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Diamonds in the Rough: Dying for Sex & Jacuzzi Jets · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

• 0:01
  Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Diamonds in the
• 0:18
  Speaker 1: Rough with Teddy.
• 0:19
  Speaker 2: Mellencamp and Erica Jane.
• 0:21
  Speaker 3: Hey, honey, I love that she just immediately starts laughing.
• 0:25
  Speaker 3: Hi guys, welcome. Immediately, I'm like.
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  Speaker 4: Well, you know what, though, it's nice to see you
• 0:30
  Speaker 4: and I'm happy to see you and I enjoy our
• 0:31
  Speaker 4: time together.
• 0:33
  Speaker 3: Well, me too, and that's why I put on Instagram.
• 0:36
  Speaker 3: What are your questions for me and Erica and all
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  Speaker 3: y'all cared about is our sex life.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's okay though, so let's discuss it.
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  Speaker 3: Well, we're gonna have discuss us and we're gonna havelf
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  Speaker 3: discuss this new show that's on FX. It's called Dying
• 0:50
  Speaker 3: for Sex.
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  Speaker 4: With Michelle Williams, which I watched. I got in the
• 0:54
  Speaker 4: first two and a half episode.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it gets a little dark after that. So the
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  Speaker 3: first two and a half episodes is what I think
• 1:01
  Speaker 3: everybody can relate to, whether you have cancer or not.
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  Speaker 3: But it's about Michelle Williams has cancer. It goes away
• 1:09
  Speaker 3: that this season starts where she's in.
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  Speaker 2: Couple's therapy, which is not going well.
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  Speaker 3: Not going well, Like the husband's checking the phone, he's
• 1:18
  Speaker 3: doing he's just checked out, he's done doing all the
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  Speaker 3: wrong things. And her phone rings and she looks at
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  Speaker 3: it and she's like, sorry, I have to take this,
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  Speaker 3: and it's her cancer doctor saying that her cancer is
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  Speaker 3: back and terminal yes, and then we just.
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  Speaker 2: Watch everything unravel.
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  Speaker 4: Literally we watch her completely change her life right after
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  Speaker 4: that session, right during that session, during the session, and
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  Speaker 4: walks out.
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  Speaker 3: Because I think this happens to people who are married,
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  Speaker 3: whether there's cancer.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say the same thing or not.
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  Speaker 4: When she said, you know, I want somebody to touch me, like,
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  Speaker 4: this is what happens, whether you're right, whether there's cancer
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  Speaker 4: or not. In relationships, a lot of times sex lives
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  Speaker 4: fall apart and there's no sex, or there's one partner
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  Speaker 4: that's into it or or not.
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  Speaker 3: Or it just changes. If you don't speak up for
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  Speaker 3: what it is that you want or what it is
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  Speaker 3: that you're looking for, most likely your partner is going
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  Speaker 3: to do it wrong well, and not just sex, but
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  Speaker 3: like intimacy or comfort.
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  Speaker 4: And there's also ebbs and flows in a marriage. Whether
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  Speaker 4: you feel closer, you feel pulled apart, whether it's it's
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  Speaker 4: simple stress of time or finances or children, like you know,
• 2:25
  Speaker 4: marriage or partnerships, however you want to say it. They're
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  Speaker 4: very tough to They require daily watering and weeding. You know,
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  Speaker 4: it's a daily thing that you have to keep your
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  Speaker 4: eye on. And when you're busy with other things, you know,
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  Speaker 4: you pull apart. You become almost strangers living in the
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  Speaker 4: same house and the same sleeping in the same bed.
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  Speaker 3: And then like even sex becomes like procedural, Okay, we
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  Speaker 3: do it this time in this time.
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  Speaker 4: Like, but there are a lot more people that are
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  Speaker 4: living like that than than people in our cast. And
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  Speaker 4: they're like, listen, it is very tough to keep something
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  Speaker 4: like that alive.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you have to both people have to be
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  Speaker 3: willing to receive the information and give.
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  Speaker 4: It and not be not that sounds so crazy, like
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  Speaker 4: not take it personal, to take it personal, like it's
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  Speaker 4: not an attack on you as a bad lover or
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  Speaker 4: anything like that. It's just, hey, I'm feeling this way,
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  Speaker 4: and I think also too. There's something that's interesting about
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  Speaker 4: this show is that women's sexual desires change as they
• 3:22
  Speaker 4: mature and get older. And what you may have once
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  Speaker 4: thought was taboo or something, you know, when you get older,
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  Speaker 4: especially when you're my age. So I'm fifty three, almost
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  Speaker 4: fifty four. I've gone through menopause. But my sexual desires
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  Speaker 4: or my fantasies or whatever you want to say, are
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  Speaker 4: completely different than they were in my twenties and thirties years.
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  Speaker 3: And also what it's going to take, yeah, which is
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  Speaker 3: not which changes Like for me, for example, after going
• 3:49
  Speaker 3: through all of this, they've changed my medication. You have
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  Speaker 3: a sex drive, I have a sex drive. It's really
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  Speaker 3: hard for me.
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  Speaker 5: To have it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would imagine that. But that's also.
• 4:02
  Speaker 4: Antidepressants as well. Like I found that. I found that
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  Speaker 4: when I first went on antidepressants. I was like, whoa wait,
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  Speaker 4: wait a minute.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like it was I mean, not to TMI, but
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  Speaker 3: like I even tried myself, and I was like, this
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  Speaker 3: is fucking exhausting.
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  Speaker 2: It is.
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  Speaker 3: This is exhausting.
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  Speaker 2: I can't be.
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  Speaker 3: I can't be doing this all the time. No, Well,
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  Speaker 3: I was on Amazon. Apparently this was right out of
• 4:23
  Speaker 3: the hospital when I'm still in the hotel.
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  Speaker 2: You don't even remember this, I don't.
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  Speaker 3: Apparently I had purchased too. I gave one to my
• 4:29
  Speaker 3: friend Brooke that came to visit, and she's like, but
• 4:31
  Speaker 3: you forgot the charger. I'm like, you can get another charger.
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  Speaker 3: This is the best there is supposedly, but I never
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  Speaker 3: tried it there. I tried it the night before last,
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  Speaker 3: and I was like, well, I can't do this again.
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  Speaker 2: So you didn't achieve.
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  Speaker 3: I achieved, but I had to achieve it in a
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  Speaker 3: way that wasn't the way it was set up to achieve.
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  Speaker 4: So I used to have to like to watch porn
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  Speaker 4: and and this is something that people don't want to discuss,
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  Speaker 4: but like I had to have multiple full stimulus and
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  Speaker 4: it is in order for me to and then I
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  Speaker 4: get into these sort of like non conventional sorts of thought,
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  Speaker 4: and you know it just my sexuality is.
