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Amanda Has Been Doing Laundry Wrong for Years · Podcast - Big 98.7

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Well, guys, it worked. We've set the bar so unbelievably low that
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all it takes is for us to do something like this guy did. And
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you ladies are just impressed. Just going wild, are we. This lady's
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gone viral on TikTok because her husband had a bunch of guys over, big
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game, you know, play a football what have you got cha? So
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she's upstairs reading a book, watching whatever. Meanwhile they're downstairs romping around,
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rooting the team on, drinking, eating, I can imagine, just really
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going to town. Yeah. So the next morning she comes downstairs and she's
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filming and this is the video that's gone viral. She walks down, she
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goes, well, my husband had a bunch of people over last night.
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Walks into the kitchen, sees the sink and there is just a massive pile
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of dishes, just a mess dishes, cups, and she's like, oh
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my god, my husband. What. Well, she gets closer, she
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realizes there's a little sticky note next to the sink. She's like, what's
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this. It's a handwritten note from her husband that says I got it with
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an arrow pointing to the dishes, and she goes nuts. She's like,
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oh my god, look at this man. This is a perfect man.
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He said, he's got it. He's gonna do the dishes when he gets
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home. God, yeah, she's a she's so sweetie, because uh,
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well, my first question would be like when Whendy got it? Because you're
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gott it is probably maybe you're hungover. You're gonna get to it possibly today
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afterwards. My timeline is that needed to be done before bed because I'm a
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psycho. So there's that. Well, I'm not gonna argue if you think.
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And I was gonna but this lady getting roasted on TikTok because people are
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being like, what, that's it? The bar is so the bar is
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on the floor for men totally. Do you have a small little thing that
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maybe your husband or your partner has done that just drives you crazy because again
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the bar is so low. Yeah seven oh one two eight ozho one ninety
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eight seven. Feel free to shoot us a text her time in for me
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the other day and this is so ridiculous. I had walked upstairs and because
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my husband does not do laundry at all at all, really, and he
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was allergic or yeah, he just I think so the detergent must really really
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get him worked up. I just had walked by because it's right by our
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closet, and I just heard that thing going and I went and it took
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all I had because right away I'm thinking, did he put the laundry pod
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in the right spot, because he's done that before. And I took a
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little peek and I simply walked downstairs. I didn't say, like, wait,
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the laundry pod like a for the for the laundry. Yeah, where
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would it go other than just in with the cold if you open it,
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well, you don't put it in the laundry. You have to open the
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top and then there's like three little places. Sometimes he puts it in the
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wrong spot. Wait stop, what have I been doing laundry the wrong way
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this whole time? Do you have a front load washer? I'm trying to
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think of which way it loads. I mean you would not you can tell
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how familiar exactly washing and exactly anyway. There was a part of me that
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wanted to be like, I hope you put the laundry pod on the right
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spot, but I just I walked on. I was like, thanks so
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much for starting the laundry, And it got me really giddy. I was
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like, oh my gosh, that got me going. That's great. See,
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that was all part of his plan by not doing laundry for so long
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and then finally doing it once on, put the pot in and start,
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and it just I mean, if he would have put the clothes away,
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wow, he'd have been in for anything. He would have an evening get
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out of the jail free card for a year. Now I'm like questioning everything
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because you know, yesterday I walked in here with black pants and there was
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this mysterious white staining all around over that not one spot it was spattered with
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this white stuff, and I swear to god, they had just come out
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of the dryer. But is it because I'm putting in the tide pod in
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the wrong spot? Perhaps? So what's a little thing that your partner does
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around the house that drives you crazy? Seven to one two eight one nine
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eight seven Good morning. Hi. My name is Diana and my my husband
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is not retired and he does laundry, which I don't like that he does
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laundry, but thank you for doing the laundry. What he does the wash
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and he does the drying, but that it just goes on the couch so
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that I can sin it. Oh, you get to do the fun part,
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the folding, and oh yeah yeah, yeah, that is the most
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rewarding job, isn't it so fun? I can relate because you know,
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really the third part that you're describing that it's really optional. I mean,
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yeah, you gotta wash them, you gotta dry it, but after that
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it's not optional. It's funny how that drying machine turns into a dresser once
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it's stopped. Yeah, no kidding, put Amanda, you don't just throw
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your pod into the dry into the washer? No? Oh you're not?
