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Best Show Moments - Toni's medical drama & Jase is a criminal · Toni, Jase & Sam - Breakfast Catchup

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Tony Jason Sam's Best show Moments podcast, the
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  Speaker 1: very Best of Coasts Feel Good Breakfast.
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  Speaker 2: This week, it's been a holiday for the school holiday,
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  Speaker 2: spending some time with the family.
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  Speaker 3: How was your holiday, Tony.
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  Speaker 4: I had a great holiday.
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  Speaker 5: Jas We did have a couple of medical mishaps that
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to tell you about after eight today, one
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  Speaker 5: that included fainting in another a broken boat. But the
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  Speaker 5: first week of holiday was great. But I want to
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  Speaker 5: talk to you about a moment that I was proud of.
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  Speaker 5: So I like to I kind of like to think
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  Speaker 5: I'm a bit of a dare devil when it comes
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  Speaker 5: to going to theme parks. And I went to Wet
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  Speaker 5: and Wild and SeaWorld over in Australia's.
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  Speaker 4: Gold Coast, right.
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  Speaker 5: And as you get older, I don't know what it is,
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  Speaker 5: but you kind of lose a bit of your courage.
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  Speaker 6: You know.
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  Speaker 5: ME hate small spaces, so don't put me in anything confined,
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  Speaker 5: like I didn't want to do the black Hole. It
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  Speaker 5: went wild, But anything with heights and thrills, I'm usually
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  Speaker 5: up for it, right, And I was with only one
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  Speaker 5: of my children. I was with my eleven year old
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  Speaker 5: daughter Juliet and another family. The little ones were at home,
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  Speaker 5: and so she wanted me to go on this one
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  Speaker 5: particular ride at.
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  Speaker 4: SeaWorld, which was called the Vortex.
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  Speaker 5: And if you've ever seen it, you know everyone sits
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  Speaker 5: in like a grid and then it flips you backwards.
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  Speaker 4: It's almost like a wave and it rolls and I don't.
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  Speaker 5: Know what it is, but I just got I got
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  Speaker 5: a bit of anxiety about it, and I was like, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to feel so I won't go on it.
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  Speaker 5: So I did it the first time, and I watched
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  Speaker 5: them and it didn't make me feel any better. And
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  Speaker 5: then there was that moment where they were going on
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  Speaker 5: a second time and my daughter looked at me with
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  Speaker 5: pleading eyes, please, Mum, can you come on it? And
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  Speaker 5: I had that moment where I paused and I was like,
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  Speaker 5: this could go one of two ways. I'm either just
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  Speaker 5: going to be a coward and go and sit over there,
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  Speaker 5: or I'm going to man up and go on this
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  Speaker 5: ride with my daughter, because what's the worst that can happen?
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  Speaker 5: And I just hopped in the line. I hopped in
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  Speaker 5: the line and went, Okay, I'll do it whatever, you
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  Speaker 5: know what, I loved it. It was so good and
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  Speaker 5: I don't even know what I was scared about. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: it threw me around like a washing machine. But I'm
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  Speaker 5: just so glad that I said yes, because I could
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  Speaker 5: have easily just sat there and gone, nah, I'll sit
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  Speaker 5: there one out. I'm like, come on, just because you're
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  Speaker 5: forty now you can still go on rides, Tony.
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  Speaker 2: See that's on prices is someone who I can't even
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  Speaker 2: go to swing anymore, that feeling nauseous on a swing anymore.
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  Speaker 4: So did you have a good holiday?
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  Speaker 3: I had a great holiday, thank you. Yeah. If it's
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  Speaker 3: something happened at Eden Park.
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  Speaker 2: We took our eleven year old to his very first
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  Speaker 2: ever live All Blacks match, and something happened in Eden
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  Speaker 2: Park that made me just realize amazing, how amazing people are.
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  Speaker 2: So we sat in our seats. We had some really
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  Speaker 2: nice seats. We sat down there and the guy said,
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  Speaker 2: in experience, you know, my name is Colin. I figured
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  Speaker 2: we're going to sit in next to each other during
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  Speaker 2: the game. We're going to be seat mates. So anything
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  Speaker 2: you need tonight, bro, I'll go and get it for you,
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  Speaker 2: because I don't get you. A little man with you
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  Speaker 2: and and so we were hugging during the game.
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  Speaker 3: When the allbox finally won, we hugged each other.
