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Alana Noel on Why Men Have No Standards, Divorce After 16 Year Marriage & How Women Really Judge Men · The Baller Alert Show

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  Speaker 1: Hey, what's up. It's your girl Alana Noel and I
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  Speaker 4: Alta the well. First time on the.
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  Speaker 1: Show, Yeah, yeaheah, and I got a story to tell story.
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  Speaker 3: How you doing long time?
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  Speaker 1: It's been a long time.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: You came up to the station to hung out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and we was like, man, you know what you should
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  Speaker 3: come on ball Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: We was having a great converse station. I hope that
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  Speaker 4: doesn't change on camera.
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  Speaker 3: When the lights is first of almost how.
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  Speaker 1: You doing I'm doing good. I'm like, I mean life
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  Speaker 1: is life.
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  Speaker 3: You know a lot of people don't know that you're
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  Speaker 3: actually from Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely who doesn't know that?
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  Speaker 3: Well, you know our audience is going to be like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: who is this? She fel to act?
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  Speaker 4: What part of Atlanta?
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  Speaker 1: Literally like from Casca roll Okay, like west side periodide.
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  Speaker 4: They do a lot of gentrification on the west Side.
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  Speaker 1: Now I feel like heavywhere Brolly.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm just saying like, now, now the west side
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  Speaker 4: is still the west Side because you will be driving
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  Speaker 4: through there and you know.
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  Speaker 3: It's certain parts that they ain't even gonna let you
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  Speaker 3: gentr gentrific icate? Is that a way? Ger ginger k
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  Speaker 3: I just made that word out my bad.
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  Speaker 4: I see its townhouses on Boutacress roll now, bruh. I
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  Speaker 4: was like, whoa you know you.
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  Speaker 3: Gentrification is so weird because you'll see like even over
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  Speaker 3: here by the radio station were on the upper west side.
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  Speaker 3: Ye Bankhead is right down the street, I know, and
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  Speaker 3: you will literally see some three hundred thousand dollars town
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  Speaker 3: homes two blocks from the track listen.
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  Speaker 1: I live off of Camp Creek Washington Road is right
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  Speaker 1: around the corner, and I see white people.
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  Speaker 3: Walking their dog taking the job, and then you can go.
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  Speaker 1: Then you pick up okay, like honey, you can get
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  Speaker 1: you a pack.
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  Speaker 4: They know what's going on. They know they could get
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  Speaker 4: those houses for for affordable price, and in the next
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  Speaker 4: five years their whole neighborhood is gonna change.
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  Speaker 3: So I want to I want to go into our
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  Speaker 3: first part of our conversation. So we was talking off
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  Speaker 3: camp and I wanted to bring it on camera, and
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  Speaker 3: this is gonna be a nice little clip with a
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  Speaker 3: little segment of the show. I was saying, I hate
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  Speaker 3: being friends with a couple. Being friends with a couple
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  Speaker 3: is headed for disaster, even if they're married to me.
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  Speaker 3: When you friends with both of them, it's hard to
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  Speaker 3: stay neutral.
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  Speaker 4: That's why you don't be friends with couples.
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  Speaker 3: I'd rather be friends with one other other.
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  Speaker 1: Nah. I feel like it's cool being friends with the
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  Speaker 1: couple collectively.
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  Speaker 3: Like yeah, collectively when you're saying, okay, guys, let's sit
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  Speaker 3: down and talk about it. But sometimes both people are
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  Speaker 3: venting to you. I don't want to hear we'll see
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I guess, well.
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  Speaker 4: What happens when somebody gets divorced, if somebody breaks up, like,
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  Speaker 4: how how do you do that relationship? Then?
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  Speaker 3: Because I do, I say, who are my friends with?
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  Speaker 1: More?
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  Speaker 4: Because I'm gonna hang out with you than hang out
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  Speaker 4: with you you move on or you move on.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm friends with you primary and the secondary. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: it's a primary and the secondary. It's not.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna give it. I'm not gonna get too
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  Speaker 3: close to the secondary though, Oh my god, I'm not.
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  Speaker 3: Whoever my friend is, I'm gonna be your friend and
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna have your back. That's literally a friend's job.
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  Speaker 1: I feel that I.
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  Speaker 4: Don't want to be a part of time. But but
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  Speaker 4: a friend is also keeping friends accountable.
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  Speaker 3: That's cool, That's what I'm saying. But that's also having
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  Speaker 3: your back, is keeping holding let.
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  Speaker 1: Your friend know you missing, but still that's still your friend.
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  Speaker 3: There you go.
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  Speaker 1: I agree with it.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to do to that too, and y'all, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I don't.
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  Speaker 4: Want people to break Somebody called me and then the
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  Speaker 4: other person called me, and then it's two sides.
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  Speaker 3: What if you tell me not to say something, I'm
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  Speaker 3: not gonna say nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Why would you say something.
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  Speaker 3: Because I'm friends with the other person. Check this out.
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  Speaker 3: BT is one of my best friends. If I see
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  Speaker 3: his girl doing something that she's supposed to do, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Telling But but but is he the primary or is
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  Speaker 1: she the primary?
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  Speaker 4: We have No, he's primary.
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  Speaker 3: Ain't no other there's no other areas.
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  Speaker 1: So but that's what I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Trying to tell you. I don't want to be friends
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  Speaker 3: with both.
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  Speaker 1: Ya because y'all got to bro code here. Let's be clearer, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: Like y'all, I got sister cold too, though.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, but I'm just saying, at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 1: if that was your sister and she married him, and.
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  Speaker 3: You and I got cool with him, you're still still
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  Speaker 3: my friend.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna tell her.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's gonna be. That's gonna be.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna tell her like.
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  Speaker 3: If he's out, Like if my sister, Okay, let me
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  Speaker 3: put let me just create the scenario and the guy's
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  Speaker 3: gonna get mad at me. If my sister is married
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  Speaker 3: to a guy and he's out cheating, Yeah, I'm.
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  Speaker 4: Telling my sister, but you should.
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling my sister.
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  Speaker 4: But in about think he's talking about like his blood sister.
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  Speaker 1: But even I don't even think that. I think that
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  Speaker 1: suppose it was a college friend, that it is just
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  Speaker 1: like that's y'all been for for fifteen years, and it's
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  Speaker 1: just like, yeah, and you just made him two years ago.
