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In Good Faith - What Would You Do? - #031 · Providence Voice

• 0:23
  SPEAKER_00: Hello, hello, my beautiful in good faith podcast listeners.
• 0:29
  SPEAKER_00: My name is Amber Rydell.
• 0:33
  SPEAKER_00: And this Alyssa Rydell.
• 0:40
  SPEAKER_00: And we are your beautiful host on this beautiful day.
• 0:45
  SPEAKER_00: Happy Friday.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_00: Fry Yay.
• 0:49
  SPEAKER_00: Yuck.
• 0:50
  SPEAKER_01: Mm-hmm.
• 0:52
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, today's kind of a fun episode, and I'm kind of scared to do it.
• 0:56
  SPEAKER_00: We're talking about.
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_00: We are doing the crap.
• 1:02
  SPEAKER_00: What would you do?
• 1:05
  SPEAKER_00: So we'll give each other different scenarios, and we have to answer on the spot what we would do is now.
• 1:11
  SPEAKER_00: Honestly and accurately as possible.
• 1:15
  unknown: Yeah.
• 1:16
  SPEAKER_00: So we're honestly just gonna get right into it.
• 1:20
  SPEAKER_00: Because I'm excited.
• 1:22
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, I can't talk.
• 1:24
  unknown: Okay.
• 1:25
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 1:26
  SPEAKER_00: Number one, you're at a restaurant, realize the waiter accidentally forgot to charge you for your$30 entree.
• 1:34
  SPEAKER_00: You notice after you've already left.
• 1:37
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 1:38
  SPEAKER_00: If I notice after I left, yeah.
• 1:41
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not doing anything.
• 1:43
  SPEAKER_00: Is that wrong?
• 1:45
  SPEAKER_00: What did you call them?
• 1:47
  SPEAKER_00: Can you please charge me?
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 1:50
  SPEAKER_00: It's their negligence.
• 1:53
  SPEAKER_00: If I noticed when I was still there and I saw that it's not on the check, of course, I'm like, I don't think you charge me for this.
• 2:00
  SPEAKER_00: I always hope that in return they'll be like, oh my gosh.
• 2:04
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much.
• 2:05
  SPEAKER_00: You know what?
• 2:06
  SPEAKER_00: Since you're honest, I'll take care of it and I'll compet.
• 2:09
  SPEAKER_00: But if I was already home, what if you were like out the door 20 feet down.
• 2:20
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, then I'll I'll go back.
• 2:23
  SPEAKER_00: But if I'm home, I drove home and I'm like in bed, and then I like happen to look at my receipt.
• 2:28
  SPEAKER_00: No.
• 2:29
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 2:30
  SPEAKER_00: You can go.
• 2:32
  SPEAKER_00: Sorry if that makes me bad.
• 2:34
  SPEAKER_00: I'm scared.
• 2:35
  SPEAKER_00: Um this is on the same restaurant wavelength.
• 2:41
  SPEAKER_00: You're at a restaurant and realize after you've eaten that you left your wallet at home.
• 2:45
  SPEAKER_00: Your Apple Pay isn't working.
• 2:47
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 2:49
  SPEAKER_00: That's a good question.
• 2:50
  SPEAKER_00: I have to call dad and see if he can pay over the phone for me.
• 2:58
  SPEAKER_00: Or you could, or if you don't know your credit card information.
• 3:02
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 3:02
  SPEAKER_00: I would do that.
• 3:04
  SPEAKER_00: I would ask an ask you.
• 3:06
  SPEAKER_00: I would be like, can I get an IOU?
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_00: I'd probably ask that.
• 3:12
  SPEAKER_00: I've gotten one before.
• 3:14
  SPEAKER_00: From the toll booth.
• 3:17
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, you go.
• 3:19
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 3:19
  SPEAKER_00: You're at a friend's house and accidentally break something that you know is sentimental to them.
• 3:26
  SPEAKER_00: They haven't noticed yet.
• 3:27
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 3:28
  SPEAKER_00: You've also done this.
• 3:29
  SPEAKER_00: Oh gosh.
• 3:32
  SPEAKER_00: When did I do that?
• 3:34
  SPEAKER_00: When you were all sitting for snaps thinking too.
• 3:38
  SPEAKER_00: I would tell them.
• 3:40
  SPEAKER_00: I did tell them and I left the money.
• 3:42
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 3:43
  SPEAKER_00: And then she's so nice.
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_00: She's like, don't even worry about it.
• 3:46
  SPEAKER_00: She sent me a because I left and like I left the money for them.
• 3:50
  SPEAKER_00: And then she sent me a thank you card in the mail and sent the money back.
• 3:54
  SPEAKER_00: That's so nice.
• 3:56
  SPEAKER_00: It was a coaster.
• 3:57
  SPEAKER_00: Tell your aunt she's sorry.
• 4:00
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, that's funny.
• 4:03
  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, okay, you would tell them.
• 4:04
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I couldn't live with myself if I didn't.
• 4:09
  SPEAKER_00: You're walking through a parking lot and find an envelope with$500 cash inside.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's no name or identifying information.
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  SPEAKER_00: Take it off.
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  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 4:19
  SPEAKER_00: I'm taking the envelope.
• 4:21
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not taking that.
• 4:22
  SPEAKER_00: It's probably laced with something of the funny.
• 4:25
  SPEAKER_00: That is true.
• 4:26
  SPEAKER_00: My first thought would be it's a trap.
• 4:28
  SPEAKER_00: Oh yeah.
• 4:28
  SPEAKER_00: That's definitely my first thought.
