Latest / The Billionaire Brain® Podcast / Ep167 - Breaking Through Success Barriers That No One Talks About
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- 0:00Welcome
- 0:00to
- 0:01dawn
- 0:01of
- 0:01a
- 0:01new
- 0:02Era,
- 0:02where
- 0:02we
- 0:02talk
- 0:02all
- 0:03things
- 0:03millionaire
- 0:04mindset
- 0:04and
- 0:05scaling
- 0:05strategy
- 0:06so
- 0:06you
- 0:06can
- 0:06think,
- 0:07feel,
- 0:07and
- 0:07scale
- 0:08like
- 0:08the
- 0:08top
- 0:081%.
- 0:09I'm
- 0:10Dawn
- 0:10McGrewer,
- 0:10the
- 0:10business
- 0:11growth
- 0:11coach,
- 0:11Forbes
- 0:12mentor,
- 0:12and
- 0:12serial
- 0:13entrepreneur.
- 0:14Each
- 0:14week
- 0:15we'll
- 0:15ditch
- 0:15the
- 0:16fluff,
- 0:16dive
- 0:16into
- 0:17the
- 0:17neuroscience
- 0:17of
- 0:18success,
- 0:18and
- 0:18share
- 0:19the
- 0:19good,
- 0:19the
- 0:19bad,
- 0:19and
- 0:20the
- 0:20ugly
- 0:20of
- 0:20building
- 0:21wealth,
- 0:21impact,
- 0:22and
- 0:22freedom.
- 0:23If
- 0:23you're
- 0:23ready
- 0:23to
- 0:24play
- 0:24bigger
- 0:24and
- 0:24rewrite
- 0:25the
- 0:25rules
- 0:25of
- 0:25business,
- 0:26you're
- 0:26in
- 0:26the
- 0:26right
- 0:27place.
- 0:27Let's
- 0:27go.
- 0:29So
- 0:29I'm
- 0:29going
- 0:29to
- 0:29be
- 0:29dropping
- 0:30some
- 0:30truth
- 0:30bombs
- 0:31in
- 0:31today's
- 0:32podcast
- 0:32because
- 0:33we're
- 0:33going
- 0:33to
- 0:33be
- 0:33talking
- 0:33about
- 0:35breaking
- 0:35through
- 0:36success
- 0:36barriers
- 0:37that
- 0:37no
- 0:37one
- 0:37talks
- 0:38about.
- 0:38And
- 0:38this
- 0:39really
- 0:39is
- 0:40key
- 0:40in
- 0:40every
- 0:41business
- 0:41owner's
- 0:42journey,
- 0:43because
- 0:44every
- 0:44ambitious
- 0:45entrepreneur,
- 0:46right,
- 0:46who's
- 0:47ever
- 0:47thought
- 0:49this
- 0:49statement
- 0:50falls
- 0:50into
- 0:51this
- 0:51category,
- 0:51because
- 0:52if
- 0:53I
- 0:53just
- 0:53had
- 0:54the
- 0:54perfect
- 0:55strategy,
- 0:55I'd
- 0:56be
- 0:56at
- 0:56my
- 0:56next
- 0:57level
- 0:57now.
- 0:58So
- 0:59we've
- 0:59all
- 1:00done
- 1:00it.
- 1:00If
- 1:01I
- 1:01could,
- 1:01if
- 1:01I
- 1:02could
- 1:02just,
- 1:02you
- 1:03know,
- 1:03it's
- 1:03one
- 1:03of
- 1:04those
- 1:04things
- 1:04that
- 1:05we
- 1:05say
- 1:06almost
- 1:06daily.
- 1:07And
- 1:07I
- 1:07want
- 1:07you
- 1:07to
- 1:07really
- 1:08be
- 1:08conscious
- 1:08about
- 1:09your
- 1:09language,
- 1:09because
- 1:10what
- 1:11happens
- 1:11here
- 1:12is
- 1:12that
- 1:12we
- 1:13are
- 1:13not
- 1:13aware
- 1:13that
- 1:13we're
- 1:14actually
- 1:14conditioning
- 1:15our
- 1:15brain
- 1:15around
- 1:16our
- 1:17narrative,
- 1:18the
- 1:18way
- 1:18that
- 1:18we
- 1:18talk.
- 1:19We.
- 1:19We
- 1:19create
- 1:20these
- 1:20stories
- 1:21based
- 1:21on
- 1:21what
- 1:21we're
- 1:22saying
- 1:22and
- 1:22we're
- 1:23doing.
- 1:24So
- 1:24what
- 1:24we
- 1:24want
- 1:24to
- 1:24do
- 1:25is
- 1:25retrain
- 1:26our
- 1:26brain,
- 1:27and
- 1:27we
- 1:27want
- 1:28to
- 1:28be
- 1:28open
- 1:28to
- 1:28the
- 1:28fact
- 1:29that
- 1:29we
- 1:30are
- 1:30aware
- 1:31that
- 1:32we
- 1:32are
- 1:33magical
- 1:34people
- 1:34who
- 1:35are
- 1:35doing
- 1:36amazing
- 1:37things
- 1:37and
- 1:38creating
- 1:38impact
- 1:39and
- 1:39transformation
- 1:40and
- 1:41changing
- 1:41lives.
- 1:42But
- 1:43we
- 1:43have
- 1:43to
- 1:43be
- 1:43mindful
- 1:44that
- 1:45we
- 1:45are
- 1:45the
- 1:46catalyst
- 1:46in
- 1:47these
- 1:47changes.
- 1:47Because
- 1:48here's
- 1:49the
- 1:49thing,
- 1:49like,
- 1:49strategy
- 1:50alone
- 1:51is
- 1:51not
- 1:52going
- 1:52to
- 1:52be
- 1:53the
- 1:53winning
- 1:53ticket.
- 1:55And
- 1:56a
- 1:56lot
- 1:56of
- 1:56people
- 1:56lean
- 1:57into
- 1:57strategy.
- 1:58They,
- 1:58they
- 1:58talk
- 1:58about
- 1:59it,
- 1:59you
- 1:59may
- 1:59have
- 1:59heard,
- 2:00like,
- 2:00with
- 2:00the
- 2:00difference
- 2:00between
- 2:00masculine
- 2:01and
- 2:01feminine
- 2:02energy.
- 2:02They,
- 2:02they
- 2:03click,
- 2:03they
- 2:03lean
- 2:04into
- 2:04their
- 2:04masculinity,
- 2:05and
- 2:05they
- 2:06start
- 2:06just
- 2:06driving
- 2:07action.
- 2:08Now,
- 2:08the
- 2:08thing
- 2:08is
- 2:08here
- 2:09that
- 2:10certain
- 2:10strategies
- 2:11will
- 2:11work
- 2:11better
- 2:12for
- 2:12different
- 2:13types
- 2:13of
- 2:13people.
- 2:14And
- 2:14it
- 2:14depends
- 2:15on
- 2:15what
- 2:15your
- 2:16belief
- 2:16system
- 2:16is
- 2:17and
- 2:17also
- 2:18what
- 2:19your
- 2:19own
- 2:20unique
- 2:20personal
- 2:21success
- 2:22strategies
- 2:23are.
- 2:24Now,
- 2:24they're
- 2:24based
- 2:24on
- 2:25what
- 2:25your
- 2:26success
- 2:27barriers
- 2:27are.
- 2:28Because
- 2:28the
- 2:29thing
- 2:29is,
- 2:29is
- 2:29that
- 2:29we
- 2:30could
- 2:30be
- 2:30pushing
- 2:31a
- 2:31strategy,
- 2:32but
- 2:32until
- 2:32we
- 2:33actually
- 2:34reduce
- 2:34those
- 2:35barriers
- 2:35and
- 2:36manage
- 2:36how
- 2:37that
- 2:37you
- 2:38use
- 2:38them
- 2:38as
- 2:39a
- 2:39superpower
- 2:39or
- 2:40reduce
- 2:41those
- 2:41barriers
- 2:42or
- 2:42overcome
- 2:42them
- 2:43or
- 2:43start
- 2:43to
- 2:43challenge
- 2:44some
- 2:44of
- 2:44those
- 2:44barriers,
- 2:46these
- 2:46concepts
- 2:47will
- 2:47not
- 2:47fly
- 2:48in
- 2:48your
- 2:48business
- 2:48because
- 2:50it's
- 2:50all
- 2:50about
- 2:52what
- 2:52to
- 2:53do
- 2:53instead.