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  Speaker 4: Who whoa whoa You and Colin?
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  Speaker 2: Me and Colin. I don't know who Colin is, but
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  Speaker 2: what an amazing man. He sat down and shook my hand. Said,
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  Speaker 2: we're going to be seat mates for this game.
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  Speaker 3: Mate.
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  Speaker 2: I'm here with my mates. You're here with your little boy.
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  Speaker 2: So that said to have a good time. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: what a great way to start the game.
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  Speaker 5: Who did Colin go to the rugby with two of
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  Speaker 5: his mates? I think you just picturing him on his
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  Speaker 5: own for a second. Jason really pleased about that.
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  Speaker 3: Sounds great, that's good anyway. Nice.
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  Speaker 4: Actually, you have got to visit a COLLEGEXT you.
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  Speaker 5: Come to visit the studio, Come on and go. I
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  Speaker 5: like to when I go on and you'll leave do
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  Speaker 5: quite a lot of admin. That sounds so boring, but
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  Speaker 5: it's just easier I think when I've got the kids
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  Speaker 5: home that not at school, and get it all done
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  Speaker 5: so that when you come back to work you're not
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  Speaker 5: concerned with things like vaccinations, any form of medical like
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  Speaker 5: I In the time that I was away, I went
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  Speaker 5: and saw the cardiologist I had a CT scan on
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  Speaker 5: my face.
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  Speaker 4: I went and saw my GP, like I just went
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  Speaker 4: the cardiologist. Is just a check up. I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: I don't have hearts yet that I do have it
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  Speaker 5: terribly on both sides of my family. Anyway, I also decided, right,
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  Speaker 5: let's get the kids all sorted, and I really wanted
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  Speaker 5: the flu has been really nasty at the moment, so
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  Speaker 5: I wanted to make sure that they got their flu jabs.
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  Speaker 5: You can get them free, by the way at our
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  Speaker 5: show sponsor Bargain Chemist. I was going for a multiple
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  Speaker 5: appointment because my husban also had to go and see
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  Speaker 5: this GP because he was out running and he kicked
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  Speaker 5: an exposed tree root that was coming up through the
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  Speaker 5: concrete and he really badly bruised his toe. And when
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  Speaker 5: I got back from being away in Australia, I looked
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  Speaker 5: at his foot. It was four times the size as normal,
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  Speaker 5: and I said, have you not gone and seen anyone
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  Speaker 5: about that? And he goes, no, I thought it was
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  Speaker 5: just bruised it all come right. I looked at it
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  Speaker 5: and went, that ain't bruise mate, that is broken.
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  Speaker 4: Anyway.
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  Speaker 5: To cut a long story short, he got an X
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  Speaker 5: ray and he has cracked all the way through his
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  Speaker 5: toe down to his foot joint, and we're waiting to
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  Speaker 5: find out on Wednesday whether he's going to need surgery.
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  Speaker 5: It's actually really really set surgery on it. Yep, he's
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  Speaker 5: going to have to potentially have screws in the side
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  Speaker 5: of his foot.
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  Speaker 3: Like Richie mccaugh. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So you picture this day.
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  Speaker 5: I've got a limping husband going in to see the
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  Speaker 5: initial GP appointment to see.
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  Speaker 4: About his foot.
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  Speaker 5: I've got all three kids with me, and I wanted
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  Speaker 5: to get all three of them a flu jab, and
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  Speaker 5: I wanted to get myself a lab test.
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  Speaker 4: And I also wanted to get my eleven year old.
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  Speaker 5: Daughter her boots stricks, which is the big s that
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  Speaker 5: they normally get at school. But it was on the
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  Speaker 5: same day as Nippel, and I didn't wanted to have
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  Speaker 5: a dead arm. You know how I'm a psycho coach.
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  Speaker 4: Sure, So anyway, I had to.
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  Speaker 5: Drag my eleven year old out of bed at ten
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  Speaker 5: past eight for an eight thirty appointment, right because I
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  Speaker 5: wanted to let her sleep in sure, So as we're
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  Speaker 5: going out the door, I'm like, you need to eat something,
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  Speaker 5: and I threw her an apple and she decided not
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  Speaker 5: to eat it. So we get to our medical center.
