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How to Handle Criticism with Class, Part 2 - Pastor Chuck Swindoll Insight for Living · INSIGHT FOR LIVING: Biblical Wisdom For Everyday Living

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  Speaker 1: God knows the way that I take. He knows the truth. He,
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  Speaker 1: my justifier, he and I are on speaking terms. I
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  Speaker 1: trust him.
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  Speaker 2: I believe in him. He knows the way I take.
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  Speaker 2: After the trial is over, I will come forth as golden.
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  Speaker 3: When the pain won't lift, when every day hurts a
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  Speaker 3: little more than the last, it's hard to keep trusting
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  Speaker 3: a God you can't see. Maybe you've been there. Maybe
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  Speaker 3: you're there right now. Today on Insight for Living, Chuck
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  Speaker 3: Swindoll returns to the story of Job, a man who
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  Speaker 3: lost nearly everything, yet held fast to his faith through
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  Speaker 3: the darkness. Chuck shows us how Job could be brutally
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  Speaker 3: honest with God and still trust Him completely. It's a
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  Speaker 3: message about grace under pressure, and we begin with prayer.
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  Speaker 2: We have song of your great names and the names
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  Speaker 2: of your Son, our Father, and even some names of
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  Speaker 2: the Spirit who works within us and fills us with
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  Speaker 2: power and encouragement. And today we speak to you through Christ,
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  Speaker 2: not because of our deserving to do so, but because
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  Speaker 2: of him who has opened the way to you through
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  Speaker 2: his blood. Thank you sincerely, our Father, for the cross,
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  Speaker 2: where we first saw the light and the burden of
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  Speaker 2: our hearts rolled away. And we still walk with you
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  Speaker 2: by faith. We still seek you by faith. We still
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  Speaker 2: long to please you and to honor your name and
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  Speaker 2: to represent you correctly and fairly and appealingly to those
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  Speaker 2: who have never known that you are approachable or forgiving
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  Speaker 2: or full of compassion and love. And now this morning, Father,
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  Speaker 2: I pray that you will speak to us from this
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  Speaker 2: ancient book in ways that will make sense to us
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  Speaker 2: in the 21st century. Thank you for preserving the word
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  Speaker 2: of God. Thank you for giving us a book from
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  Speaker 2: which we can sing the songs of the faithful. Thank
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  Speaker 2: you now for the privilege of giving. We do so
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  Speaker 2: with gratitude for our occupation, for health in being able
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  Speaker 2: to work, and for the ability to serve you in
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  Speaker 2: places outside these walls. Be glorified in the gifts we give,
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  Speaker 2: in the sermon that is preached, and in our response
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  Speaker 2: to all of this.
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  Speaker 1: Through Christ, I pray. And everyone said, Amen.
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  Speaker 3: You're listening to Insight for Living. To dig deeper into
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  Speaker 3: Job's story on your own, be sure to purchase your
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  Speaker 3: copy of our Searching the Scriptures Bible Study Workbooks by
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  Speaker 3: going to insight.org. Chuck titled today's message, How to Handle
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  Speaker 3: Criticism with Class.
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  Speaker 2: There is no finer example of grace under pressure than
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  Speaker 2: this man whose book bears his name. Job has been Well,
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  Speaker 2: he suffered the loss of bankruptcy, the death of his
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  Speaker 2: ten children.
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  Speaker 1: That's grieved him.
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  Speaker 2: The attacks of his friends who were once close to
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  Speaker 2: him and.
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  Speaker 1: The disease that ravaged.
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  Speaker 2: Him on top of all that with the fever and
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  Speaker 2: the swelling and the sleepless nights and the dreadful days.
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  Speaker 2: And you rarely see Job losing it. If anything, at
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  Speaker 2: his worst, he simply says to the Lord, I am
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  Speaker 2: at a loss to know what's happening or why. What
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  Speaker 2: is being said isn't true. And what you're doing, I
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  Speaker 2: cannot explain. But all I can do is trust you.