- 2:53And
- 2:54I
- 2:54think
- 2:54the,
- 2:54the.
- 2:55The
- 2:55difference
- 2:56here
- 2:56is,
- 2:56is
- 2:57that
- 2:57when
- 2:57I
- 2:58meet
- 2:58people
- 2:59who
- 2:59are
- 3:00self,
- 3:00aware,
- 3:02they
- 3:03have
- 3:03A
- 3:03different
- 3:03understanding
- 3:04of
- 3:04how
- 3:04their
- 3:04mind
- 3:04works.
- 3:05And
- 3:06this,
- 3:06for
- 3:06me,
- 3:07was
- 3:07something
- 3:07that
- 3:07changed
- 3:08the
- 3:08way
- 3:08that
- 3:08I
- 3:09did
- 3:09business.
- 3:10Back
- 3:10in
- 3:11my
- 3:11late
- 3:11teens,
- 3:12early
- 3:1220s,
- 3:14I
- 3:14started
- 3:15really
- 3:15kind
- 3:16of
- 3:16leaning
- 3:16into
- 3:17psychology,
- 3:18studying
- 3:19business
- 3:19and
- 3:20marketing.
- 3:21And
- 3:22I
- 3:22felt
- 3:22that
- 3:23they
- 3:23all
- 3:23went
- 3:23hand
- 3:24in
- 3:24hand
- 3:25because
- 3:25they
- 3:26were
- 3:26all
- 3:26about
- 3:26how
- 3:27people
- 3:27think
- 3:28and
- 3:28what
- 3:28they
- 3:29do
- 3:29and
- 3:29their
- 3:29behavior.
- 3:30And
- 3:31for
- 3:32me,
- 3:32if
- 3:32we
- 3:33could
- 3:33understand
- 3:33that
- 3:34and
- 3:34understanding
- 3:35how
- 3:35people's
- 3:35minds
- 3:36worked,
- 3:37we
- 3:37could
- 3:38improve
- 3:38how
- 3:38they
- 3:39felt.
- 3:39We
- 3:39could
- 3:41grow
- 3:41businesses.
- 3:42We
- 3:42could
- 3:43literally
- 3:44align
- 3:44our
- 3:45marketing
- 3:45strategies
- 3:46to,
- 3:46to
- 3:47sell
- 3:47more.
- 3:48So
- 3:48this
- 3:49was
- 3:49kind
- 3:49of
- 3:50like
- 3:50the
- 3:50hub,
- 3:50the
- 3:51heart
- 3:51of
- 3:51everything,
- 3:52understanding
- 3:53the
- 3:53mind.
- 3:54And
- 3:54I
- 3:54started
- 3:54to
- 3:54delve
- 3:55into
- 3:56neuroscience.
- 3:57I
- 3:57started
- 3:58to
- 3:58look
- 3:58at
- 3:58nlp,
- 3:59holistic
- 4:00modalities.
- 4:00And
- 4:01I
- 4:01started
- 4:01to
- 4:02study
- 4:03around
- 4:03business
- 4:04performance
- 4:04coaching
- 4:05and
- 4:05mentoring.
- 4:06And
- 4:07this
- 4:07is
- 4:07really
- 4:08when
- 4:08my
- 4:09whole
- 4:09fascination
- 4:10of
- 4:10the
- 4:10mind
- 4:11started.
- 4:12And
- 4:12over
- 4:12the
- 4:12past
- 4:1325
- 4:13years,
- 4:14I
- 4:15have
- 4:15been
- 4:15fascinated
- 4:16around
- 4:17habits
- 4:17of
- 4:17highly
- 4:18successful
- 4:19people.
- 4:19I've
- 4:20been
- 4:20fascinated
- 4:21about
- 4:21the
- 4:21difference
- 4:22between
- 4:24people
- 4:24and
- 4:25cultures
- 4:26and
- 4:26the
- 4:26way
- 4:26that
- 4:27people
- 4:27do
- 4:28business.
- 4:29For
- 4:29me,
- 4:30the
- 4:30more
- 4:31I
- 4:31understood,
- 4:32the
- 4:32easier
- 4:32things
- 4:33flowed.
- 4:34And
- 4:34when
- 4:34I
- 4:35talk
- 4:35about
- 4:36actually
- 4:36having
- 4:37alignment
- 4:37in
- 4:38my
- 4:38business,
- 4:39I
- 4:39don't
- 4:39believe
- 4:40that
- 4:40we
- 4:40ever
- 4:41really,
- 4:41truly
- 4:41have
- 4:41work,
- 4:42life
- 4:42balance.
- 4:42But
- 4:43what
- 4:43I
- 4:43do
- 4:43believe
- 4:44we
- 4:44can
- 4:44have
- 4:45is
- 4:45complete
- 4:46alignment
- 4:46around
- 4:47our
- 4:47purpose
- 4:47and
- 4:47our
- 4:48mission
- 4:48and
- 4:48vision.
- 4:49I
- 4:49believe
- 4:50that
- 4:50we
- 4:50can
- 4:51do
- 4:51things
- 4:51to
- 4:51proactively
- 4:52boost
- 4:53our
- 4:53health,
- 4:53our
- 4:53wealth
- 4:54or
- 4:54happiness.
- 4:55And
- 4:55I
- 4:56believe
- 4:56that
- 4:56we
- 4:56can
- 4:57change
- 4:57our
- 4:58habits
- 4:58into
- 4:59more
- 4:59positive,
- 5:00not
- 5:01through
- 5:01changing
- 5:01the
- 5:01habit,
- 5:02but
- 5:02through
- 5:02changing
- 5:03the
- 5:03environment.
- 5:04Now,
- 5:05this
- 5:05is
- 5:05true
- 5:05when
- 5:06people
- 5:06come
- 5:06to
- 5:06me
- 5:07and
- 5:07say,
- 5:07dawn,
- 5:07I
- 5:08want
- 5:08to
- 5:08scale
- 5:09my
- 5:09business.
- 5:10Dawn,
- 5:10my
- 5:10strategy
- 5:11is
- 5:11not
- 5:11working.
- 5:12Dawn,
- 5:12I
- 5:13don't
- 5:13know
- 5:13why
- 5:13I
- 5:14can't
- 5:14get
- 5:14consistent
- 5:15high
- 5:16income
- 5:16cash
- 5:16months.
- 5:17Dawn,
- 5:17I'm
- 5:17stuck
- 5:18at
- 5:18an
- 5:18income
- 5:18level.
- 5:19All
- 5:19of
- 5:19these
- 5:20things
- 5:21really
- 5:22have
- 5:23to
- 5:23be
- 5:23understood
- 5:24from
- 5:24a
- 5:24matter
- 5:25of
- 5:25the
- 5:25mind.
- 5:26Because
- 5:27if
- 5:28you
- 5:28do
- 5:28actions
- 5:29without
- 5:30understanding
- 5:31the
- 5:32why,
- 5:33that's
- 5:33when
- 5:33they
- 5:33don't
- 5:34fly.