• 4:30
  SPEAKER_00: Or maybe I'd pick it up with like a tweezer.
• 4:33
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I would go to Walgreens across the street.
• 4:36
  SPEAKER_00: I'm picturing myself walking in Central Park.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna run over to the Walgreens.
• 4:41
  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna get a pair of gloves.
• 4:43
  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna pick up the$500.
• 4:44
  SPEAKER_00: If we're gonna take it to the park, maybe it's gone.
• 4:46
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe the police department.
• 4:47
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe I'll take it to the police department and be like, hey, can you like check this out for fentanyl?
• 4:51
  SPEAKER_00: Like weird stuff.
• 4:52
  SPEAKER_00: Like, what is it slice with?
• 4:54
  SPEAKER_00: If it's clean.
• 4:56
  SPEAKER_00: All mines.
• 4:57
  SPEAKER_00: All mines.
• 4:58
  SPEAKER_00: If it's like at like in like whales at the park, I think I might be I would walk around with it and like look around, see if anyone's looking frantic.
• 5:08
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 5:09
  SPEAKER_00: Absolutely.
• 5:11
  SPEAKER_00: Because next thing you know, I'm gonna be on one of those shows where someone comes out with a microphone.
• 5:16
  SPEAKER_00: They're like what would you do with a social experiment?
• 5:20
  SPEAKER_00: You know, yeah.
• 5:21
  SPEAKER_00: I was just looking for the owner.
• 5:23
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 5:24
  SPEAKER_00: So ooh.
• 5:29
  SPEAKER_00: Your friend asked you for your honest opinion about an outfit before a big event.
• 5:34
  SPEAKER_00: You genuinely don't like it, but they're clearly really excited about it.
• 5:38
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 5:40
  SPEAKER_00: I would say.
• 5:43
  SPEAKER_00: Do you have anything else?
• 5:45
  SPEAKER_00: Like not my favorite.
• 5:46
  SPEAKER_00: With that same tone?
• 5:48
  SPEAKER_00: It's not my favorite, but if you like it, then if you feel confident in it, like that's all that matters.
• 5:55
  SPEAKER_00: It's just not my style stuff, and I'm like, I don't love it.
• 5:58
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and then I go cry and rip it off.
• 6:03
  SPEAKER_00: You're in a drive-thru, and when you get to the window, they tell you the person behind ahead of you paid for your order.
• 6:10
  SPEAKER_00: Your order was$8, but the car behind you was$47.
• 6:15
  SPEAKER_00: Are you contributing to the chain?
• 6:18
  SPEAKER_00: No.
• 6:19
  SPEAKER_00: Because the person behind me would never know there was even a chain going on.
• 6:23
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 6:24
  SPEAKER_00: I probably neither.
• 6:26
  SPEAKER_00: I think if it was less than$10, absolutely.
• 6:28
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not paying for a$47 meal.
• 6:31
  SPEAKER_00: I could have gone to a nice restaurant for that.
• 6:34
  SPEAKER_00: Same girl, mine was freaking$2.
• 6:39
  SPEAKER_00: Is this whole episode just about to make me seem like a really mean person?
• 6:43
  SPEAKER_00: I'm answering these honestly, I think.
• 6:45
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like like most people are not gonna pay$47 for a McDonald's meal for the car behind them, right?
• 6:51
  SPEAKER_00: Guys, back me up on this.
• 6:53
  SPEAKER_00: Come on, guys, right?
• 6:55
  SPEAKER_00: Guys, right?
• 6:57
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 6:59
  SPEAKER_00: You see someone, you know, at the grocery store, but they clearly don't see you.
• 7:03
  SPEAKER_00: You're not in the mood to talk.
• 7:04
  SPEAKER_00: Do you avoid them or say hi?
• 7:08
  SPEAKER_00: You ain't gonna see me.
• 7:10
  SPEAKER_00: That's when you start just like backing up and escaping, like escaping through the cloak.
• 7:16
  SPEAKER_00: There was a day I was in like Vero or somewhere random, and I saw two people that I know.
• 7:23
  SPEAKER_00: I did not say anything.
• 7:26
  SPEAKER_00: Well, they were like coming down my aisle, so they could have seen me too.
• 7:30
  SPEAKER_00: And they didn't say anything.
• 7:32
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna go up to someone and hi, hi, hi, hello.
• 7:35
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, how are you?
• 7:36
  SPEAKER_00: Well, that's the same thing that happened to me one time.
• 7:38
  SPEAKER_00: I was in this store and I saw someone I knew, but it was like not really close enough to just like go out and say hi.
• 7:46
  SPEAKER_00: And we're also really not friends, but like we know each other.
• 7:49
  SPEAKER_00: And then I was like, I kept looking up to see like if there was a chance for me to say something, and yeah, they were never looking at me, so I never did, and then I look like a jerk because they're like, Hey, Amber.
• 8:02
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, hey, well, this person walking away.
• 8:06
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, I met like once, I just know them, and then the other person was somebody that I know that I'm not in contact.
• 8:15
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I don't have a relationship with them.
• 8:18
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 8:22
  SPEAKER_00: Oof.
• 8:23
  SPEAKER_00: This is really tough, dude.
• 8:25
  SPEAKER_00: You're driving and see a dog running loose near a busy road, but you're already late for something important.
• 8:30
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 8:31
  SPEAKER_00: Oh no.
• 8:32
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna try to get the dog.
• 8:34
  SPEAKER_00: But like it's I'm thinking like sometimes I see stuff, not like this, I haven't seen this.
• 8:40
  SPEAKER_00: Or I think about scenarios.
• 8:42
  SPEAKER_00: I'm on the way to a like a wedding.
