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- 0:00Speaker 1: Good morning, good afternoon, good evening, everybody. Welcome back to
- 0:03Speaker 1: Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian, who with Alison
- 0:06Speaker 1: and this is maintaining frame. Today we're gonna be reacting
- 0:11Speaker 1: to a channel called Psychology with Doctor Anna. The title is,
- 0:16Speaker 1: but these Men Get Laid Doctor Anna.
- 0:19Speaker 2: Well that's our title.
- 0:20Speaker 3: That's our title.
- 0:21Speaker 2: Yes, the original title.
- 0:24Speaker 1: Is Saddest Takeaways from Louis the Rowe's Manisphere documentary Saddest Takeaways.
- 0:30Speaker 4: So these guys who are multimillionaires and actually have women
- 0:35Speaker 4: who are interested in them, they are the saddest men.
- 0:39Speaker 4: One wonders what Doctor Anna thinks of their audience. And
- 0:44Speaker 4: you know, the the average schmo who has no chance
- 0:48Speaker 4: in the dating market. One wonders, One contemplates, one thoughtfully
- 0:56Speaker 4: considers her opinion of the average man. If these guys
- 1:00Speaker 4: are sad is what I'm saying. Okay, yeah, all right,
- 1:04Speaker 4: So before we begin, I just want to tell you all.
- 1:07Speaker 4: I know a lot of you already know, but Voidcat
- 1:10Speaker 4: has returned to the Void from whence she came. She
- 1:16Speaker 4: a last year she had a mysterious anemia in which
- 1:20Speaker 4: her immune system was attacking her red blood cells.
- 1:24Speaker 2: We were able to.
- 1:27Speaker 4: Get her back on the mend with steroids, but unfortunately
- 1:31Speaker 4: she took a very severe turn for the worst about
- 1:34Speaker 4: two weeks ago, and she had one of the lowest
- 1:38Speaker 4: red red blood counts that the vet ever saw. I
- 1:43Speaker 4: we took her home. We tried to you know, make
- 1:45Speaker 4: her comfortable, see if a new round of steroid treatment
- 1:49Speaker 4: would help. But unfortunately she never really recovered, and at
- 1:55Speaker 4: one points it was obvious that she wasn't she wasn't
- 1:59Speaker 4: going to make it, she wasn't gonna make a recovery,
- 2:01Speaker 4: and she was in a considerable amount of discomfort. So
- 2:04Speaker 4: we made the decision to go to the local vet
- 2:07Speaker 4: and have her put under.
- 2:08Speaker 2: And not not an easy decision.
- 2:12Speaker 4: And I was there until she passed, so she was
- 2:17Speaker 4: with me, she was with my husband, she was with
- 2:19Speaker 4: well Scipio was barking the entire time, so in a
- 2:23Speaker 4: way he was also there to usher her into the
- 2:27Speaker 4: to the other world.
- 2:28Speaker 2: Not sure if that was really appreciated.
- 2:29Speaker 4: But she passed peacefully and I was petting her while
- 2:33Speaker 4: she went, so she got to do what she loved best,
- 2:36Speaker 4: which was.
- 2:39Speaker 2: Annoy me by constantly wanting pats.
- 2:43Speaker 4: So godspeed to the void.
- 2:46Speaker 2: Cat to Mia she she is.
- 2:49Speaker 4: She was twelve years old, so it's a little bit
- 2:52Speaker 4: Cats can live forever, but then they have some cats
- 2:55Speaker 4: that just seem to not do that. Well, it just
- 2:59Speaker 4: I guess it depends on the luck of the draw.
- 3:02Speaker 4: And I mean she was very sick a year ago,
- 3:04Speaker 4: so we did get an extra year fron with her,
- 3:07Speaker 4: and it was always sort of like touch and go.
- 3:13Speaker 4: Uh so, and I know a lot of you really
- 3:15Speaker 4: love the Void Cat. And but she'll be here in spirit.
- 3:20Speaker 4: Every time our computers completely meltdown or I don't know,
- 3:26Speaker 4: a button gets hit and our entire stream goes to.
- 3:29Speaker 1: Put it'll probably be her.
- 3:31Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll be her.
- 3:33Speaker 4: In spirit coming at us with the chaos of the void.
- 3:38Speaker 4: So yeah, I guess f's in the chat for Voidcat.
- 3:42Speaker 2: And okay, so yeah, all right.
- 3:46Speaker 3: I told Mike about it too.
- 3:48Speaker 1: He said that, uh you know, if you guys remember
- 3:52Speaker 1: Mike used to do those little animations m hm, and
- 3:55Speaker 1: Voidcat was a recurring character in them. So maybe he'll
- 4:00Speaker 1: make another cartoone.
- 4:03Speaker 4: A memorial to the chaos from the Void.
- 4:08Speaker 2: Anyway, let's let's.
- 4:09Speaker 3: Move on, okay.
- 4:11Speaker 1: So, yes, so we are going to be reacting to
- 4:15Speaker 1: this video by doctor Anna called the saddest takeaways from
- 4:21Speaker 1: lewis the rose inside the manisphere. So I want to
- 4:26Speaker 1: let's before we get into this, Okay, let's let me
- 4:29Speaker 1: tell you a little bit about who this person is
- 4:32Speaker 1: that we're reacting to. This is according to her YouTube channel.
- 4:36Speaker 1: This is just to get us ready. Okay, So psychology
- 4:40Speaker 1: with doctor Anna. I'm a psychology educator and fiction author
- 4:45Speaker 1: with a doctorate in clinical psychology. My goal is to
- 4:49Speaker 1: make evidence based information about relationships, personality, and more accessible
- 4:54Speaker 1: to the general public. Make oh yeah, okay? Is that
- 5:00Speaker 1: originally I think it's supposed to say, and I know
- 5:03Speaker 1: I don't mean to correct some I would a doctorate,
- 5:05Speaker 1: But what it says is my goal is to make
- 5:08Speaker 1: evidence based information about relationships, personality, and more accessible to
- 5:13Speaker 1: the general public. So that that's what it should say.
- 5:17Speaker 1: I think that's how it should read. This channel is
- 5:19Speaker 1: for informational and entertainment purposes only. It does not substitute
- 5:23Speaker 1: therapy or constitute a therapist client relationship. If you are
- 5:27Speaker 1: having a crisis, call your local crisis hotline. My videos
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- 5:37Speaker 1: largely handled by a manager, not myself. If you are
- 5:40Speaker 1: a former client, I cannot engage with you on this
- 5:42Speaker 1: platform due to confidentiality.
- 5:45Speaker 3: But anyway, so, she is a.
- 5:48Speaker 1: YouTube psychologist basically that makes videos.
- 5:52Speaker 2: And this is evidence based.
- 5:54Speaker 4: I'm guessing it doesn't even touch endo chronology in passing
- 5:59Speaker 4: or evolved traits in passing. But you know, I'm sure
- 6:04Speaker 4: there's gonna be I'm sure she doesn't use Cosmo poles
- 6:10Speaker 4: and Twitter Twitter surveys. I'm sure that this you know.
- 6:15Speaker 4: I this is my first time encountering her. I've read
- 6:19Speaker 4: some of the comments by you guys saying that she's
- 6:21Speaker 4: a misinterest. So like I'll be finding out, I'll be
- 6:26Speaker 4: I'll be delving into this mystery anew like completely fresh.
- 6:31Speaker 4: This is.
- 6:33Speaker 1: Blind uh blind play through doctor Anna.
- 6:41Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 6:42Speaker 4: But I do love her smirk, you know, because that
- 6:45Speaker 4: really says caring professional, a duoper's delight smirk as she
- 6:50Speaker 4: roasts a bunch of men who are basically where they're
- 6:55Speaker 4: at because there is a lot of desperation and a
- 6:59Speaker 4: sense of hopelessness among men that these guys could actually
- 7:02Speaker 4: monetize by presenting like a a living vicariously through their lifestyle,
- 7:09Speaker 4: let's say, but we're not going to address that. We're
- 7:13Speaker 4: not going to address what constructed these men. We're just
- 7:17Speaker 4: going to point and laugh like they're a freak show.
- 7:19Speaker 4: That's my guess. I mean, I could be completely wrong.
- 7:23Speaker 4: I could be completely wrong. But you know, again, if
- 7:25Speaker 4: these guys who are multimillionaires who have women are a
- 7:29Speaker 4: freak show that we're pointing and laughing at. One wonders
- 7:32Speaker 4: what the average dude is in doctor Anna's mind. One wonders, Okay,
- 7:39Speaker 4: let's let's find out, all.
- 7:40Speaker 1: Right, before we do the things, I mean, before we start,
- 7:42Speaker 1: you should do the things.
- 7:43Speaker 2: Yes, I should do the thing. Sorry I got thrown off.
- 7:46Speaker 4: All right, So the monthly fundraiser is live at feedbadger
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- 7:55Speaker 4: men is maybe stop telling them that they're trash and
- 7:58Speaker 4: they do everything wrong, and maybe appreciate what men and men's.
- 8:02Speaker 2: Psychology does for society. Maybe that improve the men's mental health.
- 8:06Speaker 2: Oh it's worth a try, you know.
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- 8:22Speaker 2: Don't don't laugh.
- 8:23Speaker 4: People have who actually despise us, have sent me messages,
- 8:29Speaker 4: paid to send me messages. Well, I don't know that
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- 8:57Speaker 2: All right, let's uh, all right.
- 8:59Speaker 1: So I'm gonna with the introna. Let her set the stage.
- 9:03Speaker 2: Sounds like an excellent plan.
- 9:05Speaker 5: British journalist Louis Thereux recently made a documentary about the Manisphere,
- 9:09Speaker 5: a cluster of men who create online content for boys
- 9:12Speaker 5: and other men, where they teach them other masculine and
- 9:16Speaker 5: how to treat women.
- 9:18Speaker 3: You put masculine in quotes. I don't if you saw that.
- 9:20Speaker 1: What was that, Alison, I'm looking at her books.
- 9:23Speaker 2: What I'm looking at her books?
- 9:26Speaker 3: Are you looking at her book?
- 9:28Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 9:28Speaker 2: I'm probably going to do that. I'm gonna I'm gonna
- 9:30Speaker 2: scan her books. Damn it. I need to get closer.
- 9:33Speaker 2: I need to enhance, you know, like Blade Runner Inhance.
- 9:38Speaker 1: A song at dead Man's Cove, it says, or Cave a.
- 9:42Speaker 4: Song at dead Man's cave. I'm going to find out
- 9:45Speaker 4: what that is. Just give me a second. I got
- 9:48Speaker 4: to pull up my assistant.
- 9:50Speaker 1: Keep going, all right, let's keep going.
- 9:53Speaker 5: I watched it, and I had a few thoughts, specifically
- 9:55Speaker 5: on the way that poverty, trauma, and social media algorithms
- 9:59Speaker 5: encourage on ethical behavior, on the ways in which we're
- 10:02Speaker 5: failing young men who don't have positive role models, and
- 10:05Speaker 5: on the fact that a lot of these content creators
- 10:07Speaker 5: are putting on a facade. They're not who they say
- 10:09Speaker 5: they are, but they're creating an entire generation of men
- 10:12Speaker 5: who will believe the fucked up things they say.
- 10:14Speaker 4: Let's tell you a second, they they are who they
- 10:17Speaker 4: say they are.
- 10:20Speaker 1: Okay, so she said, wait, I should like listen to
- 10:23Speaker 1: that again, because it's a little bit confusing. I want
- 10:25Speaker 1: to make sure we hear that right, creating.
- 10:28Speaker 5: An entire generation of men who will believe the fucked
- 10:31Speaker 5: up things they say.
- 10:32Speaker 6: Let's talk about it.
- 10:32Speaker 3: All that that they're having an influence.
- 10:34Speaker 1: So basically what she's saying is is that the Manisphere
- 10:39Speaker 1: guys presented as documentary, that's her book.
- 10:43Speaker 3: It's her book. Uh huh, yeah, it makes sense. You're
- 10:50Speaker 3: saying that.
- 10:53Speaker 1: The Manisphere men featured in the documentary may not believe
- 10:59Speaker 1: the things that they reach, but that they're having an
- 11:01Speaker 1: influence over men who will believe it.
- 11:05Speaker 3: That's what she's saying.
- 11:07Speaker 4: So and what are these what are these men preaching
- 11:10Speaker 4: that that's so egregious.
- 11:17Speaker 1: They're the they're the Manisphere. Well okay, so that's the intro.
- 11:22Speaker 2: Yeah, so she.
- 11:25Speaker 3: Gets into like this thing.
- 11:26Speaker 1: About materialism and like how these guys are selling a
- 11:30Speaker 1: materialistic lifestyle and that that's bad even though again they're
- 11:34Speaker 1: just doing what they think women want. But that's not
- 11:38Speaker 1: a problem that women want it, I guess so, but
- 11:42Speaker 1: it's sort of like a way to sort of discredit them.
- 11:44Speaker 1: But then she gets into.
- 11:47Speaker 4: Why would you break potamometer in your title?
- 11:52Speaker 2: It's awkward?
- 11:53Speaker 1: Why would you what why would you break?
- 11:55Speaker 2: I think it's called pentami meter. It's the.
- 11:59Speaker 4: It's like the usual cadence of of how English works.
- 12:06Speaker 4: It's a line of verse consisting of five metrical feet
- 12:11Speaker 4: with the hell iambic pentameter. Is the opening passage of
- 12:16Speaker 4: Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, two households both Alike and Dignity
- 12:19Speaker 4: and fair Verona, where we lay are seen from ancient
- 12:22Speaker 4: grudge break to new mutiny, where civil blood makes civil
- 12:26Speaker 4: hands unclean. You see that has a rhythm that allows
- 12:29Speaker 4: you to say it, yeah, trips off the tongue. A
- 12:33Speaker 4: song of dead men's cove. A song of dead men's
- 12:37Speaker 4: cove just doesn't have the same rhythm. Anyway, continue, Okay.
- 12:44Speaker 3: So I'm gonna jump.
- 12:45Speaker 1: So anyway, she goes into this thing about how the
- 12:48Speaker 1: man sphere is, you know, featured in the documentary.
- 12:53Speaker 3: It's basically just like materialistic, right.
- 12:56Speaker 1: They're showing their cars and their pools and their yah
- 13:00Speaker 1: and this stuff. And she's like, oh, you know, it's
- 13:03Speaker 1: just kind of shallow. But she doesn't really And this
- 13:06Speaker 1: is the thing that I find is funny is she
- 13:07Speaker 1: doesn't really say anything about how you know this is.
- 13:10Speaker 1: They're just doing what they think women want. Like that's
- 13:14Speaker 1: literally the brand, Like I'm going to get the things
- 13:17Speaker 1: that I think women want and then yeah, that might
- 13:20Speaker 1: be materialistic, but it works on women, So like is
- 13:25Speaker 1: that not an issue? But anyway, I'm going to jump
- 13:27Speaker 1: ahead to of course she'd say something like, well, that's
- 13:29Speaker 1: not how I work. I'm gonna jump ahead to where
- 13:33Speaker 1: she talks about objectification. So I think that's like right
- 13:38Speaker 1: here an envy too for four minutes, So like right here,
- 13:48Speaker 1: I think, hmm, I have.
- 13:50Speaker 5: No idea how many sponsors I've turned down simply because
- 13:53Speaker 5: they were like not ethical.
- 13:54Speaker 1: No, she's basically saying that, like she doesn't she doesn't
- 13:58Speaker 1: work with sponsors that are unethical.
- 14:00Speaker 2: Okay, what do they do of poverty?
- 14:03Speaker 3: Oh, let me go back a little bit.
- 14:05Speaker 2: Oh is she is she an alleged COMMI.
- 14:12Speaker 1: So, like I saw like one of her other videos,
- 14:14Speaker 1: but it wasn't about men, and it was a while ago.
- 14:18Speaker 1: I didn't get any Commy red flags. But I do
- 14:21Speaker 1: think that, like she is a woman, So there's a
- 14:24Speaker 1: little bit of that, just like like in nature, like
- 14:27Speaker 1: we should take care of people, you know what I mean,
- 14:29Speaker 1: Like that recognition of the underserved Yeah, she probably is, though,
- 14:35Speaker 1: Like to be honest, I mean, she if she went
- 14:37Speaker 1: to school, there's a pretty good chance she did not
- 14:41Speaker 1: get out of school without failing at least one saving
- 14:44Speaker 1: throw against Commy gobbledegook. So she probably has some of
- 14:48Speaker 1: it at least. But let's hear it from here.
- 14:53Speaker 5: Yeah, these men choose to take the money at the
- 14:55Speaker 5: cost of their integrity, especially if they have a history
- 14:58Speaker 5: of poverty trauma where they don't ever want to be
- 15:01Speaker 5: in that position again. But this is not just something
- 15:03Speaker 5: that content creators need to take responsibility for, because at
- 15:06Speaker 5: the end of the day, it's caused by algorithms that
- 15:08Speaker 5: all of us use. If we want ethical content creators,
- 15:11Speaker 5: we need to change the way algorithms work by not
- 15:14Speaker 5: constantly just craving negativity, by consuming ethical content that leaves
- 15:18Speaker 5: the world a better place rather than a worse place.
- 15:21Speaker 5: By supporting content creators outside of algorithms, like signing up
- 15:24Speaker 5: for their newsletters, by not engaging with outrage farming where
- 15:27Speaker 5: people are just saying the most outrageous things they can
- 15:29Speaker 5: think of because attention brings the money, or by engaging
- 15:32Speaker 5: in more positive content, you know, like giving a like
- 15:35Speaker 5: leaving a comment, when somebody is like just doing something lovely,
- 15:38Speaker 5: like I don't know, making a video of like gardening,
- 15:40Speaker 5: where it's like, okay, I don't.
- 15:41Speaker 3: Feel I'm sorry, that got a little rambly.
- 15:46Speaker 1: People who make wholesome content do really well on YouTube
- 15:49Speaker 1: as well, So I don't know what she's getting at,
- 15:51Speaker 1: but I think that what she's trying to do is
- 15:53Speaker 1: basically say there shouldn't be mean people online, and if
- 15:57Speaker 1: anyone is popular but also mean, then that's the fault
- 16:00Speaker 1: of not just those people or the people that watch them,
- 16:04Speaker 1: but like the system, and so the system has to
- 16:06Speaker 1: get arrested and you know, put into So it's just
- 16:13Speaker 1: kind of a pointless thing. But that's not what I
- 16:15Speaker 1: wanted to get at. I'm trying to get to something else.
- 16:18Speaker 2: Okay, that's fun. At least it lays the groundwork of person.
- 16:21Speaker 3: I'm sorry what I mean.
- 16:22Speaker 4: It lays the groundwork of the kind of thinking we're
- 16:24Speaker 4: dealing with. So yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, what can one
- 16:31Speaker 4: keep going?
