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Nobody warns you for when your kids get older · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Wake your ass John Jay and Rich and you're like,
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  Speaker 1: what's cracking like?
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  Speaker 2: And this is the big boss dog snoopy deegle double
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  Speaker 2: gigsel dang boom.
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  Speaker 3: What you don't do.
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  Speaker 1: We're not talking about Rin ten team.
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  Speaker 3: We're not talking about last year.
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  Speaker 1: It's the one and only does all the classes as
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  Speaker 1: the big smooth pegle double gizzle in.
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  Speaker 3: Your face to me and in the place to be.
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  Speaker 3: And you're listening to John Jay and Rich, wake yours.
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  Speaker 3: It's John J. Rich. Our phone numbers eight seven seven,
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  Speaker 3: nine three seven one O four seven. The text line
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  Speaker 3: you text jj RT whatever you want to say to
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  Speaker 3: the number nine six eight ninety three, and I encourage
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  Speaker 3: you to text us anytime there's a text here for Kyle,
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  Speaker 3: it's just Kyle. When I'm in an elevator at work,
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  Speaker 3: I ask, Okay, who's gonna sing the elevator song? And
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  Speaker 3: nine out of ten times someone starts singing a made
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  Speaker 3: up elevator song. Please try this at your office. Oh
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  Speaker 3: my gosh, that actually sounds fun.
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  Speaker 2: But she she only did it when there's like two
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  Speaker 2: people in there, though, Like I feel like if there's
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  Speaker 2: a group of multiples, what.
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  Speaker 4: Are these two is like, which one of us, which
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  Speaker 4: is your jurny? Then you have to be ready with
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  Speaker 4: an elevator song, because if it is only two of
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  Speaker 4: you and they.
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  Speaker 3: Saved you, yeah, I love in the elevator, probably go
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  Speaker 3: to Unless you had to make it up. You'd be like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, I'd look at it. If she said
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  Speaker 3: that to me, I'd be like, you sing up.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you got to be prepared for that action elevator.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, you make it up, and she's like, that's
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  Speaker 3: the one thing. Yeah, freak out anyway eight seven seven
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  Speaker 3: nine three seven one four seven. How come you were
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  Speaker 3: so emotional the other day?
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  Speaker 4: So Okay, my niece graduated high school last year, like
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  Speaker 4: at the end of last year, and we had moved
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  Speaker 4: her into the dorms in college and it didn't really
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  Speaker 4: work out for her, so she moved back home. It
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  Speaker 4: wasn't her thing. And this past weekend we actually helped
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  Speaker 4: her move out of the house after it had been
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  Speaker 4: a couple of months, obviously, into a home with a
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  Speaker 4: few of her friends. And it's funny because the first
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  Speaker 4: time when we moved her into the dorms, like my
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  Speaker 4: kids weren't there. It was just me helping with her
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  Speaker 4: parents and whatever. And this past weekend the kids were
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  Speaker 4: with us and they were helping carry all her bags
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  Speaker 4: upstairs with the room and moving in, and we're in
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  Speaker 4: the car on the way home afterwards, and I kind
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  Speaker 4: of look at them and I'm like, had this sort
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  Speaker 4: of like mom moment where I realized it's like your time.
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  Speaker 4: Time moves so quickly that it's like I was like, you, guys,
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  Speaker 4: like in no time, this is gonna be us moving
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  Speaker 4: you in to the dorms or moving out of the house.
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  Speaker 4: And it made me really sad because I don't want
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  Speaker 4: that to happen. But I know, like, as parents, like
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  Speaker 4: your job to help them get ready to.
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  Speaker 3: Leave the nest. I get that, and they always come
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  Speaker 3: back to the nest like me, and that's great, and
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  Speaker 3: then they come back to the nest.
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  Speaker 4: I always want you to feel comfortable in the nest, right,
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  Speaker 4: But I said that, I was like, that's pretty crazy, huh,
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  Speaker 4: Like one day like and not that far off, really
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  Speaker 4: like it's gonna be a blink of an eye.
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  Speaker 3: It's gonna be you.
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  Speaker 4: And Easton should have just looks at me and he goes, yeah, Mom,
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  Speaker 4: you're like gonna be in tears.
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  Speaker 3: I know, get over it. That's just say to them,
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  Speaker 3: you may live with me forever.
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  Speaker 4: And I saw something that totally like it. It hit
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  Speaker 4: me really hard, but it was like, your job as
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  Speaker 4: a parent is to do the ones that like raise
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  Speaker 4: your kids to be able to live without you, and
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  Speaker 4: you're raising these people to live without you when you
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  Speaker 4: don't want to or can't live without them. But it's like,
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  Speaker 4: your job, I know, what I mean, I know.
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  Speaker 3: Is to make sure your kids can live without you,
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  Speaker 3: but that that don't that they don't want to something
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  Speaker 3: like that.
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  Speaker 4: Like that, it was saying something like, your job is
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  Speaker 4: to make sure that they can live without you when you.
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  Speaker 3: Don't want to live without Your job is to make
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  Speaker 3: sure your kids can live without you, and to make
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  Speaker 3: sure that they can that they it's okay, it's okay
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  Speaker 3: for them that no way, it's okay for them to
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  Speaker 3: live without you, and your job is to make sure
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  Speaker 3: that they can, just like if you die, you can.
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  Speaker 3: There's there's all kinds of stuff either way. The beginning
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  Speaker 3: part was always like your job, so whatever your job. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I saw that same post.
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  Speaker 4: It was like, oh, that's right, it's like I don't
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  Speaker 4: want to live without them, but like that is my
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  Speaker 4: job to like push him out of the nest at.
