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MINI SCROLL: Alix Earle reality show, TikTok rainbow hair dye drama + viral airplane panic attack "ragebait" · Mini Scroll

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  Hi everyone. Welcome to Mini Scroll, the
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  Every Monday through Thursday and sometimes Fridays.
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  I'm your host, Lauren Meisner, the founder of the youth digital
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  please. All right, let's get into the
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  stories for today. So the first story that I have
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  for you guys, of course I needed to talk about how Alex Earl now
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  has her own Netflix reality show.
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  So on January 22nd, Netflix and Alex, Netflix and Alex sound so
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  weird. Netflix and Alex announced that
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  they're coming together for an unscripted series that is set to
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  drop later this year. Now, we don't know too much
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  about the show at this stage, but at the time of recording,
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  Alex announced the news with a clip where she's talking on the
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  phone with her dad. Dad, it's going.
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  To be fun, it's going to be fine.
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  I mean, what's the worst that could happen?
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  Just toss me. That'll be fun.
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  According to a blog post published by Netflix, the show
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  will be giving fans a quote unfiltered look at her life,
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  which will include insight into her family life and friends.
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  The post also includes some comments by Alex which give a
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  little bit of insight into why she has decided to pursue this.
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  For instance, when asked why a reality show, she said quote,
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  I've shared my life for years through my own camera.
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  But this felt like the next phase because it's a chance to
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  go deeper. Not just the highlights, but the
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  real moments to the vulnerable ones, the hard ones, and the fun
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  chaotic ones in between. It's the same authenticity
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  people know me for, but now with a different lens.
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  OK, that is PR perfection. She also made a TikTok at ready
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  with me about this. I am doing a reality show on
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  Netflix. I can't believe I'm saying that.
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  It's going to be me, my whole family and then some of my like
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  inner circle friends. You also need everyone to be
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  ready and on board. Like I can't do this alone.
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  My hands are. Shaking right now.
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  Because I'm so like excited and nervous, but the time has never
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  really felt right. And I wanted to make sure like I
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  was also ready because I mean, sometimes I would get in front
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  of cameras and just get really shy and weird.
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  There's also a whole side that you don't get to see.
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  And especially when it comes to my family.
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  And for example, like me and my sister are so drastically
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  different. My mom, my dad, my stepmom, my 3
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  younger siblings, so many different characters roles in
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  life. Like I don't know, maybe someone
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  relates to being a stepmom. Maybe someone relates to have
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  gone through being a single mom. I want to take you behind the
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  scenes of business ventures, tough conversations with my
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  friends, my family. And I think when people hear
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  like docu series, reality show, they just think like drama.
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  And obviously I mean, that's just life.
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  Like there's going to be drama and things that happen.
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  But I really want like it to be comical and funny.
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  Now, there has been speculation for years that Alex and her
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  family would end up creating a reality type show.
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  These rumors intensified in 2023, with social media
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  convinced that a show called Earl Girls would be released.
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  That is a mouthful, full mouth mouthful Earl girls.
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  Some people at the time also thought it would be exclusive
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  like unwell networks first reality show, but we know how
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  that turned out. Alex, her friends and her
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  families are definitely prime candidates for a reality show
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  for a couple reasons. First, she's always kind of
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  shared her friends online as well as her family.
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  People are already invested in these relationships and this
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  feels kind of like the next step, like she was saying in her
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  PR statement. And I've seen a lot of people
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  talk about how this feels a lot more native to through her
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  content and how we know her than her podcast ever did, which I do
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  agree with. Her career obviously is also
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  skyrocketing right now, especially after Dancing with
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  the Stars. And she does have an interesting
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  blended family dynamic. I hope that they touch on that a
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  lot. I hope that they share a bit
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  about that. I'm interested to see how well
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  it does because I know I recently spoke about how there's
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  this misconception that seeing like these huge displays of
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  wealth, it doesn't hit with audiences when we have shows
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  like the Kardashians and Housewives and all of these
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  franchises that do so well. However, I do think the
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  difference here is releasing a show like this now we're like
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  Alex's family. I know it's not about their
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  wealth. I know it'll be about their
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  dynamics, their relationships, and I understand it will be more
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  like family friendly. But I still think they are so
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  wealthy and Alex herself now individually is so wealthy.
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  It's going to be so hard to avoid that, right?
