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When Inclusion Changes Everything You Thought Was Fixed (S5) S18:E3 Monday · Inspirations for Your Life

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  Well, hey guys, good evening, it is John
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  C.
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  Morley here, serial entrepreneur, great to be with
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  All right, guys, so lots of great stuff,
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  yes, lots and lots of great stuff coming
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  up.
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  What I want to share with you right
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  now is if you're thirsty, if you're hungry
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  or anything like that in between, feel free
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  lemon in it, which is absolutely delicious.
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  Get yourself a snack, fruit, what have you.
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  Without any further ado, guys, let's kick this
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  show off.
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  Ladies and gentlemen, this is Inspirations For Your
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  Life, and I want to say something very
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  interesting that I think maybe a lot of
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  you will find, let's say, in line, and
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  that is when direction changes because truth gets
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  revealed.
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  And so this is series five, this is
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  show 18, and this is episode number two.
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  And once again, I want to say the
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  words thank you, and I want to say
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  the words welcome.
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  Yes, yes, yes.
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  So this episode of Inspirations For Your Life
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  with myself, John C.
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  Morley, serial entrepreneur, engineer, marketing specialist, video producer,
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  podcast host, coach, keynote speaker, graduate student, passionate
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  lifelong learner, and a published author.
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  Very grateful for that, ladies and gentlemen.
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  As I explore how direction changes when truth
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  is revealed through awareness, listening, and higher guidance
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  rather than a force or a constant action,
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  this is a deep look at how human
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  direction is not primarily shaped by effort, but
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  by our awareness, our interpretation, and the ability,
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  ladies and gentlemen, to recognize signals that were
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  always present, but previously somehow they got ignored.
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  Yes, I know.
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  Most people, ladies and gentlemen, believe change happens
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  when they try harder.
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  They burn out when they do that too,
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  by the way.
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  In reality, change happens when you see differently.
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  When perception shifts, behavior starts to flow, all
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  right?
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  When behavior shifts, identity begins to reorganize itself.
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  And when identity reorganizes, well, direction becomes apparent
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  and permanent rather than a temporary way of
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  life.
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  In this particular episode, I'm going to break
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  down how awareness builds, how truth reveals itself,
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  and how internal clarity begins to override external
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  noise.
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  The core structure, ladies and gentlemen, of real
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  change, here it comes.
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  Number one, guys, direction begins with listening.
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  Awareness must come before reaction or a movement
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  can settle in.
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  I think that can startle some people, but
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  don't let it startle you.
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  Number two, guys, silence carries clarity.
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  Truth often exists in the absence of noise
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  rather than within it.
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  Now, guidance is rarely loud, okay?
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  Insight is subtle, requiring attention, not intensity.
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  And ladies and gentlemen, number four, awareness requires
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  a unique set of stillness.
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  Motion without reflection reduces the understanding.
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  I think if we could take a few
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  moments every day to reflect and be grateful,
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  our life can be a lot better.
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  Number five, internal signals matter most.
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  External inputs often distort perception.
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  And I think that happens because a lot
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  of people out there, you know, they want
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  to be the loudest, but when you're the
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  loudest, you're not really amplifying the truth, your
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  core values.
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  Number six, guys, truth interprets distraction.
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  Clarity breaks cycles of confusion.
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  So when we get clear, we get more
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  unconfused.
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  Number seven, guys, clarity appears in reflection.
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  It appears in reflection.
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  Insight forms when you pause long enough to
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  observe.
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  You just have to pause long.
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  You don't have to pause forever, but you
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  have to pause long enough so you can
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  be able to appreciate and observe.
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  And I think that's something that a lot
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  of people today miss.
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  They think that if they go quicker, that
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  they're going to get the golden gem.
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  But the truth of the matter is, if
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  you go slower and you observe things around
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  you, miracles start to take place.
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  What they did there, but they never could
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  rear their head because it never gave them
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  a chance.
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  It never gave them a chance.
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  You never looked at the possibilities.
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  You always looked at what couldn't be done.
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  Number eight, guys, timing is everything.
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  Understanding unfolds gradually, not instantly.