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  Speaker 2: Really interesting.
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  Speaker 3: But also here's the problem I have with porn is like,
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  Speaker 3: when I'm looking through it, I'm a very like visual person.
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  Speaker 3: And if I find one of the people unattractive, ruined.
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  Speaker 4: Can I tell you something. I'm not looking at faces,
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  Speaker 4: I'm looking at body parts. Oh, I mean I have
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  Speaker 4: this beautiful way of sectioning out something that like I'm
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  Speaker 4: looking at very specific things.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not taking in the entire picture.
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  Speaker 3: See I'm taking an entire picture.
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  Speaker 4: And oftentimes there's no sound. I watch it without sound.
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  Speaker 4: My brain is down to like very specific things.
• 5:52
  Speaker 3: Well, one of the things she does on the show,
• 5:54
  Speaker 3: which is so freaking hilarious to me. So they have
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  Speaker 3: a they've been together for I don't know, let's say
• 6:00
  Speaker 3: it's seven years.
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  Speaker 2: I think it is seven years. Right when ship falls apart?
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  Speaker 3: Ye, ship falls apart. She gets cancer for the first time,
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  Speaker 3: and he turns into like the caregiver, but like solely.
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  Speaker 2: The character the martyred caregiver.
• 6:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, okay, you're only gonna have green juice? Is
• 6:16
  Speaker 3: that you granted? I'm like, let me get my diet,
• 6:18
  Speaker 3: Doctor Pepper. Can I tell you something?
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  Speaker 2: You can have a diet, Doctor Pepper. You've earned the diet.
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  Speaker 3: I asked my doctor everything. Now it's like I'm his stock.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, am I allowed to do this? Am I
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  Speaker 3: allowed to have diet? Doctor Pepper? Am I allowed to
• 6:30
  Speaker 3: get a tattoo? He's like, you're having a lot of
• 6:32
  Speaker 3: life changes. Yes, you're allowed to do these things.
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  Speaker 4: So I kind of like this doctor. I don't know
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  Speaker 4: who this is, but good for you. But are you
• 6:39
  Speaker 4: thinking of getting tattoos?
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  Speaker 3: I think I might be getting one tonight. It's on
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  Speaker 3: my friend's birthday.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 3: But what I want to get. Everyone in my life
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  Speaker 3: is like, it's this is not a good idea, but
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  Speaker 3: I think it's hilarious. What so I want to get
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  Speaker 3: this cute little knife. Okay, so instead of when I'm
• 6:58
  Speaker 3: annoyed at somebody, you can joy, I can just go.
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  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't find a problem with that. I
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  Speaker 2: think it's cute. I did too.
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  Speaker 3: I just have to. I'll send you the pictures of
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  Speaker 3: my cute little knives that I've chosen. But either way,
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  Speaker 3: it's probably you know, it could be the tumors.
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  Speaker 2: It could be, but who cares My sister and I.
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  Speaker 3: I was gonna say my sister and I discussed it
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  Speaker 3: over the fourth of July, but I had the tumors
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  Speaker 3: then too.
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  Speaker 4: Well you know what, though, did you talk to your
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  Speaker 4: doctor about your personality changing or your thing or how
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  Speaker 4: you're during this time or have they said anything about that?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, the first off, let me be super clear.
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  Speaker 4: For anybody that wants to try to come from me
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  Speaker 4: right now, stop. So I'm just asking you, have they
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  Speaker 4: did they say anything about that?
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  Speaker 3: Well? I've had appointments with what are the doctors that
• 7:46
  Speaker 3: give you medications? Psychiatrists, So psychiatrists versus therapist. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 3: the psychiatrist was like, okay, so there's some things we
• 7:54
  Speaker 3: need to to talk through. You had massive brain surgery. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you had tumors the size of plums in your head
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  Speaker 3: and they had to take it out. And like, now,
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  Speaker 3: part of what I said, I'm feeling sort of depressed.
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  Speaker 2: I think, I mean just on like I kind of
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  Speaker 2: down and out.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm not, I'm not really feeling like I
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  Speaker 3: was depressed. I was like, I'm feeling kind of depressed.
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  Speaker 3: And she's like, have you ever considered like cause She's
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  Speaker 3: like I'm talking to you and I can see you
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  Speaker 3: losing your train of thought. And I'm like, yeah, because
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  Speaker 3: I don't even care what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: No, imagine you don't.
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  Speaker 3: I'm my brain, you know. And so she suggested a medication.
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  Speaker 3: She thinks that there's something, you know. I took multiple tests,
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  Speaker 3: but she did give me a medication that's a bit
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  Speaker 3: of like an upper She said, you may not live
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  Speaker 3: on this forever, but let's out let's try it out.
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  Speaker 3: And it is.
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  Speaker 2: It's really changed.
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  Speaker 3: It's really changed, and like to the point where some
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  Speaker 3: days I'm like I'm not going to, so I don't
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  Speaker 3: want to see how I do. And then I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: didn't do well?
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  Speaker 4: Right, that's I tried that too, Like I remember when
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  Speaker 4: Obviously our situations are different, but I remember when I
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  Speaker 4: went on into depressants and I was feeling good and
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  Speaker 4: I was like, Okay, I have this handle and I
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  Speaker 4: went off and I was like, no, I don't, No,
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  Speaker 4: I don't well.
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  Speaker 3: And anna depressants are even trickier because you can't just
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  Speaker 3: stop those cold turkeys, No you can't.
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  Speaker 2: You have to wean yourself off of them.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, So I mean, who knows. We're figuring it out.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like every day I'm getting more with it.
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  Speaker 2: I love that.
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  Speaker 3: But I see parts of I saw so much you.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so glad, I'm I'm and I'm glad that we
• 9:37
  Speaker 4: spoke about this before we we pop because I did
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  Speaker 4: ask study. I said, how much of this can I
• 9:41
  Speaker 4: talk to you about? Because I see so much of
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  Speaker 4: your journey in just these first couple of episodes and
• 9:46
  Speaker 4: and just knowing you, and and I like when she
• 9:49
  Speaker 4: has her inner monologue, I thought, I.
• 9:52
  Speaker 3: Thought, that's exactly what I do, and so thinking it
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  Speaker 3: and then I'm like should I say this out?
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  Speaker 4: Like, I think, you know what, at this point in
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  Speaker 4: your life, you have the right to say anything you're
• 10:01
  Speaker 4: fucking thinking. Yeah, why why not?