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  Speaker 2: The first cycle is over. Eliphaz... Bildad and Zophar swung
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  Speaker 2: at him and often hit him. The second cycle is over. Eliphaz, Bildad,
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  Speaker 2: Zophar once again took him on. He answered each one,
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  Speaker 2: usually with great wisdom.
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  Speaker 1: Now we're back to the third cycle.
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  Speaker 2: And we're not surprised to read that old name again,
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  Speaker 2: Eliphaz the Temanite, responded. He makes three accusations against Job
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  Speaker 2: in chapter 22. Verses 1 to 11, you're a sinner.
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  Speaker 2: Verses 12 to.
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  Speaker 1: 20, you have hidden your sin, so you're a hypocrite.
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  Speaker 2: Verse 21 to the end of the chapter, chapter 22, verse.
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  Speaker 1: 30, you're in need of repentance.
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  Speaker 2: I mean the gall it took for him to stand
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  Speaker 2: there and say that to a man who is literally
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  Speaker 2: fevered with these boils that are all over him and
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  Speaker 2: racked with grief over the loss of his family and
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  Speaker 2: his home and his business.
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  Speaker 1: But he says it straight.
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  Speaker 2: Verse 5 of chapter 22, Eliphaz accuses, is not your
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  Speaker 2: wickedness great? and your iniquities without end.
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  Speaker 1: Why would he say that? Look at the condition you're in.
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  Speaker 2: Nobody loses everything, including family and business and home and health,
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  Speaker 2: without being guilty of sin. You must be a terrible
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  Speaker 2: sinner in light of all that you've lost. Correct observation,
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  Speaker 2: he's lost everything. Wrong conclusion. It wasn't because he was sinful.
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  Speaker 2: But Job doesn't answer. Remember, this is grace under pressure.
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  Speaker 2: Job's character was so pure before all of the trouble
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  Speaker 2: started that the devil picked him out as the one
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  Speaker 2: he wanted to pick on. And the Lord allowed it,
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  Speaker 2: knowing that Job's character would be able to withstand it.
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  Speaker 2: The antithesis is true. The opposite of what he's being
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  Speaker 2: accused of. The critic didn't know his facts. And by
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  Speaker 2: the way, how could he have known them? He hasn't
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  Speaker 2: even been on the scene. He only showed up after
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  Speaker 2: the sickness occurred. He invites Job to look back. Is
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  Speaker 2: not God in the height of heaven? Look also at
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  Speaker 2: the distant stars, how high they are. First he says,
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  Speaker 2: look up. Look up, Job. You say, what does God know?
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  Speaker 2: Can he judge through the thick darkness? Clouds are a
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  Speaker 2: hiding place for him so that he cannot see. He
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  Speaker 2: walks on the vault of heaven. Would you keep to
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  Speaker 2: the ancient path which wicked men have trod? Look back now, Job.
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  Speaker 2: Look back and see what other men have done. You're
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  Speaker 2: doing just what they have done. They were snatched away
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  Speaker 2: before their time, whose foundations were washed away by a river.
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  Speaker 2: They said to God, depart from us, and what can
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  Speaker 2: the Almighty do to them?
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  Speaker 1: That's what you're doing, Job. So Eliphaz is telling him off.
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  Speaker 1: Tough criticism.
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  Speaker 2: It's hard enough to be told you're a sinner, but
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  Speaker 2: to be told on top of that that you're a hypocrite.
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  Speaker 1: It's a low blow.
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  Speaker 2: It's hard to show grace under pressure at a time
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  Speaker 2: like that. Our God despises hypocrisy. But the fact is,
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  Speaker 2: Job is not guilty of it. Well, Eliphaz decides he
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  Speaker 2: needs to preach an evangelistic sermon to Job and maybe
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  Speaker 2: he will get saved.
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  Speaker 1: And so in verses.
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  Speaker 2: 21 to 30, he delivers an excellent evangelistic sermon. Only problem,
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  Speaker 2: Job's already saved. Look at verse 21. Yield now and
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  Speaker 2: be at peace with him. Thereby good will come to you.
