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Dirty Rush: How Your Social Media Can Cause You Serious Problems During Rush · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with
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  Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice, Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Fessler.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush. I'm your
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  Speaker 1: host Daisy Kent.
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  Speaker 2: Today.
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  Speaker 1: I'm here by myself, but we're gonna have callers calling
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  Speaker 1: in and we're gonna unveil the secret rules of sorority
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  Speaker 1: girls social media. We were talking to our guests about
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  Speaker 1: what got them in trouble on their social media and
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  Speaker 1: how they knew. Let's get into it. So I actually
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  Speaker 1: went to SCSU as if you listened in before, you
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  Speaker 1: probably know that. But I never got in trouble for
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  Speaker 1: posting anything. I don't think. But I remember when I
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  Speaker 1: was in Alpha Fey at San Diego s if you
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  Speaker 1: posted something that violated the guidelines, they would comment a
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  Speaker 1: purple heart anyone on zech wood and then you would
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  Speaker 1: have to just take it down. So a lot of
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  Speaker 1: times it was like alcohol, or if it was like
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  Speaker 1: a scandalous biki pick, but usually it wasn't anything bad.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think anything like super bad happened when I
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  Speaker 1: was in my sorority. I know though, during recruitment before
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  Speaker 1: we would always go and look at the girls that
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  Speaker 1: were coming in and see who was coming in and
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  Speaker 1: like kind of stalk them honestly figure out how much
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  Speaker 1: we could know about them. So it's definitely I can't imagine.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I was a freshman and that's crazy in
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  Speaker 1: twenty seventeen, so like nine years ago. So I can't
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  Speaker 1: imagine now how much people probably look at your social
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  Speaker 1: media and stuff, because it's even it was so present
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  Speaker 1: when I was even a freshman, but now, like TikTok
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  Speaker 1: wasn't a thing then, So there's TikTok, and that is
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  Speaker 1: you can see so much about a person on that.
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  Speaker 1: So let's get into it and we'll get some guests
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  Speaker 1: on and see their experience. So our first guess we
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  Speaker 1: have on is Kendall. Hey Kendall, Hi Daisy, how are you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing great? How are you doing good? Thanks for
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  Speaker 1: coming on today.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I'm excited to talk about this because I did
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  Speaker 3: a lot of prep going into college on my social media.
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  Speaker 1: You did for like getting into Storty.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I went to the University of Arizona.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that one's pretty intense. I've heard.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, did you rush before you like went into syllabus week?
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  Speaker 1: Like before freshman year started or no, ours was like
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  Speaker 1: I think like two weeks into it. I think it
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  Speaker 1: was like halfway through September. We rushed and then we
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  Speaker 1: got our bids end of September, I believe.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow, okay, ours was kind of similar it was
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  Speaker 3: before we started classes. So I was told that I
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  Speaker 3: really had to, like everyone was supposed to kind of
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  Speaker 3: clean up their social media before rush because in the summertime,
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  Speaker 3: like girls will start to look at future prospects instagrams. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and so I made sure I deleted all the alcohol
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  Speaker 3: photos I have, and I remember, even though it was
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  Speaker 3: University of Arizona, I took off like bikini photos.
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  Speaker 1: I archived them.
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  Speaker 3: And I even made like a bio and I just
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  Speaker 3: really wanted my feed to look good. And I was
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  Speaker 3: posting more because I wanted to make sure I was
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  Speaker 3: like being active and I was kind of a little
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  Speaker 3: overboard on it. But then I was told on the
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  Speaker 3: other side of rush, once I was in a sorority,
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  Speaker 3: that you're actually supposed to look at girls' instagrams and
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  Speaker 3: stalk them.
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  Speaker 1: Did you do that when you were on the other
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  Speaker 1: side of recruitment, Yeah, we definitely would, and like see
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  Speaker 1: who was coming in even if it wasn't. I remember
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  Speaker 1: me and my friends, like especially the first day after rush.
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  Speaker 1: I remember going and like looking up everybody I talked
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  Speaker 1: to and just trying to like catch their vibe too,
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  Speaker 1: because you only get to talk to them for like
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  Speaker 1: what like ten minutes maybe right, but I remember doing that,
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  Speaker 1: and then before I remember when we got on the list,
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  Speaker 1: we like looked at which like, I know you're not
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  Speaker 1: supposed to do that, but it definitely is like a thing.
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  Speaker 1: It is a thing.
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  Speaker 3: And I also feel like maybe because I wasn't like
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  Speaker 3: panellenic or president or something, but I never judged if
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  Speaker 3: someone had a red solo cup or a bikini photo.
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  Speaker 1: But you're no. For me, I would be like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: like they like to have fun, yea, make it up
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  Speaker 1: fun other ways. But like I don't know, but I
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  Speaker 1: think it a lot of it has to do like
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  Speaker 1: with a sorority, like keeping like a good image. I
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  Speaker 1: have no idea, but that's true. Did you ever post
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  Speaker 1: anything in college that you had to take down?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I mean I would.
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  Speaker 3: Well, we would always like be extra and photoshop if
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  Speaker 3: there was like a wine bottle on the table behind us,
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  Speaker 3: but there were a lot of times where it was
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  Speaker 3: an Instagram story and we would get taggs and things
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  Speaker 3: and obviously want to repost it, so like not much
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  Speaker 3: you can do. I think I got sent to standards
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  Speaker 3: maybe like three times.
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  Speaker 1: Were you scared the first time?
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  Speaker 3: No, because so I'm like, this is so dumb, and yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you know I was. I was studying abroad when this happened,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm not even like in the house, and I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, they are broad. There should be like an exception, right, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because you can like drink in most places when you're
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  Speaker 1: like eighteen, right, Yeah, I know that's so crazy.
