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410: Shifting to a Higher Timeline with Human Design · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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  Hello and welcome to Unshakeable With Human Design.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and it's just us today and I want to talk.
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  We are wrapping up my, my Authority Accelerator Masterclass and
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  Business by Design Doors were opened this last week and a half.
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  And I've been welcoming new members into our business by design,
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  mentorship, and it's been really, really fun and very, very exciting.
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  And this is one of the things that has come up over and over and over
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  again, through this masterclass, through the people that I've been
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  talking to on clarity calls and just whenever I'm swimming in something.
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  Feel like it's my duty to bring it here to the show.
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  And if you're listening to the show, you probably are an ambitious person.
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  You're probably somebody who is looking to grow.
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  You wanna change your station in life.
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  You are somewhere and you're like, I don't accept this.
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  I wanna create my life.
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  I don't want to be just a passenger in life.
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  I want to have a say in the intention of where I'm going.
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  I want freedom.
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  I wanna feel like my business supports me.
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  I want to have, I have really big goals and really big dreams of how I
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  wanna live and what I wanna create.
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  And I refer to this as like shifting to a higher timeline.
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  I'm gonna go through a lot of this stuff and I'm gonna talk
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  about human design's role.
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  In shifting to this higher timeline.
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  We're gonna talk about the silent killer in your business.
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  'cause these are just things that I have noticed over and over and over again.
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  Now, having worked with hundreds of entrepreneurs, like
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  how do we make these shifts?
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  How do we change things?
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  How do we go from good to great?
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  Right?
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  So we're gonna talk about the silent killer in your business.
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  We are gonna talk about how human design shifts this thing better than
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  anything shifts this silent killer.
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  How human design plays a role in this and what it really takes to
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  shift to your highest timeline.
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  What does it really take to change the results that you're getting
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  in a really big, meaningful way?
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  How do you quantum leap?
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  How do you go from, you know, like, like I did, how do you go from
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  making like $50,000 a year in your business or something to making 250
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  within like just a couple of years?
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  How do you shift that quickly?
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  How do we make these big changes?
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  I went from doing 10 to $15,000 months to doubling that in one year.
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  That was a big, big shift, and I'm gonna talk about what.
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  Kind of the come to Jesus moment that I had to have with myself about what I
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  wanted to create, how I was showing up.
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  Because especially if you're going from good to great, if you've already had
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  some success, but you haven't maybe been able to sustain it, or you haven't been
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  able to break through a new ceiling that you have, it's not gonna be necessarily
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  these big, obvious things necessarily.
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  It's gonna be rather subtle.
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  The things that you have to change, you're gonna have to start to really notice.
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  What it is that you do, your behavior, you are going to
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  have to notice how you show up.
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  So I'm gonna, I'm gonna break all of this down and first, before I do, I
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  want to, I, I wanna just say that I have a lot of empathy for people who
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  are in this phase of, you know, I don't really know what my next move is.
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  I don't know what that is.
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  I have had many down times I have had.
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  Many big shifts, many come to Jesus moments where I've really
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  had to examine what's going on.
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  And I, and there were times where it was the outside world.
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  I was like, you know, it's, this program didn't work for me.
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  This thing didn't work out.
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  Um, you know, these people didn't show up.
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  The clients aren't there.
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  I haven't figured something out.
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  I would be looking at outside things to, you know, to explain
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  why things weren't working.
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  And so I have a lot of compassion for people when they're in this place
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  because it's very difficult to read the label from inside the bottle.
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  And, and I'll be honest, I, I had some great mentors who helped me, but you
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  know, a lot of times, a lot of the people that I was hiring were these
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  really big people with these giant programs, and I never talked to them.
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  So it wasn't until I started doing some certifications, it wasn't until I started
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  hiring people at a higher level and really getting into rooms where I was like, I
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  wanna know that I'm talking to my coach.
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  I'm not talking to an underling coach, that it's someone
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  who can actually help me.
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  'cause I can't see my blind spots.
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  And that's what I'm, that's what I am paying for.
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  I'm paying to, to transform.
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  That's what I'm about.
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  That's what I need.
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  I don't need more tactics.
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  I've got those coming out my ears.
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  But that's a very safe place to go because if it's the tactic, if it's just
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  the, the strategy that I am, I, I need, that's not working, then it's not me.