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  And so if you think that you're just
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  going to know something overnight, you're going to
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  be very sadly disappointed.
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  I think if we approach something, whether it's
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  a subject, a concept, whatever it is, and
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  we approach it with the idea that we
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  can get better over time and that we
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  don't need to learn everything overnight, I think
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  it becomes not only more enjoyable, but I
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  think it becomes easier.
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  And also, the concepts tend to stick more
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  because now it's not becoming a chore anymore.
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  We're actually enjoying it.
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  Number nine, guys, not all answers are immediate.
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  I'm sorry, guys, they're not immediate.
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  Patience is part of intelligence.
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  Those that don't have patience will likely pay
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  for it three, four, five, or 10 times
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  back because they've made mistakes.
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  And we always said pay nine, but basically,
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  they've had to waste their resources.
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  That could be money, people, things, etc.
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  And so when we use our intelligence, we're
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  able to move forward with purpose, with intentionalism.
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  Number 10, guys, direction requires trust.
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  Certainty is not required to move correctly.
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  Resistance blocks insight.
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  Resistance blocks insight.
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  So ego and fear interfere with awareness.
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  Our ego and our fear, what's our fear?
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  Our fear is false, evidence appearing real.
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  But too many people in our world think
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  that if you get loud enough and you
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  intimidate people, you can get power.
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  You know, that might work for a little
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  bit of time, but eventually, it's going to
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  backfire in your face.
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  Number 12, guys, listening changes outcomes.
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  Did you know that?
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  Yes.
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  Attention determines what you notice and act upon.
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  If I asked you a question right now
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  and I said, what do you remember most
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  about today?
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  I can tell you what I remember most
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  about today.
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  Studying for finals right now.
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  I've been doing a lot of studying.
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  And also, I was working on a tech
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  support issue that was taking me some time.
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  And starting to understand the fact that a
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  lot of these challenges that sometimes come to
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  surface actually become a lot easier when we
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  don't stress over them.
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  When we know that we are just becoming
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  aware of situations, things become easier.
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  Number 13, guys, intuition strengthens decisions.
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  Internal alignment improves judgment.
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  Our internal alignment improves it, not the external,
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  our internal.
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  And I think when we can appreciate something
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  internally, we can actually grow, all right?
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  Not only can we learn, but we can
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  grow.
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  We can pass that knowledge on to other
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  people.
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  And then, ladies and gentlemen, we can learn
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  from that so that we don't make that
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  same mistake again.
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  That's pretty good.
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  And then, we could take all those ideas
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  and we can incorporate them to a big
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  microcosm.
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  And suddenly, our world becomes so interconnected.
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  Number 14, guys, patience.
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  Yep.
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  Patience reveals truth.
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  Rushing compresses perception and hides the meaning.
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  But I know a lot of people that
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  want to rush.
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  They want to get through everything, but they
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  don't stop to look at the roses or
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  smell them or even the beautiful animals or
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  nature outside.
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  They just don't take the time.
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  Let me ask you a question.
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  If you went outside today, did you pay
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  attention to the weather?
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  Did you pay attention to maybe the pavement
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  you were walking on or the grass or
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  even notice the scenery or even feel the
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  wind at your backside or the warmth if
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  it was warm outside?
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  Did you?
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  If it didn't, it's no crime.
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  But if you did, tell me how that
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  made you feel.
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  Did that get you to connect?
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  Did that get you to feel more grounded?
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  Chances are, it probably did.
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  And it took a piece out of your
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  day, and it made it so enjoyable.
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  A lot of people, they don't stop for
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  that moment, not because they can't, but simply
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  because they won't.
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  They think that stopping for a moment is
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  going to lose them productivity.
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  But really, ladies and gentlemen, it's not going
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  to lose productivity at all.
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  It's actually just going to cause you to
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  be more aware.
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  And I think that's a big thing.
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  A little warm tonight, guys.
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  Yeah.
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  But number 15, guidance challenges logic.
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  Let me say that again.
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  Guidance challenges logic.
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  And so insight often appears outside of linear
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  reasoning.
