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75: Q&A - How Dreadful · Wine & Audacity

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  Mm hmmm mmm, jaredy boss before I'm too sleepy for this ship today.
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  Oh ship from the four? So how is everything? So we're coming from
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  the fourth of July. Now you changed it, bro, No, I'm
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  gonna coming from Jamaica. Remember I remember I went to Jamaica right after the
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  four So yeah, it might still be drunk. It's possibility, thank you.
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  That's double happened though. No no, now now you Winston to get
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  your group back. The Terry McMillan, bitch ain't wasn't see how that worked
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  out for stell ass. Well try worked out all right, Stella, don't
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  let him fool you. Oh no, you know what. I can't forgot
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  to be me? No, so what so I can't take that out.
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  But I'm gonna tell you what I did. I forgot to mute the fourth
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  microphone. So all that feedback and static we was hearing, but the hissing
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  what's from the fourth microphone port being active and you can hear yourself, can't
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  you? No, I didn't. I didn't mute. You don't let no
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  to be to say something? Now something, Now there we go. I
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  did turn your mic accident because I was trying to figure out what the source
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  of that? That the background it's worth that's funniest ship. What the damn
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  text message? What are you talking about me? Now now that you know,
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  because now you say she got a jitter bug? Now now is how
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  you doing the text? Not the T nine text? Oh damn s got
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  a touch screen. That's she got that Obama phone, little thing like a
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  rectangle. I saw somebody with a flip flowing phone recently and I was like,
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  they still make those outside of the new little Samsung one that fold and
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  half. But ain't that like you open it up. It's just a screen
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  that you can just fold in. Yeah, the Z fold too easy and
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  flip. I guess, so you can fold the bitches and half. Yeah,
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  your best betteres get the z flip. That's the one that my best
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  bett to stick to. This damn I phone I got. I ain't got
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  de or razor, but boy are you. I used to love my raisin
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  and yeah, I was so damn excited when I finally got to raise.
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  I ain't no to do myself. I looked at it like I told,
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  like I told, ting up on people hit different when you have you have
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  a flip fold. That's what that's So that's what I told the young the
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  younger people that I work with, like y'all don't know, y'all don't know,
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  like see all y'all do all y'all do, y'all leave niggas on red
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  and y'all just and y'all just like just screen phone calls. But Yo,
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  when you want to, God damn, when you want to, when you
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  had a raise up or any conflict or next time said, then I said,
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  God damn it, that that snap, yo, that's snap. Yeah,
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  that's it showing the right Yo. That snap hit different now unless you
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  have unless you had the next chib, unless you had the next time,
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  and you had that bitch set up that to go on speaker phone so as
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  you as soon as you hit the flip, so as you close it.
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  I never had one of those phones because my daddy wouldn't buy me one,
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  which funds the next time that I ate the eye eight sixty. I me
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  and this nigga used to know. I tried to get my father put me
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  on his phone plan and get me one. You got a job, get
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  your own damn phone planing the fucking bounty nigga, yo, your fuck now,
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  your father hit you with it up. You got a job, get
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  your own car. He did. He did help me with my damn payment
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  though for my first call. But I was lated with one damn call payment
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  and then nigga stole my car in the middle of the night. I remember
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  when that happened. You called me like, uh distressed. I mean,
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  I was like, well, Shawn, he did say if you missed a
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  payment, he was gonna take it. I ain't need missed the ship.
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  It was just a little late, just a little bit. And then I
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  hit him with pop Pap Pain't never do that ship to you. That didn't
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  work. The fuck he got an extra kick for the car because he goes
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  on for the call. Sure did. I woke up one morning and called
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  the police. I thought some stole my fucking call. It was Melvin.
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  Yeah, looking at that, you like now what you call twelve four?
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  Sure did call the popo because the propo were knocking at your door. Did
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  I tell you that one time? I need to ask me to sign a
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  call for her? Yep? And you bust out laughing. He did.
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  She texted me like sign I said, I said, no, it was
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  an ignorant ass, laugh too. Yes, it was it was a laught
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  friend, and I was like, I absolutely cannot what the funck bran brand,
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  I said, I absolutely will not. No, I will mess up
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  my damn credit. I said, I don't blame your friend. I made
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  that income and come looking for me because because you crushed up another car,
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  signed call, the car was in my name, calling insurance was in my
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  name, and that nigga ran up so many fucking tickets and then my insurance
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  skyrockets because you got an accident for a car. That's what happened. And
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  then when you choose to stop paying for the car, they can try to
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  go to want to stop paying for bitch, I'll take you the fuck on,
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  judge math you got me, so listen. She owe us about five
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  hundred dollars. Do we get that from you? They gonna find it a
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  bitch made of fact. Follow me in my car, I take it to
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  her. They do. They would come for me because I would have coatn
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  like a fuck up. I don't play them games. Listen by my lesson
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  never again. Baby. If I don't, I had to pay damn there
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  a thousand dollars and find some ship. If I new the tags on my
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  car, then I was driving because I had my brother's car. I't even
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  co signed for the car. The car was in my name, the registration
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  and the insurance was in my name. That's love. And I mean I
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  kept getting all these tickets and ship to the house and I'm like, I
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  know it ain't me. I look at the pictures like I'm driving no more
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  fucking fucking Lincoln Town. Nigga brought me my change, not a Lincoln Town
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  whatever the hell he was driving a Crown victim. Even this nigga driving all
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  the drug dealer cause exactly mm hmm. Never again, just judge, you
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  have the car, you drive my nigga ship on the goddamn called fire.
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  Looks like my name is not welles for Fargo. Get the one she did.
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  I mean she never asked again, but was like, now what made
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  you think? What? What? What thought in your head? Yeah?
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  Welcome to the wh episode of Wine and Our Daddy, the podcast. I'm
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  your host. Brand's hard a ka Big Daddy ain't co signing for ship and
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  I'm doing by two of my three favorite people in the world. How are
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  you feeling this week? Yeah, Niggas, I said, Big Daddy,
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  I ain't co signing ship, ain't I'm gonna get him a shirt with that.
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  The only way I'm putting my name with something is if I got your
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  fucking ring on my finger. And even then, nigga were gonna have to
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  go talk to the Lord about it first, because let's right, because nigga,
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  your debt and your money is your You're gonna suck around and find out.
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  But I around said that and marry somebody to make more money than me,
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  and they'll be like, can I get that one? Did? Now?
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  Here you go? Now you got one hundred one hundred milligan and get
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  Dallas. I'll take it, necase. Can I get it down? How
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  you feeling this week? They gotta stopped doing ship, but I got damn
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  nigga, you got to read you god damn work. I was mixed it,
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  that's what she said. Oh you want to be the first time.
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  I mean, I'm not wrong. I know I'm not wrong. We know
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  any business sometimes mm hmmm. Back in my whole days. Last week,
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  ladies and gentlemen, we have Aaron has been hit by the beverage flying across
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  the table. My god damn picture brother Ship. This nigga like he just
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  gotta slammed on double Dad. Hey, yo, I'm just laying my mouth
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  for wasn't open. That would have been a new level for your relationship.
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  I'm like, yeah, I think I think we should see other people for
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  a while. That would have been funny ship that camera, Oh Jesus.
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  Okay for context, ya, I was mid God, damn, I gotta
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  stop drinking on this show. And yeah, I laughed and it flew out
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  My bad. That's what he said. I mean, if I'm laughing,
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  dooring something right, sneeze a little hard, got no dribble, A little
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  dribble, keep slipping out, and it's like throwing the hot dog down.
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  Enough, I'm going home. Wait, I ain't got time. You got
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  two times to fall out. I'm done. Sometimes you want to fall out
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  on purpose, that's different. Here's a question, though, what's but if
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  you can't control, then I'm going home. So when you was doing what
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  you was doing, okay, and then he was going back you know,
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  you was going back my class to show that I'm sorry. So when he
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  was doing what you was doing and he was going back home because he not
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  told the difference, I mean, not total the difference. We're gonna translate
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  when I was out cheating because I cheated because I got cheated on. Oh
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  okay, okay that that think about the feel being different once somebody it was.
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  Well. He claimed years later that that he could tell the difference,
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  and I was like, I'm pretty sure you probably could have, nigga because
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  dog down, dog down the hallway, cucumber, pritzel stick. It was
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  a big difference. It was a big difference, a big difference. It's
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  a big difference. Yeah, I did. Yeah, it was the truth,
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  she claimed their life. But yeah, he claim just to make the
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  that he was doing. Oh no, no, no, no new he
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  claimed he knew. But at my defense, I was cheating young as I
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  got cheated on. I'm not a cheater, y'all. But I mean that's
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  you said he cheated, but I cheating. He cheated, cheat first because
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  see this is back in the day. I'm not this person no more.
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  I'm just gonna leave. But back then I was on some Ravens ship.
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  So nigga, you fucked up, But nigga, I fucked up. That
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  was the difference. You fucked an's bitch. I f I fucked the nigga
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  who could have hurt your feelings with one paycheck. That's all I'm saying.
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  That's what I'm saying. Yi, that was old man, So you wouldn't
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  cheat, now what that's who I was. That you cheat, niggah,
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  So we cheating now, bitch? Oh we're talking about me. I want
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  to talk about mother. Talked about mothers. That's what we're doing. Okay,
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  So conclusion, ladies and them and if you're gonna suck up, funk
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  up. Okay, you supposed to dig, you know what. You don't
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  cheating? No bum like the fuck and and ladies, Yeah, did your
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  keggs after you cheek? Yeah? That part because your man might, your
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  man might figure some ship out and get your feelings fucking with me? Okay,
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  Wow, did you suck his dick? I was sure the fuck did?