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  It's so much easier to look at that.
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  If I just have to figure out how to write an Instagram caption and do that every
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  day, that's way easier for me than really looking inside at why I'm not showing up.
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  Or why I am attracting the things that I am, or why I'm creating the
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  same negative patterns that I find so painful, how am I creating them?
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  So, so what I wanna talk about, I, I wanna go into all of this.
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  I wanna, you know, I'm, this might be a little bit messy.
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  I have some notes, but I really wanna dive into this because, um, I had big goals.
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  Let's just start there with having a big goal.
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  I encourage everybody to have a really big goal.
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  You should have a big, hairy, scary goal.
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  You should have something that stretches you because it's going
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  to require you even if you want.
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  You know that, that, that saying, shoot for the moon.
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  Aim for the star, aim.
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  Aim for the moon, settle for the stars.
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  That that is kind of how you have to be.
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  You have to shoot so far.
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  Because in order to move to the level that you need to move and change to
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  the level that you need to change, you need to stretch yourself so
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  that you can settle for the stars.
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  And you know what?
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  Sometimes you get the moon, sometimes it works out that way,
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  and there is a formula to that.
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  It's just one that a lot of people will not really commit to.
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  They really won't show up for.
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  So, for instance, like I have a goal every year.
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  I, I, I always set this crazy goal of like, I'm gonna double my revenue and
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  what that does doubling my revenue.
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  I mean, that's, that's, that's big, especially when you start
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  getting into bigger numbers.
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  When you're going from, you know, 200 to 500,000.
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  That's a big difference.
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  If you're like, oh, I'm making $250,000 this year.
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  I wanna make 500 next year.
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  That's a big shift.
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  I told my mentor, I just signed up for a new mastermind and she's
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  like, um, you know, what are you doing now and what are your goals?
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  And I was like, I am at about 300,000 through the year, uh, on pace for that
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  and I wanna make a million next year.
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  And I'm like, I know that sounds insane.
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  And she's like, it doesn't sound insane.
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  You can ab absolutely do that.
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  And in my mind I'm like, no, I can't.
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  It's insane, but I'm gonna settle for whatever is, if I get
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  anywhere near that number, I will be like, I'll blow my own mind.
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  And she's holding that vision to say, no, no, no, that that's possible.
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  I did that.
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  I went from 300 to a million in one year.
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  So, so one, having somebody that can hold that vision for you
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  and can say, this is possible.
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  You can do it.
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  Here's what that's gonna require.
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  So, but when I say that I wanna double my revenue, I know when I'm
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  saying I need to show up and I talk to people all the time where they'll
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  say, you know, sometimes people get on, um, breakthrough sessions with me
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  and I ask them what their goals are.
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  I say, well, where are you now?
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  And, and you know, I say, what's your goal?
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  And they'll tell me, they'll be like, you know, I wanna make, you know,
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  I wanna do like $30,000 a month.
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  And I'm like, cool, where are you?
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  And they're like, I'm at 5,000.
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  And I'm like, that's fine.
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  You can do that.
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  We can absolutely do that.
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  But that's going to require a big commitment from you and they get
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  shaky on how they will show up.
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  I don't wanna do too much, I don't wanna work too much.
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  I wanna work 20 hours a week.
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  And I'm like, you can, we can certainly work toward that, but you, it will
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  require you to show up differently.
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  The hours, you might be able to work the 20 hours, but that
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  means that you are going to have to show up in those 20 hours.
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  As the absolute best, highest version of you.
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  That's possible.
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  So how do we do that?
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  And, and you know, I always say like, you know, I say to potential clients
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  when they come to me with this, or even people inside my programs, and I say
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  it to myself, I wanna be really clear.
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  I say this to myself if I have an extraordinary goal.
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  It's going to ex require me to do extraordinary things.
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  I'm going to have to do something very different than what I've done before.
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  I'm going to have to trust at a bigger level.
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  I am going to have to move at a more powerful level.
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  I'm going to have to do different things, and I'm gonna have to show up differently
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  to the things I'm already doing.
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  I'm going to have to play a bigger game.
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  And that's where I then say, well, where am I not playing a bigger game?
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  And then I ask myself, okay, well who do I need to get near?
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  Who do I need to be in proximity to?