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  Speaker 2: Please receive instruction from God's mouth and establish his words
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  Speaker 2: in your heart.
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  Speaker 1: He has done that. If you return to the Almighty,
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  Speaker 1: he doesn't need to.
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  Speaker 2: You will be restored if you remove unrighteousness far from
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  Speaker 2: your tent.
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  Speaker 1: He's already done that. And place your gold in the dust.
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  Speaker 2: Verse 25, then the Almighty will be your gold and
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  Speaker 2: choice silver to you. Then you will delight in the
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  Speaker 2: Almighty and lift up your face to God. He's going
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  Speaker 2: on and on and on with this message. And Job
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  Speaker 2: just patiently sits there. Let me ask you a hard question.
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  Speaker 2: Would you have sat there and let all that be
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  Speaker 2: said without interrupting? I mean, wouldn't you at least a
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  Speaker 2: time or two say, wait a minute.
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  Speaker 1: Before you go any further. Prove that.
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  Speaker 2: Where are my witnesses or where are your witnesses that
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  Speaker 2: say I'm guilty of that?
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  Speaker 1: Prove it. And he doesn't do that. Grace under pressure.
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  Speaker 2: Job, by the way, in chapter 23 and 24, never
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  Speaker 2: once answers Eliphaz. He talks to and about the Lord,
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  Speaker 2: but he doesn't once address Eliphaz. I think that's pretty significant.
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  Speaker 2: After all, Eliphaz is not going to justify him.
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  Speaker 1: The Lord will.
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  Speaker 2: So after you take the blast, whether it's at work
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  Speaker 2: or in some other place, and you finally get home
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  Speaker 2: and you get a quiet place, go to the Lord
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  Speaker 2: and talk to him and say, Lord, you know the truth.
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  Speaker 2: If any part of that is true, reveal that to me,
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  Speaker 2: but I don't believe it is. And in light of that,
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  Speaker 2: these are the things I request. Now we you get
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  Speaker 2: three very calm responses and very vulnerable responses from Job.
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  Speaker 2: Verses 1 to 12, Job answers, I am unable to
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  Speaker 2: locate the presence of God, but I trust him. I
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  Speaker 2: am unable to locate the presence of God, but I
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  Speaker 2: trust you, Lord. That's grace under pressure.
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  Speaker 1: Follow along with me.
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  Speaker 2: Then Job replied, verse 3, Oh, that I knew where
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  Speaker 2: I might find him, that I might come to his seat.
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  Speaker 2: It's the courtroom he has in mind. I wish I
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  Speaker 2: knew the bench that he sat on. I wish I
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  Speaker 2: knew where I could locate him, somewhere on this earth
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  Speaker 2: that I could get to him. I would bring my
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  Speaker 2: case before him, verse 4 says. I would fill my
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  Speaker 2: mouth with arguments. I would learn the words which he
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  Speaker 2: would answer. I wouldn't argue with him. I would learn
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  Speaker 2: from him.
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  Speaker 1: I would perceive what he would say to me.
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  Speaker 2: Would he contend with me by the greatness of his power?
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 1: Surely he would pay attention to me.
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  Speaker 2: You know, one of the great things about our God,
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  Speaker 2: when you come to him as you are, you never
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  Speaker 2: hear him say, shame on you.
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  Speaker 1: People say that.
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  Speaker 2: God hears your confession and he is quick to respond,
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  Speaker 2: I forgive you.
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  Speaker 1: I love you. I understand you. I commend you for
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  Speaker 1: facing the truth.
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  Speaker 2: Would he contend with me by the greatness of his power?
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: He would pay attention to me. In fact, there the
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  Speaker 2: upright would reason with him and I would be delivered
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  Speaker 2: forever from my judgment. One of the things we can
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  Speaker 2: learn from our God is that when people come with
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  Speaker 2: their confession, there is one appropriate response.
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  Speaker 1: Three words.
