Latest / Karl and Crew / Embracing the Truth with Abdu Murray & Waking up to the Goodness of Christ with Susie Larson
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- 0:00S1: Broadcasting from Chicago, across North America and beyond. It's Carl
- 0:06S1: and crew. Come as you are an experienced guide. Overcome
- 0:10S1: what seems impossible and live as you never imagined. Start
- 0:15S1: your morning with a laugh.
- 0:17S2: Practical from the Bible. Tips and tricks to kill. Not
- 0:21S2: tricks but tips and tricks.
- 0:25S3: Tips and tricks to kill. Tips and tricks.
- 0:28S1: Delivering the truth daily.
- 0:30S4: All of my attempts to, you know, prop myself up
- 0:33S4: with achievement in good works. But God wasn't impressed by that,
- 0:36S4: even if other people were.
- 0:38S2: The gospel changes everything.
- 0:41S5: Freedom in Christ. Man, it's like that backpack of cement
- 0:44S5: just falling to the ground.
- 0:46S1: Now from the call of Hope Studios, this is Carl
- 0:50S1: and Crew. I want to preface this by.
- 0:53S6: Saying I am not a great prognosticator on sports, as
- 0:58S6: a general rule at all. Okay, mainly because I vote
- 1:01S6: with my heart. So I'm not very good at that.
- 1:06S6: But I will say mid-season I picked and I even
- 1:11S6: talked to one of the players on Gonzaga. His dad,
- 1:16S6: I said, this is a national championship team. When Michigan
- 1:19S6: beat Gonzaga by 40 points mid-season.
- 1:22S7: Oh man. Oh yeah, they were.
- 1:23S6: So I didn't even watch any of these games like
- 1:27S6: last night. I didn't see.
- 1:28S2: It. I didn't realize it was on. I thought it was.
- 1:30S6: Well, there you go. It's hard to see it when
- 1:31S6: you don't even know it's on. But but I'm telling
- 1:35S6: you man, that Michigan team, when I saw him mid-season,
- 1:38S6: I'm like, wow. And you know what makes him so good?
- 1:42S6: And Ali appreciates this because my goodness, her hubs is
- 1:45S6: with the Bulls as one of the coaches. Um ball
- 1:49S6: movement is everything isn't it Ali.
- 1:52S4: Oh it's I mean it's so important from the from
- 1:55S4: the youngest to the oldest. When you have a team
- 1:57S4: that really shares the ball and gets a lot of
- 2:00S4: people involved, that's always going to be a dangerous team,
- 2:02S4: more so than a team that relies heavily just on
- 2:05S4: on one person to get going.
- 2:06S6: I mean, you got to have shooters for sure, but
- 2:09S6: you can percentages go spread the wealth.
- 2:12S4: Move that ball around. It was I saw a chunk
- 2:16S4: of the game. So congratulations to Michigan our Michigan listeners.
- 2:20S4: You get the national championship in your home state. I
- 2:24S4: was I was pumped I had. I'm a big Illinois
- 2:26S4: fan living. I grew up in Champaign-Urbana right near the
- 2:30S4: campus of University of Illinois. So fighting a line I
- 2:32S4: went down in the Final Four.
- 2:34S6: Yeah.
- 2:34S4: So I was bummed about that. So I didn't really
- 2:36S4: feel like I had a dog in the fight for
- 2:38S4: the national championship. But I guess you go Big Ten.
- 2:41S4: I'll take a Big Ten team to win.
- 2:43S2: That's funny that, you know, it's you're like, well, you know,
- 2:45S2: Inter-conference pride because sure.
- 2:48S4: Why not?
- 2:48S2: Uh, my, my mom's side of the family are Ohio
- 2:52S2: State fans, and I can't. My cousin's literally won't say
- 2:56S2: the word Michigan.
- 2:57S4: Oh my.
- 2:58S2: They call it they call it the M word. And
- 3:02S2: and if we're here in Chicago, you know, we took
- 3:04S2: him downtown and I said, I said, hey, what street
- 3:06S2: are we walking on? They said Ichigan Street. They're like,
- 3:09S2: we're not using.
- 3:09S4: Not even saying Michigan Ave, which is goodness.
- 3:14S2: Okay, so that's your conference ID for every school.
- 3:19S4: That's that's taking it to another level.
- 3:21S7: Oh yeah. Yeah. But congrats Michigan, their second title since
- 3:24S7: the 1980s, late 1980s.
- 3:26S6: There you go. Yeah. Okay. Uh, they were just about
- 3:29S6: to go around the dark side of the moon for
- 3:31S6: this space travel in the history of the world. And
- 3:36S6: before they went around, oh, my goodness, one of these
- 3:40S6: young men, I can call him that because I know
- 3:42S6: he's younger than me. One of these young men on
- 3:45S6: the Artemis two had a few words to share. Young Turner,
- 3:50S6: you got it teed up.
- 3:51S2: I got it. Let's do it.
- 3:54S8: The mysteries of the cosmos. I would like to remind
- 3:59S8: you of one of the most important mysteries there on earth.
- 4:02S8: And that's love. Christ said in response to what was
- 4:06S8: the greatest command that it was to love God with
- 4:09S8: all that you are. And he also, being a great teacher, said,
- 4:14S8: the second is equal to it, and that is to
- 4:17S8: love your neighbor as yourself. And so as we prepare
- 4:22S8: to go out of radio communication, we're still to feel
- 4:26S8: your love from earth. And to all of you down
- 4:31S8: there on earth and around earth, we love you from
- 4:36S8: the moon.
- 4:38S6: Man, I gotta tell you, I know he's got a name.
- 4:40S6: But for me now on he is space, Rev. Space
- 4:45S6: he is space Rev. What's his real name? Young Thunder.
- 4:48S2: Victor Glover.
- 4:49S6: Victor Glover, all in Jesus follower. Glover.
- 4:53S4: I love that NASA astronaut Artemis two pilot with his
- 4:58S4: Christian faith.
- 4:59S3: Open, I'll say open.
- 5:01S6: He's quoting from.
- 5:02S3: Mark.
- 5:02S6: 1230.
- 5:04S2: Well, you know what? It is a great opportunity for
- 5:06S2: him to take that time and say something because the
- 5:10S2: whole world is listening, guys.
- 5:12S6: It's just huge.
- 5:13S2: And he knows that. He knows the whole world is listening.
- 5:16S2: So he says, I'm going to take my my shot
- 5:18S2: and give the gospel. Give, give. Jesus Christ proclaimed.
- 5:22S6: There's in the midst of all this craziness. I mean,
- 5:24S6: you've got this downed weapons officer, this colonel that was rescued,
- 5:29S6: by the way, one of the most. I mean, they're
- 5:34S6: saying it's it rivals any kind of a rescue or
- 5:37S6: special ops in the history of warfare to get this
- 5:40S6: guy plucked. It was a big deal. I mean, he
- 5:41S6: was injured.
- 5:42S2: Injured.
- 5:43S6: For 48 hours, bleeding. He had to climb a 7000
- 5:47S6: foot summit, hide in a crevice while his beacon sending
- 5:51S6: out location. It's just crazy. He said God is good.
- 5:56S6: God is good. And they grabbed him off that mountain.
- 5:59S6: Oh my goodness. So these little smatterings of all these things.
- 6:03S6: But then you got an astronaut saying, hey, by the way,
- 6:06S6: the great commandment, the greatest of all. Here it is, guys.
- 6:10S6: It's just beautiful, man. Okay, coming up here in a minute.
- 6:14S6: I had a chance to sit down with who I
- 6:17S6: talk about, man. Myth, legend. Holy cow.
- 6:20S4: We know that's that's your go to.
- 6:23S6: Oh my goodness, this guy Abdu Murray who buckle up,
- 6:29S6: get a swig of water. Grab a little cup of
- 6:31S6: coffee too.