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  Speaker 3: The only girl I would do that with is su Solo.
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  Speaker 3: That's my doubt. If Su Solo is dating somebody and
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  Speaker 3: I see, I'm like, says outside of that.
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  Speaker 4: My mom, my business, you know what, I'm on my business.
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  Speaker 4: I actually had a female friend.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say anything.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say nothing. I had a female friend
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  Speaker 4: who I knew her boyfriend and I knew her, but
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  Speaker 4: I knew he was out cheating because I will see
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  Speaker 4: him out all the time, and I never said anything.
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  Speaker 4: And when they broke up, it was kind of one
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  Speaker 4: of those situations to where she was like, I knew,
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  Speaker 4: you knew he was cheating on me and you never
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  Speaker 4: said anything, And I was like, that's not my business. No.
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  Speaker 1: I feel the same way now, like I've been in
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  Speaker 1: a similar situation as well, and this was with like family,
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  Speaker 1: to where I ended up telling family, you know that
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  Speaker 1: her person was outside doing things and it didn't It
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  Speaker 1: just didn't work out. In my favorite it just ended
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  Speaker 1: up being a lot of drama, a lot of kis.
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  Speaker 1: She still stayed with them. I was in fear for
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  Speaker 1: my life.
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  Speaker 4: And that's why I stay out of here business because
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  Speaker 4: when you get up people business, you don't know what
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  Speaker 4: two people have going on. Maybe somebody knows that that
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  Speaker 4: person is cheating on them, but they don't say nothing
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  Speaker 4: because they might not care as much as you care.
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  Speaker 1: But you know what, it ended up being a bag
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  Speaker 1: because after that, the said person ended up just saying,
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  Speaker 1: let me just slide you.
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  Speaker 4: Some money so you so you can shut your ass up.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, but.
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  Speaker 1: That worked out because I was literally a fear for
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  Speaker 1: my life. When I saw the person, I was just like, uh,
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know how this is gonna go. They
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  Speaker 1: offered me money, so I was like, it.
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  Speaker 3: Was that that offered you money.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take money and I'm gonna you.
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  Speaker 3: Took the money not to say something.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I said something and it didn't okay.
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  Speaker 4: But that person should have just gave the bag to
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  Speaker 4: the other person that they cheat. No, no, you know,
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  Speaker 4: this is this.
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  Speaker 1: Is this is this is this is a public situation.
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  Speaker 4: Clubs. It was somebody famous, but it was a public
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  Speaker 4: public relationships.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, it's not a public I'm just saying that it
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  Speaker 1: was public, meaning that other peop in public. So if
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  Speaker 1: you in the circle in Atlanta, you.
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  Speaker 4: Know, which leads me to say public relationships are difficult too.
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  Speaker 4: You know, when you publicly date somebody and you guys
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  Speaker 4: are both very very popular, that could be difficult too.
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  Speaker 4: I think that's really hard for a lot of people.
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  Speaker 4: I think that's why I think the best relationships are
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  Speaker 4: private relationships.
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  Speaker 1: In my in my opinion, private is crazy.
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  Speaker 4: No, no, not secret. Private. But I'm just saying like,
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  Speaker 4: I feel like, once you give me the internet too
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  Speaker 4: much information.
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  Speaker 3: Whatever the other.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like once you give, I feel like once you give,
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  Speaker 4: once you give the word an opinion on your relationship,
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  Speaker 4: especially when both people are you know, quote unquote popular
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  Speaker 4: or celebrities or whatever, I feel like it's really hard.
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  Speaker 4: And I feel like that's why we don't see a
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  Speaker 4: lot of public relationships work out the way that we
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  Speaker 4: think that it's working out.
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  Speaker 1: I think that we don't see those relationships working out
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  Speaker 1: because just statistically, relationships don't be working out.
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  Speaker 3: There you go, I'm going to go off of I
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  Speaker 3: don't think I think it should be whatever you guys
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  Speaker 3: agree on together, whether you guys are cool with posting
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  Speaker 3: or cool if not posting, or I don't like the
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  Speaker 3: secret relationships, Yeah that is weird.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be with a person doing this
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  Speaker 1: whole big thing and I'm just like not included in
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  Speaker 1: their Instagram life. They just don't because.
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  Speaker 3: These days social media is a part of who we are.
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  Speaker 3: I think when the beginning of it, it was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: how do I navi through this? Now I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 3: put all my my my personal stuff on here. But
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  Speaker 3: now it's almost like it's included. It's in the framework
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  Speaker 3: of who people are. Now you can literally find it.
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  Speaker 4: It's like an identity. Whatever you create on social media
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  Speaker 4: is your identity, not yours.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because you said you want a secret No, I've.
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  Speaker 4: Never said I said private relation. I don't believe in
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  Speaker 4: posting everything you do, Like, why I gotta be at
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  Speaker 4: home and be like, I gotta post it. I'm at home,
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  Speaker 4: I gotta post some in the car and away to work.
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  Speaker 3: He talking about posting your significant other.
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  Speaker 4: I'm on vacation. I gotta post a scheme, lobster, I
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  Speaker 4: gotta post some scheme.
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  Speaker 1: Hand you don't post.
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  Speaker 4: No, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm saying, you like, post your lady.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I also think that everything isn't meant to
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  Speaker 4: be posted, so I don't that's a good way to think,
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  Speaker 4: I guess, but I don't think that way horrible.
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  Speaker 3: Do you think it's horrible?
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  Speaker 4: So you want to god to post you all day
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  Speaker 4: on their social media? No, I want to post my
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  Speaker 4: lady though, but like I want to post it, like
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  Speaker 4: if we go out, let's take a pic.
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  Speaker 3: Well, let's take a pic, and there's nothing.
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  Speaker 4: Wrong with it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, yeah, my strange husband, yeah, he was
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  Speaker 1: very like you know, post and that like that does
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  Speaker 1: like kind of not only does it validate kind of
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  Speaker 1: a relationship, it kind of lets other people know that, hey,
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  Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship, I'm married. But then it just
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  Speaker 1: also I just feel like, I don't know, it's a
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  Speaker 1: nice gesture. Yeah, it's just it's no, honestly, I don't care.