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  Speaker 3: I know it's so crazy, but I know nowadays social
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  Speaker 3: media is a lot, you know, more involved in people's
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  Speaker 3: lives than it was when I was in college.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, that was my experience. Did you know, like
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  Speaker 1: who you wanted, like what house you wanted to be
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  Speaker 1: in before you did it? Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if that's like a good thing or
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  Speaker 3: bad thing, but there was definitely like three houses. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: I feel like everyone's this way three houses that I
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  Speaker 3: was like I have to be in.
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  Speaker 1: I want to be in so bad. Yeah, and it
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  Speaker 1: worked out. But I got lucky when you got sent
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  Speaker 1: to Sanders. Was there like any punishment or anything you got?
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  Speaker 3: They claimed I couldn't go to like the next date dash,
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  Speaker 3: but I think they forgot because I did go.
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  Speaker 1: To the next stage. That's good. That seems like a
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  Speaker 1: drastic pun I know. But also I don't know about you,
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  Speaker 1: but our date dashes weren't actually that fun. Oh ours
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  Speaker 1: were so fun, I'm jealous mine was not. And then
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  Speaker 1: I remember sometimes if people got sent to standards, they
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  Speaker 1: would make them be like sober sisters, so like they
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  Speaker 1: couldn't drink at it.
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, when did they actually follow through with that? I
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  Speaker 1: think most people did for like the date dash, because
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  Speaker 1: I think they were kind of like so scared of
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  Speaker 1: what would happen if they didn't. But then after that
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  Speaker 1: everyone will go out to like the parties and.
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  Speaker 3: Stuff, And I feel like before date dashes is when
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  Speaker 3: people usually got in trouble for social media because they
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  Speaker 3: were like posting the pregames and there was alcohol involved.
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  Speaker 1: And that was a no no. Yeah for sure. If
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  Speaker 1: I'm back in Cane.
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  Speaker 5: What a time.
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  Speaker 1: I would do anything to be back right. Well, thank
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  Speaker 1: you so much for coming on, of course, Thanks Daisy. Okay, guys,
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  Speaker 1: I have Savannah on Now. Hey Savannah, Hi, So where
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  Speaker 1: did you go to school?
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  Speaker 2: I went to school in Texas, which was really fun.
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  Speaker 2: I loved Texas. It was a big like change of
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  Speaker 2: scene for me being from California. I feel like they
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  Speaker 2: definitely do things differently in Texas, but oh, really fun
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  Speaker 2: for your experience.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, did you have going into like recruitment. Did you
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  Speaker 1: have like did you go through social media and like
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  Speaker 1: take anything off or did you know a lot about rush?
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  Speaker 2: I mean I feel like you always hear like some
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  Speaker 2: people are super stressed about it and they're telling you
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  Speaker 2: to do like a million things. Then you hear like
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  Speaker 2: the people that are like, wait, you don't need to
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  Speaker 2: like touch your social media.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like my social media was always very clean,
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  Speaker 2: just because I cared about like farther from like recruitment,
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  Speaker 2: just like yeah, that's a good reputation. But I remember
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  Speaker 2: I had a photo with one of my friends who
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  Speaker 2: was a year older and was in the sorority. I
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  Speaker 2: wanted to go, and my mom was like, you have
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  Speaker 2: to remove that or the other sororities are going to
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  Speaker 2: drop you. And she probably was right because oh that
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  Speaker 2: is smart. Yeah, Like if I was like another swored
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  Speaker 2: you'd be like, well, obviously she's gonna go this one
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  Speaker 2: because she has photos with a girl who's literally like
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  Speaker 2: on the private team. So I remember I had to
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  Speaker 2: take that one down. But that was like the only
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  Speaker 2: kind of like cleaning up I did. I know there's
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  Speaker 2: like a lot of disgust between like going private or public,
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  Speaker 2: though on your social media.
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  Speaker 1: There is I feel like I haven't heard that. What
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  Speaker 1: have you heard about that?
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  Speaker 2: I just feel like some people were like it's better
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  Speaker 2: to be private because then if they were quest you,
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  Speaker 2: that means like they're like interesting.
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  Speaker 1: So they like want you.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But then I also heard that like if you're public,
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  Speaker 2: then it like gives them like the like the optional
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  Speaker 2: like stock you. But then like some people that's why
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  Speaker 2: you should stay private. I feel like that was like
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  Speaker 2: an interesting thing I thought about.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like do you want to say like mysterious
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  Speaker 1: or not?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, Like I still don't know the
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  Speaker 2: right answer.
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  Speaker 1: And then how about when you were in your sorority,
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  Speaker 1: was there any guidelines to what you could post and
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  Speaker 1: not post?
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  Speaker 2: For us, it was just like obviously if you're under
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  Speaker 2: twenty one, no alcohol like period, and then if you
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  Speaker 2: were like of the age of twenty one. They just
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  Speaker 2: wanted you to be like posting like classy, like nothing
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  Speaker 2: like unclassy, but you could like post technically.
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  Speaker 1: What would they do if like you had to take
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  Speaker 1: it down like mine? They would comment a purple heart emoji,
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  Speaker 1: like someone on Exact would that's so interesting, how about you?
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  Speaker 1: Like was there anything?
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  Speaker 2: They just would DM you and like be like take
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  Speaker 2: it down, and like, I feel like some girls like
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  Speaker 2: you always like the Exact picking was like sometimes it
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  Speaker 2: would be like such like chill girls who were like
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  Speaker 2: your friends and like they didn't really care. And then
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  Speaker 2: sometimes I just feel like girls on EXAC it was
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  Speaker 2: like some of them not everyone like kind of a
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  Speaker 2: power trip. So they would like use it to like.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and they just want to like boss people.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, boss you around. And I remember when I was
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  Speaker 2: on recruitment team, they like literally were making me. I
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  Speaker 2: remember I posted a photo and it was like a
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  Speaker 2: styrofoam cup and it had like the cutest little like
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  Speaker 2: logo on it. It was like pink and purple, like
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  Speaker 2: it could have been water. It probably wasn't water, but
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  Speaker 2: it could have been water. And they were like this
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  Speaker 2: needs to come down, right, now like super upset about it,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm like, it's a white styrofoam cup, like it's
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  Speaker 2: not even clear, and so sometimes I just felt like
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  Speaker 2: it was like a lot. But yeah, I get it.