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  Oh god, sure did? And I went like that I never did
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  that on you. At least you didn't say it was like and it was
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  delicious too. That would have his dad feeling No, yea, I wouldn't
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  either confer or deny if I went that phone. Check it out. It's
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  that whole now, it's that whole, like I can like, I can
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  tell you I took the whole thing. I could see I choked, trying
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  to take the whole thing for you easy, put my fun to look your
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  boss like, oh god, it's so big. Shut the fuck out.
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  Yeah now, oh my god, it's so big. Look I got you
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  killing it. Oh god killing it's so much, that's not it, wonderful?
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  Oh working. The guy just lay here and watched this whole episode,
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  the first forty eight, my first forty I did that before we know,
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  got all got all the way up to the part where the mother fucking the
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  motherfucker's sitting and I'm sitting in there, sitting in the room, but the
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  sleeves in the shirt, like you know, he should say, maybe come
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  on talking about baby. We understand you a good man. You just made
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  a bad decision. And I was sitting there like that, you ass Caroline
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  me saying it's good that bitch should be a hostage negotiator. She is good.
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  She made anybody tell you know what not that us all the way,
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  all the way they lied to a nigga be like he saw your man,
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  your man sold you out for some weddy. He already told next door.
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  So you need to get in front of this and told your side of the
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  story because you're gonna go down for this whole thing. I watched him any
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  crime shows. Now, I'm like, oh, what do you say?
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  Oh okay, I can't confirm it doing that, bitch. I wasn't there,
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  man, that's my story and I'm sticking to it. Prove it,
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  bitch, that's your joke. I was home watching reruns The Empire. Well,
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  we know it. That's the show you rewatching. Now, so I
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  finished. You actually finished the whole series? Yeah? It tew me six
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  seasons. Nigga, didn't you just started like two weeks ago. Three?
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  What are we getting into this week, y'all? When we officially launched our
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  Patreon, we are doing video review content because the way Seana can watch eighty
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  four seasons of a TV show in ten minutes, these should be fucking stuffy
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  when you work from home two days a week and then you home on the
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  weekends majority of the fucking time. I mean they got because she plugged up.
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  You know, you know she plugged that, shut up the whole house.
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  W blackout. Know what this respect? This respect? They were like
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  mine, the likes is flicking. Oh my bad, I don't know what
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  you ain't doing yoga something something that had been listen. It's the safest section
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  gave. I'm just saying, did you ever invested in the thing we were
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  talking about? Nah? Nah, I had pocket pussy. I had to
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  spend money on other stuff. You should need no pocket pussy. You got
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  a wife. Sometimes you want to try something different. Sometimes you feel like
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  that. Sometimes you don't. Sometimes you feel like busting one. I mean,
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  hey, married people got needs too. Anyway, what are we doing
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  this week? Sean? I'm bad? You know you're good, But were
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  you done? I know I had said something to Seawanna earlier about I'm a
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  suggester. I'm a suggest the anime. Like first episode, just watch,
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  just watch the first episode knowing Sewan and Seanna might get hooked or whatever,
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  you know, she might want. However, so so I got so so
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  I was talking the tray and I was don't talk to tray about it?
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  Like which one? Like which ones? Do? Like the first episode to
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  be like, YO want you all to just to watch, you know,
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  just just a ship, just a shame in my world with y'all a little
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  bit and y'all, you know, y'all tell me, you know we come
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  back, you know we can come back and y'all tell me what y'all think.
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  Of course I'll let you. I'm not a fan of the anime,
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  but since it's you, I give it. I give it a fast shake.
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  Might change mind, bro, it might. Oh. I got to
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  find me with trapping nerdyr niggas some kind of way. I like nerds.
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  I got you Watch anime? I like first episode, first episode because I
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  don't know both of y'all. Got Hulu mm hmmm. Watch Food Wars the
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  competition show. Nah, it's a it's an anime. Mm hmm. Okay,
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  but yeah, what we're getting into says and what we're doing this week.
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  So it's the second week of the month. We are already in fucking
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  August. Is July is July? Oh my god, it's oh lord,
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  hold on, give me a minute. This best one to Jamaica. I
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  forgot everything smoking that stuff when you was in Jamaica. I wish that gotten.
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  Yeah. Oh no, you can't. You know your job won't allow
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  you. No, sons of bitches, nigga, you are not gonna make
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  fun. I got the eating no, no bullshit. We were sitting here,
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  but we were sitting here. I was like, damn, damn,
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  he's like all mixed up. I drank too much of damn you make my
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  mad, she said. You know, she said, Brandon still left the
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  house and his location still sound was like, you know what he's doing this
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  nigga just got out the shower and he's scrolling on TikTok right now, sitting
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  on the side of the be sit and no, not so what we're doing
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  this week is you don't know my life. I was, nigga, I
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  was. You said you don't know my life? No one. I was
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  strolling TikTok. No, I don't know. No. I had to shave
• 19:52
  this morning because the less so I was listening to a podcast and shaving,
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  so I didn't have time to for TikTok. I was actually being productive,
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  bitch, bitch, But in my god damn face from here, niggas more
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  time for once did that because you said because you had something to do,
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  bro, I guess I better stop talking because I yeah, it's the second
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  week of July. It is. I am probably still intoxicated because I just
• 20:32
  came from back from Jamaican. Our face, my bab, she was traveling
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  and ship rather than other ship in her face, getting getting fucked up by
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  Jamaica, big Jamaican tool. Guys. I might have been, but I
• 20:45
  damn sure ain't bring that nigga back and get him green colored ship. Not
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  this time? Do you have to stay over here in belly African? I
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  don't know, Oh to the not Jr. I was about to do that.
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  I couldn't get it out. I don't know what it was. No,
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  I'm joking, y'all. I don't do that. I ain't never got
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  no vacation unless I took it with me in your bag. You're missing out.
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  But anywhow would you? I'm not saying that nigga, I actually know
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  how you got a vacation puzzy before? Yes, yes, on the cruise.
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  Yeah when well, when my grandmother took us to the Bahamas the first
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  time. Oh ship, I'm going on the cruise August with my kids.
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  Gonna be in my room, so that ain't happening. You go to that
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  person. You've been on the cruise Pineapples on the no check out first cruise
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  son twenty four hours or twenty four hours. You can go anywhere on this
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  boat. I know. That's why I like, I'm sighted going on to
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  nid Yeah, on to well to this dark, go up on the top
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  on the new deck, like at the top like they got which you doing
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  accountable? Yes, yeah, so over time like over tip of like they
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  on the top deck cause like the new new dark where they go where they
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  some baby gotta be eatating get up there. So okay, see these bas
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  But like if you like when you go, yeah, when you just walk
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  out, like walk out in the it's kind I mean it's it's creepy but
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  cool at the same time. Where when you walk out in the middle of
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  the night and then it's like, yo, you see nothing but like black,
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  but you might see the lights from another cruise ship like way over yonder.
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  Well that's start. But twenty four hours, twenty four hours eating,
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  that's all I'm eating? What anything? By middle of the night they do
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  pizza night screen. I didn't know what you thought. I'm had to give
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  me a clans finally because I the Bernards. Yeah, yeah, Trey Trey
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  sixteen sixteen. So yeah, they gotta, they gotta, they got a
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  club for him. It's gonna get they gonna have him and Ortum to be
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  together. I probably see my child twice. While you want a damn cruise
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  for seven days. I don't know. I ain't allowed to see his ass
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  when he comes to the room to go to sleep. Might be might get
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  someone that he might long, Lord, let me put some cons in his
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  baby, because you will not to bring me a goddamn grand baby back from
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  Turks. Fucking hey, fuck you mean fu Dad? Listen, you known
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  you know he ain't never gonna see this basic again and then in his life
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  get on ancestry and relinked with somebody m might match with me as my grand
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  baby. I'm like, man, I don't know, I am thirty nine.
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  Got here. Yeah, they'll be like, yo, give me Instagram.
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  No, No, absolutely not. I don't even use social media.
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  You don't back when you know, when we first went on first one,
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  everybody had we had MySpace. Oh god, oh Jesus Christy, I was
• 24:06
  putting bitches in your top five. But before we get started, though,
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  if you have any questions, any topic, suggestions and the rants, anything
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  you want to say or be heard on the podcast, you can reach us
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  via email. First, we are asked one to part at gmail dot com.
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  That is a s k W A N D A p O D at
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  gmail dot com. Yes, I have been checking the fucking emails brand,
• 24:30
  and I swear I haven't say nothing better. I think that. I think
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  it well extra sugar and bananas and milk on my Okay, that's what you
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  said. You can also reach us via social media. We are winding All
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  on I g. The Tikety Top and the apartheid, as Kid calls it
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  a k a Twitter. Let us know if you want to be anonymous,
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  if you want to use a pseudonym first name, less initial or vice versa,
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  or in the words of Charay Whitfield, with for her original face.
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  You don't care because who's gonna check you boom. I'm gonna keep saying because
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  it's truth. I don't know who that young woman is that's formally known that.
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  I don't know who the fuck that is. That bitch looks like a
• 25:33
  Kardashi. I have no idea what's going on. I got the episode that
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  TITLEE there we go, Yes, because none of them got phador, none
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  of them holes got their original face. I don't know she Kardashian, Whitfield,
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  I harpo who this woman? You know she gonna say is I got
• 25:57
  a little tweaked in my nose. You are tweakads to your nose, motherfucking
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  line. They took their tweak and went down to your lips and injected them.
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  Motherfuckers. You listen, listen, listen. I might change that,
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  but that's the working title. Kardashian. I like it. I like it,
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  kay, y'all. So we're gonna start this motherfucker out with a bang.
• 26:25
  Oh lord, here we go. And we were going to go to
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  Brandon's favorite thread, the Six Brown Chicks aka the six Brown Heifers aka what
• 26:34
  the fuck is this ship? Aka this some bullship? Because who died now?