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  Speaker 5: I've got a limping husband, got three kids. They get
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  Speaker 5: all their jabs, no problem, great, but they make you
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  Speaker 5: stay twenty minutes just check everyone's okay. And at that
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  Speaker 5: point my husband said to me, you shoot across the
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  Speaker 5: road and go and get your blood test. I'll go
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  Speaker 5: up and pay for all these for the boot Stricks vaccination.
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  Speaker 5: So he goes up to the reception.
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  Speaker 4: I'm at lab test. Next thing, there's a man shouting
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  Speaker 4: someone we need help here, we need help here in
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  Speaker 4: the waiting room.
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  Speaker 5: My husband turns around and our eleven year old is
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  Speaker 5: out cold on the floor and she's banged her head
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  Speaker 5: on the chair.
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  Speaker 3: What final.
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  Speaker 5: So she's passed out because she got the flu jab
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  Speaker 5: and the boots Stricks together, and look, you're allowed to
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  Speaker 5: do that. But because I'd ripped her out of beard,
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  Speaker 5: no food and she hadn't eaten. So I get a
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  Speaker 5: curried call from the lab test that our daughter's passed out.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm running back from lab tests. We go and
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  Speaker 4: put her in a room.
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  Speaker 5: They take your blood pressure, give us some sugar, and
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  Speaker 5: she comes aright. And as that's happening, my nine year
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  Speaker 5: old starts going pale and woozy and they have to
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  Speaker 5: put her on the other beard because she is suffering
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  Speaker 5: the same thing. So the moral of the story is people,
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  Speaker 5: wow when it rains at pause, and if you're going
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  Speaker 5: to get your jabs next.
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  Speaker 4: Just to eat breakfast first like a responsible human.
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  Speaker 1: Okay the trophy Now, thanks for listening to the Best
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  Speaker 1: Show Moments podcast. This week's very best from Coasts Tony's Street,
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  Speaker 1: Jason Reeves and Sam Wallas.
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  Speaker 3: I was thrilled the.
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  Speaker 2: Other day because I've got a leader in the post
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  Speaker 2: and it wasn't a written outlet of it.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, what is this? Have a full
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  Speaker 3: name and everything on it.
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  Speaker 4: It's probably just a bill.
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  Speaker 5: I get that excitement too, and you get disappointed when
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  Speaker 5: it's like my bank saying here's your statement.
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  Speaker 3: I was thinking the same thing, so here is my
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  Speaker 3: full name? Was what is this? And opened it up.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't a bill that There's a big logo on
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  Speaker 2: the top left corner, the police logo, and it's a
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  Speaker 2: letter saying that.
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  Speaker 3: I've been accused of something.
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  Speaker 2: Now, this is the second time this sort of stuffs
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  Speaker 2: happened to me in your life.
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  Speaker 3: Not recently last few months.
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  Speaker 2: So something's going on and I don't know what. So
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  Speaker 2: the letter says that I ran a red light, and
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  Speaker 2: I've been I've been dobbed in by a member of
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  Speaker 2: the public, and it says if they make a further complaint,
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  Speaker 2: we're gonna have to investigate in criminal charges.
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  Speaker 3: My follow the letter.
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  Speaker 4: Did you run a red light?
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  Speaker 3: No? And here's the thing.
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  Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't do that, but well not that I
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  Speaker 2: know of. But also it sees where I was driving.
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  Speaker 2: I was nowhere near that suburb that day at that time, Like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't drive that part, not that it's a dodgy part,
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  Speaker 2: but I just don't go there suburb.
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  Speaker 4: Jud it's you.
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  Speaker 3: That's where I'm supposed to be, right, But this was
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  Speaker 3: not where said the car was.
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  Speaker 5: You don't strike me as a running uh the a
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  Speaker 5: red like kind of guy. But if someone's seen you,
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  Speaker 5: they've seen you, and you're getting a leader.
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  Speaker 3: Through my diary. Was I supposed to be there?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 4: I was not.
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  Speaker 2: It was like about eleven in the morning one day,
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  Speaker 2: a weekday, and I looked at the diary and I
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  Speaker 2: knew that we were in a planning meeting on that Thursday.
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  Speaker 3: So I couldn't have even been.
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  Speaker 4: There in case.
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  Speaker 5: We all know our attendance at those training meetings aren't regular.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I've always had those meetings. But this is
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  Speaker 3: the second time something like this has happened the last
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  Speaker 3: few months.
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  Speaker 4: What else has happened?