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  Speaker 2: I get it being on like the other side.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh that's for sure. Do you think like looking
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  Speaker 1: at social media when you went into college, did you
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  Speaker 1: look at the different sororities at your school once you
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  Speaker 1: knew what school you were going to.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I followed them all, even like the
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  Speaker 2: ones I didn't have interest in, because like I think
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  Speaker 2: I just like heard that you were supposed to because
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  Speaker 2: you didn't want to like not follow the ones you
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  Speaker 2: were interested in. I feel like that's just a bad
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  Speaker 2: look across the board.
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  Speaker 1: Did you end up going in the one that your
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  Speaker 1: friend was in?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I did, but it's still good. I took down
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  Speaker 2: the photo.
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  Speaker 1: Oh it makes sense.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, but I was open. I was open,
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  Speaker 2: but it was like good to like have it removed
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  Speaker 2: so that there was like no issues with it.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Did you ever get in trouble or sent to the
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  Speaker 1: standards or anything.
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  Speaker 2: Never got sent to standards, thank good. But yeah we
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  Speaker 2: got in trouble for like weird stuff. I remember like
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  Speaker 2: when I lived in the house, there was like a
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  Speaker 2: study room and we got all these like dispo photos
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  Speaker 2: from someone's camera and she like had a bunch of
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  Speaker 2: printed so we're like, let's hang them in the study room.
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  Speaker 2: Like they were all like at football games, like very mellow,
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  Speaker 2: and we literally all got like a talking too, because
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  Speaker 2: there was again styrofoam cups, which I.
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  Speaker 1: Was like, it was just like those styrofoam cups, and.
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  Speaker 2: It was like clear cups, like of course if it's
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  Speaker 2: from the styre yes literally and I'm like, of course,
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  Speaker 2: if like there's a logo on a can, like we
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  Speaker 2: would not put that up in the house. But like
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  Speaker 2: it was like lear cups that were probably water like.
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  Speaker 2: We were like, but no, we were in a lot
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  Speaker 2: of trouble for that, and like I'm trying to think
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  Speaker 2: the other time I got in trouble. Oh, we like
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  Speaker 2: we were at a birthday dinner and it was like
• 11:49
  Speaker 2: one of those dinners we have to like hit a minimum. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they like got a bottle because they had hit like
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  Speaker 2: two grand at this dinner, and we walked into the
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  Speaker 2: house with it and we were like eating cake, like
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  Speaker 2: no one was drinking the bottle was sealed shut, and
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  Speaker 2: like we all like people I think got abs, Like
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  Speaker 2: we are like kind of like ra person walked in
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  Speaker 2: and like was like, you guys are drinking and the
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  Speaker 2: bottle was not open, but.
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  Speaker 1: We actually haven't opened it.
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  Speaker 2: It's just being so calm and just eating cake. But
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  Speaker 2: thank you for ruining that.
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  Speaker 1: I know it is. I can't even imagine, like now
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  Speaker 1: how much like they dig into people's social media is.
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  Speaker 2: It's just getting bigger and bigger.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, even with like followers and stuff too. Like I
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  Speaker 1: feel like the scale of like people having followers now
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  Speaker 1: to like when I was in like starting college is
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  Speaker 1: like way like bigger, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel like when I was going through recruitment,
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  Speaker 2: like every sorty had a social media but it was
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  Speaker 2: very like mellow. But now like yeah, sorties at my school,
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  Speaker 2: like is lit are like influencers and like they have
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  Speaker 2: this huge following and I'm like, I wonder if that
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  Speaker 2: like switches people's perspective on wanting to go that swarty
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  Speaker 2: based on like the social media following of the Instagram,
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  Speaker 2: which is so interesting. It is like all the recruitment
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  Speaker 2: videos are such a big thing now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like watching them and all the dances and everything. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like I would be the one in the back
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  Speaker 1: like holding the post.
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  Speaker 2: For exactly exactly just leaving the armstock and forth.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, thank you so much for coming on today.
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  Speaker 2: Of course, thanks for having me.
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  Speaker 1: Have a great rest of your day. Thank you. All right.
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  Speaker 1: Our next caller we have is Emma. Hey, Emma, Hi Daisy,
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  Speaker 1: how are you? I am doing great? How are you
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  Speaker 1: doing good? I'm so happy to be here.
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  Speaker 6: I have some funny stories from social media because I
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  Speaker 6: felt like it was very relaxed in my sorority.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I love that.
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  Speaker 6: Also, going into my sorority, I didn't even know that
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  Speaker 6: like cleaning up your social media was a thing. I
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  Speaker 6: already I had like a very clean feed anyways, but
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  Speaker 6: like I was definitely a bikini girl.
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  Speaker 1: I was like the same way. I also like I
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  Speaker 1: had no idea really what a sorority was. I ye,
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  Speaker 1: maybe because I'm from like the middle of nowhere in Minnesota,
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  Speaker 1: but I had no idea. My roommate made me sign up,
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  Speaker 1: and then I remember going to the first house and
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  Speaker 1: everyone was dancing and seeing I was like, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't know that.
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  Speaker 6: Like I like looked at the sorority's instagrams and I
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  Speaker 6: was like, oh, this is so intimidating.