- 6:34S1: Breaking chains and running free. You're listening to Carl and crew.
- 6:39S6: This whole week we're tackling Hope rising. And it's this
- 6:43S6: great reality that hope is not a strategy. It's not
- 6:46S6: a whim. It's not something we stumble upon. It's a person.
- 6:49S6: His name is Jesus. But that hope continues to grow
- 6:54S6: as we've been looking in Romans five. Today, even through
- 6:57S6: suffering which produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces. Yes,
- 7:04S6: hope and hope will not put us to shame. Abdu
- 7:08S6: Murray with us right now, speaker, author, attorney who specializes
- 7:12S6: in addressing issues where religious faith and emerging cultural trends
- 7:16S6: intersect and they collide. Abdu, it's so good to have
- 7:20S6: you with us, man. What I love about Romans five
- 7:22S6: is you've got this hope that is found in Christ.
- 7:25S6: When we fall to the ground like a kernel of
- 7:28S6: wheat and die to ourselves and receive him as Lord,
- 7:31S6: and then it springs up to this life. But Paul
- 7:33S6: is not ignorant of the fact that life's tough. Then
- 7:38S6: it's not easy. I wish it was one and done right. Abdu.
- 7:41S9: Yeah, yeah, I wish it was. But unfortunately there's a lot.
- 7:45S9: And then we're eventually done. But until. Until then. Until then,
- 7:49S9: there's a lot to go through.
- 7:50S6: Your story is one of extraordinary grace and almost surprising
- 7:55S6: grace to some who wonder, can God save? Fill in
- 7:58S6: the blank. A wayward kid, whatever. A friend and neighbor.
- 8:01S6: And I want us to begin way back where you
- 8:04S6: were raised in Islam. I mean, that was your guiding
- 8:07S6: truth at some level. What level was that and what
- 8:11S6: led you on this quest to find Jesus?
- 8:14S9: Yeah, so I was pretty serious about it. I was
- 8:16S9: raised to believe that Islam was true, and everything else
- 8:18S9: that contradicted it was false. And so I was sort
- 8:21S9: of an evangelist for Islam from an early age. I
- 8:24S9: was raised in the Metro Detroit area. We have lots
- 8:26S9: and lots of Muslims here, and the area I grew
- 8:29S9: up in was sort of not a lot of Muslims, actually.
- 8:31S9: When we moved out from the area I grew up in,
- 8:33S9: and so I encountered Christians and I wanted them to
- 8:35S9: become Muslims. But along the way, there were some Christians
- 8:38S9: who not only could respond to the objections I was
- 8:41S9: giving them, but actually had a couple of objections of
- 8:43S9: their own for me to have to wrestle with as well.
- 8:47S9: So that really began a journey where I was confident
- 8:50S9: Islam would win. But what's interesting is, is that it
- 8:53S9: was the Bible. As I was reading it to try
- 8:55S9: to find flaws in it, the Bible itself, which actually
- 8:58S9: began to show itself to be this credible document, which
- 9:02S9: wasn't just giving me, you know, platitudes and ideas about
- 9:07S9: good living and how you can live with this false hope,
- 9:09S9: but real substantive hope and the beauty of the language
- 9:13S9: and the reality of what it was saying was being
- 9:15S9: backed up by the history I was looking into. By
- 9:18S9: the philosophy I was studying with, the theology I was studying,
- 9:21S9: and I was going into what al Gore would call
- 9:23S9: An Inconvenient Truth is.
- 9:25S3: That.
- 9:26S9: Is that the truth of the Bible was becoming more
- 9:30S9: and more pungent, more and more salient in my life,
- 9:32S9: and it was contradicting that of Islam. Now, it took
- 9:36S9: me nine years to get there. I found all the
- 9:39S9: answers I needed sufficient to become a Christian within two years,
- 9:42S9: but it took me seven more years to wrestle with
- 9:45S9: the consequences of what that would mean. Because for Muslims
- 9:50S9: around the world, no matter what country they live in,
- 9:53S9: being a Muslim is a huge part of your identity.
- 9:56S9: Religious identity is in a subset of who you are.
- 9:58S9: It permeates everything about who you are, from friends to
- 10:01S9: family to education to work. Everything is a subset of that.
- 10:06S9: So becoming a Christian meant giving all of that up.
- 10:08S9: And that was a tough thing for me to do.
- 10:10S9: And so I wrestled with it because, as I've often said,
- 10:13S9: the truth is not hard to find, but it is
- 10:15S9: hard to accept.
- 10:16S6: Yeah, no, you're right. It's interesting because becoming a Christian,
- 10:21S6: being raised a Muslim is very akin to becoming a
- 10:24S6: Messianic Jew. I mean, you're leaving behind traditions, systems, inheritances.
- 10:29S6: There was risk of life and limb.
- 10:31S9: It's interesting you say that because one of the books
- 10:33S9: that was important to me during my journey was a
- 10:35S9: book by a messianic Jew whose daughter came home from
- 10:39S9: college and had become a Christian while he was Jewish
- 10:42S9: and rejecting Jesus as Messiah, he set out to debunk
- 10:45S9: her to try to get her back to what he
- 10:48S9: believed was true Judaism and his book, Betrayed by Stan Torsion.
- 10:52S9: The late Stan Torsion, was important to me because it
- 10:55S9: opened up my understanding that it wasn't that the truth
- 10:58S9: was hard to know. It was that it was hard
- 11:01S9: to embrace. And so it's so funny you bring that up,
- 11:03S9: because that was a big part of my coming to faith.
- 11:06S6: What's the name of that book, again.
- 11:08S9: Called Betrayed by Stan Telchin T e l c h
- 11:12S9: I n. Very short book, but a really good one.
- 11:14S6: Yeah. When I did that, because our listeners are keen
- 11:17S6: to what's being said here and they're going to want
- 11:19S6: to know. Okay. So I got asked a question, I
- 11:22S6: made a social media post and one came back and
- 11:25S6: a guy just genuinely said, he said, I got no
- 11:27S6: bone to pick with you, but I just want to
- 11:29S6: know what sets Christianity apart from all the other world religions.
- 11:32S6: And I appreciated the question. I gave him a short,
- 11:35S6: concise one, and I'm wondering if this was if this
- 11:40S6: was anything to do with your story. I simply said,
- 11:42S6: With biblical Christianity, Christ is at the center. He's done
- 11:45S6: the work. We don't have to. He did the work
- 11:48S6: with every other world, religion, a person. We are at
- 11:51S6: the center. We got to do the work to get
- 11:53S6: right with God. We know that's true. I mean, even
- 11:56S6: the religion of materialism, you got to do it. You
- 11:59S6: got to make it happen. How much did that weigh
- 12:03S6: in to your conversion and transformation in Christ at all?
- 12:08S9: It factored in quite a bit, actually, because one of
- 12:11S9: the things I had done was I was not just
- 12:12S9: studying Islam and Christianity, but I was studying every other
- 12:15S9: ism and schism. There was, you know, and what I
- 12:18S9: had come to see is that all religious systems are
- 12:21S9: only superficially similar and fundamentally different, actually fundamentally different. However,
- 12:27S9: they're all similar in one way, and it's the way
- 12:30S9: you nailed it is that what they tell you is,
- 12:32S9: is that through your effort, whether it's the religious works
- 12:36S9: you do or the karma you work off, or the
- 12:39S9: social things you contribute to, or education or resource redistribution,
- 12:44S9: whatever it is, we can eventually manufacture our own nirvana,
- 12:48S9: our own utopia. We can go into God's Paradise. Yes,
- 12:52S9: in certain religious systems, you need God's mercy. Islam is
- 12:55S9: big on mercy, but all of that is essentially earned
- 12:58S9: and which makes you the solution to your problem. What
- 13:03S9: is so unique, but also uniquely true about the Christian faith,
- 13:07S9: is that Jesus doesn't tell you what you want to hear.