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  Speaker 3: Okay? So we went to a petrol station, right and
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  Speaker 3: I pulled in there and I went in there.
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  Speaker 2: To prepay, and the guys that I know, we can't
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  Speaker 2: serve you fuel, like, what is that that vehicle has
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  Speaker 2: been involved in a drive off?
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 7: Now?
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  Speaker 2: This is a petrol station I hardly ever go to
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  Speaker 2: because we fill up at Costco. We've got a Costco
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  Speaker 2: card and it's cheap a fuel. So it's way off
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  Speaker 2: the motorway and that's where I got to fill up
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  Speaker 2: both our cars.
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  Speaker 5: Let's just get let me get this straight. So within
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  Speaker 5: the space of the last month, Yes, you have been
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  Speaker 5: accused by a member of the public and sent a
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  Speaker 5: letter from the police for unning a red light and
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  Speaker 5: now you're not paying your patrol.
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  Speaker 3: This is what they said.
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  Speaker 4: Now are you okay? Maybe who else drives your car?
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  Speaker 2: So this is what I'm thinking. So I see to Louise,
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  Speaker 2: where have you been, babe? She's well, no, because I
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  Speaker 2: had the car on the g say it.
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  Speaker 4: Like that, did you go? Where have you been? Or
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  Speaker 4: did you go? Where have you been? Babe?
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter how I asked the question, but I
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  Speaker 2: was like, could you have been? Could this have been news?
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  Speaker 2: She's no, because again I had the car on that
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  Speaker 2: Thursday nowhere near this red light, but someone hastopped us.
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  Speaker 2: And now I'm thinking to myself, this person's got the
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  Speaker 2: wrong number plate.
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  Speaker 3: Easy to do. But the petrol station Rickens is a
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  Speaker 3: drive off.
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  Speaker 6: No.
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  Speaker 2: I asked to see the screen because he had a
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  Speaker 2: photo on the screen. He said, no, it's the number plate.
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  Speaker 2: Can I see the screen?
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  Speaker 6: No?
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  Speaker 3: I can't see you the screen.
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  Speaker 5: I suspect most people that engage in criminal activity have
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  Speaker 5: foggy memories too.
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  Speaker 4: That's all I'm going to say, Jason.
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  Speaker 5: I mean one incident. We could explain away to it. Incidents.
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  Speaker 5: I'm starting to worry.
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  Speaker 3: Anyway, No, good lawyer.
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  Speaker 4: What's the out come here?
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  Speaker 2: I'm I have to call the place and go. I
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  Speaker 2: think someone else has got another plate, or you should.
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  Speaker 5: Just confess, say lock me up. I am the coast criminal.
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  Speaker 3: No, not guilty? Or what's your.
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  Speaker 5: Name seventy five percent of people don't like their names.
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  Speaker 4: Jason, you one of them.
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm not. I like my name.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I like my name too, although I have had
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  Speaker 5: a lot of people throughout my life say to me,
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  Speaker 5: isn't that a boy's name.
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  Speaker 3: I've got a mate, the one called Lindsay. I think
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  Speaker 3: it's the same Thing's not a girl's name.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but I think we're in an era now where
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  Speaker 5: no gendered names are kind of becoming quite cool and
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  Speaker 5: using last names as first names.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, Hudson.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but I would have predicted most people. And the
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  Speaker 5: stats kind of show that if you don't like your name,
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  Speaker 5: you just kind of lump it and you move on, right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Only six.
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  Speaker 5: Thousand people changed their names yea the past year, and
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  Speaker 5: a lot of those people are getting married.
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  Speaker 4: So the question is do you like your name?
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  Speaker 3: Because your dad got his name changed dame.
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  Speaker 5: So my dad changed his name. Well, he didn't change
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  Speaker 5: his name, his parents did, so they named him.
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  Speaker 4: I'm trying to remember what it was. They keep saying Arnold.
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  Speaker 4: I think it was.
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  Speaker 5: It might have been Gerald or is something like that.
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  Speaker 5: And they actually brought him home from the hospital, looked
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  Speaker 5: at him for a while, decided he wasn't actually that name,
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  Speaker 5: and then got him changed to Jeffrey.
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  Speaker 3: Sponsor's personality started coming through.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, how much can a little baby's personality?
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  Speaker 5: But I get that actually because I remember with my
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  Speaker 5: first child, Juliet, I had decided Charlotte.
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  Speaker 4: Was my number one.