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  Speaker 3: Some people don't care.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna just be real without like just unfiltered elevates
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  Speaker 1: a brand, honestly, like what like how like honestly especially
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  Speaker 1: I mean if both of you are attractive, like why
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't you post this person unless you are afraid of
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  Speaker 1: having your person took. Now, if you're insecure about that,
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  Speaker 1: then that's another conversation.
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  Speaker 3: And your persons gonna get took if they get posted
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  Speaker 3: or not.
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  Speaker 4: Now now listen, now, now you know this is gonna
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  Speaker 4: clip because you just said that posting yourself and your
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  Speaker 4: significant other on social media is validation for the relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, to a certain degree. Yes, like it it is
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  Speaker 1: it it it does. It is a certain point. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not saying it's the encompassing validation, but it does validate
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  Speaker 1: certain things. Yes, because social media is a gateway. Let's
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  Speaker 1: be clear, Me and my strange husband met on Facebook
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  Speaker 1: before before there was an Instagram. Okay, so I'm just
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  Speaker 1: literally being one hundred one undone. We met on Facebook,
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  Speaker 1: so yeah, so when we when we got Instagram and
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  Speaker 1: all of these things, like we intertwine our you know,
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  Speaker 1: relationship or accounts, all of these things because we realize, hey,
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  Speaker 1: people are using social media to date. So it's like,
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  Speaker 1: if you're using social media to date, why would you
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  Speaker 1: not want somebody to know if you have a life partner,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, unless you're for whatever reason that.
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  Speaker 4: Leads to another question I have, So, Roy, you're married,
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  Speaker 4: you have any strange a strange relationship?
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  Speaker 1: Sixteen years?
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  Speaker 4: Sixteen years? Wow, do you think it's okay to have
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  Speaker 4: a separate account outside of having a joint account.
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  Speaker 3: To my bank account?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, I got I got my own account. My
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  Speaker 4: wife has her own account, and then we got account together.
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  Speaker 4: Then we also have a savings together. But how do
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  Speaker 4: y'all pick and choose what to use with the money
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  Speaker 4: that's in y'all joint account?
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  Speaker 3: You have, Well, we have meetings my wife's well, I
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  Speaker 3: got a cheat called my wife's and accountants. We have
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  Speaker 3: actual financial meetings, gotcha. Every quarter we meet. That's all
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  Speaker 3: she do though, that's literally her. God, you know what
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying. We talk about taxes, we talk about everything, gotcha.
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  Speaker 3: But just like, well, let me just be honest, though,
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  Speaker 3: just like we have at work, we have meeting every week.
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  Speaker 3: You should not schedule at a meeting. You should do
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  Speaker 3: something where the person that you are in love with,
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  Speaker 3: y'all should have or sit down and have a conversation
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  Speaker 3: about things that make you tick, things that don't make
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  Speaker 3: you happy, things that you know get on your nerves.
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  Speaker 3: Like you should have these conversations like often every couple
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  Speaker 3: of months, just to keep everything, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: And then one thing shout out to Jez. I saw
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  Speaker 3: that he takes himself out on a date himself. I
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  Speaker 3: feel like on some man shit, you gotta do something yourself.
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  Speaker 3: My solitude is in my man cave. In my career,
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  Speaker 3: I have a very nice set up. I go down there,
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  Speaker 3: everybody's sleep, I make sure everybody's sleep. Then I get
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: up and I go down to my man cave and
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  Speaker 3: I just debrief. If you don't, this is at like
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  Speaker 3: eleven pm. Everyone's sleep.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 3: Again, my wife's inn account, so she's up six seven
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  Speaker 3: in the morning. I take the kids school and all that.
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  Speaker 3: So but everyone's sleep at like nine thirty, ten o'clock,
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  Speaker 3: after everybody sleep. If I'm not deep sleep, I just
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  Speaker 3: get up. I'll go downstairs and I just do some shit.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. That's what I do.
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  Speaker 4: So what do you what do you? How do you
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  Speaker 4: feel about having a joint account and what goes on
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  Speaker 4: with the account.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't want to answer this question however, but yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: know we've always had like maintained separate accounts and a
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  Speaker 1: joint account. However, there is transparency too to where you know,
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  Speaker 1: I know what's going on in that account, and you
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  Speaker 1: know he knows what's going on in my account as well.
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  Speaker 1: So it's not like it's anything hidden or anything. It's
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  Speaker 1: just that Yeah, yeah, I think that. I think that
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  Speaker 1: is important, especially me being a woman, like financial freedom
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  Speaker 1: and being able to walk away when it's time to
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  Speaker 1: walk away. It's like, that's very important to me.
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  Speaker 4: So why do you want to answer it?
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  Speaker 1: Why didn't I want to answer it?
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  Speaker 4: It seems like it's it's more to the to the
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  Speaker 4: the story of of having that.
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  Speaker 1: That politically correct.
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  Speaker 4: That was way too politically correct. I mean no, because
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  Speaker 4: I mean, what's the pros and cons of having a
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  Speaker 4: joint account when you married?
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  Speaker 1: I don't like, honestly, he makes money and I just
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  Speaker 1: paid the bills like like not like it's structural not
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I just I'm the
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  Speaker 1: house manager, so I just handle everything. So I just hey, ABC,
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  Speaker 1: and the third has got to get paid whatever whatever.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: So it's not like a, hm, oh my god, you're
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to be politically correct.
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: Because we can take off this stuff. You can say
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: whatever you want to say, and you can tell us
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: the stuff to take out.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying because I'm just I just don't
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: want to say anything that's gonna be.
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: I just feel like offensive.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: I don't want to say anything it's gonna be like
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: polittally in to him or anything.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: Let me help, Okay. I feel like when you are
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: in a relationship and it's really serious, you should have
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: these very serious conversations financial who's better at this, who's
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: better at that? Who's better at One time I forgot
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: to pay the the light bill and the lights went off.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: My wife was hot, so she was like, babe, you
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: need me to do this? Or I was like, NA,
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: just put it on auto pay. So I just put
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: it on auto pay. Like it's literally communicating with your
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: best friend. The person that you are in a relationship
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: with should.
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: Be some short some sort of a friend or best Yeah,
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: half of them.
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: Because I forget, I'll forget.
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: I do not believe in auto pay.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, So you.
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: Manually pay your bill manually?