- 5:35So
- 5:35if
- 5:35there's
- 5:36one
- 5:36thing
- 5:36that
- 5:36you
- 5:36take
- 5:37from
- 5:37this,
- 5:37if
- 5:38you
- 5:38feel
- 5:39that
- 5:39maybe
- 5:40you're
- 5:40doing
- 5:40something
- 5:40your
- 5:41business,
- 5:41and
- 5:41it
- 5:41feels
- 5:42clunky,
- 5:42it
- 5:42feels
- 5:43tough,
- 5:43it
- 5:43feels
- 5:44just
- 5:44incongruent,
- 5:45it
- 5:45just
- 5:45doesn't
- 5:46feel
- 5:46aligned
- 5:46to
- 5:47you,
- 5:47then
- 5:47it
- 5:47probably
- 5:48isn't.
- 5:48So
- 5:49stop
- 5:50and
- 5:50rethink
- 5:51it.
- 5:51What
- 5:51we
- 5:52need
- 5:52to
- 5:52do
- 5:52is
- 5:53often
- 5:53rewire
- 5:54the
- 5:54brain
- 5:55in
- 5:55the
- 5:55CEO,
- 5:56in
- 5:56the
- 5:56founder,
- 5:57in
- 5:57the
- 5:57business
- 5:57owner
- 5:58before
- 5:59moving
- 5:59into
- 5:59the
- 5:59scaling
- 6:00strategy.
- 6:01And
- 6:01this
- 6:01is
- 6:01why
- 6:02I
- 6:02always
- 6:02talk
- 6:03about
- 6:03millionaire
- 6:04mindset
- 6:04and
- 6:05scaling
- 6:05strategy,
- 6:05because
- 6:06I
- 6:06believe
- 6:06the
- 6:06two
- 6:06go
- 6:07hand
- 6:07in
- 6:07hand.
- 6:08Now,
- 6:09if
- 6:09you
- 6:09think
- 6:10about
- 6:10strategy,
- 6:12the
- 6:12one
- 6:12part
- 6:12I
- 6:13want
- 6:13to
- 6:13talk
- 6:14about
- 6:14now
- 6:14is
- 6:15something
- 6:16that
- 6:16literally,
- 6:17if
- 6:17I
- 6:17go
- 6:17as
- 6:18far
- 6:18Back
- 6:19as
- 6:19I
- 6:19can
- 6:20remember,
- 6:20even
- 6:20back
- 6:20to
- 6:21school,
- 6:21I
- 6:22remember
- 6:22this
- 6:22principle
- 6:23and
- 6:24I
- 6:24remember
- 6:24Pareto's
- 6:25law,
- 6:25the
- 6:268020
- 6:27rule.
- 6:28Now
- 6:29what
- 6:29I
- 6:29believe
- 6:30in
- 6:30is
- 6:3180%
- 6:32mindset
- 6:33and
- 6:3420%
- 6:35strategy.
- 6:36Because
- 6:37over
- 6:38the
- 6:38past
- 6:38two
- 6:38decades,
- 6:39you
- 6:39know,
- 6:39through
- 6:40mentoring
- 6:4130,000
- 6:42different
- 6:43entrepreneurs,
- 6:44I
- 6:45promise
- 6:45you,
- 6:46in
- 6:46every
- 6:47single
- 6:47case,
- 6:48the
- 6:49ones
- 6:49who
- 6:49have
- 6:49scaled
- 6:50to
- 6:506
- 6:51and
- 6:517
- 6:52and
- 6:528
- 6:52and
- 6:539
- 6:53figures
- 6:55fastest
- 6:57weren't
- 6:57the
- 6:58ones
- 6:58with
- 6:58the
- 6:58flashiest
- 6:59funnels.
- 7:00They
- 7:00weren't
- 7:01the
- 7:01ones
- 7:01with
- 7:01the
- 7:01most
- 7:02polished
- 7:02offers,
- 7:03and
- 7:04they
- 7:04weren't
- 7:04the
- 7:04ones
- 7:04with
- 7:04the
- 7:04most
- 7:05experience.
- 7:06What
- 7:06were
- 7:06they?
- 7:07They
- 7:07were
- 7:07the
- 7:07ones
- 7:08who
- 7:08really
- 7:09mastered
- 7:10mindset.
- 7:11They
- 7:11understood
- 7:12how
- 7:13their
- 7:13brain
- 7:14worked.
- 7:14And
- 7:15even
- 7:15further,
- 7:15they
- 7:16started
- 7:16to
- 7:17understand
- 7:17how
- 7:18their
- 7:18ideal
- 7:19clients
- 7:19brains
- 7:20worked.
- 7:21Now
- 7:22this
- 7:22is
- 7:22the
- 7:22key,
- 7:22because
- 7:23when
- 7:24we
- 7:24get
- 7:24so
- 7:26transfixed
- 7:27on
- 7:27what
- 7:27we
- 7:28want
- 7:28to
- 7:28do,
- 7:28and
- 7:29it
- 7:29could
- 7:29be
- 7:29a
- 7:29goal,
- 7:29it
- 7:30could
- 7:30be
- 7:30that
- 7:30you
- 7:30want
- 7:31a
- 7:31financial
- 7:31goal,
- 7:32you
- 7:32want
- 7:32a
- 7:32freedom
- 7:33goal,
- 7:33you
- 7:34have
- 7:34a
- 7:34dream
- 7:34or
- 7:35you
- 7:35want
- 7:35to
- 7:35buy
- 7:35something
- 7:36or
- 7:36do
- 7:36something
- 7:37or
- 7:37go
- 7:37somewhere,
- 7:38it
- 7:38doesn't
- 7:38matter
- 7:38what
- 7:38the
- 7:39goal
- 7:39is.
- 7:39But
- 7:39we
- 7:40become
- 7:40so
- 7:40transfixed
- 7:41on
- 7:41it
- 7:42that
- 7:42we
- 7:43forget
- 7:44that
- 7:44there
- 7:44will
- 7:44be
- 7:44little
- 7:45barriers
- 7:46and
- 7:46little
- 7:46curveballs
- 7:47and
- 7:47pitfalls
- 7:48along
- 7:48the
- 7:48way.
- 7:49Now
- 7:49what
- 7:49we
- 7:49need
- 7:49to
- 7:50do
- 7:50to
- 7:50navigate
- 7:50them
- 7:51is
- 7:51understand
- 7:52that
- 7:52often
- 7:52the
- 7:53challenge,
- 7:53the
- 7:53biggest
- 7:54challenge
- 7:54in
- 7:54any
- 7:55business
- 7:55right
- 7:55now
- 7:56is
- 7:56you.
- 7:57And
- 7:57it's
- 7:58true.
- 7:59We
- 7:59are
- 7:59often
- 7:59the
- 7:59person
- 8:00who
- 8:00gets
- 8:01in
- 8:01our
- 8:01own
- 8:01way.
- 8:02We
- 8:02are
- 8:02often
- 8:03the
- 8:04number
- 8:04one
- 8:04success
- 8:05barrier
- 8:05because
- 8:06you
- 8:07can
- 8:07have
- 8:07the
- 8:07most
- 8:07airtight
- 8:09business
- 8:09plan
- 8:10in
- 8:10the
- 8:10world.
- 8:12But
- 8:12if
- 8:12your
- 8:13beliefs
- 8:15and
- 8:15your
- 8:15habits
- 8:16and
- 8:17your
- 8:17self
- 8:17image
- 8:19isn't
- 8:19aligned
- 8:20with
- 8:20those
- 8:20goals,
- 8:22you'll
- 8:22sabotage
- 8:24definitely
- 8:24your
- 8:25own
- 8:25progress.
- 8:26And
- 8:26the
- 8:26amount
- 8:27of
- 8:27people
- 8:27that
- 8:27I
- 8:27see
- 8:28that
- 8:28when
- 8:28I
- 8:28start
- 8:29working
- 8:29with
- 8:29them,
- 8:30they
- 8:30might
- 8:30say
- 8:30to
- 8:31me,
- 8:31you
- 8:31know,
- 8:31I'm
- 8:32doing
- 8:32this
- 8:32and
- 8:32I'm
- 8:33putting
- 8:33all
- 8:33the
- 8:33effort,
- 8:34all
- 8:34the
- 8:34time,
- 8:34all
- 8:34the
- 8:35money
- 8:35in.