- 16:32Speaker 5: Okay, person succeed on the algorithms versus somebody who's just
- 16:35Speaker 5: constantly shitting on other people, And it's kind of sad that,
- 16:38Speaker 5: like for people who are very outrageous who are outrage
- 16:42Speaker 5: farming a lot. They can say the worst things in
- 16:45Speaker 5: the world with no repercussions, actually more rewards because again,
- 16:49Speaker 5: we live in an attention economy, whereas the standards are
- 16:51Speaker 5: so much higher for moral people, because if you build
- 16:54Speaker 5: an audience based on moral behavior, that audience is more
- 16:57Speaker 5: likely to.
- 16:57Speaker 6: Be Is she.
- 17:01Speaker 4: Victimizing over herself of her.
- 17:03Speaker 2: Being more moral?
- 17:05Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 17:06Speaker 1: I think so, although I think her channel is pretty
- 17:09Speaker 1: decent in size, So you know, does that mean that
- 17:13Speaker 1: she's also outrage farming?
- 17:16Speaker 4: Like well, I mean people have called her a misundress
- 17:19Speaker 4: in the comments, so presumably it doesn't come from nowhere and.
- 17:23Speaker 3: From here are the comments under our video.
- 17:25Speaker 4: In the comments in in our chat, I mean in
- 17:29Speaker 4: our chat.
- 17:29Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, our chat content.
- 17:31Speaker 2: I would like you guys to substantial her.
- 17:33Speaker 3: Chat's completely in lockstaff with her.
- 17:35Speaker 4: So yeah, of course, because she's a very moral person,
- 17:39Speaker 4: but probably doesn't allow dissidents because she's so moral you see.
- 17:44Speaker 6: Okay, But but.
- 17:46Speaker 4: Honestly, like, if she is, as you guys are saying,
- 17:49Speaker 4: a mis and dress, then she sells outrage. She's shitting
- 17:54Speaker 4: on people. Well, men, I guess that doesn't really count
- 17:57Speaker 4: because the penis people aren't really people.
- 18:00Speaker 2: But you know, like one hundred percent.
- 18:02Speaker 4: She's doing all the shit that she's accusing other people
- 18:04Speaker 4: of doing. But you know, I want you guys to
- 18:07Speaker 4: instantiate this. Let's just not allege it. Tell me how
- 18:10Speaker 4: she is a misinterest. So far, this is bland as
- 18:15Speaker 4: bland as frick. I mean, there's there's is this basically
- 18:18Speaker 4: just lukewarm porridge that has come out of this screen.
- 18:22Speaker 4: I'm waiting for the I'm waiting for the playload. I'm
- 18:24Speaker 4: waiting for the meat, the rancid meat.
- 18:29Speaker 5: Okay, Well, then the audience of like somebody who's following
- 18:32Speaker 5: like a terrible person.
- 18:33Speaker 6: And if you then fuck up, even in.
- 18:35Speaker 5: The slightest bit, if you have you talk about about
- 18:38Speaker 5: something that previously you agreed with your audience on, you're
- 18:41Speaker 5: gonna get a lot more repercussions for that small thing
- 18:44Speaker 5: then the person saying outrageous things ever gets. We live
- 18:48Speaker 5: in a society that incentivizes immorality. Isn't that a little
- 18:51Speaker 5: bit concerning? And I think this like greed.
- 18:54Speaker 1: Yeah, So again, these are kind of silly claims because
- 18:58Speaker 1: she says if you're making moral content, which she doesn't say,
- 19:01Speaker 1: she is one of those people, but it sounds like
- 19:03Speaker 1: she's implying it because she seems to be speaking from experience.
- 19:07Speaker 1: Then if you step out the line a little bit,
- 19:09Speaker 1: you're gonna get a lot of shit. Like that's the
- 19:11Speaker 1: Internet in general. I don't know what you mean by that, Like,
- 19:14Speaker 1: no matter what you try to do, even if you
- 19:17Speaker 1: are one of these awful people, you're gonna get pushed
- 19:20Speaker 1: back unless you want an echo chamber like I don't know.
- 19:24Speaker 5: But anyway, and this desire for materialism also partly explains
- 19:29Speaker 5: why a lot of these content creators resent women. They're
- 19:32Speaker 5: envious of the things they perceive women get simply because
- 19:36Speaker 5: they're beautiful. Like they think that the average woman is
- 19:38Speaker 5: just constantly getting invitations to go on yachts, which I
- 19:42Speaker 5: think is pretty rare in my experience.
- 19:44Speaker 2: I don't know, let me know.
- 19:47Speaker 6: In the comments, have you ever.
- 19:49Speaker 4: I think that they are okay, So how did this happen?
- 19:55Speaker 4: Because this is a lot of sophistry and intellectual dishonesty.
- 19:59Speaker 4: There's a difference between saying beautiful women get a free
- 20:02Speaker 4: ride and saying all women get a free ride. Although
- 20:04Speaker 4: women do get a free ride, they get a free
- 20:08Speaker 4: ride legally, they get a free ride. Socially, they get
- 20:10Speaker 4: a free ride. Financially, they usually get a free ride
- 20:14Speaker 4: when they accuse their partners of being narcissists, which apparently
- 20:17Speaker 4: all of them are.
- 20:18Speaker 2: So I mean, no, you're wrong.
- 20:22Speaker 3: Yeah, but as you're not letting her straw man like.
- 20:25Speaker 1: She's talking about specifically women getting invited onto yachts, not
- 20:30Speaker 1: women getting like lower sentencing or you know, getting slept
- 20:33Speaker 1: on the wrist for like raping underage boys in their classrooms. No, no, no,
- 20:38Speaker 1: it's about women getting invited to yachts. Have you been
- 20:41Speaker 1: invited to a yacht? If not, then she wins and
- 20:43Speaker 1: you're just a misogynist. That's the way this works.
- 20:47Speaker 4: I don't think she's attributing to them an opinion.
- 20:50Speaker 1: By the way, nobody in that movie claimed that women
- 20:53Speaker 1: are always getting invited to go on yachts anyway, none
- 20:56Speaker 1: of them, not even those guys. And I don't consider
- 20:58Speaker 1: those the men they feature the Manisphere were obviously Louis
- 21:02Speaker 1: Thuroux was going out of his way to find the
- 21:05Speaker 1: most fringe people that he could, like, that were he
- 21:09Speaker 1: could appropriately misrepresent, and he even took those guys out
- 21:14Speaker 1: of context in probably every case.
- 21:17Speaker 3: And she didn't even.
- 21:18Speaker 1: Look to see if there was anything else substantial about
- 21:22Speaker 1: the manisphere and chose to stick with those examples and
- 21:26Speaker 1: then take the straw men that that that those guys
- 21:30Speaker 1: already were wouldn't when you take, you know, edit their
- 21:33Speaker 1: clips and all that.
- 21:34Speaker 3: And on top of that, even then, even.
- 21:36Speaker 1: That extremely exaggerated version of those men who are a
- 21:41Speaker 1: fringe already outside of the manisphere in terms of their
- 21:44Speaker 1: beliefs and stuff, even those guys never said anything about
- 21:48Speaker 1: women getting invited onto yachts. That like she's literally pulling
- 21:51Speaker 1: shit out of her ass and refuting it.
- 21:54Speaker 4: No one said that, Yeah, that's what I'm saying. These
- 21:57Speaker 4: guys didn't say that. So basically she's saying because beautiful
- 22:00Speaker 4: women get significant benefits because they're beautiful, and women generally
- 22:05Speaker 4: get significant benefits not having to be conscripted. Ever, right now,
- 22:12Speaker 4: women in Germany can still leave Germany, whereas men who
- 22:15Speaker 4: are conscription age cannot. So, yeah, women get significant benefits
- 22:20Speaker 4: that men don't. Men are always beholden to the societies
- 22:24Speaker 4: that they're a part of.
- 22:25Speaker 2: It never changes.
- 22:26Speaker 4: Don't let people lie to you about that. As soon
- 22:29Speaker 4: as any country has need of its young men's bodies
- 22:33Speaker 4: to go throw them in a wood chip or it does,
- 22:35Speaker 4: it does, and that doesn't apply to her. And then
- 22:39Speaker 4: of course there's all of the body of law that
- 22:43Speaker 4: explicitly only protects women but not men and actually degrades
- 22:50Speaker 4: men's legal position relative to women. Right, there's all of
- 22:54Speaker 4: that as well. And then there's all of the family
- 22:56Speaker 4: law that explicitly benefits women. And we know because there
- 23:00Speaker 4: are now situations where they've tried to change that in Tennessee,
- 23:05Speaker 4: I believe, where they've actually created presumption of shared custody
- 23:09Speaker 4: to oppose the de facto maternal custody. And you don't
- 23:14Speaker 4: have to do that unless there's a de facto maternal
- 23:17Speaker 4: custody in operation. Right, So there's all kinds of things
- 23:21Speaker 4: that the average woman gets and the average men does not.
- 23:25Speaker 2: Okay, not to mention, the average.
- 23:28Speaker 4: Woman's identity isn't constantly under attack by a now trillion
- 23:33Speaker 4: dollar industry that is undermining men as partners, as fathers,
- 23:39Speaker 4: as workers, as any possible social role in society, any
- 23:45Speaker 4: possible role in society. You have a campaign to undermine
- 23:48Speaker 4: men in it. Right, So this is absolute bullshit from
- 23:51Speaker 4: stem to stern. But also she is conflating these guys
- 23:55Speaker 4: saying that beautiful women get stuff, even more stuff. Let's
- 23:59Speaker 4: face it, right, beautiful get women get even more stuff. Right.
- 24:04Speaker 4: An average woman can, at any time, if she gets
- 24:08Speaker 4: her head together, get a relationship, a family, and children
- 24:12Speaker 4: with a man who's probably two standard deviations more attractive
- 24:16Speaker 4: than she is at any point, and that is also
- 24:18Speaker 4: a benefit. Maybe she doesn't get invited to yachts, but
- 24:21Speaker 4: if she's in any way sane, she can get married
- 24:24Speaker 4: and have children. This is not a situation that men
- 24:26Speaker 4: are in at this point. And I can tell you
- 24:29Speaker 4: that because of that dating and I don't even think
- 24:33Speaker 4: they were trying to redpill anyone but that dating the panel.
- 24:37Speaker 2: Remember that the dating panel where.
- 24:39Speaker 4: You had two four, three and a half guys who were.
- 24:42Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, sure, yeah.
- 24:44Speaker 4: Absolutely ready to step up. You know, in any other era,
- 24:48Speaker 4: these men would have been married five years ago. Some
- 24:52Speaker 4: woman would have locked that shit down immediately, like right
- 24:55Speaker 4: out of high school.
- 24:56Speaker 2: Done right.
- 24:57Speaker 4: They're still single, and they are ready, like they are providers.
- 25:01Speaker 4: They are ready to concede points, to pull their weight,
- 25:06Speaker 4: to recognize they're wrong if they're wrong. And the women
- 25:10Speaker 4: that they were paired with were.
- 25:15Speaker 2: They they were not ready.
- 25:18Speaker 4: They were disregulated baboons is what I like to call them.
- 25:22Speaker 4: Like they were, they were they were so close to
- 25:25Speaker 4: just not having a cortical layer capable of controlling their impulses.
- 25:30Speaker 4: Except there were and there was one who was like
- 25:34Speaker 4: who who was more put together? But she had really
- 25:37Speaker 4: delusional beliefs about her life, Like she's like, I I
- 25:42Speaker 4: just I wanted I didn't want to sacrifice my career
- 25:45Speaker 4: for family and children. And then they're like, well, what
- 25:47Speaker 4: do you do? Well, I'm I'm a manager at a
- 25:50Speaker 4: thrift store. She's she's not like inventing some new tech,
- 25:56Speaker 4: radical technology that's going to take us to Jupiter. She's
- 25:59Speaker 4: a man in a thrift store, which I don't there's
- 26:02Speaker 4: nothing wrong with being a manager in a thrift store,
- 26:04Speaker 4: but it is it really what you want for your
- 26:07Speaker 4: life's goal is instead of having a family and a relationship,
- 26:12Speaker 4: like you're not You're not You're not adding that much
- 26:17Speaker 4: to the course of human endeavor by not having kids.
- 26:20Speaker 2: Here lady, all right, anyway, Yeah, okay.
- 26:25Speaker 5: Received in notation to go on a yacht. But even
- 26:28Speaker 5: if it were true, even if like every single woman
- 26:31Speaker 5: was constantly bombarded with like offers of extreme wealth and
- 26:34Speaker 5: materialism because she's a woman.
- 26:36Speaker 6: What these men failed to.
- 26:37Speaker 5: Realize is that they would only be getting those things
- 26:40Speaker 5: because of sexual objectification and those what.
- 26:44Speaker 4: Does you think it's bad? Doesn't mean you're not getting it? Like,
- 26:48Speaker 4: what how does this? Oh, I've decided.
- 26:51Speaker 1: That isn't she kind of throwing shade at women that
- 26:54Speaker 1: would go along with this. She's not doing it because
- 26:57Speaker 1: she's blaming the man. She's saying, you know there, you're
- 27:00Speaker 1: she's only going with you because you want to have
- 27:02Speaker 1: sex with her. And they're like, yes, I mean, look,
- 27:06Speaker 1: I don't think it's not it's not my thing. But
- 27:09Speaker 1: you just got to look at the absolute state of
- 27:11Speaker 1: modern women and relationships.
- 27:14Speaker 3: And some of these guys are like, well, this is
- 27:15Speaker 3: what works. I'm going to do it. I can't get
- 27:17Speaker 3: mad at that.
- 27:19Speaker 2: No.
- 27:19Speaker 4: But also she's just and this is what objectification is for.
- 27:24Speaker 4: This is why the mouth noise they make the mouth noise.
- 27:28Speaker 4: It's because they don't have to feel like they're getting
- 27:31Speaker 4: something from it. They can once again be a victim
- 27:34Speaker 4: of being afforded privileges other people don't have. And incidentally,
- 27:39Speaker 4: it's of course the white women, white, wealthy, attractive women
- 27:45Speaker 4: are the most depressed in the world based on objectification
- 27:51Speaker 4: right there, they're the ones who are really getting hit
- 27:54Speaker 4: hard by that.
- 27:56Speaker 2: And and and.
- 27:57Speaker 4: What's making that's what's so awful about it, is that
- 28:00Speaker 4: people want to be around them. They want to be
- 28:03Speaker 4: nice to them, they want to give them stuff, they
- 28:07Speaker 4: want to be friends with them, they want to have
- 28:09Speaker 4: sex with them.
- 28:10Speaker 2: Oh god, oh my god.
- 28:12Speaker 4: A mammal having access to sex, that's just that's just
- 28:15Speaker 4: a nightmare for a mammal.
- 28:16Speaker 2: Isn't it, Like yeah, you know, And.
- 28:19Speaker 4: And they have turned that into a source of victimhood.
- 28:23Speaker 2: Is that not astounding?
- 28:25Speaker 4: Is that like just that makes everything these women say
- 28:29Speaker 4: absolute bullshit. They cannot acknowledge a single thing that they
- 28:34Speaker 4: get that they maybe don't deserve, right and maybe it
- 28:39Speaker 4: is a privilege that they might want to at least acknowledge. No,
- 28:43Speaker 4: they have to turn it into victimhood. They have to
- 28:46Speaker 4: turn it into victimhood because that's where they're comfortable. They're
- 28:50Speaker 4: not comfortable having a cortex. They must dismantle it, okay.
- 28:55Speaker 6: Right, go out the door.
- 28:57Speaker 5: The second they sleep with the men, or don't sleep
- 29:00Speaker 5: with the men, or get older. It's like these content
- 29:03Speaker 5: creators don't understand that these aren't things that women are
- 29:06Speaker 5: just handed as a result of being born female.
- 29:09Speaker 6: They're the.
- 29:12Speaker 4: Just because on the extreme end, you know, you get
- 29:18Speaker 4: hand you get you get to hang out in yachts
- 29:21Speaker 4: and have careers doing nothing except mugging at cameras. You know,
- 29:27Speaker 4: on the on the extreme end, women get that. But
- 29:30Speaker 4: then all the way down the steps, women get something
- 29:35Speaker 4: right in the middle. They get preferential treatment in the
- 29:38Speaker 4: justice system, preferential treatment to the family courts. They don't
- 29:42Speaker 4: have to be conscripted. That's all the way to the bottom,
- 29:44Speaker 4: right right, you know, that's that's what they get bare minimum.
- 29:48Speaker 3: They don't get their genitals mutilated when they're born.
- 29:50Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, there's a lot of stuff you get by
- 29:53Speaker 4: just virtue of being female. And incidentally, isn't this very
- 29:56Speaker 4: sixsists sexist? Just out of curiosity, she's just what is
- 30:03Speaker 4: CIS sexist or whateverphobic? It's transphobic what she's saying here,
- 30:09Speaker 4: because these are definitely things that trans women don't get.
- 30:13Speaker 4: And you're you're not really checking your privilege as a
- 30:16Speaker 4: CIS woman, are you. I know, I'm just I'm just
- 30:19Speaker 4: I'm part of hypocrisy.
- 30:21Speaker 5: I know, okay, all right, let's keep going the game
- 30:24Speaker 5: of objectification and dehumanization. You know, like the woman who
- 30:28Speaker 5: was in HS Ticky Talkie's house that he referred to
- 30:31Speaker 5: as his dishwasher, and she was just like all along
- 30:33Speaker 5: to his misogynistic insult.
- 30:35Speaker 3: She just was a misogynistic insult.
- 30:39Speaker 1: If only she knew what how much damage he did
- 30:42Speaker 1: to her when he jokingly referred to her as a dishwasher,
- 30:44Speaker 1: you know, if only she knew the trauma.
- 30:47Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you know what's misogynistic. Doctor Anna is inculcating
- 30:52Speaker 4: such a sense of learned helplessness that women think a
- 30:56Speaker 4: joke will lay them low and constrain their options in life.
- 31:02Speaker 4: It's a joke, laugh, move on, like whatever.
- 31:08Speaker 5: Because she gets to experience the material benefits of being
- 31:11Speaker 5: in his orbit. That woman, in my opinion, has chosen Okay,
- 31:14Speaker 5: I'm going to experience all this objectification and dehumanization, literally
- 31:19Speaker 5: being compared to an object, a fucking dishwasher, because I
- 31:22Speaker 5: get certain material perks. Most women don't like that kind
- 31:26Speaker 5: of contract.
- 31:27Speaker 1: Most I mean, like she gets to like they at
- 31:34Speaker 1: a house with a pool. I think I don't know,
- 31:37Speaker 1: I think she Most women are not like pigmies. She's
- 31:40Speaker 1: kind of calling her a pigmy in a way, right, whatever.
- 31:44Speaker 2: I like, I don't care to be bothered.