• 17:45
  Speaker 4: Manually. I manually pay all my bills.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: And many bills. You got some sounds like you got
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: a lie.
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: I have a lot, but one by one, Yeah, every
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: month I have a checklist. I don't got time to
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: do that. There's phone, yeah, somebody notes. So every month
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: I go over my checklist of all my bills that
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: need to be paid. But what I was gonna say,
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: the only bill that I do have on auto pay
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: is all my insurance.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: Some of them is required to be auto pay too.
• 18:14
  Speaker 4: No, I don't know. I don't know what building come out. Man.
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: I just got into it with a company because they
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: was trying to make me sign a for auto pay
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: and say that was required. And I said, listen, I'm
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: gonna tell you right now, I'm not signing a for
• 18:28
  Speaker 4: auto pay. If you wanna make me sign a fouto pay,
• 18:31
  Speaker 4: I'm anna sign up, delete, order a new card, and
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: we're gonna have to figure it out. I don't believe
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: in auto pay.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: And you can put it.
• 18:41
  Speaker 4: I'm not about to look at.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: What can we say on here? Okay, okay, okay, So
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: you're damn block your the same CASHP.
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: Car and oh I'm just gonna order a whole new one.
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: No for sure, but I do not believe in auto pay.
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: I believe in the month knock out all your bills.
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: If you can knock out all your bills, so the
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: rest of the month, you know all.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: The climates.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: People, okay, so let me let me okay, so let
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: me put it like this. Then what I used to do,
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: what I used to do? No, I'm blessed. But what
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: I what I used to do is when I was
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: living paycheck to paycheck. Every paycheck, I would take out
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: majority of my check and pay as many bills as
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: I possibly can, and then I would just budget that
• 19:30
  Speaker 4: little money that I had left. But people do the
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: other way around. People go fuck the money off and
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: then worry about the bills.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: Those are called priorities. And I feel like you know,
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: which leads me to the relationship part of the question
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: that you initially asked. Most people don't get past the
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: sexual in the in the attraction, and we deal with
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: the bullshit because it looks good to be together. And
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: sometimes that's not ideal in any relationship. Because because we
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: look good together and we have this amazing chemistry, we
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: negate how is this person as a parent? Are they
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: good with money? If I get a big start losing
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: and I get into a situation financially, can I depend
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: on you? We don't have these conversations when we meet,
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: because it's slick, it's it's it's it's automatically physical attraction.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: We don't. But but be clear, the millionaires and the
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: billionaires of the world are married, and there is that
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: is tied.
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: They're not worried about bills.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying, but they they've grown that because
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: working together. You know what I'm saying exactly what you're
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: talking about.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: You know, Okay, I got you got most of those jobs.
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: Who have side holes though what you want me to do,
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: I'm just saying. I'm just I'm just clarify.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Most of them is ugly and they never had no
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: hoes begin with. There just not getting the money and
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: what do you like?
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: Really, this is always interesting to me when we see
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: like a lot of celebrities and then you know when
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: they when they're dating like athletes and stuff like that,
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: and people are surprised that the athletes.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: Ain't kept I was surprised Tiger Woods had holes. I
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: never thought what come out, time out, time out, bro
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: I didn't. I never thought. I just I saw the
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: man with his family and he was winning all these
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: golf tournaments.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: Would keep in mind, You're right, I just never community.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: But the white community.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: I never thought Tiger had hose.
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: You never thought when he got caught up myself, oh
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: eleven to worry you. You were an athlete, right, wait,
• 21:54
  Speaker 4: you were an athlete right.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: For a very small time in my career.
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: I played, I played spress, I played sports too.
• 22:03
  Speaker 5: The the the ugliest most basketball, football track, the ugliest
• 22:11
  Speaker 5: Niggers had all the holes based on the talent of
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: an athlete, because the trajectory.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: It's like, but but that's how the white girls get them,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: you know, early, that's what we're looking at, you know,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: certain people like college athletes and stuff like that.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: I got got. I saw tager Wood and said that, man,
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: he's a nice guy.
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: I thought, I mean, listen, I do nothing. But the
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: whole world was thinking the same way that. It was like,
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: oh damn, I thought he was a nice guy. Not
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: saying that if you got hols, you're not a nice person.
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: But you just you know, you got those.
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: I can't deal with all that, bro, I don't know.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: He seems like he does seem like.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: My wife Denis is multiple women in one.
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: But some men want multiple women. They their bank account.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: I got you, I know, I got you. I don't
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: have time to deal with that. She got a lot.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: She got My wife is a lot to deal with.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: So it depends on your age too, and where you.
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: Are a guy, the age the woman, how.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: Soon you coming into this money.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: It's like how long you But I will say, she's
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: truly my best friend. But that's I don't want I
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: don't want that embarrassed her. I don't want to hurt
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: her feelings. I really think that way though. But you
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: think it's okay if a man has a lot of money.
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: If if you were like dating a new guy and
• 23:39
  Speaker 4: he wanted to.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Have yeah, if I was, if I was dating Jeff Bezos,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: come on, bring them, bring them all.
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: So he'll get he'll get a past.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: But Jeff Bezos. But it's like.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: I thought it was BeOS.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: Whatever, continue, I just want to correct you just in
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: case you know it's Bezos.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: Is it not Bezos? Jeff Pizzo? Okay, can we look
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: this up.
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: It's Jeff Bezos Bezos.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: No, it's not.
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: Okay, let's let's let's continue.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: In my marriage. Like honestly, we never had an infidelity
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: issue like best friends. Like what R was just saying,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: like it was a it was a great dynamic as
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: far as that goes. But yeah, like to me as
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: far like if now.
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: Jeff Bezos Bezos, that's what I said.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: I did, says, well, Bezos come whatever you got. But no, yeah,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: that's a different level. So yeah, that's different. I feel
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: like I feel like there are tears. I feel like
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: women are willing to accept certain things from certain tiers
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: of men. Likely realistic.
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: That's a good topic. So you said, let's repeat that,
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: willing to accept certain things from different tiers of men.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, how you think like different people have all these
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: baby mamas and you know what I'm saying, all it
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: is like because it's like.
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: You know, if it's.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: It's one off of Campbellton, you know what I'm saying,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Like they might not want to a certain type of
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: woman might not want to hook up with that man
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: and approcreate with him.
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: Got it?