- 8:36And
- 8:36we
- 8:36look
- 8:36at
- 8:36it
- 8:37and
- 8:37the
- 8:38biggest
- 8:38problem
- 8:39is
- 8:39them.
- 8:40And
- 8:40I
- 8:41would
- 8:41put
- 8:41myself
- 8:42center
- 8:42first
- 8:42in
- 8:43a
- 8:43lot
- 8:43of
- 8:44the
- 8:44biggest
- 8:45fails
- 8:45I've
- 8:46had
- 8:46or
- 8:46the
- 8:46biggest
- 8:47challenges.
- 8:47It's
- 8:48me.
- 8:48I
- 8:48have
- 8:49been
- 8:49the
- 8:49problem.
- 8:49And
- 8:50when
- 8:50I've
- 8:50understood
- 8:51that,
- 8:51you
- 8:51know,
- 8:51this
- 8:52is
- 8:52not
- 8:52about
- 8:53running
- 8:53a
- 8:53business
- 8:53with
- 8:54ego,
- 8:54this
- 8:54is
- 8:54understanding
- 8:55that
- 8:55when
- 8:55you
- 8:56drop
- 8:56the
- 8:56ego
- 8:57and
- 8:57you
- 8:57understand
- 8:58that
- 8:58you
- 8:58are
- 8:59the
- 8:59problem,
- 9:00then
- 9:00life
- 9:00gets
- 9:01easier.
- 9:01And
- 9:01I
- 9:02laugh
- 9:02because
- 9:02for
- 9:03so
- 9:03long
- 9:03I
- 9:03used
- 9:04to
- 9:04tell
- 9:04myself
- 9:04it
- 9:05was
- 9:05the
- 9:05market,
- 9:06it
- 9:06was
- 9:06the
- 9:07this,
- 9:07it
- 9:07was
- 9:07that,
- 9:08that
- 9:08was
- 9:08the
- 9:08problem.
- 9:09And
- 9:09actually
- 9:10it
- 9:11was
- 9:11me.
- 9:11Classic
- 9:12example
- 9:12of
- 9:12this.
- 9:13Spent
- 9:14ages,
- 9:15ages
- 9:15perfecting
- 9:16an
- 9:16offer,
- 9:17going
- 9:17to
- 9:17market,
- 9:18launching
- 9:18it.
- 9:19Massive
- 9:19goals,
- 9:20absolutely
- 9:21flopped,
- 9:21failed
- 9:22disaster,
- 9:23hated
- 9:24every
- 9:24minute
- 9:24of
- 9:24it.
- 9:25But
- 9:26I
- 9:26went
- 9:27again
- 9:27and
- 9:28what
- 9:28I
- 9:29knew
- 9:29from
- 9:30that
- 9:30was
- 9:30I
- 9:31was
- 9:31the
- 9:31problem.
- 9:32I
- 9:32had
- 9:32spent
- 9:33so
- 9:33long
- 9:33trying
- 9:33to
- 9:34make
- 9:34it
- 9:34perfect
- 9:34that
- 9:35actually,
- 9:35if
- 9:35I'd
- 9:36launched
- 9:36it
- 9:36faster,
- 9:37I'd
- 9:37have
- 9:37learned
- 9:38quicker.
- 9:38I'd
- 9:39have
- 9:39understood
- 9:39that
- 9:40the.
- 9:40The
- 9:40marketing
- 9:41and
- 9:41the
- 9:41messaging
- 9:41was
- 9:41off.
- 9:42And
- 9:42actually,
- 9:43instead
- 9:43of
- 9:44designing
- 9:44it
- 9:44all
- 9:45internally
- 9:45with
- 9:46my
- 9:46team
- 9:46thinking
- 9:47this
- 9:47is
- 9:47what
- 9:47people
- 9:48want,
- 9:48I'd
- 9:49only
- 9:49managed
- 9:49to
- 9:50create
- 9:50interest
- 9:50in
- 9:50the
- 9:51market.
- 9:51I
- 9:51failed
- 9:52massively
- 9:53to
- 9:53create
- 9:54desire,
- 9:54which
- 9:55is
- 9:55when
- 9:55purchases
- 9:56happening.
- 9:57So
- 9:57when
- 9:57purchases
- 9:58happen,
- 9:58this
- 9:59is
- 9:59understanding
- 9:59the
- 10:00psychology
- 10:00of
- 10:00buying.
- 10:01And
- 10:01this
- 10:01is
- 10:01why
- 10:01the
- 10:02mind
- 10:02comes
- 10:02into
- 10:03every
- 10:03single
- 10:04part
- 10:04of
- 10:05our
- 10:05business.
- 10:05Because.
- 10:06Because
- 10:06most
- 10:07conventional
- 10:07strategies
- 10:08are
- 10:08maybe,
- 10:09like,
- 10:09designed
- 10:10for
- 10:11corporate
- 10:11or
- 10:12linear
- 10:12thinkers,
- 10:13and
- 10:14they'll
- 10:14fail
- 10:15us
- 10:16entrepreneurs
- 10:16and
- 10:17founders.
- 10:17Why?
- 10:18Because
- 10:19our
- 10:19brains
- 10:20are
- 10:20wired
- 10:21differently.
- 10:22And
- 10:22when
- 10:22we
- 10:22understand
- 10:23this
- 10:24and
- 10:24we
- 10:24understand
- 10:24that
- 10:25our
- 10:25brains
- 10:25are
- 10:25wired
- 10:25for
- 10:26things
- 10:26like
- 10:27novelty
- 10:28and
- 10:29speed
- 10:29and
- 10:30high
- 10:30reward,
- 10:31we're
- 10:31like,
- 10:31oh,
- 10:32I
- 10:32get
- 10:33it.
- 10:34This
- 10:34is
- 10:34why
- 10:34it's
- 10:34not
- 10:35working.
- 10:35Because
- 10:36that
- 10:36means
- 10:36your
- 10:36growth
- 10:37plan
- 10:37has
- 10:37to
- 10:38be
- 10:38work
- 10:39with
- 10:39your
- 10:40brain,
- 10:41not
- 10:41against
- 10:41it,
- 10:42strategy
- 10:43first.
- 10:43That
- 10:43is
- 10:44aligned
- 10:44to
- 10:44your
- 10:44way
- 10:45of
- 10:45thinking.
- 10:46Founders
- 10:49tend
- 10:50to
- 10:50be
- 10:50quite
- 10:51good,
- 10:51expansive,
- 10:52and
- 10:53quite
- 10:53good
- 10:53creative
- 10:54thinkers.
- 10:55At
- 10:55the
- 10:55end
- 10:55of
- 10:56the
- 10:56day,
- 10:56a
- 10:56business
- 10:57owner
- 10:57has
- 10:57created
- 10:58a
- 10:58business
- 10:58from
- 10:58a
- 10:59blank
- 10:59canvas.
- 10:59You
- 11:00know,
- 11:00that's
- 11:00pretty
- 11:00special
- 11:01in
- 11:01itself,
- 11:02but
- 11:02they've
- 11:02taken
- 11:03risks,
- 11:03but
- 11:04they're
- 11:04motivated
- 11:05differently.
- 11:06And
- 11:06you
- 11:06know,
- 11:06yourself
- 11:07as
- 11:07a
- 11:07business
- 11:07owner,
- 11:09if
- 11:09you
- 11:09understand
- 11:09what
- 11:10your
- 11:10true
- 11:10motivations
- 11:11are,
- 11:12you'll
- 11:12probably
- 11:13realize
- 11:14that
- 11:14often,
- 11:14like,
- 11:15money
- 11:15isn't
- 11:16the
- 11:16biggest
- 11:16factor.
- 11:17You
- 11:17know,
- 11:18when
- 11:18we
- 11:18start
- 11:19to
- 11:19see
- 11:20people
- 11:20really
- 11:21stepping
- 11:21into
- 11:21true
- 11:22happiness
- 11:23is
- 11:23when
- 11:23they've
- 11:23got
- 11:24enrichment.