- 31:48Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot of these insults, like women like this
- 31:52Speaker 4: are so precious and so fragile, Like I don't care
- 31:55Speaker 4: to be bothered for the most part.
- 31:57Speaker 2: I mean, some things do bother me, and I well,
- 31:59Speaker 2: I call that out, but for this, don't care to
- 32:03Speaker 2: be bothered? Right? Why why would you?
- 32:07Speaker 4: Why would you expand the mental energy on something like
- 32:09Speaker 4: this when there are bigger problems in the world.
- 32:13Speaker 2: Obviously the man was joking.
- 32:16Speaker 1: About when? What about when when feminists like Clementine Ford
- 32:20Speaker 1: joke about killing all men or yes, all men, or
- 32:23Speaker 1: choosing the bear or something like that.
- 32:26Speaker 4: Yeah, what about the women would choose the bear?
- 32:28Speaker 1: Right?
- 32:29Speaker 2: You're basically do mean.
- 32:30Speaker 3: If you confront the mind that they'll say it's a joke.
- 32:32Speaker 3: Do you take a joke?
- 32:33Speaker 1: Bro?
- 32:34Speaker 4: Does she actually ever talk about the absolute state of
- 32:42Speaker 4: female influencers and how freaking demonic they are?
- 32:47Speaker 1: I don't watch her content. I came across one thing
- 32:50Speaker 1: and it wasn't gendered. It was about something else, Okay,
- 32:54Speaker 1: so I couldn't tell you. I'm not sure, all right,
- 32:58Speaker 1: let's keep going and are going to.
- 33:00Speaker 5: Want to sign up to that, or even if they
- 33:02Speaker 5: do sign up to it, they're probably going to experience
- 33:04Speaker 5: a lot of trauma as a result of it. And
- 33:05Speaker 5: these men in the documentary were always talking about like that.
- 33:08Speaker 1: So, okay, you see did you did you catch what
- 33:10Speaker 1: she just suggested there? He said that if a woman
- 33:15Speaker 1: does go along with it, she's likely going to experience trauma.
- 33:19Speaker 1: So she's basically saying that if you do, if you're
- 33:22Speaker 1: a woman and you go along with this, like the
- 33:25Speaker 1: girl in that clip that she was referring to, that
- 33:29Speaker 1: that man is going to do something bad to you
- 33:31Speaker 1: and you're.
- 33:31Speaker 3: Going to be traumatized.
- 33:33Speaker 1: So she's she's pathologizing men in general now based on
- 33:38Speaker 1: her feelings about that situation, even though later on she
- 33:44Speaker 1: kind of contradicts herself.
- 33:45Speaker 3: But we'll get to that later.
- 33:47Speaker 4: Okay, But if this is going to traumatize women, what
- 33:53Speaker 4: is constantly referring to every manifestation of masculinity as toxic
- 33:59Speaker 4: going to do to men and boys like everywhere? Like,
- 34:03Speaker 4: if this is going to traumatize women, what's adolescent's going
- 34:06Speaker 4: to do to boys?
- 34:09Speaker 2: Yeah, this is just complete delusion right here. The complete absence.
- 34:15Speaker 4: Of understanding that half the human race are people, and okay,
- 34:22Speaker 4: fair enough, she thinks men should be held to a
- 34:25Speaker 4: higher standard of toughness in stoicism. But at the same
- 34:28Speaker 4: time she holds men to a higher standard of toughness
- 34:32Speaker 4: and stoicism because I'm.
- 34:33Speaker 2: Guessing she wouldn't consider it.
- 34:37Speaker 4: She'd probably it's not even on a radar that men
- 34:39Speaker 4: should be harmed by things like all men, I choose
- 34:44Speaker 4: the bear kill all men. Men should be reduced to
- 34:48Speaker 4: ten percent of the population, toxic masculinity, patriarchy, privilege, all
- 34:54Speaker 4: of the ways of condemning and making men small that
- 34:59Speaker 4: are most like you know on her fingertips as a
- 35:03Speaker 4: credentialed psychologist who takes part in that witch doctory. You
- 35:07Speaker 4: know all of that, She's not even considering the impact
- 35:10Speaker 4: on men. So she's de facto expecting men to attain
- 35:13Speaker 4: a level of toughness and stoicism that women are not expected.
- 35:18Speaker 4: Women should be able to use being called a dishwasher
- 35:22Speaker 4: in order to rearrange the freaking universe to suck on
- 35:26Speaker 4: their ass for the rest of eternity, but men should
- 35:29Speaker 4: be able to tolerate being told they shouldn't exist at all.
- 35:33Speaker 2: You just suck it up.
- 35:35Speaker 4: But we can never acknowledge that we are expecting more
- 35:39Speaker 4: of men every This person doesn't even know her own mind.
- 35:46Speaker 4: How can she possibly be in charge of other human beings.
- 35:51Speaker 3: She's the reason why men don't speak.
- 35:53Speaker 4: Fair, don't seek therapy, and probably well I'm not gonna
- 35:57Speaker 4: say you shouldn't, but.
- 35:58Speaker 1: Be careful, No, I know, but I'm saying that's the
- 36:01Speaker 1: reason why they don't.
- 36:03Speaker 3: But anyway, the.
- 36:04Speaker 5: Matrix, the matrix they fear. That's like trying to keep
- 36:08Speaker 5: you down, that's trying to keep you in poverty. But
- 36:10Speaker 5: they themselves are a matrix. Louis Thrue did a great
- 36:13Speaker 5: job of showing out. They exploit the most vulnerable men
- 36:17Speaker 5: who are looking up to them with like gambling and
- 36:20Speaker 5: investment sponsors that are really shady. It's not too different
- 36:23Speaker 5: from how like disenfranchised boys turn to gangs as an
- 36:27Speaker 5: easy way to make good money, and then they go
- 36:29Speaker 5: on and exploit other people as part of being in
- 36:32Speaker 5: those gangs. And this is a good segue.
- 36:33Speaker 3: Into my now, Okay, so this is where it gets them.
- 36:37Speaker 3: We get into the meat of it.
- 36:38Speaker 1: So he brings up remember when we watched the movie Allison,
- 36:41Speaker 1: and there were.
- 36:41Speaker 3: Those two.
- 36:43Speaker 1: Young guys, they're like two Latino guys by the way,
- 36:47Speaker 1: that were basically talking about how much they got out of,
- 36:51Speaker 1: you know, like Justin Waller's work. Now I don't you know,
- 36:55Speaker 1: we don't know the details of like how much they're
- 36:57Speaker 1: paying him or what. But all we know is that
- 37:00Speaker 1: they explain their situation and like that they did not
- 37:04Speaker 1: have a father in the home and that was but
- 37:07Speaker 1: you know, and a lot of these Manisphere guys also
- 37:09Speaker 1: didn't have a father in the home. I don't think
- 37:12Speaker 1: that's true of Meron, but I know it is of
- 37:14Speaker 1: Justin and hs ticket talking for sure. But again, these
- 37:17Speaker 1: are we're looking at a fringe of a fringe, right,
- 37:21Speaker 1: Like these guys are a small fraction that Louis thro
- 37:23Speaker 1: selected and even acknowledged that because in the beginning of
- 37:26Speaker 1: the documentary he says most of the Manisphere are relatively
- 37:31Speaker 1: moderate podcasters and comedians, which, you know, who knows who
- 37:35Speaker 1: he's referring to. I assume Joe Rogan or something who's
- 37:37Speaker 1: not in the Manisphere but is in the Manisphere because
- 37:40Speaker 1: the media has decided it the podcast bros. I guess
- 37:44Speaker 1: they're all Manisphere guys now theovonn you know whoever it is,
- 37:49Speaker 1: Shane Gillis. But anyway, though, Louis Threau acknowledges in a
- 37:54Speaker 1: sentence that you'd have to be listening for to hear it,
- 37:58Speaker 1: that the most of the manisphere is not these guys,
- 38:00Speaker 1: but that he chooses to make it documentary about these
- 38:03Speaker 1: few fringe guys. So there's an acknowledgement that it's a fringe.
- 38:06Speaker 1: And then within that fringe you have men that have
- 38:09Speaker 1: that are coming from fatherless or broken homes, and there
- 38:13Speaker 1: should be I don't know, from someone with a doctorate,
- 38:16Speaker 1: I would think that'd be like U huh, I wonder
- 38:18Speaker 1: what the common denominator is with this, and maybe there's
- 38:22Speaker 1: something we can do to address this, you know. But
- 38:25Speaker 1: I well, let's just keep going. You'll see where we're
- 38:28Speaker 1: getting at.
- 38:28Speaker 3: So, okay, next point.
- 38:32Speaker 5: Which is that it really seems like young men and
- 38:35Speaker 5: boys are craving role models. A lot of them are
- 38:38Speaker 5: in pain, and they're not sure.
- 38:40Speaker 4: They're not craving role models. They're craving recognition of the
- 38:45Speaker 4: unique things they contribute to society, or at the very least,
- 38:49Speaker 4: recognition that they are held to higher standards than women
- 38:53Speaker 4: because this is what I'm this, I'm a finding this infuriating.
- 38:57Speaker 4: All right, I'm not going to speak for the average dude,
- 39:00Speaker 4: But if I were in this situation where I'm being
- 39:03Speaker 4: held to a higher standard than my sisters, than my wife,
- 39:07Speaker 4: than my girlfriend, than any woman in my life, my
- 39:11Speaker 4: female co workers, and I'm being held to a higher standard.
- 39:14Speaker 4: I have to go and clean up the vomit on
- 39:16Speaker 4: the bathroom floor, I have to go lift the heavy
- 39:20Speaker 4: boxes in the storeroom. Now I have to suck it
- 39:23Speaker 4: up when I have to listen to misunders jokes in
- 39:26Speaker 4: the workplace. You know, I and my feelings are put
- 39:30Speaker 4: on a lower shelf than the women around me, And
- 39:33Speaker 4: in every circumstance, I can't complain about this, and I
- 39:37Speaker 4: am forced to rearrange everything for the comfort of the
- 39:41Speaker 4: women in my life. At some point I'd be like,
- 39:43Speaker 4: you know, it's really annoying to hear that I have
- 39:47Speaker 4: to be more stoic, I have to be tougher, I
- 39:50Speaker 4: have to arrange myself.
- 39:52Speaker 2: For all the women or women around me.
- 39:54Speaker 4: And at the same time, I am being told that
- 39:57Speaker 4: they are sacrificing for me, that I am an position
- 40:00Speaker 4: on them.
- 40:02Speaker 2: Stop saying that to men and boys stop.
- 40:07Speaker 4: Having a like a gigantic financial economic cluster, like a
- 40:13Speaker 4: death star, constantly going after the industries that men and
- 40:17Speaker 4: boys are drawn to, meaning they can't get work right
- 40:22Speaker 4: like a Obama's infrastructure bill got scuppered.
- 40:26Speaker 2: Why because most of the money would go to.
- 40:28Speaker 4: Jobs for men, because those were the jobs that were
- 40:31Speaker 4: lost in the financial crisis.
- 40:33Speaker 2: And feminist said, oh no, you're not going to do that.
- 40:36Speaker 2: Everything has to go to women.
- 40:38Speaker 4: And men have to suck that up too, and they
- 40:41Speaker 4: have to suck up watching women take their jobs and
- 40:44Speaker 4: not do them.
- 40:45Speaker 2: And I have seen this myself repeatedly.
- 40:48Speaker 4: I have seen cruise like grounds keeping cruise men working.
- 40:54Speaker 4: They're they're doing the work, and then I go past
- 40:56Speaker 4: the grounds cuse just randomly. I just go to the
- 40:58Speaker 4: city on a day, on a random day, no particular like,
- 41:03Speaker 4: no no reason to do with looking at garn Cruz
- 41:06Speaker 4: and I'm just walking through the city walking my dog
- 41:08Speaker 4: on a random day. I only go to the city
- 41:11Speaker 4: like six times a year, and I'm walking through I'm
- 41:14Speaker 4: watching the grounds keeping crews that are men doing their job,
- 41:20Speaker 4: and then I go past three fucking women wandering around
- 41:25Speaker 4: a playground with clipboards, and then they're just sitting on
- 41:29Speaker 4: the play structures. You know, they're they're they're swinging back
- 41:32Speaker 4: and forth, they're going up three of them going up
- 41:35Speaker 4: a slide and looking at bolts or something, and then
- 41:38Speaker 4: they're sitting down on the picnic and having a little
- 41:41Speaker 4: another talk about whatever it is. I'm like, this is
- 41:44Speaker 4: this is it.
- 41:46Speaker 7: You are giving men's jobs to women, and women are
- 41:48Speaker 7: even doing them, and it's infuriating. And I'm tired of
- 41:53Speaker 7: being like, oh, wow, you know, maybe no, this is
- 41:56Speaker 7: what I see.
- 41:57Speaker 2: This is what I see.
- 41:58Speaker 4: Women don't want to do the job, they don't do
- 42:01Speaker 4: the jobs right, they want to get paid for it,
- 42:04Speaker 4: and then they want to have chats with their coworkers.
- 42:08Speaker 4: How is it even possible that one day out of
- 42:11Speaker 4: six that I in a year, that I decide to
- 42:14Speaker 4: go walk through a city I see this. I see this,
- 42:17Speaker 4: like multiple male crews doing their job and then a
- 42:21Speaker 4: bunch of women just sitting down at a picnic table talking.
- 42:26Speaker 4: How is that possible? Unless this is something that is
- 42:29Speaker 4: actually happening. And I'm just noticing because I have a
- 42:34Speaker 4: I don't know the cortical structures to notice. I am
- 42:37Speaker 4: a noticer all right, let's keep going.
- 42:43Speaker 5: All right, let's keep going for men that they can
- 42:46Speaker 5: find strengthen a lot of these guys in the manisphere
- 42:49Speaker 5: position themselves as like coaches that will teach men how
- 42:52Speaker 5: to be men. Hs Tiki Talkie said, I coach boys
- 42:54Speaker 5: how to beat I'm.
- 42:56Speaker 2: Gonna say bitch.
- 42:57Speaker 4: I'm gonna say bitch. Did you you chose that thumbnail?
- 43:01Speaker 4: Why did you choose yourself smirking?
- 43:04Speaker 2: Does that speak?
- 43:06Speaker 4: Does that say that you're gonna give men a fair run?
- 43:09Speaker 2: And also, these men, they came from somewhere.
- 43:13Speaker 4: They came from the absolute destruction of the average men,
- 43:17Speaker 4: the average men's work prospects, because our society has decided
- 43:21Speaker 4: it can survive without lean mass. And what I mean
- 43:24Speaker 4: by lean mass is an effective military, and effective effective
- 43:28Speaker 4: industrial sector, and effective infrastructure sector and a defective commodities
- 43:33Speaker 4: so mining refining sector. We've decided we don't need that shit.
- 43:38Speaker 4: We can offshore it and everybody can be a ballless
- 43:41Speaker 4: bureaucrat or a harem girl. That's our freaking society, giant
- 43:45Speaker 4: fat berg on a tiny remaining island of men who
- 43:50Speaker 4: still do the work that needs to get done. And
- 43:53Speaker 4: all of that has destroyed men's prospects in terms of work.
- 43:57Speaker 2: Right, It destroyed men's.
- 43:59Speaker 4: Prospects in terms of work. It has reduced their respect
- 44:02Speaker 4: as members of their society. And then on top of that,
- 44:06Speaker 4: they have to deal with a narrative that undermines their
- 44:09Speaker 4: worth as partners. Every single second of the day, fox
- 44:14Speaker 4: cap feminism is pumping out more crap about Oh, women
- 44:17Speaker 4: choose the bear.
- 44:18Speaker 2: Oh men are emotional.
- 44:20Speaker 4: Laborer is the new stupid thing. Oh men don't do
- 44:24Speaker 4: their pull their job. They do pull their weight by
- 44:26Speaker 4: the way they do right. Men don't don't do they
- 44:29Speaker 4: don't do childcare. Well they do if they have an
- 44:32Speaker 4: actual guarantee that their relationship isn't going to be interrupted
- 44:36Speaker 4: at the whims.
- 44:37Speaker 2: Of the woman.
- 44:38Speaker 1: Right.
- 44:38Speaker 4: At every stage, men are grinded on by this society
- 44:42Speaker 4: and treated like they're not just disposable, but worthless trash
- 44:47Speaker 4: that should just march itself out.
- 44:50Speaker 2: Right.
- 44:50Speaker 4: Guys like this they are parasitic on that desperation because
- 44:57Speaker 4: they are good looking enough, they make enough money that
- 45:00Speaker 4: they can command the attention of multiple women and construct
- 45:05Speaker 4: that harem, that prestige harom that these guys are looking
- 45:10Speaker 4: at and living vicariously through because they aren't going to
- 45:13Speaker 4: get a wife, they aren't gonna get children, they aren't
- 45:15Speaker 4: going to get a freaking job that respects them. They're
- 45:19Speaker 4: gonna get fucking all and then they're going to be
- 45:21Speaker 4: constantly harped on as being worthless. God, I am in
- 45:26Speaker 4: a pissing mood today.
- 45:29Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we're gonna continue. Thank you guys for
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- 45:53Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, So we're talking about fatherlessness now, all right,
- 45:58Speaker 1: let's let's see where she goes with the role models,
- 46:01Speaker 1: which leads into.
- 46:02Speaker 5: Fathers aise as a success coach who gives advice to men.
- 46:06Speaker 5: It was sad to see in the documentary how boys
- 46:08Speaker 5: were coming up to these guys calling them role models,
- 46:11Speaker 5: and it kind of begs the question, what is going
- 46:13Speaker 5: on with men these days that they are crying out
- 46:15Speaker 5: their role models.
- 46:16Speaker 4: So actually look at what those young men said, and
- 46:21Speaker 4: I can't fucking believe she's not even okay, does she
- 46:24Speaker 4: acknowledge that at all?
- 46:26Speaker 3: Give it some Yeah, she's going to go into a
- 46:28Speaker 3: little bit.
- 46:28Speaker 1: But he says he thinks that it's tragic that these men,
- 46:34Speaker 1: these young men went to these guys for help, but
- 46:37Speaker 1: never asks why there's no other help? There was, like
- 46:41Speaker 1: nowhere else for them to go. Doesn't even think about that, Well,
- 46:44Speaker 1: why don't they go to a teacher?
- 46:46Speaker 4: Oh?
- 46:46Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe because the teachers are like not
- 46:49Speaker 1: going to help them, like they're their enemy.
- 46:51Speaker 3: I don't know. Well, let's keep going.
- 46:53Speaker 5: They'll turn to these like clearly immoral men for that
- 46:57Speaker 5: type of leadership.
- 46:58Speaker 4: Yeah, but they're not just a little bit, they're not Like,
- 47:02Speaker 4: where are you standing to say that they're immoral, Because
- 47:06Speaker 4: from where I'm standing, you are immoral, and the entire
- 47:11Speaker 4: are the entire edifice of what you represent is immoral.
