Latest / Crime Night / Afaf and the Forty-Two Stabs
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Okay, picture this. It's evening June first, twenty twenty three,
- 0:04Speaker 1: Maderea district in Cairo. You've got that sort of low
- 0:07Speaker 1: hum from the street lights over these packed apartment buildings.
- 0:10Speaker 1: Then around nine thirty pm, the phone just explodes. Sharouk,
- 0:16Speaker 1: the daughter, picks.
- 0:16Speaker 2: Up, and the voice she hears is just sheer panic.
- 0:19Speaker 2: It's her mother, Afaf, barely coherent, repeating this one awful thing.
- 0:23Speaker 2: Her father, a Nani. He's dead.
- 0:26Speaker 1: So Sharuk just drops everything. Race is home. That sound
- 0:29Speaker 1: of her mother's hysteria is probably echoing in her head.
- 0:31Speaker 1: She gets there and the building itself feels wrong. You know,
- 0:34Speaker 1: there's this.
- 0:34Speaker 2: Energy exactly the apartment door why open. Neighbors are already
- 0:38Speaker 2: out in the hall whispering. Police are just starting to arrive,
- 0:41Speaker 2: taking in this scene. I mean, it just screams.
- 0:43Speaker 1: Violence, and what they see inside initially seems to point
- 0:46Speaker 1: to one thing. A Nani early seventies. He's dead on
- 0:49Speaker 1: the bed. The bedroom is completely trashed, close everywhere, wardrobe
- 0:53Speaker 1: emptied out.
- 0:54Speaker 2: Yeah, everything tossed her in.
- 0:55Speaker 1: You walk in and your immediate thought is this has
- 0:58Speaker 1: to be a robbery that went terribly to terribly wrong.
- 1:00Speaker 2: That was definitely the obvious narrative, right, the one the
- 1:02Speaker 2: police probably started with. But then you have to look
- 1:04Speaker 2: at Anani himself. The victim tell us about him well.
- 1:09Speaker 2: By all accounts, he was this really stable, quiet kind
- 1:12Speaker 2: of guy, a simple employee but well liked, known for
- 1:15Speaker 2: being kind. He'd managed despite you know, modest needs to
- 1:20Speaker 2: provide well for his four kids, three daughters, one son, and.
- 1:24Speaker 1: The police looked into his background, conflicts, enemies.
- 1:27Speaker 2: They did thoroughly in those first critical hours. They searched
- 1:32Speaker 2: for anything, debts, arguments, grudges, found absolutely nothing. His life
- 1:36Speaker 2: was just well good, unremarkably.
- 1:39Speaker 1: So, which brings us to the person right there at
- 1:41Speaker 1: the scene, the main witness, afaf his wife married thirty
- 1:45Speaker 1: five years.
- 1:45Speaker 2: She's the one who says she came home at nine
- 1:47Speaker 2: thirty pm, found the door open, found him, gave her
- 1:50Speaker 2: a statement, obviously distraught, saying they'd been robbed.
- 1:53Speaker 1: But something didn't fit that robbery narrative. What was the
- 1:56Speaker 1: first clue for investigators that this wasn't what it seemed.
- 1:59Speaker 2: It was simple, actually the front door. As soon as
- 2:01Speaker 2: the forensics team looked closely, that whole robbery idea just evaporated.
- 2:06Speaker 2: How so there were zero signs of forced entry, no
- 2:09Speaker 2: broken lock, no splintered wood frame, no smashed windows, nothing.
- 2:13Speaker 1: Okay, so whoever did this didn't break in exactly?
- 2:16Speaker 2: Yeah, it meant and Nanni must have let them in.
- 2:18Speaker 2: So when he knew, and that changes everything. Suddenly the
- 2:23Speaker 2: focus shifts inward to the family, to the people closest to.
- 2:26Speaker 1: Him, which circles right back to f F in that
- 2:28Speaker 1: thirty five year marriage. Because if it wasn't a stranger,
- 2:31Speaker 1: you have to start digging into the history, right decades
- 2:34Speaker 1: of whatever was going on behind closed doors, you really do.
- 2:37Speaker 2: You have to rewind because the foundation of their relationship, well,
- 2:40Speaker 2: it was all little from the start.
- 2:42Speaker 1: How so what was a Kaive like even before the marriage.
