Latest / Ascension Alchemists™ — God Led Sacred Marriage For Purpose & Impact. A Couple's Embodied Walk with Presence of God ALMighty / E86 Honi: From Pain To Purpose. A Mother's Testimony of Witnessing Her Child's God-Led Success: Lamborghini at age 22
Transcript
- 0:01SPEAKER_00: Blessings and welcome to the Ascension Alchemist Podcast.
- 0:05SPEAKER_00: It's your host, Reverend Honey Boden, and I am delighted to be with you here in gratitude that you're getting ready to listen to this podcast, maybe on your way to work or at the gym or on your walk or wherever you are.
- 0:21SPEAKER_00: Really, really grateful that you download this and you tune in each Monday and Thursday as both Mikon and I share our heart, our authenticity, and what we are experiencing in life in this walk of embodiment.
- 0:41SPEAKER_00: So, welcome.
- 0:42SPEAKER_00: Today's episode is a very special episode because it is around my son's birthday.
- 0:48SPEAKER_00: He turned 23 today, and this episode is about witnessing your children's success and the few things you can learn from them.
- 1:00SPEAKER_00: I really want to dive into this topic today with all of you.
- 1:06SPEAKER_00: Before doing so, thank you so much for being open and available to truly allow the presence of God Almighty into your life, to embody that truth and to walk this human incarnation from that level of remembrance, which is not an easy task in any way.
- 1:28SPEAKER_00: Yet, as we allow the muscle to become stronger through all the different encounters we have, situations we face, opportunities that we have to take, it becomes a stronger and stronger muscle, and we truly are a witness to the evidence of the presence of God Almighty behind it.
- 1:54SPEAKER_00: And this is going to really tie into what I'm going to speak about today.
- 1:58SPEAKER_00: So welcome, you faith-filled individuals and believers, because it's definitely a podcast for those who are filled with faith or wanting their faith to be stronger, and they believe in the presence and the glory and gorgeousness of God Almighty in their lives.
- 2:19SPEAKER_00: And how wonderful is that! So it is my son's birthday.
- 2:24SPEAKER_00: He turned 23 today, and I tell you, my heart is in such an incredible place of gratitude for him.
- 2:37SPEAKER_00: This morning I saw he had gone live on his Instagram, and he really spoke about why why today was so important.
- 2:53SPEAKER_00: And he and he came out.
- 2:55SPEAKER_00: He has been not on social media, not really sharing much, and he knew as he turned 23 he wanted to come out and share more.
- 3:04SPEAKER_00: So it was so beautiful to witness him come on, talk about how the last three years, the growth that he has had, and particularly last year, all that he had faced going through going through going through a divorce, his marriage fell apart, and that was really tough.
- 3:30SPEAKER_00: A lot of you don't know that.
- 3:55SPEAKER_00: So what is that?
- 3:56SPEAKER_00: He some of you got a chance to see it.
- 3:59SPEAKER_00: That this past it was Wednesday, he called me.
- 4:03SPEAKER_00: He said, Mom, I'm coming to pick you and Michael up.
- 4:06SPEAKER_00: I have a surprise.
- 4:07SPEAKER_00: I said, What is a surprise?
- 4:10SPEAKER_00: So he said, I bought my dream car.
- 4:12SPEAKER_00: I was like, That's amazing.
- 4:13SPEAKER_00: I don't even know what your dream car is, but come on.
- 4:16SPEAKER_00: So I was waiting outside the video, and some of you got a chance to see it.
- 4:19SPEAKER_00: And here he was, he pulled in with his brother with this gorgeous Lamborghini, and I was like, Wow, Nevada, that's amazing! This is your dream car.
- 4:30SPEAKER_00: So to see him come and smile, and he's not one to show off at all, but for him to pursue that dream, I knew it was so much more.
- 4:43SPEAKER_00: I'm going to talk about this a little bit in this here.
- 4:47SPEAKER_00: And then when I saw him, I was just in such joyous celebration of celebrating his success because he's put a lot of time and energy and dedication, devotion, discipline.
- 5:03SPEAKER_00: When he grew, when he started his company two years ago, Device Spiers, he he had this vision.