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  And I think it's more palatable for us to watch the like
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  established franchises. Just I do wonder if watching an
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  influencer family like this now who are so wealthy from our
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  views, if that's going to land. I think we'll see.
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  OK, the next story that I have for you guys today, has anybody
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  else seen the rainbow hair TikTok drama?
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  I need to talk about it. It's so niche I don't even know
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  how this became drama but here we are.
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  So there is this like TikTok drama happening between 2 users
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  over an at home hair dye situation.
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  So this at home hair dye situation didn't involve both of
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  these women to start with. OK, It was one girl named Ari.
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  She is 17 years old and another woman named Cheryl.
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  Cheryl is not involved in the hair dyeing.
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  She was just somebody who watched Ari's video.
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  Ari dyed her hair. So Ari's mother dyed her hair.
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  This like very amazing rainbow look.
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  She made this very cute video saying my mom dyed my hair.
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  It took us 8 hours. I love it so much.
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  OK, Cheryl coming printed on the original video writing 8 hours.
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  What did you guys do that took 8 hours?
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  I'm legitimately befuddled how anybody's hair can take more
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  than two to three hours and most of that's waiting, Ari
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  responded. My mom is disabled so doing this
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  kind of stuff is hard for her, but I'm so grateful that she did
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  it for me. OK, I just need to start off by
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  saying this is just not true. I literally told you guys
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  yesterday that my hair, which is not rainbow, it is nowhere near
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  as long as Ari's takes like 6 hours.
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  And that is by a professional hair stylist.
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  And I go to his professional salon.
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  He's actually the owner of the salon.
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  It takes six hours. Yes, he is doing more than just
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  my foils, but I get a half ahead of highlights.
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  The fact that this only took them 8 hours at home when
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  neither of them are professional hairdressers.
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  There are like a million colors in her hair.
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  It looks so good. I can't believe it only took the
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  maid hours. OK so then Cheryl responded
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  again. I mean that would make sense if
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  that's the case, but your hands are literally purple in the
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  videos of you pulling your hair out of foils.
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  Almost like you did it. Questioning if this girl is
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  lying about her mother doing her hair.
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  Why? Why does it matter?
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  OK. And then it escalated because
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  then Cheryl made a video about this.
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  So there's this girl on here with rainbow hair, right?
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  She just did her hair and she's talking about how it took her 8
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  hours to do. Now her hair is probably like
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  here, maybe here. So it's not a shit ton more hair
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  than me. Not a shit ton.
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  And so I left a comment. I never said anything about how
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  the hair looks because the hair looks adorable.
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  It's fucking cute. But that's not what I was going
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  for. I said 8 hours.
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  My my comment literally said 8 hours.
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  How? What took you guys 8 hours?
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  I'm legitimately befuddled and confused as to what take it took
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  8 hours. Apparently that makes me the
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  biggest Dick on the fucking planet because I'm sorry.
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  I bleach my hair about 40 minutes, done.
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  Wash it out, put the color in another 40 minutes, done, Wash
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  it out, done. I just wanted to know what took
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  you so long because it takes me under 5 to do 6 colors in my
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  hair. I understand I'm good at
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  everything I try because I'm fucking autistic, which is why I
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  was befuddled as to how it still takes 8 to 9 hours and $400.00
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  for someone else do your fucking.
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  Hair again, girl, why do you care?
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  So then? Ari responded in her own video.
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  My mother is disabled. She took her time out of her day
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  to do my hair for me and on top of being already disabled she
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  just injured her leg. And then on top of that she
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  worked all night long, came home, picked me up, brought me
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  to Sally's, brought me back home, and then immediately dyed
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  my hair. When I said it took 8 hours, I
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  misspoke. It took around like 6 or 7 hours
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  to dye my hair again because my mother is disabled.
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  I'm bringing this up because A, my mother deserves recognition,
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  and B, because what is this whole direction on top of my
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  mother being disabled? My hair is really, really
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  intricate. She took her time, parted it.
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  She did all these different colors, she mixed color.
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  She did all this different stuff while being disabled.
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  And my hands were dyed purple because I hold up the hair
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  pieces for my mom as she dyes my hair.
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  I help her a little bit. I help her a little bit because
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  she's doing me a favor while being disabled.
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  However, then Cheryl kept going. She has made so many videos
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  about this and a lot of them are talking about how she's being
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  misunderstood. One of her main points is how
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  neurotypical people are coming into her comments section and
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  you're talking about this whole situation and they're just like
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  not understanding what her point was.