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  Speaker 5: I like Juliet as a second but I was like,
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  Speaker 5: kind of like them both. I'll just see when she
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  Speaker 5: comes out, and straight away something in my mind was like,
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  Speaker 5: she is not a Charlotte. I don't know why she
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  Speaker 5: just didn't. I don't know why she didn't look like
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  Speaker 5: a Charlotte.
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  Speaker 2: So, really, Wed, have you changed your name or someone
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  Speaker 2: changed your name for you? Who were you and who
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  Speaker 2: are you? I'd love to hear your story. I eight
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  Speaker 2: hundred double O four.
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  Speaker 3: Coast or Flickers the two six nine nine.
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  Speaker 2: I saw this on seven sharp on TV one the
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  Speaker 2: other night and they said that seventy five percent of
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  Speaker 2: Kiwis do not like their own name. And I've had
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  Speaker 2: around six thousand every year changed their name.
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  Speaker 5: So are you one of these people that have changed
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  Speaker 5: your name because you didn't like it? Or maybe you're
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  Speaker 5: a parent and you fell on your sword admitted, actually,
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  Speaker 5: we got it wrong and went and changed it.
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  Speaker 4: Like my dad.
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  Speaker 5: He was named one name for a few weeks and
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  Speaker 5: then they decided no, he's more of a Jeffrey, and
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  Speaker 5: they went and got it changed. Kirie.
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  Speaker 3: What about you, would you change your name? Have you
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  Speaker 3: changed your name?
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  Speaker 6: No, we have changed my name. Would have changed my name.
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  Speaker 6: But it did give me a lot of grinks through school.
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  Speaker 2: Mo nay, I was carry the theory, carry the theory.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, kids can be harsh, can't they.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, so you know, you learn, you do it.
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  Speaker 6: It's my dad's name.
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  Speaker 4: I love it.
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  Speaker 6: And then you got the last names Bamond and no,
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  Speaker 6: I'm not related to Lil Barmon. Oh gosh, I'm not
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  Speaker 6: a girl's best friend.
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  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, Well, you can get mocked for a name
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  Speaker 5: like carry. I feel like you can be mocked for anything.
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  Speaker 5: I'm assuming people thought it was a girl's name.
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  Speaker 4: Poor thing.
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  Speaker 5: What about you, Colleen, tell us about your name? Did
• 13:09
  Speaker 5: you change it?
• 13:11
  Speaker 8: No? And my sister changed her name. She was christened
• 13:14
  Speaker 8: Gayleen Myrtle, and my grandmother had a big input into
• 13:18
  Speaker 8: the name. So there were two issues. Firstival, she was
• 13:21
  Speaker 8: born in the fifties and it was probably okay to
• 13:23
  Speaker 8: be known as gay in the fifties, but as time
• 13:26
  Speaker 8: went by she didn't like being called gay, and then
• 13:29
  Speaker 8: the Myrtle she absolutely hated. So she changed her name
• 13:33
  Speaker 8: to Gabriel and Maya, so she kept the GM in initials,
• 13:36
  Speaker 8: but she called herself Allie. So that was a big change.
• 13:41
  Speaker 5: Wow, it would have definitely been indicative of the time.
• 13:45
  Speaker 5: I'm sure now if you had a name gay, it
• 13:47
  Speaker 5: would not have any you know, like, you wouldn't get
• 13:49
  Speaker 5: mocked as much we have. It's more acceptable that it's
• 13:52
  Speaker 5: a genuine term.
• 13:53
  Speaker 3: So we had a teacher called Game and she'd always
• 13:55
  Speaker 3: herself he Hi, I'm gay. But she knew what she
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: was doing. She laughed about it.
• 14:00
  Speaker 7: Yeah, what about you, Sarah, Well, my name was back
• 14:09
  Speaker 7: in the seventies was known as lost Us.
• 14:13
  Speaker 8: That was I was just baby lost Us and was adopted,
• 14:20
  Speaker 8: so my name was changed.
• 14:23
  Speaker 4: So hang on a minute. Was your first name lost
• 14:25
  Speaker 4: Us on your birth certificate?
• 14:28
  Speaker 8: Yes, the Lostice baby.
• 14:31
  Speaker 5: I don't know was lost us. The last name were
• 14:33
  Speaker 5: a first name. I'm trying to work that out.
• 14:36
  Speaker 8: Just known as lost us.