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What the hell? Okay, so I'm not crazy, Dan, right that
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that's what you're supposed to do. Yeah, no, I just throw it
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right in there. Yep, along with it goes in there in the washer.
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Well, then explain the mysterious white stains all over my pants. Okay,
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So I have a front load washer and there's a top part where you
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put the detergent, and I put the pod where the detergent goes. Oh,
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I don't ever know that only goes to the liquid stuff, not for
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the stuffing it wrong. Oh my gosh, you're doing it wrong. It's
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how embarrassing Amanda's out here trying to look like Susie Homemaker, schooling us all
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where to put the tide podez. Now we know, Pike that we are
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right. Look at us so proudnding. Now here's what you need to know.
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Well, Pike, I know we have some riveting things to get to.
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But Jody, Shantia and Mercy all chiming in at me this morning and
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basically telling me I have been washing my clothes wrong for three years. This
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is so refreshing to hear, because I thought you were telling me I was
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doing it wrong. It turns out you've been throwing your the tide pod,
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which I am apparently everybody else you just throw it in with the clothes.
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You've been putting it through some sort of hole. I've been putting it in
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the top the spenser deal where you would put detergent enemy it goes through.
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It's not like I open it and it's still sitting there, So it's ending
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up in the same place. I mean, I think, so, I
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guess I don't really know where that mystery spot is. I mean, you
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do smell a little musty. Have you been not using any soap? So
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that's great? So do throw your tide bots in with the laundry, not
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through any sort of mystery hole like Amanda I just mentioned to Shantilla. I
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was not prepared for this knowledge. I don't know how I'm gonna break these
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old habits, but I'm just shook right now. Maybe your husband should be
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in charge of laundry. I guess so, all right. Former President Trump
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made it clear that he hopes Governor Burgham joins the next Trump administration if Trump
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is re elected to the White House. He says, he's one of the
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best governors in our country, and I hope that him to be able to
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call on him to be a piece of the administration, a very important piece
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of the administration. There's a lot of people chiming in saying, wait,
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do you think Governor Burgham will be the VP? That would be absolutely shocking
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to me. I guess I was thinking more of the either energy or agriculture
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portion of our administration, but I could be wrong. Yeah, well,
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I don't I've got a lot of research on that portion. It sounds really
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like you got your finger on the pulse of the situation. I trust him.
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You're really into apology laundry duty now you're going to be our political correspondents.
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And one thing that we can all just just take a deep breath and
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realize that this is a part of history that's just going away, and it's
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a lot of memories for my husband and I. Come and Go the gas
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station rebranding. Yes, anyway, they launched back in nineteen sixty three by
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a couple of guys, and the reason Come and Go is the name is
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because they thought come and go in and out super easy, of course,
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and that was that a mystery. Well, I think people were wondering why
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they went with the K, and that was because Kraus was thank got it
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was his last name, and then the other guy's name was Gentle, So
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that was the K and the G. But they ended up selling Come and
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Goes to a company called Naverick yesterday in Utah. This is where this company
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is based out of They transformed their first Come and Go to a Maverick and
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now they're going to do it all over the country. Oh no, I
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know. It's definitely the most of all the gas station names. No offense
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to the Caseys and Holidays of the world, but it was the most fun
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to say, yeah, we have some merch. My husband and I going
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back and forth between Iowa all those times. That's one of our spots between
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it feels like there's a Casey's in, a come and go everywhere or the
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quick trips. Yeah, all of them. And yeah, one time it
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was just a blizzard, so we had to get come and go hats,
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little stocking hats in Iowa state colors. That's I used to do a lot
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of shopping at the gas station. Is it funny? Like if you have
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it's like truck stops, they just have the weirdest like clothing racks. There's
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a couple in South Dakota and I cannot remember very inappropriate things, but you're
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like, how do you not buy this because it's so ridiculous. But then
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at the same time, like who's this for? Like the staymart in Glendon,
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if you ever drove in through Glendon on Highway ten, they used to
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have like just random like wolf like sweatshirts with wolf designs on what what situation
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when you have to be in to that's that's the merch you wanted. They
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do, by the way, have a really solid corn dog on the way
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to and from the lake. Sometimes what Stamart yeah, yeah, yeah,
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stop and get one of them. Yeah, they have a good fried food
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sitting. They're good bretting on there because you you can mess up a corn
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dog. Yeahs, swing up there and grab some chicken tendies. Back in
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high school. You're probably wondering why do they have baby music playing right now?