• 26:41
  Now? Who died? Now? Hey? Your fuck? It's like
• 26:45
  Hazel now, yeah, she looked like Hazel. Hey yo, she looked
• 26:52
  like I liked or third face because she got another new face too, she's
• 26:59
  another one. Uh huh, God, Bigga said she by Hazel. Huh,
• 27:07
  I can't, I shan't. I won't she by target all my bad,
• 27:12
  my bad, blow this bitch up. She by Roses. Listen.
• 27:18
  I'm tired. Okay, six round checks? You already for the for this
• 27:26
  month? No, okay, it's fine. It seems like you're writing the
• 27:33
  reference that was good. That was good? What was ship him seeming like
• 27:48
  was ready? It's why he over there doing town. Let's show what's over
• 27:51
  right, man, he won't playing for my life, all right, Let's
• 28:00
  get into this, all right. He can't wait to join them. Okay.
• 28:08
  I'm a straight, happily married woman with two preteen daughters. Recently I
• 28:14
  joined the gym to get fit for the summer. I made a friend,
• 28:17
  Chanelle, and we hit a few cardio machines and later on wine and the
• 28:22
  sauna. I enjoy our convos. Chanel was talking about her unemployeed boyfriend and
• 28:27
  how she has to play mind games with them, and all I could think
• 28:30
  about was licking her breast in between her thoughts. Now, when I first
• 28:36
  read this, when I when I first read this, I thought it was
• 28:40
  her whole another bay when she said she was talking about the unemployeed boyfriend,
• 28:42
  but it didn't. Okay, she's not a beautiful woman, but she's sexy
• 28:48
  as fuck. I imagine being with Chanelle while I'm with my husband. Chanell
• 28:52
  invited me to go bar hopping. After we hit a few bars, we
• 28:56
  went back to her home drunk. I told she now I was attracted to
• 29:00
  her and she flipped out. Your by curiosity isn't a turnoff, she said,
• 29:06
  it's the fact that you tried to make me your side home. That's
• 29:08
  nasty work. Chanel called me an uber and put me out. She ignores
• 29:14
  me at the gym and doesn't respond to my text. I was so embarrassed.
• 29:17
  I miss her and I still want her. What to do. Here's
• 29:23
  what you can do, bitch. Lead that woman alone, woman alone,
• 29:26
  because a woman was standing. She said, I'm with the ships, but
• 29:30
  bitch, I got some integrity about my homing. No experiment with you,
• 29:34
  bitch, but you got a husband. So I dare you with your freaky
• 29:38
  or your curious ass, not today, not on my I was waiting on
• 29:45
  that. Damn I mister Yoller, you got a snipe straight about the hood
• 29:55
  ms mama's miss mamas. That woman alone just said no, thank you,
• 30:03
  because first of all, you said she ain't beautiful, but she's sexy as
• 30:04
  fuck. Now that man, that means she got a good person, saying
• 30:08
  that's not a possibility because there are some people who It was a guy that
• 30:12
  I wasn't necessarily she wasn't necessarily try to tell him, but she loved fuck
• 30:21
  I ain't say that, bitch, that's what That's what she was going with
• 30:26
  it. Like I used to down, put it down, I mean buggling
• 30:30
  niggas. But anyway, he wrong, no comment, he wrong. Not
• 30:37
  necessarily attracted to them, And oh Jesus, which one A couple of them
• 30:44
  people personalities and stuff used to always attract me. I was one of them
• 30:47
  type of people. But now I look back at some of the people I
• 30:49
  dated and be like, ew, I was in public with you. Now,
• 30:52
  I ain't trying to sit here and say I'm Beyonce or nothing like that,
• 30:55
  but I mean dated people. You know that's a bit unfortunate in the
• 30:59
  face. Yeah, I had a baby anyway, Yeah, luckily, I
• 31:07
  have a beautiful child that worked out at least looking like him again. But
• 31:12
  that responssibility for I ain't. Gonnah. I'm gonna take him and get him
• 31:18
  a shre who field special formally on this tray. Yep, he's gonna like,
• 31:27
  mom, I'm not getting a lift injection. You will not look like
• 31:33
  Dwight money Bird fashion show with no fashion? How dreadful? How dreadful?
• 31:51
  What you're saying? Fashion showing no fashion? How dread ful? Oh lord?
• 31:56
  I used to love him. He's my favorite. Next lead it later
• 32:00
  alone, lead that lady alone. She don't want you to lick her?
• 32:04
  Yeah, because you got a husband, she said. I'm down for the
• 32:07
  exploration, bitch, but I'm not trying to see here get from all these
• 32:10
  parts. Mm hm gang all right. Next question. This one comes from
• 32:15
  the Toxic Reddit thread and the title is my twenty nine male girlfriend twenty eight
• 32:22
  female. It's upset that I won't let her hang out with her friends without
• 32:27
  me. How do I get her to understand my point of view? It
• 32:31
  sounds familiar her friends single? What the to do? No? No,
• 32:38
  no? All right, So I understand, like it's like low key understand
• 32:43
  but at this time, but in this context, it's sound. It's sound
• 32:46
  a little controlling a little. Let me read the question from sorry, oh
• 32:51
  shit, my bad. That was just titled oh shit. I just said
• 32:54
  it sounds familiar. Two cases anyway. I've been with my girlfriend Anna for
• 33:01
  about a year now. We have a great relationship, but there's one issue
• 33:06
  that's causing some tension. She has the group she has this group of friends
• 33:09
  she likes to hang with, and lately she's been insisting on spending time with
• 33:14
  them without me. I don't see why she needs to hang out with them
• 33:17
  alone when we could all hang out together. I feel like if we're in
• 33:22
  a relationship, we should be doing things together. Plus, I don't trust
• 33:27
  her friends, so I'm familiar. They seem like the type who could influence
• 33:32
  her to do things behind my back. Damn, that's familiar, flashback,
• 33:37
  sir, I am, and I just want to make sure she's safe and
• 33:40
  not getting into any trouble. That's what you care about. Sure. A
• 33:49
  couple of days ago, she told me she wanted to have a girl's night
• 33:52
  out. I told her I wasn't comfortable with that and suggested we all go
• 33:55
  out together instead. She got really upset, saying she needs her space and
• 34:00
  the time with her friends without me tagging along. She even called me controlling,
• 34:05
  which I think is completely unfair. I'm just trying to look out for
• 34:08
  her. I don't understand why she can't see my side of things. I
• 34:12
  just wanted to make sure she's safe and that we're spending time together. How
• 34:15
  do I get her to understand that my intentions are good and that she doesn't
• 34:21
  need to hang out with her friends without me? Is that it? It
• 34:27
  is? Oh little air hand up like kid, go ahead, hey Yvron.
• 34:30
  All right. So first of all, as far as like safety olds,
• 34:37
  I understand because I was that like I was, I was that way
• 34:40
  at first. But that's only but that's only off the strength of something.
• 34:45
  No, that's only the strength of like something could have went like could have
• 34:47
  happened to her going to rob Banks. No, what's gonna happen so for
• 34:53
  me, So for me, it's like the safety thing. So like I
• 34:57
  mean, I don't you know she going out with y'all, I don't care
• 35:00
  you feel what I'm saying, But it's like it is certain people where it
• 35:02
  is certain people whereas though it's like do I feel like they would let her
• 35:06
  die type thing? You know what I mean, like if something happened like
• 35:09
  like because whenever whenever she go out without me, it's like, yo,
• 35:13
  I do feel some kind of way because it's like yo, I got you
• 35:15
  know, like I always want to protect her. I don't want if it
• 35:17
  happened to her, and I'm trusting you to bring her back the way that
• 35:22
  she left. And sometimes you know it's like you know, they she may
• 35:27
  have friends, you know, she may have some friends that he you know
• 35:30
  he doesn't, he don't feel that. But what I'm saying, but yo,
• 35:31
  you've only been with her for like a year, so shut up.
• 35:37
  Like at this point, she got to go out with her friends. She
• 35:38
  got to go out with her friends because and then they're like on the flip
• 35:40
  side of that, she needs to go out with her friends. She needs
• 35:43
  to be out without you because with with when you're there, Yo, she
• 35:45
  can't be herself. She can't, she can't truly be herself and being her
• 35:51
  element. And the fact that she doesn't want you, she don't want you
• 35:52
  around mean me. I mean shows me that, yo. It's showing me
• 35:57
  that, Yoe. She not fully comfortable and disturbed dude, Like she's not
• 36:01
  yet, Like she's not fully comfortable being herself around you. Mm hmmm yeah.
• 36:08
  Like so my boy, chalk that up as an l you know,
• 36:12
  take that, like take it for what it is or let her go out
• 36:15
  and I mean, you know you but then at the same time, Yo,
• 36:19
  I feel like you don't got no friends? Oh Brandy, go ahead,
• 36:23
  because I even now, even in your situation, felt like he ain't
• 36:30
  had no friends. He didn't because he wasn't likable. But getting to that
• 36:34
  in a minute, because I got two examples of that. So it's like,
• 36:37
  yeah, feel like I ain't got no friends, bro, so you
• 36:38
  because you don't got no friends, or you're trying, like you're trying to
• 36:39
  come over here and pete on her friends, make her friends your friends,
• 36:43
  and it's like, Yo, but at the end of the day, them
• 36:45
  niggas ain't rocking with you. They're not They're not gonna rock with you because
• 36:50
  you just the boyfriend. Like the way y'all embraced Kea, you feel me
• 36:55
  like that's that's a you know, like that's that's a whole like that's a
• 36:59
  whole different thing because you know, at that time when y'all met her,
• 37:01
  like we was together for a minute, then then like we was engaged and
• 37:07
  ship and it's like yo and ni, y'all y'all embrace I like, you
• 37:09
  know, y'all brace I like sis. Even Keita came to us with some
• 37:13
  sense, absolutely the same way y'all feel about Sheena. It's like congress to
• 37:21
  rotten on them. I got to be a bride maid, Yeah, and
• 37:27
  you know Shaney, Shaney hit us something in a way on the way that
• 37:30
  always the brides me the bride make her sound bitter. I said that,
• 37:36
  I said, I said Shane had niggas, but that so she happy?