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  Speaker 2: I forgive you. That's the response. They don't need reminders
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  Speaker 2: of other bad things that they have done. They don't
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  Speaker 2: need to be put on the spot or shamed because
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  Speaker 2: they failed.
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  Speaker 1: They need forgiveness. Forgiveness.
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  Speaker 2: He says, would he contend with me? He would not
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  Speaker 2: contend with me, even though he's much more powerful. He
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  Speaker 2: would pay attention to me. I could reason with him
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  Speaker 2: and I would be delivered forever from my judge. But
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  Speaker 2: I can't find him.
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  Speaker 1: I go forward. Verse eight.
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  Speaker 2: He's not there. I turn around and I go back.
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  Speaker 2: And I cannot perceive him. When he acts on the left,
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  Speaker 2: I cannot behold him. And when he turns to the right,
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  Speaker 2: I cannot see him. You ever been there? Just keep
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  Speaker 2: it to yourself for a minute, okay? If we all answered,
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  Speaker 2: it would be one rousing yes. Sometime in vain, you
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  Speaker 2: search for some visible evidence of the living God. Wouldn't
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  Speaker 2: it be great to wake up in the middle of
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  Speaker 2: the night and peek out the window? and see a
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  Speaker 2: little sky writing, Dear Chuck, I hear you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in charge. Love, God. But that's not the way
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  Speaker 1: it works. I would love for that to happen. I'd
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  Speaker 1: love to get.
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  Speaker 2: Into my vehicle after a hard day at work and
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  Speaker 2: turn the radio on and have God say, before you
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  Speaker 2: listen to this station, I want to talk.
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  Speaker 1: To you for a few minutes. What's that dial? Where
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  Speaker 1: is he on that dial?
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  Speaker 2: I would turn and we'd love to have something tangible,
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  Speaker 2: something present, but we don't.
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  Speaker 1: It's a matter of faith.
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  Speaker 2: It's like the tragedy that struck this family of one child.
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  Speaker 2: The mother died early in the child's life and the
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  Speaker 2: father and the daughter were left alone. With the memory
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  Speaker 2: of this wonderful mother. And the grief.
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  Speaker 1: And the sorrow.
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  Speaker 2: And the night after the funeral of that day.
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  Speaker 1: He put his daughter to bed. And his heart just.
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  Speaker 2: Went out to her. And he decided that he would.
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  Speaker 2: Take a cot in there. And put the cot by
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  Speaker 2: the daughter's bed.
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  Speaker 1: Middle of the night.
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  Speaker 2: He heard her crying. And he called her name. And
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  Speaker 2: she said, Daddy, it's so hard.
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  Speaker 1: She said, I.
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  Speaker 2: Just miss her so much. And he reached over and
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  Speaker 2: took her hand. She said, oh, that's so much better.
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  Speaker 2: And she put her hand over on his shoulder and
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  Speaker 2: on his chest. And he said, you know, sweetheart, we
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  Speaker 2: have the Lord. She said, I know it, but I
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  Speaker 2: just need someone with skin on me. I just need
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  Speaker 2: someone to touch. If you live alone, you sometime feel that.
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  Speaker 2: If you have been left alone because of a broken
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  Speaker 2: relationship and you now find yourself where you once had companionship,
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  Speaker 2: but now it's just you, you must awaken sometime in
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  Speaker 2: the night and think, I wish I could find.
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  Speaker 1: Him there.
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  Speaker 2: I wish I could just reach out and touch him
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  Speaker 2: or hear his words. How reassuring that would be. This
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  Speaker 2: is a great man. This isn't some immature fly-by-night brand-new Christian.
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  Speaker 2: This is a mature saint of God. Oh, that I
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  Speaker 2: could know where he is. But I cannot see him,
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  Speaker 2: behold him, or perceive him. Some of the greatest verses
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  Speaker 2: in all the Bible are verses 10, 11, and 12
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  Speaker 2: of Job 23. I committed them to memory back when
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  Speaker 2: I was in my young 20s, and I have called
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  Speaker 2: them to mind perhaps more than any other passage of Scripture.