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Well, Audra Mauri, Josh Jamal's wife, she announced it late last
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night that they had their little boy on January eleventh, a little baby boy
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named and I had not heard this name, Shepherd Lawrence de Maal Shepherd.
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Yeah, somebody did message and say Shepherd Smith, who was on Fox News,
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a former news anchor. There was a Shepherd, because otherwise I'm thinking
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hadn't heard of one. We'll have a good original name. Never been before,
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you know, except for I did play a shepherd in the church play
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back in the day. You remember that, Yes, the shepherd or how
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many I don't know how many there were, but I'm not I'm not sure
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either. I remember being pretty proud of that role. You just couldn't be
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baby Jesus, you had to be the shepherd that's too big, didn't fit
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in the bassinette. And now that I was a big kid, I just
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wasn't an in so Holy and Round. Oh my gosh, there's a movie
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and of course I can't think of the name of it, and that is
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totally taking me back there where the little boy is baby Jesus and he grabs
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the girls. Yeah, she's been Mary as Mary's going down, and then
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it's just to give him a kissler picture. Sure, sure he grabbed a
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sunshine today when chill twenty below, She's Mary's like, first I get pregnant
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mysteriously. You know this like a minute in the morning, Big nutty eight
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point seven. Well, if you sleep naked, I got some very very
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exciting news for you. Oh yeah, not news that you probably don't already
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know, because there are immense benefits to sleeping naked. Not to say there
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aren't, you know, certain things about sleeping clothes as well, but Amanda,
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seventy two percent of people who sleep naked said that it's positively impacted their
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relationship now near because they're just there. Hey, it's taking one step out
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of the process, that's for sure. One hurdle, right, make it
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a little easier. It's like having a gym in your house. Yeah,
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no excuses, baby, it's right I'm here, it's right there. Now.
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Do you sleep in the flesh, Amanda? Or do you have yourself
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a nice set of pajamas? Yeah? I used to be. Uh,
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you used to be a naked but uh we've got a couple of kids that
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like to hop in mom and dad's bed and that's weird. Soh yah,
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Yeah, I suallye put some jammers on. Now. Now they say people
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who sleep naked, if that's you, there are certain qualities about the naked
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sleeper that they tend to have in common, like, you're most likely extroverted
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if you're a naked sleeper. Yeah, because introverts, it's like, oh,
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I don't want to be exposed. That's right, even in my own
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bed where I'm safe from everyone. What now? They also say that you're
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probably a night owl, you consider yourself very confident, and you're currently happy
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with your intimate life, all signs of being a naked sleeper. Gotcha.
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Now, if you're sleeping in jammis jam jams, hit me with it,
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Amanda, You likely enjoy drama and mystery movies spot on Guilty as charge?
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Yeah, okay, you're in early bird most likely. Yeah, Well,
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as you can tell you are. I mean, but why though? That
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doesn't make sense, because if you've got jammis on, this is one more
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thing you got to do, Probably because I'm sweating and I wake up because
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I'm like, oh jeez, Yeah, you know you've been a bit of
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a night sweater because you to be grief for that. If you are in
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jammies, I tend to get a little bit more hot. Yeah. Interesting.
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Interesting. Sometimes I wonder if it's so cold if you like crank the
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air conditioning, that your body has to work harder to warm itself up and
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then you sweat more. Is there something to that? I don't know.
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I feel like you'd burn more calories from shivering, It's right, I don't
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know. And also, if you're a jammy sleeper, you're less likely to
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get nightmares. It was lest you had a good nightmare I had. It
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isn't a funny how as soon as you bring up dreams suddenly you remember one
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that you had the night before. Last night, I had a horrible It
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seemed like the entire night I was battling snakes. Really, because you know,
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I hate snakes totally. I can't remember the last nightmare I had,
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probably because I'm a jammy sleeper, but I've got other I mean, I
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know it's supposed help with your intimity, but again, with a couple of
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kids in the bed, that's not helping the situation. Yeah. Yeah,
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well, I'm thanks for asking. I sleep naked, always have long time.
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I just assumed. Yeah, so she's got jammis, which I'm trying
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to get her on board. Maybe I'll bring the study home. See if
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I can't give a little PowerPoint just thinking the same thing. I mean,
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how would you go about it? Just pull it up and be like I'd
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be naked, of course, and I mean not for anybody else's entertainment,
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but I think we would all just get a good chuckle. Knowing tomorrow,
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can we just do a little check in, like, how did your power
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part presentation go? Did it work? Did it not? If you need
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some help put you together, I would love to. I need one of
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those pointers for that. Sure the slides or do I I guess in the
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morning? Stage ninety seven, you're the last three four months we've been walking
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around thinking that the world record had been broken for the world's oldest dog.
