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382 - Stoics never discuss THESE 5 subjects with other people _ Stoicism Philosophy _ Marcus Aurelius · Stoiq

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  Speaker 1: Silence, often considered an absence of words, holds a resounding power.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine a heated conversation where emotions surge, words clash, and
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  Speaker 1: tension fills the air. In such moments, the decision to
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  Speaker 1: remain silent can wield a strength that surpasses the mightiest arguments.
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  Speaker 1: Picture a scenario where silence, far from a retreat or
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  Speaker 1: admission of defeat, becomes a deliberate choice, a display of
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  Speaker 1: unwavering composure, and a testament to inner resilience. This captivating
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  Speaker 1: force of silence, particularly in avoiding contentious discussions or conflicts,
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  Speaker 1: echoes the profound philosophy embraced by the Stoics. Stoicism, a
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  Speaker 1: philosophical school of thought originating in ancient Greece, champions the
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  Speaker 1: ideals of self mastery, emotional balance, and rationality in the
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  Speaker 1: face of life's adversities. At the core of Stoicism lies
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  Speaker 1: the belief that individuals possess the power to control their
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  Speaker 1: reactions and attitudes toward external events, irrespective of their nature.
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  Speaker 1: This philosophy underscores the significance of practicing self control, cultivating
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  Speaker 1: inner resilience, and maintaining a tranquil disposition regardless of the
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  Speaker 1: chaos that might surround them. Silence, see not as a
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  Speaker 1: lack of expression, but as a deliberate choice, embodies the
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  Speaker 1: stoic principle of measured response over impulsive reaction. Stoicism advocates
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  Speaker 1: for intentional and thoughtful engagement in conversations of and steering
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  Speaker 1: clear of subjects that tend to provoke unnecessary emotional disturbance
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  Speaker 1: or conflict. This intentional avoidance is not a sign of
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  Speaker 1: ignorance or apathy, but a strategic decision rooted in the
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  Speaker 1: belief that some discussions might hinder one's tranquility and inner equilibrium.
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  Speaker 1: Stoics recognize the potential disruption these topics can cause, and
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  Speaker 1: as a result, choose silence over engagement in conversations that
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  Speaker 1: are likely to incite emotional turmoil or divert one's focus
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  Speaker 1: from more constructive pursuits. Stoics consciously steer away from conversations
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  Speaker 1: centered on self praise or the need to boast about
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  Speaker 1: per personal accomplishments. They view the act of boasting as
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  Speaker 1: a superficial endeavour that often stems from a desire for
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  Speaker 1: external validation. Stoicism emphasizes the intrinsic value of virtuous actions
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  Speaker 1: and internal contentment, rather than seeking validation through external recognition.
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  Speaker 1: By avoiding conversations that revolve around self aggrandizement, Stoics aim
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  Speaker 1: to cultivate humility, inner strength, and a focus on the
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  Speaker 1: inherent value of their actions rather than seeking admiration from others.