• 37:37
  I mean she happy happy. No, I'm almost happy when my friends are
• 37:43
  happy. So people. But yeah, but you know, come back to
• 37:50
  her to get back to It's like, yeah, Yo, I feel like
• 37:52
  you don't have no friends. And because you don't have no friends, you
• 37:54
  want friendship. It's not even necessarily bombarding. It's like, yo, you
• 37:59
  just you just want to be around and you and you feel insecure like and
• 38:04
  it's also insecurity, bro, like I just want to be I just want
• 38:07
  us to spend time together. Like, bitch, nigga, I'm up under
• 38:10
  you all the time. Let me go be by myself, like yo,
• 38:15
  relationships and healthy boundaries. People need to understand that, y'all need to spend
• 38:17
  some time. You know what niggas do you know them? Kevin said it
• 38:24
  like yo, she said, I'm going out, you know what? You
• 38:25
  know the first thing that nigga said, I'm gonna be like, Yo,
• 38:31
  be alone, enjoy yourself, enjoy yourself. Let her let her go especially,
• 38:37
  let her go to brunch. You back lit up off the mimosas a
• 38:42
  nasty time. Let her go to brunch and get drunk, mister nasty dame,
• 38:46
  and then when she come home, she gonna be trying to suck at
• 38:50
  dick. Go on the counter, SHEI co cane on it, turning,
• 39:02
  make your touch you by name on it. It's real damp in here.
• 39:09
  Now, why you leave a puddle down there? Make you cry like a
• 39:13
  baby here, I want to say it's okay. I was disgusted when I
• 39:22
  found all the empty containers of damn cream in his fucking firm. That's what
• 39:32
  we said too. We got a strong hand. That's why I don't touch
• 39:49
  no wash hotels, no nothing in his room. Take that ship downstairs and
• 39:52
  dropping in the washing machine. Because dropping in the washing machine, don't touch
• 39:59
  it. You want to go to the g soon tree. He ain't got
• 40:01
  the work out with one arm. Ship God making faces that me making faces
• 40:16
  trying to both of my coaches. Yep, I did I think this just
• 40:24
  deserves a damn sure coaches, I got one to see that. I got
• 40:37
  one of them niggas almost your step for them. Lord. He wasn't,
• 40:43
  he said, he said, bitch, you called me oh ship. Normally
• 40:51
  I would have punished him for that, but we have a healthy relationship.
• 40:54
  Dad talking about at least buying him his own lotion. I ain't got no
• 40:59
  funking joys. Ain't gonna use all my god damn stuff. Oh good times.
• 41:07
  He's trying to get my son drunk. I'm calling the police. I'm
• 41:13
  calling the people. The best place to get drunk and Nigga's gonna be the
• 41:20
  best nap you had. Listen, Trey will talk when you turn eighteen,
• 41:23
  brot, I can't do nothing with you? Then why why you Indeed,
• 41:28
  I ain't trying to go to jail, go to jail, corruption of a
• 41:30
  minor. But no, to finish this question out though, oh no you
• 41:35
  didn't go ahead, So yeah, insecure with we peck dad, Because why
• 41:43
  can't this girl? Is she twelve? Like why can't she go all by
• 41:45
  herself? Huh? I got whych I raise that? You know I had
• 41:53
  a reason. It ain't good enough, bitch, So storytime shout out to
• 42:04
  Uh, I forgot the girl the able to do that. He was like
• 42:07
  story time, she took the ship out of me. Picture Yeah, picture
• 42:13
  Broughtimore two thousand and four ish when I started dating my ex. Uh.
• 42:22
  One day I was going out with Brandon and when he realized Brandon was a
• 42:27
  dude, he was like, who the fuck is Brandon? The fuck you
• 42:30
  went on with another nigga for some sometime. I'm on my way over there,
• 42:32
  I said, okay, he came over, Brandon pulled up. Brandon
• 42:38
  was like, hey, bitch. He looked at me and was like,
• 42:40
  I said, uh huh, that's the stupid ass get he wanted the girls.
• 42:45
  Dumb ass. But he's always had an issue with all of my bit
• 42:51
  You once said it, I can say it about myself, bitch, not
• 42:53
  you said the fuck nobody story shoot my little raggedy ass, my ship.
• 43:02
  But yeah, he had an issue with with me having friends male, female,
• 43:07
  anything. He always though he supposed to be a part of something.
• 43:08
  He always had an issue when I went out with my friends. He didn't
• 43:10
  want me to having fun outside of him. So I need a break from
• 43:14
  you. You're annoying at times, like I need a break from you.
• 43:17
  I love you, but I need a moment because you're getting on my fucking
• 43:21
  nerves. Honestly, I don't know if I love you yet. We just
• 43:22
  got together right, And then I had another situation with a friend who husband
• 43:28
  was like that because me and our other friend were single. Sorry if you
• 43:32
  first of all, you should be kissing my ass because I cock blocked like
• 43:37
  a mother. Do you know how many of my cousins were trying to get
• 43:39
  your wife for years, my nigga son for years. I'm just trying to
• 43:45
  your way. I just rubbed the shoulder like the fuck and I got an
• 43:52
  eight hour phone not eight hour after you put the phone down and came back,
• 43:57
  and the nigga was still talking ship and are you saying, was oh
• 44:00
  yeah, that's wild like the fun he was made. Sorry, go get
• 44:05
  you some friends. Go and find the friend dot com. It's something.
• 44:07
  Get you some friends, find somebody to do something. But because let that
• 44:10
  girl go. As long as she is out and she's being respectful of your
• 44:15
  relationship, it's shipn't matter. People in relationships need separate time. And you
• 44:21
  know what, even if she wasn't just ended, because if somebody, if
• 44:23
  you can't trust, you know what you with her for. That's bright.
• 44:27
  Your ship was funny. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. That's why you're gonna
• 44:31
  be punished to you graduated from college the second time. Anyway, what you
• 44:37
  cash, I'll get it, like three dollars don't do with three dollars buy
• 44:40
  more elotion. Maybe it's gonna be that Queen Helene. You know this ship
• 44:45
  is watery, that coke coco butter no. I remember, he ain't gonna
• 44:49
  get no good grip with that. But anyway, so he said we over
• 44:55
  there. That was payback can come for me, nigga our birthday. You're
• 45:00
  right, you did my birthday. I earned right, you catch it.
• 45:12
  I did. That's why I ain't saying nothing. Go to the gym since
• 45:15
  so we can hang out and work out and talk and work out that other
• 45:19
  arm. Anyway, we're going back to sixth brown chick. Okay, you
• 45:24
  you better sit on your hands, go number. That's a that's cheat code,
• 45:30
  not a cheako. The old is different, different the way you got
• 45:42
  two girlfriends. Let's being right. You're right safe sex you won't ever have
• 45:50
  in your life, say second type of sex that don't make me a grandmother
• 45:53
  in my thirties. Appreciate you, my brother child mind too, It's okay,
• 46:00
  all right, like mother, like son, got someway good nice sir,
• 46:09
  go back up stairs and watch anime. Okay, okay, and don't
• 46:15
  take my lotion on my room. Bye all this got to come out.
• 46:21
  It's my good lotion. This got a ride. Somebody gonna call your God,
• 46:30
  damn it. He's safe. Other sucking all right. He wall taking
• 46:36
  care of you. Take the nigga and feed him seventeen times a day.
• 46:38
  Ship. You gotta replenih his energy some kind of right. We need more
• 46:45
  pizza. Big got some salamon toast, crack, no gatorade. Drink this
• 46:54
  damn bite him in water. You look a little kale. Lose away.
• 47:02
  He can't afford to leave, no goddamn way, leaves no way like you
• 47:08
  dropped company them Damn SI take you make them stays, by god, dammit.
• 47:23
  Half kids. They say it'll be fun. They say it's fun.
• 47:30
  It's funny when you got a something like me. This nigga still here en
• 47:35
  minutes ago, go to be tra Nigga's like afternoons, eighteen hours by gott,
• 47:46
  I'm taking it up. Oh lord, those were the days. Boy
• 47:52
  haven't taken nap. Sure, locked up in there room about four hours.
• 47:54
  What they're doing nothing, nigga? We like, Mom, what's for dinner?
• 48:07
  You need some weaver fla God damn it. All right, the next
• 48:13
  question, we're going back to six Brown Chicks. Only Ratchet can follow Ratchet
• 48:21
  Jesus. Okay, my boyfriend slash, father of my two sons, and
• 48:27
  I had a joint bank account to save money for a new apartment. It's
• 48:30
  not gonna go well. We needed the first two months brin in a deposit.
• 48:35
  We work four half gig jobs between us, and the account was doing
• 48:39
  well. Boyfriend's brother is police from jail and he spends all our savings to
• 48:44
  show him a good time. Then he brings the fellon back into our apartment.
• 48:49
  Boyfriend says that his brother will wash the kids so we don't have to
• 48:52
  pay for daycare. He never changes diapers or feeds them, so I said
• 48:58
  hell no, and he needs to go. The brother comes into the bathroom
• 49:02
  while I'm in the shower and says, oh my bad. Huge argument.
• 49:07
  Boyfriend packs his bag and leaves with his brother. Baby that's his man.