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I remember seeing this and it was an old boy. I mean, how
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old would you have to guess world's oldest dog to ever live. If I
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remember it was it thirty thirty one years Oh okay, I remember it being
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so crazy, that's beyond crazy. If you would have said twenty one,
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I would have been like, sit thirty one. Bobi was the good boy's
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name. Now, unfortunately you might have noticed I said was back in October.
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Bobi died at thirty one years old, which is why he was the
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oldest dog ever, not before. I mean by far, right, It's
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not like there's one who's now the oldest at thirty right, So Bobi.
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It had been clarified by a veterinarian that Bobi was thirty once they did a
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little research entered him into the Guinness Book of World Records for the world's oldest
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dog. Now, so did we know the backstory was Bobi with one family
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its entire life, because that wouldn't be hard to figure out. Well,
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Bobie was So this is over in a different country, right, So it's
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more so in a village kind of like the village dog. Okay, all
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right, so not as you can go back to the owners, you know,
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like Facebook posts and see, oh, Bobie was born in whatever year
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that would be. Yeah, I don't vet bills and being like, yep,
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right, got his raby shot here there, gotcha. So it was
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speculative at best. But now they've gone back on it and they've stripped him
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of the title of world's oldest dog. Bulbs the bob Stern. Now not
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to say Bobie was the one lying about it, but it appears that the
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owners might have been off in their estimation because they've stripped him of the title
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the world's oldest dog. It's now vacant as they do more research on how
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old this dog actually was. They're not saying what evidence they have within years,
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though, do we have the second oldest dog? I had not one,
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but two dogs live to be fifteen, see, and that's a long
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time. Oh yeah, they just get to that point, the one,
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the last one, Missy, who I know you made fun of over the
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years. No, I didn't. You have a very cavalier attitude when it
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comes to my animals who have passed. It was it wasn't your dog.
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It was your cat, Orange or Peachey or Georgia. You know what I
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mean. I can't remember cat. Put some respect on Pumpkin's name. Pumpkin.
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I knew it was that of an orange descent. Listen, I'll never
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forget the cat showed up at our doorstep on Halloween? Orange cat? What
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else would you name it? And now you can't remember pumpkin? You tragically
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died away after a long, very very good life. Whoa baby? I
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can see why this is up for debate, Pike, you didn't do enough
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research on this, so ranked number two. So we've got Bobie Asterix at
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thirty one years, one hundred and sixty three days. Now there's Bluey.
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Blue was twenty blue Blue. So I'm like, oh, come on,
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blue at twenty nine years old and one hundred and sixty days currently living or
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not. And don't say I didn't do the research. I just I said
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they vacated the title for now while they do more investigation. Got it?
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Well, I knew obviously there has to be a next oldest and it sounds
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like Bluey. But we weren't thinking it was even within years, you know,
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I was thinking probably twenty ish. There's even Taffy at twenty seven years
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old. What's the oldest pet you ever had? Shadow would have been Shadow?
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That sounds like a dog. That's born old. It's like even naming
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human Arnold. That baby is born fifty five years old. Shadow was probably,
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I would say, probably twelve thirteen years old. Okay, it's a
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good run. We're on there, a nice lab. But yeah, Shadow,
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how do you pass? Right after I went to college, she just
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didn't make it. Probably because I left broken heart. Yeah, that's what
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I was thinking. Yeah, probably why'd you leave? How could you do
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that? That's my question. I needed to go to Metropolitan State College and
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just get that degree. Bike only place where I would have ended up on
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the radio, only place I could have gone. I had to go to
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school for that. I know that. So we'll keep you guys up to
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date. We'll keep you up to date on you know, the drama here
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with the world's oldest dog. Obviously Bluie ready to be crowned champion, but
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not so fast, my guy or girl Blue It's got to be a boy
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or a girl. It's hard to say. And Amanda in the morning on
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sign and no Amanda fills the sea. Let's see rat to buy Valley Service
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Mechanical. Here comes a banger, such a jam and I got giddy when
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I saw this yesterday. Jewel and Melissa Ethridge teaming up to co headline a
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tour summer into fall. Anybody who is listening right now that can make it
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happen to get them to the Fargo area, that would be awesome. It
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looks like so far, the closest they're going to get to us as Waite
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Park, which is just kind of down by Saint Cloud, and that is
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going to be August first at the ledge Amphitheater, well, Thursday. I
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mean three hours, two and a half hours, really not bad at all.