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  Now, for somebody logical, they're like, that's preposterous.
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  But it's exactly what happens in our world.
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  We're looking at something linearly.
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  We don't look at the outside.
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  A better way to say that is, a
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  lot of people look at the trees, the
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  animals, the people in the forest, the lakes.
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  But they don't look at the whole forest
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  as a whole.
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  And now everything just sort of fits in
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  place.
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  I'll give you another example.
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  Maybe you're moving somewhere, home, condo, apartment, mansion,
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  what have you.
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  And when you first get there, there's no
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  furniture.
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  When your furniture gets, it's like, it changes
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  the room.
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  It changes the environment.
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  It makes you like, you know, I belong
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  here.
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  Just by putting a few pieces of furniture,
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  absolutely, guys.
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  By putting a few pieces of furniture, they
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  connect the environment to you.
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  They signify relaxation.
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  They signify an orchestration, an order.
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  Number 16, guys, noise hides direction.
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  I had a situation with this today, being
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  an author now, new, and being a keynote
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  speaker for a while and all this stuff.
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  I had somebody online.
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  I'm not going to mention the name because
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  that's out of school.
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  But the person online actually was attacking me.
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  And so what happened, just to set the
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  record clear on this, for any of you
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  that might have saw the post, she was
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  basically accusing me for not doing business with
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  her.
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  So I had told her from the get
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  -go.
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  I shared my book and all that.
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  And then right away, she's trying to hit
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  me with prices about what she charges.
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  And I said, I'm not looking to hire
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  anybody at the moment.
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  Not looking to do that.
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  She immediately fired off.
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  Well, I obviously won't recommend anybody to you.
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  And I obviously won't recommend anybody to read
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  your book.
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  And so I'm like, that's a little nasty.
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  And then she comes with a little larger
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  of a phrase to state things about me
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  that are not true.
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  I don't get upset.
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  I don't get aggravated.
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  I just block her.
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  It's sad that people have to push buttons
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  because they think that pushing buttons will threaten
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  you to hiring them.
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  That's the last thing I would ever do.
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  And I think sometimes when people push these
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  buttons and we have a reaction, it's the
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  person.
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  But you see, it's not the person we
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  need to get mad at.
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  It'd be ourself.
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  We need to realize that the only reason
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  that person has control over you or whoever
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  is because you're associating with them.
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  Soon as I said to myself, OK, this
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  is how she feels, great.
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  I'm just going to disassociate with it and
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  bam, block the person and be done.
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  I did that.
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  And as soon as I did that, she
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  came back and said, well, look at this
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  such and such person.
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  And he decided he was just going to
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  block me.
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  And I guess I didn't block her fast
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  enough because she started posting it.
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  So I blocked her on all my channels,
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  reported her to Facebook and some other social
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  media.
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  I think it's sad when people use a
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  manipulation or a scare tactic to try to
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  get to spend money about a condition that's
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  not true, like lying about who you are.
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  So again, that's what I mean about noise
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  hides the direction.
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  The noise from her hid the true direction
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  of where I'd go if I focused on
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  that.
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  But I knew I couldn't stay focused on
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  that long.
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  Constant input reduces clarity and focus.
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  So if we get too much input, if
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  we get too many people talking to us,
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  what happens?
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  What were we talking about?
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  Who was I talking to?
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  You can only talk to one person at
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  a time.
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  And that's important, guys.
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  Number 17, stillness improves clarity.
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  Reduced motion increases perception accuracy.
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  Reduced motion increases perception accuracy.
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  So that means that if we slow down
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  and we become aware of things around us,
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  you're going to hear me say it a
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  lot, especially in my book, then we can
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  have a different experience.
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  You see, there's going to be people in
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  our life that are going to try to,
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  let's say, pull us down.
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  Our job is not to get angry at
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  them.
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  Our job is to figure out who aligns
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  with us in our life and keep them
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  in our life.
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  If they do and if they don't, then
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  we just take them out of our life.
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  It's not about being polite.
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  It's about being with energy that's going to
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  keep you going and not pulling you down.
