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Dream Guy · Second Date Update

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Speaker 1: Are you guys ready to make up? I hope we
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Speaker 1: make a love connection.
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Speaker 2: Yes, all right, I hope.
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Speaker 1: So we're going to Newington. Stephanie's on the line. Second
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Speaker 1: date update. Obviously, Stephanie, you went on a great first
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Speaker 1: date and now you're getting ghosted? Is that right?
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Speaker 2: Yeah?
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Speaker 3: I don't really get it. Okay, I went on a
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Speaker 3: date with this guy. It was really amazing. We went
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Speaker 3: to a happy hour at a little spot in the city.
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Speaker 3: He chose it, okay, and it was was really awesome.
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Speaker 3: And I don't really know what happened, and I don't.
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Speaker 1: Know what's going on. All right. So the guy's name
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Speaker 1: is Anthony, our producer says you. You and Anthony went out,
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Speaker 1: You went to happy hour? How was the conversation? Was
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Speaker 1: it awkward? Was it flowing?
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Speaker 3: Fantastic? I was really able to open up, like, you know,
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Speaker 3: I try to put myself out there, but you know,
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Speaker 3: it's hard out here, and you know, this was kind
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Speaker 3: of like the first time where I really thought like, okay,
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Speaker 3: like I'm really into this. Then there's it's easy.
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Speaker 2: That's what I'd probably say.
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Speaker 3: It was just it was the easiest one that I
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Speaker 3: that I had had easy states and I don't know
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Speaker 3: what really happened. It seems like he was into it.
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Speaker 1: Too well, you say it it was happy hour? Is there?
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Speaker 1: Did you have too much to drink? Did he have
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Speaker 1: too much to drink? No?
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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not a huge drinker. I had, like,
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Speaker 3: you know, one cocktail and then I had a couple
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Speaker 3: of monktails.
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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So that went well. And so you sent
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Speaker 1: him a text after the date?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's literally nothing.
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Speaker 1: Okay, well interesting, So let's go. This is what we're
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Speaker 1: gonna do. We're gonna call up Anthony. I'm gonna ask
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Speaker 1: him about the date. You know, you're going to be
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Speaker 1: listening in at any point if you want to talk
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Speaker 1: to him, you can, Okay, Oh, okay, hold on. I
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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know what could have happened or
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Speaker 1: how this could have gone wrong. I was really thinking
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Speaker 1: maybe they drank too much. But yeah, I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like the most normal ones are
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Speaker 1: the ones that are not so all right.
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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi is Anthony there?
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Speaker 1: This is hey Anthony. It's Courtney Anthony.
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Speaker 2: It's Walmart chef.
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Speaker 1: Hey, Anthony, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven.
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Speaker 1: You're on the radio this morning. Anthony.
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Speaker 2: Wow, Hi, Hey.
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Speaker 1: So listen, Anthony, you're on something called second date update.
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Speaker 1: You go on a first date, you get ghosted, We
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Speaker 1: get the answers, and that's why we're calling you because
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Speaker 1: Stephanie reached out to us to tell us about a
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Speaker 1: great date you guys went on.
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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, okay, all right, So we just want you
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Speaker 2: to be honest.
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Speaker 1: She told us you guys went for a happy hour.
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Speaker 1: You guys had great conversation. There is nothing awkward about
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Speaker 1: the date. In fact, she felt like a connection to you.
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Speaker 1: She sent you a text message and you didn't respond,
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Speaker 1: so she wants to just know why she's getting ghosted.
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Speaker 2: Well, like, so was it not a good date for you? No,
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Speaker 2: it was the date. The date was fine. I I honestly,
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Speaker 2: I just I felt like a therapist a little bit
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Speaker 2: like I feel like on the date, I just I
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Speaker 2: learned like everything about her, like her her obsession with
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Speaker 2: like uh like saving uh saving pigs, and her best
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Speaker 2: friend who is pregnant with a married man's baby. That's
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Speaker 2: pretty her fear of clowns. Like all right, So what
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Speaker 2: I'm feeling?
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Speaker 1: First of all, Anthony, when you go on a first
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Speaker 1: day that is kind of get to get to know
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Speaker 1: each other. But are you Are you saying she just
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Speaker 1: did a lot of talking and didn't want to get
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Speaker 1: to know you.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I mean it was like after the date,
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Speaker 2: it was like I just I like I just needed
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Speaker 2: like like a little bit to kind of process everything. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: It's like when I leave work after hanging out with Plaiting,
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Speaker 2: It's like I need to go home and have a
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Speaker 2: cigarette and just kind of sit there and just collect
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Speaker 2: my thoughts. You're ridiculous, right, And then like when I
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Speaker 2: got like the long text from her, it was kind
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Speaker 2: of like, Okay, I don't know, I don't know if
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Speaker 2: this is going to be, you know, the right situation
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Speaker 2: for me. And uh so you know that was I
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Speaker 2: guess kind of my reason for all right.
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Speaker 1: So, Anthony, so it was overwhelming, you felt like a therapist.
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Speaker 1: She did a lot of talking, and then the text
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Speaker 1: message she sent to you was extremely long. Yeah, guys
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Speaker 1: get overwhelmed with a lot of words. They don't have
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Speaker 1: a lot of vocabulary, no, so you got to keep
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Speaker 1: it short. Can listen Anthony Stephanie. Stephanie's on the line,
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Speaker 1: Anthony Stephanie, Hi.
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Speaker 2: Did you talk about a lot.
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Speaker 1: Did you try to get to know Anthony or did
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Speaker 1: you just talk about yourself?
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Speaker 2: Oh?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't I guess maybe. Yeah, I guess things
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Speaker 3: have just been a little bit crazy recently. So when
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Speaker 3: I kind of felt, I don't know, it just really
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Speaker 3: comfortable and really vivy, I guess I just went on
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Speaker 3: a little bit too long. Now i'm thinking back to it. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: that's that's valid. Okay. I'm really sorry about that. That's
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Speaker 3: so unfortunate.
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Speaker 1: Do you accept your apology, Anthony?
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Speaker 2: I mean it's like, if we're going to these lengths
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Speaker 2: to reach out, Yes, of course I'm going to accept,
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Speaker 2: you know, her apology.
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Speaker 1: Okay. And so then, Stephanie, when you send a text
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Speaker 1: message to a guy, you have to keep it simple,
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Speaker 1: not a lot of adjectives, smallers, yeah, measures, easier the better.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, I'm getting that.
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Speaker 2: I'm getting that.
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Speaker 3: I got to work on that, all right.
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Speaker 1: Well, this is what I want to do. I would
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Speaker 1: like to offer to pay for the next date, because
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Speaker 1: I feel like if I ever to go on a
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Speaker 1: first date, I would be nervous and talk a lot too,
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Speaker 1: and I wouldn't you know, I feel like you were
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Speaker 1: just full of nerves. I want to pay for the
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Speaker 1: next date. If you guys agree to go on another one,
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Speaker 1: to give it another try.
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Speaker 3: Oh okay, that'd be cool.
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Speaker 2: Anthony, I'm definitely I'm definitely open to it. I really