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I mean you might want to stay down there, but you could make
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a night out of it if you want. I mean, these two jewel
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is amazing. Her voice is one of the best you'll hear, totally.
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I saw her the Fargo Theater. It was incredible. But most of the
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Ethras that'd be cool to see too. Now, to be fair, I
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do only know the two bangers. But yeah, this out at Blue Stem
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on a summer night or wherever they can get them. Oh my goodness.
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It is definitely kind of a bucket list concert. Really, Yeah, you
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have any other big concerts you're excited for this summer? I know we're ways
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out, Yeah, I know, I'm trying to think few countries shows that
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are on my radar. But it's always so hard because I'm like the girl
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that we have all these group chats and everybody's like, oh yeah, let's
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get together. We're buying tickets, and they're buying them like a year in
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advance. I just can't quite commit to that. Like, I know,
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but then if you want to sit by each other, you gotta get them
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together. No, I know, but then I like, what if something
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else, what if it's one hundred and ten degrees, I just want to
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sit on the pontoon. I don't want to be, you know, doing
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something like that. Yeah, I'm kind of that girl. I know a
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lot of people have been saying as far as the big concerts coming up March
19:52
fifteenth, Murphy's Pub and morehead Low Standards on a Saint Patty's Day weekend.
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Oh yeah, a lot of people are already talking about that one. I
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know, it's a couple of months away, and I didn't even get an
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invite on Facebook for that, so it must not be too good. It's
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sort of like, you gotta know otherwise the venue fills up too quick.
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You gotta know a guy who's in the band to find out about it.
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Well, thanks for spilling. Appreciate the back. That was the hottest tea
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I had so far today. And Brad Pitt his former roommate was Jason Priestley.
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I had no idea. I mean, you got to think all these
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guys were just doing everything they could back in the day to become famous.
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He was what Legends of the falls, probably days he was on nine oh
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two Ande l and they were rooming together. But he gave us this a
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little ditty yesterday. Brad was, Okay, we used to play this game,
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all of us to see who could go the longest without showering, which
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I'm asking about it now and I'm like, dude, how disgusting. What
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were you thinking? Well, went the longest for that, Brad, Yeah,
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don't. I don't think he does that anymore. But back then he
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could go a long time without showering. Yeah. How long would Brad Pitt
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would have to not shower for you to give him a kiss if you weren't
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married? A kiss? I mean a good week or so. I mean
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he didn't say it did in brushious teeth, That's true. That would be
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as long as you're brushing your teeth showers largely overrated. Okay, I wouldn't
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go that far. And when did they invent running water? You know,
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what were they doing before that? I think your skin naturally oils itself and
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does it smell that? Kelly Rippa didn't have a follow up question asking how
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long I'm so upset about that. Yeah, you guys, at that time,
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you're trying to get rolls. You're gonna walk into the casting room while
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smelly, greased up, sitting on the couch, just stinking it up.
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And during his Emmy speech Karen Kulkin, he ended up requesting something of his
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wife and I actually saw it and thought it was super cute, but the
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internet's kind of divided on what he did. Listen, of course, my
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beautiful wife, Jazz, thank you for sharing your life with me and for
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giving me two amazing kids. And Jazz, I want more? You said,
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you said maybe if I win. That's a horrible and she was laughing
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too. You know, they've obviously talked about it. She was playful saying,
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okay, if you win and Emmy, we'll have more kids. She
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wants more kids. Come on, I don't know the situation, but he
22:15
did say afterwards, in retrospect, I probably should have talked to my wife
22:19
in private about having another baby. I just blasted her on stage, which
22:22
was very rude. And that's it what I saw. I like the respect
22:26
he has for her, knowing like, I shouldn't have put you in that
22:29
situation because now everybody's going to be talking about it and expecting us to make
22:32
an announcement at some point. But right, you never know. I think
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him much like his brother McCauley. I think we're very thoughtful, the very
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sweet guys. You know, totally. I did see that McCauley's wife,
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because I never knew if him and Kieran are close through all the stuff McCauley's
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been through, if they just sort of distanced themselves. Yeah, but his
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wife Brenda song from Sweet Life of Zach and Cody, she said a nice
22:52
thing about Kieren winning, So they must all be good. Yeah, that
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makes that makes me happy. Do you think that they get together and like
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have pizza and hang out like family reunions much like they did in Home Alone?