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  So somebody who does something like that and
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  then saying they had 10,000 followers, which
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  was really nonsense, that's a superficial person.
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  And you guys have known me long enough
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  that I'm not here to make names or
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  anybody.
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  And I don't call even that person names.
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  That's not me.
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  That's not my character.
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  But there are going to be people out
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  there that are going to be envious.
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  They're going to be jealous of what I
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  do.
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  I get it, OK?
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  So they can have their fun.
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  They can have their party.
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  And I'm just going to block from them.
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  And if they say something that's wrong, I'm
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  going to make a statement and say, hey,
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  just want to let you guys know that
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  I'm not being sexual.
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  And that's all I want to say.
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  I'm not going to get into any mudslinging
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  because that's not who I am.
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  But I do want to defend myself and
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  say that this is not who I am.
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  This is not what was said here is
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  not true.
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  Number 18, guys, realignment requires humility.
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  Realignment requires humility.
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  Correction begins when we decide to accept the
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  misalignment.
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  Realignment requires humility.
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  And correction begins when we choose to accept
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  the misalignment.
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  A lot of people think that they're not
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  misaligned, that they're perfect.
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  None of us are perfect.
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  But if you believe that, then you're never
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  going to be able to grow.
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  You're going to be able to change.
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  Number 19, guys, awareness shifts behavior.
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  What you notice determines how you act.
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  And what you notice is directly correlated to
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  the environment you're in, what you're hearing, what
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  you're seeing, touching, tasting, smelling, and experiencing.
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  That determines how you act.
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  And so how you act will obviously come
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  across to others.
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  And we can't impact others directly or tell
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  somebody to change something.
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  When we act differently, they will act differently.
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  When you show up for who you are,
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  other people will respect you more.
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  Number 20, guys, insight arrives unexpectedly.
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  Clarity is not always predictable or scheduled, guys.
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  But we have to be aware of these
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  situations and this feedback, this input that we
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  get when it arrives.
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  It might not be when we expect it.
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  It might not be when we want it.
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  We need to pay attention to it.
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  Number 21, guys, truth appears in patterns.
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  Truth appears in patterns.
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  So repetition reveals structure over time.
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  When we repeat over time, we reveal the
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  structure.
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  Number 22, misalignment becomes obvious and imbalance is
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  exposed through contrast.
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  Number 23, correction improves the path.
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  A correction, it could be a minor tweak.
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  This adjustment creates forward movement.
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  So correction improves the path.
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  But the adjustment creates the forward movement that
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  we need to keep going.
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  Number 24, guys, understanding builds slowly.
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  It's not going to come like a big
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  tidal wave all at once.
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  It comes in drips and drops, maybe even
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  drips and drops.
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  Understanding builds slowly.
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  And clarity compounds through repeat observation.
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  So the more that we observe, we start
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  making a habit to observe, we'll start to
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  become more aware of things around us.
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  And by that awareness, we'll change how we
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  act.
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  We will change how we show up for
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  ourself and for others.
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  And I think that's probably one of the
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  biggest things I want to say here tonight
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  is that we're not here to influence others
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  in the sense of making them do something.
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  But when we show up differently, when we
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  respond differently, other people will show up differently
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  too.
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  And they will respond to us differently as
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  well.
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  Number 25, awareness opens opportunity.
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  New possibilities will appear through the perception.
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  Now, if you're saying to me, John, I
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  have not gotten any perceptions in the past,
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  I'm going to tell you why you haven't
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  gotten them.
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  It's because you've been too much in this
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  box.
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  I have a little box I'm holding up
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  here.
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  You're too much staying in a box.
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  You need to get out of the box.
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  You need to realize that the way you're
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  expecting something to be delivered to you may
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  not come in this nice little neat package.
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  It may not come on the day you
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  want or the time you want or even
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  the place you want, but we need to
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  be open to it.
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  That's important, guys.
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  And that's the reason why a lot of
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  people miss their miracle.
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  They're waiting for something that's not going to
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  show up.
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  And they refuse to go anywhere else because
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  they say that's where a miracle is going
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  to happen.
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  Number 26, guys, direction becomes clearer.