- 47:16Speaker 4: What you represent is the marginalization of masculinity. Saying that
- 47:20Speaker 4: men aren't valuable to society by virtue of who they
- 47:25Speaker 4: are and what they do. That's immoral. That is profoundly immoral,
- 47:31Speaker 4: especially since now all of these Western nations are making
- 47:35Speaker 4: grumblings about conscription.
- 47:38Speaker 2: You've spent how.
- 47:38Speaker 4: Many years saying that women can do anything a man
- 47:41Speaker 4: can do, but apparently not die in a trench.
- 47:45Speaker 2: That is immoral?
- 47:46Speaker 4: So where does she get So even though these guys
- 47:50Speaker 4: are sketch in my opinion, and I think that there
- 47:53Speaker 4: are actually parasitic on the problem, they aren't actually solving anything.
- 47:58Speaker 4: The fact that they say to you, young men, hey,
- 48:01Speaker 4: you can actually make your life better and you are
- 48:05Speaker 4: worthy of doing so, makes them, you know, several shades lighter.
- 48:11Speaker 4: You know, it's like black versus great. These guys are great.
- 48:15Speaker 4: You are black Anna black black black coal black in
- 48:19Speaker 4: your coal black art.
- 48:23Speaker 1: So wow? Is that X one on Rumble gifted five subscriptions?
- 48:28Speaker 1: I'm not sure like what that is, but thank you,
- 48:32Speaker 1: hex and and that's awesome on Rumble fives. I don't
- 48:37Speaker 1: know how that works. I don't know anything about subs
- 48:39Speaker 1: gifting subscriptions. Maybe somebody can help me out with that.
- 48:42Speaker 1: I'm curious because I don't know how it works, but
- 48:45Speaker 1: thank you. I assume hex one, uh, he said, should
- 48:49Speaker 1: be about twenty to twenty five dollars, So I guess
- 48:52Speaker 1: it's like it's like support, So yeah, appreciate the support.
- 48:56Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, let's get good.
- 49:00Speaker 1: And this is where the meat of it is, because again,
- 49:02Speaker 1: this woman is supposed to be a clinical psychologist, right,
- 49:06Speaker 1: and these are the people that insist that men have
- 49:09Speaker 1: to go to them for their problems. Right now, women
- 49:13Speaker 1: already do that and it hasn't really worked out for
- 49:15Speaker 1: them either, by the way, but like, but you know,
- 49:18Speaker 1: they insist that men should be going to them. So
- 49:20Speaker 1: let's see how she's gonna sell this.
- 49:22Speaker 8: Yeah, am I I mean I could be complictely, I
- 49:25Speaker 8: could be completely off base here, Like I'm saying that
- 49:28Speaker 8: she's got a black heart, and I'm just saying that
- 49:31Speaker 8: mostly based on the smirk that she had while dealing
- 49:35Speaker 8: with this, which completely contradicts the idea that she's so
- 49:38Speaker 8: sympathetic or pitying or whatever.
- 49:41Speaker 2: It is that she all these this is sad. Why
- 49:44Speaker 2: are you smirking?
- 49:46Speaker 4: Like? Why why are you smirking like you're you're getting
- 49:49Speaker 4: one over on someone?
- 49:51Speaker 3: Right?
- 49:51Speaker 4: Why are you looking like you're a cheat? So I'm
- 49:54Speaker 4: on the basis of that and also the fact that
- 49:57Speaker 4: she's bringing up male role models but not why men
- 50:03Speaker 4: feel like I feel like they're being told they're worthless,
- 50:10Speaker 4: particularly when they are indeed being told they're worthless.
- 50:13Speaker 2: Like it's it's it's amazing.
- 50:14Speaker 4: I remember there was this headline where these these I
- 50:18Speaker 4: guess feminist researchers were like boys seemed to be damaged,
- 50:23Speaker 4: And I'm like, yes, you damaged them. You even said
- 50:27Speaker 4: that you were going to do so.
- 50:30Speaker 2: Oh, they appear to be damaged.
- 50:32Speaker 4: Yes, it's like the uh, after the headline of how
- 50:37Speaker 4: do we damage boys? More, they have the headline of
- 50:41Speaker 4: may's appear to be damaged. It's like they forget, they
- 50:45Speaker 4: have no memory of what they just did.
- 50:47Speaker 2: Okay, let's keep going.
- 50:48Speaker 3: Sorry, all right, let's keep going.
- 50:50Speaker 5: Two of the fans that came up to one of
- 50:52Speaker 5: the guys he was interviewing. One of them talked about
- 50:55Speaker 5: how he was homeless recently and crying himself to sleep,
- 50:57Speaker 5: and his role model in the manisphere helped him gain
- 51:00Speaker 5: it sounded like an internal locus of control and find
- 51:03Speaker 5: the strength and the hope to sort of pull himself
- 51:05Speaker 5: out of that situation. At some point, we people who
- 51:08Speaker 5: care about mental health must reckon with the reality that
- 51:11Speaker 5: a lot of men are craving this type of motivation,
- 51:14Speaker 5: that a lot of men maybe don't relate to the
- 51:16Speaker 5: like gentler, more validating form of motivation that can be
- 51:19Speaker 5: quite common.
- 51:20Speaker 2: It's not gentle. It's not fucking gentle.
- 51:25Speaker 4: Coming from a presumption that the way that men interact
- 51:30Speaker 4: with society and the way that men be and do
- 51:33Speaker 4: is wrong is not gentle. A struggle session isn't gentle.
- 51:38Speaker 2: Like, okay, whatever, Yeah, I.
- 51:45Speaker 4: Don't think you know, I don't think that men have
- 51:48Speaker 4: a problem with guys, Smiley, I got weight, not guys.
- 51:51Speaker 3: Mind.
- 51:52Speaker 4: No.
- 51:52Speaker 1: Yeah, again, she's trying to because like, uh, well, let's
- 51:56Speaker 1: just keep.
- 51:56Speaker 5: Going speak and if they don't find that tough love
- 51:59Speaker 5: motivation anywhere else, they're gonna find it from really problematic
- 52:03Speaker 5: and exploit it.
- 52:04Speaker 2: Okay, stop again.
- 52:06Speaker 4: Probably the kindest gentlest man who recognizes the issue's men
- 52:12Speaker 4: face is Warren Ferrell.
- 52:16Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 52:17Speaker 4: The dude is like a.
- 52:20Speaker 2: Don't a quilt and.
- 52:24Speaker 1: A hot cocoa with marshmallows, you know, the you know
- 52:27Speaker 1: the do you guys remember in The Simpsons there was
- 52:31Speaker 1: this one episode where Ned Flanders offered Bart a cocoa
- 52:37Speaker 1: and Bart said no, and he said, well, I'll just
- 52:39Speaker 1: make it and put on your windowsill, and it was
- 52:41Speaker 1: like this perfect hot coco with like cinnamon and like, yeah,
- 52:48Speaker 1: I love that. It cracks me up when Matt Planders
- 52:51Speaker 1: made it for bart But anyway, sorry.
- 52:53Speaker 2: Show my age.
- 52:54Speaker 4: He is the embodiment of a hot coco and a
- 52:58Speaker 4: freaking quilt and some like I don't know, atmospheric music
- 53:05Speaker 4: like a fireplace, you know, fireplace you know, And he's
- 53:10Speaker 4: sitting down, He's like, let me tell you.
- 53:12Speaker 2: Let's let's let's let's talk tell her story.
- 53:15Speaker 4: You know, I'll meet you where you are, gentlest.
- 53:19Speaker 1: I mean, I met him and I talked to him
- 53:20Speaker 1: a little bit, and I asked him because he was,
- 53:22Speaker 1: you know, pretty old, but he looks good for his agent.
- 53:24Speaker 1: And he said that he does a lot of yoga.
- 53:26Speaker 1: That's that's that's Warren Ferrell does yoga at like seventy something.
- 53:31Speaker 2: The mister rogers the men's.
- 53:33Speaker 1: Nobody would say that he's not a man, like no,
- 53:36Speaker 1: nobody would say that, you know, but anyway.
- 53:39Speaker 3: Go ahead.
- 53:40Speaker 4: But also these people have drummed him out. So when
- 53:46Speaker 4: she says, oh, men just don't want gentlemen bullshit. Even
- 53:51Speaker 4: when it's gentle you don't want.
- 53:53Speaker 2: To hear the truth.
- 53:56Speaker 4: That's what that's what I think men want is the
- 53:58Speaker 4: truth and while stop being lied to to their face.
- 54:03Speaker 4: And even a gentleman like Warren Ferrell who gently tells
- 54:07Speaker 4: you the truth gets the herod in treatment.
- 54:11Speaker 1: Yeah, because gentleness, when these people say it, doesn't mean truth.
- 54:14Speaker 1: It means validation and comfort. It means security, not truth.
- 54:19Speaker 1: Truth is love, right, it is like telling somebody the
- 54:24Speaker 1: truth is like especially because you're trying to save them
- 54:28Speaker 1: from themselves.
- 54:29Speaker 3: That's what love is.
- 54:31Speaker 1: Telling somebody what they want to hear because it makes
- 54:33Speaker 1: them happy and gives in the good feels. That doesn't
- 54:36Speaker 1: that's not love, That's that's you being nice to protect yourself. Okay,
- 54:42Speaker 1: mm hmm, all right, let's hear it.
- 54:44Speaker 2: Let's hear all right.
- 54:46Speaker 5: People get mad at me because I really value internal
- 54:49Speaker 5: locus of control. I really value people, you know, taking
- 54:52Speaker 5: responsible Wait a.
- 54:53Speaker 4: Second, control, And yet you're telling a war only.
- 54:58Speaker 3: For man, Allison.
- 55:00Speaker 2: Oh yeah, what am I thinking?
- 55:02Speaker 4: You're telling a woman to be offended at a joke
- 55:04Speaker 4: that didn't She didn't find offensive, so she found it funny, right,
- 55:10Speaker 4: she laughed at it, and you want her to become
- 55:13Speaker 4: a victim of it. And then you also want women
- 55:16Speaker 4: to become a victim of the benefits they get from
- 55:19Speaker 4: looking good. You're you are.
- 55:23Speaker 2: You don't know your own mind. You don't understand what
- 55:25Speaker 2: internal locus of control means.
- 55:28Speaker 4: But let's let's hear it.
- 55:31Speaker 5: There are environmental issues going on that are outside of
- 55:34Speaker 5: their control. But I am never going to stop preaching
- 55:37Speaker 5: the importance of that because a lot of people seek
- 55:40Speaker 5: that type of empowerment. A lot of people feel really
- 55:42Speaker 5: powerless in the world, and they need something to help
- 55:44Speaker 5: them feel more powerful.
- 55:46Speaker 6: They need the hope, they need the motivation.
- 55:48Speaker 4: They need to Okay, okay, you need you need feel
- 55:51Speaker 4: feel feel Men aren't going to be saved, lady. This
- 55:55Speaker 4: is something I have to deal with because I would
- 55:57Speaker 4: actually like to see I'd like to see services for men.
- 56:01Speaker 4: I like to see abused men have a place to go.
- 56:04Speaker 4: I'd like to see hotlines that actually deal with men's
- 56:08Speaker 4: issues fairly and on their face, you know. I like
- 56:11Speaker 4: to see an expectation of joint shared custody so that
- 56:17Speaker 4: men don't lose to their children, but I know that
- 56:20Speaker 4: that's not gonna happen, right. I like to see fairness
- 56:23Speaker 4: in the court so men don't have to always play
- 56:25Speaker 4: a defensive game. When they're always with women, right, I'd
- 56:28Speaker 4: like to see that stuff not gonna happen. So it's
- 56:31Speaker 4: not a matter of oh, well, people feel like there's
- 56:34Speaker 4: certain unbelievable attitude she has. Oh these people, they just
- 56:39Speaker 4: they want to feel like they have control in their bitch.
- 56:43Speaker 4: Their only source of getting anything done, because nobody's coming
- 56:48Speaker 4: to save them is themselves. Right, And you would understand
- 56:52Speaker 4: this if you even had the least amount of understanding
- 56:55Speaker 4: of men's issues and how much how much power it
- 56:59Speaker 4: takes out of men's lives, and that the only thing
- 57:02Speaker 4: you can do. You can't say, well, go to this
- 57:04Speaker 4: go to this abused man shelf doesn't exist, go to
- 57:07Speaker 4: this hotline that'll help doesn't exist. Well, you know, go
- 57:10Speaker 4: to the cops. They're not gonna take your side. You're
- 57:13Speaker 4: more likely to arrest you. So you have to take responsibility,
- 57:18Speaker 4: and it's a situation where there is no alternative. You
- 57:21Speaker 4: have to record everything, you have to make sure you
- 57:24Speaker 4: write it down. You have to keep a diary, you
- 57:27Speaker 4: have to keep a recorder on you at all times.
- 57:29Speaker 2: You have to film, right.
- 57:31Speaker 4: You have to get your friends to help you out
- 57:34Speaker 4: so that she can't make a false accusation against you.
- 57:37Speaker 4: You have to do these things as a man because
- 57:39Speaker 4: nobody's coming to save you. So this bullshit about oh
- 57:42Speaker 4: they feel better, they feel better, it makes them feel
- 57:46Speaker 4: better when they have control.
- 57:47Speaker 2: Nobody's saving them.
- 57:49Speaker 4: Lady, this is such a position of incredible entitlement. It
- 57:52Speaker 4: has such delusion. And how can she be considered an
- 57:57Speaker 4: authority on anyone is male if she has no understanding
- 58:02Speaker 4: of the situation there is she They are in to
- 58:05Speaker 4: the point where she thinks, for men, doing it for
- 58:09Speaker 4: yourself is an option that just makes you feel good.
- 58:13Speaker 4: Good is just an option that makes you feel good, right, Like,
- 58:18Speaker 4: she's delusional when it comes to men.
- 58:20Speaker 1: Men don't want to feel good. They want to like
- 58:22Speaker 1: get things done, They want to like get their shit together.
- 58:26Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean if they if they know they're
- 58:27Speaker 1: not gonna get help from anybody else, which is one
- 58:30Speaker 1: of the lessons these manusphere guys like say in the
- 58:33Speaker 1: in the documentary Louis Thrue and this woman and every
- 58:37Speaker 1: other woman.
- 58:38Speaker 3: That I've seen respond to this.
- 58:39Speaker 1: And there's been a lot of people making content, a
- 58:41Speaker 1: lot of feminists online or experts or whatever making content,
- 58:45Speaker 1: and they're all like that they none of them can
- 58:50Speaker 1: see that the reason why these guys feel the need
- 58:55Speaker 1: to do it themselves is because they literally isn't anyone
- 58:57Speaker 1: else that's gonna help them, including them, including this woman.
- 59:02Speaker 1: So like, yeah, men don't want to hear validation. They
- 59:06Speaker 1: want to solve problems. It's not it is about the nail. Actually,
- 59:12Speaker 1: you know that's the way men see it. They're like, no,
- 59:15Speaker 1: it's about the nail. I don't want to talk about
- 59:16Speaker 1: the nail. I want to do something about the nail,
- 59:19Speaker 1: and you I want you to help me with a plan.
- 59:22Speaker 1: If you're going to help at all, you know, like
- 59:25Speaker 1: let's get the nail out. But if you're not going
- 59:26Speaker 1: to help, you just want to talk about it, then
- 59:28Speaker 1: I want you to leave because you're in my way.
- 59:30Speaker 1: And these people are always in their way. That's just
- 59:32Speaker 1: what it is. I mean, yeah, it's it's nice to
- 59:35Speaker 1: be appreciated, but but I think that when a man
- 59:39Speaker 1: has a problem, they just want to fix the problem,
- 59:44Speaker 1: you know, that's it, and they don't want to talk
- 59:47Speaker 1: about the problem.
- 59:50Speaker 3: Okay, anyway, and to be able to.
- 59:53Speaker 5: Pull themselves out of difficult situations. Other people they don't
- 59:57Speaker 5: connect to that as much.
- 59:58Speaker 6: Other people.
- 59:58Speaker 5: They pull themselves out of dif situations by a more
- 1:00:01Speaker 5: gentle validating approach.
- 1:00:03Speaker 6: But if we just take this like.
- 1:00:04Speaker 3: Oneone, I'm not sure that that actually helps. But that's
- 1:00:07Speaker 3: just me.
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: I'm not sure that that validating somebody is actually going
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: to solve their problems. I think it's just something to
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: make them feel more comfortable with those problems, like.
- 1:00:17Speaker 2: Well, okay.
- 1:00:18Speaker 4: There is a type of validation that I think works,
- 1:00:21Speaker 4: and that's getting people to recognize that they have succeeded
- 1:00:25Speaker 4: at something right, even if it's small. Because some when
- 1:00:29Speaker 4: people are really depressed, particularly men, it's like you, And
- 1:00:34Speaker 4: this is what I think that the Jordan Peterson is
- 1:00:36Speaker 4: cleaning your room.
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: It's not just cleaning your room.
- 1:00:38Speaker 4: It's acknowledging you have done it right, and it's saying, yeah,
- 1:00:41Speaker 4: I am capable of this.
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: I'm capable of making.
- 1:00:44Speaker 4: The world a little room better, a little bit better
- 1:00:46Speaker 4: through my actions, and I'm going to recognize that. And
- 1:00:50Speaker 4: I think that's like that moment of recognition is really critical.
- 1:00:55Speaker 4: I'm not sure if it's validation because it's not saying, oh,
- 1:00:58Speaker 4: you're a wonderful person as you are. It's simply recognizing
- 1:01:01Speaker 4: that you're capable of making the world better through your choices, right,
- 1:01:05Speaker 4: and sitting with that and accepting that and allowing that
- 1:01:09Speaker 4: to inform your opinion of yourself.
- 1:01:11Speaker 2: But it's not like you can't. I don't think that
- 1:01:14Speaker 2: like validation. I don't think doesn't.
- 1:01:16Speaker 4: I know that prim Reaper does use a positive regard,
- 1:01:22Speaker 4: but I'm not sure if she applies it as validation
- 1:01:26Speaker 4: like this, right, So.
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: Well, I think it depends on where we're starting from,
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: because like you could, like men might need somebody to
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: give them the encouragement to feel like doing something about
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: their situation is worth doing. But once you get out
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: of that level, it's time to start doing something. And
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: I think men are far more interested in you know,
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: like actionable steps to address problems. And when I say that,
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: there could be the dark side of what you just said.
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: So I think that that's true. But there is the
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: dark side of that is where what what I see
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: in terms of like the way people address the difficulties.
- 1:02:07Speaker 3: In our life.
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: So you have one group of people that says I
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: have to change myself so that I can like you know,
- 1:02:15Speaker 1: live better or address whatever right I have to be
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: the one to make changes about my I have to
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: change my habits, my behavior, my attitude, whatever, but it's
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: on me to do it. And then there are people
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: who say the world has to change for my comfort, right,
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: and in the validation the problem with the validation approach
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: is that it kind of encourages the latter where you're basically.