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  Speaker 2: I commend to you the memorizing of Job 23, 10
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  Speaker 2: through 12.
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  Speaker 1: I'm serious. I've got them marked out in my Bible.
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  Speaker 2: I got a ruler and I marked around 23, 10
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  Speaker 2: through 12.
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  Speaker 1: He knows the way that I take. Look at the verse.
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  Speaker 2: When he, that's God, has tried me, I shall come
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  Speaker 2: forth as gold. My foot has held his steps.
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  Speaker 1: His way have I kept and not declined. Neither have
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  Speaker 1: I turned back from the command of his lips.
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  Speaker 2: I have, I love this word, I have esteemed, I
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  Speaker 2: have treasured, I have prized the words of his.
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  Speaker 1: Mouth more than my necessary food.
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  Speaker 2: I am unable to locate the presence of God, but
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  Speaker 2: I trust him. Eliphaz, Bildad, Zophar and later Elihu, you
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  Speaker 2: can say whatever you wish against me. God knows the
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  Speaker 2: way that I take. He knows the truth. He, my justifier,
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  Speaker 2: he and I are on speaking terms. I trust him.
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  Speaker 2: I believe in him. He knows the way I take.
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  Speaker 2: After the trial is over, I will come forth as gold.
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  Speaker 2: You can count on that, saints. When the trial has passed,
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  Speaker 2: you will be deeper and richer for it. I want
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  Speaker 2: you to allow those words to burn their way into
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  Speaker 2: your brain so deeply that they become like a divine
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  Speaker 2: filter for everything that happens in your life from now on.
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  Speaker 1: Everything.
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  Speaker 2: God knows the way that we take. One of the
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  Speaker 2: heretical ideas of these current days is the openness of God.
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  Speaker 2: Open theism is what it is called. As though God
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  Speaker 2: is still learning as he watches us respond to situations.
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  Speaker 2: In other words, omniscience is not really omniscience. It's kind
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  Speaker 2: of a learning knowledge. But the God of the Bible,
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  Speaker 2: I am convinced, and verses like this say that, the
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  Speaker 2: God of the Bible knows the way we take. Your need,
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  Speaker 2: verse 11, and mine, is to have our feet hold
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  Speaker 2: fast to his path, to keep his way and not
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  Speaker 2: turn aside, not depart from the command of his lips
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  Speaker 2: you say well i thought we couldn't see him what
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  Speaker 2: do you mean his lips his word it's as if
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  Speaker 2: god is speaking when you open his book his word
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  Speaker 2: teaches you instructs you counsels you comforts you.
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  Speaker 1: Reproves you directs your steps.
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  Speaker 2: I have not departed from the command of his lips
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  Speaker 2: and look at the last line.
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  Speaker 1: I have treasured.
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  Speaker 2: The word means to esteem, to value the words of
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  Speaker 2: his mouth more than steak and potatoes, more than solid
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  Speaker 2: and dessert, more than the most delicious and delectable meal.
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  Speaker 2: The finest chef in the country can provide. I have
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  Speaker 2: treasured the words of his mouth more than what I
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  Speaker 2: have for lunch or Or what I'm served. Or what
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  Speaker 2: I serve myself for supper. I treasure his words more
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  Speaker 2: than anything that even keeps me alive. That's the value
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  Speaker 2: I place on what he has said. Grace under pressure.
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  Speaker 2: That's why he could keep from answering Eliphaz. Or slugging him.
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  Speaker 2: That's how Job could restrain himself when he's being falsely accused.
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  Speaker 2: He knows that God knows the way he takes.
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  Speaker 1: God knows his heart. And he trusts God. Now the second.
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  Speaker 2: Statement Job makes, which is the balance of this chapter,
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  Speaker 2: 13 through 17. I'm unable to understand the plan of God.
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  Speaker 2: Now get that along with the first one and you'll
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  Speaker 2: have a nice balance. I'm unable to locate the presence
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  Speaker 2: of God, but I trust him. Now the second is,
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  Speaker 2: I am unable to understand the plan of God, but
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  Speaker 2: I trust him. Same ending, but it's another subject. His
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  Speaker 2: plan is unfolding. And I'm not able to understand it.
