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Let’s Make it Official with Susan Noles and Joan Vassos · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: Hid ladies, good morning, we're another almost famous podcast, and
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  Speaker 2: we're so excited to have Jon and Susan here.
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  Speaker 3: You freaking crushed it last night.
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  Speaker 4: Every minute.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you could tell that you have done weddings before, girl,
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  Speaker 3: but this one was special.
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  Speaker 5: Well, of course, so a lot of the wording that
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  Speaker 5: I used in different weddings, yes, wasn't the same, Okay.
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  Speaker 5: I maybe had a few words out of some of
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  Speaker 5: the weddings.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, But as.
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  Speaker 5: I wrote it, I kept looking back and going, this
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  Speaker 5: isn't it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. But the best part about it was I was
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  Speaker 4: a part of their journey. Yes, so it got to be.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, it was so special and you made us all
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  Speaker 2: laugh last night, which I loved.
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  Speaker 6: No, that's for you, and I said her. This morning,
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  Speaker 6: I came to a room, I said, do you have
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  Speaker 6: perfect timing?
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  Speaker 3: Perfect timing?
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  Speaker 6: Perfectly the right amount of time?
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  Speaker 2: I was like, you are aid for this totally. So
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  Speaker 2: did you play a part? Like did you come up
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  Speaker 2: with the ceremony alone? Together with them?
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  Speaker 5: I wrote the ceremony, okay, they tweeked some things, Okay,
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  Speaker 5: So I had the birthday suit party. Uh huh, you know,
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  Speaker 5: screaming that I'm going to marry you.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I love that part. That was so good.
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  Speaker 7: That was so good.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, and that's where that pause was perfect, Like it
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  Speaker 6: was so good.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, it was good.
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  Speaker 2: And then another question for our wedding. The person who
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  Speaker 2: did our officiating also did like a little I don't
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  Speaker 2: know pre wedding like meet where we go interview, Like
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  Speaker 2: is that what you usually did?
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  Speaker 4: A new title. I mean, I'm not licensed, but I do.
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  Speaker 2: I counsel every counseling marital pre marital counseling.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, did you do that?
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  Speaker 5: The fun Yes, I kind of knew, but yeah, are
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  Speaker 5: inside what makes them tick?
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 5: What would the audience know if I said something about them,
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  Speaker 5: what they'd like to do together?
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  Speaker 4: Some people say we're Netflix people together.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, yeah right, crazy things I've heard, but we won't
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  Speaker 5: share all.
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  Speaker 7: We got Joan and Susan here. It's really hard, and Joe,
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  Speaker 7: we're gonna get to you in a second. We had
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  Speaker 7: a lot to talk to you about. I just want
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  Speaker 7: to celebrate you for a second for what you did
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  Speaker 7: last night and officiating this wedding, like it's really hard
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  Speaker 7: to do this. And then to have the response unanisously positive.
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  Speaker 7: Like across the board last night reading the reviews. You
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  Speaker 7: crushed it and you made it personal and you made
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  Speaker 7: it very like intimate and it's not easy to do,
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  Speaker 7: and so yes, you've done weddings before, but I just
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  Speaker 7: I want to say it was. It was a joy
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  Speaker 7: to be at the wedding, not only to celebrate the
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  Speaker 7: two of them, but to see how much you cared
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  Speaker 7: for the two of them in these moments.
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  Speaker 4: It was beautiful. Thank you.
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  Speaker 7: Now, the one part of the wedding, I don't understand
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  Speaker 7: what happened with the rings.
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  Speaker 5: Wait, they come to my room maybe an hour before,
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  Speaker 5: and they showed me the little stone thing he was carrying,
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  Speaker 5: and they said, all you have to do is pull
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  Speaker 5: this ribbon. Okay, we'll slide right off. Well they did
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  Speaker 5: not never mentioned they were pinned into the ribbon. I'm
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  Speaker 5: and I'm tugging and I'm looking up at Gary. The
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  Speaker 5: starts in handling, yeah, ripping at it. But once he
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  Speaker 5: took the pin out, then the ribbon did got it.