- 1:02:37Speaker 3: Saying, no, no, no, there's nothing wrong with you.
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: It's society that's to blame.
- 1:02:41Speaker 3: It's the world that's the problem.
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: And if somebody eat, you know, internalizes that enough, then
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: they start to basically say, oh, yeah, I just have
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: to make the world different so that I can be validated.
- 1:02:53Speaker 3: And that's the dark side of that.
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: And I mean, I hate to say it, but a
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: lot of this kind of like this kind of stuff
- 1:03:01Speaker 1: is that, you know, it's like that, oh, it's not you,
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: it's the world. It's society, which she was doing from
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: the beginning of the video. She was like, society encourages
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: you know, unethical behavior, society encourages materialism. Society, society, society,
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: and it's like, yeah, okay, but what are you doing.
- 1:03:18Speaker 3: You're you're participating in this world. What what can you do?
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: This is why I don't again, like that's why I don't.
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: I don't find these people credible because they they they
- 1:03:29Speaker 1: don't take into account the idea that there are things
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: that are simply out of our control and that the
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: world doesn't owe you anything because it doesn't.
- 1:03:38Speaker 4: Right.
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: I'm not saying that we shouldn't try to work together
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: to make you know, some things happen to help people,
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: but to act as though you deserve this simply for existing,
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: that's the that's the wrong approach. So yeah, And I would.
- 1:03:53Speaker 4: Say that there is a difference between this sort of
- 1:03:55Speaker 4: generic oh it's society, oh it's patriarchy verse is actually
- 1:04:01Speaker 4: identifying pay per trails for people who are doing things
- 1:04:06Speaker 4: like feminist initiatives. Right, these are things that have budgets.
- 1:04:12Speaker 3: These are out of.
- 1:04:16Speaker 4: Again, patriarchy doesn't have a budget. Patriarchy is basically us Brian. Honestly,
- 1:04:22Speaker 4: at this point, I think we're the longest running institution
- 1:04:27Speaker 4: of patriarchy.
- 1:04:29Speaker 3: I am pro patriarchy nically.
- 1:04:33Speaker 4: Maybe Voice for Men is longer, but you know, consistently
- 1:04:36Speaker 4: front facing, facing the public, putting out our patriarchal message
- 1:04:41Speaker 4: of patriarchy. And I could tell you that we're we're
- 1:04:45Speaker 4: not even a drop in the bucket compared to feminism's
- 1:04:48Speaker 4: pay per trail and budgets. So like when I say
- 1:04:52Speaker 4: that feminism does this stuff, trust me, I got the paperwork.
- 1:04:58Speaker 4: They are doing this stuff. And it's not the patriarchy.
- 1:05:02Speaker 4: It's not society. It's not what was the chiriarchy, whatever.
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: The hell archy, kurioity, that was the intersectional patriarchy. Yeah,
- 1:05:12Speaker 1: but now they just still dropped it and they just
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: went back to patriarchy.
- 1:05:16Speaker 2: Again because because it didn't have it.
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: It's patriarchy is stickier.
- 1:05:20Speaker 4: Well, it's stick here because it has a clear villain men. Yes, right, okay,
- 1:05:25Speaker 4: let's keep going.
- 1:05:26Speaker 5: All right, it's all approached to everybody, including men who
- 1:05:29Speaker 5: have been socialized to not be so in touch with
- 1:05:32Speaker 5: their feelings.
- 1:05:33Speaker 6: Then we're doing them a disservice.
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: We're socialized to not be so in touch with their feelings.
- 1:05:38Speaker 1: That already you see that she's already bought into the
- 1:05:41Speaker 1: toxic masculinity narrative right there. Yeah, say that men are
- 1:05:45Speaker 1: socialized not like the stoicism. There's nothing wrong with that, Like,
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: in fact, I think women could probably use it. Yeah,
- 1:05:54Speaker 1: they could certainly use a lot of it. But she's saying, oh,
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: men are socialized into this behavior. Here again, psychology man not.
- 1:06:04Speaker 3: For me anywhere.
- 1:06:04Speaker 4: Treating treating men as a project, which is why men
- 1:06:07Speaker 4: should avoid women like her as psychologists like her. Yep,
- 1:06:12Speaker 4: you know validation for women, but men are a project.
- 1:06:15Speaker 4: Men don't know how to get in contact with their feelings.
- 1:06:18Speaker 4: They need to be corrected. Yeah, they need to be
- 1:06:20Speaker 4: fixed like that. That's not treating your your patients as clients,
- 1:06:26Speaker 4: it's treating them as lab animals.
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: Also, you know, it's crazy that you're you, you work
- 1:06:31Speaker 1: in mental health and you don't understand the way men's
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: brains work.
- 1:06:36Speaker 2: No, that's the other thing.
- 1:06:37Speaker 4: It's like, could you take a little bit of you
- 1:06:42Speaker 4: work into the actual biology of sex differences? Like there
- 1:06:47Speaker 4: there are differences in how men behave and interact with
- 1:06:51Speaker 4: their environment and experience their bonds with others. And what
- 1:06:54Speaker 4: you're saying is that's illegitimate. It's like looking at a
- 1:06:59Speaker 4: dog and saying dogs should only have two legs, let's
- 1:07:02Speaker 4: remove two of them, and then they're saying, oh, I'm
- 1:07:05Speaker 4: I'm fixing dogs.
- 1:07:07Speaker 2: I'm fixing them. It's sick.
- 1:07:10Speaker 4: That's why I say black coal, black heart, because not
- 1:07:14Speaker 4: only is she promoting this idea that men need to
- 1:07:18Speaker 4: be fixed rather than they need to get things need
- 1:07:22Speaker 4: to be gotten off of men's backs. Right now, not
- 1:07:26Speaker 4: only is she promoting that, she will never stop and say, hey,
- 1:07:30Speaker 4: maybe I'm wrong. Maybe men are legitimate, Like, after all,
- 1:07:34Speaker 4: men evolved over millions of years. Perhaps they are a
- 1:07:37Speaker 4: legitimate form of being that doesn't not constantly need control
- 1:07:43Speaker 4: freak oversight over how they do things?
- 1:07:48Speaker 5: All right, right, letting them walk straight into the hands
- 1:07:52Speaker 5: of the manisphere.
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: I did think, to the hands of the man into
- 1:07:55Speaker 1: our clutches. God, these guys were looking for help. The
- 1:08:02Speaker 1: manisphere had help offered to them, or at least these
- 1:08:05Speaker 1: particular guys. Yeah, I think that they're they can be
- 1:08:08Speaker 1: kind of scammy and sketchy. But again, how did we
- 1:08:11Speaker 1: get here? Like what why don't you ask the question?
- 1:08:14Speaker 1: How did we get to the point where you had
- 1:08:17Speaker 1: men who didn't have fathers in their life, and they were,
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: you know, homeless and struggling financially, and they were looking
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: for something, and and and these these the manisphere came
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: to them and offered them help. And you're saying, why
- 1:08:32Speaker 1: did you go to those guys? You weren't you perfectly
- 1:08:35Speaker 1: fine being homeless, depressed and alone with like your dad,
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: weren't you fine with that? Why did you go to
- 1:08:41Speaker 1: those people?
- 1:08:42Speaker 2: Maybe?
- 1:08:42Speaker 3: Because how did we get here? Anna? How did we
- 1:08:45Speaker 3: get here? That's the question you should be asking.
- 1:08:47Speaker 1: But you're not going to ask that question because it
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: might make you look bad.
- 1:08:52Speaker 3: It might make you look bad.
- 1:08:54Speaker 2: Well, maybe they don't want to go to people who
- 1:08:56Speaker 2: you know.
- 1:08:56Speaker 4: They want to go to the ones who say that,
- 1:08:58Speaker 4: you know, dog's purposes, bitch and bones are not the
- 1:09:01Speaker 4: ones that want to cut off their front legs and
- 1:09:04Speaker 4: have them hobble around like it like this, this is
- 1:09:08Speaker 4: the thing. It's because you don't give them anything. You
- 1:09:13Speaker 4: don't give them what they need to even live up
- 1:09:17Speaker 4: to the expectations you place on men, Anna, Because you
- 1:09:21Speaker 4: are placing expectations on men, you place the expectation that
- 1:09:26Speaker 4: women be victimized by being called dishwashers. But men should
- 1:09:29Speaker 4: just be able to suck it up when they're called
- 1:09:33Speaker 4: a vestigial organ of human existence that should just be
- 1:09:37Speaker 4: cut awave of, like that's men should just suck that up.
- 1:09:40Speaker 4: But women, ah, women should be laid low by being
- 1:09:43Speaker 4: called a dishwasher, right, That is an expectation you place
- 1:09:47Speaker 4: on men, Anna, and without acknowledging that you're doing so,
- 1:09:52Speaker 4: and then complaining that, oh, why aren't men.
- 1:09:55Speaker 2: Getting in touch into their feelings?
- 1:09:57Speaker 4: I mean, we should be able to say that they
- 1:10:00Speaker 4: should be killed, that they should be put into woodshippers,
- 1:10:03Speaker 4: that they should be castrated. You know, we should be
- 1:10:05Speaker 4: able to say that they should lose their children, and
- 1:10:08Speaker 4: they should be treated like rapists by default. We should
- 1:10:12Speaker 4: be able to say that they should be called ten
- 1:10:14Speaker 4: percent of the population. We should be able to say
- 1:10:16Speaker 4: that their morality is corrupted and criminal. But why can't
- 1:10:21Speaker 4: they get in touch with their emotions? Why do they
- 1:10:25Speaker 4: act like they don't have them because you're telling them to,
- 1:10:29Speaker 4: because you're expecting them to swallow all this crap, because.
- 1:10:35Speaker 2: You're saying, oh, well, women can't.
- 1:10:37Speaker 4: Be told that they can't have a joke, they can't
- 1:10:39Speaker 4: take a joke, but men should take all of this
- 1:10:42Speaker 4: crap and swallow it. What do you think, What kind
- 1:10:45Speaker 4: of pressure do you think that puts on men?
- 1:10:47Speaker 2: Anna?
- 1:10:48Speaker 4: What do you think what kind of pressure does it
- 1:10:50Speaker 4: put on their emotions? Do you really want men to
- 1:10:53Speaker 4: start expressing the emotions that you're making them feel with
- 1:10:57Speaker 4: your fucking feminist psychology? Okay, I'm like I think I'm
- 1:11:04Speaker 4: just really pissed today.
- 1:11:05Speaker 3: Yeah, I got.
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: A super chat from Albatross gives us five dollars and
- 1:11:09Speaker 1: says you should share this to her to see how
- 1:11:12Speaker 1: she reacts.
- 1:11:13Speaker 3: Laugh.
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: Emojis probably will ignore us because we're too small.
- 1:11:18Speaker 3: We're beneath their notice.
- 1:11:21Speaker 2: Okay, she's not realistic though, she's not about Clout.
- 1:11:25Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're right. She's ethical. She's not doing this
- 1:11:27Speaker 1: for Clout reasons. Guys, she's she's like one of the
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: good people. Very few of them left, you know, she
- 1:11:33Speaker 1: is definitely one of them, though. Okay, let's keep going.
- 1:11:37Speaker 5: It's really interesting how this guy who was previously homeless,
- 1:11:41Speaker 5: he was telling Louis, we don't believe in depression, and
- 1:11:43Speaker 5: pretty immediately afterwards Louie was asking him what happened with
- 1:11:47Speaker 5: what he?
- 1:11:49Speaker 2: Huh did he say, we don't believe in depression?
- 1:11:53Speaker 1: One of the two you know, there are those two
- 1:11:55Speaker 1: guys that were fans of Justin Waller in the in
- 1:11:58Speaker 1: the documentary.
- 1:12:00Speaker 2: But we don't believe in depression.
- 1:12:01Speaker 3: Well yeah, they said we don't believe in depression.
- 1:12:04Speaker 2: He was the one who survived. Idiot.
- 1:12:09Speaker 3: Well, I mean yeah, he basically I think that the
- 1:12:13Speaker 3: point of it.
- 1:12:13Speaker 1: I mean justin Thorrell was trying to paint it like, oh, well,
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: if you don't believe in depression, why did your brother
- 1:12:18Speaker 1: kill himself? But it was more like no, he realized
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: that again, sitting in your sadness wasn't going to solve
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: your problem. So when his brother died, he well, I
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: don't know when this happened, but he said, I'm not
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: going to let that happen to me.
- 1:12:35Speaker 3: I'm going to change my life.
- 1:12:37Speaker 1: So when you and if you do that and you
- 1:12:39Speaker 1: come out of it, then it probably makes sense that
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: you would like not believe in depression because you're like, well,
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: I was going through it, but I'm better now. And
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: of course, because she's a psychologist, she needs people to
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: have depression.
- 1:12:51Speaker 3: It validates her job. So let's see what she says.
- 1:12:56Speaker 6: It was just like such.
- 1:12:57Speaker 5: An ironic moment of like, he doesn't believe in depress
- 1:13:00Speaker 5: and yet most likely his brother was struggling with depression.
- 1:13:04Speaker 4: He was struggling with being a man in a feminist society,
- 1:13:08Speaker 4: in a society, and ironically, the end beneficiaries of all
- 1:13:14Speaker 4: of this are the men, mostly men who financialize, who
- 1:13:22Speaker 4: basically get taxpayers to eat their losses while they keep
- 1:13:25Speaker 4: their gains, and they maintain the status quo through the
- 1:13:29Speaker 4: feminist firewall.
- 1:13:31Speaker 5: Right.
- 1:13:31Speaker 4: And this is a little bit difficult to explain, but
- 1:13:34Speaker 4: basically you can't complain about this situation because all complaints
- 1:13:38Speaker 4: have to route through feminism and feminist feminist orthodoxy, which
- 1:13:45Speaker 4: neutralizes all potential complaints. And that's why we now live
- 1:13:49Speaker 4: in a society where CEOs make like six three hundred
- 1:13:52Speaker 4: to six hundred times more than the average worker thanks
- 1:13:55Speaker 4: to women like this giving them that firewall. And again,
- 1:14:00Speaker 4: this isn't just this isn't a complaint about business. This
- 1:14:03Speaker 4: is a complaint about business and government and bed together,
- 1:14:06Speaker 4: which is what feminism has constructed.
- 1:14:09Speaker 2: Thank you feminism.
- 1:14:12Speaker 4: And uh yeah, if you're if you're interested in me
- 1:14:14Speaker 4: laying that out, you can join us at Badger Nation
- 1:14:17Speaker 4: dot online and read my Alison thought Allison's thoughts channel
- 1:14:22Speaker 4: where I lay all of this out and explain it.
- 1:14:24Speaker 4: It's a little bit difficult to do it with words
- 1:14:26Speaker 4: while my brain is squirreling all over the place.
- 1:14:29Speaker 2: But anyway, what was you saying?
- 1:14:32Speaker 4: Yeah, his brother is a victim of a feminist society
- 1:14:35Speaker 4: that says that masculinity is worthless. There's there's nothing, there's
- 1:14:40Speaker 4: no benefit to men.
- 1:14:42Speaker 1: Okay, And clearly he didn't see enough feminism. Yeah, clearly,
- 1:14:46Speaker 1: Well that's the problem. That's why he killed himself. It
- 1:14:49Speaker 1: wasn't he didn't do enough feminism, right.
- 1:14:52Speaker 4: The idea that the guy who survived says, I don't
- 1:14:55Speaker 4: believe in depression, and you are saying, well, that's I
- 1:14:59Speaker 4: wrote it. Yeah, but he was the one who survived.
- 1:15:03Speaker 4: Maybe his brother believed in depression. His brother believed that
- 1:15:07Speaker 4: he was instead of having an external force on him,
- 1:15:13Speaker 4: he had an internal problem that the only solution was
- 1:15:17Speaker 4: apparently going to a feminist or a feminist inflected because basically,
- 1:15:23Speaker 4: unless they have their shingle out and they say that
- 1:15:26Speaker 4: they are, you know, pro male in some way, they
- 1:15:29Speaker 4: likely are informed by the American Psychology Association's guidelines on
- 1:15:34Speaker 4: treating men, which is basically, men are a problem that
- 1:15:36Speaker 4: needs to be fixed, and masculinity is a precursor to
- 1:15:41Speaker 4: mental health issues. Like literally it's a precursor. I get
- 1:15:45Speaker 4: men who have masculinity are like they're pre diabetic. They're
- 1:15:49Speaker 4: engaging in the behaviors that are going to make them sick.
- 1:15:52Speaker 4: So you need to stop that like you go to
- 1:15:54Speaker 4: a psychologist as a man, and the psychologist is going
- 1:15:57Speaker 4: to say you need to stop your masculine behaviors before
- 1:16:00Speaker 4: they make you sick. That flows right out, That flows
- 1:16:06Speaker 4: right out of the APA's guidelines on treating men and boys. Right,
- 1:16:11Speaker 4: So you're telling him, Okay, you have a disease, and
- 1:16:13Speaker 4: the solution is to go talk to people who are
- 1:16:15Speaker 4: going to tell you that you need to be fixed.
- 1:16:19Speaker 4: And this dude who survived said, fuck that.
- 1:16:22Speaker 2: No, I don't have a disease.
- 1:16:26Speaker 4: I'm in a society that is targeting me and my
- 1:16:30Speaker 4: mental health and well being, and I'm going to acknowledge
- 1:16:33Speaker 4: that and I'm going to fight against it.
- 1:16:36Speaker 2: And he survived.
- 1:16:38Speaker 4: And now you're saying, oh, isn't that ironic that he
- 1:16:41Speaker 4: avoided the poison that killed his brother.
- 1:16:44Speaker 2: I don't think that's I don't think you understand the word.
- 1:16:47Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's keep going.
- 1:16:51Speaker 5: Or men who have been socialized to not care about
- 1:16:53Speaker 5: feelings to better understand mental health struggles. But if we
- 1:16:57Speaker 5: only use like acceptable forms of motive or like certain
- 1:17:01Speaker 5: language that doesn't appeal to them, we're just going to
- 1:17:03Speaker 5: push them away and they're never going to learn about
- 1:17:06Speaker 5: mental struggles. It's ad because these guys, they seem like
- 1:17:09Speaker 5: nice guys and they were talking about a matrix without
- 1:17:11Speaker 5: realizing that they're actually the ones being pulled into.
- 1:17:13Speaker 6: One asked you the question of like, wow.
- 1:17:18Speaker 1: I'm not in the blue pill world. You're in the
- 1:17:20Speaker 1: blue pilled world. Should you should just come back over
- 1:17:26Speaker 1: here where we respect women and just do that until
- 1:17:29Speaker 1: it kills you. That's the way it should be.