• 8:44
  SPEAKER_00: I can't be late.
• 8:46
  SPEAKER_00: Or like a photo shoot.
• 8:48
  SPEAKER_00: Hmm.
• 8:51
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna try to like slow down and like you know, do something.
• 8:55
  SPEAKER_00: I would honk my horn or something, like, yeah, I guess it's hey, hey, hey, come here, come here.
• 9:01
  SPEAKER_00: And then if it was a busy highway, it's like I would try to no.
• 9:07
  SPEAKER_00: See, I don't even know if it's a busy highway, it's like, do I stop and like put my life at risk?
• 9:12
  SPEAKER_00: It depends on where we're at and where I'm going.
• 9:15
  SPEAKER_00: I would I think I would try to stop and get the dog because like that crap scares me.
• 9:22
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 9:22
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 9:23
  SPEAKER_00: Or I would like pull off, see if like someone else is helping.
• 9:28
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and then call like animal control or something.
• 9:31
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I think like that's the way I would help.
• 9:32
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know if I can physically like like if thinking I'm on the way to my job, I can't bring up that I can't be late to.
• 9:41
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I would probably call somebody, maybe like just pull over, make sure it's okay.
• 9:46
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 9:47
  SPEAKER_00: That's really tough.
• 9:50
  SPEAKER_00: Hugo.
• 9:51
  SPEAKER_00: You accidentally receive a text from someone that was obviously meant for someone else, and it's about you, and it's mean.
• 9:59
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 10:03
  SPEAKER_00: Block.
• 10:05
  SPEAKER_00: I think I might address it.
• 10:07
  SPEAKER_00: Like, okay, so this is what you think?
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_00: Awesome.
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_00: She's like, hey, I don't know if you meant to send this, send this to me, but this is Amber.
• 10:15
  SPEAKER_00: So sorry you feel that way, but lose my number.
• 10:20
  SPEAKER_00: Basically.
• 10:21
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 10:22
  SPEAKER_00: My stomach would be a knots if that happened.
• 10:24
  SPEAKER_00: Me too.
• 10:25
  SPEAKER_00: It'd be like, yo, are you serious?
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_00: Like, this is what everyone thinks about me.
• 10:30
  SPEAKER_00: You're at a restaurant and your food comes out completely wrong.
• 10:33
  SPEAKER_00: Eating it.
• 10:34
  SPEAKER_00: Everyone else at the table has theirs.
• 10:36
  SPEAKER_00: Do you send it back or eat it?
• 10:37
  SPEAKER_00: Eating it.
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_00: I don't care if it's a rack of lambs.
• 10:41
  SPEAKER_00: Like, it's not even because, like, oh, I'm too timid to because I've been waiting and everyone else has their food.
• 10:48
  unknown: Yeah.
• 10:48
  SPEAKER_00: So if it's not terrible and I'm not allergic to it, I'm gonna eat it.
• 10:51
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 10:52
  SPEAKER_00: I did that before at the joinery.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_00: I ordered like a sushi bowl.
• 10:56
  SPEAKER_00: He was completely wrong.
• 10:57
  SPEAKER_00: I still ate it.
• 10:58
  SPEAKER_00: Cause I didn't it took like 20 minutes too.
• 11:00
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I don't care.
• 11:02
  SPEAKER_00: If you can make this in three minutes, then yeah.
• 11:05
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 11:05
  SPEAKER_00: There'll be sometimes.
• 11:06
  SPEAKER_00: I think like once or twice.
• 11:08
  SPEAKER_00: I remember recently, like I did send something.
• 11:11
  SPEAKER_00: If it's at like a fast food restaurant or like a casual dining restaurant, I'm actually throwing it back.
• 11:18
  SPEAKER_00: I'll send it back.
• 11:20
  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes I'll just eat it because whatever.
• 11:26
  SPEAKER_00: I just answered.
• 11:28
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 11:29
  SPEAKER_00: Oh.
• 11:30
  SPEAKER_00: A friend asks you a secret and specifically asks you not to tell anyone.
• 11:34
  SPEAKER_00: Later.
• 11:37
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, tell they told you.
• 11:38
  SPEAKER_00: Sorry.
• 11:39
  SPEAKER_00: A friend told you a secret and specifically asked you not to tell anyone.
• 11:42
  SPEAKER_00: Later, a mutual friend asks you directly about the situation.
• 11:47
  SPEAKER_00: What would you do?
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_00: Either way, you're cooked.
• 11:53
  SPEAKER_00: I would be like.
• 11:59
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not out of the teacher say.
• 12:01
  SPEAKER_00: But it's like, even then though, like they would know.
• 12:04
  SPEAKER_00: They would know that they said something.
• 12:06
  SPEAKER_00: What are they asking?
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_00: If they know about it too, I'll be like, yeah, they told me, but I they asked me to keep it a secret, so so okay, they told you a secret, like, oh my gosh.
• 12:20
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my gosh, I'm pregnant.
• 12:22
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my gosh, I'm pregnant.
• 12:23
  SPEAKER_00: Please don't tell anybody.
• 12:24
  SPEAKER_00: Friend number two comes up and be like, oh my gosh, someone's always been acting weird.
• 12:29
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, like that.
• 12:31
  SPEAKER_00: No, I'm not gonna say anything.
• 12:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but then imagine what you would say.
• 12:35
  SPEAKER_00: You'd get all weird and like your facial expressions would start twitching, and you'd be like, No, I don't I don't know if they're pregnant.
• 12:42
  SPEAKER_00: And then I feel like that would give it away.