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  Speaker 4: They didn't want little Henry to drop it or lose.
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  Speaker 2: What did Teresa say to you when the bows were dropped?
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  Speaker 2: Because I didn't hear that little part like you were
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  Speaker 2: like throwing the bows like, and she said something, do
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  Speaker 2: you know what I'm talking about?
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  Speaker 6: I saw that too, Yeah, yeah, no, and it was
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  Speaker 6: I think she was saying it to Gary because he
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  Speaker 6: was like kind of something like about that right now.
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  Speaker 4: I wonder if he roughs it up.
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  Speaker 6: Susan, you had to go there, I mean, that's where I.
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  Speaker 7: Thought I it was. I mean, I don't even know
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  Speaker 7: if it was shown. I'm sure is live television it was.
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  Speaker 6: None of us have seen it.
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  Speaker 2: We were just sitting here with and we were like,
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  Speaker 2: we think you did great on the Red Car.
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  Speaker 6: I talked to my kids this morning, like how are
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  Speaker 6: we They're like fine, kids.
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  Speaker 7: So the two of you are two names getting thrown
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  Speaker 7: around maybe to be the next Golden Bachelor, and we
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  Speaker 7: don't even really know if they're going to have one,
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  Speaker 7: right like, I haven't been confirmed.
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  Speaker 5: I think the applications out for the men. I think
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  Speaker 5: that's where.
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  Speaker 3: They always do that. They always are looking.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, no matter, it's so much easier to find them.
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  Speaker 7: So when I say the words, let's just like play
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  Speaker 7: a game and imagine that the show is happening and
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  Speaker 7: each of you have been asked to be the Golden
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  Speaker 7: Bachelor at What does that feel like? Is that exciting?
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  Speaker 7: Are you nerves? Would you be nervous?
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  Speaker 4: Are we going together.
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  Speaker 7: First?
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  Speaker 6: And I would actually love that, So I I kind
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  Speaker 6: of liked the Bacher shows that had the two women.
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  Speaker 6: I thought that they kind of worked, and I thought
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  Speaker 6: that at least in our case, I think that we're
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  Speaker 6: gonna they're gonna have a hard time finding men that
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  Speaker 6: are going to want to sit around and talk about
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  Speaker 6: love on that big old sofa. And I think they're
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  Speaker 6: going to be like either silent or like it'll fix.
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  Speaker 6: Maybe they'll had some pictures or something, but they're they're
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  Speaker 6: not going to talk about love. They're going to talk
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  Speaker 6: about sports, and then they're going to clamb up. So
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  Speaker 6: I think that you might need more than one bachelorette.
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  Speaker 6: If you're going to have the men as not the mains,
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  Speaker 6: then I think you might need one, or two or
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  Speaker 6: three or maybe in four. I think four would be
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  Speaker 6: four big number.
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  Speaker 8: By the way, I think that's happening, and I would
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  Speaker 8: like to be there, just if I wasn't the batchel
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  Speaker 8: to counsel the men on how to be Yeah, this
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  Speaker 8: is TV, this.
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  Speaker 4: Is what you want to do here or a woman. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: my fear is I wouldn't like any of them.
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  Speaker 6: I mean fear like me because you are, Because you know,
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  Speaker 6: Gary and Theresa had this incredibly epic ending to their season,
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  Speaker 6: and like that's a really hard act to follow. So
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  Speaker 6: even if you have a connection with somebody and maybe
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  Speaker 6: like it's you, like see the future, you're probably not
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  Speaker 6: going to have this ending. So no matter, I don't
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  Speaker 6: want to be a lot of us.
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  Speaker 3: That actually happened.
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  Speaker 6: On our season was only one month.
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  Speaker 3: Mine was only six weeks. Yeah, you're right, because the
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  Speaker 3: other ones are like ten.
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  Speaker 4: Look Joey's coming up. How exciting is that? Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: How I feel like they've got longer than long.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a couple of months.