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  Speaker 2: In fact, he says he's unique in verse 13. God
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  Speaker 2: is unique. Who can turn him? What his soul desires
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  Speaker 2: that he does. That's a very important statement. What his
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  Speaker 2: soul desires that he does. God does not say to
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  Speaker 2: you some night. Hey, hey, hey, hey, Frank. What do
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  Speaker 2: you say I try this on you? How would that be?
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  Speaker 2: Don't wait for that to happen. He doesn't give you
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  Speaker 2: a call and say. Shirley, hi, this is God. I'm
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  Speaker 2: thinking about trying such and such tomorrow. See if you'll
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  Speaker 2: step up. So what do you think about that? It
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  Speaker 2: ain't going to happen. If you get calls like that,
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  Speaker 2: contact one of our counselors. He is unique who can
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  Speaker 2: turn him what his soul desires that he does. He
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  Speaker 2: doesn't ask permission.
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  Speaker 1: He doesn't tell you ahead of time. He doesn't explain
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  Speaker 1: why it's so hard. He doesn't let you know how
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  Speaker 1: it's going to come out.
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  Speaker 2: He doesn't tell you why it goes on and on
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  Speaker 2: and on and on and on. And most of it
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  Speaker 2: is unfair. He doesn't tell you how long it's going
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  Speaker 2: to last. He doesn't tell you when it's going to end.
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  Speaker 1: You trust him. You trust him. You wait.
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  Speaker 2: You serve him. You keep your feet on his paths.
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  Speaker 2: You treasure his words.
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  Speaker 1: And whatever God desires, that is what he does. And
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  Speaker 1: you trust him. You can't understand it. And don't call me.
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  Speaker 2: Because I can't explain it either.
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  Speaker 1: I got my own stuff.
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  Speaker 2: You call me, I'll probably say, while you're on the line,
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  Speaker 2: I've got several things I want to ask you. And
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  Speaker 2: to make matters even more complicated, verse 14, he performs
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  Speaker 2: what is appointed for me. There's a uniqueness there. Nobody
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  Speaker 2: else was Job. And Job had what was appointed for Job.
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  Speaker 2: And that became his life and lifestyle. Just as he
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  Speaker 2: is performing what is appointed for you. And don't get
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  Speaker 2: your hopes up. Many such decrees are with him. You've
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  Speaker 2: got a whole bunch of them waiting to implement once.
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  Speaker 1: You get through this one. Isn't that fun?
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  Speaker 2: Therefore, I would be dismayed at his presence when I
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  Speaker 2: consider I am terrified of him.
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  Speaker 1: That's great, great vulnerability. Just say it.
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  Speaker 2: It's okay. I think the Lord would love to hear
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  Speaker 2: us say that on occasion. You frighten me. I heard
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  Speaker 2: about one of the Puritans who was so exasperated, the
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  Speaker 2: Lord was taking so much time.
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  Speaker 1: He went into his study, closed the door, and he said, God.
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  Speaker 2: Hurry up.
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  Speaker 1: You're so slow. You frighten, you terrify me. How long
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  Speaker 1: is this going to go on? You can do that.
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  Speaker 1: God will understand. You're not going to go zap and
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  Speaker 1: you're gone. It's not like that.
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  Speaker 2: And Job is just as honest with him as he
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  Speaker 2: can possibly be. It was dark inside there and it
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  Speaker 2: wasn't getting any lighter.
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  Speaker 1: And every day that passed, It just hurt more.
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  Speaker 3: Even in the darkness, even when God seems silent and slow,
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  Speaker 3: you can be honest with Him. You can tell Him
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  Speaker 3: you're frightened, that the waiting is almost more than you
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  Speaker 3: can bear, and still trust Him. That's the faith Job discovered,
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  Speaker 3: and it's the faith that God wants to grow in you.
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