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  Speaker 3: I have noticed my anxiety is a lot better. Like
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  Speaker 3: I used to be very type A about everything, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, whatever.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's good though.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, look, no one, if you spoke you how
• 10:16
  Speaker 4: you really feel about everything?
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  Speaker 2: No one here. That's what everybody really.
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  Speaker 3: Wants to do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but they don't.
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  Speaker 4: They can't because of whatever they're thinking, you know, will happen.
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  Speaker 4: But I think you have full license to say whatever
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  Speaker 4: you think and feel. Yeah, I mean that just for me,
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  Speaker 4: like saying, well.
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  Speaker 3: There was a point where they get back from well
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  Speaker 3: the second that she finds out she has cancer, which
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  Speaker 3: oddly the doctor is right next to where her therapist is,
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  Speaker 3: and she like runs away from her husband to find out,
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  Speaker 3: and then she calls her best friend, and her best
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  Speaker 3: friend's like, hilarious, disaster.
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  Speaker 2: I love it.
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  Speaker 4: She goes, oh my god, I'm just coming from rehearsal,
• 10:54
  Speaker 4: which I was like, I'm coming from rehearsal too.
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  Speaker 2: Hold On, I'm reading it all about me.
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  Speaker 3: You're like hold on, and I feel that, like hold on.
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  Speaker 2: I feel this.
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  Speaker 3: I see the difference between us. She's coming from rehearsal.
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  Speaker 3: I'm seeing it from the other side. But I saw
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  Speaker 3: parts of her where she's like, you know, we're gonna
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  Speaker 3: laugh this up. We're gonna do that.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna laugh this, We're gonna laugh right through this.
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  Speaker 3: So those points you really appreciate when somebody says we
• 11:19
  Speaker 3: But then her husband comes down from the doctor realizes
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  Speaker 3: what's going on, and he immediately, you know, takes her
• 11:27
  Speaker 3: soda away. I didn't. He's like, I made green juice
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  Speaker 3: for at home.
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  Speaker 2: I can't have that.
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  Speaker 3: You can't have this. We need to change this, and
• 11:35
  Speaker 3: blah blah blah. And I'm all about you know, but like,
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  Speaker 3: if it's something you want to do, great, But I
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  Speaker 3: don't want to do something that somebody else that's not
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  Speaker 3: a doctor is telling me to do.
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  Speaker 4: I agree with it, And I think that you're in
• 11:46
  Speaker 4: a very This is you, you know what I'm saying, Like,
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  Speaker 4: this is your body, your fight, your experience, your journey.
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  Speaker 4: All of us that are your friends or your family
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  Speaker 4: that are around you. Like the only person that's this
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  Speaker 4: is happening to is you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, But what you see is the hush completely takes
• 12:01
  Speaker 3: it on as him. It takes over their whole life.
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  Speaker 3: He no longer can even have sex with her.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's the reason they're in couples therapy. Anyway, he
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  Speaker 2: won't touch her.
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  Speaker 3: He won't touch her. You're scared he's gonna break her.
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  Speaker 4: And she's had the double masktect to me, and and
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  Speaker 4: then that throws her into this really crazy space because
• 12:20
  Speaker 4: what are you supposed to do? I mean, nobody really knows.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I can only speculate what you're going through.
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  Speaker 4: But this is this is your right to feel, in
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  Speaker 4: my opinion, however you want to feel.
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  Speaker 3: And I mean, I think so many people have come
• 12:34
  Speaker 3: to me and been like, so what does this mean
• 12:37
  Speaker 3: for you and Edwin because you got none of your businesses.
• 12:39
  Speaker 3: I'm like, one, it's none of your fucking business. And two,
• 12:43
  Speaker 3: we're in a good, safe place that's the best for
• 12:47
  Speaker 3: our kids.
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  Speaker 2: About this. It's a day to day thing and we're
• 12:49
  Speaker 2: doing good today.
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  Speaker 3: We're doing good today and for the first time we're
• 12:53
  Speaker 3: having conversations we never.
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  Speaker 2: Had, probably the hard ones. It's you could have and.
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  Speaker 3: Laughing good and kind of saying like this it's not
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  Speaker 3: I don't think that we will get back together. I
• 13:05
  Speaker 3: think matter, But I don't think everything needs to be
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  Speaker 3: figured out this week while I'm still in immunotherapy and
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  Speaker 3: we have kids at the house.
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  Speaker 4: How about this No way, Like you need to live
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  Speaker 4: present in the moment and you need to do what's
• 13:18
  Speaker 4: right for you and fuck these outside voices and I
• 13:21
  Speaker 4: would have done fuck you.
• 13:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, my dad every he calls every day.
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  Speaker 2: I love that.
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  Speaker 3: And some days I'm all worked up and some days
• 13:29
  Speaker 3: I'm pretty chill, and he's like.
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  Speaker 2: Just be cool, just be cool.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, when has anyone ever said that
• 13:38
  Speaker 3: I'm cool? That is not something mean? He's like, just
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: be cool.
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  Speaker 2: You don't have to you don't have to do anything.
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: This is not the time to be making these crazy decisions.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, He's like, just be cool. You guys are fine
• 13:50
  Speaker 3: right now. You're not having you're not sharing a bed,
• 13:53
  Speaker 3: you're not doing this, You're you're both allowed to date.
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  Speaker 3: Like do what you want to do. Be safe.
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  Speaker 4: I think, yeah, as long as exactly be safe and
• 14:01
  Speaker 4: be smart. But other than that, like it's no one's
• 14:03
  Speaker 4: lives but yours, Like.
• 14:05
  Speaker 3: It's between you two and we have and we finally
• 14:08
  Speaker 3: had to have the conversation where I was like, listen,
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  Speaker 3: I know you're different than me, Like, you don't want
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: to hear the information. I want every fucking crumb. Do
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: you really I need every Crump's that you've always been
• 14:20
  Speaker 3: that way? Yeah, but I like, I mean, if you
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: were to tell me about a guy right now, I'd
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: be like, can I see his picture? Not because I
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: want to be an asshole, but because you.
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: Need to know.
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  Speaker 3: If not, I'm going to make up in my head
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  Speaker 3: what he looks like. I need every single details.
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: Over active brain. I thought that medication was supposed to come.
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: Don't worry.
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  Speaker 4: Listen, let me talk to the psychiatrist. Because you're like
• 14:41
  Speaker 4: I'm like.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, no, no, no, no, no no, I want to see
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: I see that you cropped that uncropping I like every day.
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: And I don't have jealousy.
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: It's the crazy I've never seen you as a jealous
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: person as I've never seen this.
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I don't have jealousy. I don't know.
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: I think you're just into like you like it information
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: and if.
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: I'm going to be friends with somebody, yeah, you want
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: to be full on friends, like I want to know.