- 5:11SPEAKER_00: He put Jesus as his CEO, and he says, I'm going to do this for CEO for Jesus, and I want to make a difference in the younger generation life.
- 5:22SPEAKER_00: And he pursued it.
- 5:25SPEAKER_00: So this year he bought his third house, and he's in real estate, his other companies growing, he hit his million this year.
- 5:35SPEAKER_00: Here these younger generations, so wise, so incredible.
- 5:41SPEAKER_00: And it wasn't about the Lamborghini.
- 5:43SPEAKER_00: It was about his conviction, his truth, his desire based on his own life experience, to make a difference in other younger generations that are wanting to have this kind of lifestyle, but wanted to do it in a healthy way.
- 6:06SPEAKER_00: So let me backtrack a little bit.
- 6:08SPEAKER_00: So as today we celebrated, all he wanted was to go to the petting farm.
- 6:14SPEAKER_00: We have always done a lot with animals.
- 6:16SPEAKER_00: Growing up, he was very sensitive for animals, so we did all kinds of relations with animals.
- 6:22SPEAKER_00: So he's like, Mom, I just want to go with you and Keon, his brother, and Michael and their dad to the petting farm.
- 6:30SPEAKER_00: So we went, we had so much fun petting the, you know, it was bison or like buffalo or the cows or turtleys or the bunnies and goats and stuff like that.
- 6:44SPEAKER_00: It was so much fun.
- 6:46SPEAKER_00: And we went had lunch together, and to see him just so happy with the pillar of support that's around him, and to see him in this place of grounded energy with all that he has experienced.
- 7:03SPEAKER_00: Some of you know we've just gone through a lot behind the scenes, and and to be that clear that today he's really going to enjoy, as he expressed his message on Instagram.
- 7:16SPEAKER_00: Today he opened up and he really gave the glory to God Almighty, knowing that God Almighty has been the reason that it's giving him the power to turn his pain into purpose and to watch the difference, to watch his dreams come true and to be humble, to to utilize this car.
- 7:45SPEAKER_00: He really knew if I get this Lamborghini, I want it to be a message that if you put your energy in Christ, if you put your energy in God and be disciplined, be in devotion, God Almighty does respond.
- 8:03SPEAKER_00: Your dreams do come into pass.
- 8:05SPEAKER_00: And I love that he's taking that message in that way as such a young individual.
- 8:11SPEAKER_00: And why this is important, because he's also one.
- 8:15SPEAKER_00: So a few years ago, when he was 15, he became a pro gamer.
- 8:21SPEAKER_00: He was one of the he made it really big with 500,000 followers, Fortnite player.
- 8:27SPEAKER_00: He had like 12 contracts, and you know, school wasn't really for him.
- 8:33SPEAKER_00: He did so amazing with that, and he he was able to make money and out of that, but it was it was not a healthy lifestyle, everything consumed around the gaming world, and and that was really tough.
- 8:48SPEAKER_00: And during that time, he really had he had really covered himself, buried himself in the gaming world because within a four-year period, four of his friends were murdered, like literally murdered, gun with gun.
- 9:05SPEAKER_00: And that was really hard.
- 9:07SPEAKER_00: It was really hard for us to try to reach him.
- 9:09SPEAKER_00: It was really hard for us to to help him, and he went through a lot.
- 9:15SPEAKER_00: He went through so much.
- 9:17SPEAKER_00: And four years ago, one of his best, best friends also committed suicide.
- 9:23SPEAKER_00: That was really tough.
- 9:25SPEAKER_00: And it was tough.
- 9:27SPEAKER_00: It was really, really tough.
- 9:29SPEAKER_00: We've gone through a lot.
- 9:30SPEAKER_00: And he got into the game, he out of the gaming board when he got out.
- 9:36SPEAKER_00: He decided to, he studied for nine months, stock market.
- 9:43SPEAKER_00: He did that very well, and then he started going to trading.
- 9:47SPEAKER_00: And trading, there was a lot of money that we all helped support him, and and he did very well, but then he lost everything.
- 9:56SPEAKER_00: That was really hard for him and for our family.
- 10:00SPEAKER_00: And again, he is one because he takes chances, because there's got this gift and presence of genius in him, we've continued to come around him to support him.