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  Speaker 7: I believe almost three months this thing, but by start
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  Speaker 7: to finish.
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  Speaker 6: How long was your season?
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  Speaker 7: A long time? About three months?
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  Speaker 4: I feel it was.
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  Speaker 6: Ours was?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure, I may how many men you're not
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  Speaker 5: getting seven year olds? If it's sixty, some of them
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  Speaker 5: are still in business and can't take off six weeks.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but hopefully some of them are CEOs the retirement.
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  Speaker 5: We want to check the background, don't get any information
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  Speaker 5: about them, so you're going kind of blind, and.
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  Speaker 3: That's just what the show is.
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  Speaker 6: What is you have to trust and now exciting.
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  Speaker 5: The main thing for us, for me, the producers, the
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  Speaker 5: people that.
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  Speaker 4: Run this thing, they're amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's what I said when I said yes to
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  Speaker 2: being the Bachelorette. I said, you guys are gonna you're
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  Speaker 2: a television network. You're gonna have a way better time
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  Speaker 2: finding a guy for me than I feel the.
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  Speaker 6: Same way on my own. I feel the same way
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  Speaker 6: that I am great. I know, I know that they
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  Speaker 6: do all the bedding for you, and I do feel
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  Speaker 6: like a little lost in that world right now. And
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  Speaker 6: we had this conversation when I did your podcast before,
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  Speaker 6: Yeah that I like, I get all these people sliding
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  Speaker 6: into my d ms and all these and get but
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  Speaker 6: there is no.
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  Speaker 7: That's not true.
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  Speaker 4: One terrible picture I told you about that.
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  Speaker 6: I told you that happened, those pics that you don't
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  Speaker 6: w t F.
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  Speaker 4: And then I blocked for you, I blocked.
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  Speaker 6: I sent the pictures to my daughters, and then I blocked, up,
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  Speaker 6: you see this, you.
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  Speaker 4: Didn't send them to make I'm sorry, think of your friends.
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  Speaker 4: It's been so long.
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  Speaker 7: The DM, I mean, it is a very fun conversation
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  Speaker 7: to have with you all, because when I was single Trista,
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  Speaker 7: I was telling Joan this, My buddies had started to
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  Speaker 7: get to a place where, like, you got to start
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  Speaker 7: messaging girls because you're not going out like, you don't
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  Speaker 7: enjoy going out, you don't date like, you're not just
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  Speaker 7: going to meet people hanging at a bar, you know,
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  Speaker 7: so you should start messaging people.
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  Speaker 6: And I did.
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  Speaker 7: I messaged Jess and that's how we man obviously got married.
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  Speaker 7: And most people that listen to this know that story.
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  Speaker 7: But I was talking to them. I was like, you're
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  Speaker 7: people are going to start messaging you, and if they don't,
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  Speaker 7: maybe then.
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  Speaker 5: Should I message somebody you think it's hot?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, well nobody.
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  Speaker 6: Kevin Cosser, I mean do that?
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  Speaker 2: He sing?
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  Speaker 4: Now for it, Kevin season.
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  Speaker 7: Hey, keV, you just start shooting your shot and see
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  Speaker 7: where it takes you.
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  Speaker 3: There's no reason not to you.
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  Speaker 5: I'm definitely not shy, but if there was somebody that
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  Speaker 5: was interested, I would reach out.
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  Speaker 6: I think you would choow like at this point in
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  Speaker 6: my life, like what do you have to lose?
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  Speaker 4: Who cares?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that brings me to like a thought about last
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  Speaker 2: night and how Teresa was saying, oh, we're going to
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  Speaker 2: be dead in ten years or something.
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  Speaker 4: What was that what you said?
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  Speaker 2: It?
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  Speaker 5: I saying that statement, Yeah a lot, and it's twenty years.
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  Speaker 4: And I said, and for you guys, I made it ten. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: and she said we might only live another couple hours.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, a few hours gave you ten years?
