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What are Spiritual Goals? · Arise Women of God

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  Do you feel like your spiritual growth has maybe hit a plateau?
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  Perhaps you're checking off a list, but just not feeling like you're actually moving forward.
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  Today we're answering the question, what are spiritual goals?
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  And we're breaking them down into four specific categories that will transform your mind, your body, and your connection to God.
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  And by the end of today's episode, you will know how to identify your next right step step.
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  And solve the pain of spiritual stagnation by learning how to fill your own cup so that you can finally serve others from a place of overflow.
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  Stay tuned.
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  Ordinary WomenExtraordinaryFaithWhenGodcalls,wesayyes.ThArisesayyes.The AriseWomenofGod Podcast episodeof theAriseWomenofGod podcast.I'myourhost, TamaraK.
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  Anderson,and joiningmetoday areWendyChristiansenand Tiffany Fletcher are Wendi Christensen Lightcommunity.Andtodaywe'redivingintothepracticalsideofspiritual growth.First,we'reexploring the different categoriesofspiritualgoals,frommentalclaritytophysicalstewardship.Second, we'retacklingthemyththat selfcareisselfish andwhytakingcareofyourselfisactually aspiritualrequirement.
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  Andfinally,we'llsharehow tofindthecracks in yourbusy scheduletoconnectwithGodwithoutaddingmorestressto yourlife.Let'skick itoffwithTiffanysharing alittlebitaboutthecategoriesofgrowth.
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  Personal goals are those goals that one improve us and help us to become better than ourselves and also help us do the work of our Heavenly Father like, and just do the work that, that the Lord is inviting
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  us to do.
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  I think for me, when I think of the categories of spiritual goals, I think there are goals that help improve ourselves, like our physical health, like those are spiritual goals even though they seem like more worldly.
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  But we can't do the Lord's work if we're not exercising and taking in the right nutrients and so goals to be a healthier version of ourself.
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  I think that there are goals to help us connect more with God's children, to help be a light for them.
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  I think there's goals that help us connect more with our Heavenly Father and really tune into what he needs us to do and how he needs to accomplish accomplish things.
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  And, and I think that then there are goals that maybe improve our mind.
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  I think sometimes, you know, when we work on our body.
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  I mentioned before that I'm, I'm in graduate school from, for clinical mental health counseling.
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  And I just feel really strongly that goals to help improve our mind are also spiritual goals.
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  Because if our mind is Cluttered.
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  We can't hear the spirit.
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  So.
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  So those are my thoughts on the different categories.
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  I love that Tiffany included our physical and mental health in these categories.
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  It reminds me that our bodies are indeed temples.
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  And when our minds are cluttered, it's hard to hear the still small voice.
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  But this often leads to a struggle for all women.
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  We feel like taking time for our own health or goals is selfish.
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  Wendi and Tiffany have some beautiful examples of why this is a total myth.
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  Just point out Wendi talks about a goal that's serving yourself.
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  I think sometimes, especially as women, we think, oh, that's selfish.
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  That's a selfish thing to create a goal that's serving myself.
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  But I mean, I.
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  I mean, I hear all the time and, and we really have to think about it.
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  Like, even when you're flying, the flight attendant says, when the oxygen comes down and the plane's going down, give oxygen to yourself and then give it to your child if you have a child.
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  And I think sometimes we forget to give oxygen to ourselves.
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  And that is, that is what we need to do, is create goals that will help us so that we can be better at helping others.
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  Because if we're not taking care of ourselves, we're not going to be able to take care and have the energy we need to take care of others.
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  We're going to deplete ourselves and.
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  And we're not going to be where God needs us to be in order to be who he needs us to be.
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  I was going to say, I remember reading just along those lines in a book by Brene Brown, the Gifts of Imperfection.
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  I love that book where she, she introduces the concept because she did a decade of study and research on shame and guilt and what brings them wholehearted living.
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  And one of the things she said in that book was that serving others you cannot do.
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  You can't help or bless other people if you don't love or take care of yourself first.
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  And I remember when I first read that, I thought, that's not true.
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  That's.