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: Even though it happens every.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: Day and so and at the end of the day,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: but it ends up they end up playing themselves because
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: you know, it just doesn't typically work out financially to
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: make sense.
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: Let me ask you a question, because you're a woman,
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: how do you think men select their women?
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: I think you know, physical attraction is first I think
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: that second and the third and then maybe the fourth
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: they'll get to know your personality, your insuluk, your you
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: know whatever. But like, honestly, my thought is physical attraction
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: is primary for sure, like I said, other than that,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: your personality is gonna, you know, help.
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: So you don't think any You don't think like there
• 26:36
  Speaker 4: are some men that look, look at what a woman
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: actually does for work or career?
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: Are we talking about just consider high valuemen or low
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: value in what are we talking about?
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: Like, could be any of that?
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Well that that's a difference because if you're talking about
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: somebody that you know is working for East Point Sanitation,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: then yeah, But then if you're talking about somebody that
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: is making seven figures a year, then.
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: You know he gonna care.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: He's not gonna care at all. He don't care. He'll
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: pick her up from the from the dumpster, he'll pick
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: her up from wherever. So I don't think it really matters,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: do y'all?
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: Well?
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: I mean, I know it matters to you because you're like,
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: you know, actually intelligent, But like I feel like most men,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: just speaking about like the general population, I don't feel
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: like most men are like really picking their women or
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: selecting their women based off of their education.
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: Level or their I find myself I like to have
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: to be stimulated by my lady so mentally, so like
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: I never really took anyone serious that I didn't become
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: friends and we didn't have intelligent conversations.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: We can't have an intelligent conversation.
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: It's kind of like.
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: Because I don't talk, but I do talk. I talk
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: a lot if we can, if we have a lot
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: in common, and I like to have really thoughtful conversations
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: with someone that I want to share my space with romantically,
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: if I'm romantically involved with you, I really want to
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: talk to you about shit. If I'm romantically involved with
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: you and you're kind of not smart, I don't care
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: how fine you are. Kind of not smart, just I
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: don't care how fine you are, we can't have a stimulated,
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: stimulated conversation.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: Okay, so listen. I feel like in every situation that
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: I know of couples, yeah, the woman honestly is realistically.
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: Like smarter than the guys.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: She's leading the bag. So it's like, okay, the man
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: is the head of the household, she's a nick Okay,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: So it's like I don't know any women that is
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: kind of not smart.
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: Is like, listen, there are a lot of women that's
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: not smart. Saying that this is probably not in the
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: pool of people that you know, which is good st
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: on the internet every day. The people that it's not.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Intelligent, Well, yeah, I see people on the internet that
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: are not intelligent. But I'm just saying as far as
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: who I know, and that's actually.
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: In a no.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: If we're talking but if you're in a successful relationship,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. I got single friends that's you know,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: doing whatever whatever. But I'm saying I have all my
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: friends that are in relationships. It's like no.
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: Now, what I will say is if we're talking about
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: a woman's brain in a man's brain, you guys have
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: to deal with way too much more intellectual things, hormones,
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: emotions in one day that we can have in a month.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: So that's why it's important. If you see, like the
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: biggest men in the world, there's always a woman that
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: he finds his counsel in period. He's got to have
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: a very smart, intelligen woman by his side or nearby.
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: It could be his mom and sister, it could be
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: as romantically person, it could be whoever insistent it's going
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: to be a woman somewhere, because I feel like you
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: guys pay attention to a lot more small details than
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: we than we do. You know what I'm saying, You
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: guys are a lot more intelligent when it comes to
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: the details of something to agree.
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: Now, is there a red flag if a if a
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: woman or a man is a certain age and they're single.
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: That's a good ass question.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: No, because.
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: No, what do you think about?
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: What do you think about women who basically on the market?
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: So oh so you're freshly on the market.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Strange?
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: Do you mind?
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: Do you mind sharing your age?
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: You don't have to.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: No, I don't mind because I always it like look
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: around now, No, I'm thirty nine, I'll forty in September.
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: So hey, hey the big fou. Oh now, would you
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: ever date like a twenty two year old man?
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: No?
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: No, waians are allowed me and to me is.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: Not twenty two? Twenty two is crazy? My son?
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: Damn? Yeah?
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: I mean, hey, Drea did it?
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: Drea? Did it?
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: You just blew me away at the table like you
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: said the basketball guy.
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: The same age as her son, his his his money,
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: his money different though.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: So that's that money.
• 31:33
  Speaker 6: Make that money make you become any So we have
• 31:38
  Speaker 6: to talk about that, that money make you look past
• 31:44
  Speaker 6: the age.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: I'm just we had we had to talk.
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: But see, your situation is different because if you well,
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: when you meet somebody new, you're going to be able
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: to say, hey, I was in a marriage for you know,
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: sixteen years and that's why I'm single. I'm talking about
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: the people that's just not mayriored. Yeah, like you would
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: you look at that as a red flag.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: I mean to me, I feel like it's less of
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: a red flag for a man because men mature later.
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say like I'm not even I'm not even
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: gonna say it's a red flag for my ladies because
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: I got you know, any your sister's friends, family.
• 32:30
  Speaker 4: All of that.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: That's you know that are still single and it's just
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: literally because honestly, they just invested time. It's too much
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: time instead of wrong you know people, But that's still
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: it's like you gotta you gotta know and you know,
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: using your discernment to pick and choose. So I do
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: feel like that's important, but I also feel like, hey,
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: it ain't been a problem for me because this marriage
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: number two in case you ain't.
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: No, this is your second marriage. Oh yeah, do you
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: plan on get married ever again? So you're gonna be
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: like j Lo you gonna have.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna be collected, Eli Taylor, you.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: Ever you ever had a man ever? Signed? You don't
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: want to do a prentup? So you get half? All right?
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: So let me ask you a question. I got one
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: more question.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: You gotta realize I've been married for the past eighteen years.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: So we got married in our early twenty well I
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: was early twenty. No, it was nothing to we we
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: everything we built we built together.
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: Gotcha? Gotcha?
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: Okay, last question? Do you think.
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: Now that more women, I want to say majority of
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: women all work high level jobs?
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: Do you feel like that comes with a a little
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: bit more of a higher because you know, what is
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: it called standards? Do you think that women's all standards
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: are a lot higher now because they make more money?