- 2:45Speaker 2: Well, reports say that even back then, when she married
- 2:48Speaker 2: a nannie at twenty six, she had this intense need
- 2:52Speaker 2: for control. She was described as very demanding. Apparently she
- 2:55Speaker 2: felt she was much more beautiful and it sort of
- 2:59Speaker 2: deserved better than an People found her company frankly exhausting.
- 3:03Speaker 1: That Ananni married her anyway, this kind respectable man, he
- 3:06Speaker 1: chose her despite her temperament. Why did he think she'd change? It?
- 3:10Speaker 2: Seems like that was the initial hope. He maybe thought
- 3:13Speaker 2: it was just stress or you know, a phase that
- 3:15Speaker 2: would pass once they settled down head kids. His priority
- 3:18Speaker 2: became stability for their children.
- 3:20Speaker 1: So he tolerated it for thirty five years.
- 3:23Speaker 2: He did. But here's the tragic part. All that tolerance,
- 3:27Speaker 2: all that patience, it didn't lead to peace. It just
- 3:30Speaker 2: convinced Aphoft that he was fundamentally weak willed. She felt
- 3:34Speaker 2: completely secure, like he would never ever.
- 3:36Speaker 1: Stand up to her, never challenge her control.
- 3:38Speaker 2: Precisely, Yeah, there's a local saying say a third of three.
- 3:41Speaker 2: It basically means to assert yourself, to have your say.
- 3:44Speaker 2: Afoff was convinced a Nanni would never do that, not
- 3:46Speaker 2: after thirty five years of silence, so.
- 3:48Speaker 1: He basically guaranteed her nominance by never pushing back until something.
- 3:53Speaker 2: Shifted, until the very last reason for him to stay
- 3:55Speaker 2: silent was about to leave. Their youngest daughter, Shiruk got engaged,
- 4:00Speaker 2: and an Nani saw that as his moment, his chance
- 4:02Speaker 2: for freedom.
- 4:03Speaker 1: What did he do?
- 4:03Speaker 2: He told Aphoff straight out, He said, as soon as
- 4:06Speaker 2: Sharuk is married, we're getting divorced. Even had a plan, Yeah,
- 4:09Speaker 2: he intended to use the same official the Mazoon who
- 4:13Speaker 2: handles marriages and divorces in Egypt for both events, Sharuk's
- 4:17Speaker 2: wedding and their divorce.
- 4:19Speaker 1: Wow, okay, using the mazoon that makes it sound very real,
- 4:23Speaker 1: very concrete, not just an angry threat exactly.
- 4:26Speaker 2: It showed he was serious and for ifaff this wasn't
- 4:29Speaker 2: just losing a husband she arguably didn't even respect that much.
- 4:33Speaker 2: It was a public slap in the face, a total
- 4:35Speaker 2: rejection of her authority after dominating for thirty five years.
- 4:39Speaker 1: How did she react? Initially?
- 4:41Speaker 2: At first, she probably thought he was bluffing, couldn't possibly
- 4:43Speaker 2: be serious after all this time. But then it sank in.
- 4:46Speaker 2: He meant it, and that's when, well, something switched inside her.
- 4:51Speaker 2: She didn't argue, she didn't fight back openly.
- 4:53Speaker 1: No, what does she do?
- 4:54Speaker 2: She changed tactics completely. And this this where it gets
- 4:57Speaker 2: really disturbing. The planning starts.
- 4:59Speaker 1: What kind of place.
- 5:00Speaker 2: For two weeks, she became a different person, utterly calm,
- 5:04Speaker 2: even like conciliatory. She started being sweet to a nani,
- 5:07Speaker 2: acting like maybe they could work things.
- 5:09Speaker 1: Out seriously after he had just announced the divorce.
- 5:11Speaker 2: Seriously. It was pure manipulation. She fooled a nannie. She
- 5:15Speaker 2: even fooled Sheruk. They both started to think, Wow, maybe
- 5:18Speaker 2: she's finally changed, Maybe this divorce threat actually worked.
- 5:22Speaker 1: So this sudden sweetness wasn't genuine remorse. It was a strategy.
- 5:26Speaker 2: It was absolutely a strategy, that calm facade, that fake reconciliation.
- 5:31Speaker 2: It was designed to make a Nanni drop his guard completely,
- 5:35Speaker 2: to make him trust her.
- 5:36Speaker 1: Again, so she could get the perfect opportunity.
