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735. I Can’t Do the Good Work Saying Yes To Everything · Be It Till You See It

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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's fuck ya Friday!
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Fuck ya!
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Get ready for some wins!
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  [SPEAKER_01]: and it's the antidote to fear.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Each week my guess will bring bold, executable, intrinsic, and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and be it until you see it.
• 0:40
  [SPEAKER_01]: It's a practice, not a perfect, let's get started.
• 0:48
  [SPEAKER_01]: Welcome, babe, to the Fuck Yeah Friday episode that has no script at the beginning.
• 0:53
  [SPEAKER_01]: I just winged every time and I went, lung it so poorly.
• 0:56
  [SPEAKER_01]: You'll probably hear a blooper in this episode because, oh my god, normally don't record the f-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-i
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know how it's going to be learning.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We can be living.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We can be celebrating what we did do together.
• 1:21
  [SPEAKER_01]: And you know, I got to get a little thing off my chest with you.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Hopefully you're in your car, not along and understand my pain.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Then I share one of your wins.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And then you get to send, you get to be inspired by someone who's wondering you send it into me.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So, okay, here's the deal.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: There's this weird thing that's going on.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So for those of you who've been on Instagram for a long time, being enough like being on Instagram, like you didn't have to have the ton of followers, but like everybody wanted to send you a pair of leggings and then give you 10% off as your discount, but also you would sell the leggings and then you would get affiliate money, right?
• 1:52
  [SPEAKER_01]: And so it years ago was everyone in their mom was literally the my DMs trying to get me to where their fucking leggings send me a free pair and then I just had to post and I could have an affiliate
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Fast forward to, okay, now I actually want to be intentional about the companies I collab with.
• 2:10
  [SPEAKER_01]: I want to make sure it's things that we want to tell you about.
• 2:13
  [SPEAKER_01]: So being intentional about doing my research, trying the product, reaching out, being an affiliate for them, and then for them to go, you actually have it sold enough of the product.
• 2:23
  [SPEAKER_01]: So we're going to cancel your affiliation with us.
• 2:27
  [SPEAKER_01]: So by not saying enough of the product, they want to 20 sales in a month.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You guys?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Someone have to have a million followers for that, because most people know it takes seven to 10 hours of somebody understanding your brand before they buy something from you.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So 7 to 17 touch points at the least for some purchase.
• 2:44
  [SPEAKER_01]: And so I was so,
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  [SPEAKER_01]: frustrated because it's been 30 days.
• 2:48
  [SPEAKER_01]: What do you think I was going to talk about your stuff all day long every single day like this QVC?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: No.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And so it's just so annoying and it gave me such a bad taste with the brand because that's just, you know, I would never do my affiliates.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: If you want to be an affiliate of ours,
• 3:03
  [SPEAKER_01]: we have it for our flash guards and we have it for agency and then we have her for all bonuses for elevate and for the retreat.
• 3:09
  [SPEAKER_01]: And if you want to be, we don't go, you have to have minimum sales to get a thing.
• 3:14
  [SPEAKER_01]: No, what I have seen is if you do really, really well, you might get better payouts, but to just completely drop the people who've been talking about you because they didn't do a good enough job weird.
• 3:25
  [SPEAKER_01]: I just think it's weird.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I think it's gross.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's not, and then
• 3:31
  [SPEAKER_01]: because you would just allow me to be, and if you saw me musing my affiliate just to buy stuff at this count, okay, that is one thing, but
• 3:40
  [SPEAKER_01]: to just feel, you can keep talking about we're not gonna pay you because you didn't, I don't know, something about it just really irks me because that's not, that's not how things go.
• 3:48
  [SPEAKER_01]: And, you know, there's another companies I've taken really, really good care of me, really, really amazing.
• 3:53
  [SPEAKER_01]: And then they got rid of their affiliate program.
• 3:56
  [SPEAKER_01]: Very different thing, very, very different thing.
• 3:58
  [SPEAKER_01]: And so this is not me bitching about that stuff.