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  Speaker 5: But I didn't do it.
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  Speaker 6: I didn't follow any of them. I didn't know what
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  Speaker 6: any of them meant. I knew that I like wanted
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  Speaker 6: to go a certain direction because I knew someone.
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  Speaker 1: In the sorority.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, but I definitely didn't clean mine up. And I
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  Speaker 6: think that girls are now posts. I think bikini pictures
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  Speaker 6: are completely fine.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: I loved a good bikini.
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  Speaker 1: Pop for sure, because I was from California. Where did
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  Speaker 1: you go to school?
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  Speaker 6: I went to school in Colorado. Oh cool and weirdly enough,
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  Speaker 6: you know, there's no beaches there. But everyone was always
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  Speaker 6: in a bikini on their insta.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I like in college, everyone's in a bikini. Like,
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  Speaker 1: no matter where you are.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, our formals wear bikinis.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, where would you go with formals?
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  Speaker 5: You could go to Aspen?
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  Speaker 1: Oh fun?
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  Speaker 6: And so like our sorority instagram was like, yeah, our
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  Speaker 6: sisters are hat formals and it's like us in bikinis.
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  Speaker 6: So I always thought the bikini thing was just silly.
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  Speaker 6: Oh but who ran our socials, which was actually my
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  Speaker 6: really good friend Greta. She's the one posting she was
• 15:30
  Speaker 6: the one commenting on people's pictures, selecting like the sorority spotlight,
• 15:37
  Speaker 6: and so she was in full control of the Instagram.
• 15:41
  Speaker 6: For our spring break, we went to Jamaica and took
• 15:46
  Speaker 6: lots of bikini pictures.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: That's like a random spot I feel like to go
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: on college.
• 15:50
  Speaker 6: Spring break, I know, but it was so much fun.
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's great. I mean, I'm sure it would be
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: a time.
• 15:57
  Speaker 5: It was.
• 15:57
  Speaker 6: It was the best. It was kind of like staying
• 15:59
  Speaker 6: in my Mexico, but it was like completely different vibe.
• 16:02
  Speaker 6: Not a lot of people there, so it was like
• 16:03
  Speaker 6: our group of twenty went there. That's so Red died
• 16:06
  Speaker 6: about lots of bikini pictures and so fast forward. She
• 16:13
  Speaker 6: my friend Greta is browsing. She always makes people like
• 16:17
  Speaker 6: send in pictures. I didn't send in any picture to
• 16:20
  Speaker 6: be featured on the Instagram, but I was at home
• 16:24
  Speaker 6: and Greta posted a picture of me and my good
• 16:28
  Speaker 6: friend and our entire crotch was out in our bikini,
• 16:34
  Speaker 6: missing our sisters. Hope everyone's having a good spring and
• 16:38
  Speaker 6: I chat lit up and they're like, oh my god, Greta,
• 16:41
  Speaker 6: what the what the fuck is wrong with you? Why
• 16:44
  Speaker 6: did you just post their crotches on Instagram. And she
• 16:46
  Speaker 6: was like the sweetest girl ever. She's like, oh my god,
• 16:48
  Speaker 6: I didn't even notice, Like I kid you not.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: Like, oh oh my god, were you like so upset?
• 16:56
  Speaker 6: It was hilarious. I mean we're like, Greta, can you
• 16:59
  Speaker 6: take it down?
• 17:00
  Speaker 5: I mean it's just like.
• 17:00
  Speaker 6: All girls that follow the Instagram, So it's fine. But
• 17:04
  Speaker 6: our sorority, truly, I don't think really cared about social media.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: It was just like mar Chill that way.
• 17:10
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't. I don't think I was ever. No
• 17:14
  Speaker 6: one ever commented on my Instagram. Our code word was bibbs,
• 17:18
  Speaker 6: bring it back sis bibbs.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: Wait, that's kind of cute.
• 17:22
  Speaker 6: Yeah, but I didn't have any friend, Like, no one
• 17:26
  Speaker 6: cared at all. Yeah, that's why I didn't know that
• 17:29
  Speaker 6: like cleaning up your social media was a thing and
• 17:31
  Speaker 6: now either like young rushies.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I never had anything like bad on my social
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: media or like no alcohol either, because my mom was
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: always like telling me not to post that stuff. But
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: it was interesting like getting into college, because I feel
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: right when I got into college, it was like the
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: era where like social media like really started like having
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: a really big presence and people were like using it
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: for like jobs and like their life.
• 18:04
  Speaker 6: Yeah, it seem like actually making money off of social media.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like crazy to even where we're at now,
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: like people making social media on it. Like to see
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: in like the next ten years how much it evolves.
• 18:18
  Speaker 6: Well, like what if you're one of those really cool
• 18:21
  Speaker 6: people that don't have social media and you're you're only
• 18:25
  Speaker 6: a cool person, but they like only keep track of
• 18:28
  Speaker 6: people with social media. I guess then they would be
• 18:30
  Speaker 6: way too cool for the sorority. But like, yeah, it's
• 18:33
  Speaker 6: interesting how it's kind of it's kind of like having a.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: LinkedIn Yeah college, Yeah for sure. Well, thank you so
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: much for coming on. Yeah of course, Hi Daisy, Howie,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: thank you for coming on. Zoe.
• 19:04
  Speaker 7: Hi, I'm Zoe and I went to school in a
• 19:09
  Speaker 7: big school in Los Angeles and our sorority we had
• 19:16
  Speaker 7: a really young house mom, and so sometimes she let
• 19:20
  Speaker 7: things fly that maybe wouldn't fly in other houses.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: And I love that. How old was she about?
• 19:28
  Speaker 7: She was twenty five, like she had graduated college and
• 19:31
  Speaker 7: then was our was our house mom, so I.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: Had to have been like fifty fifty dibsh.