• 14:39
  Speaker 5: Sarah, Well, comfortable happy with Sarah versus lost Us.
• 14:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, that that was.
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: That was the adoption process.
• 14:50
  Speaker 6: You weren't actually named, You were just the surname.
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: That you were given. Thank you very much for my
• 14:58
  Speaker 3: coffee this morning.
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: Sorry, sorry, that sounds good.
• 15:01
  Speaker 7: Actually, you know you got to got to have a
• 15:07
  Speaker 7: coffee before you go studying.
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: I get.
• 15:11
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: No, back in those days, you were just known as
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: the surname was your first name, and you were just
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: known as the lost ofs baby.
• 15:19
  Speaker 7: That's what you were known as.
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: So harsh.
• 15:22
  Speaker 5: I actually get that a little bit once you're adopted, though,
• 15:25
  Speaker 5: because then it would be harder to change the name
• 15:27
  Speaker 5: if you wanted to. So there is something in that.
• 15:29
  Speaker 5: I'm assuming that was McCafe Brian. Are you happy with
• 15:33
  Speaker 5: your name or did you change it?
• 15:35
  Speaker 6: No? I changed it a long time ago. My birth
• 15:39
  Speaker 6: name was Gillage and educated the Windsor. It was through
• 15:45
  Speaker 6: business really, you know, people say, what's your name? You
• 15:48
  Speaker 6: say jee Agen. They said, well, so you just spell it,
• 15:51
  Speaker 6: you know, and you're you're chatting about that instead of
• 15:54
  Speaker 6: chatting about business.
• 15:55
  Speaker 5: How did you change it to Windsor did you just
• 15:57
  Speaker 5: pluck a royal name? If you're going to change it,
• 16:03
  Speaker 5: you might as well go hi.
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: Hear more from Tony Street. Try we need to talk
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: Tony's Health and Lifestyle podcast. Now back to Tony Jason
• 16:14
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• 16:17
  Speaker 2: When it comes to love though, it must have been
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: loved and even on married at first sight.
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: I don't think they do this.
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: What your name do? I? Ken? Baby, I'm married to.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: A stranger mate, John Aikin, right, phenomenal doctor on their
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: relationship expert relationship guru.
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: Yep, roots here in New Zealand.
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: That's right, exactly, yes, so he wouldn't ever I don't think.
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: I don't think he.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: Would ever say this. But it's a relationship expert the
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: name of Jake Meddick. Now, he's also been on TV
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: a few times, different TV shows, and he says he's
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: a tough love dating coach, tough loves where it's at.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: He said, if you want to succeed, women should immediately
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: block anyone their partner tells them to.
• 16:56
  Speaker 7: No.
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: Questions asked, are we talking social media?
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: Social media? That's right?
• 17:01
  Speaker 4: Does this extend to men should block any woman? That?
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: No, he does not say that. Jake does not say so.
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: He sparked the furious debate on this.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Ladus all claim that women who value your relationship if
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: you value your relationship, you will block other men.
• 17:17
  Speaker 5: Well, do you know what this is? This is what
• 17:19
  Speaker 5: I'm going to take where I'm going to take this here.
• 17:22
  Speaker 5: My husband would not ask me to block anyone. Do
• 17:25
  Speaker 5: you know why? Because he trusts me. Ah, there's a
• 17:29
  Speaker 5: trust me. And if you're having to tell your partner
• 17:32
  Speaker 5: to block someone, it means the trust is not there
• 17:34
  Speaker 5: and you've got to ask yourself why it's not there.
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: That's a really good point. Yeah, yeah, so because.
• 17:39
  Speaker 5: I just think, isn't that just a desperate sort of
• 17:42
  Speaker 5: jealousy thing.
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: And why you're feeling jealous?
• 17:45
  Speaker 5: And why is the guy making you feel jealous that
• 17:47
  Speaker 5: you have to block someone over it?
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: Weird?
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: What kind of age are we living where a guy
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: has to thump this fiscally you cannot talk to that person?
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: What what ye are you living in?
• 17:56
  Speaker 5: I mean, I'd love to know who it is that
• 18:00
  Speaker 5: he's warning her to block. You know, I don't know,
• 18:03
  Speaker 5: But when you really his name's Fabio with a six pack?
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: But when you really boil it down, is there someone
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: on your context list that you know your partner's probably like,
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: I don't know about them? Or is there someone on
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: your partner's contact list, that you're not entirely happy about it.