• 49:10
  I'm sorry anyway, he left me and the kids behind. One month later,
• 49:15
  the brother is murdered in a drive by. Boyfriend returns flushed with cash,
• 49:20
  and he has the money for our new apartment. We move. I
• 49:23
  never asked where he got the money, because I don't want to know.
• 49:27
  He never spoke of the murder and he didn't shed a tear. But I
• 49:30
  don't trust him at all. How do I escape this man? He's the
• 49:32
  father and my kids and apparently I don't know him at all. I mean,
• 49:39
  you might be safe if he killed him? Is this his actual brother
• 49:45
  on his brothers from inside the joint? I don't know this man. To
• 49:47
  me, she killed this man. He killed this man show and it sucked.
• 49:52
  Allegedly, m he put a hit on that nigga. Stay on his
• 49:59
  good side, sys he might be next ship. Do you want some kind
• 50:04
  of greens? How about some chicken wings? Yo? Because he said that
• 50:10
  Nigga left with his brother and came back and didn't shed a tear for the
• 50:15
  murder. M M. Some name right, some name right, and he
• 50:21
  came back with the money. Go ahead, listen that that nigga kept that
• 50:31
  nigg in cold blood cold once once he you know what it was. He
• 50:37
  probably could from him walking into the damn bathroom at my bitch, now,
• 50:42
  okay, come on, No, that and the fact that you're you're supposed
• 50:46
  to be watching my kids. You're not even feeding them or changing diapers,
• 50:50
  nigga, So now my kids walking around shitty and hungry and niggas got diaper
• 50:54
  rash, diaper rass, diaper rass. Ain't no fucking joke, bro Like
• 51:00
  mm hmm, I see, I see that ship every day and it's like,
• 51:04
  God damn ya. Mm hmmm, bring out the butt paste listen,
• 51:15
  staying with his good eyes says okay. Next one being with a kill to
• 51:20
  the niggas hovering over your assitude in the morning. Where you're going Shamanique?
• 51:25
  By did the name of was tickle the funk out of me? Shamanique?
• 51:30
  M m mmm, how dreadful? Right dreadful? Mkay, We're gonna go
• 51:36
  back to the toxic ruddit Three and the title for this one is in my
• 51:40
  asshole for ignoring my co worker and not talking to her anymore after she rejected
• 51:45
  me. Oh no. My co worker twenty three female and I twenty three
• 51:52
  male, have been best friends from elementary school. We've been through middle school,
• 51:57
  high school, and college. We even got accepted into the same college
• 52:00
  and also got into the same company after graduating. Although we work in different
• 52:04
  fields, it was great because we had lunches together. Also, it was
• 52:07
  nice having my best friend at work. We dated different people in our lives,
• 52:12
  but never each other, although I did come close to asking her out
• 52:15
  a few times, but never got the courage to do so. A couple
• 52:17
  of weeks ago, I did somehow muster up the courage to ask her out
• 52:21
  because I genuinely thought over the past three months there was some tension building between
• 52:25
  us and we were both single, so I thought I would give it a
• 52:29
  shot. But she seemed slightly shocked that I asked her out and asked if
• 52:34
  we could just remain friends because the friendship was really valuable. I was genuinely
• 52:39
  hurt and she could probably see it in my face, and she apologized,
• 52:43
  but I told her it was okay and that there was no need to apologize.
• 52:46
  The next day, however, I wasn't feeling too great, and when
• 52:49
  I saw her at work and when she said hi, I just ignored her
• 52:52
  and went to my desk. I didn't have lunch with her that afternoon and
• 52:54
  ignored a couple of her texts. This carried on for the next couple of
• 52:58
  days where I just ignored her, but after that she stopped saying how to
• 53:01
  me. I just noticed how looking at me her. No, I'm sorry,
• 53:07
  I just noticed her looking at me a few times. But it's like
• 53:09
  we're complete strangers. Now. Am I the asshole? No? No,
• 53:13
  you're not the asshole. You just I mean you're just so realist, like
• 53:15
  yo, yeah, your feelings. I mean, you just hurt right now,
• 53:20
  your best friend, you know, your best friend, the person that
• 53:22
  you that you've known since you was in like school, like yo, she
• 53:25
  just rejected, Like yo, you you probably wanted to give it a chance,
• 53:29
  and she rejected. You know, she rejected you. I mean,
• 53:31
  it's nobody. It's no fault through them, it's no fault to her.
• 53:34
  Like she may not she may not see you as see you as that,
• 53:37
  and you had to accept that now the way that you're accepting it, it's
• 53:42
  perfectly fine. You don't want to, like yo, you you don't see
• 53:45
  her, you don't see her the same way you do anymore. And that's
• 53:47
  because, like I said, you hurt. Dang, you feel slightly betrayed
• 53:52
  because it's like that. Yeah. So it's like, I mean, I've
• 53:55
  been there, Like I've been there, and I understand, like I understand
• 53:59
  understand how you feel. However, I guess I'm I'm I'm better, I
• 54:06
  mean, like I'm better. I was, like I was cool with it,
• 54:08
  and you know just took it, you know, tooking it, tooking
• 54:12
  the stride or drag you. That's how you feel. You're human as somebody
• 54:15
  who witnessed that situation that you're speaking of, it actually worked out better for
• 54:22
  you, in my opinion, who you're supposed to be with. I don't
• 54:28
  think you did. I don't think it would have went well at all.
• 54:32
  We wouldn't have. I think it would it ended with your heart being broken
• 54:37
  and with us being in the middle of it because we were friends with the
• 54:39
  both of you, and we probably would have been forced to take aside because
• 54:44
  you know how we operate right as right, wrong as wrong. So yeah,
• 54:46
  but my thing is, I would never I ain't going like it's for
• 54:50
  me. It's like if it's between us, but it's between us this particular
• 54:53
  story. It don't sound like to me that she let him on anything like
• 54:59
  that. So I while I understand his reasoning, because you know, he
• 55:02
  kind of his feelings and his feelings are hurt and it maybe it's a possibility
• 55:06
  that their friendship could. I think the way he handled it was childish personally
• 55:09
  or my opinion, because you'll been friends for all these years, all these
• 55:13
  years and it let a friends over twenty years. If y'all been friends since
• 55:16
  elementary school, y'all in your twenties, that's like our friendship we've been friends
• 55:21
  to all all years. And that's like if if you know, one of
• 55:25
  y'all want our other friends was to approach me like that, and that's not
• 55:29
  how I see them. I feel like she let him down easily, and
• 55:31
  she didn't you know, disrespect him or playing his face and nothing, and
• 55:36
  she just tried to maintain the friendship. But again, his feelings are hurt.
• 55:39
  So yeah, while you maybe they ask over the way you're handing on
• 55:43
  it, you have the right to, you know, feel the way that
• 55:45
  you feel exactly or whatever, because you and your feelings to her, because
• 55:50
  you got genuine feelings for him. But I would hope that y'all can rebuild
• 55:54
  your friendship. But if your feelings are still there, maybe you'll get over
• 55:57
  it and then you know, you'll start to miss the friendship or whatever.
• 56:00
  But if if that happens and she chooses not to allow you back around,
• 56:06
  that will be her right as well, because you handled it the way you
• 56:08
  handled with somebody that you've been friends with all the all them years. It
• 56:10
  is hurtful. I mean, but but at some point, at some point,
• 56:15
  yo, you you gotta talk to your friend and tell situation understand.
• 56:21
  Agree, Yeah, agree, because I mean your friendship you could have because
• 56:24
  it's for her. My feelings will be hurt too, because we've been friends
• 56:28
  all these years, and then you give me your ass kids because you didn't
• 56:30
  get the reaction that you thought you was gonna get. And I was very
• 56:31
  respectful about it, and let you know, No, I value our friendship
• 56:35
  too much. I don't think we should go there. That's the danger of
• 56:37
  admitting feelings for a friend. Sometimes your friendship can't bounce back. I agree,
• 56:43
  but I agree, I disagree with you with that one because no,
• 56:45
  no, not you. I'm talking about her like and what she's saying like
• 56:49
  it's like that's the best I got. M like that, that's how like
• 56:53
  how I'm handling it like how I'm But in your situation, I think she
• 56:57
  played with your feelings. Absolutely. That's the difference she played with Chee.
• 57:01
  Know what I'm saying, his situation that that might that might be the best
• 57:05
  that he has right now, the best of that, that might be the
• 57:08
  only way he knows how to handle it, Like you know what I'm saying,
• 57:15
  that's that's the only way he knows that's the only way. That might
• 57:16
  be the only way he knows how to handle it. And I mean,
• 57:20
  honestly, he probably need to go talk to missus Howard about it. Like
• 57:22
  listen, I'm trying to take my appointments bit. But it's like I mean,
• 57:25
  I'm just saying, like, you know, work it out of the
• 57:29
  state. Should we gonna make this work in New Jersey soon? Bitch,
• 57:34
  I'm coming to see your ass. You can figure out leave work early.
• 57:37
  I'm coming to see yours. Get us a Friday appointment. Were gonna ride
• 57:39
  up them together. But yeah, so you, in my opinion, partially
• 57:46
  that hold my bro. But that's just no, that was me. That
• 57:51
  was and you're dick. You are a dick, sir, He sud it.
• 58:01
  Though the ship was funny. What I say a couple of weeks ago
• 58:07
  when your sister texted you you monkey is gonna say, then I was supposed
• 58:15
  to be coming in and come close video that ship was funny. I'm sorry.
• 58:17
  Next question, we're going back to the sixth Brown Chicks three. I
• 58:22
  hate y'all real bad. I hate y'all prom sday. He like to eat
• 58:28
  though. I hate y'all any time for a commercial break, yeah, actually
• 58:34
  commercial second, the first commercial break. Y'all will be back and'll be back
• 58:46
  ship what fast track my way to Hell. I'm moving on to the next
• 58:53
  damn question. I'm not doing this with y'all. I'm not gonna do it.