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  Speaker 1: One point, don't you think all the all the milestones
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  Speaker 1: are both like great to like celebrate, but then you're
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  Speaker 1: a little sad because they're not little anymore.
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  Speaker 4: And see, to me, they are still little, but like
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  Speaker 4: like in the grand scheme of things, like I think
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  Speaker 4: they're not like toddlers anymore, but they're still like you know,
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  Speaker 4: they're in grade school.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, I one of the things that I can
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  Speaker 3: remember in the past, and this seems to me, like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, this was just like yesterday. This literally feels
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  Speaker 3: like yesterday. I it's exactly where I was standing. The
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  Speaker 3: emotions are so real. When we moved camp to Hawaii
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  Speaker 3: and I had to say goodbye to him, I was
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  Speaker 3: in his driveway in his new house, and I it
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  Speaker 3: was so tough to say goodbye, And that feels like yesterday, right,
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  Speaker 3: And he's coming home in May, like four years has
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  Speaker 3: gone by, like it's like so fast, it's so fast,
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  Speaker 3: and I and I think about how a red I
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  Speaker 3: was there, but it's okay, like he's coming home, you
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  Speaker 3: know what I mean. And so it's it's just that's
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  Speaker 3: where I sit there and have this moment where actually
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  Speaker 3: I think I can't remember if this happened on our
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  Speaker 3: show or I was talking to somebody where they go.
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  Speaker 3: They were talking about something happened a long time ago.
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  Speaker 3: They said it was twenty nineteen, and I was like,
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  Speaker 3: twenty nineteen. I don't know, that's not a long long
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  Speaker 3: time ago, but it is. I guess just happens. I know,
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  Speaker 3: but I like, it just doesn't seem like is that long? Yeah? Weird? Man,
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  Speaker 3: time time travel? I know, Man, did you find the meme?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 4: I was looking for it.
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  Speaker 3: No parenting now, but I was gonna say, now, it's
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  Speaker 3: very rare that you and I have the same stuff
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  Speaker 3: pop up in our algorithms. But but now it's that
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  Speaker 3: meme had to come up in your algorithm because you're
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  Speaker 3: fair in my algorithm, because it's something yeah several times. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: algorithms are a big deal. Mine's really weird.
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  Speaker 1: I want to bring these two little quick things up
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  Speaker 1: because it's inundated my algorithm. I know that I'm in
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  Speaker 1: the UFOST.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like we have a warning because now I'm
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  Speaker 3: not gonna get a U post value.
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  Speaker 1: Try to block your phones right now. But two things
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  Speaker 1: have been showing up, Like, do you guys know about
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  Speaker 1: the day where we're not supposed to have gravity for
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  Speaker 1: like seven seconds?
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  Speaker 4: I've heard of this, but I don't know, like if.
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  Speaker 3: The quick version, I don't know if it's actually accurate.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it is. But the quick version is
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  Speaker 1: NASA released this high level memo on I think it's
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  Speaker 1: like a day in August where we're not supposed to
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  Speaker 1: have gravity, and low key they're planning for that to
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  Speaker 1: kill us all because it could be very very very
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  Speaker 1: damage flying well.
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  Speaker 4: For seven seconds and you're outside and then when the
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  Speaker 4: gravity comes back, you're falling down from a pretty high altitude.
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  Speaker 3: Reason to lose weight.
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  Speaker 1: But it's like a high level NASA memo that came
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  Speaker 1: out that got leaked somehow. And then they're like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: world governments are preparing there. You know, you can tell
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  Speaker 1: when you see things getting locked down. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what you hold on to.
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  Speaker 2: But why would we lose gravity? Like are they doing
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  Speaker 2: something that's causing that time?
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  Speaker 1: It's a cosmic thing, we're something it's some kind of
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  Speaker 1: black hole that's spreading some kind of energy that disrupts
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  Speaker 1: the sun or disrupts the gravity field for just seven seconds.
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  Speaker 2: There's somebody in like a law like a lab like
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  Speaker 2: Hawkins Lab. Well, that's the problem pressing a button and
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  Speaker 2: is like having fun.
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  Speaker 1: The more I read about, the more I'm starting to
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  Speaker 1: believe it's true. And the other one that I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if you guys have heard about is have you
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  Speaker 1: heard about this? In my algorithm only? Is the underground
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  Speaker 1: city underneath La that's got like buildings.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I've heard of that. Yeah, they got like the Starbucks,
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  Speaker 3: Like that's where Will Smith goes against the Starbucks. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and there's like hundreds of thousands of people living there.
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  Speaker 3: I can't see that. Dell is a disaster.
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  Speaker 1: It keeps on popping up, and now it's the point
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  Speaker 1: where people are like, we've been telling you about this
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  Speaker 1: since twenty sixteen. This underground La City is pumping and
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  Speaker 1: I had not heard about it at all until this
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  Speaker 1: week where it's just blowing up My feet? Is it
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  Speaker 1: blowing up anybody else's feet?
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  Speaker 3: Are just Miney? No, I haven't heard of that before.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm like, too, well, then let's see it. I
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  Speaker 3: want to see it. Yeah, why can't someone post the picture?
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna Starbucks Underground. I'm good with that, all right?
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  Speaker 3: What's in your feed eight seven seven ninety three seven
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  Speaker 3: one o four seven or Texas text JGR whatever you
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  Speaker 3: want to say. The nine sixt eight nine three I
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  Speaker 3: found the actual means oh good one kind of right.
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  Speaker 4: So it's the hardest part of parenting is realizing you're
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  Speaker 4: raising the ones you can't live without so that they can.
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  Speaker 3: Live without you. That's it. That's the one that's the meme.
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  Speaker 3: See that's email. Very good, all right, John Jay and
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  Speaker 3: Rich