- 11:24It's
- 11:25when
- 11:25their
- 11:25day
- 11:26flows
- 11:26and
- 11:27they
- 11:27live
- 11:27in
- 11:28enjoy
- 11:29and
- 11:29flow.
- 11:30And
- 11:30that
- 11:30comes
- 11:31from
- 11:32enjoying
- 11:33what
- 11:33you're
- 11:34doing,
- 11:34the
- 11:34experience,
- 11:35not
- 11:35just
- 11:35being
- 11:35transfixed
- 11:36on
- 11:36the.
- 11:36The
- 11:37end
- 11:37goal,
- 11:38but
- 11:38really
- 11:39experiencing
- 11:40and
- 11:41lavishing
- 11:41the
- 11:42journey
- 11:42that
- 11:42it
- 11:43takes.
- 11:43You
- 11:43know,
- 11:44so
- 11:44often
- 11:45we
- 11:45just
- 11:46think,
- 11:46I
- 11:46just
- 11:46need
- 11:46to
- 11:47get
- 11:47to
- 11:47somewhere.
- 11:48No,
- 11:48wrong
- 11:49way
- 11:49of
- 11:49thinking.
- 11:50We
- 11:50need
- 11:50to
- 11:51do
- 11:52different
- 11:52things
- 11:53to
- 11:53get
- 11:54to
- 11:54our
- 11:54destination
- 11:56that
- 11:56align
- 11:57with
- 11:57how
- 11:57our
- 11:58brains
- 11:58work.
- 11:58And
- 11:59if
- 11:59we're
- 11:59lit
- 12:00up
- 12:00and
- 12:00we
- 12:01feel
- 12:01in
- 12:01alignment
- 12:02and
- 12:02we
- 12:02feel
- 12:03joy,
- 12:03you
- 12:03know,
- 12:04you
- 12:04know
- 12:04those
- 12:04times
- 12:05in
- 12:05your
- 12:05business
- 12:05that
- 12:05you
- 12:06felt
- 12:06good.
- 12:07So
- 12:07this
- 12:08brings
- 12:08me
- 12:08on
- 12:08to
- 12:08the
- 12:09second
- 12:09part
- 12:10of
- 12:10my
- 12:10podcast,
- 12:11and
- 12:11one
- 12:11of
- 12:12the
- 12:12things
- 12:12that
- 12:12I
- 12:13really
- 12:13want
- 12:13to
- 12:14cover
- 12:14here
- 12:14is
- 12:15that
- 12:15it's
- 12:16around
- 12:16the
- 12:17science
- 12:17and
- 12:18the
- 12:18neuroscience
- 12:19of
- 12:19success.
- 12:20I'm
- 12:20often
- 12:20asked,
- 12:21like,
- 12:21what
- 12:22does
- 12:22neuroscience
- 12:23mean?
- 12:23And
- 12:23like,
- 12:23what's
- 12:24that
- 12:24got
- 12:24to
- 12:24do
- 12:24with
- 12:25strategy?
- 12:25And
- 12:25why
- 12:25do
- 12:26you
- 12:26talk
- 12:26about
- 12:26Japanese
- 12:26wisdom
- 12:27and
- 12:27psychodynamics
- 12:28and
- 12:29quantum
- 12:29psychology?
- 12:30I
- 12:30don't
- 12:30get
- 12:30it.
- 12:30It
- 12:31doesn't
- 12:31seem
- 12:31like
- 12:32it's
- 12:32the.
- 12:32The
- 12:33same
- 12:33topic
- 12:34it
- 12:34absolutely
- 12:35is.
- 12:35It's,
- 12:36it's
- 12:36almost
- 12:36like
- 12:37these
- 12:37are
- 12:37the
- 12:37cluster
- 12:38of
- 12:38things
- 12:38that
- 12:39go
- 12:39hand
- 12:39in
- 12:39hand
- 12:40with
- 12:41strategy.
- 12:42These
- 12:42are
- 12:43the
- 12:43things
- 12:43that
- 12:44make
- 12:45understanding
- 12:46the
- 12:46brain,
- 12:46really
- 12:47getting
- 12:47a
- 12:47handle
- 12:48on
- 12:48your
- 12:48mindset
- 12:50really,
- 12:50really
- 12:51important.
- 12:51Because
- 12:53when
- 12:53we
- 12:53understand
- 12:54how
- 12:54the
- 12:55brain
- 12:55works,
- 12:55I
- 12:56want
- 12:56to
- 12:56explain
- 12:57kind
- 12:57of
- 12:57like
- 12:58when
- 12:58the
- 12:58science
- 12:58kicks
- 12:59in,
- 12:59what
- 12:59happens
- 13:00in
- 13:00the
- 13:00mind
- 13:00because
- 13:01your
- 13:02brain
- 13:02basically
- 13:03has
- 13:03this
- 13:04built
- 13:04in
- 13:05filter
- 13:05and
- 13:06it's
- 13:06called
- 13:06our
- 13:06reticular
- 13:07activating
- 13:09system.
- 13:10Now
- 13:10RAS
- 13:11is
- 13:11something
- 13:12that
- 13:12often
- 13:12you'll
- 13:13have
- 13:13heard,
- 13:13bit
- 13:13like
- 13:14red
- 13:14car
- 13:14syndrome.
- 13:15So
- 13:16it's
- 13:16almost
- 13:16like
- 13:17we
- 13:17become
- 13:18aware
- 13:18of
- 13:19something
- 13:20because
- 13:20we've
- 13:21been
- 13:21told
- 13:21about
- 13:21it.
- 13:22So
- 13:22think
- 13:22about
- 13:23this
- 13:2395%
- 13:24of
- 13:24your
- 13:24actions
- 13:25every
- 13:25single
- 13:25day,
- 13:26every
- 13:26single
- 13:27day
- 13:28you're
- 13:28not
- 13:28even
- 13:28conscious
- 13:29of.
- 13:29So
- 13:29we
- 13:30are
- 13:30just
- 13:30floating
- 13:31through
- 13:31life
- 13:32unconsciously,
- 13:33like
- 13:33not
- 13:33even
- 13:34aware
- 13:34of
- 13:34what
- 13:34we're
- 13:34doing.
- 13:35You
- 13:35know,
- 13:35it's
- 13:35like
- 13:35driving
- 13:35a
- 13:36car.
- 13:36We're
- 13:37literally
- 13:38just
- 13:38so
- 13:38into
- 13:39our
- 13:39routine
- 13:40that
- 13:41we
- 13:41are
- 13:41literally
- 13:42driving
- 13:43along
- 13:44and
- 13:45we
- 13:45don't
- 13:46even
- 13:46know
- 13:46maybe
- 13:46what
- 13:47we
- 13:47passed.
- 13:47We
- 13:47don't
- 13:48remember
- 13:48the
- 13:49journey.
- 13:49How
- 13:49often
- 13:49has
- 13:50that
- 13:50happened?
- 13:51So
- 13:52its
- 13:52job
- 13:53here
- 13:53for
- 13:54the
- 13:54reticular
- 13:54activating
- 13:55system
- 13:55is
- 13:56to
- 13:56decide
- 13:56what
- 13:57information
- 13:59reaches
- 14:00your
- 14:00conscious
- 14:00mind.
- 14:01Now
- 14:03you've
- 14:03basically
- 14:04told
- 14:04it
- 14:04what
- 14:05you
- 14:05believe
- 14:05is
- 14:05important.
- 14:06So
- 14:06it's
- 14:07just
- 14:07front
- 14:07loading
- 14:08those
- 14:08certain
- 14:09things.