• 58:57
  We're going back to six Brown Chicks. We rented a bouncy house for
• 59:05
  her kids' birthday party. An iPhone watch was found inside the house and one
• 59:08
  of the children handed it to me. It was my best friend's watch.
• 59:13
  It was sink to her phone. My baby daddy was texting her, so
• 59:15
  I read the text him. It should have been us from day one her.
• 59:20
  I know right, can't wait for round two him back tonight. I
• 59:24
  was hurt and shocked, but I kept my cool for the kids. That
• 59:30
  night, he clawed me about having a filthy house. Birthday presents were all
• 59:34
  over, and he stormed out the house. I packed the bound kids and
• 59:37
  we went to my best friend's house. I pretended I was there to return
• 59:40
  her watch. His car was parked out front. They didn't open the door,
• 59:45
  so I live streamed myself outside her house and I tagged them and read
• 59:47
  their messages on live. She opened the door to get her watch back,
• 59:52
  and he came to the door with his pants and zipped him. This is
• 59:54
  what you get. You always looking for something? Why you bring my kids?
• 1:00:00
  We all went inside. I had four kids with him. I really
• 1:00:01
  don't want to start over with someone else. At this point we talked.
• 1:00:06
  I agreed that I wouldn't mind a throuffle if he guarantees that he won't cheat
• 1:00:10
  on us, and if she would help out with the kids. Things were
• 1:00:15
  going, Things were going good. Three months later, he brought another woman
• 1:00:20
  into the mix. He says, she stays or he'll leave us both.
• 1:00:23
  I can't do this again. Help ma'am. Go ahead, y'all, Dolly
• 1:00:37
  on on PlayStation. What the fuck? What the fuck? What the fuck
• 1:00:52
  that ship? First of all, what the fuck? So I'll say this,
• 1:01:00
  you should have left, You agree to a throuble? What's your so
• 1:01:06
  called best friend with your baby? For him? He said, he's leaving
• 1:01:09
  them both of y'all. He can't get a third bitch. So what if
• 1:01:13
  the third bitch? What's what's she coming? In a couple of months,
• 1:01:15
  he gets bored of her, He went, it's not bored. I don't
• 1:01:19
  think it's necessarily bored him. But this is a lazy way. This is
• 1:01:22
  a lazy way to lazy way to polygamy. I'm gonna tell you the truth,
• 1:01:24
  ain't he ain't no way, ain't no. I'm sorry. This is
• 1:01:31
  funny to me. That's what you get. You always you're always looking for
• 1:01:37
  something. The next thing he would have been looking at is a bullet.
• 1:01:40
  I understand how it just end up one episode the snake, What the fuck
• 1:01:45
  put a little bit of arsnick in his whole cham every day anti freeze ain't
• 1:01:51
  really gonna look for that. And it's crazy, I mean no, but
• 1:01:58
  it's crazy because it's like, yo, you stayed, you decided to stay,
• 1:02:02
  and because you decided to stay, you made it okay yep. And
• 1:02:06
  because you always say that when you forgive somebody for cheating, you were telling
• 1:02:08
  him that you were okay with their actions. But no, not, I
• 1:02:13
  mean no, not not the cheating part. But you made it okay for
• 1:02:15
  him to bring another person in this because you agreed to a throuble. So
• 1:02:20
  in his mind it's like ship, let me see how far I can go
• 1:02:22
  with this? So then he brought then he brought he brings in another chick.
• 1:02:27
  And then watch now he then he gonna bring in another chick. Then
• 1:02:30
  this motherfuckering I have a hairm yep, then his house. Can you support
• 1:02:37
  multiple bitches, sir, y'all got four cheering? This is why I told
• 1:02:43
  it that what not? That's why I Toldkyo. I told Kyo we couldn't.
• 1:02:45
  I couldn't do the I couldn't do the Cody thing. Bro. I
• 1:02:47
  couldn't have I couldn't have like four wives. Fuck that. Listen, four
• 1:02:52
  children. Nasty work. I think, didn't you three the wives leave his
• 1:02:58
  ass? Yeah, it's just it's just robbing. Mm hmm, it's just
• 1:03:01
  ribbing. It's just robbing. And here's the funny thing. Robbin wants to
• 1:03:05
  be in a poligamous relationships. That's what she used to right. Everybody else
• 1:03:09
  is like marrying them like, man, I don't share no dick on purpose.
• 1:03:13
  They said, on purpose. That's too much, that's too many emotions.
• 1:03:19
  That's that's Mary, said Cody. And then and then the other one
• 1:03:23
  that was that got catfished and got and got no, she got catfish.
• 1:03:31
  Yeah, she got catfish and robbed this nigga. This nigga took money from
• 1:03:36
  him. Lord, this is me again. Please don't never let me become
• 1:03:39
  that desperate. But I'm sending money to niggas who give me sob stories about
• 1:03:45
  their trailers falling into Saint Hoole's few episodes and listening, y'all we spoke about
• 1:03:52
  that, y'all get the reference. Please don't ever let me become that desperate.
• 1:04:00
  Mm hmmm. Please let them create a toy that thrust on his own.
• 1:04:03
  Lord, and the new ones actually do that. Probably got some hands
• 1:04:06
  attached to it, just so I can feel like somebody rubbing on me because
• 1:04:09
  I ain't gonna able to do it. I'm sorry. So, so what
• 1:04:12
  you want, So what you want? What you want to spank? What
• 1:04:14
  you want to spank in action, put the best on the wall. Then
• 1:04:16
  got the one hand. It's something them wall attachments and give it a give
• 1:04:21
  it a deep voice so I could talk to me a little bit because because
• 1:04:29
  I ain't it nah, but Yo, this ship, I mean just played
• 1:04:34
  in your face. Yeah you know this ship crazy peaches, because you you
• 1:04:38
  just you just you you let know you gotta have them and then your house
• 1:04:42
  gonna the next thing you know your hou is gonna be a saving for hoes,
• 1:04:45
  that's all. I don't know if we have I think we do have
• 1:04:50
  a season to fuck you. Lesson added him to a fu you. He
• 1:04:54
  sounds like a I don't know. He just sounds like, don't come out,
• 1:04:59
  don't don't come your cousin like that, bro? Oh damn, I
• 1:05:00
  do got a cousin. Name is se Donald. I ain't seen that nigga
• 1:05:06
  in about ten years. I don't remember. Don't comfort sad like that,
• 1:05:10
  bro, I can't, my bad, I won't. You will not relax
• 1:05:19
  released. I was watching that before Brady got here. Relaxed, really relax,
• 1:05:28
  all right. Next one, you got you a loser? You like
• 1:05:33
  a two dollar Wine's not a laser all right. Back to the toxic redy
• 1:05:40
  thread. This one comes from am I the asshole. The majority of old
• 1:05:44
  have been in my ass whole questions today, But anyway, am I the
• 1:05:46
  asshole for sending a vent over quest for a babysitter hotel in uber re imbursement
• 1:05:51
  at the dry wedding. Now. I picked this one because of course I
• 1:05:55
  was just at a wedding, But nothing dry about that motherfucker line. Man,
• 1:06:00
  I would listen. I was singing to my way on the way fucking
• 1:06:03
  home. Thank goodness, I was only ten minutes from home. Gang.
• 1:06:10
  It was a celebrate, bitch, celebrate, Okay. I guess niggas thought
• 1:06:15
  it wasn't going. We did praise God all listen. People can change.
• 1:06:20
  Hallelujah, Jesus. I can make the zone zone go Boom boom. I
• 1:06:26
  can change. I can change for you. You gotta believe me. I'm
• 1:06:34
  trying to find another hour we can break down, all right. A friend
• 1:06:38
  from college got married this past weekend. The wedding was forty five minutes from
• 1:06:42
  my house, so my wife and I got a hotel room. First time.
• 1:06:44
  I'm not getting a hotel room forty five minutes. I'm like, anyway,
• 1:06:47
  niggas trying to get drunk. I mean, not wrong, but trying
• 1:06:51
  to get a drunken fuck all over in the hotel but with no traffic.
• 1:06:56
  Bitch, I can be home at thirty. But anyway, we checked in
• 1:06:59
  head of the front, a few pregame cocktails, and we ubered from the
• 1:07:03
  hotel to the vinyard. We sit down, wedding happens, It's beautiful.
• 1:07:09
  We get to social hour as it's called and there's no booze. Turns out
• 1:07:14
  this was a dry wedding. There was no indication that this was a dry
• 1:07:16
  wedding. Before showing up. I checked the digital version of the invite in
• 1:07:19
  the website, nothing indicating this. I was pissed for a few reasons.
• 1:07:24
  I might not have RSVP'd if I knew this. I'm pissed. I blew
• 1:07:27
  a few hundred bucks on the hotel for the night babysitters and ubers. Yesterday
• 1:07:31
  I heard from my college buddy. He was like, what the fuck is
• 1:07:34
  this ass whole? I explained that I was made that this was a dry
• 1:07:38
  wedding. The bridehead family that are alcoholics, so they opted to not have
• 1:07:43
  alcohol as an option. I told him that needs to needs to know information.
• 1:07:48
  Not informing us of that cost me and our other friends a lot of
• 1:07:53
  money. He said I should have asked him and not assumed there was a
• 1:07:56
  wet wedding. I said to him alcohol is a default option. If you
• 1:08:00
  change the option that, I'm sorry. If you changed the default, you
• 1:08:04
  tell people. He disagreed with that notion. I said, you drink,
• 1:08:09
  why would I think it was dry. We went back and forth for a
• 1:08:13
  while. He still thinks I'm an asshole, am I? Yes, if
• 1:08:18
  you was that pressed, you couldn't take your ass at the ball to look
• 1:08:21
  us down the street and get you say you some ship in the car?
