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- 0:00Welcome to the show.
- 0:00I'm Claire Monroe with Edwin Carrington,
- 0:03and Edwin, I keep thinking about this very specific hiring tragedy: a
- 0:07candidate walks into a manager interview,
- 0:09speaks in clean sentences, says things like "I empower my team," makes
- 0:14great eye contact... and somehow gets the job over someone who's actually
- 0:18better at leading.
- 0:19It's like we're rewarding presentation,
- 0:21not performance.
- 0:21That happens constantly.
- 0:24Most manager interviews reward polish,
- 0:26confidence, and familiarity with leadership language.
- 0:29What they do not reliably test is judgment.
- 0:32And managerial work is mostly judgment under pressure.
- 0:35What do you do with a struggling employee,
- 0:38a conflict between strong personalities,
- 0:41or someone who delivers great work but cannot be relied on?"Judgment
- 0:45under pressure" feels like the real job description.
- 0:48Because when you ask something like,
- 0:49"What's your management style?" it sounds thoughtful... but it's almost
- 0:53impossible to evaluate.
- 0:53Exactly.
- 0:56That question invites branding.
- 0:58It invites a slogan.
- 1:00"I'm collaborative." "I'm a servant leader." That tells you very little.
- 1:05A better question is grounded in reality.
- 1:08Tell me about the last time someone on your team became unproductive
- 1:12for several weeks.
- 1:13What did you notice first?
- 1:15What did you say?
- 1:16What changed afterward?
- 1:17Now you're working with evidence.
- 1:17So the value is in the sequence.
- 1:22Not just "I coached them," but what they saw,
- 1:25what they did, and what actually happened next.
- 1:25Yes.
- 1:29Specific behavior, specific decisions,
- 1:33specific outcomes.
- 1:34The strongest manager interviews consistently probe a few core areas:
- 1:40handling underperformance, resolving conflict,
- 1:43delegating based on strengths,
- 1:45and motivating different personalities.
- 1:47Those are not abstract topics.
- 1:49That's the daily reality of management.
- 1:49Let's take delegation,
- 1:54because that one gets oversimplified fast.
- 1:56Asking "Are you good at delegation?" is useless.
- 1:59Everyone says yes.
- 2:00But if you ask, "Tell me about a time you had to reassign work because
- 2:04the original owner wasn't the right fit," suddenly you're testing whether
- 2:07they can actually diagnose talent.
- 2:07And whether they're willing to act on
- 2:11it.
- 2:11Many managers hesitate because they confuse fairness with sameness.
- 2:16Effective delegation is not equal distribution.
- 2:20It's aligning the difficulty and importance of work with the capability
- 2:24and development needs of each person.
- 2:24That distinction alone probably filters
- 2:29out half the "I'm great at delegation" answers.
- 2:31And motivation is another one that sounds impressive until you actually
- 2:35press on it.
- 2:35"I inspire my team." Fine.
- 2:39How?
- 2:40Because motivating a driven top performer and motivating someone who's
- 2:44burned out are completely different problems.
- 2:44Exactly.
- 2:47A useful question is, "How have you motivated two team members with very
- 2:52different personalities?" Strong candidates will describe how they adjust
- 2:56based on what drives each individual-autonomy,
- 2:59recognition, stability, challenge.
- 3:01If the answer is one-size-fits-all,
- 3:04that's a warning sign.
- 3:04It also shows whether they see people as individuals
- 3:08or just... a category called "my team." And conflict is where this usually
- 3:13breaks down, right?
- 3:13Very often.
- 3:15Ask, "Tell me about a conflict between team members that affected performance.
- 3:21What did you do?" Then listen carefully.
- 3:24Did they address behavior directly?
- 3:27Did they stay neutral?
- 3:28Did they push toward a workable resolution,
- 3:31or just try to keep the peace?
- 3:33Someone who says, "I stayed positive and let them work it out," may be
- 3:38pleasant, but not effective.
- 3:38Pleasant and ineffective is a risky combination
- 3:43in a manager.
- 3:44Let me try a scenario.
- 3:46A candidate says, "I had an underperformer,
- 3:49so I checked in more and offered support." That sounds fine on the surface.
- 3:54What are you listening for next?
- 3:54I would ask,
- 3:57"What was the performance gap,
- 3:59specifically?" Then, "What expectation did you set,
- 4:03by when, and what happened?" Because "more support" is vague.
- 4:08If they say, "Response times were averaging 72 hours,
- 4:12we needed 24, I set a two-week plan and reviewed daily,
- 4:15and by day ten we were at 18 hours," that's concrete.
- 4:19If they can't get specific, they may not manage with precision.