- 14:10Now
- 14:10if
- 14:10your
- 14:11internal
- 14:12programming
- 14:12is
- 14:13saying
- 14:13oh,
- 14:14scaling
- 14:14is
- 14:14risky,
- 14:15or
- 14:15maybe
- 14:16you've
- 14:16got
- 14:16the
- 14:16narrative
- 14:17of
- 14:17like
- 14:18I'm
- 14:18not
- 14:18ready
- 14:19for
- 14:19100k
- 14:19months
- 14:20yet,
- 14:20or
- 14:21I
- 14:21don't
- 14:21deserve
- 14:22100k
- 14:22months
- 14:22or
- 14:23100k
- 14:23months
- 14:24are
- 14:24not
- 14:24something
- 14:24that
- 14:24I
- 14:25will
- 14:25ever
- 14:25do,
- 14:25they're
- 14:25for
- 14:26other
- 14:26people.
- 14:27Then
- 14:28your
- 14:28brain
- 14:28is
- 14:28literally
- 14:29filtering
- 14:29that
- 14:30out
- 14:31and
- 14:31taking
- 14:31away
- 14:32those
- 14:32opportunities
- 14:33that
- 14:34you
- 14:35could
- 14:35have.
- 14:36So
- 14:36what
- 14:36we
- 14:36have
- 14:36to
- 14:37do
- 14:37is
- 14:38it's
- 14:38almost
- 14:38like
- 14:40having
- 14:41like
- 14:41a
- 14:41personal
- 14:41assistant
- 14:42who's
- 14:44keeps
- 14:44bidding
- 14:44the
- 14:45most
- 14:45important
- 14:45like
- 14:46invitations.
- 14:46And
- 14:46they're
- 14:47not
- 14:47sharing
- 14:47that
- 14:47with
- 14:47you,
- 14:48they're
- 14:48just
- 14:48like,
- 14:48oh
- 14:48no,
- 14:49not
- 14:49for
- 14:49you,
- 14:49not
- 14:50for
- 14:50you,
- 14:50not
- 14:50for
- 14:50you.
- 14:51They
- 14:51filtered
- 14:52that
- 14:52out.
- 14:53And
- 14:53this
- 14:53is
- 14:54why
- 14:54when
- 14:54we
- 14:54think
- 14:54about
- 14:55rewiring,
- 14:56it's
- 14:56so
- 14:56important
- 14:58and
- 14:58so
- 14:58critical
- 14:59for
- 14:59your
- 14:59success
- 15:00that
- 15:01we
- 15:01need
- 15:01to
- 15:01focus
- 15:02on
- 15:02it
- 15:02and
- 15:02we
- 15:03need
- 15:03to
- 15:03make
- 15:04certain
- 15:04things
- 15:06come
- 15:06into
- 15:06your
- 15:07conscious
- 15:07mind.
- 15:07And
- 15:08this
- 15:08is
- 15:08called
- 15:09conscious
- 15:09conditioning.
- 15:11So
- 15:12what
- 15:12you
- 15:12start
- 15:13consciously.
- 15:15So
- 15:16I
- 15:16suppose
- 15:16a
- 15:16better
- 15:16way
- 15:16of
- 15:17saying
- 15:17is,
- 15:17so
- 15:17when
- 15:17you
- 15:18start
- 15:19consciously
- 15:20priming
- 15:20your
- 15:20reticular
- 15:21activating
- 15:22system
- 15:22to
- 15:23see
- 15:23opportunities,
- 15:25support
- 15:25and
- 15:26solutions,
- 15:28you'll
- 15:28be
- 15:28shocked
- 15:29and
- 15:29about
- 15:29what's
- 15:30actually
- 15:30been
- 15:30hiding
- 15:31in
- 15:31plain
- 15:31sight.
- 15:32And
- 15:32I
- 15:33think
- 15:33the
- 15:33thing
- 15:33is
- 15:33here
- 15:33is
- 15:34that
- 15:34we
- 15:34start
- 15:35to
- 15:35notice
- 15:35things
- 15:36differently
- 15:36as
- 15:36soon
- 15:37as
- 15:37we
- 15:37bring
- 15:37things
- 15:38into
- 15:38Our
- 15:39conscious
- 15:39mind,
- 15:39we're
- 15:40like,
- 15:40oh,
- 15:40I
- 15:40never
- 15:41saw
- 15:41that
- 15:41before.
- 15:41I
- 15:42never
- 15:42realized
- 15:43it
- 15:43looked
- 15:43like
- 15:43this.
- 15:44This
- 15:44is
- 15:44about
- 15:45reestablishing
- 15:46what's
- 15:46important
- 15:47to
- 15:47you.
- 15:48Instead
- 15:48of
- 15:48doing
- 15:49actions
- 15:49that
- 15:50you
- 15:50think
- 15:50you
- 15:50should
- 15:50be
- 15:51doing,
- 15:51or
- 15:51things
- 15:51that
- 15:52people
- 15:52are
- 15:52telling
- 15:52you
- 15:52should
- 15:53be
- 15:53doing,
- 15:54this
- 15:54is
- 15:54about
- 15:56consciously
- 15:56committing
- 15:57to
- 15:57the
- 15:57actions
- 15:58aligned
- 15:58to
- 15:58your
- 15:58goal
- 15:59and
- 15:59telling
- 15:59yourself
- 16:00100%,
- 16:02this
- 16:02is
- 16:02my
- 16:02goal.
- 16:03And
- 16:03then
- 16:04stepping
- 16:04into
- 16:04your
- 16:05highest
- 16:05version
- 16:06of
- 16:06yourself
- 16:07and
- 16:07imagining
- 16:08you
- 16:08living
- 16:08this.
- 16:09Because
- 16:10the
- 16:10more
- 16:10that
- 16:10we
- 16:10can
- 16:11bring
- 16:11this
- 16:11into
- 16:11your
- 16:11reality,
- 16:13the.
- 16:13The
- 16:14more
- 16:14your
- 16:14brain
- 16:14believes
- 16:15this
- 16:15is
- 16:15the
- 16:15new
- 16:16truth.
- 16:17So
- 16:18let
- 16:18me
- 16:18share
- 16:18a
- 16:18little
- 16:18bit
- 16:19next
- 16:19about
- 16:20psychodynamics.
- 16:21Because
- 16:22psychodynamics
- 16:23is
- 16:23like
- 16:24the
- 16:24tool
- 16:24for
- 16:25uncovering
- 16:26these
- 16:27hidden
- 16:27barriers.
- 16:28And
- 16:28what
- 16:28we
- 16:28want
- 16:29to
- 16:29do
- 16:29here
- 16:29is,
- 16:29is
- 16:30that
- 16:30it's
- 16:31like
- 16:31putting
- 16:31the
- 16:32third
- 16:32piece
- 16:32of
- 16:32the
- 16:33puzzle
- 16:33in.
- 16:34And
- 16:34when
- 16:34you
- 16:35understand
- 16:35psychodynamics,
- 16:36you
- 16:36understand
- 16:37the
- 16:38power
- 16:39that
- 16:39this
- 16:39concept,
- 16:40these
- 16:40principles
- 16:41can
- 16:41have.
- 16:41Because
- 16:42when
- 16:42I
- 16:42started
- 16:43to
- 16:43understand
- 16:43and
- 16:44delve
- 16:44into
- 16:44psychodynamics,
- 16:45it
- 16:46was
- 16:46like
- 16:47seeing
- 16:48how
- 16:48our
- 16:49unconscious
- 16:50mind
- 16:51is
- 16:51actually
- 16:52influencing
- 16:53my
- 16:54business
- 16:54decisions
- 16:54and
- 16:55your
- 16:55business
- 16:55decisions.
- 16:57So
- 16:57we
- 16:57have
- 16:58to
- 16:58lean
- 16:58into
- 16:58the
- 16:58concepts.
- 16:59And
- 17:00these
- 17:00principles
- 17:01are
- 17:01things
- 17:01that
- 17:02I
- 17:03love
- 17:03and
- 17:03adore
- 17:04in
- 17:04business
- 17:04because
- 17:05I
- 17:06know
- 17:06what
- 17:06a
- 17:07difference
- 17:07they
- 17:07made
- 17:07to
- 17:07me.