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  Speaker 2: Right, No, just you know the whole there is this
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  Speaker 2: like I think that not advertising, but the like kind
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  Speaker 2: of campaign behind it is that you know, we only
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  Speaker 2: live so long. Life is short period seven and you guys,
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  Speaker 2: you know, have I feel like, talked a lot about
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  Speaker 2: this is that you really want to have, you know,
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  Speaker 2: an incredible rest of your life. It might be shorter
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  Speaker 2: than when you were twenty, you know, And these.
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  Speaker 4: Definitely sh.
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  Speaker 6: Pretty positive about that one.
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  Speaker 4: I think we got that one.
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  Speaker 2: So I think just enjoying your life and going for it,
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  Speaker 2: like shooting your shot while you can't.
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  Speaker 5: Why why this opportunity that we both had? Yeah, I mean,
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  Speaker 5: who'd have thought that was going to happen? When I
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  Speaker 5: applied it was almost four years. It'll be in March.
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  Speaker 5: Pandemic her from my go they don't like me, well, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: they like it.
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  Speaker 4: And then you get that call, you're like, yeah, yes,
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  Speaker 4: I'm still single.
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  Speaker 6: I did it in January, and I was kind of
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  Speaker 6: hesitant still because I do feel like you're got to
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  Speaker 6: shoot your shot. I only have so many years and
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  Speaker 6: even said that, you know, like my husband's passed away
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  Speaker 6: two years ago, it's going to be three years in
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  Speaker 6: a couple of weeks, but it is that, and it
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  Speaker 6: is time. But I really wasn't in the mood. But
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  Speaker 6: I came home and I saw this, you know, I
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  Speaker 6: I seen I saw the advertiser for this, and I
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  Speaker 6: went ahead and did it. And I almost didn't go.
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  Speaker 6: I was so worried that they might portray us in
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  Speaker 6: like an undignified way, and then I embarrassed my kids
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  Speaker 6: or I would just look foolish. And you know, you're
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  Speaker 6: a lot more careful at this age because you have
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  Speaker 6: a lot to lose, Like you, you know, you built
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  Speaker 6: your life, building your reputation, and so you don't want
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  Speaker 6: to blow it all in like doing something silly. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: I'm so glad I did it now like this. It
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  Speaker 6: was dignified and it was joyful, and we got to
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  Speaker 6: represent this whole group of people, our age in this
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  Speaker 6: weird place in life, and we made these lifelong friends
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  Speaker 6: and we have a tribe now to go through this
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  Speaker 6: weird dating thing that we're doing now at this age.
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  Speaker 5: However, I did pay attention next time on some of
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  Speaker 5: the things that I've done on the.
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  Speaker 4: Like I just heard kissed the girl not sexual. Oh
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  Speaker 4: they're behind me.
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  Speaker 6: They got a new.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe the next Golden that's what it would be, the
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  Speaker 5: first bisexual.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh God, you.
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  Speaker 6: Have to be careful of your eye rolls and things
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  Speaker 6: like that, because they will did it something else and
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  Speaker 6: reply it to something that you didn't roll your eyes up.
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  Speaker 2: So Ben chaired with me this morning before we started
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  Speaker 2: that there's something going around on Twitter about my husband.
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  Speaker 2: He was like, oh, Twitter is all abuzz about Ryan.
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  Speaker 2: I go my husband under the radar, so I know
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  Speaker 2: and there, but Gary said there was a part in
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  Speaker 2: the ceremony that Gary he said, you know, he was
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  Speaker 2: saying his vows, I want to make you the happiest person,
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  Speaker 2: you know, the happiest woman alive, or something like that.
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  Speaker 2: And what did the mean person say?
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  Speaker 3: They look like.
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  Speaker 7: Ryan leans over to Trista, They like flashed to Ryan
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  Speaker 7: in that moment, and he goes, it's not going to work.
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  Speaker 3: No, but what he.
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  Speaker 2: Actually told me that and he goes so they flashed
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  Speaker 2: to Ryan and he turns to you and says something
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, I know the exact moment and said,
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  Speaker 2: he said to me after that that I would be
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  Speaker 2: she would be the second happiest person because I'm the happiest,
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  Speaker 2: Like he wanted to make me, so he said, the
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  Speaker 2: second happiest woman.