• 12:45
  SPEAKER_00: I would be like, oh, I don't know.
• 12:47
  SPEAKER_00: And then just be like, mm-mm, I no clue.
• 12:50
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, if that was a situation, I wouldn't tell them.
• 12:53
  SPEAKER_00: I would run away.
• 12:54
  SPEAKER_00: But I thought you were saying, like, so you heard so-and-so is this too.
• 13:00
  SPEAKER_00: No, yeah.
• 13:00
  SPEAKER_00: So it's like just like a direct secret.
• 13:03
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like I would, I'm not gonna tell them.
• 13:05
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not telling them, but I do also feel like I'm not a good liar and like my face goes wonky.
• 13:13
  SPEAKER_00: So I feel like I was in this situation, and I tried to be like, oh, I don't know.
• 13:19
  SPEAKER_00: But then they kept like doubling down.
• 13:21
  SPEAKER_00: That's what I'm saying.
• 13:22
  SPEAKER_00: And I did have to tell them the truth.
• 13:24
  SPEAKER_00: That just reminded me of that Spotify commercial.
• 13:27
  SPEAKER_00: Bia.
• 13:29
  SPEAKER_00: Tell me about the next words.
• 13:35
  SPEAKER_00: Oh no, I'm not sure.
• 13:36
  SPEAKER_00: Or this is good.
• 13:37
  SPEAKER_00: And he's like, that's what I'm saying.
• 13:39
  SPEAKER_00: I'm saying no, I'm not sharing this.
• 13:42
  SPEAKER_00: Is that what you're talking about?
• 13:44
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 13:45
  SPEAKER_00: How did that remind you of that?
• 13:46
  SPEAKER_00: Because I said, that's what I'm saying.
• 13:49
  SPEAKER_00: Tia, yeah, give me a Baja Blast.
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_00: It's a Baja Blast.
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_00: Anyways.
• 13:56
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, ask me.
• 13:59
  SPEAKER_00: Ooh, you're at the movie and the people behind you will not stop talking.
• 14:03
  SPEAKER_00: Do you turn around and say something, move seats, or suffer silently?
• 14:07
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, suffer silently.
• 14:08
  SPEAKER_00: I'll tell you what I'll do.
• 14:10
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna make some movements.
• 14:12
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna shuffle in my chair a little bit.
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna look back.
• 14:16
  SPEAKER_00: Acting all confused.
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_00: Like, what is that noise?
• 14:20
  SPEAKER_00: But I'm not saying anything.
• 14:22
  SPEAKER_00: No.
• 14:24
  SPEAKER_00: That's exactly what I would say.
• 14:25
  SPEAKER_00: No, yeah, I would be like this.
• 14:26
  SPEAKER_00: I'd be like, and like just keep moving and then slightly turn my head.
• 14:32
  SPEAKER_00: I wouldn't even turn, I wouldn't even turn that 90 degrees.
• 14:36
  SPEAKER_00: It would be like a 45 degree angle that I would turn my head as in like I wouldn't look all the way around at them and make eye contact.
• 14:43
  SPEAKER_00: I would just like be like 45 degree angle in my ear, like like do some huffing and puffing.
• 14:54
  SPEAKER_00: In no world would I say something to them.
• 14:56
  SPEAKER_00: There's actually not a world where I would turn around and say something to somebody.
• 15:01
  SPEAKER_00: Can you guys shut up?
• 15:05
  SPEAKER_00: Do you guys mind shutting your mouths kindly?
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_00: Excuse me.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_00: Hi.
• 15:10
  SPEAKER_00: Shut up.
• 15:12
  SPEAKER_00: I'm trying to watch it.
• 15:15
  SPEAKER_00: No.
• 15:17
  SPEAKER_00: Nope.
• 15:17
  SPEAKER_00: I would rather do that.
• 15:19
  SPEAKER_00: I would move.
• 15:20
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, if they keep on acting up, I would move.
• 15:24
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 15:25
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 15:26
  SPEAKER_00: The worst is in church.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_00: Let's talk.
• 15:31
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like that's where I've done it.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_00: The worst.
• 15:36
  SPEAKER_00: Like and I'm like, I know this is the enemy right now.
• 15:40
  SPEAKER_00: Like, this can't be for real because it'll be someone like last week it was this.
• 15:47
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my gosh.
• 15:51
  SPEAKER_00: That's like making my ears.
• 15:52
  SPEAKER_00: Hey now.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_00: Hi.
• 15:55
  SPEAKER_00: Do you love the Lord?
• 15:57
  SPEAKER_00: Then zip it.
• 15:58
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_00: But the whole time it's just like the communion cup.
• 16:04
  SPEAKER_00: And like he specifically says to open it at the beginning, so you're not.
• 16:08
  SPEAKER_00: No, it wasn't even you was trying to open it.
• 16:10
  SPEAKER_00: He was just like messing it, breaking it up, and I'm like.
• 16:15
  SPEAKER_00: Do you remember?
• 16:16
  SPEAKER_00: I think it was at our old church, but there was a couple next to, or maybe this is just my own experience.
• 16:21
  SPEAKER_00: There was a couple next to us, and this girl was like rubbing her husband's back.
• 16:28
  SPEAKER_00: And all you hear is just like my eyes are just following her hand.
• 16:37
  SPEAKER_00: I can't even hear the message.
• 16:39
  SPEAKER_00: That's all I hear is her rubbing his back.
• 16:41
  SPEAKER_00: Yup, and then like I'm like, Yes, that's exactly the sound.
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_00: Lord, please help me right now.
• 16:49
  SPEAKER_00: Please help me focus right now.