- 1:17:31Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:17:32Speaker 4: And the funny thing is respect women actually means we're
- 1:17:35Speaker 4: going to expect way more from men, right, But men
- 1:17:39Speaker 4: can't acknowledge the fact that more is expected of them,
- 1:17:45Speaker 4: and we can't acknowledge that, and we what we're going
- 1:17:48Speaker 4: to do is we're going to expect way more from men,
- 1:17:50Speaker 4: and we're going to pretend like women are making the sacrifices.
- 1:17:54Speaker 4: And then when that kills men, it kills them. That
- 1:17:59Speaker 4: the sheer amount of mental pressure that puts on men kills.
- 1:18:03Speaker 2: Some of them.
- 1:18:04Speaker 4: The guys who are like, no, I don't I don't
- 1:18:06Speaker 4: want any part of that, Like I'm gonna I'm not gonna,
- 1:18:08Speaker 4: I'm not gonna take part in that. I'm gonna walk
- 1:18:10Speaker 4: away from that. Those are the ones, I guess she's saying,
- 1:18:15Speaker 4: go back, come back to the matrix.
- 1:18:17Speaker 1: No, don't well no, she's saying, they're always talking about
- 1:18:20Speaker 1: the matrix, but they're the ones in the matrix. And
- 1:18:23Speaker 1: it's like, I mean, do you do you even try
- 1:18:26Speaker 1: to learn what that what that meant?
- 1:18:29Speaker 3: You know what? What I think? What bothers me.
- 1:18:31Speaker 1: The most about this woman's reply to this video, to
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: to the documentary is it seems like she watched the
- 1:18:38Speaker 1: documentary and that was that, that was her source for
- 1:18:42Speaker 1: everything she was gonna say. So she didn't look into
- 1:18:44Speaker 1: any of the claims that Luis Thereaux made. She didn't
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: look into any of these people's, like, you know, what
- 1:18:50Speaker 1: their side of the story is. She just took the
- 1:18:53Speaker 1: documentary as gospel and then said this is the reality,
- 1:18:57Speaker 1: and I'm gonna respond to this and I'm gonna give
- 1:19:00Speaker 1: my high minded opinion about like how things should be
- 1:19:03Speaker 1: based on Louis Therou's carefully edited, you know documentary. And
- 1:19:08Speaker 1: also later in the video, she admits that he's a
- 1:19:11Speaker 1: gotcha journalist. She admits that she says, this is what
- 1:19:16Speaker 1: he does, and also sort of says, and it's weird
- 1:19:18Speaker 1: they don't trust him. It's like, yeah, but that's what
- 1:19:21Speaker 1: he does. You just said that, and then and you're
- 1:19:24Speaker 1: taking what he did as a known gotcha journalist whose
- 1:19:28Speaker 1: job it is is essentially do to create the most
- 1:19:32Speaker 1: inflammatory version of reality, and you're.
- 1:19:35Speaker 3: Responding to it like it's just reality.
- 1:19:37Speaker 1: Mm hmm, like it's wild because you're you know anyway,
- 1:19:44Speaker 1: so like this is this is her.
- 1:19:47Speaker 3: She just doesn't what go ahead?
- 1:19:49Speaker 4: I'm sorry, Well, I mean it's like, okay, you got
- 1:19:51Speaker 4: two brothers, one died, one didn't, and the one that
- 1:19:55Speaker 4: didn't interacted with the menosphere. And she's not taking any
- 1:19:57Speaker 4: lesson from that, No lesson, no lesson to be had there.
- 1:20:04Speaker 2: We're going to ignore that.
- 1:20:05Speaker 1: We're gonna be like, no, there's no le no again.
- 1:20:07Speaker 1: And you're a psychologist, right, okay, let's work with people.
- 1:20:12Speaker 1: You work with people.
- 1:20:13Speaker 3: She doesn't.
- 1:20:14Speaker 1: I don't think she does it anymore. Somebody in the
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: chat said that she quit after a year, decided to
- 1:20:18Speaker 1: become a writer. But she gets to put doctor next
- 1:20:21Speaker 1: to her name, so you know.
- 1:20:23Speaker 4: Okay, so this this book, she decided to become a writer.
- 1:20:32Speaker 4: Her book is not very successful.
- 1:20:38Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe the channel is to sell the book.
- 1:20:40Speaker 4: Yeah, well, even so she's got six thousand subscribers, and
- 1:20:46Speaker 4: apparently she has one hundred and seventeen ratings on her
- 1:20:51Speaker 4: book after ten months out. I don't know how she
- 1:20:56Speaker 4: managed that. How do you manage to have six hundred
- 1:21:01Speaker 4: thousand subscribers? And you know, if she got one hundred
- 1:21:05Speaker 4: and seventeen ratings, probably a couple hundred people bought her book.
- 1:21:11Speaker 2: How do you? How do you fail that badly?
- 1:21:17Speaker 4: I mean, if she had like a subscriber's like two
- 1:21:21Speaker 4: thousand subscribers, it might make sense. But don't you think
- 1:21:25Speaker 4: that even her subscribe like, even if like one percent
- 1:21:30Speaker 4: of her subscribers went and bought her book, that would
- 1:21:33Speaker 4: be like six thousand people. And it's obvious that that
- 1:21:36Speaker 4: didn't happen. So doesn't sound like being a writer was
- 1:21:41Speaker 4: a good idea.
- 1:21:44Speaker 1: I mean, I'd rather she writes books nobody buys than
- 1:21:47Speaker 1: like work with people, like in the mental health field.
- 1:21:50Speaker 1: She might drive more people to suicide and then blame
- 1:21:53Speaker 1: their brothers for surviving because they didn't go to her
- 1:21:56Speaker 1: fucking therapy sessions. Okay, anyway, there.
- 1:22:00Speaker 2: Anything further in this or how much more of you?
- 1:22:02Speaker 8: Yeah?
- 1:22:03Speaker 1: There is? There is bullshit?
- 1:22:05Speaker 2: Do we have to Okay?
- 1:22:06Speaker 5: I do so many guys these days struggle to find
- 1:22:09Speaker 5: role models.
- 1:22:10Speaker 6: I have a few theories.
- 1:22:11Speaker 5: One is, of course, high rates of abandonment by fathers.
- 1:22:14Speaker 5: And I don't think that this needs to be a
- 1:22:16Speaker 5: discussion about single mothers are.
- 1:22:18Speaker 4: Talking about high rate of abandonment by fathers, you know,
- 1:22:23Speaker 4: the one single way to increase father involvement after divorce,
- 1:22:28Speaker 4: shared custody. What does that suggest if it was a
- 1:22:32Speaker 4: high rate of male abandonment, that wouldn't.
- 1:22:35Speaker 2: Have moved the needle.
- 1:22:36Speaker 4: Forcing women to allow their children to continue to have
- 1:22:40Speaker 4: their lives, their fathers in their lives legally reversed this
- 1:22:45Speaker 4: abandonment by fathers. That so she's just gonna blame men, right, Okay, yep,
- 1:22:55Speaker 4: I'm gonna.
- 1:22:55Speaker 3: Get that's it.
- 1:22:56Speaker 1: She just I mean, there's more to this clip, but
- 1:22:59Speaker 1: in terms of like the fatherlessness thing, it just becomes
- 1:23:03Speaker 1: it's just abandonment, Like fathers are just abandoning their kids
- 1:23:06Speaker 1: all over the place.
- 1:23:07Speaker 2: That doesn't bear out.
- 1:23:10Speaker 1: Though it does not know it really, but again she
- 1:23:13Speaker 1: does her research, Alison. It says right on her website
- 1:23:16Speaker 1: she's she's like fact based. I don't find it's a
- 1:23:19Speaker 1: fact because she got it from like the fucking feminist
- 1:23:23Speaker 1: studies or something.
- 1:23:24Speaker 4: I'm finding my prediction that she has a cold black heart.
- 1:23:26Speaker 2: To be panning out. Okay, No, if.
- 1:23:32Speaker 4: There was men abandoning their children, then it wouldn't be
- 1:23:34Speaker 4: fixed by giving them access to their children, which is
- 1:23:38Speaker 4: literally what fixes it.
- 1:23:41Speaker 2: So yeah, you're full of shit.
- 1:23:42Speaker 4: You just want to blame men because you think that
- 1:23:44Speaker 4: they are a project that needs to be fixed, which
- 1:23:49Speaker 4: is sick. Okay, let's keep going.
- 1:23:53Speaker 2: Does she redeem herself.
- 1:23:54Speaker 5: Abandonment because while boy moms certainly can cause a lot
- 1:23:58Speaker 5: of harm, at least they stuck around. I think it's
- 1:24:00Speaker 5: really fucked up the way that this conversation all women
- 1:24:04Speaker 5: who have sons.
- 1:24:07Speaker 2: What a delusional bitch?
- 1:24:10Speaker 3: Did you guys catch that she said?
- 1:24:13Speaker 1: Okay, there can be a problem with boy moms, but
- 1:24:17Speaker 1: at least they stuck around. So again, this operates under
- 1:24:21Speaker 1: the presumption that when women are involved with their offspring,
- 1:24:26Speaker 1: it's because they are choosing to stick around, like it's
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: a noble act of self sacrifice. When men are not
- 1:24:33Speaker 1: able to access or they're not with their offspring, it's
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: because they're abandoning them. And and that's that's that's the
- 1:24:40Speaker 1: way that she's paying this picture now. And this is,
- 1:24:43Speaker 1: by the way, this is assuming that the children these
- 1:24:46Speaker 1: with these single moms have live to become babies, Like,
- 1:24:52Speaker 1: how many of them are aborted before that even happens.
- 1:24:55Speaker 1: We've already gone over the numbers. More babies have been
- 1:24:58Speaker 1: aborted than men have died in wars all through history.
- 1:25:01Speaker 1: But also what about what about even if you're like
- 1:25:05Speaker 1: one of these, you know, if you'l like pro choice
- 1:25:07Speaker 1: or whatever, which is fine, that's your business. What about
- 1:25:09Speaker 1: the ones that just get like thrown in a dumpster?
- 1:25:12Speaker 1: What about the ones that women intentionally keep away from
- 1:25:15Speaker 1: their fathers, even if the fathers want to raise those
- 1:25:17Speaker 1: children because they know they can get child support from
- 1:25:20Speaker 1: those men. What about the ones that are born of
- 1:25:23Speaker 1: like oh, I don't know a woman who raped the
- 1:25:24Speaker 1: child and then made him pay child support. Well, none
- 1:25:28Speaker 1: of that other stuff matters, right, And of course, even
- 1:25:31Speaker 1: if the woman is absolutely insane and abuses her child,
- 1:25:35Speaker 1: because a lot of them do, she'll be like, oh, no,
- 1:25:37Speaker 1: that's it's but they're they're sticking around though. At least
- 1:25:40Speaker 1: they're there to beat their sons every day. At least
- 1:25:43Speaker 1: they're there for that.
- 1:25:44Speaker 4: You know, she's actually calling out boy moms specifically a
- 1:25:48Speaker 4: subcategory of moms that advocate for their sons.
- 1:25:52Speaker 2: Did you not know that?
- 1:25:54Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 1:25:55Speaker 1: So's I think she means to say like devouring mothers
- 1:25:59Speaker 1: kind of like like I mean she if I'm being charitable.
- 1:26:03Speaker 1: I think she means to say that, But she's using
- 1:26:05Speaker 1: the wrong terminology because she's trying to say, well, there
- 1:26:09Speaker 1: are some cases where there are single moms who are
- 1:26:12Speaker 1: you know, not healthy for their sons.
- 1:26:15Speaker 3: Okay, so the purpose of that statement is to draw attention.
- 1:26:18Speaker 1: To like the the the over overall good that women
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: are doing by sticking around, right, as if women have
- 1:26:26Speaker 1: much of a choice once they have a child. But yeah,
- 1:26:30Speaker 1: but anyway, I think it's just like she's using incorrect words.
- 1:26:35Speaker 4: But okay, well, god damn, I was hoping that we
- 1:26:39Speaker 4: get this done quickly.
- 1:26:40Speaker 1: No, I know, but this is the this is the
- 1:26:42Speaker 1: juicy part, because we're gonna learn about how we we
- 1:26:46Speaker 1: can't be blaming. We got to stop blaming single moms,
- 1:26:49Speaker 1: so let's let's keep going.
- 1:26:51Speaker 5: It's often framed as like blaming the woman who actually
- 1:26:54Speaker 5: stood behind to look after her children. If a child
- 1:26:57Speaker 5: is born and they know that like they had a
- 1:26:59Speaker 5: same sex parent so like a boy has a dad somewhere.
- 1:27:02Speaker 6: And he knows that that dad wants nothing to do
- 1:27:05Speaker 6: with him.
- 1:27:05Speaker 5: Because a lot of socialization tends to come from the
- 1:27:08Speaker 5: same sex parent, particularly as it concerns like how to
- 1:27:11Speaker 5: express your gender and so forth, it's understandable that they're
- 1:27:14Speaker 5: going to feel some sort of inner conflict about the
- 1:27:17Speaker 5: fact that their same sex parent wants nothing.
- 1:27:19Speaker 6: To do with them.
- 1:27:19Speaker 5: Think about the worthlessness that a boy would probably feel
- 1:27:22Speaker 5: if he knows he has a dad out there who wanted.
- 1:27:24Speaker 6: Nothing to do with him.
- 1:27:25Speaker 5: So then when these guys were saying, you know, you
- 1:27:27Speaker 5: have no worth as a man, women are born with value.
- 1:27:29Speaker 5: Men are not literally feeding them their unconscious beliefs about themselves,
- 1:27:33Speaker 5: and that's what draws them in.
- 1:27:35Speaker 6: I think that's okay.
- 1:27:36Speaker 2: So it's.
- 1:27:39Speaker 4: And it's not men who would have a relationship with
- 1:27:44Speaker 4: their children if it was legally protected, as we have
- 1:27:48Speaker 4: seen in those states that have enacted shared shared parenting. Right,
- 1:27:53Speaker 4: it is not men walking walking away. If it was
- 1:27:56Speaker 4: men walking away, states that enact legal shared parenting wouldn't
- 1:28:00Speaker 4: increases in the amount of time that men spend with
- 1:28:03Speaker 4: their children. So on the face, this is factually inaccurate.
- 1:28:08Speaker 4: But even if it was so, it's not feminists telling
- 1:28:11Speaker 4: young men that their masculinity is worthless and also that
- 1:28:15Speaker 4: men aren't worth anything as fathers, which is why we
- 1:28:18Speaker 4: have the fatherless name moodlessness rate in the first place.
- 1:28:23Speaker 4: It is the abandonment by their fathers. Okay, fine, for
- 1:28:28Speaker 4: the sake of argument, let's say the entire problem is
- 1:28:32Speaker 4: boys being abandoned by their fathers.
- 1:28:33Speaker 2: What's her solution?
- 1:28:37Speaker 3: Stop shaming single mod oh. I know she is going
- 1:28:39Speaker 3: to get to something like that.
- 1:28:41Speaker 5: Okay, from say like a woman choosing to have a
- 1:28:45Speaker 5: child on her own with IVF and that child doesn't
- 1:28:47Speaker 5: have a father figure, or like two women deciding to
- 1:28:50Speaker 5: have a child together because in that situation there's no
- 1:28:53Speaker 5: parent that exists out there that wanted nothing to do
- 1:28:55Speaker 5: with them. Okay, something very painful.
- 1:28:58Speaker 1: She's jumping into, like weird hypotheticals, but go ahead.
- 1:29:02Speaker 4: But also, a woman who has gets pregnant by a
- 1:29:06Speaker 4: man who has seven baby baby mamas is basically doing
- 1:29:11Speaker 4: the same thing. Let's be honest, Like, if your baby
- 1:29:15Speaker 4: mama number two, you're basically doing the same thing. You're
- 1:29:20Speaker 4: choosing single motherhood.
- 1:29:23Speaker 1: Women have basically like all the control over whether or
- 1:29:27Speaker 1: not a child comes into the world.
- 1:29:29Speaker 3: Women have all the.
- 1:29:30Speaker 2: Control of them, but they can't be held responsible.
- 1:29:32Speaker 3: Brian, Yeah, so like.
- 1:29:34Speaker 1: You can't you, but all you can do is blame
- 1:29:36Speaker 1: the men. And it's like, well, I mean, I don't
- 1:29:41Speaker 1: even know what to say about that. Like women have
- 1:29:44Speaker 1: all the birth control, they have abortion, they have a child,
- 1:29:48Speaker 1: they can like, you know, put them in a fire
- 1:29:50Speaker 1: department house or something. They can take them to a nunnery,
- 1:29:53Speaker 1: they can put them up for adoption, they can put
- 1:29:56Speaker 1: them in a foster home. They can you know, they
- 1:29:58Speaker 1: can keep them, they can help have their parents help
- 1:30:01Speaker 1: raise them. They have every all of the options women have.
- 1:30:04Speaker 1: The men have none, basically none, Okay. And this is
- 1:30:11Speaker 1: also like let's say a man wants a child, he
- 1:30:14Speaker 1: still doesn't have any say she can just get it
- 1:30:16Speaker 1: aboarded or give it away. She probably can't give it away,
- 1:30:19Speaker 1: but she can get it aboarded, and so like, at
- 1:30:23Speaker 1: the end of the day, women are the ones making
- 1:30:24Speaker 1: these choices because they've always had the power to do that,
- 1:30:27Speaker 1: and she can't even acknowledge that. All she can do
- 1:30:29Speaker 1: is say, well, men are just abandoning their kids. And
- 1:30:31Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I don't think that's happening, But if
- 1:30:33Speaker 1: it is, it's still the woman's fault because she's sleeping
- 1:30:37Speaker 1: with men that don't want to stick around. She has
- 1:30:40Speaker 1: the choice, she can use protection, she gives birth control,
- 1:30:43Speaker 1: she does all kinds of options. If she's not choosing
- 1:30:46Speaker 1: those options, she is the one screwing it up.
- 1:30:49Speaker 4: And when you give men the choice, they stay and
- 1:30:52Speaker 4: they want to be with their kids. So yeah, she
- 1:30:54Speaker 4: is wrong from every But here's the thing. She says
- 1:30:58Speaker 4: she wants to help men or give them a role model,
- 1:31:01Speaker 4: which they don't think men need, they need the boot
- 1:31:03Speaker 4: off their back. But at the same time she doesn't
- 1:31:06Speaker 4: want to Her big thing is she doesn't want women
- 1:31:09Speaker 4: to be blamed, like that's more important than actually helping men. Well,
- 1:31:14Speaker 4: you won't get help from women who think it's more
- 1:31:16Speaker 4: important not to blame men than to help with men,
- 1:31:19Speaker 4: not to blame women than to help men.
- 1:31:22Speaker 2: Okay, I guess all.
- 1:31:25Speaker 3: Right, there's a little bit more though.
- 1:31:27Speaker 1: There is more about knowing.