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  That, that can't be true.
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  You can help other people and you can bless other people even if you don't necessarily love or maybe appreciate yourself.
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  But of course I was wrong, because I've learned since then exactly what Tiffany said.
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  If you're trying to always serve other people from an empty cup and you're trying to give them, like, oh, let me help you, but I'm drained and exhausted and burned out.
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  There's nothing that I really can do.
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  I'm not going to be able to help that person as effectively as if I take good care of myself.
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  Where I look at my health and my mental health and where am I at with connections to other people?
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  That's going to allow me to be able to bless and help other people around me, even my family, right?
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  It's going to help them the most.
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  I can show up as a better mom and a better wife if I'm taking care of myself first and I really, truly can't serve them better.
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  Serving from an empty cup only leads to burnout, not a blessing.
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  God actually commanded us to love our neighbors as ourselves, which implies that we have to have a baseline of love and care for ourselves first.
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  So how do we fit this self stewardship into a life that is already over, brimming with so many responsibilities?
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  And so that first priority has to be our connection with God, because he is the one who fills our inner well.
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  And if we have that filled, then we are complete and we can then love and serve others.
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  Right?
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  And so if you look at it, we have the commandment, we just need to live it better.
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  And connecting with God, I think in our brain somewhere we think, oh, well, that means I have to spend five hours a day connecting with God.
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  No, it's in the little things, right?
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  It's saying a prayer while I'm driving in my car.
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  Yeah, maybe I turned off my radio so that I could have that connection.
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  So we can, especially as women, fit that connecting with God in the cracks of our lives and just asking him, God, you know, I live a busy life.
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  Help me find those little cracks where I can connect to you, you know, and maybe he'll inspire you, hey, on the way to work, or maybe after you drop your kids off at school, listen to these verses of
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  scripture on the way home, dive into the psalms that will like nourish and lift your soul.
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  Do you know what I mean?
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  Whatever God inspires you to do, if you take that problem to him, say, hey, I want a better connection so that I feel full and then I can love and serve others.
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  He's going to teach you how to fit it into your life.
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  Right?
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  It's important to remember that it looks different for everyone.
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  What works for one person isn't going to work for the other person.
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  It's going to be about a relationship between you and God and him saying, hey, do this.
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  This is what's going to help you connect with me.
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  And we all listen to the spirit differently, we all receive revelation differently, we all feel God's love differently.
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  And so I think it's important that we don't beat ourselves up if we're not doing it like Tamara is, or if we're not doing like Wendy is like.
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  But we need to do it like we're doing it.
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  And the way we do it may be different than anyone else.
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  And that's okay.
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  And we need to make sure that that we are okay with that.
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  Like, it is not between.
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  It is not comparing ourselves to anyone else.
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  It is, it is connecting with God in a relationship that is between him and us, that is magnified by the Spirit, and that allows us to do the things that we need to do while still connecting with our
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  Heavenly Father in order to better do the things that we're asked to do as women in this world.
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  It's all about your personal relationship with him, not a performance for anyone else.
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  Even a tiny goal like rolling out of bed and onto your knees can be the catalyst for an unstoppable day.
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  We'll conclude with Wendi sharing a final thought on how to turn our negative self talk into our next big spiritual win.
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  And maybe that's a good way to find out what spiritual goal to set.
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  What are some of the negative things you think about yourself?
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  And turning them to a positive could be your spiritual goal.
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  So if it's I'm a bad mom or I'm not a good a good human being, okay, what can I do to switch that and turn it into no, how am I a good mom?
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  And that can move you in that direction of that spiritual goal.
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  Whatever category your goal falls into today, remember that you're a daughter of God in training for something glorious.
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  If you're ready to identify your next step, go download our free A Guide to Goal Setting for Christian Women, which is free on our Women warriors of Light website.
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  We'll drop a link to it in the show notes below.
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  It will walk you through the sacred brainstorm we talked about today so you can hear God's voice in your life.
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  Until next time, may you arise.
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  Do it God's way.
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  God strong.
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  Until next time.
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  May you arise, walk God's way and stand God strong.