- 13:10S9: Jesus tells you what you need to hear, and what
- 13:12S9: you need to hear is that you cannot be the
- 13:15S9: solution because you are in fact, the problem. And so
- 13:19S9: we need someone who's not us to save us from us.
- 13:22S9: And so he says that he says two things. He says,
- 13:25S9: you are uniquely and beautifully and transcendently made in the
- 13:29S9: image of God, which makes us inherently valuable, but we've
- 13:32S9: strayed far from that. Do I need any more evidence
- 13:35S9: than my own life and my own thought life, and
- 13:38S9: my own emotions and my own envy? To know that
- 13:41S9: I know that. Which means that I can't be the solution.
- 13:45S9: And so Christianity is utterly realistic about this. How I
- 13:49S9: look at it, Carl, is that if an ancient book
- 13:52S9: pinpoints the human condition with unparalleled accuracy, and its accuracy
- 13:57S9: is sustained over the course of millennia, it is unlikely
- 14:01S9: to be crafted by a handful of shepherds and some fishermen.
- 14:05S9: But if it sustains itself the way the Bible has,
- 14:08S9: then maybe those shepherds and fishermen were inspired by the
- 14:11S9: God who created everything.
- 14:13S6: My goodness, Abdu Murray, our guest right now, we're going
- 14:16S6: to have a link coming up here in a moment.
- 14:17S6: In fact, I'm going to give it right now. Text embrace.
- 14:20S6: If you can't stick around, I get it. Text embrace
- 14:22S6: to 800 555 7898. You are going to get linked
- 14:27S6: up with one of the greatest apologists that God has
- 14:30S6: walking this planet right now and no joking. Text the
- 14:34S6: word embrace to (800) 555-7898. Coming up. So the warning in
- 14:42S6: Galatia by Paul was, what are you doing? What in
- 14:46S6: the world are you doing? Why have you begun in
- 14:49S6: the spirit? Now you're trying to work it out in
- 14:51S6: the flesh. I'm going to talk about communicating that utter
- 14:56S6: dependence on God and how we do that for the
- 14:59S6: world around us, to provide the hope that we all need.
- 15:01S6: And even speaking truth back to us who are born
- 15:05S6: again in Christ Jesus. More with Abdu Murray straight ahead.
- 15:09S1: Get to know the team behind the scenes. Follow Carl
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- 15:16S6: My guest right now, Abdu Murray. Guys, speaker, author, attorney
- 15:20S6: who specializes in addressing issues where religious faith, emerging culture,
- 15:26S6: and these trends intersect and collide. We got to boil
- 15:29S6: it right down to the bottom here. 2000 years ago.
- 15:32S6: The church in Galatia, Abdulx, they were trucking on the
- 15:35S6: right path, man. It was all Christ and Him crucified.
- 15:38S6: And it was him. Him. He started it. He's going
- 15:42S6: to complete it. I know that was written to Philippians,
- 15:44S6: but they would have initially believed that because we all
- 15:47S6: do when we're born again. Oh, Abdu, how do we
- 15:51S6: get off on this thing that happened to Galatia? They
- 15:55S6: began to work out in the flesh what was begun
- 15:57S6: in the spirit. Why do we so tend to go there?
- 16:01S6: And you, as an apologist, what do you say to
- 16:04S6: get us back and keep us back dependent on Christ?
- 16:08S9: Well, I'll take the apologist part first, because the important
- 16:11S9: thing here is to understand that every single time that
- 16:13S9: we resort back to our own righteousness and our own
- 16:16S9: works to try to justify ourselves before God, or rather,
- 16:20S9: to go back to Adam's sin and want to become God,
- 16:23S9: is proof that the Bible has been right all along.
- 16:26S9: Every single time we fall into This is part of
- 16:28S9: the sinful condition we find ourselves in. And you see
- 16:31S9: throughout the scriptures in First John, the whole thing, talking
- 16:34S9: to believers, he keeps on saying, if we say we
- 16:36S9: have no sin, we lie. We have to constantly remind
- 16:38S9: ourselves that we're being sanctified over time, but we are
- 16:42S9: not there yet, and we're becoming more and more like Jesus.
- 16:45S9: But there is this ever present sort of like pull.
- 16:48S9: Paul talks about it in Romans seven and over and
- 16:50S9: over again, where there's this pull where we want to
- 16:52S9: justify ourselves by our works and we want to do
- 16:55S9: certain things, but then we disappoint ourselves over and over again.
- 16:59S9: And the church of Galatia, starting off white hot and
- 17:01S9: really on fire, ends up having to ignore they've ignored
- 17:05S9: that old nature, which sort of closets way back and
- 17:09S9: tries to get at us. And so we we ignore
- 17:11S9: that to our peril. So I think what we need
- 17:14S9: to do is pay attention to those scriptures. And what's
- 17:16S9: interesting is Paul actually says, is that if we walk
- 17:18S9: in step with the spirit, we will not gratify the desires.
- 17:22S3: Of the flesh.
- 17:23S6: By the way, that's one of the most astounding is
- 17:26S6: not a strong enough word promises in all of scripture.
- 17:30S9: Oh yeah. Absolutely. But it's important to understand the depth
- 17:33S9: of the promise because it says, walk in the spirit
- 17:35S9: and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.
- 17:37S9: Notice what he doesn't say. What he doesn't say is
- 17:39S9: you will not have. Because what is happening is that
- 17:43S9: we get disappointed because we still wrestle with the temptations,
- 17:47S9: and we still wrestle with our need to justify ourselves.
- 17:50S9: And the Bible is honest about that. And it says
- 17:52S9: when you become a Christian, you're not going to have
- 17:54S9: suddenly all of your desires and the earth is not
- 17:58S9: going to the world is not going to tempt you anymore.
- 18:01S9: That's still going to happen. It's still going to happen.
- 18:03S9: And the Bible is honest about that. And it doesn't
- 18:05S9: give you a self-fulfillment piece. You're never going to you're
- 18:08S9: never going to be touched again kind of way. The
- 18:10S9: New Age thought does it tells you realistically. But if
- 18:13S9: we walk in step with the spirit and that spirit
- 18:16S9: is the important part, that's the whole point. Walk in
- 18:18S9: step with the spirit, not in step with your flesh.
- 18:20S9: You will still feel the pull of the flesh, but
- 18:23S9: you won't gratify the desires of the flesh. And of course,
- 18:26S9: in communion with each other as a church, both with
- 18:29S9: a capital C and a little C, we can help
- 18:32S9: each other through this. That's why we confess our sins
- 18:34S9: to one another, that we may be healed. The Bible
- 18:36S9: and this is the apologist in me. The Bible has this.
- 18:40S9: It's this corpus of material that all of it intersects
- 18:44S9: with each other in beautiful, interlocking ways, that it almost
- 18:48S9: like what scientists call irreducibly complex. Yes, it's so complex,
- 18:52S9: but you can't take out any one part of it
- 18:54S9: because if you take out one part of it, the
- 18:55S9: whole thing falls apart. Not because it's fragile, but because
- 18:59S9: it's robust and it's so beautifully interlocking.
- 19:02S6: I was just going to ask you, Abdu Murray, our
- 19:04S6: guest right now. I was just going to ask you,
- 19:06S6: what's the overarching hope rising from the Scripture as compared
- 19:10S6: to the Quran or the Bhagavad Gita, or your instruction
- 19:15S6: manual on how to be a materialist, which is basically
- 19:18S6: the American dream? What is the overarching, uh, hope rising
- 19:23S6: from the scripture that absolutely crushes these other worldviews.