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  I too am disabled by the definition.
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  Is she physically disabled? Is she mentally disabled?
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  Is she? Does she have some kind of heart
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  disability? I apologize that I think that
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  disabled people are capable of doing things.
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  My error. So you've made two videos now
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  about the fact that everybody and their mother that has seen
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  this comment and video is misunderstanding the fucking
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  point. Like I literally made a video
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  about what the point is. The point is not the comment.
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  The point is the response to the comment.
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  Because the comment was a curiosity question.
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  It was a fucking question. It wasn't a judgement, it wasn't
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  an assumption. It was a fucking question and I
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  got the answer. She's my mom's disabled.
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  OK, but what disability does she have that would make take 8
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  hours to do your fucking hair? I just woke up from a nap to a
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  bunch of neurotypicals saying the fucking same thing over and
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  over again. You guys are beautiful like you.
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  You are literally no divergent people.
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  Can you speak here? Because I can't believe that
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  there's this many people here who are going to take the words
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  that I've said on multiple occasions and still think it's
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  about something else. I really want to reiterate that
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  Ari is 17 and that's a huge thing that people are bringing
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  up too. Ari is 17 years old and
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  apparently Cheryl is 41. I don't know how TikTok users
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  have verified that, but apparently, allegedly she is 41.
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  Regardless, she is not 17. No adult should be feuding with
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  a minor online. Like, we just need to let that
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  go. So Cheryl's comments are filled
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  with people saying like, it's weird to question Ari's mother's
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  disability when she obviously mentioned her disability to
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  imply that it affected how long it took her to do her hair, to
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  do Ari's hair, right? Like, so you don't need to know
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  more details than that. She is just saying my mom has a
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  disability. So, you know, these things are
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  not super easy for her. I'm grateful she did it.
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  That just tells you what you need to know, that her mother
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  has some type of disability that would have impacted the amount
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  of time that this took. Nobody needs to disclose their
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  disability over like a hair dye video.
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  Her video wasn't controversial at all.
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  She just said she loved the hair that her mom gave her.
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  I just, I don't know how this turned into what it is.
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  OK. So the final update is Cheryl
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  has now apologized kind of. OK, guys.
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  Are you happy? Because clearly I'm able to
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  comment on her page so I don't have her blocked.
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  I did not block her. None of that happened.
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  But I did decide ultimately then I was going to apologize for how
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  I made her feel. I'm not going to apologize for
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  what I said because I legitimately didn't say
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  anything. Mean, I did not bully anybody.
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  I did not say it was a competition.
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  None of that happened. And all of that was a
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  misunderstanding that you guys put on me.
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  So I am legitimately sorry for how I made her feel, but I'm not
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  going to apologize for the misunderstanding.
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  And then Ari responded basically saying this isn't a real
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  apology. Can I just say Ari is so mature
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  for 17? When I was 17, I would have
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  never been even half as articulate, confident, poised as
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  she is, as she's being in this situation.
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  It is one of the weirdest, you guys.
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  And I stand with Ari, that hair taking actually only 8 hours by
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  somebody who's not a professional hairdresser.
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  What a slave. All right.
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  And the last story that I have for you guys today is there is a
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  video that is going super viral by a Singapore based TikTok
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  creator where she documented herself having a panic attack on
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  an airplane. So this video is by Under Score
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  You Mia, where Mia shared a compilation of her on a flight
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  with the caption What I Ate on the Flight Anxious Flyer
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  Edition. The video starts off with Mia
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  talking the audience through her meals, but then it took a turn.
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  Around halfway through the video, Mia explains the plane
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  started experiencing turbulence, to which it cuts to a video of
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  her literally screaming from anxiety.
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  And I was. Really shitting myself.
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  OK, I'm so sorry for the scream. Basically, it fell at the plane,
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  dipped, and I screamed alongside.
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  I'm so sorry for everyone who were on that plane because more
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  than the turbulence itself, I think I scared everyone.
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  OK, now I'm feeling much better. I'm moving on to a snack, orange
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  juice. The video currently has 37
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  million views. Now many people have been
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  debating if this was a quote UN quote like real panic attack or
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  if it was just for the camera. In the video though, Mia does
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  acknowledge that this was quote so dramatic to scream that much.
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  But she also says that there was a food flying in the aisle so
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  that's why she was so freaked out.