• 19:37
  Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, Okay, So that was normal. That was
• 19:39
  Speaker 7: like every other house on the road. But so she
• 19:43
  Speaker 7: would let something slide in the house, like certain pregames
• 19:46
  Speaker 7: before events and whatever. But the number one rule was
• 19:50
  Speaker 7: always that you can't post anything on social media, yeah,
• 19:55
  Speaker 7: because then we could seriously get busted and then it
• 19:57
  Speaker 7: would all go away. And I remember that we had
• 20:02
  Speaker 7: a tradition of every year before our we called it
• 20:05
  Speaker 7: Crush our crush date party. It like went around Valentine's
• 20:08
  Speaker 7: Day and it was basically where each girl would invite
• 20:12
  Speaker 7: their crush they had put down on a list, like
• 20:15
  Speaker 7: you know, a range of like three different crushes and
• 20:17
  Speaker 7: their phone numbers, and then our social chair would then
• 20:20
  Speaker 7: reach out to them and so and they would go
• 20:23
  Speaker 7: to the venue separately from the girls, and so all
• 20:25
  Speaker 7: the girls would choke together and then all the crushes would.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: Show up at the venue together.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: That's fun.
• 20:30
  Speaker 7: And so girls would really want to get get some
• 20:33
  Speaker 7: liquid courage in themselves before showing up to the venue.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: And so every year we would they know who it
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: was going to be before they showed up. No, you
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: didn't know what if like we wanted the same guy though,
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: and then like I should have it with him, But
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: then they actually appeared me with a different guy.
• 20:51
  Speaker 7: Yes, that would happen, and it would be like if Daisy,
• 20:54
  Speaker 7: you were older than me, you would be like higher
• 20:56
  Speaker 7: up on the list. And then I think it would
• 20:58
  Speaker 7: be like an alphabetical thing. So two girls wouldn't be
• 21:01
  Speaker 7: inviting the same guy. Each girl got their own or date,
• 21:04
  Speaker 7: Each girl got their own crush to go, so you
• 21:07
  Speaker 7: didn't know exactly unless they had told you, but you
• 21:10
  Speaker 7: didn't know if it was you then invited them or not.
• 21:12
  Speaker 7: And everything was like a secret. It wasn't a public sheet.
• 21:15
  Speaker 7: So also stay we would do a pregame at our
• 21:20
  Speaker 7: sorority house prior to the date party, and the number
• 21:26
  Speaker 7: one rule was that we all nobody could post or
• 21:32
  Speaker 7: take a single video at this pregame or else it
• 21:35
  Speaker 7: would all go away and we would girls would get
• 21:38
  Speaker 7: very drunk and they we would make like this jungle
• 21:42
  Speaker 7: juice at the house. Jungle juice so fun for everyone
• 21:46
  Speaker 7: to do. But there was the way that we would
• 21:51
  Speaker 7: coordinate this because we also didn't like want a paper trail,
• 21:54
  Speaker 7: as we had this private Facebook group and like nobody
• 21:58
  Speaker 7: uses Facebook anymore, and we would have this private Facebook
• 22:03
  Speaker 7: group where everybody would like discuss the details of the
• 22:08
  Speaker 7: pregame that was happening because it couldn't be on like
• 22:10
  Speaker 7: our sorority chat.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 22:13
  Speaker 7: And then I remember I was a junior and we
• 22:16
  Speaker 7: had had like three years of this going on where
• 22:20
  Speaker 7: no one had found out. Girls and other storties didn't
• 22:22
  Speaker 7: find out because if they saw something on social media
• 22:25
  Speaker 7: that this was going down, they would report it to
• 22:28
  Speaker 7: their house moms or whatever and be like, why can't
• 22:30
  Speaker 7: we do this? Yeah, so, and it was also only
• 22:34
  Speaker 7: girls in the sorority were allowed, like even if even
• 22:37
  Speaker 7: if your date going to day party was a girl,
• 22:40
  Speaker 7: she could not be allowed to come. And I remember
• 22:43
  Speaker 7: one year one of my best friends got really drunk
• 22:46
  Speaker 7: and ended up posting something to not just like her
• 22:49
  Speaker 7: Snapchat private story, but her Instagram story, and it was
• 22:53
  Speaker 7: a video of the pregame going on, and she was
• 22:56
  Speaker 7: like I love these ladies, they're my sisters, like something
• 22:59
  Speaker 7: like that.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: And that probably does around so fast, Oh my gosh,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: so fast, especially it's on your public Instagram story.
• 23:07
  Speaker 7: And it was flagged pretty instantly by our EXEC because
• 23:14
  Speaker 7: they're members of EXEC that like weren't allowed to go
• 23:17
  Speaker 7: to the party because they had to make sure like
• 23:18
  Speaker 7: everyone was going to stay safe and get all the
• 23:19
  Speaker 7: asses okay and whatever. And she not only was like
• 23:25
  Speaker 7: in so much trouble internally with the sorority, but it
• 23:29
  Speaker 7: was also just like so much shame because this was
• 23:31
  Speaker 7: like a sacred pregame that nobody could know about and
• 23:37
  Speaker 7: it was like one of my good friends and she
• 23:39
  Speaker 7: like it ended up the next year we like were
• 23:41
  Speaker 7: able to do it because it was just too risky
• 23:43
  Speaker 7: and it was honestly too risky regardless. But yeah, she'll
• 23:47
  Speaker 7: forever go down as the one who the one who
• 23:50
  Speaker 7: pre crushed the crush pregame.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: Oh that's such a bummer. It's like fun to doing
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: something like that.
• 23:58
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean it was memories. Were those of us
• 24:02
  Speaker 7: that had memories of the night. We were so much fun.