• 1:08:24
  Sound talk about some baby. Let's keep the ship in the car. We're
• 1:08:27
  gonna go outside and get some aircause we don't. We smoke a little cigarette.
• 1:08:31
  But then you see, you honestly should have asked, because I remember
• 1:08:35
  when I when I when I gave it, when I had told y'all about
• 1:08:40
  the wedding and ship, your twin was like, do I need to bring
• 1:08:43
  a flask? Yeah, that was a good quess. If I needed to
• 1:08:45
  bring a flask, let me know. And I'm like this me so it's
• 1:08:51
  open bar, top shelf and everything. Oh yeah, we was letting me
• 1:08:56
  let your wedding day. God damn it like bullshit because I said, I
• 1:09:01
  slip one of your bridesmaids crossed the floor. But that's another It wasn't a
• 1:09:05
  brides man it was. It was it was my sister's love friend. But
• 1:09:09
  anyway, she had no business out there, true shit, because the bitch
• 1:09:12
  already married, right, They said, the single ladies coming for the damn
• 1:09:15
  okay, who you bring your motherfucking ass Sorry she dropped that bitch, that's
• 1:09:20
  you know what I'm saying. Anyway, she got my way nah, But
• 1:09:25
  but yeah, you it's it's up to you, like right before, you
• 1:09:29
  know where you're going, Like you know, you knew y'all knew where y'all
• 1:09:31
  were going, and you could have called d and got her delivery ship.
• 1:09:35
  I mean but still even still like yo, you should like yo, you
• 1:09:39
  should acts like what's going on. Don't just assume that everybody's wedding is the
• 1:09:44
  fucking same. I like that ship watching four weddings, like all the seasons
• 1:09:48
  of four weddings and t l C is fucking TLC is fucking petty. Brandy
• 1:09:56
  could be like I hate this for weddings, and then they and then then
• 1:10:00
  put him with a bitch, put him in the put him at a wedding
• 1:10:02
  with a bitch that do all the ship that he hate to see at weddings.
• 1:10:06
  But it's still that you ask questions, motherfucker, Like that's personal responsibility.
• 1:10:11
  Yep, sir, yeah, your asshole, You your asshole, Oh
• 1:10:17
  puss o, poor said Nick. No, Yeah, because I hope you
• 1:10:25
  I hope your mands, was like, yo, and yeah right, I
• 1:10:31
  just sent it back with monopoly money. That's just me. Well, so
• 1:10:34
  a couple of years ago I went to my cousin Olivia's wedding down there,
• 1:10:38
  down in South Florida, and they had you know, they had the cute
• 1:10:42
  little curated cocktails for it's beauty. It was a beautiful wedding. But after
• 1:10:45
  a certain point my cousins wanted some harder ship. He was all right,
• 1:10:49
  well, we's making the liquor store run because we have ship under the table
• 1:10:55
  and the party you keep going. They got so many different ways for you
• 1:10:57
  to smuggle alcohol in some places too, o wedding venue. Yes, they
• 1:11:00
  have so many different ways when you smuggle alcohol. In episode of Four Weddings.
• 1:11:04
  So these bitches ordered the pizza and sat outside and ate that bitch in
• 1:11:06
  the parking lot because they did not like they got. They got scarfs and
• 1:11:12
  bracelets and and all kinds of ship you can smuggle alcohol into. Police is
• 1:11:15
  damn what the funk? Listen, I smuggled to my line and smokeing from
• 1:11:20
  alcohol and some blazing ain't want allegedly allegedly, Okay, you know many many
• 1:11:29
  ways, you know, what she did, she would be stuffing bricks.
• 1:11:32
  Brow not stuffing bricks nigga okay, okay, big jeezy mm mmm. Not
• 1:11:42
  the rest of the games at my auntie house. No it all right.
• 1:11:47
  Back to sixth Brown Chicks. I was late picking up my boyfriend from work
• 1:11:53
  and he punched me. Ma'am, you should have like, what's what's going
• 1:11:59
  on? Heyd We argued this. God damn, I'm sorry. The massive
• 1:12:11
  violence isn't funny. It's not that she should have hit his nds with the
• 1:12:14
  car hilarious. I'm sorry, I'm sorry that ship was how fucking because what
• 1:12:24
  he got? Bitch, what are you telling enough for? Like the next
• 1:12:27
  line should have been And then I got off the car and then he got
• 1:12:29
  off the car that I jump back in the car ran it, bitch over,
• 1:12:30
  that'should have the next limb. We don't condone that's domestic violence on this
• 1:12:34
  uh uh, on this podcast, but we do recommend self defense, okay,
• 1:12:40
  because what the fuck at this point, legally have to right. We
• 1:12:45
  argued before, but this was the first time he got physical. I had
• 1:12:48
  a busted lip. Oh no, bitch, now you got evidence. A
• 1:12:51
  week later, my boyfriend a mechanic was in my grandfather's garage expecting the underside
• 1:12:57
  of his car. He says. My grandfather entered the garage, spoke to
• 1:13:00
  him about the car, and then bumped the car so hard that it fell
• 1:13:02
  on top of him. Good job, Grandpa, My boyfriend says, my
• 1:13:06
  grandfather walked away and left him and the garage to die. Neighbors heard him
• 1:13:11
  yelling and got the car off of him. Boyfriend called the police. Neighbors
• 1:13:15
  did not helping him. My grandfather says he's old and hard of hearing and
• 1:13:20
  has no idea that the car was on top of my boyfriend. No jail
• 1:13:24
  time for grands. A few months later, my boyfriend proposed to me at
• 1:13:28
  a birthday At my birthday party, my grandpa said, no, she won't
• 1:13:31
  marry you, and if you ever put your hands on her again, I'll
• 1:13:33
  come to your job and crush you with the car. My boyfriend took back
• 1:13:38
  the proposal, and he appears to have dumped me. I'm twenty six with
• 1:13:42
  no kids. He was my last chance at a fairy tale wedding and family.
• 1:13:45
  How do I get him to come back to me? Bitchjoy pop up
• 1:14:00
  said, what you won't do? With my grand baby. Hen Hey,
• 1:14:03
  tyrone, how they call going mat shop? Oh? Ship, I think
• 1:14:10
  I look at the stoves in the house. Let me going ahead. I'm
• 1:14:12
  gonna go ahead, map the refrigerator. Be happy. He something he he
• 1:14:18
  slack. Guys like major pain. You like hitting women, don't apple?
• 1:14:28
  Let me go put the dishes in the dish walk in the in the washing
• 1:14:30
  machine. I'll be bad here. I don't know. I think I think
• 1:14:32
  my game is on. Let me go ahead and start this up, this
• 1:14:35
  baseball game. Hey, look, did you did you? Did you make
• 1:14:41
  the chickens out of the baby? Let me go cut this grass with them
• 1:14:44
  with with the fingernail clippers. I take the refrigerator for a walk. I'll
• 1:14:48
  be back. That man got an a track on on his on his hip
• 1:14:50
  with the headphone talk about something. Oh this is cool in the game.
• 1:14:53
  Got this when this first came out, Get down on it, Get down
• 1:14:58
  on this out. Pop walked away in slow motion, listening to motherfucking uh
• 1:15:04
  the intruders. Good job, pop, hope, pop up said bit you
• 1:15:13
  now pay on my fucking grand baby. Now, as far as I know,
• 1:15:15
  my grandfather was not a violent man. God rest his soul. Kids,
• 1:15:19
  However, he didn't play about his children and his grandchildren, okay,
• 1:15:25
  and his wife. All right. I can imagine he may have done something
• 1:15:30
  like that back in the day, you know, before him you know,
• 1:15:33
  became became past and whatnot. I don't know. I can just imagine some
• 1:15:38
  stories. So yeah, yeah, good job, Pop Hope. But bit
• 1:15:45
  you stupid because your grandfather's trying to save your life and you want this motherfucker
• 1:15:49
  back, the same thuggain who hits you in your mouth for being late.
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  Can you imagine what else he's going to do to you if you marry him.
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  Well, that might have been enough of a warm to skin has had
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  something to hit you again. As soon as you go over Pop Pop house
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  with a black hour or bruise. Pop Papa won't go out for a little
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  Sunday drive on Thursday. Pop Pop ain't gonna be a live for other than
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  what I'm assuming you got uncles I hope so or a grandmother who don't also
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  don't play by her grandmaby she put ground up glass in his food and make
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  him eat it. No no, no, that played for some sugar avery
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  peat and the glass and a little bit of a tane of ammonia, nick
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  than niggas and sweeping Tata bye and all of a sudden, eat shit,
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  yeah shit, you already did. M hm. Listen, just go get
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  some therapy. You clearly have self the same missiones. You're twenty six,
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  maybe you're still you're twenty six, you have no children, but you are
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  prime on the market, mkay. And you're a little dumb ty. Some
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  music is like dumb bitches. Man. He is not your last chance.
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  Go find somebody else's because what the fuck? What the fuck? The entire
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  fuck? All right? Moving along, were gonna stay on six brown chicks.
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  Chill again. You're gonna be followed fuckery with more fuckery. Last question,
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  YEP. I found out that my former bestie Daria was neglecting her children.
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  I collected the children one and three and brought them home My baby daddy,
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  Randy, told me to stay out of it and took the children back
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  to Daria. I sent DCFS to check on her children in her filthy house.
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  I had no idea that drugs were in the house and a gun.
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  Daria was arrested. The children were removed. I took them in to emergency
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  shelter while the case worked. Its way through the courts, Randy stormed out.
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  Daria told me she didn't want her kids back. I love her kids.
