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- Lucas: A candidate rejection letter is usually the end of the story. But a few months ago, one came across my desk that flipped the script entirely—it became the beginning of a much more useful conversation. Luna: I think I know the one you mean. It was from a senior marketing candidate who made it to the final round, right? Lucas: Exactly. She got a polite but completely generic rejection—'we've decided to move forward with other candidates.' And she wrote back, not angry, but genuinely curious. She said, 'I invested about fifteen hours in your process. Could you tell me where I fell short?' Luna: And did they respond? Lucas: They did—after a long pause. And what they told her was revealing. They said she was strong technically, but the hiring committee felt she 'didn't have enough energy.' That was the actual phrase. Luna: Wow. That's a textbook vague, subjective reason. It's basically code for 'we didn't connect with you personally.' No actionable feedback at all. Lucas: And she pushed back. She asked whether 'energy' was a criterion on their scorecard. It wasn't. She asked how many interviewers flagged it. Two out of five. And she pointed out that she'd been interviewing while recovering from a cold—which they never asked about. That's the moment the company realized their process was leaky. They were making decisions based on gut feel, not data. Luna: So she essentially did their job for them. She exposed a blind spot they didn't know they had. Lucas: Right. And that's what makes this story worth unpacking. Because rejection letters are often an afterthought. But they're also a rare moment of candor—if you're willing to listen. The company in question ended up revamping their interview scorecard, adding behavioral anchors, and training interviewers on consistent evaluation. Within six months, their new-hire retention went up by about 15 percent. Luna: That's a pretty concrete ROI from one uncomfortable email. It makes you wonder how many other companies are sitting on feedback gold they never ask for. Lucas: And if these kinds of conversations have ever made you rethink your own hiring process in some small way, I'll just say: listener support is what keeps this show ad-free and independent. If you find value in these episodes, you can support us at buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. Luna: Yeah, it's a great way to keep the conversation going without any commercial breaks. And we really do read every message. Lucas: So back to the rejection letter. That candidate's feedback prompted a deeper audit of their entire funnel. They found that interviewers were inconsistently applying the same criteria. One person's 'energy' was another person's 'confidence,' and a third's 'enthusiasm.' None of it was measurable. Luna: That's the classic 'halo effect' problem. You like someone, so you attribute positive traits to them. But here it's more like a 'fog effect'—you can't even define what you're measuring. Lucas: They built a new scorecard with five core competencies, each with three behavioral descriptors. For example, 'communication' meant 'clarifies next steps, uses data to support arguments, adjusts tone to the audience.' Now, if someone says a candidate lacks energy, they have to point to a specific behavior. Luna: That's the kind of specificity that helps both the company and the candidate. If you can't articulate what 'energy' looks like in practice, you shouldn't be using it as a filter. Lucas: Exactly. And the candidate who wrote that letter? She ended up at a competitor, crushing it. The company's loss. But at least they learned something. They now send a more personalized rejection letter that includes specific, constructive feedback—if the candidate wants it. And they ask for feedback on their process in return. Luna: Do you think most companies are even open to that kind of feedback? I've seen rejection letters that literally say 'please do not reply to this email.' Lucas: That's the norm, unfortunately. But it's a missed opportunity. You're telling a talented person 'no' and then slamming the door. If you handle it well, that candidate might become a customer, a referral source, or even a future hire. A bad rejection letter burns a bridge for good. Luna: I've heard recruiters say they're worried about legal liability if they give too much feedback. But isn't that more of a risk if you're vague and subjective? Lucas: There's a grain of truth there, but the bigger risk is inconsistency. If you document your feedback with behavioral examples, it's actually defensible. 'The candidate did not demonstrate the required technical skill during the coding exercise' is safer than 'we felt they weren't a culture fit.' Luna: So what's the one thing a company should change starting tomorrow regarding rejection letters? Lucas: Add two sentences to your template. First: 'If you would like specific feedback, we are happy to provide it—just reply to this email.' Second: 'We'd also welcome any feedback on your experience with our process.' You'd be surprised how many people will take you up on both. And you'll learn things you can't get from any survey. Luna: It's almost like closing the loop on the hiring cycle. The candidate invests time, you invest time—why not make the end productive for both sides? Lucas: Precisely. And that's where the real value is. The rejection isn't the end; it's data. The question is whether you're collecting it. Luna: I'm curious—has your own company ever changed a process based on a candidate's rejection reply? Lucas: Yes, actually. We had a candidate who pointed out that our phone screen felt like a quiz, not a conversation. We were asking rote questions about their resume instead of exploring their thinking. We changed the script to be more exploratory. That candidate didn't get the job, but their feedback improved the experience for everyone after them. Luna: That's a nice example of turning a loss into a long-term win. And it cost nothing. Lucas: Exactly. So if you're in hiring, next time you send a rejection, ask yourself: is this letter closing a door or opening a window? Because the best companies treat every interaction as a relationship, even the 'no'. Luna: And maybe, just maybe, that 'no' today becomes a 'yes' five years down the road. Lucas: That's the mindset. Thanks for listening—we'll see you next time.