• 15:07
  Speaker 4: I think you don't like it when friends concealed that
• 15:08
  Speaker 4: you know, like hold on. There are levels of friends
• 15:12
  Speaker 4: and your inner circle of friends, which is what I'm
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: talking about. I think you really appreciate transparency because you
• 15:18
  Speaker 4: are transparent with your friends.
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: Like I can't take it. I'm like, no, I give
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: me more details.
• 15:23
  Speaker 4: It's fine, Like I wish I had some details to
• 15:25
  Speaker 4: give you.
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm sure you do.
• 15:29
  Speaker 4: I have nothing to share at the moment, but I
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: am hoping, like I said last time, like two weeks ago,
• 15:35
  Speaker 4: like I gotta get I have to get social, and
• 15:38
  Speaker 4: I cannot. I'm such a scaredy cat. I am so
• 15:41
  Speaker 4: afraid of putting myself out there.
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: Why, what's the worst happen.
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: I don't know the worst that's going to happen. Let
• 15:48
  Speaker 4: me see, Well, I have a I have an idea
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: about myself post divorce that is not healthy, meaning that
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: I think that everyone's.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: Out to hurt me.
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're going to need one good person.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: Trust. It's really about trust.
• 16:11
  Speaker 4: And I feel that like uh oh my god, like
• 16:15
  Speaker 4: everybody's going to hurt me and not in it. It
• 16:20
  Speaker 4: just I can't relax into meeting new people. And I've
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: always been kind of like a loner.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: Anyway.
• 16:27
  Speaker 4: And so this has certainly put me into a position
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: that I feel like it's.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: Just like, yeah, I think it's I mean, I think
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: of you say those things about yourself, but as being
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: your friend, you're one of the most comfortable, Like you're
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: comforting yours going with like you take the pressure off
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: as a friend that you have to do that to yourself.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: Maybe that that's a good point. It's interesting you don't
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: have to be perfect. No, it's not that.
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: I just I think I'd have to be a little
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: bit more comfortable in my own skin, trusting people and
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: just opening up. And I think that that's a lot
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: of it is just being brave enough to open.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: Up a bit.
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: Well you take her to badly burned, Yes, I think so.
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: And then and then you know it's continued on and
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: in other ways as well. And so when that happens,
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: you just become a little gun shy, you know, and
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: so you don't know if people really want to get
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: to know you or you know, what where is this
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: going and what is this?
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: You know? I mean I think as we I mean,
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: I found you know, they did this thing and us
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: weekly where they said that I'm dat I've I dated
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: two guys or whatever it was. And then I saw
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: some of some of the messages were like yeah, go girl,
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: and some are like, what the hell is wrong with
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: this woman? It doesn't she want to spend time with her.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: Kids or she spent time with your kids?
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: Why would this even be a concern?
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: Because it is. You're a human being and you're allowed
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: to live.
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: And I think something that I want to say if
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: you are going through anything like this. Of course every
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: moment that I possibly can, I want to be there
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: for my you are, but you know what, they sleep.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: And you don't.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: And I'm on insomnia and I'm also on medication that
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: keeps me awake.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: I'm sure.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So I'm not going to nightclubs and meeting strangers.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: Oh Jesus Christ. We're not acting like doing putting dangerous shit.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: But I have learned, like so, where your insecurity comes
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: more from people hurting you, my insecurity comes from more.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: And this is when I realized, like, am I shallow?
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: Like I will be like I look like this now
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: or this is how I feel right now? Or do
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: they notice these things?
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you what, you look pretty fucking awesome.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: Well I'm in full glamor right now, I can assure.
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: You when I'm sucking, I can assure you. But you
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: know what though that that let me tell you something.
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: So what You're a human being going through like a
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: massive thing in your life, and I think you should,
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: you know, do whatever makes you happy because I know you,
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: and I know that you're not putting yourself at risk.
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: And I'm not putting I'm not lying. Like we have
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: a calendar where I put like Monday, this dead dad,
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: this whens like that way, there's never a point where
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: Edwin has to be like Teddy's trying to you know,
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: we all have in the same house together.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: I just saw him downstairs. Yeah, I just gave him
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: a hug after his workout.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's we all live in the same house together.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: How we want to communicate what the other what we're
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: doing is different. Like I'll be like, oh, yeah, no, I'm.
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: Going on a date like it is what it is, y'all.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: And he doesn't have to do the same for me.
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: I do assume when he puts a leather jacket on
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: and leaves at seven thirty pm.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: And does he come back, No, he doesn't come home
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: those nights.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: I can I make the assumption, but I'm such an
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: ass I'll be like, have fun tonight, Like, oh, what
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just having to I'm like, a, sure
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: you are, buddy.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: Have fun.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: Your hair looks good.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you look a little too good to be just
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: going to the place. Here are you?
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: When I'm heading over to Kyle's, I'm a pair of sweats?
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: Oh off? Are you using that as an excuse?
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: But if I'm going to Kyle's, well yeah, I would
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: use Kyle as a total excuse to do anything.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: I'm at Kyle's.
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: But that being said, I am going to see Kyle tonight,
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: but I really am saying.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Kyle, Yeah, she's home. I need to give her a text.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: You guys having a birthday party tonight for Jen.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: Lovely. Jen is the one that pretty much nursed me
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: back to life. She really did, she really did.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: She's awesome.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: She's amazing. We call her Jen Jens. Jen knows everything
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: like that. You ask any Question's like, oh yeah, of course,
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: follow them.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Jen's pretty amazing.
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: She's she's great. Okay, So anyways, I said, there's all
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: this press about dere.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: Oh right front, who Yeah, what is who?
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: He's Zach Eron's brother. He was on Who's that? Who's
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: He's Zach's brother? Hot? He was on this Past Traders. Oh,
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: why haven't we been on?
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Well?
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: I was asked the first season, but I was in
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: no mental shape to go.
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: Well. I feel like I'm in good mental shape right now.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: Probably fucking let me tell you something.
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: You want to talk about laying everybody out, You probably
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: fucking win.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: I would go with you, just to like watch you,
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: and I don't even.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: Know it's in case I get a little stumbling.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: No, I will help you. I will help you lay
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: out everything.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: Everyone would think that you were a trader.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: Oh of course they would.
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: I'm like not knowing girl next door, And then we
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: could flip these roles.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this is what the villain's all wrong.
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: I'm actually a sweet person, but you guys are insistent.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: That I'm a villain.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: I'm on the dark side.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: This one over here, we already know you rule.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: But any who made a comment, which by the way,
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: I already made fun of on the other pod, But
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: it was like over a sentence long about this guy Dylan's.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: She she likes words, she does like she needed less words.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: She could have just done the fire or as my
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: kids have taught me.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: Like riz, oh you mean it's in charisma, yeah.