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  Speaker 3: It looks like it actually.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, stay away, but if you watch it, So he
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  Speaker 2: showed me the video and actually does look like you
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  Speaker 2: were like after I told you.
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  Speaker 7: What it says, you can see him saying both yes,
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  Speaker 7: like you can read his lips and like he said
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  Speaker 7: the second happiest or it also it's never gonna work,
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  Speaker 7: so like it was a terrible situation for him.
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  Speaker 3: They're good anyway, Yes, you have to be very like yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I was actually also thinking about with that with my kids.
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  Speaker 2: My kids have not been to one of these functions,
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  Speaker 2: and I wanted to. I wanted to before be like,
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  Speaker 2: make sure you always have a smile on your face.
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  Speaker 6: I went to don't roll your eyes.
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  Speaker 4: I know.
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  Speaker 2: Jenny Farley like Jay Wow and Roger there from Jersey
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  Speaker 2: Shore and we went to their wedding and the paparazzi
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  Speaker 2: or whatever who was filming it got a picture of
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  Speaker 2: me in the background like with like resting bitch face,
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  Speaker 2: and Roger was like, you look really happy to have
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  Speaker 2: been at our wedding, And I was like, damn it.
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  Speaker 6: Why didn't I like constantly tell you.
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  Speaker 7: As we close up with the two of you, Uh,
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  Speaker 7: this is this show, this experience. You said the last night,
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  Speaker 7: You're making history here with the Golden Wedding, and this
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  Speaker 7: is such a part of your legacy. People have been inspired.
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  Speaker 7: I've been with Gary during a filming segment where people
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  Speaker 7: have broken down in tears because this has revitalized a
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  Speaker 7: new hope and new excitement.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, that was.
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  Speaker 7: What I was going to ask you as we close
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  Speaker 7: out this segment and we're just looking into the future,
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  Speaker 7: what things have stood out to you personally from this experience?
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  Speaker 7: And then also what what would you tell other people
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  Speaker 7: who are out there being like maybe I won't go
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  Speaker 7: on the Golden Bachelor or Bachelorette, Like that's not my thing,
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  Speaker 7: but I'm not done trying.
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  Speaker 6: So for me, I think that I got a ton
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  Speaker 6: of messages, hundreds, if not thousands, and I think we
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  Speaker 6: kind of all did that we were representing this community
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  Speaker 6: of older people going into the dating world. And I
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  Speaker 6: think something that resonated with a lot of people is
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  Speaker 6: when I said, you kind of become invisible as you
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  Speaker 6: get older. And I didn't think anybody else was feeling
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  Speaker 6: that way, but apparently lots of people feel that way,
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  Speaker 6: and that we've been like kind of relegated to the
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  Speaker 6: backseat because the next generation is now moving in and
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  Speaker 6: we raise this generation. We're proud of them, and we
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  Speaker 6: think we did a good job when we're ready to
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  Speaker 6: hand it over, but it doesn't mean that we have
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  Speaker 6: to become invisible and we don't have to be the
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  Speaker 6: caretakers now, like we can still have a life. And
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  Speaker 6: I think that that is like the message that got
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  Speaker 6: out there finally, that like it's okay to it's not undignified,
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  Speaker 6: and it's not selfish to now want a life for ourselves,
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  Speaker 6: even at this age. So I would say to people,
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  Speaker 6: I think that's kind of the message. But how to
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  Speaker 6: go about finding that life is still a little bit
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  Speaker 6: of a mystery to me. So I would say that
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  Speaker 6: you have to make an effort, like hope is yeah,
• 16:32
  Speaker 6: hope is not a strategy. You have to take action,
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  Speaker 6: and like that's kind of the journey that I think
• 16:38
  Speaker 6: we're all still long. We talk about it all the time.