- 10:16SPEAKER_00: And I truly believe because he's gone through so many of these experiences, and he's extreme, he's experienced such extreme in this, just he's just turned 23 today.
- 10:31SPEAKER_00: He has had this ability to have such level of depth and maturity in him that helped him be an entrepreneur very early on and utilize it then for great purpose.
- 10:49SPEAKER_00: And this really came about two and a half years ago when he gave his life to Jesus Christ, and that was a that was a whole nother story.
- 10:59SPEAKER_00: Why I'm sharing all of this with you is that when Nevon was born, Nevon Nevon was just exceptional.
- 11:07SPEAKER_00: He had to like fight between the doctors and all the different people that wanted to label him and medicate him and all kinds of things.
- 11:19SPEAKER_00: And again, he was another one that I stood up quite a bit to and refused.
- 11:24SPEAKER_00: I absolutely really refused with Nevada and to protect him.
- 11:29SPEAKER_00: And I felt like I single-handedly had to protect him so much with that.
- 11:34SPEAKER_00: And though his father did, but you know, he didn't speak till he was five.
- 11:39SPEAKER_00: But when he spoke, he was very clear about his memories and some of his greater otherworldly, other dimensional abilities.
- 11:49SPEAKER_00: And so we experienced a lot with him and through his higher powers.
- 11:55SPEAKER_00: So to be a parent to him, I would have to say I've been stretched beyond my imagination and his dad as well.
- 12:08SPEAKER_00: And as Michael came into his life, it's been 10 years.
- 12:11SPEAKER_00: Michael has watched him since he was 12 grow and witness all that we've experienced with him.
- 12:18SPEAKER_00: He's a he's someone who's so gifted, and being a parent to one of these gifted children that don't fit into society, and and you know you gotta support them, but you you're facing and you're facing a very lonely battle trying to support these children.
- 12:38SPEAKER_00: And they're coming in with such an incredible lens where it's forcing you as a parent to be so stretched and put down your belief system and be able to listen to this other way.
- 13:00SPEAKER_00: For example, when he was a child, like when Kian and Nevon would get, uh both of my sons would get like tour money, Nevon right away would spend all of it.
- 13:10SPEAKER_00: Nevon would have these, Nevon would have, for example, he would spend it all and he would live so in the presence.
- 13:18SPEAKER_00: I remember when he was like eight years old, we were having dinner one night, and he asked Carl, their father, Dad, what's retirement?
- 13:27SPEAKER_00: And Carl was all excited, explaining what retirement is.
- 13:30SPEAKER_00: You work all these years and then you save the money when you're 65.
- 13:34SPEAKER_00: And I remember Nevada at eight years old told Carl, that is the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
- 13:41SPEAKER_00: You can live now.
- 13:42SPEAKER_00: Why would you do that?
- 13:43SPEAKER_00: And I remember me, Carl, like, I mean, the things he would say to us, and he would always tell me, Mom, you would be a much better parent.
- 13:52SPEAKER_00: This is like he's five or six.
- 13:55SPEAKER_00: You would be a much better parent if you knew how to parent me.
- 13:58SPEAKER_00: And I would say to him, then I actually don't know.
- 14:00SPEAKER_00: You're you're so different.
- 14:02SPEAKER_00: I don't, I really don't know how to parent you.
- 14:04SPEAKER_00: And it always reminded me with my mother, because my mom really struggled to parent me, didn't know how to parent me.
- 14:11SPEAKER_00: I was I was such a different child.
- 14:14SPEAKER_00: And again, one of these ones that had a lot of gifts, but my mom didn't know how to how to parent me.
- 14:21SPEAKER_00: So here I was, I didn't know, but I did my best to at least provide the supportive environment for him.
- 14:28SPEAKER_00: So if you have one of these children, provide the best supportive environment and be okay.
- 14:34SPEAKER_00: You don't know.
- 14:36SPEAKER_00: You don't know because they are so advanced and they are pushing everything you know into the side, and you're finding yourself really vulnerable and still trying to be a parent, yet they're trying to show you a different lens.
- 14:53SPEAKER_00: So that was my child, which I'm sure some of you have, some of these children.