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: Like anything. But it was a full sentence.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: But that's Dree. You know she loves she likes words.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: He probably yawned, well probably, well whatever.
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: Dread less words on your flirting.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: My god, we've been trying to do this for a decade.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: It's not working. We've known this one for a decade.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: And it's but Dylan doesn't so quickly.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: Uh so your libido? Yes, no, maybe I just got
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: my I'll to ask you. I'll tell you why.
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: I just got my hormones and planted yesterday and they
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: go right in your glutes and I'm gonna tell you
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: right now.
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: It's a little like you're all horned up.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: Not yet.
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: But I said to her, I's like, look, bitch, I
• 22:53
  Speaker 4: got zero libido today, but like this last week, and
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: like who am I? So, I said, you know, like,
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: give me some libido. She said, not a problem.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: Well here's the problem for me.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: You have too much libido.
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: No, but I'm also afraid to I know me like
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: my libido's like I will start getting on this phone
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: and it'll be a disaster.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: I remember the last time that I was with you
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: when you took the libido meds. I don't know what
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: they were, but we were in Santa Barbara. You didn't
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: want to leave the room because you were You were busy.
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: She was busy. I was like, I'm not fighting with
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: Denise alone again. Get your ass in here. No, I
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: don't think, get a good one and come out.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: I was masturbating.
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: I apparently needed a lesson, not from you. Everyone calmed down.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, but no.
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: They're talking a lot about why Mollie who?
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: That's Michelle's character.
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: Michelle's character, it's so horny after she leaves her husband.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: She's been trying to have sex with her husband three years,
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: for three years, and he won't and then they kind
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: of start to and then he like pushes her off.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not shocked, And then are weird?
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: It gave me the egg.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: He gave me the egg.
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: But then she made listen, guys, if you want to
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: go on the World Wide Web to masturbate. The mistake
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: she made almost pushed me over the edge. So she
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: goes on. She thinks she's watching let's just call him Max.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: She thinks she's watching Max masturbate so she can masturbate.
• 24:23
  Speaker 4: Too, So it's kind of like they're doing it together,
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: but he in fact records her and then holds her
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: hostage for money.
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah. So then after she's done, she sees a picture
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: of herself like.
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, kind of like and I yeah, but you know
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: it's funny. He goes, I paid him in Behavian dollars.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: It's like, so at the end of the fucking day,
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: she has to call her husband and says, I'm being
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: held hostage from a poor and I recorded on myself.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: Yes, And you know this makes me like this character
• 24:51
  Speaker 4: meaning her husband, because he helped. He said, Okay, I
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: don't want to see you like this like this, given
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: the money problem.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: But then he then he kept going. He didn't just
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: leave it, he kept going.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: Then he's shamed her for it. Yeah, and this is like, okay,
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: let's just yeah, let's not do.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: That, like you. I haven't watched the full season, but
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: I think a PSA to anybody that wants to get
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: back together with a partner, whether it's they're dying or
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: they're you know, just they had a bunch of kids
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: and she's hit the fan is like, quit making it
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: about you.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: Yep, quit making it about you.
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: Quit making it about you. I listened to something. I'm
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: listening to self help these days. Guys. That's the level.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: That's the level.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Do you know that?
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: That's all that plays in my home is like meditation
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: and self help and realization and all that because I
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: just feel like I need it.
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, apparently we need it. Well. I was listening to
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: mel Robbins and she said, who I don't necessarily always
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: love the long stuff, but when she has little clips.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: So there's a clip about how when you want your
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: partner to change and you continuously give them advice or
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: tips or like provide over information, it makes your partner
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: want to change less. I agree with that, like quit
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: shoving it down my throat.
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: I also think that they they're reminded of their mothers.
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: Like everybody thinks that, like you know, you're mothering them
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: and they turn it gets turned off.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: Like yeah, but from a guy especially, what is your
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: thought on men being very close with their mothers.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: I think there's a limit. I think that well.
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: I think when a mother oversteps their boundary in a
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: grown man's life, I'm not talking about a child in
• 26:32
  Speaker 4: a grown man's life, you know, I think that you
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: have to separate from your mom and be your own person.
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: It's great to have a close relationship with your mother,
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: but you also have to be your own person.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, Slate says that, no matter what the situation is,
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: I will always pick cruise.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Oh where is this coming from?
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Well, because the other night we were watching Well, now
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: I really have to second guess myself.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: But wait a second, note Slate's twelve.
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: Slate's twelve.
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: Well, we already know what well think about when Teddy
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: was twelve fighting with her mom.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: You think she's going through the curse.
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I know Erica twelve fighting with Renee. I'm fifty
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: three and I still fight with that woman. Well, listen,
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: I'm just telling you mothers and daughters, but heads, mothers
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: and sons. That's a love affair.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: Well, that that's where we're getting. Yeah, so we're watching
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: Bad Robot, which, now, in the last three months, I've
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: cried in two Robot movies. Okay, so that's a fucking
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: the Jennifer Lopez Robot movie. That had to have been
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: The Tomb.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, I didn't.
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: I cried in that, and then I cried in Bad Robot,
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: And Slate got up to go to the restroom and
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: she was cuddling with me, but Slay cuddle's kind of
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: in a love you slate.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: Like a teddy way, like it's like falling on you way. Oh,
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: she's like overly. Oh she's laying on you.
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like laying on Well, they get bigger and it's
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: it's like, yeah, now she's heavy.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're heavy.
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: And so and it's like very like and I'm like,
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: I'm like having hot and cold flashes and then cruise.
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: When Slay got up to go to the restroom, he
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: jumped right in and snuggled in perfectly with the farm
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: and slight came out. She's like, Mom, you let them
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: in again. And I was like, ah, only for ten minutes.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: But now I realize I am that person. That's okay,
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: that's okay. I know you love your children.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: I love them all equally, but sometimes they different ones
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: annoy me at different times.
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: You know, I'm an only child and I only have
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: one child, so I have no experience in this area.
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: So I can't tell you whether parents have favorites or
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: children that they connect with more. But I would imagine
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: I'm imagining that there are kids like certain ones of
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: your kids that you connect with on different levels, like
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: I connect with this one in this way, or you know, and.
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: There's different things. I'm like Slate, I would lay down
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: and die for you tomorrow and do anything to be
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: at every single event you're at, like I would do
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: any think.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: You have are thing, our addativity.
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: We like to do these certain things together, like our
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: thing may not be cuddling.
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: Right, you're thinking, yeah, and I think, but she's also twelve.
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: She's you know.