• 4:00
  [SPEAKER_01]: It's just like the ones that you, I don't know.
• 4:03
  [SPEAKER_01]: I just think, why can't I just tell people about the product that I love and then maybe one a month come to you.
• 4:08
  [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe that's it, right?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe get one a month.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe actually my people already buy your stuff and they're like, oh, let's like to do I'll keep buying more, but you'll never know, right?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's just weird.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Why can't we just all get along?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Why can't we all support each other?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: That's all.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: That's what this is complaint is about.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: All right, so my win.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: My win because I think I've like hit that pinata to death.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So I had an invitation to do something that to be honest would have actually been fine in the line with the business and we would have made it work and probably would have made some good money on it and I said no because it was going to affect my well-being.
• 4:44
  [SPEAKER_01]: and my commitments to myself and my sleep and my routines and I have so many friends who work for themselves who will just say yes to every speaking gig and they will just work from every hotel and they just wear this badge of busy and I cannot do that and it's really interesting because like
• 5:06
  [SPEAKER_01]: There is a sphere that can come up and we've got if I tell people I'm going to say no to things, then people will stop asking me.
• 5:12
  [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm sure that's true.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I guess I can have it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But I also really do believe that this is not advice for you if you're brand new, the thing you're doing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: But I've been doing this for a long time, a long time.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I've been this a long time and I also did so much travel and then no travel because of the pandemic and then a little bit travel and then so much travel and I love it and I
• 5:36
  [SPEAKER_01]: And the truth is, is that I can't do the good work that I'm doing and say yes to every single thing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So I said no to this thing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I said, I can't do it this time, but please give me a mind for the rest for other things.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You know, it's not a never.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: It's just on a today and send them all with some other support.
• 5:53
  [SPEAKER_01]: And then I didn't feel bad about it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I also think that that's a win.
• 5:57
  [SPEAKER_01]: Like, whoa, wow, what, what, I got rid of some level of insecurity.
• 6:02
  [SPEAKER_01]: That was kind of vibrate in my brain.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Got rid of that somewhere along the way.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't know when, but when I did this, I didn't buzz in.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, you haven't invited again.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Do you want to be invited?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Nope.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Not insecure at all.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So that's my win.
• 6:14
  [SPEAKER_01]: That's my win.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I said no, and it felt bad about it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: So, see how easy a win can be.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Now, let's do a win of yours.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You can send your wins in to be at bod.com slash questions.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, same link for everything questions topics.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: The questions we answer on YouTube by the topics.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: We do podcast episodes on or find guests.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You can send guests for a question.
• 6:32
  [SPEAKER_01]: If you send me Michelle Obama one more time.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I love her.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Can't wait, would love for her to.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Cannot wait to be of earned the right to interview her, but maybe someone a little more attainable?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Yep.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
• 6:42
  [SPEAKER_01]: I love you guys so much.
• 6:43
  [SPEAKER_01]: All right, so this is from Sandra Burke Movement.
• 6:47
  [SPEAKER_01]: I set up my new reformer, oh my god, your new reformer is stunning on you.
• 6:51
  [SPEAKER_01]: And it's been so fun to watch your practice just evolve and change in your the strength that you have.
• 6:56
  [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm just so glad that you're in my life that I've been your elevated life.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And we get to keep doing this blind thing together.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: And this one is from Pilates Muscle.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Connected deeper to my breath,
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Wow, breath is so good.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: The breath is so good.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I love these winds.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Thanks for sending them in, ladies.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You are amazing.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Keep them coming.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Because you'll hear them in the future, right?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: You won't hear them a week later when you remember the when you're in here a month or three later and go, oh my god, I did that.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: That's right.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: I forgot about that, right?
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  [SPEAKER_01]: All right.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Here is your mantra.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Relaxation is my natural state.
• 7:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: Relaxation is my natural state.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Relaxation is your natural state babe.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Go get it.
• 7:44
  [SPEAKER_01]: Go be it till you see it.
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