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: There are a lot of women executives, Like I know,
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: way more women executives now than men.
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: Slick in my proximity, I have a lot more female
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: bosses than male bosses in my proximity.
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, especially in the record industry. It's a lot
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: of women executives at the time. So my question to
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: you is, I know that also comes with standards. Do
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: you feel that that.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like to a certain degree, yes, But
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: then honestly, like women are like, honestly, women are more
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: willing to lower their standards, you think, so, yes, really absolutely, do.
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: You think women will lower the standards more than a
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: man will lower his standards?
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: Yes, okay, absolutely, like a woman will. Because it's I mean,
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: first of all, we all number y'all.
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: This is true, naturally true on the planet when we're in.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: Atlanta, like that's that's another thing. And then it's like, yeah,
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: it's like to find a man to you know, actually
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: be by your side. You know, you drop him off
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: the work whatever.
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: Whatever you gotta do, drop him off the work is crazy.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, but women are more willing to lower
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: their standards than I feel like men are. I mean,
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: I feel like men don't really have sanders. I mean,
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: I mean, hey, y'all.
• 35:35
  Speaker 4: Let me know, because I agree most men have no standards.
• 35:40
  Speaker 4: We matter how much money they have. We should have
• 35:42
  Speaker 4: money they don't.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: You should work on that as a special but it's.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: Like a little fatty You're cute, You're good, you good
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: to go.
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: I'm applying standards. Since I met my wife, I didn't
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: understand what standards were. Exhibit this is a high value.
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: This is a high value, dumming. This is something that
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: I really like. I'm not saying anyone that I dated
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: before it is not high value. They just want high
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: value to me, Oh what, man, cut that out? You
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: go ahead and cut that out. Then cut that part out, tc,
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: just cut that whole part out.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: I would be like sending you, like, all your stuff
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: to the blogs. I'll be sending all tapes and videos
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: and everything.
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: Luckily, there's nothing like that on me. I'm pretty goddamn squeaky.
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: Nah got nothing. Ship the only thing I got older.
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: I rs a couple, you know, a couple, a couple
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: of bands. That's it gonna find remember number.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: Don't let them come for you. You don't want ire
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: Is company.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Now I'm move very low on the list.
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: They're gonna be worse than the X.
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: I ain't got no pvps or none of that, so
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: I'm good anyway.
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: But it is it is a lot.
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: Don't have standards. We have them, but they're shallow. I think,
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: I think, I think, I think I think men shallow.
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: Men have no standards. Great sex, she's fine, she can
• 37:11
  Speaker 4: hold me down in the case of ship fuck up.
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: Hey man, make sure I get that plate. Goddamn you
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying.
• 37:17
  Speaker 4: Make sure that be warm. You feel me.
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: Our list is like maybe five six things, not.
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: Even you know what I'm saying. Most most niggas is
• 37:27
  Speaker 4: probably like three three. Most niggas probably got three. She
• 37:31
  Speaker 4: smelled good, she look good, and she got a fatty.
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: Literally, that's the problem, fellas.
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: Fellas, that's our problem. We gotta hire, we gotta make
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: our standards.
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: These these niggas ain't gonna change, absolutely not.
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: Can we got can we think? Can we have two?
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: We have two versions of us, I think, without saying
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: you have two versions of us as well well. Our
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: versions of us don't think correctly.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: Sometimes ours don't either.
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: That's why you guys have higher hot way higher standards.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: I mean you say that, But then it depends, Like
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: I said, that depends on age.
• 38:14
  Speaker 4: I feel like it depends depends on how selsful a
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: woman is. The more successful a woman becomes, the harder
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: standards become. Most men the more successful they become, the
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: lord standards that they have. Damn, damn, if you really
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: think about it, I'm being honest. If you really think
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: about the lower of certain men who are highly successful,
• 38:36
  Speaker 4: and you like, what are you doing with that?
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: I don't think our standards of lord. We just don't
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: care or that.
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: Okay, most most men, the more successful they become.
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: The lord standards they have, responsible and just yeah, damn,
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: that's for you. Fuck me up.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: No, that's deep.
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: You see what a woman, when a woman got her back,
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: she'd be like, you gotta.
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: Have this, this, this, this, this, because you ain't gonna
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: thump my ship up there you go.
• 39:01
  Speaker 4: I won't think that way. He won't think that way.
• 39:06
  Speaker 4: I ain't gonna care. Hey, fellas, we got we gotta
• 39:08
  Speaker 4: start thinking.
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: My camera and fellas, fellas, we were making our standards higher.
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: We we we we we We're not doing that no more.
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: Bro.
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: We gotta start thinking about us and making the bar high.
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: That's not gonna happen. That's why women, That's why women
• 39:29
  Speaker 4: are steady financially successfully surpassing men. You are starting to
• 39:35
  Speaker 4: see more female bosses. I do night life. I see
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: women buying their own tables.
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: Hey, wait time out, Let's make this a clip that
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: makes the theme.
• 39:46
  Speaker 4: Have you got get these niggas ran out of money?
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: Guys? If you guys have been going out, listen, if
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: you guys been going out the last six months. In
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: the last six months, I've seen more female oriented sections,
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: females pain then i've seen guys.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: Why why.
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: I just feel like it's more female bosses now women
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: with the bag.
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: But I think that women always had the bag. I
• 40:14
  Speaker 4: just think now they gotta spend it. Fact, will Young
• 40:16
  Speaker 4: Miami say, spend that ship? Yeah? I know. But what
• 40:23
  Speaker 4: I'm saying is that I wish that that clubs would
• 40:26
  Speaker 4: go back to enforcing this. I know some clubs in
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: different cities enforces there should be no group of men
• 40:34
  Speaker 4: walking in the club. It shouldn't be ten dudes in
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: one section and two girls.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: Okay, I agree with you, unless you like what you like, and.
• 40:44
  Speaker 4: That ain't my business.
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: That's a different party, you know what I'm saying.
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: That's a different I'm just I'm just saying that what
• 40:51
  Speaker 4: I'm noticing is that it's packs of dudes walking in
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: clubs with no women. And every time I've been in
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: a in a club, like that. A fight always happened,
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: you know why, because it's too many dudes right next
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: to each other. What was it?
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: What is it?
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: Testone?
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: There's too much test.
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: Want women have estrogen?