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: I know she knows all the words. She asked me
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: to if I want to see her halls, which I
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: absolutely don't.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: What is that?
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: That's when you go shopping at addictive a hall?
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: H a U L.
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to do I want to see her hall?
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: No I don't. I already paid for.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: It, like her Sophora Hall. Yes, they're into skincare these
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: kids more better.
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: I'm like, go into my drawer and take take every
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: single thing that someone sent me. But anyways, back to
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: dying for sex.
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: So what's your most adventurous sexual I kind of like that. Yeah,
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: I already said what mine was weeks ago. I said multiples, multiples.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: I think the more that I think about it now
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: is like I've been trying to figure out what is
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: that I really like and what I don't like? And
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: what what I've realized is if.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: I'm do you have a lot of sexual partners?
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: I mean I've had more than ten.
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I blue White, I've had body count.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: But she's got a high body count, but not high
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: body count hair. No, what is wig hair considered for
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: body counts? Who would even know?
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: It's fabulous. That's what we're going with.
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: So anyways, this could be a newer old person. We'll
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: just you guys, gather what you want. But it's figuring
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: out like I like this or I don't like this.
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: So you have like, uh, someone like a partner that
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: you're really discovering things with.
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: Correct, Oh my god, that's wonderful. Yes, that is okay,
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: discovering that's wonderful.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: So it's cool when you have that type of back
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: and forth and like you can just try things and
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: you feel comfortable enough to do them.
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and then being like, eh, that actually wasn't it
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: for me, but but I can tell maybe it was
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: it for you.
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: Well, then that's where you switch off, you know, like
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: I know you really like this and I really like that,
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: So let's do this and.
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: Then so here's the moral of the story. Guys is
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: have conversations. I talk about it. Yeah.
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: I think it's the more relaxed and open you are,
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: the easier it is to have these conversations. And it
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: really is like, that's how you're gonna get the best
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: sex life is.
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: And I'm faking it doesn't do anything for anybody. I'm
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: going to tell you, I'm not even bother with faking it. No, no,
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: not even not even a little who nothing, it's a zip.
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: It should I look it should have never had to
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: but yes, certainly not now.
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: No no, no no. So then we into part that
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: I don't necessarily relate to. But Mollie is trying. Mollie
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: has never had an orgasm. I I have pre cancer.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: I had orgasms, not.
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: I said I have them now I fixed my problem.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Can I tell you something I remember having orgasms is
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: really young?
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: I feel like I did too, like really like is
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: this in appropriate to say? But like with the with
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: the jacuzzi thing.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: I love a jet.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: I used to tell people about it.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: I love the jacuzi jets.
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: Everybody knows what that is?
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: Like nine or ten?
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: Yeahzi jets.
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: I was like, no, no, I'll get in then by
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: myself in these weird positions.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Why are you let wait my backburns?
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: Hold on, I'm in a one piece right, hold on?
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: Hold on? Oh yeah.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: The Chacoozi jets like anything I could get my hand.
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: But the problem is, I don't think a jacuzzi jet
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: would work for me these days.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: It's a lot of water. I feel like I'm.
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: Be getting UTIs left and right.
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: We probably did, just don't remember that part.
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: We just don't know a lot of girls know about
• 33:10
  Speaker 4: the jacuzzi jets.
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: Listen the jacuzzi. If you had a friend who had
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: a house that had a jacuzzi and it was warm,
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: you knew what you were going to go?
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: Do you knew what you were doing? And shit, let's
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: go to Kyle's.
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: Hey, Kyle Saudi and Erica, can you go ahead and
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: turn on the heat?
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: Can you turn on the heat and the zis will
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: be right over And you said over there, it's what
• 33:32
  Speaker 4: we ought to do and time ourselves.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: Aha, how long.
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: It takes each of us with the jet?
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: What if I took the longest. That might be because
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: I don't get to have the since I had the cancers.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: I don't get to have all my hormones I used
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: to have. Yeah, I know, so I had to really
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: get inside my head.
• 33:51
  Speaker 4: That's really where you have to start going is inside
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: your head, which is why do you think I will
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: I do certain things to trick myself into it.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but well now I know this whole thing about
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: porn not looking at people's faces, and I got so
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: desperate the other day. I was like, maybe I should porns.
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: I was like, I guess I'll watch the Kim Kardashian one.
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: And then I got into it. I was like, I
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: can't have sex. I mean, I can't during this.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: No, that's not a that's not one that we needed. Yeah,
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: well it was readily available.
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you.
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: Need to do You need to do specific searches on
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: things that you're into, and then you will get the
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: material that will help you achieve that moment. I'm not,
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: oh gosh, it's all about tricking yourself into certain visuals.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: Well. Another part that we get into is that Michelle
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: Williams's character gets really into controlling men, and that's what
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: actually gets her off for the first time.
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: I think that a lot of women could relate to
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: that quite honestly controlling and.
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: What do you like that? Are you one of those
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: women that relate to that?
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: Not really, I mean I like back and forth. I
• 34:55
  Speaker 4: don't think that that's something. I think it it would
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: be interesting to explore. I followed this and Dominatrix on TikTok,
• 35:02
  Speaker 4: like I like the idea of it, but maybe not
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: in a personal sense, like like I think how she
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: does it, which is a client based service, okay, but
• 35:14
  Speaker 4: not in my personal personal relationships. That's not something that
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: I need to have happened. But I like I like surrendering.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: I like feeling. I like feeling.
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: I like feeling not small and like a physical way,
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: but like this person is.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: I like feeling, for lack of a better word, feminine.
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: I know it's soft and it's not like we have
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: the voices that we.
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: Have right, and not that we're not the bitches that
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: we are raging.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: I was like, you know, here's the thing I would like.
• 35:47
  Speaker 4: To And I think that you know, you and I
• 35:49
  Speaker 4: live these lives where we are perceived one way, and
• 35:52
  Speaker 4: that's fine, but in a personal relationship or in an
• 35:56
  Speaker 4: intimate relationship, I don't want to be that.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: I want to be soft and.
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to feel dare I say this guys love? Yeah,
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: I loved and cared for and like this person would
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: do anything for me, but also has enough going on
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: for themselves.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't even get that far.
• 36:15
  Speaker 4: Like I'm just talking about the moment of intimacy, like
• 36:18
  Speaker 4: when you talk about intimate moments. I would like to
• 36:20
  Speaker 4: feel cared for and loved and then a little bit
• 36:23
  Speaker 4: of like I mean in moments and then the other moments,
• 36:26
  Speaker 4: I'd like to feel some dirty shit.