• 16:52
  SPEAKER_00: Masking.
• 16:53
  SPEAKER_00: And I get I just keep looking at them.
• 16:55
  SPEAKER_00: Me too.
• 16:56
  SPEAKER_00: I'm just staring, hoping my eyes are just like asking them and willing them, please stop it.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_00: Please stop.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_00: Please, please, please.
• 17:03
  SPEAKER_00: Everyone can hear you itching your boyfriend's back.
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't like that.
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_00: It made me uncomfortable.
• 17:08
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's like also.
• 17:10
  SPEAKER_00: This isn't the time to do back scratches right now.
• 17:13
  SPEAKER_00: I know that you love him so dearly.
• 17:15
  SPEAKER_00: And it's super sweet.
• 17:16
  SPEAKER_00: Like yeah, it is sweet.
• 17:18
  SPEAKER_00: You can put your arm around someone during whatever, but the whole rub his skin don't keep surface.
• 17:23
  SPEAKER_00: Scratching on his shirt over everyone can hear it.
• 17:27
  SPEAKER_00: It was the whole service.
• 17:30
  SPEAKER_00: Giving him a back massage.
• 17:34
  SPEAKER_00: That lives in my brain.
• 17:35
  SPEAKER_00: That's seared in my brain.
• 17:37
  SPEAKER_00: I remember that.
• 17:40
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 17:41
  SPEAKER_00: I think I'm like too, I have a hard time like focusing in public as it is when I hear noises around me.
• 17:48
  SPEAKER_00: So it gets really tough for me.
• 17:50
  SPEAKER_00: Whenever I'm distracted, like restaurants.
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_00: I do crack my fingers sometimes in church, and I am conscious of that.
• 17:57
  SPEAKER_00: I am too.
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm constantly like you know I'm a throat clearer.
• 18:03
  SPEAKER_00: And so I only allow myself a couple throat clears during the survey.
• 18:24
  SPEAKER_00: Sound like Scooby Doo.
• 18:27
  SPEAKER_00: Pastor Jackwick stops.
• 18:30
  SPEAKER_00: Ma'am, can you get out?
• 18:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, of course, I'm sorry.
• 18:40
  unknown: Why?
• 18:42
  SPEAKER_01: Anyways, that's so stupid.
• 18:44
  SPEAKER_00: That might need cut out.
• 18:50
  SPEAKER_00: I think that's what's going on in my head.
• 18:52
  SPEAKER_00: It's like, okay, you can only do a couple throat clears the service.
• 18:56
  SPEAKER_00: You have to respect the other people around you.
• 19:00
  SPEAKER_00: So just be conscious of where you're sitting, guys.
• 19:03
  SPEAKER_00: If you're sitting next to me, if anyone wants to sit next to me though, next week, my seats open.
• 19:08
  SPEAKER_00: Seats open.
• 19:09
  SPEAKER_00: Just kidding.
• 19:10
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 19:11
  SPEAKER_00: Someone accidentally cuts you in line, and it genuinely seems and they genuinely seem not to realize it.
• 19:17
  SPEAKER_00: Do you say something or let it go?
• 19:19
  SPEAKER_00: I let it go, but just now I'm fuming and I'm staring daggers into the back of your head.
• 19:24
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 19:24
  SPEAKER_00: What if they did mean it?
• 19:26
  SPEAKER_00: Would you say something?
• 19:28
  unknown: No.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_00: Still no.
• 19:30
  SPEAKER_00: Um, excuse me, I think you cut me in line.
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_00: I would wait for like the loud person behind me.
• 19:36
  SPEAKER_00: Like who need like I would be like there, yeah, yeah.
• 19:38
  SPEAKER_00: Like that kind of person.
• 19:40
  SPEAKER_00: I would wait till someone around me.
• 19:41
  SPEAKER_00: I'd maybe like look around me and try to make eye contact.
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_00: Like if someone's like, hey, they just cut you off.
• 19:46
  SPEAKER_00: Like, yeah, they did.
• 19:47
  SPEAKER_00: But then hope to God that they say something to them.
• 19:50
  SPEAKER_00: Have you seen that one reel where it's like when the person in line they try to involve you in their drama and like look at you?
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 19:59
  SPEAKER_00: I don't like that.
• 20:00
  SPEAKER_00: Me neither.
• 20:01
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, uh-uh, I'm not associated with them.
• 20:02
  SPEAKER_00: I don't have the same beliefs.
• 20:06
  SPEAKER_00: Did you ask me?
• 20:07
  SPEAKER_00: Mm-hmm.
• 20:11
  SPEAKER_00: Oof.
• 20:13
  SPEAKER_00: Oh.
• 20:14
  SPEAKER_00: You're in the checkout line with a completely full cart.
• 20:17
  SPEAKER_00: The person behind you has one item, but you're already running late.
• 20:19
  SPEAKER_00: Do you let them go ahead?
• 20:21
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 20:22
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 20:22
  SPEAKER_00: That's easy.
• 20:23
  SPEAKER_00: I think any decent person would.
• 20:26
  SPEAKER_00: Nobody's done a lot.
• 20:27
  SPEAKER_00: I'm running late.
• 20:28
  SPEAKER_00: I'm running.
• 20:29
  SPEAKER_00: Ooh, that's just.
• 20:30
  SPEAKER_00: You're running late, but they have one item.
• 20:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 20:32
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't, it's not gonna affect me.
• 20:36
  SPEAKER_00: You realize, or you're invited to a wedding, but you realize you're going to be seated at a table with someone you had a really bad falling out with.
• 20:44
  SPEAKER_00: You cannot change your seat.