- 19:28S9: It gives the believer that which those worldviews only give
- 19:31S9: a pale shadow of. When you look at them and
- 19:34S9: they say, we rely on God and we, you know,
- 19:36S9: and Muslims would say that Hindus, certain versions of Hindus
- 19:39S9: would say that and all these things. But ultimately there
- 19:41S9: is this sense in which we can, through our efforts,
- 19:44S9: please God in a way that is salvific and we
- 19:47S9: can have salvation that way. What the Bible says is
- 19:50S9: not that we are saved by our good works, but
- 19:53S9: saved unto good works. And I'll give this one little
- 19:56S9: snippet from my background as a Muslim. There is the
- 20:00S9: Imam Ali was considered one of the greatest imams in
- 20:03S9: the history of Islam. He was Muhammad's son in law
- 20:06S9: and his cousin and one of the first male believers
- 20:08S9: in Islam. And he wrote a series of sermons. Now
- 20:11S9: listen to this. He says, among believers there are three.
- 20:14S9: There are those who worship God to attain his heaven.
- 20:17S9: That is the worship of the merchant. There are those
- 20:19S9: who worship God to avoid his hell. That is the
- 20:22S9: worship of the slave. But there are those who worship
- 20:25S9: God out of gratitude. That is the worship of the
- 20:28S9: free and the noble. What's interesting is only in the
- 20:31S9: Christian faith can.
- 20:32S3: You do the.
- 20:33S9: Same. Exactly, because God has done it for you. So
- 20:38S9: you're not trying to get heaven. It's already been secured.
- 20:40S9: You're not trying to avoid hell. It's already been avoided
- 20:44S9: for you. You can worship out of freedom and nobility,
- 20:48S9: solely out of gratitude, and then all your good works
- 20:51S9: flow from that. That's the hope that's rising. What other
- 20:54S9: worldviews wish were true is only and actually true in
- 20:57S9: the Bible.
- 20:59S6: Who Abdou. God is a good God to give you
- 21:04S6: life and to impart it to us through your sharing here. Oh,
- 21:09S6: this is great. Abdu Murray again, text the word embrace.
- 21:13S6: Embrace one word to 800 555 7898, you're going to
- 21:19S6: get linked to his website, you're going to get apologetic hits,
- 21:21S6: you're going to get shorts, you're going to get blogs,
- 21:24S6: you're going to get books. You're going to get all
- 21:26S6: the resources you need. Text embrace to 800 555 7898.
- 21:35S1: It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio.
- 21:39S6: I don't know if there's a better apologist out there
- 21:41S6: right now. Abdu Murray has got to be top of
- 21:44S6: the heap.
- 21:45S2: He's incredible.
- 21:46S6: I mean, his perspective having been raised, uh, really defending
- 21:53S6: Islam and spending nine years trying to convince others of
- 21:58S6: it and then really wrestling with the texts in a
- 22:01S6: way that I've never heard a man. So pin this
- 22:04S6: thing down.
- 22:05S4: Oh, and I mean, what caught my ear is when
- 22:07S4: he said that it took about two years into this
- 22:10S4: nine year search that he was on, it was enough
- 22:13S4: evidence in his mind. He knew that that it was true,
- 22:17S4: and that the last seven years, it took seven years
- 22:20S4: to wrestle down what he knew would be the cost
- 22:24S4: to convert to Christianity. Giving up so much of what
- 22:28S4: had been his identity that that was fascinating to me.
- 22:32S6: Yeah. What a what a guy. I mean, I just
- 22:34S6: can't say this enough, guys. If you want to get
- 22:37S6: linked up with an apologist who is being so mightily
- 22:42S6: used of God for such a time as this, you
- 22:44S6: got to get this link. And I'm I'm saying that
- 22:47S6: to people because we've had hundreds. They're just flying out
- 22:50S6: the door right now. But just text the word embrace
- 22:53S6: to (800) 555-7898. Embrace to 800 555 7898. I know I
- 23:01S6: go on and on about this guy, but my goodness,
- 23:04S6: God is using him. Ali.
- 23:06S4: I just his perspective is, I think really a helpful
- 23:11S4: one too. He's a good one to share with people
- 23:13S4: in your life who who have these kind of questions,
- 23:16S4: maybe consider themselves an intellectual and come at it from
- 23:21S4: a standpoint of, I'm going to need more evidence to
- 23:24S4: convince me sometimes that that can be a smokescreen. But
- 23:28S4: for those who genuinely, honestly have questions, that they're just
- 23:31S4: looking for somebody who is willing to engage with the
- 23:34S4: tough issues, I think he's he's one of the best.
- 23:37S6: Yeah, truly. Okay, we're going to open up phone lines
- 23:40S6: and you might be saying, well, what do you want
- 23:42S6: us to talk about?
- 23:44S4: What do you want us to talk about?
- 23:45S6: I got I got an idea here flows out of
- 23:48S6: one of the most epic passages on Hope. We're talking
- 23:50S6: Hope rising this week. It comes out of Romans five
- 23:53S6: one through five. Therefore, since we have been justified by faith,
- 23:57S6: we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.
- 24:01S6: Through him we also have obtained access by faith into
- 24:04S6: this grace in which we stand. And we rejoice in
- 24:08S6: hope of the glory of God. Now that's the first
- 24:11S6: two verses, and that stands alone. It's like, yes, we
- 24:14S6: have hope. We've been regenerated by the power of the
- 24:16S6: Holy Spirit. We stand in this hope. But then Paul
- 24:19S6: goes on, not only that, he writes, but we rejoice
- 24:23S6: in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance
- 24:27S6: produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not
- 24:32S6: put us to shame. Here's the bookend of hope. When
- 24:36S6: we're born again, we have this great hope welling up
- 24:38S6: inside us, and then life hits us. So what Paul
- 24:42S6: is proposing here is this truth that we will have suffering,
- 24:47S6: but that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and
- 24:53S6: that character lets us look back with hope, with fresh eyes.
- 24:57S6: So we've got a question for you this morning.
- 25:00S4: We're asking you, as you consider this passage of Scripture
- 25:03S4: out of Romans five, what character did God produce in
- 25:06S4: you through suffering that gives you hope today? Think about it.
- 25:10S4: Think of maybe it was a period of trials or a.
- 25:13S4: You went through something really hard, but you can say
- 25:16S4: that God produced something in you, some character trait that
- 25:20S4: gives you hope. 805 55 7898 can you testify to
- 25:26S4: this today? 800 555 7898.
- 25:30S6: Yeah, give us a call. 800 555 7898.
- 25:36S1: He was running from God, but God's love brought him home.
- 25:40S1: Carl is in the crew. It's Carl and crew on
- 25:44S1: Moody Radio.
- 25:45S6: You know, there's inevitably going to be challenges suffering, trials
- 25:50S6: that we're going to go through. But the promise from
- 25:51S6: Romans five is that there's a hope that's produced because
- 25:55S6: through it we persevere. And out of that perseverance, character
- 25:59S6: is formed in us. It's a great promise. And you're
- 26:02S6: going to testify to it. 800 555 7898. Give us
- 26:06S6: a call. Let's go to the phone lines here.
- 26:08S4: Ali, let's go to Melanie calling in this morning from Yorkville, Illinois. Melanie,
- 26:11S4: what's that character that got produced in you through suffering?
- 26:18S4: Melanie go ahead. You're on with Carl and crew.