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  So as we become more grounded, more in
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  tune to the environment that we are in,
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  our awareness goes up.
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  And each time we do it more and
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  more and more.
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  I think that's a big thing for a
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  lot of us to understand is that just
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  taking the time to become aware of something
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  can greatly change your life.
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  Number 27, guys, listening changes the outcome.
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  Did you know that?
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  Listening will change the outcome.
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  Now, you might think that listening is gonna
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  be everything you want, but listening is kind
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  of like the keys to the kingdom.
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  When you listen and you understand without judgment,
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  you have a different perspective, a different perception.
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  Attention directly influences the results because when we
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  pay attention to the way something really is,
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  instead of what we want it to be,
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  now we could show up in the way
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  that we should be because the way we
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  were showing up before might not be in
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  alignment with what even the person is expecting.
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  Number 28, guys, guidance shapes decisions.
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  Insight informs the better choices.
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  So our guidance shapes decisions and insight informs
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  better choices, but we don't become sharp as
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  a knife overnight.
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  We need to be slowly grinded.
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  I don't mean grind the way of we're
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  down.
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  I mean the sense that we need to
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  slowly be exposed to our environment.
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  The more than a knife is exposed to
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  the sharpening block, the sharper it gets, but
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  it doesn't happen over time.
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  It doesn't happen in seconds.
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  It takes a little time for the knife
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  to get into that.
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  You too need to develop not only where
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  you're going, but also the energy that's gonna
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  allow you to show up and show up
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  in a way that'll be the greater good
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  for you and for all mankind.
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  Number 29, guys, trust improves clarity.
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  Trust improves.
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  People that don't wanna build trust are ambiguous,
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  maybe not intentional, but when they have that
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  ambiguity in them, how do we even start
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  to put any kind of respect or any
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  kind of, let's say, accountability on a person?
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  Resistance, my friends, reduces understanding and flow.
• 25:56
  When we resist, things persist and we cannot
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  flow.
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  If you have a dam and you block
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  the dam, the water does not go down
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  the dam.
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  Sorry, it doesn't.
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  Number 30, guys, direction becomes destiny.
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  Sustained awareness defines long-term outcome.
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  You know, guys, what most people fail to
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  realize is that direction is not something forced
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  into existence.
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  It is something revealed over time when internal
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  noise decreases and external influence no longer dominates
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  the perception.
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  In other words, when you choose to disassociate
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  with it.
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  Once awareness reaches a certain point or level,
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  clarity begins organizing itself naturally, and what once
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  felt uncertain becomes obvious.
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  See, the transition point is this.
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  At the transition point, life stops being reactive
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  and becoming observational or proactive.
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  Instead of forcing outcomes, you begin recognizing patterns.
• 27:04
  Instead of chasing direction, you begin noticing an
• 27:07
  alignment.
• 27:08
  Instead of struggling with confusion, you begin seeing
• 27:11
  that there's a structure.
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  See, this, ladies and gentlemen, is the moment
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  where transformation stops being theoretical and becomes practical,
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  the shift.
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  When you finally listen clearly, what you need
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  to do becomes obvious.
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  Not because the world changed, but because you
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  changed and how you interpret it.
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  That shift is what unlocks direction.
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  Ladies and gentlemen, I know a lot of
• 27:40
  this can be confusing, but this episode is
• 27:42
  about awareness becoming more structured, developing that structure,
• 27:48
  becoming your true identity, and identity becoming your
• 27:53
  long-term direction.
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  Once truth is seen clearly, it cannot be
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  unseen, and once it cannot be unseen, life
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  can no longer remain accidental.
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  It becomes intentional, aligned, and directed.
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  This is the foundation of inspirations for your
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  life.
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  Not motivation-only hype, not the butt clarity
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  that changes how you see everything and how
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  everything responds back to you.
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  That's the key.
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  It's that subtle awareness.
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  I'm John C.
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  Morley, serial entrepreneur.
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  Be sure to check out BelieveMeAchieved.com for
• 28:24
  more of my amazing, inspiring creations.
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  Be well, everyone.