- 14:58SPEAKER_00: But what Nemon did for me was it gave me the ability to find a language to meet with other parents who had one of these special children and how to nurture them, how to nourish them, how to really stand up for them, how to how to help their emotions.
- 15:15SPEAKER_00: And especially if school didn't understand them, teachers didn't understand them, others didn't understand them, how you could stand by them, let them know that they're perfectly amazing in the lens of God, and there's nothing wrong with it.
- 15:31SPEAKER_00: If anything, everything is right with them, even greater, because that support is really gonna help them later to find confidence and and be able to take risks, invest money in them and behind them and the direction they're going.
- 15:45SPEAKER_00: And don't be afraid if you lose money, you know, all of that, because there will be a turnaround, and and it's okay, it's worth investing for your children, especially these gifted ones.
- 16:02SPEAKER_00: To watch my son today and on Wednesday, to watch him be so mature in where he is, in his clarity, in his direction, in his conviction, in his truth, and to watch his brother, his older brother to be so much in grace and celebration for him, for to watch Michael being such celebration for him, to watch their dad being such celebration, and the posts that I made, because a lot of you have known our journey, so many of you posts I made on Instagram and Facebook, you came behind this celebration.
- 16:44SPEAKER_00: It was so touching and meaningful.
- 16:49SPEAKER_00: And for me to to have this moment as I sit with God today, and I said, God Almighty, my gosh, I'm so grateful that you gifted me this opportunity to witness, to witness this child that's so exceptional, and an exceptional children come with a price, with how they operate, which is not easy in any way.
- 17:18SPEAKER_00: And I said in so much gratitude that God stretched me so much with my youngest son, and I really would say I am what I am today because of my relationship with him and my other son, both of them played the biggest role in my awakening, ascension, embodiment journey.
- 17:49SPEAKER_00: My oldest son Keon awoken me in my ascension path, and my youngest son Nevon awoke in me in my embodiment path, and it's not separate.
- 18:02SPEAKER_00: These sacred things come to our lives so that we can we can stand in the generation gap and turn the generational curse of our family, of our, like for example, for me, for my mom and my father, to stand in that gap and and turn it into a generational blessing, and allow God Almighty to step forward and uh and lead the way and open the doors and and watch the unfoldment of so many people being blessed.
- 18:42SPEAKER_00: For example, as he has a company, he has several people that he's hired, employees, they're they're they're being blessed because he's really bringing that blessing to them.
- 18:53SPEAKER_00: My oldest son, Keon, came one year, came to help help him with his company, and it's amazing.
- 19:02SPEAKER_00: Like it was a dream I always had for my sons to I always wanted my sons to work together and to be strong together and to help each other and to to demonstrate like you can come together, you can allow God to work with you, so you can bring goods into this world.
- 19:25SPEAKER_00: So as a mother, the wish that I had for my children is here into reality, and it's so beautiful, it's just so beautiful.
- 19:38SPEAKER_00: I'm so grateful, and I'm so grateful to watch the freedom of my son making his dreams coming to pass, and and he's he's finally like realized the value of family, and again, if your children are in that teenager phase and you're going through a lot with them, just stick around, keep loving them, keep keep showing them.
- 20:04SPEAKER_00: They may have a lot of attitudes and not be nice, and but keep on showing them because they do turn around and they do recognize that a lot, all that support they come to age like this, they're like, wow, you know, if it wasn't for your support, I don't know what I would do, I don't know what I would have been, and what a nectar that is.
- 20:31SPEAKER_00: How special that is.
- 20:34SPEAKER_00: So I'm really celebrating it there because to witness him is is such a celebration, to witness his joy is a celebration, to witness witness him on Instagram come out and start talking about coming out of that those years that he hasn't spoken, and all these people that wonder what happened from the you know gaming world, what happened, so now he's gonna utilize it for good.
- 21:02SPEAKER_00: It's like, wow, God, you're so good.
- 21:05SPEAKER_00: You're so good.
- 21:07SPEAKER_00: Thank you, thank you, God, and uh my heart, my heart is I I can't even hold this back because I just feel so grateful.
- 21:22SPEAKER_00: I feel so grateful because he's really inspired me.
- 21:26SPEAKER_00: So here's the thing what has he taught me again that discipline, he gets that from me.