- 26:21S10: Hi. Um, yeah. So my mother passed away at the
- 26:27S10: end of December. Um, and a month after that, my
- 26:31S10: father ended up passing away. Um, they were both believers
- 26:35S10: in Christ. So we know, you know, death. Where is
- 26:38S10: thy sting? Um, and now my husband is now in
- 26:42S10: the hospital. Um, so it's just kind of been one,
- 26:45S10: one thing after another. And it's only by the grace
- 26:48S10: of God that I'm able to just put one foot
- 26:50S10: in front of the other and people ask me how
- 26:52S10: I'm able to continue on. And, um, instead of just
- 26:56S10: being a complete mess and I'm able to witness to
- 27:00S10: so many people and tell them that it's, it's his grace,
- 27:04S10: it gives me the endurance and the perseverance to keep
- 27:07S10: going in his name.
- 27:09S6: It's beautiful. Melanie. Good word. Sister from Yorkville. Boom. That's
- 27:13S6: why we call you the Boom crew. There's great lessons,
- 27:15S6: aren't there, Ali? Great lessons in this.
- 27:18S4: Yeah, and I mean, everyone who's called in has spoken
- 27:21S4: to that process. I mean, this is not kind of
- 27:23S4: a magic wand type of thing. I mean, there is
- 27:27S4: that endurance, that character that's being formed. What about you?
- 27:31S4: What character did God produce in you through suffering that
- 27:34S4: gives you hope today? 805 55 7898 Philip calling in
- 27:39S4: this morning from Aurora, Illinois. Good morning brother. Give us
- 27:42S4: your story.
- 27:44S11: Oh, good morning, my sister. Good morning crew. Steadfastness without
- 27:48S11: a doubt steadfastness. Now we know that steadfastness is connected
- 27:52S11: to patience and we shouldn't ask for patience, because, you know,
- 27:56S11: God will put us in a situation where we have
- 27:58S11: to be patient. You know, that's how God works. But
- 28:02S11: I do know that those that season I walked through
- 28:04S11: cancer and knowing that that it was inoperable, that they
- 28:07S11: could only do chemo and radiation. And I knew that
- 28:12S11: if it didn't work, that I'd be home with the Lord.
- 28:15S11: You know, that that, you know, you know the saying,
- 28:18S11: either he's Lord of all or he's not Lord at all.
- 28:22S6: Yeah.
- 28:23S11: And that taught me during that season that being steadfast
- 28:26S11: in my faith and really walking it out, putting shoe
- 28:30S11: leather to it, as we love to say, that's what
- 28:32S11: brought that steadfastness into my heart, into a practical way
- 28:37S11: of living it out in front of my wife, my kids,
- 28:39S11: my grandkids, the men that I minister my ministry. It
- 28:45S11: proved to me that if you truly are in, you
- 28:48S11: are in. Because Christ is living in you and you
- 28:51S11: are walking in faith, real faith.
- 28:55S6: You can't. It's it's boom, brother. It's hard to have us.
- 29:01S6: It's hard to have perseverance, and it's hard to have
- 29:04S6: steadfastness without trials, without challenges. But with them, it proves
- 29:13S6: the power of God. Good word. Philip, let's go back
- 29:16S6: to the phone lines. Ali.
- 29:17S4: Gabriela calling in from Lafayette, Georgia. What character did God
- 29:21S4: produce in you through suffering that gives you hope? Gabriela.
- 29:26S12: So when my daughter was two, she was diagnosed with
- 29:30S12: autism and she's about to be seven and she's still nonverbal,
- 29:35S12: and he's just taught me how to let go of
- 29:39S12: my expectations and lay them at his feet. And just
- 29:43S12: to look a little closer to see what he has
- 29:46S12: offered me.
- 29:47S3: Yeah.
- 29:47S6: Gabriela, what's your little girl's name?
- 29:51S12: Her name is Lelo.
- 29:52S6: Lelo. Father, in Jesus name. I'm praying over Lelo right now.
- 29:57S6: And Lord, you are a God of miracles. And we're
- 29:59S6: not presuming anything, but you say to ask. And so
- 30:01S6: I'm asking over a little precious Lilo, that you would, uh,
- 30:07S6: not only wrap your arms around her, but in. Continue
- 30:11S6: to show the beauty of this little girl to her mama.
- 30:14S6: But Lord, we we do appeal to you that you
- 30:17S6: would break through here. And Lord, we're grateful for the
- 30:22S6: things that you teach us in those desert seasons. Dark
- 30:26S6: night of the soul. You're a mighty God. And we
- 30:29S6: got a strong mama here. But we pray for Lilo
- 30:33S6: and we pray it in Jesus name. Amen.
- 30:36S4: Amen.
- 30:37S6: Taking your calls 800 555, 7898. What character did God
- 30:43S6: produce in you through suffering that gives you hope today?
- 30:48S6: 800 555 7898.
- 30:53S1: Take your next step with Jesus. Today you're listening to
- 30:57S1: Carl and crew.
- 30:58S4: We're taking your phone calls this morning, answering this question
- 31:01S4: that comes out of Romans five. What character did God
- 31:05S4: produce in you through suffering that gives you hope? If
- 31:08S4: it's true that our suffering produces endurance, endurance produces character.
- 31:13S4: Character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame.
- 31:17S4: What from your story proves that? 805 5578, 98 Adamson.
- 31:23S4: First time caller from Iowa. What character did God produce
- 31:26S4: in you through suffering?
- 31:29S13: Um. God produced compassion and empathy in me. Uh, I
- 31:34S13: lost five of my family members over the course of
- 31:36S13: five years, and now I'm a servant of Christ. He
- 31:40S13: called me back. I was a prodigal son and a
- 31:43S13: prodigal daughter, and he called me home to prepare me
- 31:47S13: to take care of the lost and the broken. And
- 31:49S13: that's what I'm doing now.
- 31:51S6: It's a beautiful story, compassion and empathy. You know, it's
- 31:55S6: an amazing thing. I went through a season of my
- 31:57S6: life that was just like that, and it's one of
- 32:00S6: the greatest fruits of challenges, is you begin to look
- 32:04S6: with totally different eyes at people around you. And that's
- 32:07S6: that's powerhouse. Welcome back to God's family, by the way, sister.
- 32:11S6: Welcome back. Let's go back to the phone lines here.
- 32:14S4: Ali Ruben calling in from Clearwater, Florida. What character did
- 32:18S4: God produce in you through suffering? Ruben.
- 32:21S14: Good morning and hello to everyone. I love you, brother. Um,
- 32:26S14: God has produced. Love you too, Baba. God has provided.
- 32:30S14: He's shown me his omnipotence, omniscience. The characters he's produced
- 32:36S14: in me is humbleness, humility, and he has grown my
- 32:40S14: faith because I believed and trusted in the Heavenly Father
- 32:45S14: and his perfect will. And because of those things I am,
- 32:49S14: I 100% can guarantee you when God says he is
- 32:53S14: the good Shepherd. He is the good Shepherd at the
- 32:56S14: end of the day. Period.
- 32:58S3: Boom!
- 32:59S6: Ruben! Way to go, brother. Way to go! Wow! The
- 33:03S6: beat goes on. Sue. First time caller. Chicago. What do
- 33:06S6: you say?
- 33:10S15: Lost my, um, husband 18 years ago. Of a massive
- 33:16S15: heart attack. It was unexpected. But God gave me the
- 33:22S15: strength to put one foot in front of the other
- 33:26S15: every single day. And because of that, I now have
- 33:30S15: a grief group that I share my story with. To
- 33:34S15: so many who are struggling and feeling that loneliness inside.
- 33:39S15: I ask God, please do not take my joy away. Please.
- 33:43S15: And to this day he has not. I am a
- 33:46S15: very joyful person and I serve the Lord. Thank you.
- 33:50S3: So much. What a.
- 33:52S6: Story. Boom! Sister. First time caller from Chicago. And the
- 33:57S6: beat goes on. How about you? Can you praise him
- 34:02S6: in the storm as you lean into him? You can.
- 34:05S1: She was trying to earn her way to God, but
- 34:08S1: God showed her she didn't have to. Ali is in
- 34:11S1: the crew. It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio.