- 17:07And
- 17:08when
- 17:08I
- 17:08share
- 17:08them
- 17:09and
- 17:09I
- 17:09start
- 17:10to
- 17:10see
- 17:10people
- 17:11living
- 17:11them
- 17:13and
- 17:13actioning
- 17:14them
- 17:14in
- 17:14their
- 17:14business,
- 17:15everything
- 17:15starts
- 17:16to
- 17:16change
- 17:16and
- 17:16flow
- 17:17differently.
- 17:17So
- 17:19it's
- 17:19things
- 17:19like
- 17:20temporal
- 17:20discounting,
- 17:21or
- 17:21whether
- 17:21you've
- 17:21heard
- 17:22this
- 17:22term
- 17:22before,
- 17:22it's.
- 17:23It's
- 17:23about
- 17:24prioritizing
- 17:26short
- 17:26term
- 17:27comfort
- 17:28over
- 17:29long
- 17:29term
- 17:30gain.
- 17:31Now,
- 17:31as
- 17:31business
- 17:32owners,
- 17:32that's
- 17:32something
- 17:33that
- 17:33we're
- 17:33not
- 17:33very
- 17:33good
- 17:34at
- 17:34doing.
- 17:35And
- 17:36basically
- 17:37it's
- 17:37like
- 17:37if
- 17:38you've
- 17:38had
- 17:38inherited
- 17:39money
- 17:39scripts,
- 17:40for
- 17:40instance,
- 17:41like
- 17:41from
- 17:41childhood,
- 17:43one
- 17:43thing
- 17:43that
- 17:43can
- 17:43happen
- 17:44is
- 17:44that
- 17:45these
- 17:45start
- 17:45to
- 17:46keep
- 17:46you
- 17:47from
- 17:48seeing
- 17:48success.
- 17:49They
- 17:49keep
- 17:49you
- 17:49under
- 17:50the
- 17:50success
- 17:51ceiling.
- 17:52And
- 17:52one
- 17:52of
- 17:53the
- 17:53tools
- 17:53I
- 17:53use
- 17:53with
- 17:54clients
- 17:54is
- 17:55what
- 17:55I
- 17:55call
- 17:56the
- 17:56identity
- 17:57excavation.
- 17:59So
- 18:00temporal
- 18:01discounting
- 18:02is
- 18:03around
- 18:04tricking
- 18:05your
- 18:05brain
- 18:06into
- 18:08a
- 18:08different
- 18:08way
- 18:09of
- 18:09thinking
- 18:09about
- 18:10achieving
- 18:10goals.
- 18:12And
- 18:12what
- 18:12we
- 18:12actually
- 18:13start
- 18:13to
- 18:13do
- 18:13here
- 18:14in
- 18:14the
- 18:14identity
- 18:15excavation
- 18:16is
- 18:16that
- 18:17we
- 18:17dig
- 18:18into
- 18:18the
- 18:19hidden
- 18:19beliefs.
- 18:20We
- 18:20start
- 18:21to
- 18:22look
- 18:22at
- 18:22family
- 18:23stories
- 18:23and
- 18:24past
- 18:24experiences
- 18:26that
- 18:27maybe
- 18:27are
- 18:27still
- 18:28dictating
- 18:30how
- 18:30you
- 18:30price
- 18:31or
- 18:31could
- 18:32be
- 18:32how
- 18:32you
- 18:32pitch
- 18:33or
- 18:34how
- 18:34big
- 18:34that
- 18:35you
- 18:35actually
- 18:35allow
- 18:35yourself
- 18:36to
- 18:36play.
- 18:37So
- 18:38we
- 18:38have
- 18:38to
- 18:38understand
- 18:39these
- 18:40past
- 18:40narratives,
- 18:41these
- 18:41stories
- 18:42that
- 18:42are
- 18:43in
- 18:43our
- 18:43mind
- 18:43because
- 18:44they
- 18:44are
- 18:44influencing
- 18:46what
- 18:46we
- 18:46think
- 18:47and
- 18:47how
- 18:47we
- 18:48feel
- 18:48and
- 18:48what
- 18:49we
- 18:49do.
- 18:49And
- 18:50what
- 18:50we're
- 18:50trying
- 18:50to
- 18:50do
- 18:51is
- 18:51we
- 18:51ultimately
- 18:52want
- 18:52to
- 18:52think,
- 18:53feel,
- 18:53and
- 18:53do
- 18:53like
- 18:54the
- 18:541%.
- 18:55So
- 18:56when
- 18:56you
- 18:56bring
- 18:56These
- 18:57patterns
- 18:57into
- 18:57full
- 18:58view.
- 18:58You're.
- 18:59You're
- 18:59almost
- 18:59kind
- 18:59of
- 19:00shining
- 19:00a
- 19:00light
- 19:00on
- 19:01them,
- 19:01and
- 19:01you
- 19:01take
- 19:02away
- 19:02their
- 19:03power.
- 19:04What
- 19:04happens
- 19:04is,
- 19:05is
- 19:05you
- 19:05stop
- 19:06unconsciously
- 19:08avoiding
- 19:09the
- 19:09very
- 19:09actions
- 19:11that
- 19:11would
- 19:11move
- 19:11you
- 19:12forward.
- 19:12So
- 19:13you
- 19:13start
- 19:13to
- 19:13move
- 19:13into
- 19:14action
- 19:14and
- 19:14you
- 19:14start
- 19:15doing
- 19:15things
- 19:15differently.
- 19:16So
- 19:17if
- 19:17you've
- 19:17ever
- 19:17been
- 19:18stuck
- 19:18and
- 19:18we've
- 19:19all
- 19:19been
- 19:19there,
- 19:19every
- 19:20single
- 19:20business
- 19:20owner
- 19:21listening
- 19:21to
- 19:22this
- 19:22right
- 19:22now
- 19:23has
- 19:23had
- 19:23an
- 19:23instance
- 19:24that
- 19:24they've
- 19:25been
- 19:25either
- 19:25stuck
- 19:25at
- 19:25the
- 19:25same
- 19:26revenue,
- 19:27could
- 19:27be
- 19:27for
- 19:27years,
- 19:28months,
- 19:28weeks,
- 19:28whatever,
- 19:30um,
- 19:31it's
- 19:32not
- 19:32because
- 19:33you're
- 19:34missing
- 19:34this
- 19:34kind
- 19:34of
- 19:34like,
- 19:35magical
- 19:35strategy.
- 19:36It's
- 19:37because
- 19:37you're
- 19:37not
- 19:37in
- 19:38alignment.
- 19:39And
- 19:40a
- 19:40lot
- 19:40of
- 19:40it's
- 19:40to
- 19:41do
- 19:41with
- 19:41identity.
- 19:43So
- 19:44it's
- 19:45the
- 19:45identity
- 19:46that
- 19:46you
- 19:46hold
- 19:47of
- 19:47yourself
- 19:47and
- 19:48the
- 19:48way
- 19:48that
- 19:48your
- 19:48brain
- 19:49is
- 19:50filtering
- 19:51reality
- 19:52and
- 19:53the
- 19:53unconscious
- 19:54patterns
- 19:54that
- 19:54you're
- 19:54running
- 19:55that
- 19:55are
- 19:55actually
- 19:55holding
- 19:56you
- 19:56back.
- 19:56So,
- 19:57so
- 19:57they're
- 19:57all
- 19:58quietly
- 19:58kind
- 19:58of
- 19:59going
- 19:59on
- 19:59and
- 19:59deciding,
- 20:00like,
- 20:00how
- 20:01far
- 20:01are
- 20:01you
- 20:01going
- 20:01to
- 20:01go
- 20:02without
- 20:02you
- 20:02consciously
- 20:03being
- 20:03aware
- 20:04of
- 20:04it?