• 24:05
  Speaker 7: But it was something we just knew was bound to
• 24:08
  Speaker 7: with social media, it's.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: So usual, like, well it lasted.
• 24:13
  Speaker 7: Yeah, it was fun.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: Well it lasted.
• 24:15
  Speaker 7: But no, we weren't able to do it senior year
• 24:17
  Speaker 7: because yeah, she kind of ruined it for the rest
• 24:20
  Speaker 7: of us, but it was kind of bound to happen.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Did you before you went into school, did you like
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: clean up your social media at all or anything, or
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: was it just like you didn't even think about it
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: kind of or didn't have anything to clean up.
• 24:33
  Speaker 7: I definitely remember like really cool, like, well, I guess
• 24:37
  Speaker 7: I didn't really have that much alcohol my senior year
• 24:39
  Speaker 7: of high school, but if I had a red solo
• 24:40
  Speaker 7: cup in something or whatever, I would make sure that
• 24:44
  Speaker 7: I that I took that out. I remember trying to
• 24:48
  Speaker 7: post more just like good photos of myself and make
• 24:51
  Speaker 7: myself look fun and bubbly and pretty and like like
• 24:54
  Speaker 7: I have a lot of friends and whatever, because I think, yeah,
• 25:00
  Speaker 7: and you think of the when you're like does this
• 25:02
  Speaker 7: really matter? Okay, I'll just do it just just to
• 25:04
  Speaker 7: be safe, and then you do kind of realize when
• 25:07
  Speaker 7: you're on the other end of it and Rush, that
• 25:10
  Speaker 7: people do look at that, but you can't if you're private.
• 25:14
  Speaker 7: Maybe I did go public before Rush, because if you're private,
• 25:18
  Speaker 7: then no one could see anything that you have on there.
• 25:23
  Speaker 7: I feel like I shaped up my Instagram too, more
• 25:26
  Speaker 7: like for other girls who were going to be in
• 25:28
  Speaker 7: my you know, just like going into college you wanted
• 25:32
  Speaker 7: you know, that's like someone's first impression of you a
• 25:35
  Speaker 7: little bit before.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: You could meet them at school. Yeah.
• 25:38
  Speaker 7: So, and I felt like everyone was following each other
• 25:41
  Speaker 7: once you knew that you got in and you're posted
• 25:43
  Speaker 7: on like the well like a minute for sure accounts
• 25:48
  Speaker 7: or whatever.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: I remember even like posting in like a Facebook, like yeah,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: when I was like trying to find my roommate and
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I knew you'd like post like a few pictures of
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: you be like looking for a roommate.
• 26:02
  Speaker 8: Yeah, I remember that so well.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: About thinking as I ended up with my roommate and
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: she's like now my best friend, like forever?
• 26:09
  Speaker 7: Did you find her on Facebook?
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah? We found each other on Facebook.
• 26:12
  Speaker 7: Okay, me too, I found and we're best friends still.
• 26:15
  Speaker 7: But that's I do think there's something to the Facebook groups,
• 26:18
  Speaker 7: like right you find.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Like usually that doesn't happen like usually. I think I'm
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: the only one out of like my whole entire friend
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: group who ended up being like best friends with their
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: really really yeah friend group. But we I do feel
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: like stuff too.
• 26:32
  Speaker 7: But yeah, I do feel like that's pretty rare. But
• 26:38
  Speaker 7: it's so special. She going to be Is she going
• 26:40
  Speaker 7: to be in your wedding?
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah? She's made of honors. I have four Madive honors,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: but she's one of them. Oh my gosh, you have four? Yeah?
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: I was like my wedding to do whatever I want
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: to do.
• 26:52
  Speaker 8: I love it.
• 26:53
  Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, that's so great.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for coming on.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you so much for having me da.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: Okay, guys, we have our next caller in. This is McKenna. Hey, McKenna,
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: thanks for coming off. How are you. I'm doing so good.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: How are you?
• 27:09
  Speaker 5: I'm good?
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Okay, So today we're talking about like social media guidelines
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: for sororities. Let's start off with did you ever go
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: like before you went into a sorority, did you look
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: at their instagram and did you like clean yours up
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: or anything?
• 27:24
  Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, I stalked all of the instagrams, okay,
• 27:28
  Speaker 9: sororities before, and I made sure to follow all of
• 27:32
  Speaker 9: them because I heard all of this stuff beforehand about
• 27:34
  Speaker 9: they'll see and you're following if you don't follow ones,
• 27:37
  Speaker 9: and then that'll give you a bad look. And so
• 27:40
  Speaker 9: I made sure to follow like everyone. And I was
• 27:42
  Speaker 9: always liking all of the posts before.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: That's like such a true thing. Like when I was
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: going and like talking to a girl.
• 27:52
  Speaker 9: Always thought that if I liked it, they're gonna notice
• 27:54
  Speaker 9: that I liked it. And then they're gonna No, that's
• 27:58
  Speaker 9: so funny but like so real.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: And then did you get once you got in a sorority?
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Did you ever get in trouble for posting anything?
• 28:07
  Speaker 9: Okay, so I didn't get in trouble. What my friends did.
• 28:09
  Speaker 9: It was freshman and it was one of my friends.
• 28:13
  Speaker 9: We were all in the same sorority, and we went
• 28:15
  Speaker 9: to my friend's birthdays and we went wine tasting and it.
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: Was freshman beer.
• 28:20
  Speaker 9: So we were not twenty one yet, but it was
• 28:24
  Speaker 9: right around when we thought that like wine glasses were
• 28:26
  Speaker 9: so aesthetic and cute.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Also that's like so fun honestly that there's something about
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: being like right about to turn twenty one and just
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: like holding the wine glass.
• 28:37
  Speaker 9: Yeah, and it's like even in any of the pictures,
• 28:40
  Speaker 9: it's like the tiniest pore ever because it's a tasting obviously.