- 4:19That level
- 4:25of detail changes everything.
- 4:27It shows they can define a problem,
- 4:29not just talk around it.
- 4:30And maybe that's the bigger pattern here-behavioral questions force people
- 4:34to bring actual proof.
- 4:34Precisely.
- 4:36Past behavior is not perfect, but it is far more informative than abstract
- 4:41self-description.
- 4:42Another useful question is, "Why do you want to lead?" Not because passion
- 4:48guarantees success, but because motivation matters.
- 4:51If someone is drawn to authority or status,
- 4:54it tends to surface.
- 4:56Stronger answers focus on responsibility,
- 4:59developing others, and improving outcomes through people.
- 4:59So the real
- 5:03question isn't "Can this person sound like a leader?" It's "Can this person
- 5:07show how they've led when things weren't clean or easy?"Exactly.
- 5:11And once you have the right questions,
- 5:14structure becomes critical.
- 5:15A manager interview should not be a free-form conversation guided by
- 5:20instinct.
- 5:21That's how charisma wins.
- 5:23Structure ensures that each candidate is evaluated against the same competencies,
- 5:28with the same level of rigor.
- 5:28Let's make that practical,
- 5:32because "structure" can sound bureaucratic.
- 5:34What does that actually look like for a frontline manager role?
- 5:34It can
- 5:39be quite simple.
- 5:40Define a small set of competencies-coaching,
- 5:43conflict resolution, delegation,
- 5:46accountability, communication.
- 5:48Then weight them.
- 5:50For each one, use a consistent scale with clear definitions.
- 5:55A high score in accountability might mean the candidate sets explicit
- 5:59expectations, tracks follow-through,
- 6:01and addresses missed commitments with real examples.
- 6:04A low score means they speak in generalities without evidence.
- 6:04So instead
- 6:09of "I liked her," you're comparing candidates across the same dimensions,
- 6:13with the same standards.
- 6:14That's a very different kind of decision.
- 6:14It is,
- 6:17and it protects against being overly influenced by confidence.
- 6:20Some candidates are highly fluent.
- 6:23Fluency is not the same as competence.
- 6:23What about measuring success?
- 6:28That's another place where answers can stay very high level.
- 6:31"I drive results." Okay... how are those results defined?
- 6:31Ask directly:
- 6:38"How do you measure success for your team?" Strong answers include both
- 6:42outcomes and operating metrics.
- 6:44Not just revenue or completion,
- 6:46but quality, cycle time, retention,
- 6:49error rates-whatever is relevant.
- 6:51Then ask, "What do you do when those numbers decline?" That follow-up
- 6:56matters because many candidates know how to describe success,
- 6:59but fewer can describe how they handle failure constructively.
- 6:59And that's
- 7:04where you see whether they default to pressure or avoidance.
- 7:07I've seen both.
- 7:08Either everything becomes a crackdown,
- 7:10or nothing gets addressed clearly.
- 7:10Neither builds trust.
- 7:14Trust comes from clear expectations and consistent follow-through.
- 7:18For example, one manager might say,
- 7:20"We value responsiveness," while another says,
- 7:23"Every request gets a response within two hours,
- 7:26and we review exceptions weekly." The second approach is measurable and
- 7:30actionable.
- 7:30That kind of specificity makes an answer believable.
- 7:34But there's another side to this.
- 7:36Candidates need context to answer well.
- 7:36Absolutely.
- 7:39Interviewers should provide enough detail about the role,
- 7:42the team, and the challenges to make answers meaningful.
- 7:46If the team is burned out or the expectations are high-pressure,
- 7:49say that.
- 7:50Structured interviews are not about trapping candidates.
- 7:53They are about creating a clear and relevant test.
- 7:53And that makes it a
- 7:57two-way process.
- 7:58You're not just asking, "Can this person impress us?" You're asking,
- 8:02"Can this person succeed here?" And the candidate is evaluating the same
- 8:06thing in reverse.
- 8:06Exactly.
- 8:08And if you're thinking about how to apply this in practice-how to bring
- 8:12more structure and clarity into hiring-that's where tools can help.
- 8:16You can test OAD's tools, including behavioral assessments,
- 8:20for free at o-a-d-dot-a-i.
- 8:23It's a practical way to make hiring more consistent and more predictive.
- 8:23Which
- 8:28is really the goal.
- 8:29Not just a polished interview-but a better decision about who can actually
- 8:33lead.
- 8:33The interview should not be a stage for slogans.
- 8:36It should be a window into how someone behaves when others depend on
- 8:40them.
- 8:40That's a good place to leave it.
- 8:42Thanks for listening to The Science of Leading.