- 21:33SPEAKER_00: The discipline's very strong, that creativity and and that determination.
- 21:41SPEAKER_00: Like today, baby ate lunch, he was very disciplined about the food that he eats because he's very regimen about his um body and his muscles and the shape he's in.
- 21:54SPEAKER_00: It's beautiful to watch.
- 21:57SPEAKER_00: And uh he's going to celebrate with his body.
- 22:00SPEAKER_00: Brother and friends tonight, and that level of responsibility is so beautiful.
- 22:07SPEAKER_00: It's just so it's such a sweet nectar in this moment.
- 22:12SPEAKER_00: And the other part of this is to watch my other son in so much celebration with him because sometimes children when they're siblings, one gets one may seem to get a lot of attention and the other one not as much, the other one hidden, and you know they can be jealousy, and and certainly the we certainly did also go through those phases, and but to be in this phase where it's just such a clarity of support is magnificent.
- 22:53SPEAKER_00: So we did a beautiful prayer around him for this year, and how much further we we really declared over him who go because when these children come in, it's like God seated this seed in them for to grow and be so big.
- 23:18SPEAKER_00: So my brother was one of these children too when in his early 20s, when my father died, my mother, my my mother decided to take the life insurance money and give it to him for him to start his business.
- 23:36SPEAKER_00: And my brother took off.
- 23:39SPEAKER_00: And one of the things he did was he was so generous, he got into the car business, and it was amazing to watch the generosity in him because as he started getting into super luxury supercars, when um both of my sons were little, they were in elementary school, he would come like let's say with like a Lamborghini or a Frari or whatever, he would come pick them up just to give them that experience and let them sit in the car, drive him around.
- 24:09SPEAKER_00: And my sons, my sons were so blessed to be with these, and and to sort of have their visions expand to know this is possible, and they got to experience even with Bugatti or Roy's Royce and all of these.
- 24:28SPEAKER_00: It wasn't about the luxury car, it was about what's possible, so that realm of possibility opened them, opened them.
- 24:37SPEAKER_00: So this gave that taste to the opportunity that they can also become entrepreneurs and create a different life and make actually a difference in someone's life to inspire life, to uplift life, to give hope.
- 24:56SPEAKER_00: All of this was possible because if you're in an environment when you haven't seen anything, you don't think ever it's possible.
- 25:03SPEAKER_00: So, with Nevada over these past few days, there have been all these little kids when you used to be that age, coming up to him.
- 25:09SPEAKER_00: He's like, Yeah, you can come sit in the car, he I'll show you.
- 25:12SPEAKER_00: And he keeps talking about the message.
- 25:14SPEAKER_00: You know, you can do this if you're connected with God and be obedient, you know.
- 25:20SPEAKER_00: God is gonna help you, God is gonna provide for you.
- 25:24SPEAKER_00: And and I love that he's taking the direction in that direction to help the younger generation, and it's beautiful to witness it, it's just beautiful.
- 25:36SPEAKER_00: So today was today was very special.
- 25:41SPEAKER_00: Kickstarting the summer solstice with my son's birthday, and then we went, we discussed all the different birthdays we had with him and the laughter we shared, the sweetness of it.
- 25:58SPEAKER_00: And as a mother, me turning to God even greater, surrendering even greater as He takes his next journey of success.
- 26:12SPEAKER_00: We always hear when your children are little, the problems are little, when children grow, the problems are bigger.
- 26:23SPEAKER_00: I I wouldn't say problem, I would say the responsibility is more, the power is greater, and as a parent, you have to hold that strong support in helping them remember.
- 26:45SPEAKER_00: So today I was sharing with Nebon.
- 26:47SPEAKER_00: I said, Nebon, remember when you go to bed at night, God is right there watching you.
- 26:54SPEAKER_00: When you wake up in the morning, God Almighty is there.
- 26:57SPEAKER_00: God gave you this life, honor it, honor, honor that body, honor this garment you're in.
- 27:05SPEAKER_00: Let God Almighty do the good work through you.
- 27:09SPEAKER_00: This is not an opportunity you got in the car to lose yourself.
- 27:13SPEAKER_00: And he said to me, he said, Mom, I found myself when Jesus found me.