• 28:43
  Speaker 5: But I remember we all like I.
• 28:45
  Speaker 9: Posted something and I didn't tag where we were at,
• 28:48
  Speaker 9: but then a few of my friends like tagged like
• 28:50
  Speaker 9: blank winery and then they got a DM from the
• 28:53
  Speaker 9: Instagram saying like NOP in all caps like notp which
• 28:59
  Speaker 9: I did like know any of I think that there
• 29:01
  Speaker 9: was some sort of like training I was supposed to do.
• 29:04
  Speaker 5: To know what that acronym not meant. I had no
• 29:07
  Speaker 5: idea what it meant.
• 29:08
  Speaker 9: I thought that they were like spelling Nope, wrong, and
• 29:11
  Speaker 9: so I was just like, they don't even know what
• 29:13
  Speaker 9: it's like.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Nope. Maybe it could have been that. Was it always
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: your sorority that would DM you? Or would it ever
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: be the girls on exec that would like comment or
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: DM you about it?
• 29:25
  Speaker 9: So it was the I always thought I ended up
• 29:28
  Speaker 9: being the manager of our social media later on, which
• 29:32
  Speaker 9: is like funny, but what is funny? I always thought
• 29:35
  Speaker 9: that it was the VP of Marketing and PR that.
• 29:39
  Speaker 5: Said it through the account.
• 29:41
  Speaker 9: Actually it was for us, it was the VP of
• 29:43
  Speaker 9: standards and so that member of it would go in
• 29:47
  Speaker 9: and then basically anything that had anything they deemed like
• 29:50
  Speaker 9: not our pillars.
• 29:51
  Speaker 5: It would be like, I'm so now I'm not.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: That's funny. And then when you because you said you
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: knew a lot about sororities and stuff before you went
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: through a groupment, We're like, looking at all their instagrams?
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Did the instagrams and social media influence what house you
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: wanted to be in?
• 30:11
  Speaker 9: I had a really like set mindset going in because
• 30:16
  Speaker 9: one of my best friends from home.
• 30:18
  Speaker 5: It was a year above me was in a certain.
• 30:19
  Speaker 9: One, and so I did not make sense really open mind,
• 30:22
  Speaker 9: but I always sort of knew I was gonna go there,
• 30:25
  Speaker 9: but definitely looking around the instagrams and honestly, like seeing
• 30:30
  Speaker 9: all the comments like that really piqued my interest to
• 30:33
  Speaker 9: like see which ones had people actually interested, like the
• 30:36
  Speaker 9: members actually commenting and like seeming like they had.
• 30:39
  Speaker 5: A lot of fun and like a big community.
• 30:42
  Speaker 9: So that made me want to join one of over another,
• 30:45
  Speaker 9: just to make it seem like they really had like
• 30:47
  Speaker 9: a tight knit group that actually hung out and liked
• 30:49
  Speaker 9: each other and stuff like that.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: I will tell you there is nothing like I remember
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: when I got to college and I joined my sorority
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: and like the first pick I threw up like that,
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: It's probably the most comments on an Instagram post I
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: had ever got in my life. It was crazy, like
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: my had to be skybalcketing.
• 31:09
  Speaker 9: The first time I got posted on the like social media,
• 31:13
  Speaker 9: the sorority social media, I was like starstruck. I was like,
• 31:17
  Speaker 9: no way they write this account.
• 31:21
  Speaker 5: It's so funny.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: It's such a fun thing though, honestly, but it's crazy
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: to think about now, Like we have, like social media,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: and it like impacts so much, and like even back
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: to when like our parents were in school, like it
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: didn't play an aspect of it. So that's so interesting
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: to think about.
• 31:39
  Speaker 9: You know, I met my roommate on social media before
• 31:41
  Speaker 9: she DMed me and now we've been in my peas.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, do you think your sorority was like more strict
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: than other sororities are like the same?
• 31:51
  Speaker 5: No, I feel like it was less.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: At least.
• 31:55
  Speaker 9: I mean maybe I played a role into that because
• 31:58
  Speaker 9: when I was on the when I was in charge
• 32:00
  Speaker 9: of it, I.
• 32:01
  Speaker 5: Didn't really get more relaxed.
• 32:04
  Speaker 9: People would post a photocircle type thing to get posted
• 32:07
  Speaker 9: on the Instagram, and if it was honestly crazy, like
• 32:10
  Speaker 9: some of the freshmen would post pictures from like frat
• 32:13
  Speaker 9: parties on it with drinks in their hand and expect
• 32:15
  Speaker 9: that to get posted on like our official account.
• 32:19
  Speaker 5: And I was I would always see that and I'd
• 32:21
  Speaker 5: be like, what are you like? What are you thinking?
• 32:22
  Speaker 5: I can't post this? You're eighteen? You know. I would
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: never say anything to them.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, thank you so much for coming on with Kenna.
• 32:32
  Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: Have a good rest of your day.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Hi, you too.
• 32:35
  Speaker 4: Bye.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: We now have Lauren on Hey Lauren, Hi Daisy, how
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: are you. I'm doing great? How are you doing good?
• 32:58
  Speaker 8: I have a story about social media.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I can't wait to hear. We're all about social
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  Speaker 1: media today. So I'll just let you take it away.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, this just like to this day is the most
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  Speaker 8: stupid thing that happened at my sorority. I think it
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  Speaker 8: was so blown out of proportion.
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  Speaker 1: So I'll tell you.
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  Speaker 8: In college, my sorority, they were like normal strict about
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  Speaker 8: social media posts, like they didn't want alcohol on your page.
