions and I told
• 1:32:32
  him I said that.
• 1:32:33
  Speaker 2: He said, course, please.
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 3: I'm not saying you people should go and compromise on standards,
• 1:32:38
  but maybe you may need to look into this for
• 1:32:40
  this gentleman. He cried, and I truly understand his situation.
• 1:32:45
  And the man kept quiet.
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 2: True story.
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 3: He kept quiet for about a few seconds and he
• 1:32:50
  said he said it is well. He said, no problem.
• 1:32:53
  I will get back to you. About three or four
• 1:32:57
  days later, I received a text around two am this
• 1:33:01
  guy saying he can't believe it. God is a miracle worker.
• 1:33:04
  God is said this God can wipe the tears of people.
• 1:33:07
  That can I imagine they I think they gave them
• 1:33:10
  permission and said, if it is a departmental course or
• 1:33:13
  something like that they can wave it and that they
• 1:33:16
  called him, and the person told him that he will
• 1:33:18
  not tell him who said this, but.
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 2: They should pray. And the person was saying, apossible. I
• 1:33:22
  don't know who God. And I kept quiet. When he finished,
• 1:33:25
  I told him, I said, make sure when God lives you,
• 1:33:27
  you do the.
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 3: Same for others. And the gentleman went, can I tell
• 1:33:36
  you every blessing comes from God through men? Delay comes
• 1:33:42
  from Satan? True men to men. One man who should
• 1:33:46
  sign for your promotion can say, your father offended me.
• 1:33:49
  You would remain here and the person will sit on
• 1:33:52
  it and you will remain there. As if God is
• 1:33:55
  not answering your prayer. Can I tell you when God
• 1:33:58
  says yes and men and say no, Yes remains in
• 1:34:02
  the realm of the spirit. It would take both God
• 1:34:06
  and men to say yes for yes to manifest year,
• 1:34:10
  Rise upon your feet. Let me give you two scriptures.
• 1:34:14
  Proverabs ten and verse twelve talks about love, and I
• 1:34:21
  believe he talks about a friend. Hair treads teretop strife.
• 1:34:25
  But he said love cover red all scenes. John eleven
• 1:34:31
  thirty five Popular scripture. By this shall all men know John,
• 1:34:38
  is it eleven? Please look forward for me?
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 2: By this?
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 3: Shall all men know that ye are My disciples? When
• 1:34:45
  you have love one to another? Can someone find that
• 1:34:49
  scripture for me? I think I made a mistake here
• 1:34:51
  in my text? By this, shall all men know someone
• 1:34:59
  said it for me?
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  Speaker 2: Please? Ah? John fifteen, who has founded John? John thirteen? Okay,
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  thirteen thirty five?
• 1:35:18
  Speaker 3: I wrote eleven here my apologies, John thirteen thirty five.
• 1:35:23
  Let's read it together finally before we pray? By this,
• 1:35:27
  shall all men know that ye are My disciples? Now,
• 1:35:32
  everybody stand, please, thank you for your patience. I'm about
• 1:35:37
  to give you an instruction right now, and then we'll pray.
• 1:35:40
  Please everyone stand, because your life is about to change. Hallelujah.
• 1:35:47
  Now listen, please listen carefully. There are four expressions I
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  leant in my life that worked. One that's in my
• 1:35:57
  life as far as relationships are con Number one, please
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  write it down. That word please is a miracle word.
• 1:36:10
  It can open doors for you, even if it's demons
• 1:36:13
  that close the door.
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 2: Please. It's a statement that shows that you have value
• 1:36:18
  on people and you show courtesy. Please.
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 3: Number two, I am sorry. These are miracle expressions that
• 1:36:31
  have worked wonders in the lives of great leaders. Please
• 1:36:34
  write it down, please. Number one and then number two,
• 1:36:39
  I am sorry. Don't say sorry?
• 1:36:42
  Speaker 2: Who is sorry? Every time you say I am sorry.
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 3: You demonstrate maturity, you demonstrate responsibility, and you bring people
• 1:36:55
  to a point where they remember again that you are human.
• 1:36:59
  I am sorry means I can be better than I
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  was yesterday. Number three, God bless you. Write it down, Please,
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  God bless you. These are miracle expressions that I have
• 1:37:18
  lived within my own life, and I can tell you
• 1:37:21
  the wonder they have worked in my life.
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 2: God bless you. You know what it means to say,
• 1:37:28
  God bless you. It means I use the authority that
• 1:37:31
  I have as a believer to declare.