- 20:04So
- 20:04what
- 20:05we
- 20:05want
- 20:05to
- 20:05do
- 20:05is
- 20:06shift
- 20:06those
- 20:06patterns.
- 20:07So
- 20:07when
- 20:07people
- 20:07say
- 20:07to
- 20:08me,
- 20:08well,
- 20:08what
- 20:08work
- 20:08do
- 20:09you
- 20:09do?
- 20:09Like,
- 20:09what
- 20:09strategy
- 20:10will
- 20:10you
- 20:10do?
- 20:11Strategy
- 20:11is
- 20:11later.
- 20:12Strategy
- 20:13comes
- 20:14into
- 20:14flow
- 20:15as
- 20:16soon
- 20:16as
- 20:16we
- 20:16start
- 20:16to
- 20:17understand
- 20:17some
- 20:17of
- 20:17the
- 20:17patterns
- 20:18that
- 20:19can
- 20:19happen
- 20:19super
- 20:19quick.
- 20:20I
- 20:20mean,
- 20:20I
- 20:20can
- 20:20be
- 20:20on
- 20:20a
- 20:21call
- 20:21with
- 20:21someone
- 20:21and
- 20:21start
- 20:22seeing
- 20:23patterns
- 20:23that
- 20:24we
- 20:24can
- 20:24do
- 20:24pattern
- 20:25interrupts
- 20:25and
- 20:25pattern
- 20:26breaks
- 20:26on
- 20:27quite
- 20:27quickly.
- 20:28And
- 20:28then
- 20:28we
- 20:28start
- 20:28to
- 20:29weave
- 20:29the
- 20:29strategy
- 20:30in.
- 20:30Now,
- 20:31the
- 20:31more
- 20:31I
- 20:31know
- 20:32somebody
- 20:32and
- 20:32the
- 20:33more
- 20:33that
- 20:33I
- 20:33understand
- 20:34their
- 20:34stories
- 20:35and
- 20:35their
- 20:35narratives
- 20:35and
- 20:36their
- 20:36past
- 20:36beliefs
- 20:37and
- 20:37the
- 20:37way
- 20:38that
- 20:38their
- 20:38brain
- 20:38is
- 20:39thinking
- 20:39and
- 20:39the
- 20:39way
- 20:39that
- 20:39the
- 20:40brain
- 20:40is
- 20:40currently
- 20:40deciding
- 20:41and
- 20:41making
- 20:42decisions
- 20:42for
- 20:42them,
- 20:43I
- 20:43start
- 20:43to
- 20:43see
- 20:44what's
- 20:44holding
- 20:44them
- 20:44back.
- 20:44And
- 20:45it's
- 20:45almost
- 20:45like
- 20:45a
- 20:45release.
- 20:45We
- 20:46can
- 20:46unlock
- 20:46them.
- 20:47And
- 20:48I
- 20:48think
- 20:48the
- 20:48thing
- 20:49is
- 20:49here
- 20:49is
- 20:49that
- 20:50there's
- 20:50probably
- 20:51one
- 20:51part
- 20:52that
- 20:52every
- 20:53single
- 20:53business
- 20:53owner
- 20:54resonates
- 20:54in
- 20:55what
- 20:55I've
- 20:55said.
- 20:55Because
- 20:56we
- 20:57all
- 20:57know
- 20:58that
- 20:58if
- 20:59something
- 20:59isn't
- 20:59working,
- 21:00that
- 21:00it's
- 21:01time
- 21:01to
- 21:01start
- 21:02breaking
- 21:02through
- 21:02those
- 21:03success
- 21:03barriers
- 21:04and
- 21:05really
- 21:06mastering
- 21:06the
- 21:07mindset.
- 21:07Because
- 21:08when
- 21:09you
- 21:09rewire
- 21:10your
- 21:10brain
- 21:11for
- 21:11success,
- 21:12what
- 21:12starts
- 21:12to
- 21:13happen
- 21:13is
- 21:14that
- 21:15we
- 21:15think
- 21:15differently.
- 21:16And
- 21:17this
- 21:17is
- 21:17a
- 21:18very
- 21:18fast
- 21:18catalyst.
- 21:19When
- 21:19you
- 21:20have
- 21:21even
- 21:22shifted
- 21:22one
- 21:23small
- 21:23tweak,
- 21:24you
- 21:25can
- 21:25see
- 21:25changes
- 21:25in
- 21:26as
- 21:26much
- 21:26as,
- 21:26sorry,
- 21:26as
- 21:27little
- 21:27as
- 21:27seven
- 21:27days.
- 21:28And
- 21:28you
- 21:28can
- 21:29see
- 21:29big
- 21:29shifts,
- 21:30you
- 21:30know,
- 21:31in,
- 21:31in
- 21:31revenue
- 21:32changes
- 21:33and
- 21:34the
- 21:34way
- 21:34that
- 21:34you
- 21:35are
- 21:35working
- 21:35or
- 21:36the
- 21:36freedom
- 21:36in
- 21:36your
- 21:37calendar
- 21:38so
- 21:38quickly.
- 21:39So
- 21:40think
- 21:40about
- 21:41this,
- 21:41because
- 21:42what
- 21:42we're
- 21:42trying
- 21:42to
- 21:42do
- 21:43here
- 21:43is
- 21:43almost
- 21:43apply
- 21:45the
- 21:45reticular
- 21:46activating
- 21:47hack
- 21:47and
- 21:47this
- 21:48is
- 21:48about
- 21:49really
- 21:49kind
- 21:49of
- 21:51putting
- 21:51something
- 21:51into
- 21:52your
- 21:52conscious,
- 21:53making
- 21:53it
- 21:54so
- 21:54almost
- 21:54like
- 21:55and
- 21:55this
- 21:55is
- 21:55my
- 21:55favorite
- 21:56saying,
- 21:57say
- 21:57it,
- 21:57claim
- 21:57it.
- 21:58So
- 21:58it
- 21:58is.
- 21:59And
- 21:59I'm
- 21:59bringing
- 22:00this
- 22:01idea
- 22:01that
- 22:02you
- 22:02may
- 22:02have
- 22:03or
- 22:03a
- 22:03distant
- 22:04dream
- 22:04and
- 22:05making
- 22:05it
- 22:05so
- 22:06vivid
- 22:06and
- 22:06so
- 22:07clear
- 22:07and
- 22:08that
- 22:08you
- 22:09absolutely
- 22:09feel
- 22:09like
- 22:10you're
- 22:10living
- 22:10it
- 22:10right
- 22:11now.
- 22:12So
- 22:13the
- 22:13magic
- 22:13here
- 22:14is
- 22:14that
- 22:15in
- 22:15just
- 22:1524
- 22:16hours
- 22:17you
- 22:17can
- 22:17start
- 22:18to
- 22:18understand
- 22:18your
- 22:19brain
- 22:19so
- 22:20differently
- 22:20and
- 22:21you
- 22:21can
- 22:21start
- 22:22to
- 22:22just,
- 22:22even
- 22:23after
- 22:23this
- 22:23podcast
- 22:24episode,
- 22:24start
- 22:25putting
- 22:25things
- 22:25into
- 22:26your
- 22:26conscious
- 22:26mind
- 22:27and
- 22:27telling
- 22:28yourself
- 22:28the
- 22:28new
- 22:29narrative
- 22:29of
- 22:30who
- 22:30you
- 22:30want
- 22:31to
- 22:31be,
- 22:31what
- 22:31next
- 22:32level
- 22:32you
- 22:32know
- 22:33you
- 22:33want
- 22:33to
- 22:33be
- 22:33at,
- 22:34and
- 22:34also
- 22:35telling
- 22:35yourself
- 22:36that
- 22:36you
- 22:36absolutely
- 22:37deserve
- 22:37it
- 22:38and
- 22:38that
- 22:38you're
- 22:38going
- 22:39to
- 22:39make
- 22:39it
- 22:39happen.
- 22:40So
- 22:40I
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