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  Speaker 1: Stoicism encourages individuals to refrain from engaging in conversations that
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  Speaker 1: fixate on desires and obsessions beyond their control. The Stoics
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  Speaker 1: believe that much of human suffering arises from an attachment
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  Speaker 1: to things and outcomes that are not within them their
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  Speaker 1: sphere of influence. By avoiding discussions that perpetuate such futile
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  Speaker 1: desires and obsessions, Stoics focus their attention on what is
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  Speaker 1: within their control, their thoughts, choices, and actions. This deliberate
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  Speaker 1: avoidance of fruitless desires and obsessions is a cornerstone of
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  Speaker 1: Stoic philosophy, allowing individuals to find contentment and peace in
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  Speaker 1: the present moment. Stoics advocate for abstaining from conversations concerning others, opinions,
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  Speaker 1: and gossip. They emphasize that valuing one's worth based on
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  Speaker 1: external judgments or indulging in discussions revolving around rumours and
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  Speaker 1: hearsay can significantly disturb one's inner tranquility. Stoicism urges individuals
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  Speaker 1: to focus on their own virtues, action, and moral character,
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  Speaker 1: rather than being swayed by the perceptions of others. By
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  Speaker 1: avoiding discussions about others, opinions, and gossip, stoics prioritize their
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  Speaker 1: internal convictions and moral principles, allowing them to maintain a
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  Speaker 1: steadfast focus on what truly matters to their own sense
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  Speaker 1: of virtue and tranquility. Stoicism encourages individuals to refrain from
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  Speaker 1: conversations that dwell excessively on past misfortunes and regrets. Stoics
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  Speaker 1: believe that fixating on events that have already transpired and
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  Speaker 1: are beyond one's control serves little purpose other than causing distress. Instead,
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  Speaker 1: stoic philosophy promotes the practice of accepting the past, learning
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  Speaker 1: from it, and directing focus towards the present moment. By
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  Speaker 1: avoiding discussions that foster excessive regret or attachment to past misfortunes,
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  Speaker 1: Stoics aim to foster a mindset centered on the present,
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  Speaker 1: where they can exercise their agency and influence their current
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  Speaker 1: actions and attitudes. Stoicism advises against engaging in conversations that
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  Speaker 1: predominantly revolve around an uncertain future and fears. Stoics recognize
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  Speaker 1: that worrying excessively about what lies ahead, especially when it's
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  Speaker 1: beyond one's control, leads to unnecessary anxiety and distress. Instead,
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  Speaker 1: stoic philosophy encourages individuals to focus on the present moment,
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  Speaker 1: acknowledging that while one can plan and prepare for the future,
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  Speaker 1: dwelling on the uncertainties can be counterproductive. By avoiding discussions
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  Speaker 1: centered on an uncertain future and fear, stoics strive to
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  Speaker 1: maintain a sense of composure and control over their present
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  Speaker 1: actions and responses. Silence, as advocated by stoicism in discussions
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  Speaker 1: surrounding personal achievements, desires, other's opinions, past misfortunes, and the
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  Speaker 1: uncertain future, offers a multitude of benefits. By abstaining from
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  Speaker 1: these conversations, individuals following stoic principles can attain a profound
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  Speaker 1: sense of inner tranquility and resilience. This silence enables them
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  Speaker 1: to direct their focus towards matters within their control, fostering
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  Speaker 1: emotional balance and fortitude. Furthermore, by avoiding these topics, stoics
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  Speaker 1: can better uphold their values and moral principles, fostering a
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  Speaker 1: greater sense of self awareness and content. Silence, as embraced
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  Speaker 1: by stoicism, serves as a deliberate and strategic choice in
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  Speaker 1: avoiding conversations that may disrupt one's inner peace and equilibrium.
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  Speaker 1: The rationale behind this intentional silence lies in the stoic
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  Speaker 1: philosophy's emphasis on self mastery, emotional resilience, and the pursuit
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  Speaker 1: of tranquility. By choosing silence over discussions on personal achievements,
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  Speaker 1: futile desires, others, opinions, past misfortunes, and an uncertain future,
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  Speaker 1: stoics aim to maintain a sense of control over their reactions,
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  Speaker 1: promote inner strength, and foster a focused, presence centered mindset.
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  Speaker 1: The power of silence, as advocated by stoicism rem means
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  Speaker 1: a potent tool for cultivating inner strength and tranquility. It
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  Speaker 1: serves not as a withdrawal from conversation, but as a
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  Speaker 1: deliberate choice that empowers individuals to navigate life's complexities with composure, resilience,
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  Speaker 1: and an unwavering commitment to their principles. Thank you for
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  Speaker 1: exploring the profound wisdom of stoicism and the empowering impact
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  Speaker 1: of silence on our lives. If you found this discussion insightful,
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  Speaker 1: and emotional resilience. Your support and engagement mean a lot.
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  Speaker 1: See you in the next video.