• 1:37:33
  Speaker 3: Onto you that you are empowered to advance or empowered
• 1:37:37
  to succeed. Now the last word has been abused, or
• 1:37:41
  the last expression. Nevertheless, we are believers. It is a
• 1:37:45
  very powerful one. It's called I love you. Unfortunately, our
• 1:37:53
  world has polluted, destroyed, and whatever it is. If you
• 1:37:58
  tell somebody I love you, the bet you'll ask you
• 1:38:00
  later we're you serious? When you are saying something that
• 1:38:03
  is supposed to be I won't ask you to.
• 1:38:14
  Speaker 2: Use that one now. But for the purpose of this discussion,
• 1:38:23
  the first three well to the pure. All things are pure.
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 3: Let's do it quickly. Has our first expression please, So
• 1:38:39
  next time you want someone to stand up, don't just
• 1:38:41
  say stand up. You pick a caller. I say, call me,
• 1:38:43
  call me, call me. You will lose your destiny helper forever.
• 1:38:48
  Please can you call me back?
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 2: Someone? Say please? Learn it manners that make for victory.
• 1:38:53
  Say please.
• 1:38:55
  Speaker 3: Number two, say I am sorry. Your neighbor has been
• 1:38:59
  waiting for you to tell him, so say it. Finally,
• 1:39:01
  say I am sorry. We quarreled this morning, but that's
• 1:39:06
  all right.
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 2: I am sorry.
• 1:39:08
  Speaker 3: Number three say God bless you. And if you love
• 1:39:12
  Jesus and you believe your heart is pure, say I
• 1:39:14
  love you.
• 1:39:18
  Speaker 2: Now. Hear me.
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 3: The assignment I'm giving you in the next two minutes,
• 1:39:23
  I want you to walk to someone by your left hand,
• 1:39:26
  right anywhere, find someone and tell him God bless you.
• 1:39:30
  Tell someone I am sorry. Tell someone please. You shouldn't
• 1:39:37
  be standing. Don't come to me, but go to someone.
• 1:39:41
  Speaker 2: Bless them. Build strategic relationships.
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 3: I'm counting down now, Tan nine by one, you should
• 1:40:03
  be back to your seat eight.
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 2: Whether you know them or not, tell them. I value you.
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 3: God bless you. Thank you for being a child of God.
• 1:40:13
  Regardless of our differences. I decree and declare that you
• 1:40:18
  are a child of God. I pleas value on you.
• 1:40:22
  Any day you see me, know that this is one
• 1:40:25
  who loves you. Sincerely, rush back to your seat. Now
• 1:40:35
  give Jesus a big shout of praise. Allelujah. Hold your
• 1:40:46
  hands together. I'm rapping up. Thank you for your patience.
• 1:40:49
  Speaker 2: I need you, you need me. We're all a part
• 1:40:58
  of Gods by stun with me. Agree with me. We
• 1:41:07
  roll apart of God's body. It is He's with that.
• 1:41:15
  Speaker 3: Every need be sublig You want part time to me.
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 2: I need you to sabab. I prayed for you. You
• 1:41:32
  prayed for me. I love you. I need you to sabb.
• 1:41:40
  I won't harm you reports from my life. I love you.
• 1:41:47
  I need you to lift your hands together. It is
• 1:41:52
  He's with that. Every need be sublige you Ah what
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  me honey, In the name of Jesus Christ, please lift
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  your hands. Father.
• 1:42:19
  Speaker 3: I have brought your word to your precious people. I
• 1:42:23
  believe in their lives and their destinies. I truly do, Lord.
• 1:42:27
  I know that among these people who are standing before
• 1:42:30
  you are champions, history makers, mighty men in the making.
• 1:42:39
  I have taught them of God on the power and
• 1:42:41
  the value of destiny relationships. My prayer for you, therefore
• 1:42:47
  is that My God, who is also your God, will
• 1:42:50
  bring destiny relationships to your life. That as you live
• 1:42:56
  by these principles you have learned in that addition to
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  this miracle expressions I just gave you, May they open
• 1:43:04
  strange doors for you. May they move you forward in
• 1:43:08
  the name of Jesus. For in Jesus name I pray
• 1:43:12
  so for the remaining part of this conference, make sure
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  you use this forwards.
• 1:43:18
  Speaker 2: Before I go back to my city, you will shout
• 1:43:20
  for of.
• 1:43:21
  Speaker 3: Them number one, number two, number three, finally number four.
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  Speaker 2: I love you to God, bless you.