- 34:15S6: It never gets old because it's true. Still, he is risen.
- 34:18S4: He is.
- 34:19S3: Risen.
- 34:19S7: Indeed.
- 34:20S6: Yeah, man, it's so true. You know, it's a it's
- 34:23S6: a bummer. By the way, I'm not a big goal
- 34:26S6: setting guy. You guys know that I'm big into X's
- 34:28S6: and O's, and the score will take care of itself.
- 34:31S6: But I did do a holy reset on this great celebration,
- 34:36S6: Resurrection Sunday. And I am convinced I put a post
- 34:40S6: out on social media about it that it's the January
- 34:43S6: 1st of every Christ follower. It's better.
- 34:47S7: Yeah. Ever since you said that, I think it was
- 34:50S7: last week. I, I, I loved.
- 34:52S4: That. I really did because I think it's so true.
- 34:55S4: January 1st is kind of the stereotypical reset. New year,
- 35:00S4: new you. But really Easter is where it's at.
- 35:03S3: Yeah. Yeah.
- 35:04S6: It's just it's such a day to commemorate. It's such
- 35:08S6: an event to anchor some of the things that we
- 35:11S6: know that needs to change in our life. And it's hopeful, man.
- 35:16S6: It's hopeful. We're talking about hope rising all week long
- 35:19S6: and we're experimenting. And so far it's paid off. Yesterday
- 35:23S6: was just tremendous. Oh my goodness. If you missed anything
- 35:27S6: from yesterday where do you want to point them.
- 35:29S4: Ali you can just text show to 800 555 7898
- 35:34S4: text show to 800 555 7898.
- 35:38S6: Yeah. What what we saw through AI with Drew Dickens
- 35:42S6: and with parenting with Arlene Pelikan, we saw that there
- 35:47S6: is hope even in some of these things that we
- 35:50S6: feel deep down, especially with AI. No, not especially AI
- 35:54S6: and parenting. Those are two situations that you go, oh,
- 35:57S6: give me some hope now.
- 35:58S4: Challenges galore.
- 35:59S6: Yeah, challenges galore. But in Christ Jesus, man, he gives
- 36:04S6: us the fuel that we need. There's a red thread
- 36:07S6: of redemption running through everything that we find ourselves up against.
- 36:12S6: You know, today we're going to anchor ourselves in a
- 36:14S6: passage of Scripture that has bookends of hope. And I
- 36:19S6: think hope is without a doubt. I know not think
- 36:22S6: I know from Scripture that there's great hope just being
- 36:27S6: in Christ. But hope is not something that you just
- 36:30S6: land on one and done. It's something that grows and
- 36:35S6: it grows in unusual ways. I don't want to give
- 36:38S6: away the punch line, but hope is the byproduct of life.
- 36:44S6: And we need that, don't we? Because this this life
- 36:48S6: that we live. It's filled with trials, right?
- 36:52S4: So I think our hope can wane sometimes. Certainly. Right.
- 36:56S6: It can. And it's all about approaching these trials, tribulations,
- 37:02S6: adversity with the scripture in mind. And we've got a
- 37:07S6: twofer coming up. We've got open in the Word of
- 37:10S6: God to the book of Romans. And Susie Larson joining
- 37:14S6: us here. And here's the thing that you need to know.
- 37:17S6: And Susie is an expert on this, that when you're
- 37:20S6: going through the dark night of the soul, we can
- 37:23S6: still hang on to hope, knowing that that's going to
- 37:26S6: produce something in us. It's really amazing. Susie Larson and
- 37:30S6: Romans five coming up.
- 37:33S1: Breaking chains and running free. You're listening to Carl and crew.
- 37:38S6: Well, we're talking hope rising all week long. And hope
- 37:42S6: is more than a concept or a strategy, right? Ally.
- 37:45S4: Hope is a person. Hope is in the person of
- 37:47S4: Jesus Christ.
- 37:48S6: You know, we find something interesting here in Romans five. Therefore,
- 37:52S6: since we have been justified by faith, we have peace
- 37:55S6: with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. Through him we
- 37:58S6: also have obtained access by faith into this grace in
- 38:03S6: which we stand. And we rejoice in the hope of
- 38:06S6: the glory of God. And that is so true when
- 38:09S6: we are regenerated by the power of the spirit. God's
- 38:12S6: grace poured out into us. So this new birth miracle. Wow!
- 38:17S6: Hope galore. But Paul doesn't stop there. In fact, I
- 38:20S6: love how he writes this. Not only that, can you
- 38:23S6: imagine him writing this? Not only that, but we rejoice
- 38:26S6: in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance
- 38:33S6: produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not
- 38:37S6: put us to shame. Susie Larson with us right now,
- 38:41S6: is this one of the most epic texts on Hope
- 38:44S6: rising in our life on a day to day basis? Suzy.
- 38:48S16: Karl. I can practically hear music as you read that. Really?
- 38:51S16: I mean, you just hear this crescendo, this thundering promise
- 38:54S16: from God that nothing in our lives is wasted, nothing
- 38:58S16: in our lives is wasted. And any trial that we
- 39:01S16: walk through will actually serve us well if we'll dare
- 39:04S16: to trust God in it and remember who he is
- 39:06S16: in it.
- 39:07S4: Suzy Larsen, our guest right now, well known radio talk
- 39:10S4: show host and podcaster. Over 16 million downloads. National speaker,
- 39:15S4: best selling author. You know, when we think about what
- 39:18S4: hope is linked to, we said hope is linked to
- 39:20S4: a person when circumstances are going well, when we're getting wins,
- 39:25S4: when we get the promotion, when our health is good,
- 39:28S4: it's easy to take for granted that we can remain hopeful.
- 39:32S4: But then as soon as we get our knees bumped
- 39:35S4: and bruised a little bit, when life knocks us down,
- 39:38S4: hope can be a very difficult thing to hold on to.
- 39:42S4: And that's something that I know that you have walked
- 39:44S4: and know well. Right.
- 39:46S16: Oh, that's so true, Ali. And you think about it, though,
- 39:48S16: when things are going well, I don't even know if
- 39:50S16: you realize how often we shift our hope onto our circumstances.
- 39:53S16: You know, and so there's sometimes a false sense of security. Yes.
- 39:57S16: When the winds are at our back and it all
- 40:00S16: seems to be going well, trial is the great clarifier,
- 40:03S16: and it actually serves us so well because it's in
- 40:06S16: that place. You know, scripture talks about, you know, that.
- 40:09S16: I think it's in Hebrews where it says, right now
- 40:11S16: things are being shaken, so that which cannot be shaken
- 40:14S16: can be clearly seen. And we, you know, often want relief.
- 40:18S16: We want things to go well, who doesn't? Right? Nobody
- 40:21S16: wants to walk through trial and trouble, but it's in
- 40:25S16: those places where you look around, okay, okay. What is
- 40:28S16: not shaking God's love? God's promise, his purpose for me
- 40:31S16: in this place. And so any in every trial that
- 40:35S16: I've walked through, I've lived with God long enough to
- 40:37S16: know it's a tempered storm even though it doesn't feel
- 40:40S16: like it. And it will serve me well. There are
- 40:43S16: treasures in those dark places. If I can keep my
- 40:46S16: wits about me and remember who God is, who I am,
- 40:49S16: and then look around going, Lord, there's something in this
- 40:53S16: that you have for me. So help me to discern,
- 40:56S16: to find hope in you. And I'm telling you what
- 40:59S16: something in you will be actually activated in your trial.
- 41:03S16: And then when you get victory through that, you're not
- 41:05S16: as afraid of the next trial. What I was doing,
- 41:08S16: and I've been very honest with you and past shows
- 41:11S16: with you because I was like, every time I come
- 41:13S16: up for air, I'd get smacked by another trial. I
- 41:16S16: developed a posture of bracing for impact. And if you're
- 41:19S16: in that place, you need a fresh dose of hope.