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  Who do I need to learn from in order to raise my frequency and raise myself
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  just in my, my daily activities?
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  How do I raise my energy and raise like my, my level of, of commitment?
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  In my business to this level, how, who do I need to be next to?
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  Who do I need to run with?
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  Because I do want an extraordinary life.
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  I do.
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  And I have to recognize that I can't just sit on the couch
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  and expect that to show up.
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  I can't just have a dream and expect it to knock on the door one day.
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  I'm going to have to go after it.
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  So now, where does human design fit into all of this?
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  So, human design, let, let's just talk a little bit about, for just a second
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  about how this, where this maybe gets a little screwed up with alignment.
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  Some people will talk about alignment and they think that alignment means
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  they're not doing anything uncomfortable.
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  It's not true.
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  Alignment simply means or misalignment simply means that you are doing
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  something out of pure pressure.
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  Or out of, you know, the openness in your chart.
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  If we're talking about human design misalignment, you are
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  going against your grain.
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  It doesn't mean that you are always comfortable.
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  It does not mean that things always work out.
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  It means that you're in alignment with your process, and if you're
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  in alignment with your process, then you can trust that process.
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  I always say I don't, I don't know if things are going to work out when
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  I take a move, so I just invested in a, in a high ticket mastermind.
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  I just did that to someone.
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  I did not have a lot of.
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  Experience with, I was not in her world for long, and I was like, I just sense
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  that she's the person that's going to raise me up in this particular area that
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  I have been playing small in for a while, and small for me, I'm doing really well,
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  but if I wanna make a million dollars next year, if I even wanna say that goal
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  out loud, just said that recorded here.
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  Right.
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  If I really wanna go after that, then I'm going to have to put my money where
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  my mouth is literally and figuratively.
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  I'm going to have to show up bigger.
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  I'm going to have to really look at these places where I have shrunk, or
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  I have played small, or I have gotten too comfortable and get uncomfortable.
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  So I specifically joined this woman because I'm like, I think she's
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  going to stretch me, push me, and expand me in this one specific area.
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  Everything else from her.
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  I don't really need to know more.
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  I'm just like, this is where I need growth.
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  So how human design fits into all of this.
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  I got a sacral.
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  Yes.
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  I felt a yes.
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  I felt a yes.
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  This feels right.
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  This feels good.
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  I get excited.
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  I get ideas when I'm in her presence, when I'm listening to her talk, when
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  I'm in her group, when I am engaged with her stuff, I am feeling lit up.
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  I'm feeling excited.
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  I'm feeling satisfied.
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  These are my signature tells, right?
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  I'm also an emotional authority.
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  I sat with this for a bit.
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  I did not jump right in.
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  As soon as it felt good, I got really clear and then I sat down with my
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  husband because I don't ask permission from him once I've made a decision.
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  But I do consult him because one, I, whenever I make a large
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  investment, I believe he has the right to know we are a partnership.
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  But also I have made.
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  Investments without telling him in the past, and I vowed both to him
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  and to myself, but mostly to myself that I would never do that again.
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  Why?
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  Because I brought shame into our relationship.
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  I brought secrets into our relationship, suddenly something that I shouldn't
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  feel bad about, making an investment in my business with my business's
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  revenue, reinvesting in my business.
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  Suddenly now I make a deep, dark secret.
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  And because what I'm afraid that he'll say no, then maybe I don't feel
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  comfortable enough in my decision, then maybe I'm really not in my alignment.
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  Human design.
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  How this shifts you to a higher timeline.
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  Let's just talk about this a little bit.
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  Um, you know, manifesting, shifting to a higher timeline.
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  I refer to this because when we wanna choose a new future.
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  Right now we have to make a choice to start making decisions as that
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  best version of ourself or as that next level version of ourselves.
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  So what's gonna stop us from doing that?
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  Usually fear.
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  Usually fear, um, that we're gonna have, we're gonna bring uncertainty about making
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  an investment like the one that I made.
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  Uh, we're gonna feel uncertainty about maybe bringing on a new team member.
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  There's all these things that we might have to do that feel like they are scary.
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  And what human design can help us do is it can start to help us build trust in the
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  very basic thing of making our decisions.
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  Because I make decisions according to my authority, according
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  to my strategy and authority.
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  I'm not questioning so, so let, let me just back up here for a second.