- 5:38Speaker 2: Precisely, which brings us to June. First, the day itself,
- 5:42Speaker 2: Sherike heads off to college mentioned she'll be late, probably
- 5:45Speaker 2: not back until ten pm. The house is quiet, Afof
- 5:49Speaker 2: has her.
- 5:49Speaker 1: Window, okay, walk us through it. What happened next?
- 5:51Speaker 2: A Nani comes home around five pm. He'd have been out,
- 5:54Speaker 2: maybe running errands, praying. Fof has a meal ready for.
- 5:57Speaker 1: Him, a seemingly normal gesture, especially given her recent change
- 6:01Speaker 1: in behavior.
- 6:01Speaker 2: Exactly, except hidden in that food was a massive dose
- 6:05Speaker 2: of sedatives, sleeping bills crushed up, and Annie trusting this
- 6:09Speaker 2: suddenly attentive wife. He ate the meal.
- 6:11Speaker 1: Oh no, he wouldn't have suspected a thing.
- 6:14Speaker 2: Not a thing. He starts feeling drowsy, naturally goes to
- 6:17Speaker 2: lie down on the bed, probably just feeling exhausted, falls
- 6:20Speaker 2: asleep on his back, completely vulnerable.
- 6:25Speaker 1: And that's when she that's what she got the knife.
- 6:27Speaker 1: And this is where that initial robbery theory just completely
- 6:30Speaker 1: falls apart, isn't it. The forensics tell a story that's personal,
- 6:33Speaker 1: very personal.
- 6:34Speaker 2: Incredibly personal. The autopsy report was well shocking. And Annie
- 6:39Speaker 2: hadn't just been stabbed once or twice.
- 6:40Speaker 1: How many times he.
- 6:41Speaker 2: Suffered forty two stabbed ones forty two all over his chest,
- 6:46Speaker 2: his abdomen, his neck.
- 6:47Speaker 1: His sides, forty two. That's not robbery.
- 6:50Speaker 2: That's rage, pure rage. Yeah, overkill. It's far far more
- 6:54Speaker 2: than needed to kill someone. It screams personal vengeance, not
- 6:57Speaker 2: a random theft gone wrong.
- 6:59Speaker 1: And the autopsy up the drugging part too.
- 7:01Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, They found high levels of sedatives still in
- 7:04Speaker 2: his digestive system. It proved the attack was premeditated. It
- 7:07Speaker 2: proved he was incapacitated before the assault began. This wasn't
- 7:10Speaker 2: a fight, He was helpless.
- 7:12Speaker 1: So she carries out this incredibly violent act. Then what
- 7:16Speaker 1: the cover up phase begins?
- 7:17Speaker 2: Yes, and she was chillingly methodical about it. First she
- 7:21Speaker 2: calmly cleans the knife, Then she meticulously washes every pot
- 7:26Speaker 2: pan played anything used for the meal to get rid
- 7:29Speaker 2: of any trace of.
- 7:29Speaker 1: The sedatives, destroying the evidence of the premeditation.
- 7:33Speaker 2: Exactly. Only after that does she stage the scene, ransacks
- 7:37Speaker 2: the bedroom, throws clothes around, takes a bit of money,
- 7:40Speaker 2: some gold items to make it look convincing, and then
- 7:42Speaker 2: leaves leaves the apartment briefly, probably just to establish an
- 7:46Speaker 2: alibi being out. Then she comes back and makes that
- 7:49Speaker 2: frantic call to Sharuk at nine to thirty pm, playing
- 7:52Speaker 2: the part of the horrified wife making the discovery.
- 7:55Speaker 1: But the police weren't buying the stage scene anymore. They
- 7:57Speaker 1: had the number of wounds, the sedatives, what was the
- 8:01Speaker 1: final nail on the coffin.
- 8:02Speaker 2: For her story, it came down to the timeline her alibi.
- 8:06Speaker 2: The police checked security cameras.
- 8:07Speaker 1: In the area ah CCTV always the CCTV YEP.
- 8:11Speaker 2: Her story was she left the house earlier and came
- 8:13Speaker 2: back around nine thirty pm to find him, But the
- 8:16Speaker 2: cameras showed something different. They proved she did not leave
- 8:19Speaker 2: the house when she claimed.
- 8:20Speaker 1: She did, meaning she was inside the apartment.
- 8:22Speaker 2: She was inside the apartment during that critical window, at
- 8:25Speaker 2: the time when Annani was sedated and killed. Her alibi
- 8:28Speaker 2: was completely destroyed.