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  To be fair, if I was experiencing plane turbulence to
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  the point where there was food flying down the aisle, I would
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  be freaked the fuck out too. Mia has since posted a follow up
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  video saying that the scream was real and that she also felt
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  sorry for the other passengers near her.
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  In the video, she also gave some context as to why she is scared
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  of flying, where she said she was on a flight that had extreme
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  turbulence and ended up fracturing her spine.
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  I'm sorry to disappoint you guys, but it was, I am really
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  sorry for all the other passengers from the same like if
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  there was another anxious flyer on board, my scream rib made her
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  journey so uncomfortable. I fully understand their pain.
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  So that's the last thing I ought to do on the plane.
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  Just because it doesn't look like anxiety that you know,
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  maybe because you were never in a situation where you were
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  afraid of. I mean, you get to decide
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  whether my anxiety was real or not.
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  I'll tell you how I got my fear. I was on this flight, which was
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  extreme turbulent. I think it was more than 100
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  injuries and one death. And let me tell you, when this
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  happened, I was in the bathroom and I fractured my spine in my
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  head. I couldn't even register it as a
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  turbulence. I thought the plane was really
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  going down. So this adds up to my fear of
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  flying. In another video, she concluded
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  that maybe she didn't experience a panic attack exactly, but
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  rather PTSD from her previous experiences.
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  OK, I'm not here to debate if she had a real panic attack or
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  not. People experience panic attacks
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  differently. I've actually had a panic attack
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  on a plane. I've only had two my whole life,
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  like 2 panic attacks in my whole life and one of them was
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  actually on a plane and I was flying totally by myself.
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  It was so horrible. But the man beside me, he was so
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  sweet and he was like, I always get scared on planes and he was
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  like giving me the barf bag and I was literally vomiting in the
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  back. This is like TMI but I was
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  literally vomiting in the bag and he was holding it for me.
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  He was so sweet. And the flight attendants, they
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  were all so sweet as well and giving me water.
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  And I was saying and it just literally I have never
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  experienced anything like that. It just came out of nowhere like
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  nowhere like nothing happened. There was no turbulence.
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  Like all of a sudden I just had a panic attack.
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  It was so horrible and I feel so much empathy for people that
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  experience random panic attacks like that because it was so
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  horrible and I just couldn't believe like nothing actually
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  triggered it. You know, that I knew of
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  ANYWAYS. So I totally understand how this
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  can happen. But I wanted to talk about it
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  because it's actually sparked a lot of discourse about
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  performative or like manufactured outrage and how we
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  got there as a culture. And I feel like I have been, I
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  don't want to say like caught in this trap, but I can understand
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  why people post or like overshare.
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  I can understand why people overshare online.
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  There are things that I will post occasionally, like not very
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  often, but on TikTok of me like crying or like just like sharing
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  a story and then a couple weeks later I'm like, why the fuck did
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  I share that? Like that's so embarrassing.
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  That is not a good look girl. Like you need to delete that
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  video. And it's like you just think
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  that being Uber vulnerable is what you are supposed to do when
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  you're trying to connect with people, when you're trying to
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  share a story, you're trying to share a message that you really
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  want people to understand. It's like, Oh, I can pull in
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  this like very the TMI experience, you know, so that
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  people can understand and, and we can connect on that.
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  And especially for me trying to build a business, you hear a lot
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  about how like the founder personal brand and like you need
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  to have, you know, these moments where people really connect with
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  you as the founder and therefore they'll connect with your brand
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  and like all this shit, right? So like, it can really like seep
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  into your brain. You can really start to believe
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  it. So I, I understand why people
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  over share online, but I think in this specific instance,
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  people feel like regardless if it was a real panic attack or
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  not, you know, she filmed it and then she edited it.
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  And you know, in that time she could have chosen not to post it
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  and she chose to keep it in there because she knew it would
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  get engagement. And that is a form of rage bait
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  at the end of the day. So it's kind of sparked this
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  discussion around, you know, even if something's documented,
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  we don't need to post everything.
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  You know, like, I think we're kind of in the era of like a lot
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  of stuff is documented. We over document ourselves.
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  We don't need to actually over post it though.
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  And avoiding or like not engaging in this type of content
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  is actually the only way that will make it go away.
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  The only way for us to be able to like move away from rage bait
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  as being so central to our feeds is if we stop engaging in it.
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  But it's hard and I'm part of the problem right now.
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