• 20:46
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 20:47
  SPEAKER_00: I'm probably gonna go still and just mind my P's and Q's.
• 20:52
  SPEAKER_00: True.
• 20:54
  SPEAKER_00: What would you do?
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: Damn.
• 20:57
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not not gonna go to my friend's wedding.
• 21:01
  SPEAKER_00: We we have Annaise's wedding coming up this weekend.
• 21:06
  SPEAKER_00: Shout out the Edwards.
• 21:10
  SPEAKER_00: I think I just asked you.
• 21:12
  SPEAKER_01: No.
• 21:20
  SPEAKER_00: Sorry.
• 21:23
  SPEAKER_00: You're getting ready to leave someone's house when you notice you ha you notice wait what?
• 21:28
  SPEAKER_00: You notice they have food stuck in their teeth.
• 21:31
  SPEAKER_00: They're about to go meet other people.
• 21:33
  SPEAKER_00: Do you tell them?
• 21:36
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 21:37
  SPEAKER_00: Wait, smile?
• 21:39
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you have a huge piece of garbage in your teeth.
• 21:42
  SPEAKER_00: That's disgusting.
• 21:44
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I would just be like, ooh, wait, smile?
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_00: I think you have something in your teeth.
• 21:49
  unknown: It's like I know.
• 21:51
  SPEAKER_00: And I don't think.
• 21:52
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 21:53
  SPEAKER_00: I I think I see something like big and green unless that's your tooth.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_00: Let's it shouldn't be taboo to tell someone that they have something in their teeth.
• 22:05
  SPEAKER_00: That's why I I ask.
• 22:06
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, hey, do I have anything in my teeth?
• 22:08
  SPEAKER_00: And then it opens up the door and like, oh wait, do I have anything in my teeth?
• 22:10
  SPEAKER_00: And they always ask.
• 22:11
  SPEAKER_00: It's not embarrassing if you have something in your teeth.
• 22:13
  SPEAKER_00: No, tell me I have a weird thing in my mouth.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_00: You're at a store and you realize the cashier gave you too much change.
• 22:20
  SPEAKER_00: You're already halfway to your car.
• 22:21
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 22:22
  SPEAKER_00: Girl, first of all, I don't know what change I got at.
• 22:28
  SPEAKER_00: It's like, okay, cool.
• 22:30
  SPEAKER_00: They could do that.
• 22:30
  SPEAKER_00: I wouldn't do anything.
• 22:31
  SPEAKER_00: If I like realized, then I would say, Oh, yeah, I think you gave me too much, but I don't know the math on that to tell them yes or no.
• 22:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, same.
• 22:41
  SPEAKER_00: But I would give it back to them if I realized.
• 22:43
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, if I knew I would give it back.
• 22:45
  SPEAKER_00: But I didn't tell you, I would not.
• 22:47
  SPEAKER_00: It would come home with me.
• 22:50
  SPEAKER_00: Well, here I go with my throat clearing.
• 22:55
  SPEAKER_00: Someone you barely know asks if they can stay at your house for a week because they're coming to town.
• 23:00
  SPEAKER_00: You have a guest room.
• 23:01
  SPEAKER_00: What do you say?
• 23:04
  SPEAKER_00: Yikes.
• 23:06
  SPEAKER_01: No.
• 23:07
  SPEAKER_00: Yikes.
• 23:08
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so someone I barely know.
• 23:09
  SPEAKER_00: Like an acquaintance.
• 23:12
  SPEAKER_00: No, I don't think so.
• 23:14
  SPEAKER_00: Just I usually would, but I just think like at this like if they are in a trusted acquaintance, I think possibly.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_00: Like if I can trust them and I know where they come from and who they're friends with.
• 23:30
  SPEAKER_00: But no, most cases, because it's like you just don't know people.
• 23:37
  SPEAKER_00: And I don't have a spare bedroom.
• 23:39
  SPEAKER_00: I do, but it's full.
• 23:40
  SPEAKER_00: You can sleep in your arts and crafts room.
• 23:42
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 23:45
  SPEAKER_00: You ever hear someone giving your friend completely incorrect advice about some.
• 23:51
  SPEAKER_00: No, I don't want to ask how long that's stupid.
• 23:54
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, your friend cancels plans with you for the third time, but each time they have what seems like a legitimate reason.
• 24:01
  SPEAKER_00: Do you keep making plans with them?
• 24:03
  SPEAKER_00: No, you don't.
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_00: You're dropped.
• 24:06
  SPEAKER_00: I'm just kidding.
• 24:07
  SPEAKER_00: Kidding.
• 24:09
  SPEAKER_00: No, but I wouldn't initiate plans again.
• 24:11
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 24:11
  SPEAKER_00: They can if they want to hang out with me, they can reach.
• 24:13
  SPEAKER_00: They will initiate.
• 24:15
  SPEAKER_00: I agree.
• 24:16
  SPEAKER_00: And that's how many friendships die.
• 24:18
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 24:22
  SPEAKER_00: You're staying at someone's house.
• 24:24
  SPEAKER_00: Or no, I'm sorry.
• 24:26
  SPEAKER_00: You're just at someone's house and they tell you, make yourself at home.
• 24:29
  SPEAKER_00: You're starving.
• 24:30
  SPEAKER_00: How far in their pantry are you willing to go?
• 24:33
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to make myself that.
• 24:36
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I'm like, hey, do you have a snack?
• 24:40
  SPEAKER_00: And I would just ask them for a snack.
• 24:42
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not digging in someone's pantry.
• 24:44
  SPEAKER_00: I just, I'm asking them, yeah.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_00: Can you may you please get it for me as well?
