Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / Tala knows allllll about the "AUNT CARD"
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Judji en Rich Tala Tala Tala la la the reflex
- 0:08Speaker 1: reflex flex flex flex Let's reflex. I cannot actually pretty
- 0:16Speaker 1: good at Victor.
- 0:18Speaker 2: Hello, are you there?
- 0:19Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, what's up?
- 0:23Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 0:23Speaker 2: So I have this situation.
- 0:27Speaker 3: It's kind of a little bit weird. So I'm the
- 0:30Speaker 3: same age.
- 0:31Speaker 2: As my aunt because like when my mom was pregnant
- 0:35Speaker 2: with me, my my grandma was pregnant with my aunt
- 0:38Speaker 2: around the same time, and like we were raised as
- 0:42Speaker 2: if we were like sisters because we did everything together
- 0:46Speaker 2: and like we're best friends. But something has changed lately
- 0:52Speaker 2: and it's been a little weird because like my aunt,
- 0:58Speaker 2: I don't know, like whenever we're like with our friends
- 1:01Speaker 2: or even like with family, she's like trying to embarrass me.
- 1:07Speaker 3: And like and then she'll like it's kind of.
- 1:10Speaker 2: Like hurting me, you know, and if I say anything,
- 1:13Speaker 2: she will like pull this like well, like I'm technically
- 1:18Speaker 2: your aunt type of card, you know what I mean.
- 1:21Speaker 3: And like as if she's.
- 1:24Speaker 2: I don't know, as if she's like above me, and
- 1:28Speaker 2: you know, at first, I'm like, okay, whatever, but now
- 1:31Speaker 2: it's starting to like annoy me. And it's not like
- 1:34Speaker 2: I don't want to start any drama, you know what
- 1:37Speaker 2: I mean. But like, I also don't know what to
- 1:41Speaker 2: do anymore because it's it's getting to a point.
- 1:45Speaker 1: Okay, and so to me, I think the other time
- 1:49Speaker 1: she could pull the aunt card on you is if
- 1:52Speaker 1: you're having a discussion in family's around. That's the only
- 1:54Speaker 1: time her rank really matters.
- 1:57Speaker 2: I still have to sit at the kid table at Thanksgiving.
- 2:00Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.
- 2:00Speaker 1: You're with family, But if you're out with a bunch
- 2:02Speaker 1: of friends, I don't think she can pull the ant
- 2:04Speaker 1: card on you. If you're the same age and you're
- 2:06Speaker 1: out at a bar, if you guys have the same friends,
- 2:08Speaker 1: it doesn't unless she's being funny.
- 2:10Speaker 2: That's yeah.
- 2:12Speaker 1: My I'm Mexican and my mom. I remember my mom
- 2:14Speaker 1: having aunts that were younger than she was the same age,
- 2:17Speaker 1: and she was very close with all of them. In fact,
- 2:19Speaker 1: it only came up that these people were her aunts
- 2:22Speaker 1: and uncles at the same age when we were talking
- 2:25Speaker 1: about that they were their aunts and uncles. Other than that,
- 2:27Speaker 1: everyone was just friends.
- 2:29Speaker 4: Like, I'm curious how she is like in front of
- 2:32Speaker 4: your friends. Is she like, oh, go get me a
- 2:34Speaker 4: drink from the bar because I'm your aunt, and you
- 2:36Speaker 4: need to do what I say or like what's the
- 2:37Speaker 4: conversation because I can understand, like sometimes you know, you
- 2:40Speaker 4: have those friends who try to like one up you
- 2:43Speaker 4: and throw those little daggers at you, and you know
- 2:45Speaker 4: that they're really not your friends. But it's like that's
- 2:47Speaker 4: your aunt and you guys grew up together, so you
- 2:48Speaker 4: know she loves you, So she probably is trying to
- 2:50Speaker 4: be funny and it's just not hitting yas that's what
- 2:53Speaker 4: I'm picking up.
- 2:55Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because it started out of nowhere. You know,
- 2:59Speaker 2: like this has never been an issue at all, she's
- 3:02Speaker 2: ever done that because we're pretty much like best friends.
- 3:06Speaker 3: We do everything together, and now.
- 3:10Speaker 2: There is like this weird hiarchy that she's trying to
- 3:16Speaker 2: make it happen. But like, yeah, she's not like a
- 3:19Speaker 2: bad person at all, so it could be a joke.
- 3:22Speaker 2: But it's like you said, it's not landing.
- 3:25Speaker 5: Is there something that's going on in your life that
- 3:27Speaker 5: she could be jealous of? Like it almost sounds like
- 3:29Speaker 5: maybe there's some jealousy thing and that she's trying to
- 3:31Speaker 5: like cut you down.
- 3:32Speaker 4: Yeah, she'll feel better about.
- 3:33Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I started dating in this guy and
- 3:39Speaker 3: like she recently broke up with her boyfriend, but like,
- 3:42Speaker 3: I don't it's not a finger at all.
- 3:45Speaker 5: That could might be part of the reason.
- 3:47Speaker 4: Yeah, it might be one of those things too, where
- 3:49Speaker 4: it's like, yeah, you guys are super close, but like
- 3:50Speaker 4: it's okay to maybe not hang out all the time.
- 3:52Speaker 4: Maybe you guys just need a little bit of space.
- 3:54Speaker 4: Like I have a sister. We're six and a half
- 3:56Speaker 4: years apart, and sometimes we get under each other's nerves
- 3:58Speaker 4: and I'm like, I can't see you right now, like
- 4:00Speaker 4: you need to get up all the way out of
- 4:01Speaker 4: my face. So maybe that's something. Maybe that's where you're at,
- 4:04Speaker 4: you just need some space.
- 4:05Speaker 5: Or you could just go to her and be like, hey,
- 4:07Speaker 5: I yeah, maybe I'm crazy.
- 4:09Speaker 2: Yeah, but mind it seems like lately been.
- 4:12Speaker 5: Doing this and it's kind of I don't think I'm
- 4:15Speaker 5: taking it the way you're supposed to be doing it,
- 4:17Speaker 5: or maybe I'm misunderstanding, but I think like an open
- 4:19Speaker 5: conversation could happen about that, maybe heal some things.
- 4:23Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, so talk about it not to not let
- 4:26Speaker 3: it get worse.
- 4:27Speaker 2: Yeah, I think. So thanks for calling in.
- 4:30Speaker 1: I hope you can help you out there.
- 4:32Speaker 2: Thank you have a great day