• 41:13
  Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, we need something more.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: That ata like that that that that used to be
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: a good time when the fights would break out and
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: it was lu John threw them up past the Troy.
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: But what but why is it a fight in an
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: R and B party?
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Oh it's not an R and B party.
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: See that's but that's what war.
• 41:30
  Speaker 4: But that's what that's what I'm saying. I'm over here.
• 41:32
  Speaker 4: Like you know, you go to different cities. So if
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: you go to l A or you go to Miami,
• 41:36
  Speaker 4: you can't just walk in the club with a bunch
• 41:39
  Speaker 4: of dudes because y'all all split the table. If you
• 41:43
  Speaker 4: ain't got no women, they will give your table away.
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: And the dude's walking. Yes.
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: If I'm ever in section and it's a lot of guys,
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: I just get out of there. I just walk around. Yeah,
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: I just it's just a disaster. Way to see somebody.
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: I know, Hey, you want soon? We got some drinks
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: over here, come on.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: No, literally, that's that's that. That's what I remember like
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: being in the club between marriages, That's what would happen,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Like it would be section and.
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: Then it would be ladies dictate. Yeah, ladies dictate the club.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: Come to my section. So it's like, yeah, I don't
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: know why why I.
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: Don't think the money is flowing like it used to.
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: I think I think that PPP money ran out.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: We knew that happened and those guys, but we see
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: it now. Those folks are in jail, and they moved
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: a lot of them moved. They don't live in Atlanta, Houston, Miami.
• 42:33
  Speaker 4: They went into small cities like Charlotte and they ran
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: off with the peep Columbia.
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: They like they're chilling, bro, They're not. They can't afford
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: to do this no more.
• 42:44
  Speaker 4: They got mad at me because I said when we
• 42:47
  Speaker 4: was talking, we was talking to Mandy and a lot
• 42:50
  Speaker 4: of a lot of dudes were mad because I said
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: that you don't really see dudes like trying to talk
• 42:56
  Speaker 4: to like girls in the club or the bar by
• 42:58
  Speaker 4: like offering them a drink, you know, like as a
• 43:00
  Speaker 4: conversation started drink.
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: Why it was just in the.
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: Times, I'm saying, because I just feel like generation doesn't
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: go out I don't don't go out.
• 43:10
  Speaker 4: I don't even even with the generation around our age.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: Group, it's like, yes, I don't go to clubs, no
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: more so I can't really even relate.
• 43:19
  Speaker 4: So I'm still I'm still going. I still go to
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: the clubs.
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: And I'm at a bar.
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: I have a party on Wednesday r And what is
• 43:27
  Speaker 4: that flow?
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: It's like a full fledged club club.
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: It's not a restaurant or a bar. It's it's a
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: it's a real club. And I just see certain things
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: that I'm like, how can we change this?
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: I like the bars because you go to the bar
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: to drink.
• 43:43
  Speaker 4: I love going to bars.
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: So the bar, if you can under my party on Friday,
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: bookoloo one time a boogoloo boogoloo. If you go there,
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: it's literally an interactive I'm going to drink crowd.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: Well, somebody's gonna have to buy me a drink. If
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: I'm having a conversation that don't make sense?
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? It fellas.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: Now, Like I said, I do notice that when I'm
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: in Walmart or outside and I get a y N
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: to approach me, he'll ask, can I get your Instagram?
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: Like he doesn't number. No, don't ask for your phone number.
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: And my son does the exact same thing, and I'm like,
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: what is what is that?
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: So you so they're asking for instagrams and not phone numbers.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: I mean because you can DM.
• 44:28
  Speaker 4: I feel like you feel like I feel like you
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: will ask that because your number is more like I
• 44:33
  Speaker 4: feel like your number is more like an intimate thing
• 44:36
  Speaker 4: like to me.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: My son told me that the reason he does that
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: is because he wants to see the girl. I said,
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: but you just saw the girl.
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: You want to see different verses of I guess.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: That makes no sense, like if she would.
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: Your son is smart. He wanted to see what you
• 44:54
  Speaker 4: look like on different days.
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: He want to see if you want to see. He's
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: also checking to see the whole meter in the whole meeting.
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: Do my partners follow you? Who's in these lights? If
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: I scroll down a couple of rolls and all my
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: partners in the same likes, I what's the name Damian
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: Lillard's and the likes or you know?
• 45:16
  Speaker 4: So wait, the whole meter? I never heard that? What?
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: So what does that means?
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: Somebody likes my picture?
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: That means no, That's not what I'm saying.
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: He's saying, do y'all have people that do y'all know
• 45:28
  Speaker 4: the same people? Do we know the same people?
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: Maybe you're a very fruitful person.
• 45:33
  Speaker 4: And what he's saying is he trying to make sure
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: the home he ain't smashed.
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: I can keep it from Instagram.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm born and raised in Atlanta.
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: I just got You'm not the same you are in
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: the lifestyle. You were in the club. I know people
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: and people would come to the club to see you
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: because you you did, so you're not the same. No
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: I would. I can't. I can't.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: You can't get You don't know her.
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: You just met her at Oh. I know she ain't
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: in the night life and she ain't in the club
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: like you.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: You don't know that.
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: So is Damian Lillard doing?
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: I gotta look up Damian Lillard.
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: He's just an NBA basketball player. I'm just saying, But
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: what if.
• 46:17
  Speaker 4: My partner from cross Town is on all her likes
• 46:21
  Speaker 4: hard Eye Hard I heard eye? I mean okay, and
• 46:24
  Speaker 4: there's another of my partners in the hard Eyes too.
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: I don't want that.
• 46:29
  Speaker 4: So if there's a whole meet, is there a broke
• 46:31
  Speaker 4: meter like Instagram? And then you'd be like you think
• 46:35
  Speaker 4: he got some money because of what he what he wins.
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: There's all types of meters. My boy, it's probably a
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: broke meter if you test me.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: I've been seeing a lot on Instagram, and it's like
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: some of these men are very attractive, but I just
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: don't like when men do too much on social media.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: Like she didn't agree with that, it's unattractive to me.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: Like I feel like, I don't know, I feel like
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get some flat for saying this, but like, honestly,
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: man should stay off phones, like just put your phones down,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: like please, please, I don't want to see you flinging uh.