- 27:19SPEAKER_00: I'm losing it.
- 27:21SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna inspire lives.
- 27:22SPEAKER_00: I said, good, you got it then.
- 27:24SPEAKER_00: So go for it, go for it all the way.
- 27:29SPEAKER_00: While I do my part of continuously praying over him, over both of them, and praying over all these children that are here to bring so much goodness to this world, and these children they've had to fight such a battle, and I know so many of you have been part of it.
- 27:57SPEAKER_00: Between the fight you've had to put up, like me, for them not to get vaccinated, the the part for them not to be labeled and be medicated, the fight that you've had to put up with because other regular people couldn't see their gifts.
- 28:21SPEAKER_00: So I tear up because I know what you've also gone through, and I'm here to tell you it's worth it.
- 28:30SPEAKER_00: Don't give up being being support with each other, support group of other mothers and families and even families that may not understand you, and know that God Almighty is gonna give you the strength and the support for you to go through this so that you can also bear witness to a moment like I'm witnessing right now.
- 29:01SPEAKER_00: The bittersweetness and the wonderful celebration.
- 29:07SPEAKER_00: People that are seeing the post on Facebook and Instagram, they just see him standing with the Lamborghini, but they have no idea behind the scene, and that moment of arrival like that, there's so much more.
- 29:26SPEAKER_00: So these are my tears.
- 29:29SPEAKER_00: I've never cried this much on a podcast episode, and I'm I'm delighted to share authentically with you on this day.
- 29:41SPEAKER_00: So happy birthday to my son, happy birthday to me, and happy birthday to all your beautiful children that are gifted children, special children.
- 29:58SPEAKER_00: May they may their gifts fully come out as you stand stronger, stronger and stand with them.
- 30:10SPEAKER_00: So that's all I'm going to share today.
- 30:14SPEAKER_00: Thank you for this moment of vulnerability in me.
- 30:23SPEAKER_00: I'm just so grateful.
- 30:26SPEAKER_00: I'm so grateful to bear witness to this moment.
- 30:31SPEAKER_00: My other son, they both move out next weekend.
- 30:34SPEAKER_00: My other son, Kion, he moves to his new place.
- 30:38SPEAKER_00: I'm so excited for him.
- 30:40SPEAKER_00: And Neville moves to his other place, so excited for him.
- 30:45SPEAKER_00: And I remember when we moved back to Maryland, me and Kion.
- 30:52SPEAKER_00: Kion was living in Florida, me and Kion were talking.
- 30:55SPEAKER_00: I kept feeling on that inside, God was saying to me, gotta go back to support Neville, gotta go back.
- 31:01SPEAKER_00: And Kion was feeling it, so we both moved back.
- 31:05SPEAKER_00: It's Michael, we moved back here to help support him, and of course, my mom.
- 31:11SPEAKER_00: So it's been beautiful to witness all of this.
- 31:14SPEAKER_00: We didn't know what we're coming into, but we knew he, you know, he he was not he was not doing well, and he turned everything around, lost 85 pounds, divorced, that finished, turned everything around, and he's just thriving and thriving and thriving, and it's gonna be amazing how far he's gonna go.
- 31:40SPEAKER_00: So, hallelujah, God is great, and I pray over your children that God Almighty is going to give you the strength to stand greater as the beautiful gifts of God Almighty pours through your children, your gift a child, and that child is gonna bring about the heaven's blessing onto this earth, that abundance, that prosperity, that whole new way that's going to revolutionize your family in God's holy name, in Christ's name, amen, amen, and amen.
- 32:21SPEAKER_00: So, have a beautiful, beautiful, blessed day.
- 32:24SPEAKER_00: That's all I'm gonna leave you with.
- 32:27SPEAKER_00: Thank you for listening, and I'd love to hear if you have one of those children.
- 32:34SPEAKER_00: Please make a comment for me, and if this landed, please share it with someone.
- 32:42SPEAKER_00: So they have a hope.
- 32:47SPEAKER_00: Yeah, because it's a lonely walk for mothers with special children, for sure.
- 32:55SPEAKER_00: I love you all.
- 32:57SPEAKER_00: See you on the next episode.
- 32:59SPEAKER_00: God bless you.