- 1:31:28Speaker 5: That there's a parent out there that doesn't want to
- 1:31:30Speaker 5: be involved in your life, that doesn't really care about you,
- 1:31:33Speaker 5: especially if society so strongly values socialization being passed down
- 1:31:38Speaker 5: by the same sex parent, and that is I think.
- 1:31:40Speaker 1: Wait, society value socialization being passed down.
- 1:31:44Speaker 3: This is another one that's external.
- 1:31:46Speaker 1: Speaking of locus of control, society does not create male psychology.
- 1:31:54Speaker 1: This is why you should not be anywhere near a
- 1:31:56Speaker 1: fucking keep writing your books, please, you're dan.
- 1:32:01Speaker 3: To men.
- 1:32:03Speaker 5: Part of the problem is our constant over emphasis on
- 1:32:06Speaker 5: gender roles. Women provide this for children, men provide that
- 1:32:09Speaker 5: for children. Of course, there are trends where like dads
- 1:32:12Speaker 5: tend to be more playful and like rough house with children,
- 1:32:15Speaker 5: moms tend to be more like nurtured. Nobody, yes, we
- 1:32:19Speaker 5: know that that is the case.
- 1:32:20Speaker 3: Nobody enforces it.
- 1:32:21Speaker 2: Nobody enforces this.
- 1:32:23Speaker 4: The roles that are enforced are the ones with budgets
- 1:32:27Speaker 4: and government programs and NGOs with significant funding. And those
- 1:32:33Speaker 4: roles are women are victims and men victimize them, and
- 1:32:38Speaker 4: they also victimize their children, and they should not be
- 1:32:41Speaker 4: in the home, and they also shouldn't have jobs.
- 1:32:44Speaker 2: Those are the roles.
- 1:32:46Speaker 4: The role that our society enforces based on what our
- 1:32:50Speaker 4: society chooses to pay for.
- 1:32:53Speaker 2: And this is the role.
- 1:32:56Speaker 4: Women should not be imposed upon. Men should get the
- 1:33:04Speaker 4: fuck out. Those are our roles in our society, but
- 1:33:09Speaker 4: also pay for everything, but not expect a relationship with
- 1:33:14Speaker 4: a woman. They should just pay for everything because they're
- 1:33:19Speaker 4: so worthless. These are the roles that are being enforced
- 1:33:23Speaker 4: on men and women. These are the roles that we
- 1:33:25Speaker 4: There is a budget, there's a budget line somewhere for right.
- 1:33:30Speaker 4: I'm a little bit exaggerating, but if you actually look
- 1:33:33Speaker 4: at feminist conjecture, it's not that far off.
- 1:33:36Speaker 2: Feminist conjecture, which are.
- 1:33:38Speaker 4: The roles that are being forced on society, which is
- 1:33:40Speaker 4: the roles that are being paid for that someone is
- 1:33:43Speaker 4: paying to promote in academia, in schools, in government programs,
- 1:33:52Speaker 4: all over the place. Somebody is paying to promote these roles.
- 1:33:55Speaker 4: And right out of the actual text is men, you
- 1:34:00Speaker 4: use rape and beatings to subjugate women for their own benefit,
- 1:34:05Speaker 4: and women are victims of men. These are the roles
- 1:34:08Speaker 4: our society enforces, they don't enforce. Men are playful and
- 1:34:13Speaker 4: women are nurturing. That's another era of wholesome wholesomeness that
- 1:34:21Speaker 4: we are no longer a part of. Nor do I
- 1:34:25Speaker 4: find it remarkable, but this individual has a problem with
- 1:34:29Speaker 4: gender roles that comprise of men are playful towards their children,
- 1:34:34Speaker 4: and women are nurturing towards their children. Oh my god,
- 1:34:38Speaker 4: stop the presses. This is some demonic shit. And she
- 1:34:42Speaker 4: is okay and to ord is completely indifferent to men
- 1:34:46Speaker 4: use rape and beatings to subjugate their wives and children
- 1:34:49Speaker 4: for their own benefit, and women are victims of men.
- 1:34:52Speaker 2: That's okay.
- 1:34:54Speaker 4: That and also doesn't seem to acknowledge that men are playful,
- 1:34:58Speaker 4: women are nurturing, has no government budget.
- 1:35:02Speaker 2: Behind it, no enng O promoting it.
- 1:35:05Speaker 4: It's not taught in academia, it's not taught to your children.
- 1:35:09Speaker 2: It's nowhere, right.
- 1:35:11Speaker 4: But the other one, that's fucking everywhere. It's ubiquitous, like
- 1:35:17Speaker 4: it's it's screamed from every pulpit, and he has a
- 1:35:22Speaker 4: huge amount of funding. But that's and again I'll reiterate demonic.
- 1:35:31Speaker 2: Men are playful, women are nurturing.
- 1:35:34Speaker 4: That's some demonic shit right there. Oh, but it's okay
- 1:35:38Speaker 4: to say that men use rape and domestic violence to
- 1:35:41Speaker 4: subjugate women and children, and women are victims of men.
- 1:35:44Speaker 1: That's that's stuff like enlightened.
- 1:35:49Speaker 4: That's enlightened. I she may not even know how black
- 1:35:54Speaker 4: and cold like her heart is. She thinks it's she
- 1:35:57Speaker 4: thinks it's warm and plush.
- 1:36:00Speaker 1: I got a Oh I had a superchow and it
- 1:36:02Speaker 1: didn't come through, but I want to I want to
- 1:36:04Speaker 1: read it. Richard Pierre sent us five dollars super chowd
- 1:36:07Speaker 1: thank you Richard, and says, what do you call it
- 1:36:09Speaker 1: when a man ejaculates in a woman a loading the dishwasher?
- 1:36:14Speaker 3: Uh, that was crass.
- 1:36:16Speaker 1: Nova Fan gives us a dollar and says, just imagine
- 1:36:19Speaker 1: how much higher men's and boys mental health would be
- 1:36:21Speaker 1: if women stop shaming quote unquote toxic masculinity. I like,
- 1:36:25Speaker 1: you wrote quote unquote and then put quotes around toxic masculinity,
- 1:36:29Speaker 1: so I would have to say shaming quote unquote quote
- 1:36:33Speaker 1: toxic masculinity unquote ellipses because you put dots after that.
- 1:36:38Speaker 1: But anyway, last thing I'm with this was the last
- 1:36:42Speaker 1: sound by Oh. I got another super chat from Senior
- 1:36:45Speaker 1: Sticks for two dollars, Thank you Senior Sticks, and says,
- 1:36:48Speaker 1: many women want the bear just let nature win. Uh,
- 1:36:52Speaker 1: they don't really want it.
- 1:36:53Speaker 3: It's a shit test, I think. But yeah, uh okay.
- 1:36:58Speaker 5: But ultimately anyone can do any of these. You don't
- 1:37:00Speaker 5: have to like fit a certain archetype of parenthood based
- 1:37:03Speaker 5: on your gender, and I think part of the problem
- 1:37:05Speaker 5: is framing these men's need for a role model as
- 1:37:09Speaker 5: needing a.
- 1:37:10Speaker 6: Male role model.
- 1:37:12Speaker 5: What do you ultimately need as a child is role
- 1:37:14Speaker 5: models period.
- 1:37:16Speaker 6: Doesn't matter what gender they have. What matters is why.
- 1:37:20Speaker 2: The manosphere when they have women.
- 1:37:30Speaker 4: To explain to them that they emote wrong. They really
- 1:37:36Speaker 4: don't need relationships with other men. And also, it's their
- 1:37:40Speaker 4: fathers leaving them that that's the problem, not their mothers
- 1:37:44Speaker 4: leaving their fathers. I mean, surely, surely the warm embrace
- 1:37:49Speaker 4: of this woman's wisdom will lead you to the light.
- 1:37:54Speaker 1: My dudes, God, damn it takes a that's what she
- 1:38:01Speaker 1: lands on in terms of raising boys, and that we
- 1:38:04Speaker 1: shouldn't accept that boys can get anything out of men,
- 1:38:11Speaker 1: especially their fathers, because we could they're leaving you anyway.
- 1:38:15Speaker 1: Your father doesn't want to be around you, he hates
- 1:38:18Speaker 1: your guts, come to us. That's her, That's what she's
- 1:38:22Speaker 1: landing on. You know what, Maybe father shouldn't raise their kids. Well,
- 1:38:26Speaker 1: we're already working on that right now. We've been doing
- 1:38:28Speaker 1: that for a couple of generations. How's that working out?
- 1:38:31Speaker 1: Why don't we ask black people, Hey, black people, how
- 1:38:34Speaker 1: are you guys doing now that you've had like three
- 1:38:36Speaker 1: generations without fathers, how's that going?
- 1:38:38Speaker 3: Is it going? Well?
- 1:38:40Speaker 1: Oh, you haven't feministed hard enough though. That's probably what
- 1:38:43Speaker 1: it is. You needed to listen to the BLM Pledge
- 1:38:46Speaker 1: where they said, we we eliminate the need for the
- 1:38:49Speaker 1: nuclear family, the patriarchal family unit. We should be raising
- 1:38:53Speaker 1: kids with whoever's around. It should just take everybody except men.
- 1:38:57Speaker 1: We should We don't want men doing it, but everybody
- 1:38:59Speaker 1: else it's working out.
- 1:39:00Speaker 3: That's just fine. That's what she's landing on doctrine this person.
- 1:39:07Speaker 3: That's what I mean.
- 1:39:08Speaker 1: Like, she went to school, she failed every saving throw
- 1:39:11Speaker 1: against fucking commie brainwashing, and now she's got a YouTube
- 1:39:15Speaker 1: channel because she can't write or do psychology.
- 1:39:20Speaker 2: But on the other.
- 1:39:20Speaker 4: Hand, couldn't she couldn't leverage six hundred thousand subscribers into
- 1:39:29Speaker 4: more than a couple hundred actual purchases. That's remarkable, Like
- 1:39:34Speaker 4: how bad is this novel? Yeah?
- 1:39:41Speaker 1: I got another super chat from Zaraanks. He gives us
- 1:39:43Speaker 1: five dollars and says, imagine the assertions about how we
- 1:39:46Speaker 1: control women and children. And these ideologues still claim that
- 1:39:49Speaker 1: their ideology doesn't speak against marriage.
- 1:39:52Speaker 3: Well absolutely does. Okay, this is basically.
- 1:39:55Speaker 1: Her final point that I'm playing right now, so we can, like,
- 1:39:59Speaker 1: you know, wrap it up after this is.
- 1:40:01Speaker 5: An uncle who cares about you, an older kid at
- 1:40:03Speaker 5: school who feels like you're a younger version of them.
- 1:40:06Speaker 5: The problem is that a lot of these boys are
- 1:40:08Speaker 5: socialized into never really wanting to see a woman as
- 1:40:11Speaker 5: a role model because they're taught to not value women
- 1:40:14Speaker 5: as anything but a sex object. And so even if
- 1:40:17Speaker 5: there are maybe opportunities of women in their lives who
- 1:40:19Speaker 5: could be role models for them, we reject that because.
- 1:40:26Speaker 4: What so now we have men don't know how to
- 1:40:30Speaker 4: feel right. Men's or boy's sense of valueist listeness comes
- 1:40:37Speaker 4: from men abandoning them.
- 1:40:40Speaker 2: Men don't need male role models.
- 1:40:42Speaker 4: In fact, the problem is that boys need male role
- 1:40:45Speaker 4: models at all. So she is essentially saying that there
- 1:40:51Speaker 4: is no legitimacy to men.
- 1:40:54Speaker 2: This is what is this shit? I'm just I am.
- 1:41:05Speaker 4: I'm astounded at how nasty this human being is. And
- 1:41:10Speaker 4: she probably doesn't even realize that she is unspeakably cruel.
- 1:41:18Speaker 2: She's saying to.
- 1:41:21Speaker 4: A creature that has evolved and has persisted for hundreds
- 1:41:27Speaker 4: of millions of years, that it is illegitimate, It is
- 1:41:30Speaker 4: an illegitimate being, and that men's desires, men's feelings are illegitimate.
- 1:41:37Speaker 4: They have no place to stand and any one of
- 1:41:40Speaker 4: their needs if they have a need for a male
- 1:41:42Speaker 4: role model to understand who they are as a man,
- 1:41:46Speaker 4: to understand why women like this put expectations on them
- 1:41:50Speaker 4: to be emotionally tough while screeching at them to emote
- 1:41:55Speaker 4: like a woman. Right, if they want to understand all
- 1:41:58Speaker 4: of this, what's wrong is the desire. She is a
- 1:42:03Speaker 4: She is a female chauvinist. She thinks that the only
- 1:42:09Speaker 4: thing that properly exists exists in the world is the
- 1:42:12Speaker 4: what is women and how women do?
- 1:42:20Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 1:42:22Speaker 2: All right, listen, all.
- 1:42:23Speaker 1: Right, sneeze, Okay, I think that's it. I mean.
- 1:42:29Speaker 3: That, yeah, that's basically it.
- 1:42:30Speaker 1: I mean, there's a bit about toxic masculinity, but I
- 1:42:32Speaker 1: feel like we've no let's let's.
- 1:42:35Speaker 2: Let's hear the toxic masculine.
- 1:42:36Speaker 4: I don't know how this could so basically, men of
- 1:42:39Speaker 4: the problem of boys and men feeling worthless is not
- 1:42:43Speaker 4: because feminists say that they're worthless. Like literally, boys and
- 1:42:46Speaker 4: men are worthless. They might they may hold out some
- 1:42:50Speaker 4: worth if they reject their masculinity, right, but not if
- 1:42:55Speaker 4: they have it, because that's toxic. And then also their
- 1:42:58Speaker 4: desire for male roma is wrong and they don't emote right.
- 1:43:02Speaker 4: They need to emote like women. Okay, what else, Let's
- 1:43:05Speaker 4: let's do the trifecta. What does she say about talking
- 1:43:08Speaker 4: to people are just kind of.
- 1:43:09Speaker 5: Looking out for themselves in their own Like a severely
- 1:43:11Speaker 5: underpaid teacher is not going to go above and beyond
- 1:43:14Speaker 5: to mentor son to play catch after a twelve level,
- 1:43:18Speaker 5: or they're just doing the bare mint.
- 1:43:20Speaker 2: Teachers need more money.
- 1:43:21Speaker 1: Okay, No, she's saying, yeah, yeah, teachers need more money.
- 1:43:26Speaker 1: She was trying to blame like the economy on like
- 1:43:29Speaker 1: the fact that there aren't enough people getting involved with
- 1:43:32Speaker 1: raising other people's kids something like that.
- 1:43:35Speaker 3: But it's so stupid. I'm not going to get into
- 1:43:38Speaker 3: that because.
- 1:43:38Speaker 1: She just she probably thinks that we live in a
- 1:43:40Speaker 1: world where the you know, free shit is out there,
- 1:43:41Speaker 1: you just got to grab it.
- 1:43:43Speaker 3: Okay.
- 1:43:44Speaker 5: Is bad actors profit off of straw manning feminism. They
- 1:43:48Speaker 5: speak ill of things that feminists fought for, like women's
- 1:43:51Speaker 5: right to vote, women's right to open a bank account,
- 1:43:54Speaker 5: no fault divorce. They take a term like toxic masculinity.
- 1:43:57Speaker 4: You thought, why is it that feminist spot for no
- 1:44:01Speaker 4: default divorce if men also wanted to get divorced, like
- 1:44:07Speaker 4: if men just wanted to walk away from their families.
- 1:44:10Speaker 3: Oh but but Alison, women being married with children is
- 1:44:13Speaker 3: basically a prison, so men couldn't possibly want divorces that
- 1:44:18Speaker 3: just didn't happen.
- 1:44:19Speaker 2: She's a radical feminist. Mm hmm.
- 1:44:23Speaker 1: But she sounds really nice though she's trying to sound nice.
- 1:44:28Speaker 4: As a radical feminist at war with the very idea
- 1:44:31Speaker 4: that men exist.
- 1:44:33Speaker 2: Right, She can.
- 1:44:34Speaker 4: Tolerate men if you know, if they castrate themselves metaphorically, right,
- 1:44:42Speaker 4: if they agree that there is no inherent maleness that
- 1:44:46Speaker 4: might have value, she can tolerate you. You're still an
- 1:44:49Speaker 4: inferior woman, but you know, you can exist as long
- 1:44:54Speaker 4: as you emote like a woman. You don't want male
- 1:44:57Speaker 4: role models. You agree that the problems that men face
- 1:45:01Speaker 4: are entirely of their own doing. It can't possibly be
- 1:45:05Speaker 4: anything that women have done or feminism Like, okay, so
- 1:45:12Speaker 4: she's she's basically reduced my will to live.
- 1:45:14Speaker 2: But let's let's hear.
- 1:45:15Speaker 1: What I got. I got a super child from Richard
- 1:45:17Speaker 1: Pierre for five dollars. He says, how many women see
- 1:45:20Speaker 1: Harry Bradshaw as their role model and the ideal embodiment
- 1:45:23Speaker 1: of how.
- 1:45:23Speaker 3: Life should be lived. Do you get that reference?
- 1:45:29Speaker 2: Carry Bradshaw?
- 1:45:30Speaker 1: I heard the name before, but honestly, Sex.
- 1:45:33Speaker 4: In the City is now more wholesome than for this woman.
- 1:45:37Speaker 3: Oh is that who that is?
- 1:45:38Speaker 4: Yeah? I'm pretty Carry Bradshaw. Isn't that from Sex and
- 1:45:41Speaker 4: the City? Comparatively, the Sex and the City is more
- 1:45:44Speaker 4: wholesome because at least it sent up women's foibles a
- 1:45:48Speaker 4: little bit.
- 1:45:50Speaker 3: Women's liberation is the only thing that matters.
- 1:45:53Speaker 1: Zaraanks gives us five dollars and says, but women are
- 1:45:56Speaker 1: the majority of our lives, of our lives, through our
- 1:46:00Speaker 1: formative years and beyond. You mean like they're involved. Yes,
- 1:46:04Speaker 1: guild is a new one. Guild far canile or I
- 1:46:09Speaker 1: hope I'm not Guild of Arcane Law. Sorry, Guild of
- 1:46:12Speaker 1: Arcane Law.
- 1:46:13Speaker 3: Thank you.
- 1:46:14Speaker 1: Gives us a six ninety nine Canadian and says, taught
- 1:46:18Speaker 1: that women are sex objects by who, the fathers who
- 1:46:20Speaker 1: supposedly abandon their children, the female teachers, by society. Don't
- 1:46:25Speaker 1: you understand society when it's bad? When women are affected
- 1:46:29Speaker 1: by bad things, it's the fault of either patriarchy or society.
- 1:46:33Speaker 1: But those are interchangeable terms. But if something good happens,
- 1:46:37Speaker 1: it's because women did it themselves or for the sisterhood
- 1:46:40Speaker 1: did it. So that's how you're supposed to interpret these things.