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  A lot of people, ha, myself included, have been burned in the past or feel
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  like they have been, they've made investments and they have not paid off.
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  They have not gotten a return on their investment.
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  I've been there, I have not gotten a return on many investments
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  or so I thought at the time.
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  Once I started to get into alignment with my design and I started to shift myself
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  one, once, I didn't have the resistance that I didn't even know was in me.
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  I thought it was the outside world.
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  I thought it was the programs.
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  I thought it was the strategies that I picked up.
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  But the truth was it was the operator.
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  I was the operator.
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  I was running an old operating system for brand new apps, and I hadn't upgraded.
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  So they were buggy, they weren't working.
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  So when I started to unravel my conditioning by do, by doing
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  the deconditioning work, when I started to open myself up, then I
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  started to get different results with those exact same things.
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  But before that, we sit in uncertainty.
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  We sit in lack of trust.
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  We don't wanna make the investment, we don't wanna make the change,
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  we don't wanna do the thing that we know in our heart is correct.
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  Because we're scared.
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  We're scared that we aren't worth the investment.
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  We are scared that the industry is a bunch of liars.
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  We're scared that we can't make it.
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  We're scared that the clients don't exist.
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  We're scared that social media doesn't like us, and the algorithm is gonna screw
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  us and we're never gonna figure it out.
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  All of these things, we have a lack of trust in.
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  That's really all fear is.
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  Fear is just, you know, there's actual necessary fear like I fear for my life,
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  so I'm going to run because there's something chasing me, and then there is
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  lack of trust that things will work out.
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  That's the one that stands in the way of entrepreneurs skyrocketing their results.
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  Right.
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  Lack of trust is at the center of everything and in entrepreneurship,
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  trust is not an option.
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  It is necessary.
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  It is pivotal to your success because when you come to make a decision.
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  And you've got all of those voices, the voice of your shame, the voice of your
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  fear, the voice of old coaches and these people, and maybe your partner telling
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  you you're not worthy of the investment.
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  Oh my God, is this gonna be another one of those things
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  that doesn't work out for you?
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  All of that is feeding, usually shame, shame and guilt, which
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  are, you know, very close cousins.
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  But we have all of this.
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  It's triggering us.
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  To shrink, to be scared, to not move, to not go in the direction of
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  our dreams and to stay where we are.
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  And then maybe you make a lower cost investment because that feels
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  safer, but it doesn't shift you.
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  It doesn't change you because you didn't change you.
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  You picked up another strategy.
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  I say this 'cause I've done it.
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  I say this 'cause I've been there.
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  I'm not saying this from a place of superiority, quite the contrary.
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  I'm saying this because I have done these exact same things and I've
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  realized that it's the bigger investments that one, I can't turn away from.
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  The ones where I have so much skin in the game, I'm like, I will
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  not allow myself to fail here.
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  One, two.
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  That's where I will get the level of support that I need.
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  I will get somebody pointing out my blind spots.
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  But this lack of trust, lack of trust is the silent killer in your business.
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  Because what it really results in when you lack trust and you show up and you
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  do like the lower ticket program, or you know, you go back to like the old
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  programs that you have because you're trying to find a way around it, but
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  you haven't really shifted internally, what you get is halfheartedness.
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  What you get is a lack of commitment because there's a lack of trust.
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  Commitment is more than just showing up.
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  You don't get points for coming to class.
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  You don't get an attendance award in entrepreneurship.
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  Unfortunately, just showing up is not enough.
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  It's unshakeable commitment to the person that you're becoming.
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  It is, I believe, no matter what I commit, no matter what, and you get to such a
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  deep level of commitment to yourself.
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  That the failures don't shake you as much.
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  Why?
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  Because you have to work through all of that shame that was causing you to
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  shut down when things didn't work out.
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  This is why entrepreneurship is an inner game first.
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  There are strategies, there are tactics, there are ways to make more money.
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  There is messaging.
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  All of that stuff is valid and necessary.
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  But the one thing that is not, it's, it's a total variable 'cause every person is
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  different, but it's the one thing, there are millions of strategies out there,
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  and some of 'em might be your favorite, some might work for you, some might not.
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  But the one thing that is not optional on the table is that you
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  have to upgrade yourself at every single level that you wanna reach.