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  I can't afford to raise them on my own, but I refused to
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  allow them to get caught up in the system. Randy is furious that her
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  children live with me and his son, and he stopped giving me money because
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  he thinks I'm spending it on Daria's kids. Our sun is seven, our
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  sun of seven. We've been together for nine years. I've never seen him
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  so petty, especially about a child. I told Daria what happened. When
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  she called me from jail. She apologized to me for sleeping with Randy for
• 1:18:26
  years and revealed that her kids are Randy's kids. You know what, get
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  a DNA test and make him pay child support for my kids too. I
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  confronted Randy. He said, she's just trying to get my money. That
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  ain't got nothing to do with you. I want to take my son and
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  go, but I can't leave those babies behind. Advice go established the first
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  on go, stablished own place of safety first, and then come get your
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  baby, and then get your babies. Mm hmm mmm. M any questions
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  him. The way to ask one to part of gmail dot com. Ask
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  w A N D A p O d A gmail dot com. You can
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  also find us on some way of a common sense. Because this bitchally ain't
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  got a lick up, not a lick of it. I'd be damned if
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  I'm gonna raise the next bitch fucking kids. You've been my best friend,
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  and you telling me after all these years that your children are my man's children.
• 1:19:30
  He goes throw me out and want me to think that I'm fucking crazy
• 1:19:31
  and talk about she's just trying to get money out of me. My nigga,
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  I understand you got love for them children. Yeah, Nah, I
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  ain't gonna do it. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I I I would
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  search for some other family members. See if darl you got any other fucking
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  family that's will gonna take them children. I'm not. I would feel bad
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  because kids are innocent, but I'm not gonna be able to raise some children
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  that were created in that way. That's just like I would never forgive a
• 1:20:10
  man whoever a baby on me. Can't do it, can't do it.
• 1:20:13
  That's unforgivable as how. Yeah, because not only was you out cheating,
• 1:20:15
  but you was out raw dicking. I'm about to be stuck with your children
• 1:20:19
  now. You ain't even take a care of one. We got together,
• 1:20:24
  put them on there real quick fast in the herring and whoever ended up custodying
• 1:20:29
  them two children, make sure you get your day day day. Foul child
• 1:20:31
  supporter established paternity and foul child supportter his ass too, and I would give
• 1:20:35
  them all his fucking information. I ain't gonna lie to you. I would
• 1:20:38
  get asked his information, I would and say they have a father, uh
• 1:20:45
  hoigher at the nigga and even from jail, she should be able to petition
• 1:20:49
  for a paternity test and get them kids tested. And they would go to
• 1:20:54
  him first, for him to take custy of them kids before they send them
• 1:20:56
  to anybody else. Ain't no waying how in a way how take your take
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  your son and run sis. Yeah they're sure you're safe, but that's that's
• 1:21:04
  wild wild fuck mm hmmm. Hell Now, because first of all, you
• 1:21:13
  called DCFS on her, and I understand you were looking out for the safety
• 1:21:15
  of those children, I ain't going to it in front like I probably wouldn't
• 1:21:18
  have done it, because kids don't deserve to suffer, because parents ain't shit,
• 1:21:23
  they don't. And the only reason she forgave you is because she knows
• 1:21:26
  she been doing you dirty all these years, because you probably would have been
• 1:21:28
  pissed at you outside of Outside of that, she probably would have been pissed
• 1:21:31
  you for calling fucking chop sex services on her. But she was already doing
• 1:21:35
  your dirty and you god damn way. So she was like, oh,
• 1:21:36
  okay, well check me, bitch, you gotta be back, and she
• 1:21:40
  said she ain't want the kids neither. So you actually did the bit your
• 1:21:42
  favorite. That's why she ain't mad at you. That's only reason she fucking
• 1:21:45
  confessed the fuck yeah, fuck yeah, that's it. That's it. No,
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  I mean I'm saying, I mean, I'm saying in the aspect of
• 1:21:54
  it's like, hey, fuck you fuck it, like worry about it,
• 1:21:58
  Like don't I understand you gotta worried about your kids. You know, you
• 1:22:01
  got to worry about the kids safety, but you gotta do better job of
• 1:22:03
  writing about your kids safety or like get them out that house. If you
• 1:22:08
  feel like it's not safe for you, get them out the house. I
• 1:22:13
  mean, that's just I mean, that's just that's just my thing. Like,
• 1:22:16
  like I said, the bullshit like you know, you damn what you're
• 1:22:20
  gonna do to me? I take that ship myself. Kids a defenseless Yeah,
• 1:22:26
  get them kids out the house, so all that all that other bullshit,
• 1:22:30
  and get those kids out there, and get those kids out their house.
• 1:22:33
  They don't have to stay with you, like you said, especially given
• 1:22:35
  the circumstances, but get them kids. Hold you accountable, but at least
• 1:22:41
  get them to a safe space and they can't be found. It don't sound
• 1:22:46
  like the kids are really endangered. Mother was just trifling. You don't but
• 1:22:55
  taking care of the trifling parents. So what trifling parents? No other the
• 1:22:59
  other parent can be spiteful and try to do something and try to get something
• 1:23:01
  to the children. So you gotta get it to ads though, like they
• 1:23:04
  can they can't be found. So you know, if you if you believe
• 1:23:08
  you only goddamn domestic situation and you want to leave. Oh you remember the
• 1:23:14
  story we just talked about recently on the on the True Crime episode. We
• 1:23:19
  see how far people who are willing to go to get what they want,
• 1:23:25
  you know what I'm saying, even hurting children and it's in kids. So
• 1:23:29
  I get, but the aspect that you're coming from because if she's that trifle,
• 1:23:31
  and god knows where she would have let happen to them children. So
• 1:23:33
  that part, I don't think oh girl was wrong for calling CPS at all.
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  But once you make sure that them kids are safe, if you can't
• 1:23:40
  afford to take them kids, don't set yourself up for that. But once
• 1:23:43
  you find out that them kids are safe and you can safely take care of
• 1:23:45
  your own child, lead ass is where they at and going about your business
• 1:23:49
  and take care of your own child. That part, that's it. I'm
• 1:23:53
  done. I mean to be honest. It's an admirals need to do.
• 1:23:56
  But you don't owe the kids nothing they're not really doing they're not. And
• 1:23:59
  of course they might be your nieces and nephews, you know, because I
• 1:24:01
  was your best friend. But I was dealing with that a little bit.
• 1:24:06
  Mm hmm. Her best friend got like kids that you know, like a
• 1:24:13
  dude that she used to talk to her whatever, and she say those kids
• 1:24:15
  look at her like my mind. You she ain't never had no sons.
• 1:24:19
  So if the youngest one called and be like you you need something, you
• 1:24:25
  know, she tried to go out the whole way to do whatever. The
• 1:24:29
  oldest one, the oldest one is just trying to fuck her. Were like,
• 1:24:31
  We're like, bro, they ain't your about, they're not your mother.
• 1:24:34
  Fucking kids. Fuck them kids. Some people have have a Karen spirit
• 1:24:40
  and they'll take care of anybody that you know that they I'm sorry, wouldn't
• 1:24:44
  some people have the Karen spirit? Just anybody. We know several people who
• 1:24:47
  raised other people children. Yeah, this is true. I get it.
• 1:24:51
  But no, no, no, no, these niggas is fucking eighteen or
• 1:24:54
  nineteen wrong, right, kids? This fuck them grown ass man's efficiency.
• 1:25:01
  Get the fun on my mind. I will. I'll be like yo,
• 1:25:04
  child, nobody else. No, they're not your son, so I can't
• 1:25:10
  move in. Shown. Okay, you got a nigga, you got a
• 1:25:14
  key. All you need to do is you know you've seen how I looked
• 1:25:15
  at him. Right. You really need to do is get a video game
• 1:25:20
  here you moved in, not just get it. Get PS three at the
• 1:25:24
  house, the thing on the five now right, I got the three at
• 1:25:29
  the house. Wow, Jesus, fix it. You can probably you can
• 1:25:32
  abab trade that in for your four five. I'm waiting. We'll see what
• 1:25:35
  happens when when GC six comes out that they finally announced it for twenty twenty
• 1:25:40
  five, released in twenty twenty three. So if it comes on PS five,
• 1:25:44
  I'll get the five. But it comes on the next GM, I'll
• 1:25:45
  get the next gin. That's what I'm waiting for, say five. It's
• 1:25:48
  hard, though, yeah, but I mean I beat it twice. I
• 1:25:50
  didn't. I don't play online because you know my attentions maying so. But
• 1:25:56
  anyway, that's it shown, all right, Well, let them kids go,
• 1:26:01
  says that's not your responsibility. Do do right by and make sure they
• 1:26:05
  with the system. I mean, it's a chance that they could be split
• 1:26:08
  up and putting different foster homes or different k prayerfully not, but I mean
• 1:26:12
  it's unfortunate, honestly, that's part. The safest thing for them could be.
• 1:26:16
  It didn't sound they were in danger in the first place. But in
• 1:26:19
  any event, hopefully it works out evenough stories faith. But if you have
• 1:26:25
  a questions for us, feel free to send it my way and ask Wonderpot
• 1:26:28
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• 1:26:39
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• 1:26:50
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  episodes are uploading to Facebook again, so you can finally after two or three
• 1:27:00
  months of not being able to you can find us on Facebook if you haven't
• 1:27:04
  and go straight to the link to listen to our episode. With that being
• 1:27:09
  said, I'm not giving these niggas no chance to add those their ten cents
• 1:27:14
  or two cents or fourteen cents because six Round Chicks is some bullshit and we
• 1:27:17
  will be back. We will be back, I said we will be back
• 1:27:21
  because I'm starting with an all new episode next week. Be easy, be
• 1:27:26
  safe, and we will talk to y'all. Then bye, y'all. Bye
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  Teddies nigga that you have limit relationship by y'all