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No, I don't know. Do you think mccauleay e relsm goes faller
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easy on the PEPSI I mean they've got it right. I don't know if
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they're quite as proud of the film as maybe we are. Like in the
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morning on Big Nutty eight point seven. You know, man overall, I
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think one of the better, one of the better species out there. Right.
23:25
However, there are types of men to avoid, Amanda. You may
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have or may not have come across these type of men. Okay, so
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these are from highly likely. I've come across a couple of different types of
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men. Yeah. Yeah, they weren't all winners. You're saying you win,
23:40
somebody loose them. But you know what they were for somebody else.
23:42
You know what you don't If you don't go through some losers, then you
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don't know who the winners are. And again, that person, I'm not
23:48
gonna call him a loser. Those people in your life, they were somebody
23:53
else's you know. Is it one person's junk as another person's treasure goes for
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men too, These are the type of man that ladies you should avoid,
24:02
never waste time on at all. Okay, So from a relationship expert number
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three, this one seems a little obvious. But players, players, Yeah,
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you can never chase a change. Um, well, this should go
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with that saying, but a man wouldn't be called a player if he wasn't
24:15
playing with anyone. So if you got a guy, you know he's giving
24:18
you attention, but if you have any information at all about him playing around,
24:22
they say, just don't even bother, don't even waste time. Fair,
24:26
And I think it's an ego thing. Maybe some people might think,
24:27
well, even though there are five of us in the game here, I'm
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obviously the best one and I'm gonna win. It is very easily to convince
24:36
yourself that you can change somebody. Yeah, and you can go through that
24:40
battle time and time again. Chances are really slim you're ever going to change
24:45
that. Well, people just don't change a whole lot. Number two,
24:47
Amanda, The types of guys women should never waste time on are overachievers.
24:51
This one I found interesting. If you're dating somebody and they are somebody who
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is completely focused on working and career making money, pretty good chance that a
25:02
relationship other than you know, hookups not going to be in the cards for
25:06
them. Interesting. So they're always busy, you know, if they rarely
25:10
text or call either in the day other than at night. And this is
25:12
just early in the dating phase, probably not the time to be wasting time
25:17
on this guy. Yeah, I guess I kind of have an asterisk with
25:18
that one because I also I guess it depends on where you meet in life.
25:22
In my previous marriage, I feel like that was kind of where my
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mindset was at, like very career driven. Probably should have spent more time
25:29
focused on my marriage, but I didn't, Like I was in my twenties
25:33
wanting to, you know, be a career person. Yeah, you know,
25:37
I guess it ended up in a failed marriage. There were other things.
25:40
Are you attributing your failed marriage to all the galas you hosted back in
25:45
your twenties, if philanthropy work where I I'm doing that, No, there
25:51
was, there was other problems. We don't need to get into that ultimately,
25:56
you know, I also don't see anything wrong with that if you are
25:57
on the same page of some where, Hey, I'm gonna spend this time
26:02
Like you're kind of in this stage. You're not ready to have kids,
26:03
but you are working so hard to not that hard. You've got it seems
26:10
like every weekend you're doing this. I got stuff going on, but yeah,
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trying to financially better your family for the future. Right, Yeah,
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correct, exactly. Yeah. Number one the type of man women should never
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waste time on immature men. Immature man. I gotta disagree with this one.
26:26
You gotta and where are we going? Because for me, instantly when
26:30
I hear immaturity, I also go with a little bit of funny if you
26:34
want to keep like that lightheartedness, but immature in what regards somebody who's not
26:40
going to work. I mean that would be different, that would be kind
26:44
of that immature, like I don't need to do this the aspect here who's
26:48
given the advice here? They say it's tricky also because immature men, like
26:51
you said, Amanda, they're often the charismatic ones. They're a lot of
26:53
fun and often quite handsome. Oh really yeah, some people you know them
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at work. They might be in like positions of authority, but they just
27:02
seem so serious. Like what is your personal life like? Like do you
27:04
go home and just totally like like a hole monitor all the time? I
27:08
mean, how fun would that be? It wouldn't be It wouldn't be fun
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at all. You're right, a man