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  Speaker 8: They were like kind of weird about bikini picks if
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  Speaker 8: they were too scandalous, and like they would kind of
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  Speaker 8: leave comments and stuff. If you posted something, they'd leave
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  Speaker 8: like a purple heart and they'd just be like, that's
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  Speaker 8: how you need to delete it, or they'd swipe up
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  Speaker 8: on an Instagram story. And girls were always trying to
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  Speaker 8: test the limits and like put an emoji over a
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  Speaker 8: red solo cup or photoshop it out, and sometimes they
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  Speaker 8: catch it. Sometimes they wouldn't like it felt like it
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  Speaker 8: was pretty standard. But one year when we went through
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  Speaker 8: our luck and like got all the new people on
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  Speaker 8: exec and got a new social media manager. Okay, there
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  Speaker 8: was just one girl that came in, and it sucks
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  Speaker 8: because she ran the instagram really well. It looked stunning,
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  Speaker 8: but she was so strict about getting people in trouble
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  Speaker 8: and it's like she wanted to get people in trouble.
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  Speaker 8: It was just strange. She was on some sort of
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  Speaker 8: power checks. But anyways, one of my friends like would
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  Speaker 8: make tiktoks all the time, and she did this video
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  Speaker 8: that was like a day in my life for sorority formal,
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  Speaker 8: So she like took you throughout her whole entire day.
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  Speaker 8: And then there was a bunch of clips of a
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  Speaker 8: group of us at formal, and because we were at
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  Speaker 8: our sorority's formal, there were like twenty girls form my
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  Speaker 8: sorority in this video. Yeah, and she was really careful
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  Speaker 8: not to put alcohol in or anything because she was
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  Speaker 8: like really trying to be an influencer. Like she took
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  Speaker 8: these videos really seriously, so she didn't want to take
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  Speaker 8: it down and she had a lot of followers, and
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  Speaker 8: so anyway, she throws up the video. The next day,
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  Speaker 8: we're at chapter in the social medium manager gives us
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  Speaker 8: her update in the meeting and starts going on this
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  Speaker 8: tangent about how she keeps busting all of these girls
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  Speaker 8: were posting alcohol and like just being really agro about
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  Speaker 8: it and quite frankly just rude to everybody, and.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody's kind of like, what's going on.
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  Speaker 8: But then the next or that afternoon, I guess, like
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  Speaker 8: right before chapter she had compted a purple heart on
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  Speaker 8: the video that my friend threw up that I like
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  Speaker 8: put up there that I was talking about, and we
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  Speaker 8: watched it over and over, just being like, why would
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  Speaker 8: she put this on there?
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  Speaker 1: There's no alcohol.
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  Speaker 8: We couldn't figure out what was wrong with it, and
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  Speaker 8: so she just decided to ignore it. She was like,
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  Speaker 8: this must have been a mistake. Then all twenty of
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  Speaker 8: us girls or however many it was, got called into standards,
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  Speaker 8: and nobody knew why. We're so confused. We get there
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  Speaker 8: and they're like it's because or before they were like
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  Speaker 8: it's because of this video, and we're like, what is
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  Speaker 8: wrong with this video?
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  Speaker 2: We could figure it out.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that's a thing like standards does. Sometimes
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  Speaker 1: you don't know why you're getting called in, but you
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  Speaker 1: get caught in.
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  Speaker 8: It's so drama, like they just want to scare you.
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  Speaker 8: So anyways, we get in there and they told us
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  Speaker 8: that it was because the background music in the video,
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  Speaker 8: like the music that they were playing at formal, in
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  Speaker 8: the background in the video had profanity. And we were like,
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  Speaker 8: that's it. You played that music at your own formal.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like you guys were in charge of playing the
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  Speaker 1: music were so stupid.
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  Speaker 8: And they tried to argue it, but since we had
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  Speaker 8: so many people, we were kind of able to argue
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  Speaker 8: our case back and just be like, you guys are
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  Speaker 8: the ones playing the music. And there was this whole
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  Speaker 8: drama and all these calls and text to figure out
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  Speaker 8: who had ox at the party and who was playing
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  Speaker 8: the profanity.
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  Speaker 1: That's absurd.
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  Speaker 8: And then we got profanity banned from our formals so
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  Speaker 8: we couldn't post it on social media like we had,
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  Speaker 8: so all of the songs had to be the clean version.
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  Speaker 1: That's just like so ridiculous, that's so funny, Like I
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  Speaker 1: like the college. So literally last night me and Thor
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  Speaker 1: were looking through like DJs and bands that our wedding
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  Speaker 1: player said to us, and we really really loved one
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  Speaker 1: of the bands, but they wouldn't swear anytime it likes
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  Speaker 1: so weird. They would say something else or just like
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  Speaker 1: pause and like keep going, you know how they like
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  Speaker 1: do on the radio. More was like I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I like love them, I think they're great or whatever
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  Speaker 1: and thorgas I do, but can we make sure they
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  Speaker 1: like actually swear?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, no, it's so true.
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  Speaker 8: It's just crazy that it was such a big deal
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  Speaker 8: because like, I don't think swearing is a big deal.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're big kids. Yeah. So then did you guys
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  Speaker 1: end up did you end up getting like a punishment
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  Speaker 1: or no?
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  Speaker 8: Thank god we didn't, but I guess the punishment was
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  Speaker 8: like taking away profanity from our music that we would
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  Speaker 8: play out formals, which is like kind of lame, but
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  Speaker 8: it's not an actual punishment. It just the whole thing
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  Speaker 8: was very drawn out and dramatic for I think zero reason.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. Well, thank you so much for coming on.
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  Speaker 8: Of course, thanks for having me.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, thanks for tuning in to Dirty Rush. We hope
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  Speaker 1: you enjoyed this episode. The next episode, we will be
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  Speaker 1: talking more about social media presence online and more all
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  Speaker 1: about Rush, so tune back in