• 24:49
  SPEAKER_00: Even when I house sit for or babysit for Leah overnight and I stay there, I feel so ratchet going in the pantry and getting a snack.
• 24:59
  SPEAKER_00: Even though I'm staying there.
• 25:00
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 25:01
  SPEAKER_00: She's like, oh, eat whatever.
• 25:02
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 25:02
  SPEAKER_00: And I know if I asked, she would say take whatever.
• 25:05
  SPEAKER_00: She'd tell us to cook a meal, but it's like, I can't.
• 25:11
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's tough.
• 25:13
  SPEAKER_00: You see your friend's significant other out somewhere and they're being unusually friendly with someone else.
• 25:19
  SPEAKER_00: You don't actually see anything definitively wrong.
• 25:22
  SPEAKER_00: Do you tell your friend?
• 25:24
  SPEAKER_00: Can you repeat the first part?
• 25:26
  SPEAKER_00: You see your friend's boyfriend out somewhere and they're being unusually friendly with someone else.
• 25:32
  SPEAKER_00: You don't actually see anything definitively wrong, do you tell your friend?
• 25:39
  SPEAKER_00: Probably.
• 25:40
  SPEAKER_00: I would just I wouldn't say in a way that accuses him and be like, oh, I saw so-and-so out.
• 25:45
  SPEAKER_00: You just talking to somebody.
• 25:47
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know who it was, but That's exactly how I would approach it.
• 25:50
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 25:55
  SPEAKER_00: You accidentally send a screenshot to the person you screenshotted with the immediate next move.
• 26:01
  SPEAKER_00: Immediate next move?
• 26:03
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 26:05
  SPEAKER_00: Unsend the message.
• 26:08
  SPEAKER_00: But that's not an option.
• 26:10
  SPEAKER_00: My immediate like reaction would be throw my phone, but then I would remember that I need to try to go in there and unsend it.
• 26:19
  SPEAKER_00: If that doesn't work, I would just be like, I'm so sorry.
• 26:23
  SPEAKER_00: I was talking shmack.
• 26:25
  SPEAKER_00: At the time, it's not even talking crap.
• 26:30
  SPEAKER_00: But it's still embarrassing.
• 26:31
  SPEAKER_00: It's embarrassing.
• 26:33
  SPEAKER_00: You were talking about me with somebody else?
• 26:34
  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
• 26:35
  SPEAKER_00: You're talking about our conversation?
• 26:37
  SPEAKER_00: Get my name out your wife's.
• 26:40
  SPEAKER_00: I said that backwards.
• 26:42
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 26:44
  SPEAKER_00: You have plans with someone you've been looking forward to for weeks, but the day arrives and you suddenly realize you really don't want to go.
• 26:54
  SPEAKER_00: Do you force yourself to go or do you cancel?
• 26:57
  SPEAKER_00: I force myself to go because they took time out of their day, arranged plans, put me in their calendar, so I'm going.
• 27:06
  SPEAKER_00: I don't care if I don't feel like going that day.
• 27:08
  SPEAKER_00: Unless I'm sick.
• 27:09
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, unless I'm sick or I genuinely cannot go, I'm going.
• 27:13
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 27:14
  SPEAKER_00: I've learned that lesson.
• 27:15
  SPEAKER_00: Like I try my very best to show up for people.
• 27:22
  SPEAKER_00: No matter how much I don't want to go.
• 27:26
  SPEAKER_00: That's all my oh no, it's not.
• 27:28
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, these ones are harder scenarios, but I only have three percent.
• 27:33
  SPEAKER_00: Hold on, let me Did I ask you that?
• 27:39
  SPEAKER_00: No, but I'm gonna ask you this.
• 27:41
  SPEAKER_00: You find out your friend's boyfriend is planning a surprise proposal.
• 27:46
  SPEAKER_00: Did I say that right?
• 27:47
  SPEAKER_00: No.
• 27:47
  SPEAKER_00: Surprise proposal.
• 27:49
  SPEAKER_00: But you also know your friend has privately told you she isn't ready for marriage, nor does she want it yet.
• 27:56
  SPEAKER_00: Do you warn her, knowing you completely ruined the proposal?
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 28:00
  SPEAKER_00: I would probably warn him.
• 28:02
  SPEAKER_00: I think I would too.
• 28:03
  SPEAKER_00: I would be like, oh, that's awesome.
• 28:06
  SPEAKER_00: Have you guys had a conversation about it?
• 28:08
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 28:09
  SPEAKER_00: I would maybe like see what she's thinking.
• 28:13
  SPEAKER_00: I don't think I would, or unless like I say that and he's like, no, I think it's good, then if he was still planning on going forward with it, I would tell her.
• 28:25
  SPEAKER_00: Or no, I wouldn't, because she can say no.
• 28:27
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 28:28
  SPEAKER_00: That's up to her.
• 28:28
  SPEAKER_00: And we're not gonna ruin any surprises.
• 28:35
  SPEAKER_00: Um your friend introduces you to someone and says, You two have met before.
• 28:43
  SPEAKER_00: You have absolutely no idea who this person is.
• 28:45
  SPEAKER_00: Do you admit it or pretend?
• 28:47
  SPEAKER_00: I am admitting it.
• 28:48
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 28:48
  SPEAKER_00: I'd be like, oh my gosh, where do we meet?
• 28:50
  SPEAKER_00: Why?
• 28:51
  SPEAKER_00: I would be like, I my memory is so bad.
• 28:53
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I can remember faces but not names.
• 28:56
  SPEAKER_00: Who are you?