- 8:29Speaker 1: So let's recap the evidence. They had no forced entry,
- 8:33Speaker 1: a victim incapacitated by sedatives, an unbelievable number of stab
- 8:37Speaker 1: wounds pointing to personal rage, and a wife whose alibi
- 8:41Speaker 1: is proven false by video evidence.
- 8:43Speaker 2: Pretty much an airtight case. There was nowhere left for
- 8:45Speaker 2: her to go When they confronted her with all of it,
- 8:47Speaker 2: the sedatives, the CCTV, the lack of a break.
- 8:50Speaker 1: In, she confessed and her motive. Was it really about
- 8:53Speaker 1: the small amount of gold or money she took.
- 8:55Speaker 2: No, not at all. That was just part of the staging.
- 8:57Speaker 2: Her real motive. It was pure ego, pure rage of
- 9:01Speaker 2: being challenged, the sheer audacity in her mind of a
- 9:04Speaker 2: nanny daring to ask for a divorce after thirty five years,
- 9:07Speaker 2: daring to question her absolute control that was unbearable to her.
- 9:11Speaker 1: Give him, the cold blooded planning, and the sheer brutality.
- 9:14Speaker 1: How did the court view her actions?
- 9:16Speaker 2: Unsurprisingly, the court's assessment was incredibly harsh. They used terms
- 9:20Speaker 2: like egotism, wicked soul, corrupt ideas to describe her motivations,
- 9:25Speaker 2: and crucially, they pointed out that any claim she tried
- 9:28Speaker 2: to make about being abused or suffering herself, were completely
- 9:32Speaker 2: contradicted by all the evidence.
- 9:34Speaker 1: Including testimony from her own children.
- 9:36Speaker 2: Yes, their children's testimony didn't support her claims either. The
- 9:40Speaker 2: court concluded she murdered him simply because her pride was
- 9:44Speaker 2: wounded and her dominance was finally after thirty five years
- 9:48Speaker 2: being threatened.
- 9:49Speaker 1: It's just such a tragic, twisted irony, isn't it. He
- 9:52Speaker 1: spends thirty five years trying to keep the peace, probably
- 9:55Speaker 1: for the kids, and during this dynamic he finally sees
- 9:58Speaker 1: a path to freedom when he's in his seven.
- 10:00Speaker 2: Yeah, he waited until they were all settled, and she.
- 10:02Speaker 1: Kills him not because he mistreated her, according to the
- 10:05Speaker 1: court in evidence, but because he finally decided to leave
- 10:08Speaker 1: a situation she herself had apparently made difficult but felt
- 10:12Speaker 1: only she had the right to control.
- 10:14Speaker 2: And that really is the core lesson from this whole
- 10:17Speaker 2: awful story, isn't it. It ties back to how that
- 10:19Speaker 2: marriage functioned for decades. A Nony's strategy of tolerance hoping
- 10:24Speaker 2: for stability didn't fix anything. It actually seemed to empower Apaf,
- 10:29Speaker 2: making her believe she could do anything without consequence.
- 10:31Speaker 1: His silence basically fed her control, it.
- 10:34Speaker 2: Seems so, and the terrible result came from ignoring those
- 10:38Speaker 2: really clear destructive personality traits for so long, maybe hoping
- 10:42Speaker 2: they'd just fade away. They didn't.
- 10:43Speaker 1: It's a chilling story, the psychological manipulation, the two weeks
- 10:47Speaker 1: of fake kindness leading up to that explosion of violence,
- 10:50Speaker 1: the poison, then the forty two wounds. It's hard to
- 10:53Speaker 1: fathom it really is.
- 10:54Speaker 2: And beneath the horror of the crime itself, there's this
- 10:57Speaker 2: stark warning. And Nannie's fate is a cautionary tale about
- 11:00Speaker 2: staying in deeply toxic relationships purely for the sake of stability.
- 11:05Speaker 2: It forces you to ask, doesn't it What price do
- 11:07Speaker 2: we pay internally? What risks do we run when we
- 11:09Speaker 2: just tolerate the intolerable and we let someone believe they
- 11:12Speaker 2: have that kind of absolute, unchallenged power over our lives.
- 11:15Speaker 2: For anani that decades long, acceptance became the deadliest decision
- 11:19Speaker 2: of all