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  You have to commit at a deeper level to yourself, to your goals, to where
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  you're going, and to letting go of the things in your past and in your energy
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  that are holding you back at every level, you are going to face yourself.
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  This new level I wanna achieve.
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  I know there's gonna be strategic things I have to do, but I'm also, I'm
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  going to have to try lots of things.
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  I'm gonna turn the dial up on lots of stuff and I'm going to
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  have a, have to have a level of belief that they will work.
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  So I'm showing up in the energy of it's all happening and I have
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  to have the resilience to say that if it doesn't happen, I don't
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  make it mean anything about me.
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  I can't do that if I'm carrying guilt, shame, and fear because
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  I'll be too triggered to really sit and trust in those moments.
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  To say that even when it doesn't look like it's happening, it's happening.
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  I trust that I'm showing up in full and total devotion, and when I show
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  up in full clean energy and belief that what I want is inevitable, that
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  I will either get the result that I want or the lesson that I need, I do.
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  It all comes to me.
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  Even if I can't see it right now.
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  That's the level of trust I'm talking about.
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  That's the level of trust.
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  And some people say like, I trust I'm committed.
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  But then something happens in their business, something looks like,
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  you know, it's not gonna work out.
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  They have a failed launch.
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  They have um, they have a payment that fails.
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  They have somebody who asks for a refund.
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  All of these things, and they fault pieces.
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  That's, that's not trust, that's a trigger.
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  And if you have a trigger, you've gotta know how to deal with it.
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  And this is where human design and the deconditioning that I do like, where we go
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  deep into the deconditioning, we go deep into really rewiring your nervous system.
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  People talk about regulating your nervous system, and that's awesome.
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  Regulating is great, but you can't regulate until you've cleared it all out.
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  Do you know what I mean?
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  Regulating is a moment to moment thing, but you're just coming back
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  down to like whatever your baseline is, and if your baseline is mildly
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  triggered or easily triggered, then you're just bringing it back down
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  there and waiting for the next one.
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  If you're not dealing with those triggers and going deep enough to
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  really deactivate them where you're really creating interchange in
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  yourself, you are expanding your energy.
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  That's what it is.
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  This is while not complicated.
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  We are complex beings and it requires work.
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  This is why I don't just have strategic programs, I don't have
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  just energetic, because I believe that you need to be doing both in
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  tandem to have that fast paced.
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  Growth that we all want to be on.
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  We wanna be on that higher timeline.
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  It's going to require you to do different things.
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  It's gonna require you to try different things.
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  It's gonna require you to show up when you fall down.
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  Get up, get up quickly, get up strong.
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  Work through whatever you feel so that you can show up in the
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  energy of I get what I want.
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  I'm in the energy of what I want, not what I don't want.
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  I'm in the energy of expansion, not contraction.
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  That comes from that is belief.
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  Manifestation is really just unshakeable belief that what
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  you want is already yours, and consistent, intentional, inspired
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  action in alignment with those goals.
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  I want something, I know it's already mine, but you have to believe
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  that to the level of your energy.
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  It's not a thought.
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  That's where people get stuck.
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  We think that it's a thought, but anybody who ever affirmed I'm a millionaire in the
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  mirror, every morning would be one by now.
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  If that was all it took, it's not Change your thoughts, change your life.
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  It's change your thoughts, which change your feelings, which changes
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  your energy, which changes your life.
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  But that's harder to say and it's harder to do.
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  Because if you have, this is where the beliefs come from.
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  We can rewire beliefs, but you can't do it at the cognitive level.
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  I've seen way too many smart people totally tricking themselves into thinking
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  that they don't have these beliefs.
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  Oh no, I don't think that.
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  I don't have that.
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  I'm like, well, you keep attracting it.
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  It keeps happening.
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  So are you sure you don't believe that or are you maybe in your head?
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  And that's part of the problem.
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  You have to be in a place where people are, are you have somebody who has
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  been where you wanna go, who can call you out on your shit, who can show
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  you what the road looks like ahead.
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  I always say that like, um, you know, having a mentor is like driving down a
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  dark road that you've never been down.
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  And when you have a mentor, it's like you put headlights on.
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  And they're shining the light so you can see down the road and
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  you can see where you're going.
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  It's much safer and easier to get where you wanna go when
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  you can see where you're going.
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  They're the guide.