• 18:15
  Speaker 5: I suspect it would be a bit different if it
• 18:17
  Speaker 5: was an ex partner. Maybe Yeah, you know you can
• 18:19
  Speaker 5: feel a little bit threatened about that because they've been
• 18:21
  Speaker 5: romantically involved list.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think anyone's going to agree with
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: this guy, Jake Maddock, who as soon as your back,
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: if your man says to you you cannot you have
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: to block every other man.
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: I need to get a visual on Jake.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: It's everything you expect. He's everything you expect.
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: Think gold chain, Oh my goodness.
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: Anyway, honestly, call right now and no names at all.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: But is there someone in your contact list you reckon
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: your partner's not happy about, or is this someone on
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: your partner's contact list just a little bit iffy about?
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: Honestly called send it text to two six ninet nine
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: if you want to call, you can. I'll wait one
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: hundred double low four coasts. I'll read you this headline
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: here through the rounds. This Morning Relationship Experts says women
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: should block other men, no questions asked. And when you
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: dive into the article, I was like, this is ridiculous,
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: A tough Love Dating coach has declared women should immediately
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: block anyone online if their partner tells them to no
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: questions asked. Jake Maddock sparked a furious debate with his
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: latest row Butty claims that women who value relationships will
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: block anyone immediately.
• 19:16
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but also you've got to have a bit of
• 19:18
  Speaker 5: trust in the relationships too. And I don't know about you,
• 19:20
  Speaker 5: but my kind of policy is I could hand over
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: my texts, my emails, my Instagram, anything and show my
• 19:28
  Speaker 5: husband right now, and if you're not happy with that,
• 19:30
  Speaker 5: then there's probably something wrong.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: Right, So he could lead to them all that's good idea.
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: I go and take them to a place where No, honestly,
• 19:37
  Speaker 5: he could have an open book, he could read all
• 19:39
  Speaker 5: my messages and I would have no issue with that.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm with you on I think there's going to
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: be a level of trust in this. But a few
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: texts on two six nine nine disagree. Listen to this one, Hey, guys,
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: I think Jake is onto something. I immediately wipe any
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: contact with someone I split with. The baggage isn't worth it.
• 19:53
  Speaker 5: Yeah, the baggage is a different thing though, versus something
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: happening again between the two of you, and we have
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: had a text that see is I asked my ex
• 20:01
  Speaker 5: to block her ex because they started talking a lot
• 20:04
  Speaker 5: a year into our relationship and she wouldn't and then ended.
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: Up going back to him. So that was a red
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: flag and you were correct. So when there is a
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: red flag, usually is something.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: Comes under the trust.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Do you think, though, if you went to your husband
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: man said, I think you should wipe out ex. Could
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: you ask Matt to delete his ex's numbers? Does he
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: even have them?
• 20:23
  Speaker 5: I don't think he does, and if he does, I
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: wouldn't know about it. Someone has text here. This is
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: an interesting perspective High Team. I kind of agree with Jake.
• 20:31
  Speaker 5: Sometimes it's just simply about respecting your partner's request to
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: remove someone. Whether you agree or not, Sacrifice and compromise
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: is part of a healthy relationship. Me and my partner
• 20:39
  Speaker 5: did a similar thing when we met. Trust doesn't always
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: come into it, and I guess you're right. It's not trust,
• 20:44
  Speaker 5: then it's insecurity, And if you know it's making your
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: partner feel insecure, then it shouldn't be a big deal
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: because that's more important to you than that person.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: Get that, whatever its make them feel as special as
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: the most special person in your life.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: I think, yeah, maybe something in that.
• 20:58
  Speaker 5: Everyone has doubts and insecure here. It is, particularly when
• 21:01
  Speaker 5: it's with the person you love and you don't want
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: it to go away, right Yeah? Yeah, I mean I
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: don't want to fully agree with Jake, but he's got
• 21:07
  Speaker 5: me halfway.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: You know what I was against.
• 21:11
  Speaker 4: That's okay. If it goes the other way. I think
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: you've got to be like that too.
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: I agree if you have, if you're open enough to
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: have that conversation, that's a good starting point there.
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: Just communicate there it is. We love the new license you.
• 21:21
  Speaker 5: Show me Jackie in when I look at him, take
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: that gold chain off.
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: He's good to go.
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