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, but I think that can all kind
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: of work together. Does But she, on the other hand,
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: you know, pretends to be a dog and peas on somebody,
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: but her radiation is apparently can't get on the person.
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: So there's like, oh is.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: That a real thing?
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like when I go to get radiation, yeah, I'm
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: always like why can't you know? Most of the time
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: it's Gen with me. I'm like, why can't Gen come in?
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: And she's like, you're radioactive?
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: You are radioactive.
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: That being said, I haven't damn it, I missed the
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: opportunity because now I'm done with radiation. I had didn't
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: try to pee on anybody after well.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: Hey, I don't know.
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: Can can you come over here and give me a
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: quick radiation. I'm gonna be on eric and see what happens.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: Please do not pee on me.
• 37:13
  Speaker 4: Now I may have peed on some people, but I'm
• 37:15
  Speaker 4: not radioactive.
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: Have you ever squirted?
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: The squirt thing is just another way of happening an organism.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: We can you. Yes, I love that.
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: I can do it, but I mean it takes it.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: Okay, let's it.
• 37:30
  Speaker 4: Takes a certain time. I was telling someone this the
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: other day. I was like, look, this takes a certain
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: setup and a certain level of relaxation and then it's
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: like the water hose is open.
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, then, but if you try to do it too quick.
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: It does not work.
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: It won't work.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: It won't work.
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: It's flawed.
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: It is flawed, and it has to be a certain
• 37:53
  Speaker 4: it's a certain angle.
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: So if you're listening and you think that you can't squirt,
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: you can't because the way I did. For the first time,
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: I actually made a bet and said I know I can't. Oh,
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: I know I can't, And then all of a sudden,
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: seven minutes later, I was like, that must be what
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: that is.
• 38:11
  Speaker 4: So I bought a book many years ago because I
• 38:13
  Speaker 4: was fascinated by this. So like fifteen years ago, I
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: bought this book from this please call cocoad demur it's
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: not open anymore.
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: And I used to buy your Screwed if you want
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: any sections.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: So I used to buy all of this erotica.
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: And I actually want to write some erotica because I
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: think it'd be fun for me. And I have a
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: wild imagination.
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: Would you use a stage name?
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: Oh, I just write it as Erica Jane.
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: Why know, let's do this. I want I want to
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: do I want you to do it. Okay, so I
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: can read it. I just recently learned something, so.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I think I should do it.
• 38:44
  Speaker 4: And I bought this book about scorting, and I read
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: through it and read through it and read through it
• 38:49
  Speaker 4: like all the biology and how you do this and
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: stuff and stuff, and so at first I did it
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: by myself, like I made myself do it.
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: You can make yourself do it.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: I had learned how to do Did you have nails on? No?
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: I did not, no, not no no no, But I
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: learned how to make myself do it.
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: And then years later I did it with a partner.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: Did you teach. Did you have to teach the partner now?
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: The partner taught me a lot I already had.
• 39:13
  Speaker 4: I said, look, I can do this by myself, but
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: I've never done it with a partner.
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: The partner taught me and then and.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's pretty great, guys.
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: It's worth but it is it is, it is worth it.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: I mean it is a different type of release. It
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: really is like.
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: You feel very relaxed afterwards.
• 39:30
  Speaker 4: And I always knew I could do it because I
• 39:32
  Speaker 4: always had to pee after I had an orgasm.
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: Me too, well, which you're actually supposed to, that's exactly,
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: but I have to pee even if there's I've been,
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: I don't have an orgasm, I immediately have to pee
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: before restarting.
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: Having I there's a lot of there's a lot to that,
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: and I'm shured, like, look, the medical profession thinks that
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: you know this is word.
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: I think it's pe, but it's not. I I want
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: to teach down the rabbit hole. It's clear, it's.
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: Clear, and it has no smell, no taste.
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I didn't taste it.
• 40:01
  Speaker 4: I did I did it all I needed to do it.
• 40:03
  Speaker 4: I did it all, especially when I was making myself
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: do it. At first I needed to know exactly what
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: was happening. And then I had this partner who really
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: we did it together, and now I.
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: Can leaned into.
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: It, really leaned into it, and it was great.
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah. So guys experiment trying to think make you don't
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: just wait till you're you know the stories about you
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: on FX, you're dying for sex. You're having to try
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: things for the first time in a panicked way.
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like maybe I'm just going to say something this Really,
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: when I was watching this, I was like, my.
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: God, this is tinny, Like you don't want to be
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: in that situation. And I think so many of us
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: are so scared to open up or talk about what
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: we want or need or what feels good or what
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: doesn't that you end up missing your whole life. And
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: that goes for everything in life.
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: No matter what you're doing, yeah, or what you're facing.
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: Like, there's things in my life that I'm like, shit,
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: I never did that?
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: What just like like what.
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: Annoying dumb shit?
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: Like should we do it now?
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: I mean it's not great, it's to clean out my
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: drawers in the cabinet.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: You might though you're gonna say something cool. Now, like
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: got to to bet.
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: Let's let's go out of town somewhere.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: I'll go with you.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: But I can't wear heels, so what.
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: It would be a break not to wear heels?
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: Okay, great? If we can commit to going somewhere and not.
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: Somewhere like on an adventure where like we really but
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: I don't want to have to be itchy itchy?
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like I don't want to have to deal with bugs.
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: I don't want I don't want to do that either. Okay, great,
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: are you allowed to travel?
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: What are your limitations? I'm not allowed to do anything.
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: I'm allowed to do anything. I thought I wasn't allowed
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: to do anything, and things got a little dark around here. Sure,
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: and then I just now every time I have a question.
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: I sent him a text and immediately he writes back.
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: I'm like, he's like, I cursed the day I gave
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: that woman my No, he doesn't.
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: He did much rather hear from you and have you
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: happy and doing being But.
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: Then he's like hilarious. Then he asked questions what's the
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: tattoo going to be? And I'm like, I am not
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: riding back at I.
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: Want to ask you a question.
• 41:58
  Speaker 4: Is there anything that we your friends, can do better
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: to support you like.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: Now and with cancer.
• 42:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, because I'll be honest with you, people
• 42:09
  Speaker 4: are listening, and oftentimes we as friends don't know the
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: best way to support someone like you, and we make
• 42:20
  Speaker 4: it about ourselves, or we start to cry, or we
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: get upset, and I'm wondering, what can you tell me
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: as your friend or maybe others that are listening to
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: help people that are that are where you are.
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: I think if you truly have a question you want
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: to help, you have to listen to what the person says,
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: like which you do. So one of the biggest things
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: that I've struggled with since and which I'm struggling with
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: these lights right now, is.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: It hurting you not terribly but not your eyeballs.