- 41:22S16: You need a fresh reminder that all is not lost.
- 41:25S16: All will be well, and God will see you through.
- 41:27S6: And love it. Susie Lawson, our guest right now, I'm
- 41:30S6: going to duck back in here to Romans five three.
- 41:33S6: Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that.
- 41:37S6: And look at the progression here, Susie. Suffering produces endurance.
- 41:41S6: In other words, we aren't ready made with endurance. So
- 41:44S6: suffering is requisite and endurance produces character. So we aren't
- 41:48S6: ready made with character. But this suffering and endurance produces character,
- 41:53S6: and hope does not put us to shame. This is epic.
- 41:57S6: I mean, Paul's laying down life as it is here. Susie.
- 42:01S16: That's so true. And I might step on a few
- 42:03S16: toes here, but I got to say, when you hear
- 42:05S16: like the health and wealth gospel, it does not serve
- 42:08S16: us well. Because if you don't normalize suffering on this
- 42:11S16: side of eternity, you will be perpetually disappointed. But all
- 42:15S16: you got to do is read the scriptures to see
- 42:16S16: that suffering trials are a part of life. Jesus himself
- 42:19S16: said so, but he is not. He's a you know,
- 42:22S16: he's our King. We serve a good father. He is
- 42:25S16: righteous and just. So anything he allows, he redeems. And
- 42:29S16: if you know anything about like exercise or fitness or
- 42:32S16: health of any kind, we all have thresholds, and the
- 42:35S16: only way to get to the next threshold is through opposition,
- 42:38S16: is through pushing back is through hardship. And so if
- 42:41S16: we could not idolize relief, comfort, ease, which we do
- 42:46S16: in the Western culture and normalize instead, trials are going
- 42:50S16: to be part of this life. But it's again, they
- 42:52S16: will serve me well if I will lean in and
- 42:54S16: know I have grace here, I have the promise of
- 42:57S16: God here I have the presence of God here. And
- 43:00S16: one last thing I'll say about this is, you know,
- 43:02S16: self-pity and, and kind of a faux victimhood mentality when
- 43:06S16: we go through our trials will absolutely weaken us. We
- 43:10S16: don't need pity. We have the promises of God. We
- 43:13S16: have the presence of God. And so when we start
- 43:16S16: to throw our shoulders back a bit to say, I'm
- 43:18S16: a child of God, and if I'm walking through this,
- 43:21S16: it's because there's something in me in my character that
- 43:24S16: needs formation for my next place of promise. So I'm
- 43:26S16: not going to take this as an indictment. I'm going
- 43:29S16: to take this as God is with me in this,
- 43:31S16: and I'm going to find reason for hope. And it's
- 43:33S16: not in an outcome, it's in the person of Jesus.
- 43:36S16: This is not a hope. So hope this is a no.
- 43:38S16: So hope when you hope in him, you cannot and
- 43:42S16: will not be disappointed.
- 43:43S4: I love that. Not a hope so hope a no.
- 43:46S4: So hope. Susie Larson, our guest this morning. Coming up.
- 43:49S4: Maybe you're walking through a time of great trial or grief.
- 43:54S4: Susie wants to share with you, coming up how grief
- 43:56S4: is a part of our journey, but the difference between
- 44:00S4: dark sorrow and holy lament. More coming up here on
- 44:04S4: Carl and crew.
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- 44:11S4: As you wake up on This Morning, we don't know
- 44:14S4: what it is that you're going through, but many of
- 44:16S4: you are going through something very difficult. We can know that.
- 44:19S4: I've heard somebody say that you're either in a trial
- 44:22S4: right now, you're coming out of it, or you're walking
- 44:25S4: into one. Susie Larson, our guest this morning when we
- 44:29S4: encounter seasons of trial, suffering, loss. We can slip into
- 44:34S4: a place of of deep sorrow. But what's the difference
- 44:37S4: between dark sorrow and holy lament?
- 44:41S16: You know, first of all, say, you know, a guest
- 44:42S16: on my show about seven years ago said, and this
- 44:44S16: was way before Covid, he said, one of the epidemics
- 44:47S16: of the church's unresolved grief. So let me say, there
- 44:50S16: needs to be space for holy lament and grief, because
- 44:54S16: we tend to just accumulate sorrow, loss. We may compare
- 44:57S16: our loss to someone else's and then minimize that loss.
- 45:00S16: We will walk around with wounds in our souls. You
- 45:03S16: let that build up. Over time. You will start to
- 45:05S16: accuse God of things that the devil is guilty of.
- 45:07S16: You will, uh, walk on a shaky foundation because when
- 45:11S16: you forget about the goodness of God, the redemption power
- 45:13S16: of God, you will suddenly feel shaky in the way
- 45:17S16: that you walk with God and not secure, and then
- 45:19S16: you will lose your hope. So I want to just validate.
- 45:21S16: First and foremost, we need time and space to, to,
- 45:25S16: to sit before the Lord and resolve those parts of
- 45:27S16: our story that are like open loops right now, because
- 45:30S16: those are the places the enemy is going to get in.
- 45:32S16: How did he why did he allow that? Did God
- 45:35S16: really say, you've got to resolve the hard parts of
- 45:37S16: your story in light of God's love, so that when
- 45:39S16: the enemy comes knocking, you say, I've talked with God
- 45:42S16: about this. He's redeeming my story. So that's one side
- 45:45S16: of the conversation. But the other side, maybe you've met
- 45:48S16: someone before who lost someone and never want to minimize loss,
- 45:51S16: but then they get into a place where they they
- 45:54S16: make an idol out of their pain, where their identity
- 45:57S16: is their sorrow, and they go to a dark, dark place.
- 46:00S16: And that is so tempting when you're grieving your losses.
- 46:05S16: And one of the ways, you know, one of the,
- 46:07S16: some of the markers of dark sorrow that's not of God, self-pity, ruminating,
- 46:13S16: no hope. Again, you get your identity from your loss
- 46:15S16: or you're making an idol out of your pain that
- 46:18S16: is not of God. And you're not the only person
- 46:20S16: being robbed in that. Because there is a sphere of
- 46:23S16: influence God has given you, and you are so lost
- 46:26S16: in your loss that you're missing the call of God.
- 46:29S16: On the other side of this conversation is holy lament
- 46:33S16: where you're honest with God about your sorrow. But we
- 46:36S16: don't grieve as those without any hope. With holy lament,
- 46:40S16: there's always expectant hope that you're moving through the valley
- 46:44S16: of the shadow. And you know in that place. Goodness
- 46:47S16: and mercy is chasing after you. He prepares a table
- 46:50S16: for you. He anoints your head with oil like he
- 46:52S16: identifies you and anoints and appoints you even in sorrow.
- 46:56S16: And people who are walking through holy lament. It is
- 46:59S16: like new wine. It's someone being crushed and something so
- 47:03S16: beautiful and powerful coming out of it. You want to
- 47:05S16: hear from those people. People who are grieving the right
- 47:08S16: way are a wellspring of wisdom, and that is what
- 47:11S16: the Lord wants and invites us to as we walk
- 47:14S16: through some of our losses.
- 47:15S6: How do we. Susie. Susie Larson, our guest right now,
- 47:19S6: because you're a big champion of hopeful expectancy or expectant hope,
- 47:24S6: which is exactly what Paul tells us to do in
- 47:26S6: Romans five one through five. How do you hold on
- 47:30S6: to lament and hopeful expectancy? How do you hold on
- 47:36S6: to two at one time?
