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Ask this ONE question for a STRONG RELATIONSHIP · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Okay, hear me out, okay? Every once in a while,
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  Speaker 1: everybody on the show has something else to present to
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  Speaker 1: the show. And I don't know how to get to it.
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  Speaker 1: So I know Peyton is working on something. And Kyle
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  Speaker 1: and Peyton are giving me grief for saying, what are
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  Speaker 1: you working on, Peyton?
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  Speaker 2: So I don't know. It's something to do with dating.
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  Speaker 2: That's okay. I'm pulling back the curtain. What is it
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  Speaker 2: that you have to bring to the show?
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  Speaker 3: Well, relationships are hard sometimes, you know?
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  Speaker 4: That's true.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes.
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  Speaker 5: They are hard.
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  Speaker 2: They can be difficult.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and a psychologist had said that there is a
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  Speaker 3: hack To like creating one of the best and strongest
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  Speaker 3: relationships that you could possibly be in. And it all
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  Speaker 3: starts with asking just one question before you start the week.
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  Speaker 3: And the question is, what's going to be the hardest
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  Speaker 3: thing on your plate this week? You just have to
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  Speaker 3: ask that question to your partner and see what it is.
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  Speaker 3: See what's stressing out your partner before it happens.
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  Speaker 2: Why did you make that noise?
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Because that would be hard for me to answer. That's
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  Speaker 1: the hardest thing. What's the hardest thing on your plate
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  Speaker 1: this week? Answering that question. I would probably say, I
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  Speaker 1: don't really want to talk about it if somebody asks
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  Speaker 1: me that.
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  Speaker 2: I think what Peyton is saying, you should ask Blake that.
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  Speaker 1: Well, let's call her and ask her that.
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  Speaker 2: Let me do it. That's what you got to do.
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  Speaker 2: Call her. See what's.
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  Speaker 6: Up.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let's see.
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  Speaker 4: First of all, tell her that Peyton's working on something.
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  Speaker 2: Your call has been forwarded.
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  Speaker 3: Oh!
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  Speaker 2: How about that?
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  Speaker 7: I got it.
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  Speaker 4: That was her answer.
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  Speaker 2: Her hardest thing on her plate this week is you,
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  Speaker 2: John Jay.
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  Speaker 4: She can't deal with it right now.
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  Speaker 2: Every week. That's cold-blooded.
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  Speaker 7: Hello?
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, beautiful.
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  Speaker 3: Hi.
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  Speaker 2: Can I borrow you for one minute on the radio?
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  Speaker 2: I know you're busy.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Are you doing something?
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  Speaker 1: Hello.
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  Speaker 2: Are you doing something?
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  Speaker 7: I'm at LGO. I was ordering breakfast, and I just
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  Speaker 7: found out that I was supposed to be on a
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  Speaker 7: marketing meeting, but I can do that in just a second. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: What's the hardest thing I can help you with this week?
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  Speaker 6: The hardest thing?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: You can help me get people to download.
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  Speaker 7: That's the hardest thing to have going on.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. Look at you guys. Look at that. Look at
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  Speaker 2: this teamwork in this relationship. Yeah, I love it.
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  Speaker 7: Can you help me out?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. That's it. I'll ask people right now. It's
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  Speaker 2: a great app. People should have it anyway. It's a
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  Speaker 2: great app. And how would you explain the app? Like,
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  Speaker 2: what is the app?
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  Speaker 6: It's an app for dog people, and it's amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: It's personalized to your dog, and you sign up on
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  Speaker 6: Apple or Google Play, and once you get your app downloaded,
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  Speaker 6: you download your dog's information, and we have this wonderful
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  Speaker 6: ginger that will answer questions.
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  Speaker 7: Based on your dog's profile.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, elevator pitch.
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  Speaker 7: Super exciting.
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  Speaker 2: Elevator pitch.
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  Speaker 7: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 7: That's it.
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  Speaker 2: That's the elevator.
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  Speaker 6: It's the app for dog people.
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  Speaker 7: Everybody should have it.
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  Speaker 1: Go to your meeting, your marketing meeting. Thank you for
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  Speaker 1: jumping on the air with us. Have a great day.
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  Speaker 2: Love you.
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  Speaker 7: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Love you. Bye-bye. All right, Peyton, so how'd that go?
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  Speaker 1: The hardest thing that you're saying, that successful relationships, ask
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  Speaker 1: this question. What's the hardest thing on your plate this
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  Speaker 1: week that could help you with?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like what's going on? Because then you can't automatically
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  Speaker 3: like take their bad mood personally if you know exactly
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  Speaker 3: what they're going.
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  Speaker 2: On throughout the week.
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  Speaker 3: And it helps you know when they need support or
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  Speaker 3: if they need space. So basically it's like, okay, you're
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  Speaker 3: stressed out. You're not mad at me. We communicated like
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  Speaker 3: we're good. So I feel like this is really good
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  Speaker 3: relationship advice. Like most marriage advice is like all the
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  Speaker 3: same stuff. Don't go to bed mad. Communication is key.