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: Sometimes sometime.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: I don't want to hear your quote. I don't want
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: to see you posting abs and doing all of this
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: ship like it's too too much for attention. Like just
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: pipe down, like you're a man.
• 47:26
  Speaker 4: Just be a man.
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: Just stay at a man's placed.
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: All were last thing we go and we're done. So
• 47:35
  Speaker 3: for example, this is an ongoing thing Mother's Day mm hmm.
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: We spend over a billion dollars Father's Day.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: Because y'all ain't knowing nothing have y'all I'm not saying.
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: But the ones that why can't we celebrate the ones
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: that actually do or the ones that your life that do.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: We we do, okay, yeah, absolutely on Father's Day though,
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: because nobody cares about Father's Day. Because that's the problem.
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: We don't have standards. We gotta raise our standards.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: Watch who y'all shooting up clubs with.
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: But we gotta also we gotta raise our standards. Guys, like,
• 48:16
  Speaker 4: you ever met a really good man like I'm talking
• 48:20
  Speaker 4: about he was? He like, like, my dad's a really
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: good man. He don't want to do nothing. He don't
• 48:25
  Speaker 4: want he don't want to.
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: Like you know, if it's his birthday, I'm cool because
• 48:29
  Speaker 3: something the woman be like, celebrate me.
• 48:32
  Speaker 4: It's yeah, celebrate me.
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: But he's cool if it happens, he's cool if it doesn't.
• 48:39
  Speaker 4: Because your dad has mastered the art of peace.
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: I feel like men want peace, right, so we don't
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: care for the standard.
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: But I feel like y'all really do care.
• 48:49
  Speaker 4: I feel like I say, we have to care, don't
• 48:51
  Speaker 4: I don't even care. I don't even care anymore. I
• 48:53
  Speaker 4: should care, Like.
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: So, yeah, but how do we care without y'all calling assassin?
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: No, it's not sassy at all. At the end of
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: the day, I feel like if you are, like if
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: you are doing your job, if you're doing your big win,
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: like absolutely you should be celebrated like birthdays, holiday like Christmas.
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: We don't care father, but you know, someone around us
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: has to care to celebrate.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: But then when when we show the appreciation, then you
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: guys do well. When we show yeah, when we show
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: our appreciation, then you guys do appreciate the appreciation we do,
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: and so then that makes us want to do it more.
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: So It's like, I just feel like the man that
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know are men, That's what I want to know.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: Are men that are good fathers not being appreciated because
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not hearing about it.
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: I feel like there are men that don't feel that
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: they are appreciated enough. But I feel like the men
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: who have good people around them, it could be their
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: significant other or whoever, that are celebrated.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 49:56
  Speaker 3: So, for example, my wife does a really good job
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: celebrating me, really good job. I've never had a woman
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: I dealt with that didn't celebrate me, which is cool,
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: But I just feel like, what do we do when
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: it's like everything's on sale on Father's Day?
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: Like, Bro, he don't really cares he's really mad about
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: no one cares.
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: No one cares about Father's Day.
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: It's coming out of your house, it's using it anyway.
• 50:25
  Speaker 4: This is also true, but you but you also have
• 50:27
  Speaker 4: so people in the comments, do y'all understand what I'm
• 50:29
  Speaker 4: trying to say. It's not about it's great men and
• 50:32
  Speaker 4: we celebrate them all the time, not just on Father's Day.
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: But do y'all notice Father's Day comes and go. Nobody
• 50:39
  Speaker 4: nobody cares, nobody cares, nobody cares about album. But that's
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: the problem. But what I'm saying nobody cares is nothing
• 50:47
  Speaker 4: is gonna change because people expect a man to be
• 50:50
  Speaker 4: a good dad. How old are you thirty one?
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: How are you he forty eight, forty three? My god,
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: damn nigga, you add all that extra shit.
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: It's crazy.
• 51:01
  Speaker 4: Okay, mother's too, but no.
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: But the point is that like most people within our
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: like age range, maybe not yours so much, but like
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: most people in my like my friend group, most people
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: they don't have dads.
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: That's crazy.
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: So it's like, realistically speaking, they don't even have dads.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: And then it's like then the first couple of kids
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: that have the terrible dads, they might get a good
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: baby daddy by the third one or the fourth one,
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: But I don't have babies by nobody.
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: She says, they don't have dads. That's a good point,
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: that's an amazing point. Then they're being raised and then
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: they're a bad dad.
• 51:44
  Speaker 4: That's like, But so what is there to celebrate.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: I'm celebrating.
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: You celebrate on Father's Day. So it's literally a thing
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: like it just comes and goes really quickly.
• 51:56
  Speaker 4: How most people dad.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: Are facts Father's Day. I'm so writ in the fact
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: that this is the truth. I was married to these
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: men when I when I decided to appropriate with them,
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: and I do not have kids for men that I'm
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: not married to. So that's what I'm celebrating on follows Day.
• 52:12
  Speaker 4: Thank you guys. Yeah yeah, all right, well listen, that's
• 52:14
  Speaker 4: a that's a flex now, no, no, listen man, and
• 52:16
  Speaker 4: shout out to the good good men out there. Absolutely
• 52:19
  Speaker 4: tell them how to follow you.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: Oh absolutely follow me on h Instagram at oh sorry,
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: follow me on Instagram at I am Alna no L.
• 52:29
  Speaker 4: Do I spell it? Do I?
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: Whatever?
• 52:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah? What you want to do?
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: Okay, So follow me on Instagram at I am Alana
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: no L. That's I am A L A N A
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: and O E L And that's pretty much the same
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: hashtag throughout everything. You could pretty much follow me however
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: through there.
• 52:48
  Speaker 4: So follow us at the ball Alert show. You know
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: the vibes.
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: So you all right, you did good?
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, so you got to take that part out.
• 52:57
  Speaker 4: Let's finish the show real quick. Let's finish, let's finish off.
• 53:01
  Speaker 4: So you're gonna come back absolutely, Okay, we appreciate you.
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: Well, we're not come back.
• 53:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a good conversation. It's always it's always
• 53:10
  Speaker 4: good to see the world from different po vs. Yeah, yeah,
• 53:14
  Speaker 4: for sure.
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: Celebrate good dads.
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: Celebrate good ball Alert, celebrate your ovaries not having kids. Bye, man,
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: that are terrible.