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: But my eyeballs get really sore, so I'm not. I
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: don't love to text, like texting used to be my
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: thing now I know now we send audio. Yeah, So
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: I told Erica and actually they were like, what's the
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: best way to communicate? And I said, please just voice
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: text me. I can't read. It's I mean, I can read,
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: it's just a pain. And then I don't want to
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: do it, so just listening to that and sending voice
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: like my sister sent her first voice note of all time,
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: and she's like, hey, period, it's justice, period. Just want
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: the amount of time. I made fun of her after
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: like that gave me so much joy. I said, you
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: said a fucking comma on the voice Noteirl, like, don't
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: you don't.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: Need to put a comma a recording.
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: It's your recording of your voice. And now now it's
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: her new favorite thing. Now I'm like, I'm about to
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: take this feature away from you.
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: Because now she's just voicing.
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: Now it could be anything. It could be twenty seven
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: minutes long.
• 43:48
  Speaker 4: Welldres remember went on for two minutes. I was like, girl,
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: we're just trying to I love you, but you know.
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: If we have to halt, press pod twice yes, and
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: then again to through your voice note. I'm not listening
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: to the whole thing.
• 44:03
  Speaker 4: It's a lot, I think. But so voice notes are
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: good under a minute, under a minute, So.
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: What voice notes are good under a minute? Something that
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: has been really helpful and people are gonna be like,
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: oh wow, you have money. It's so stupid. But people
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: kept asking Jen what should we do for Teddy? And
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: she was like listen. You know, she has a lot
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: of kids. She's used to preparing dinner every night for everybody. Right,
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: so there's like a it's called the food train.
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: What is that?
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: And you sign up for a night and you have
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: dinner delivered to the family at five o'clock.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's nice.
• 44:37
  Speaker 4: So the cool thing for I thought she were going
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: to say, somebody came and cook. I was like, girl,
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: don't ask me. These kids will be starting No, that's.
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: Super expensive, but no, And so it's the cool thing
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: for me is like I'm such a creature of habit.
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: I normally would eat the same thing every day, like
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: rotate between four options for the kids. This way, it's
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: a different person sending you food. And you know, I
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: don't do weekends so we can go out and stuff
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: like that. But it's been really nice, like I can
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: expect it. It comes, it utilizes the entire family, and.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: I guess it really like frees you up to do.
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm really It was like making me feel
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: guilty because at four o'clock's like when I get really
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: tired and I'm like, oh no, I at gymnastics and
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: then I gotta get blah blah, blah, and then I
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: gotta get food. But now I come home from whatever
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: afternoon event, the kids have or ready dinners sitting there, and.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I need to sign up for you.
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's been really nice. The food train, the.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: Food train, and I think not making it about us.
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: Not making it about us and the food train and
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: telling people what you actually want.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: There's no better time than the present.
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: But guys, for next week, because now you know, I
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: think that I'm coming back together a little bit more.
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: We want to hear what you want me and Erica
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: to speak about what topics, what things? Yeah, yes, we
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: of course we can talk about sex.
• 46:01
  Speaker 4: Forever, but that's kind of boring too, Like we wanted
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: a lot today and okay, whatever, we're freaks, but freaks.
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: Hold on, I have a new business venture.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: First, Oh my god, what is it?
• 46:14
  Speaker 5: Creamer jets Jets a little two portable jets.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: You know what I think it said? The medicine is
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: getting to your.
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: No, what listen, A portable jet could look like a
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: little foot massage.
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: It has to have a water source.
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: Right, the foot massage where you put your feet in air.
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: Now you're getting you know what you're getting? It they're
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: seeing it back there.
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: Ever done the jets on the jacuzzi?
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: See everyone?
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Oh does it get that to go?
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: Ah?
• 47:03
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna try that way, Okay, I have where to
• 47:08
  Speaker 4: get filled up.
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: So guys, send us a message if you have tried
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: out the jacuzzi for more ways than a sore back.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: I have a sore back after it, you know what.
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: I have the jacuzzie at home and I don't get in.
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: Let me get that going.
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: That might be the time that I come over to visit. Hey, guys,
• 47:32
  Speaker 3: we're thirty minutes late for the pod. Don't worry about it.
• 47:34
  Speaker 3: We'll see you when we see you.
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, you know you have to laugh at
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: this shit because you have to.
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: Oh guys, I didn't mean to make that noise, But
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: Cruz and I were very excited to see Erica on
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: the mask singer. How good was she? Those were hard songs.
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: They were hard songs.
• 47:53
  Speaker 4: The costume was a lot. The costume weighed eight pounds,
• 47:57
  Speaker 4: of the head weighed about eight pounds and so, and
• 48:00
  Speaker 4: you can see very little. So it was wonderful. And
• 48:04
  Speaker 4: I'll show you some bts. Yeah, I had a great time,
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: thank you. I had the best time.
• 48:09
  Speaker 3: Did you have any idea who anyone else was? No.
• 48:13
  Speaker 4: I am telling you this show to everyone, the production,
• 48:16
  Speaker 4: to costume, to dancers, to core, everybody at mass singer.
• 48:20
  Speaker 4: I just want to say, this is the most fun show.
• 48:24
  Speaker 4: And Method Man.
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: Was my neighbor and I had no idea, and I'm
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: a fan.
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: I love Method Man. I'm at Dan and I we
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: had you walked around like this, you never saw anybody.
• 48:34
  Speaker 4: You walk around with gloves, a hoodie advisor and you
• 48:38
  Speaker 4: do not speak, and you have a handler and they.
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: Take you everywhere and you are separating.
• 48:45
  Speaker 4: Uh not really, there's suggested to you, and then you
• 48:48
  Speaker 4: go with I think what best fits your vocal or
• 48:50
  Speaker 4: the there's nights, you know, so there's like Grand Old
• 48:53
  Speaker 4: Opry night, or there was the Ghostbuster night, or there's
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: you know whatever night, and like boy band night.
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you have a songs that you.
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: Choose from that are obviously boy bands and then you well,
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: Cruise guessed you night one. But unfortunately he called you
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: Erica James.
• 49:08
  Speaker 4: That's fine, Erica James is good too, Jenna James, listen,
• 49:11
  Speaker 4: Erica James.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: Whatever he goes, that's your friend, mom, whatever.
• 49:15
  Speaker 3: And I was like who And he's like the one
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: I thought was you the one day Erica James.
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: I love that. I love that.
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: Go cruise, Go cruise like it's Jane. It doesn't matter,
• 49:25
  Speaker 4: call me whatever the hell you want, whatever, But.
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: I was really proud of you and I loved watching him.
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: Thank you. It was a great time. I had the
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: best time.
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: Thanks guys, thank you.