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  Speaker 3: But like this, I feel like you can prevent arguments
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  Speaker 3: through this.
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  Speaker 2: That's good advice. So we should get into good marriage advice.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, good.
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  Speaker 5: Things that actually work, even if it's.
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  Speaker 2: A little bit weird.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, the don't go to bed mad thing,
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  Speaker 1: isn't that because in case they die in their sleep,
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  Speaker 1: you're mad?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Because I go to bed mad all the time. I
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  Speaker 2: don't like to go to bed mad. I don't like
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  Speaker 2: to either. It keeps me up, but I wake up
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  Speaker 2: and I'm like, eh, it wasn't that bad.
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  Speaker 4: That's how I feel.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes you just need some sleep. Sometimes you do have
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  Speaker 3: to go to bed mad because nothing good happens when
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  Speaker 3: you're tired and you're angry.
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  Speaker 4: Don't they say before you have a big fight, you
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  Speaker 4: should go eat something? Because most of the time, if
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  Speaker 4: you're a guy, you're probably just hungry.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: When guys are being little bitches, just go say, go
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  Speaker 4: get yourself a sandwich and then we can talk.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly. That's a weird advice that works.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Hold on a minute.
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  Speaker 4: I am ticked off, but would you like a sub sandwich?
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  Speaker 1: So what's a weird piece of relationship or marriage advice
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  Speaker 1: somebody gave you that actually works? Regina, what is a
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  Speaker 1: weird piece of relationship or marriage advice that somebody gave
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  Speaker 1: you that actually works?
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  Speaker 5: Yes. Actually, the weirdest piece of advice that I've ever
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  Speaker 5: gotten has actually come from my own mother. And when
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  Speaker 5: she told me I was a little sketched out, but
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  Speaker 5: she basically said that if you want to stay married,
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  Speaker 5: give yourself one night a month to get divorced. And
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  Speaker 5: I know it sounds like truly even saying it out loud.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, that sounds so crazy, dude. But basically, she
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  Speaker 5: basically was like, hey, girl.
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  Speaker 7: What you got to do is you have to go
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  Speaker 7: to separate bars, you have.
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  Speaker 5: To sit alone, and you have to pretend that you're single, and, like,
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  Speaker 5: just don't text them, don't do anything. And honestly, and
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  Speaker 5: I'm telling, and again, I thought it was crazy, but.
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  Speaker 5: After doing it now with my husband for, like, you know,
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  Speaker 5: the first couple years, it's pretty nice. It just reminds
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  Speaker 5: us that, like, hey, we're still hot. We're still, like, cool. Like,
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  Speaker 5: we still got game. And we don't go home with anybody.
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  Speaker 5: So it's nothing crazy.
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  Speaker 7: It's just one night.
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  Speaker 5: But the nicest part is going home then to my
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  Speaker 5: husband to just, like... Tell him everything that happened and
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  Speaker 5: he feels really good because obviously the girls are hitting
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  Speaker 5: on him. And I feel really good because, yeah, so
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  Speaker 5: it's really, really nice. And TBH, my parents, they have
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  Speaker 5: been married 37 years and they have still been doing this.
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  Speaker 2: They're also swingers.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't think you were going to go with that.
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  Speaker 5: They do not go home with anybody.
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  Speaker 4: I would not try that even once because, you know.
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  Speaker 4: My wife, Stacy, she'd find like a nice guy, a
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  Speaker 4: couple billionaires somewhere.
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  Speaker 5: I thought you were going to say it would remind
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  Speaker 5: you how terrible it would have to.
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  Speaker 2: Be to be out back dating again.
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  Speaker 7: Right.
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  Speaker 2: I would be like men are so annoying. Get away, please.
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  Speaker 2: So you could like just appreciate your position more. Once
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  Speaker 2: a month seems like a lot. It does seem like
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  Speaker 2: a lot. I'd be like, hey, come on. She goes,
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  Speaker 2: how'd it go? I'm like, great. You know, totally. We
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  Speaker 2: had sex. She'd be like, what? Oh, my bad.
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  Speaker 5: But it's really like tested our relationship. It's really made
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  Speaker 5: us stronger because we never will say anything. You know,
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  Speaker 5: we don't go with them. So we're always like, you
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  Speaker 5: know what, babe, I love you. And honestly, it's a
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  Speaker 5: good test because if they do end up going to
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  Speaker 5: somebody else, it was never meant for you.
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  Speaker 7: True.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I test a lot. Once a month, you're
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  Speaker 2: going to test. Do it again, Jessica. I don't, I don't.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't, my thing was like, I had sex with her. What?
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  Speaker 2: You're not supposed to do that. Oh, my bad. I misunderstood.
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  Speaker 2: Let's try next month. I'll try to do better next month.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Regina, thanks for calling in.
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  Speaker 1: What is a weird piece of relationship advice or marriage
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  Speaker 1: advice somebody gave you that actually works?