- 1:46:44Speaker 3: You just have to learn.
- 1:46:45Speaker 1: You haven't read enough books written by feminist scholarship. That's
- 1:46:49Speaker 1: your problem. A guild of arcane law. All right, let's
- 1:46:53Speaker 1: get into the rest of this.
- 1:46:54Speaker 5: There's a particular type of masculinity that society pushes and
- 1:46:58Speaker 5: they straw man it and they say, you know, this
- 1:47:01Speaker 5: means that feminists think all men are toxic. Unfortunately, I
- 1:47:04Speaker 5: do think that a lot of boys.
- 1:47:06Speaker 2: Know what makes people think or know.
- 1:47:09Speaker 4: That feminism thinks that all men are toxic is because
- 1:47:12Speaker 4: they assert that men use rape and domestic violence to
- 1:47:16Speaker 4: maintain patriarchy and benefit to themselves, and that heterosexual relationships
- 1:47:23Speaker 4: are the epicenter of rape and domestic violence and men's
- 1:47:27Speaker 4: subjugation of women. That's why people think that feminism is
- 1:47:32Speaker 4: toxic because of its own academic writings. How is it
- 1:47:39Speaker 4: that they continue to just betra and the fact that
- 1:47:41Speaker 4: of everything you just said, lady, you blamed men for
- 1:47:45Speaker 4: not having fathers, even though men will be in their
- 1:47:49Speaker 4: children's lives if you give them legal access to their children. Right,
- 1:47:54Speaker 4: you blame the way men emotive like men. The way
- 1:47:58Speaker 4: that men do is wrong. And then you blamed uh,
- 1:48:01Speaker 4: men's lack of role models, not on men's lack of
- 1:48:04Speaker 4: role models, but on men and boys wanting male role
- 1:48:07Speaker 4: models in the first place. You we don't need to
- 1:48:11Speaker 4: look any further than your freaking mug for feminist toxicity.
- 1:48:17Speaker 4: You are the toxic feminist. Oh okay, did you did
- 1:48:26Speaker 4: you read.
- 1:48:28Speaker 2: I think uh.
- 1:48:30Speaker 1: Gi Olivarkane lore I read all that.
- 1:48:34Speaker 2: Did you read women or children Assertions?
- 1:48:36Speaker 4: Okay, all right, So when does she say toxic masculinity?
- 1:48:40Speaker 3: She just did.
- 1:48:41Speaker 1: We just we just listened to it, toxic masculinity.
- 1:48:43Speaker 4: And you're telling me there's nothing in the last five minutes.
- 1:48:48Speaker 3: Well, I mean if there is, there's I mean like
- 1:48:52Speaker 3: there's just like that.
- 1:48:53Speaker 1: Basically, it's just this bit about supposed logical fallacies that
- 1:48:57Speaker 1: the manosphere commit when they criticize feminism. Give me a
- 1:49:00Speaker 1: summar role, all right's.
- 1:49:02Speaker 2: No, no summer, Isaac? What okay?
- 1:49:05Speaker 4: Oh, so now we have the I'm defending my ideology.
- 1:49:11Speaker 1: Yeah, so basically this is as usual, right, Like it
- 1:49:15Speaker 1: always comes back to, well, look, the most important thing
- 1:49:17Speaker 1: that has to happen by the end of this video
- 1:49:20Speaker 1: is that we understand that feminism did nothing wrong and
- 1:49:22Speaker 1: it's always good all the time. Yeah, that's basically where
- 1:49:26Speaker 1: we have to land.
- 1:49:27Speaker 3: On this video. That's why, that's why it is towards
- 1:49:29Speaker 3: the end.
- 1:49:30Speaker 4: The problem is that boys want male mentors in the
- 1:49:33Speaker 4: first place.
- 1:49:35Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, the.
- 1:49:36Speaker 4: Problem is that boys have needs. Have boys considered not
- 1:49:40Speaker 4: having needs but also not having emotional needs? Have boys
- 1:49:44Speaker 4: considered not having emotional needs, but also have they considered
- 1:49:47Speaker 4: expressing their.
- 1:49:48Speaker 2: Emotions like girls?
- 1:49:51Speaker 4: Maybe you should start by allowing boys to have emotional
- 1:49:54Speaker 4: needs that you don't define out of existence, lady, before
- 1:49:59Speaker 4: you ask them to rest and recognize their emotions in
- 1:50:02Speaker 4: your presence.
- 1:50:03Speaker 2: Okay, let's all right.
- 1:50:07Speaker 5: And that kind of self fulfilling prophecy can be dangerous,
- 1:50:09Speaker 5: and I think like actual feminists, actual advocates of different kinds,
- 1:50:13Speaker 5: who truly care about the causes they preach and aren't
- 1:50:17Speaker 5: just you know, trying to weaponize these movements. That was
- 1:50:20Speaker 5: never their intention to make boys feel like they're inherently toxic,
- 1:50:23Speaker 5: but unfortunately.
- 1:50:26Speaker 4: Huse men use rape and domestic violence. Men use rape
- 1:50:30Speaker 4: and domestic violence to subjugate women. Heterosexuality is the source
- 1:50:35Speaker 4: of women's subject violent subjugation by men. But they never
- 1:50:42Speaker 4: intended to make you feel bad about being a man.
- 1:50:50Speaker 2: This is okay, I'm done, let's keep going.
- 1:50:54Speaker 1: No, Alison Seems Magazine and Gloria Steinem and Hillary Clinton
- 1:50:59Speaker 1: and Andrea Dwarkin and Julie Bindel and all these other
- 1:51:05Speaker 1: people from the Second Wave, they they weren't feminists. They
- 1:51:08Speaker 1: were they were hijacking the movement. Doctor Anna is the
- 1:51:13Speaker 1: real feminist. She's the only one that really gets it.
- 1:51:16Speaker 1: Not any not Belle Hooks, not none of these, you know,
- 1:51:19Speaker 1: not Angela Davis, like not the weather Underground, those those
- 1:51:24Speaker 1: people that bomb the capital. Feminists don't believe in violence.
- 1:51:28Speaker 1: That's men that do that. They must have gotten hijacked
- 1:51:31Speaker 1: by patriarchy, that's what happened. But this woman is immune
- 1:51:36Speaker 1: to that. She's the perfect feminist. That's why she never
- 1:51:39Speaker 1: does anything wrong.
- 1:51:42Speaker 3: Buy my book.
- 1:51:44Speaker 5: You take this advocacy so so far that they do
- 1:51:47Speaker 5: kind of send the message, hey, like if you're part
- 1:51:49Speaker 5: of this group, like there is something intrinsically bad about you,
- 1:51:52Speaker 5: and I didn't realize how bad it was until I
- 1:51:55Speaker 5: lived in Seattle.
- 1:51:55Speaker 6: For a few years. If you want to, can maybe
- 1:51:57Speaker 6: make a video about that on people.
- 1:51:59Speaker 1: Okay, that's she's saying that there are some bad actors,
- 1:52:02Speaker 1: but they're not real feminists because you know they they
- 1:52:05Speaker 1: have hate in their hearts and I don't.
- 1:52:08Speaker 3: I guess is her argument.
- 1:52:10Speaker 2: You don't have hate in your heart.
- 1:52:11Speaker 4: You just don't think that men have anything legitimate. Ever,
- 1:52:16Speaker 4: they're just not legitimate, like you realize that is hate,
- 1:52:21Speaker 4: That is malice. Like just because you've pre excluded men
- 1:52:28Speaker 4: from being cared about doesn't make it not hateful to
- 1:52:32Speaker 4: treat them this way. And she is treating them this way.
- 1:52:36Speaker 4: She's saying, well, men should emote like women. No, they
- 1:52:39Speaker 4: have their own ways of being that are legitimate and
- 1:52:42Speaker 4: are evolved. Right, Men shouldn't want men, and boys shouldn't
- 1:52:47Speaker 4: want mentors that are men. They should think of her
- 1:52:51Speaker 4: as a mentor. And all that she's ever going to
- 1:52:55Speaker 4: say to men is live up to my expectations. But
- 1:52:58Speaker 4: at the same time, don't ever point out that I
- 1:53:02Speaker 4: expect you to live up to my expectations, because it
- 1:53:05Speaker 4: is you who is imposing on me as a man,
- 1:53:09Speaker 4: And like, how is it that people can't see the demon?
- 1:53:17Speaker 3: I can see it?
- 1:53:19Speaker 1: Get back, get away from me, Satan. Can I just
- 1:53:24Speaker 1: say something that I think? So we've been doing this
- 1:53:28Speaker 1: for a while, not just this show, but like in general,
- 1:53:31Speaker 1: these response videos and these articles and almost all of
- 1:53:35Speaker 1: them ultimately land on trying to make a defense for
- 1:53:38Speaker 1: feminism as an ideology, Like this was originally about basically
- 1:53:45Speaker 1: like disenfranchised men that don't have role models, that are suffering,
- 1:53:51Speaker 1: that are basically doing their best to like live in
- 1:53:55Speaker 1: a world that doesn't really give a shit about them.
- 1:53:57Speaker 1: That's what That's what Louis throu does want to talk about.
- 1:54:01Speaker 1: But he had to to some degree because he wanted
- 1:54:03Speaker 1: to get people emotionally hooked. But ultimately he didn't care either.
- 1:54:07Speaker 1: But like almost every single time, these things go, no
- 1:54:10Speaker 1: matter where they start from, it doesn't matter what it
- 1:54:13Speaker 1: could be about, any topic. It could be about writing,
- 1:54:16Speaker 1: you know, fiction, it could be about like men dying
- 1:54:20Speaker 1: in wars like in the Ukraine or something. But ultimately,
- 1:54:24Speaker 1: no matter what the issue is, especially if it's a
- 1:54:27Speaker 1: men's issue, the article or the video has to come
- 1:54:31Speaker 1: back to this is why feminism is still necessary. And
- 1:54:36Speaker 1: what I think is going on here is that they
- 1:54:39Speaker 1: think that feminism itself is like this magic word that
- 1:54:43Speaker 1: keeps them feeling safe because they're afraid that if that dies,
- 1:54:47Speaker 1: that they're going to be in danger.
- 1:54:49Speaker 3: It's like their protection spell.
- 1:54:51Speaker 1: And I mean, in this woman, I think she's a
- 1:54:53Speaker 1: witch actually, and I'm not saying that as an insult.
- 1:54:56Speaker 1: I mean I think she literally sees herself as a witch,
- 1:55:00Speaker 1: and so she probably thinks words are magic like a
- 1:55:03Speaker 1: which that's involved with psychology that's just terrifying. But anyway,
- 1:55:09Speaker 1: but I think that it's like an invocation because as women,
- 1:55:13Speaker 1: they don't have anything else. They don't have force, they
- 1:55:16Speaker 1: don't have the ability to like, you know, force anything
- 1:55:19Speaker 1: to work the way. So all they can do is
- 1:55:21Speaker 1: appeal to patriarchy to men to like keep them safe.
- 1:55:25Speaker 1: And one of the ways they do it is by
- 1:55:27Speaker 1: weaponizing words like this like feminism. And so if feminism weakens,
- 1:55:32Speaker 1: then as an ideology, like if the word loses its power,
- 1:55:36Speaker 1: and this is in their mind. I'm not saying this
- 1:55:38Speaker 1: is what I believe. I'm saying this is what I
- 1:55:39Speaker 1: think they believe. If that word loses its power, then
- 1:55:42Speaker 1: they are vulnerable and they're terrified of that, which is
- 1:55:45Speaker 1: why for them, Like the number one objective is to
- 1:55:48Speaker 1: protect the word, protect the term. It's just like protecting
- 1:55:51Speaker 1: terms that are sort of like subsets of feminism itself,
- 1:55:56Speaker 1: terms like patriarchy, terms like capitalism, bad terms like all
- 1:56:00Speaker 1: the isms and the phobias, terms like toxic masculinity, terms
- 1:56:05Speaker 1: like emotional labor, terms like whatever right. And they need
- 1:56:09Speaker 1: those things to carry weight, to have power. And words
- 1:56:14Speaker 1: do have some power and they know that and that's
- 1:56:16Speaker 1: why they use it. But I think they're terrified of
- 1:56:18Speaker 1: it losing power. And I just want to let them
- 1:56:21Speaker 1: know that there's nothing to be afraid of. I don't
- 1:56:23Speaker 1: think men want to hurt you, but you do. You
- 1:56:26Speaker 1: seem to be really afraid of men that are not
- 1:56:28Speaker 1: controlled by your words.
- 1:56:30Speaker 3: Do you see what I'm saying?
- 1:56:32Speaker 4: No, I know exactly what you're saying, and it's just, uh,
- 1:56:38Speaker 4: I think it's just pathological, Like there's there's I can't
- 1:56:42Speaker 4: emphasize this enough. This woman probably does not understand that
- 1:56:46Speaker 4: there is a way of thinking outside of how she thinks.
- 1:56:51Speaker 4: Like the work that I'm doing in writing has clarified
- 1:56:54Speaker 4: to me that men and women think differently. Doesn't matter
- 1:56:59Speaker 4: what you want to say about I don't know gender
- 1:57:01Speaker 4: fluidity and a spectrum. Men and women process things differently.
- 1:57:08Speaker 4: And one of the big problems, one of the big
- 1:57:11Speaker 4: blind spots for women, is they cannot see that the
- 1:57:16Speaker 4: way that men interact with the world, or many of
- 1:57:19Speaker 4: them can't, is perfectly legitimate, and they don't see it
- 1:57:24Speaker 4: as its own thing. I'm not even sure if they
- 1:57:27Speaker 4: see it at all. So men just engage in behavior
- 1:57:30Speaker 4: and they just don't understand it. So it's frightening and
- 1:57:34Speaker 4: it's infuriating because these individuals have power and they shouldn't.
- 1:57:42Speaker 4: Like you don't have to necessarily disenfranchise women. Just make
- 1:57:46Speaker 4: it so that no woman can get an education unless
- 1:57:49Speaker 4: she passes the water level test. You can't vote unless
- 1:57:55Speaker 4: you can rotate an object in your mind unless you
- 1:58:00Speaker 4: can understand the fact that systems act on objects. Not
- 1:58:04Speaker 4: everything isn't just a web of social reading relational reading, right,
- 1:58:09Speaker 4: you can you can understand that systems exist and they
- 1:58:12Speaker 4: function outside of your beliefs about yourselves or yourself being seen,
- 1:58:17Speaker 4: which is like the big thing. You know, women want
- 1:58:21Speaker 4: to be seen because that's where it's at for some reason,
- 1:58:26Speaker 4: they don't want to do things. They don't want to
- 1:58:28Speaker 4: construct things, they don't want to build things.
- 1:58:30Speaker 2: They want to be seen, you know.
- 1:58:33Speaker 4: And it's like it is a it is a mentality
- 1:58:37Speaker 4: that is utterly salopsistic and allows nothing outside of itself,
- 1:58:42Speaker 4: you know. I I The funny thing is is that
- 1:58:44Speaker 4: I think I've become even more red pilled as a
- 1:58:47Speaker 4: result of analyzing literature, because.
- 1:58:51Speaker 2: It's made it so obvious that women.
- 1:58:55Speaker 4: It's really difficult for them to realize that there are
- 1:58:58Speaker 4: other ways of thinking other than their are. And yet
- 1:59:01Speaker 4: men can understand that women think differently than them. It's
- 1:59:06Speaker 4: actually sort of interesting, like women men can conceive of
- 1:59:09Speaker 4: that and they can even accommodate that, but women really
- 1:59:14Speaker 4: struggle with it. They are locked into their own brains
- 1:59:19Speaker 4: and they're constantly reading a world that doesn't exist except
- 1:59:24Speaker 4: in their projections of their own fears.
- 1:59:27Speaker 2: And it's it's like, I don't know, like I think
- 1:59:31Speaker 2: that I have.
- 1:59:33Speaker 4: I think I officially probably have acquired the largest body
- 1:59:36Speaker 4: of misogynists.
- 1:59:38Speaker 2: That would continue.
- 1:59:39Speaker 4: To talk to a woman on the planet, you know,
- 1:59:42Speaker 4: you know, just just by virtue of having done this
- 1:59:45Speaker 4: for like what freaking.
- 1:59:47Speaker 2: Thirteen years now.
- 1:59:49Speaker 4: You know, I'm in contact with a lot of misogynists,
- 1:59:52Speaker 4: not the misogyistsess that have ceased talking to women because
- 1:59:54Speaker 4: you know, obviously I'm a woman, right, And I don't
- 1:59:57Speaker 4: find them very dangerous, you know, no, unless you guys
- 2:00:01Speaker 4: want to be considered dangerous. They're not like men are
- 2:00:04Speaker 4: not dangerous. They're like the least dangerous thing. And it's
- 2:00:11Speaker 4: it's getting really aggravating, like women like this refusing to
- 2:00:14Speaker 4: acknowledge that men have the right to exist because they're
- 2:00:17Speaker 4: so freaking dangerous or something. And I think it's simply
- 2:00:21Speaker 4: that it is the fear of unknown. If women don't
- 2:00:24Speaker 4: control men, then there's some unknown thing, unknown mind out
- 2:00:30Speaker 4: there that they don't understand and is legitimate in of itself.
- 2:00:35Speaker 4: So they respond to that thought like the way people
- 2:00:38Speaker 4: respond to I don't know the possibility of alien life,
- 2:00:41Speaker 4: with fear and terror and xenophobia over the penis.
- 2:00:47Speaker 2: People.
- 2:00:47Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I think we're done. Yeah, yeah, I mean,
- 2:00:57Speaker 1: I got nothing else. She's not going to say anything
- 2:00:59Speaker 1: else of any value. So do you want what do
- 2:01:04Speaker 1: you think?
- 2:01:06Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good.
- 2:01:07Speaker 4: Let's let's do.
- 2:01:08Speaker 1: It, all right, Well, do the things I don't have
- 2:01:13Speaker 1: any more super chats or superchows, but we did have
- 2:01:16Speaker 1: a pretty big audience. We peaked at like us. No,
- 2:01:20Speaker 1: we got one five hundred and forty three views on
- 2:01:24Speaker 1: the horizontal and three hundred and twenty four views on
- 2:01:27Speaker 1: the vertical. Now, maybe they were just slow scrolling through,
- 2:01:30Speaker 1: but I think we peaked at something like one hundred
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- 2:03:00Speaker 4: That that entire show is just a nightmare, and it
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- 2:04:17Speaker 9: Men's right activists are machines, dude. Okay, they are literal machines.
- 2:04:23Speaker 9: They are talking point machines. They are impossible to fucking
- 2:04:27Speaker 9: deal with, especially if you have like especially if you
- 2:04:29Speaker 9: have like a couple of dudes who have good memory
- 2:04:31Speaker 9: on top of that too, Holy shit, you're fucked.