• 28:58
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I'd probably do similar.
• 29:00
  SPEAKER_00: Like, oh, remind me.
• 29:03
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know who you are.
• 29:05
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 29:10
  SPEAKER_00: Ooh, let's see.
• 29:13
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, you're invited to a small event and your friend specifically asks you not to bring your new significant other.
• 29:20
  SPEAKER_00: You later find out everyone else is invited to bring theirs.
• 29:23
  SPEAKER_00: Do you go alone, ask why, or skip the event?
• 29:26
  SPEAKER_00: Skip the event.
• 29:27
  SPEAKER_00: You just said that you're showing up for your friends.
• 29:30
  SPEAKER_00: But all their significant others are allowed, but mine isn't.
• 29:35
  SPEAKER_00: You can ask.
• 29:36
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I'll ask.
• 29:38
  SPEAKER_00: And then if she gives me a bogus reason, I say I'm not going.
• 29:41
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 29:44
  SPEAKER_00: If Dylan Efron can't come, I'm not going.
• 29:53
  SPEAKER_00: You're in an Uber 30 minutes from home and realize your driver is going the wrong direction.
• 29:57
  SPEAKER_00: They insist the GPS is correct.
• 29:59
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 30:02
  SPEAKER_00: Oh.
• 30:03
  SPEAKER_00: I will correct that.
• 30:04
  SPEAKER_00: As I did.
• 30:06
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 30:06
  SPEAKER_00: In New York.
• 30:08
  SPEAKER_00: When?
• 30:10
  SPEAKER_00: Jugoo.
• 30:11
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, that was on the train though.
• 30:13
  SPEAKER_00: Same thing.
• 30:14
  SPEAKER_00: It was asking for directions, the question said.
• 30:17
  SPEAKER_00: You're in an Uber.
• 30:18
  SPEAKER_00: And he's going the wrong way.
• 30:20
  SPEAKER_00: Do you speak, but he insists the GPS is correct.
• 30:23
  SPEAKER_00: You tell them, like, no, it's this one.
• 30:26
  SPEAKER_00: Um, I number one, I'd get 911 on the phone.
• 30:28
  SPEAKER_00: True.
• 30:29
  SPEAKER_00: Because where are we going?
• 30:31
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm speaking up.
• 30:33
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm making sure that I'm going to try to pry the unlock thing on the door.
• 30:37
  SPEAKER_00: Make sure that's up.
• 30:39
  SPEAKER_00: And then I will ask before I ask that.
• 30:41
  SPEAKER_00: I'm making sure that I can unlock the door.
• 30:45
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm saying, hey, I don't believe this is the right way.
• 30:51
  SPEAKER_00: May you confirm.
• 30:53
  SPEAKER_00: And then he, if he has a weird answer, I'm calling 911 and I'm trying to jump out of the car.
• 30:59
  SPEAKER_00: True.
• 31:00
  SPEAKER_00: I had a weird experience whenever I flew into Ohio.
• 31:04
  SPEAKER_00: I had to take an Uber from the airport to an Airbnb that I've never been to before.
• 31:09
  SPEAKER_00: And it wasn't like picking up properly on the GPS.
• 31:13
  SPEAKER_00: So he kept driving around and he's like, I don't know where it is.
• 31:17
  SPEAKER_00: Is the address you gave me right?
• 31:19
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, yes, it's the right address.
• 31:21
  SPEAKER_00: This is it.
• 31:22
  SPEAKER_00: I'm showing you.
• 31:24
  SPEAKER_00: And then I'm like, bro, he's stealing me.
• 31:28
  SPEAKER_00: And so I was praying.
• 31:30
  SPEAKER_00: I think I texted you.
• 31:32
  SPEAKER_00: And it turns out it was like a weird side road that neither of us saw the first time.
• 31:38
  SPEAKER_00: I don't think you texted me this.
• 31:40
  SPEAKER_00: Oh.
• 31:40
  SPEAKER_00: I've never heard this.
• 31:42
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 31:43
  SPEAKER_00: I was scared.
• 31:45
  SPEAKER_00: I thought he was trying to steal me, but he was actually just confused.
• 31:48
  SPEAKER_00: And like, no, this is the address, but he would go to the address and it takes us to like this weird neighborhood.
• 31:54
  SPEAKER_00: Like, no, this is not it.
• 31:57
  SPEAKER_00: And then we drove around for like way long until we found it was like a weird road that we didn't see.
• 32:04
  SPEAKER_00: Thank God.
• 32:05
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know what I was about to do, but I was getting stolen.
• 32:08
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 32:10
  SPEAKER_00: The last one I have is you've given you're given an opportunity you've dreamed about for years, but taking it would require moving away from your family and missing several important milestones.
• 32:27
  SPEAKER_00: You know you may never get the opportunity again.
• 32:29
  SPEAKER_00: Do you take it?
• 32:31
  SPEAKER_00: Um I would have to pray about that a lot.
• 32:35
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 32:37
  SPEAKER_00: So I don't really know.
• 32:39
  SPEAKER_00: I guess whatever God leads me towards.
• 32:41
  SPEAKER_00: That's true.
• 32:42
  SPEAKER_00: I would if that's where I'm supposed to be.
• 32:45
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like you would know.
• 32:47
  SPEAKER_00: Well, there you have it.
• 32:49
  SPEAKER_00: That is what would we do in this situation live?
• 32:55
  SPEAKER_00: Text us any other situations that you might be curious.
• 33:00
  SPEAKER_00: What would we do?
• 33:02
  SPEAKER_00: If you just like really want to know.
• 33:05
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you again for listening as always.
• 33:08
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