- 47:38S16: Boy, that's a great question. And right as you're asking, Carl,
- 47:40S16: what comes to my mind is, is John the Baptist
- 47:43S16: when he was in prison. You know, Jesus says, no
- 47:46S16: greater man born to a woman than John. And yet
- 47:48S16: in his time of obscurity, I mean, he was where
- 47:50S16: the action was for a long time. And then he's
- 47:53S16: in obscurity and he had his doubts. And so he
- 47:56S16: sent his friends to ask, are you the Christ? This
- 47:59S16: is his cousin. Are you the Christ or should we
- 48:01S16: be looking for someone else? And the Lord doesn't fault him,
- 48:05S16: but he does give him an answer that's got some firmness.
- 48:08S16: And it's got a holy confrontation, I think, and an invitation.
- 48:11S16: You go tell John the lame leap. The blind receive
- 48:14S16: their sight, the deaf hear again. Blessed are those who
- 48:18S16: are not offended with me. And I will tell you
- 48:21S16: when you're in this place, it is so nuanced and
- 48:24S16: it's not a formula and it's not a one size
- 48:26S16: fits all for anybody. But you know, when you lose
- 48:28S16: your peace, you're on shaky ground. You know, when you're
- 48:31S16: mad at God and he can handle again, you're pounding
- 48:34S16: on his chest. You're lamenting, oh God, why did this happen?
- 48:37S16: We see that with the psalmist. But when you get attitude,
- 48:40S16: you're off ground, you're out of bounds. And so to me,
- 48:43S16: holding on the tension is being honest, but you're tender,
- 48:47S16: you're teachable, and you still are remembering who God is.
- 48:51S16: That is of critical importance as we sort through our losses.
- 48:54S4: Susie Larson, our guest right now, you mentioned something earlier
- 48:58S4: in our interview about how you realized that you were
- 49:00S4: living kind of bracing for impact, almost like your elbows
- 49:04S4: were locked out trying to hold on and make sure
- 49:08S4: that you were ready for the next for the other
- 49:10S4: shoe to drop. How did God deliver you from that?
- 49:14S16: You know, I had a friend who addressed me in
- 49:17S16: a very loving, compassionate way because I was in a relapse,
- 49:21S16: a health relapse with Lyme disease mold, and the trauma
- 49:24S16: of the symptoms was so terrifying. I actually needed to
- 49:28S16: see a counselor once I got out. It was a
- 49:29S16: seven year relapse that was horrific. And I you guys
- 49:33S16: were with me in that. I've been on the show
- 49:35S16: plenty of times during that time, but I was bracing
- 49:38S16: for impact. I didn't realize it till she lovingly said, Suzi,
- 49:40S16: you've lost your joy. You've lost your hope. It seems
- 49:44S16: like you're constantly waiting for the next shoe to drop.
- 49:46S16: And she had so much compassion and not a hint
- 49:48S16: of judgment that I took that to the Lord. And
- 49:51S16: I initially just thought, well, this is a natural reaction
- 49:54S16: to a terrible disease. But because she had such deep
- 49:57S16: compassion and she's a woman of God like Lord, is
- 50:00S16: there more to what her words than what I'm seeing?
- 50:03S16: And he'd show me that I'd lost my joy. I'd
- 50:05S16: lost my hope. And because of that, I had been honestly,
- 50:09S16: subconsciously accusing God of things, the devil. And I wasn't
- 50:13S16: like outright accusing him. But I was, by my lack
- 50:16S16: of hope, my lack of trust, and just bracing for
- 50:19S16: impact because you can't simultaneously live with the holy expectancy
- 50:23S16: while you're bracing for impact. So even your locked elbows
- 50:26S16: says something about what you believe about God. So for me,
- 50:29S16: I really got healed by looking around and sincerely thanking
- 50:34S16: God for my history with God, for the blessings in
- 50:37S16: my life that I would miss tomorrow if they were gone.
- 50:40S16: And when I entered into sincere gratitude, that's when I
- 50:43S16: started to see things as they were and not as
- 50:45S16: they seemed. And that's another marker that if you're in
- 50:48S16: dark sorrow, you're not grateful. You're all you can think
- 50:51S16: about is your loss. And you're entitled to that loss.
- 50:54S16: And everybody loses when you let yourself go to that place.
- 50:58S6: Susie, you touched on it, but I want to go there.
- 51:01S6: I want to go there. And I think it manifests
- 51:03S6: itself in two different ways health, wealth, prosperity. For sure.
- 51:06S6: I mean, that focus is on, man. This is what
- 51:09S6: we got in Jesus. And we start quoting the every
- 51:12S6: promise to Israel as if it were us and to us,
- 51:15S6: as if it was without pain. And that's one side.
- 51:19S6: The other side is this quite Bible believing evangelical meme
- 51:22S6: culture that we got right now where it's like, it's,
- 51:25S6: it's health, wealth, prosperity. It's just a little more scriptural sometimes.
- 51:30S6: Let's just get after that here for a second. That
- 51:32S6: is dangerous because it sets you up when there's no
- 51:37S6: hope but a meme. Then you're wondering, well, what's going on?
- 51:40S6: And then you become that very thing that you don't want. Susie.
- 51:44S16: Right? And the thing is, when we're not honest about
- 51:48S16: how life can be, when we're living behind enemy lines,
- 51:51S16: if you develop a formula and let's say it works,
- 51:53S16: your formula might work in your time of favor. You know,
- 51:57S16: let's say you did everything that you knew to do
- 51:59S16: and your kids are following Jesus. Like I said, in
- 52:03S16: times of favor, we default to formulas and we don't
- 52:06S16: even realize it. We just start to believe, well, a
- 52:08S16: plus b equals C until that apple cart is completely disrupted.
- 52:12S16: But if you are in a season where you believe
- 52:15S16: a plus b always equals C, you are. When you're
- 52:18S16: going to become like job's friends. I just got to
- 52:19S16: be honest. You. You know what your problem is? Job.
- 52:22S16: You must have you must have missed a step. And
- 52:25S16: then you leave this wake of people who are suffering
- 52:27S16: without understanding, without compassion. Because secretly you're going. You must
- 52:32S16: have missed a step. Now, let's say they did. Let's
- 52:34S16: say they brought their trouble on themselves. How did Jesus lead?
- 52:37S16: He looked at the crowds and was moved with compassion.
- 52:41S16: And you know, in the crowds, there are those who
- 52:43S16: endure trials through no fault of their own and others
- 52:46S16: who brought it upon themselves. But he was no respecter
- 52:48S16: of persons. He was a respecter of faith and humility.
- 52:52S16: And so I wonder if there's a way that we
- 52:54S16: can normalize the hardship and days are going to get darker,
- 52:59S16: the love of most is going to grow cold. But
- 53:01S16: we can have hope because not only is our story
- 53:04S16: gaining momentum to that glorious day when God reveals who
- 53:08S16: his children are, there's so much reward for you if
- 53:10S16: you have stayed the course, trusted God when it didn't
- 53:13S16: suit you. There's so much reward for you. But what
- 53:16S16: I'm in awe of these days, friends, is that we
- 53:18S16: get to see some of his goodness in the land
- 53:20S16: of the living. You know, if he never did another
- 53:22S16: thing for us again, except for what he's storing up
- 53:24S16: in heaven, that would be beyond amazing. But he gives
- 53:28S16: you new mercies every morning. He gives you answers to
- 53:32S16: your prayers. He moves on faith. So right now, while
- 53:36S16: the culture is swirling around us and the enemy is
- 53:38S16: going after people and stealing from them, left and right
- 53:41S16: babies are being born. People are getting new jobs, bodies
- 53:44S16: are being healed. God is doing things in our world
- 53:47S16: and we have reason for hope.
- 53:49S3: Amen.
- 53:50S6: Susie Larson, everybody. You want more? Oh, we got it
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