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  So I hope that this inspired you to choose your highest timeline, because
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  when you do that, you have to choose it now because things don't show up
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  the second that we show up again, this is another thing of like commitment.
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  We have to commit to doing the thing now, doing it tomorrow, doing it the next
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  day, doing it every day energetically showing up and physically showing up,
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  putting our best self into our work.
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  If I wanna get extraordinary, if I wanna get an extraordinary result, I'm going
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  to have to show up as an extraordinary person doing extraordinary things.
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  I'm going to have to do something that scares me in order to get
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  something that is outside of the realm of my reality right now.
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  That's the commitment that we need and we have to show up and we have
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  to show up for that possibility.
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  You gotta wake up every day and be like, it's possible.
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  And feel that in your bones.
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  It's mine.
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  I feel that in my bones.
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  And then you show up and you do the work.
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  And I see this all the time.
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  People show up, do the work, and then they're like, is it here yet?
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  Is it here yet?
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  Is it here yet?
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  And I'm like, that's not trust.
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  That's conditional belief.
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  I can't see it, so it's not happening.
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  You have to believe when you cannot see it, you cannot
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  wait to see it, to believe it.
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  That's the normal timeline game.
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  You have to, you wanna be on the higher timeline game.
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  You have to believe it before you can see it.
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  And you have to believe it so much that it comes through in your energy, that
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  you wake up feeling it, that it feels like it's yours, even though it's not.
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  You're grateful for it already, and you show up every day like it is yours,
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  that the commitment is to that level.
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  That's what changes your life.
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  And that's what I work at every single day, and that's the
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  standard that I hold my people to.
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  That we have to do this.
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  This is how we change, this is how we shift.
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  And you can do that with human design because human design is building
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  trust in yourself, in your process, not in, it has to be this way.
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  'cause this coach taught me this way and if it isn't this
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  way, then it won't happen.
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  Oh no, I change something.
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  'cause I'm a projector and I'm not gonna do it like they did it.
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  So it's not gonna work.
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  No, you have to trust in who you are.
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  You have to trust in the way that you do things.
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  So when you change something, you show up being like, this is gonna work,
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  this, I, I, I either get the result that I want or the lesson that I need.
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  You show up with that level of belief.
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  The difference is, is that when you show up fearing that it won't
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  work, that's the energy you're in.
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  You're in uncertainty.
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  And uncertainty brings you things you don't want.
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  You get lessons and challenges rather than the results that you want because
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  you are not believing to that level.
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  You haven't energetically gotten there.
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  That's the energetic game and that, quite frankly, for the non sacrals, that game is
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  even more important for you because you're incredible manifesters when you do it.
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  If you can get past.
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  All the noise in your head telling you it has to be another way and
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  all the fear that that kicks up.
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  I'm gonna leave this here.
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  I hope that this inspired you to take an action with true devotion in your
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  body, to trust yourself, to stretch yourself, to make a move that the version
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  of you who is on that highest timeline would be thanking you for right now.
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  We're at the end of this Eclipse portal, and this is very much if you listen
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  to my episodes with Christina Luna.
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  This was one of the exercises she gave us where this eclipse was to write a
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  letter from your future self to your present self and what are you thanking
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  her for doing today that got you to where you were, your you ended up next year.
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  What are you thanking her for?
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  That's, that's what I wish for you.
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  That you can get in the energy of it's already mine, it's already here.
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  So much so that I can project out a year.
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  I can visualize that and I can thank myself Right now.
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  I'm gonna write myself a letter to Nicole in September of 2025,
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  and I'm gonna thank her for making that choice that changed our lives.
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  I'm gonna thank her for showing up a certain way.
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  I'm gonna thank her.
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  For making the shifts and doing the scary things and for showing up when it
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  wasn't working and for believing when she couldn't see it because we ended up here.
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  That's what I wish for you.
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  So go write that letter to yourself.
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  What are you thanking yourself for?
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  And I hope that you can believe that in your bones and that
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  you're making decisions that are equal to your highest self.
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  And not the version of you that sits here now listening to this,
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  I hope this inspired you to shift to that higher timeline.
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  Thank you so much for being here.
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  I appreciate you.
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  And remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must
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  first become an unshakeable human.
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  So thanks for letting us help you become unshakeable with human design.
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  We'll see you next time.