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  Speaker 6: I even talked to Nancy last night and I was like,
• 16:41
  Speaker 6: we have to go out. Nancy lives in my area,
• 16:43
  Speaker 6: and I said, we have to go out because, like
• 16:47
  Speaker 6: I don't have a lot of single friends, and so
• 16:48
  Speaker 6: I said, we let's go, like do something on our
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  Speaker 6: Friday or Saturday night. And because when I go with
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  Speaker 6: my kids, like we sit at a table and nobody
• 16:54
  Speaker 6: walks over to us. We could go sit at a
• 16:56
  Speaker 6: bar and have dinner just the two of us and
• 16:57
  Speaker 6: if somebody walks over, and this is high grade if
• 16:59
  Speaker 6: someone doesn't nice dinner, but at least puts us out
• 17:01
  Speaker 6: there a little bit. Yeah, so you have to have
• 17:03
  Speaker 6: a tribe, and that's what we've found on our show.
• 17:05
  Speaker 6: And you have to find your tribe so you have
• 17:07
  Speaker 6: somebody to do this stuff with.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, what you said.
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  Speaker 5: Sometimes I feel like I might be arrested for counseling things,
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  Speaker 5: and I'm not to do that. But you don't know
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  Speaker 5: how many emails I send back or answers to people
• 17:19
  Speaker 5: replies and then they get my email and they're pouring
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  Speaker 5: their heart out, like you made me like myself again
• 17:27
  Speaker 5: and I want to.
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  Speaker 4: Be like you.
• 17:28
  Speaker 5: How do you stay so positive? We're not always positive,
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  Speaker 5: we have lows. I've always lived in my own world,
• 17:36
  Speaker 5: like because my cousin would say, it's Susan's world. And
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: I love people and I love being alive. You all
• 17:43
  Speaker 5: get down, but pick yourself back up. Maybe it's not dating.
• 17:48
  Speaker 5: Just like yourself again.
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: Go buy a new outfit.
• 17:52
  Speaker 5: A pair of sweats, new sneakers, haircuts outside, take a walk.
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: Just start loving yourself again.
• 17:59
  Speaker 5: And with that, when you have more self confidence and
• 18:03
  Speaker 5: like in who you are, you attract more people. And
• 18:06
  Speaker 5: that law of attraction thing. I total believe in that totally.
• 18:10
  Speaker 5: I hate when the demons come in here and think negative. Yeah,
• 18:13
  Speaker 5: that's not going to happen. What you portray out there,
• 18:16
  Speaker 5: it does happen. You just have to believe.
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  Speaker 6: You have to put out positive energy. You're not going
• 18:21
  Speaker 6: to get positive energy back.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: It's for the men part. Going on the show.
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  Speaker 5: I was on every dating site known to many, and
• 18:32
  Speaker 5: I thought going to the show, I fell in love
• 18:34
  Speaker 5: with me again.
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  Speaker 4: People you am That's how I thought. I'm a lover.
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: I'm not just always on and we inspire each other.
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: And I cook.
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  Speaker 6: Chase your meat balls.
• 18:51
  Speaker 7: Into a dating profile right now, I cook, I'm open.
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  Speaker 7: I'm willing.
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: Picture that later, your pictures.
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  Speaker 6: We don't need that much information.
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: Well, the two of you, thank you for having us.
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  Speaker 7: You have good, bigger and bigger platforms. You have people
• 19:10
  Speaker 7: and people watching. You will always be just like Trista
• 19:14
  Speaker 7: here was our first bachelor. You will always be the
• 19:16
  Speaker 7: first group of golden ladies.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Uh.
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  Speaker 7: And I think there's just still a lot of good
• 19:21
  Speaker 7: that you are going to do, especially the two of
• 19:23
  Speaker 7: you again, you crushed it last night. It was a
• 19:26
  Speaker 7: beautiful ceremony. Joan, thanks for coming back with us. We'll
• 19:30
  Speaker 7: be talking to the two of you again soon. But hey,
• 19:34
  Speaker 7: let's go enjoy a beautiful day.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
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