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Why Can’t I Hold Onto Money (No Matter How Much I Make?) | Money Manifestation Chapter 6 · Rock My Finances

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  Speaker 2: Welcome back this amazing series Money Manifestation we are on
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  Speaker 2: chapter six. Okay, this is going to be a good one.
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  Speaker 2: In this series. We're talking about something a lot of
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  Speaker 2: people experience but don't fully understand. That is, when money
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  Speaker 2: comes in, why does it go right back out again?
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 2: Why can't I hold on to money? No matter how
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  Speaker 2: much I make throughout the years, it always seems to
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  Speaker 2: go right back out again. Most people think it's a
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  Speaker 2: budgeting problem or a spending problem. Very often it absolutely
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  Speaker 2: is not. It is about the capacity to hold the money.
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  Speaker 2: It's not about the zeros. It's how you feel about
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  Speaker 2: holding the zeros. Because your ability to hold money is
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  Speaker 2: directly connected to your emotional feelings and your state around
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  Speaker 2: your nervous system. So if money feels stressful, overwhelming and
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  Speaker 2: hard to manage, your system doesn't feel safe holding it.
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  Speaker 2: So what happens Money comes in and then something happens.
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  Speaker 2: You spend it, you move it. You create a situation
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  Speaker 2: where the money leaves, not on purpose, but because your
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  Speaker 2: system is more comfortable with what it already knows. Like
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  Speaker 2: I say, our system usually has a temperature, which means
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  Speaker 2: an income amount that we're used to having or a
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  Speaker 2: savings amount that we're used to having, and When that changes,
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  Speaker 2: our nervous system gets out of whack and it creates
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  Speaker 2: experiences to knock the money back down again. So it
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  Speaker 2: is right around where we are comfortable with that money.
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  Speaker 2: I know it sounds weird, but I promise you it's true.
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  Speaker 2: This is why people can increase their income and they
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  Speaker 2: still feel exactly the same because nothing internally has changed.
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  Speaker 2: On the outside, it's changed, but not internally. So more
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  Speaker 2: money does not create stability. I know we all think
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  Speaker 2: it does. We all think that all we need is
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  Speaker 2: a bigger income, a better job, more money. When the
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  Speaker 2: lotto and our life is going to be perfect, it
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  Speaker 2: actually amplifies the old same patterns that are already running
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  Speaker 2: inside of our nervous system and our body. Our mind
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  Speaker 2: are subconscious our emotions. So I want to be very clear.
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  Speaker 2: This is not about blame. This is just about awareness.
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  Speaker 2: This is step one. We have to be aware because
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  Speaker 2: once you understand this, you can actually start to shift it. Now,
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  Speaker 2: let's take this one layer deeper. Many women, the reason
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  Speaker 2: why money doesn't stay is not just habits. It's old
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  Speaker 2: patterns that we formed a long time ago. It could
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  Speaker 2: start it in childhood, sometimes without even realizing. Most of
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  Speaker 2: the times without even realizing it. If money felt inconsistent
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  Speaker 2: growing up, if it was tied to stress, arguments, uncertainty,
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  Speaker 2: our body learned something very early. Money doesn't feel safe.
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  Speaker 2: This goes for men and women. Actually money doesn't feel
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  Speaker 2: safe to hold on to. Or maybe you learn something
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  Speaker 2: completely different, maybe learned I have to be careful. I
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  Speaker 2: could lose this. It's just scary, right, So I want
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  Speaker 2: to throw in here some exercises. When money comes in
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  Speaker 2: your system doesn't relax, It stays alert, it stays guarded,
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  Speaker 2: and it doesn't feel like it's something we want to
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  Speaker 2: hold on to, so unconsciously we move it away from this.
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  Speaker 2: This is why money does not stay, not because you're
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  Speaker 2: doing something wrong, but because it still just doesn't feel
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  Speaker 2: safe holding onto it. So this is why we want
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  Speaker 2: to heal our relationship with money. So here's exercise number one,
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  Speaker 2: very something very easy. Get your money journal out, because
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  Speaker 2: I know y' all have one when you started this podcast.
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  Speaker 2: I want you to do something very simple. Write this down.
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  Speaker 2: What happens after I receive money, and be honest. Do
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  Speaker 2: I spend it quickly? Do I move it immediately? Do
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  Speaker 2: I feel pressure with doing something with it? Or do
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  Speaker 2: I avoid looking at it all altogether or come up
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  Speaker 2: with your own what do I do when I receive money?
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  Speaker 2: Then ask yourself what am I feeling in that moment?
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  Speaker 2: What am I feeling in that moment? Write it down?
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  Speaker 2: Am I feeling tension? Am I feeling fear? Am I
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  Speaker 2: feeling pressure? Or urgency? In the last chapter five, we
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  Speaker 2: talked about the treasure chest of money at your front door.
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  Speaker 2: When you got that treasure chest of money, did you
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  Speaker 2: feel fear, did you feel tension or was it just
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  Speaker 2: total joy that you can't wait to go spend that money?
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  Speaker 2: What am I feeling in that moment? Because that feeling
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  Speaker 2: is the key, It's the key to your pattern that's
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  Speaker 2: running in your body or right now, yesterday, and tomorrow
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  Speaker 2: until you fix that pattern. So when you're feeling fear, tension, pressure, urgency, panic,
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  Speaker 2: I was panicked, you know, any of those feelings come up,
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  Speaker 2: that's where you need to shift. Go back to I
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  Speaker 2: think it's number three Chapter three that we talked about
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  Speaker 2: with all the tools that you can help shift all
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  Speaker 2: that mindset. Another exercise for you, exercise number two. Let's
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  Speaker 2: take it one step further. When have I had that
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  Speaker 2: feeling before? Ooh, that's a good one. Not only what
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  Speaker 2: am I feeling, but now, when was the last time
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  Speaker 2: I had it? Not just with money, in life, in
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  Speaker 2: growing up, in childhood, in relationships, because most of the time,
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  Speaker 2: this is not a new feeling. This is a very
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  Speaker 2: familiar feeling, and that's how you know it's a pattern.
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  Speaker 2: So we got that treasure chest of money showed up
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  Speaker 2: at our door. We felt fear right away. We were
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  Speaker 2: afraid somebody was going to steal it or they were
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  Speaker 2: going to hurt us to take it. Okay, So now
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  Speaker 2: we go back, when have we ever been betrayed? Actually
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  Speaker 2: we could have even been abused? When were we ever
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  Speaker 2: physically hurt? When were we ever emotionally hurt? When did
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  Speaker 2: we learn not to trust? That could? I grew up
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  Speaker 2: in an alcoholic home. I learned right away not to
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  Speaker 2: trust what they say, what they do, and they're very different,
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  Speaker 2: so they don't match. So I learned not to trust.
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  Speaker 2: After I grew up at a great you know I
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  Speaker 2: probably had, but I have seven eight years maybe of
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  Speaker 2: great family. And then I saw my dad fall down drunk,
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  Speaker 2: and I was scared to death. I don't even remember
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  Speaker 2: my mom being around. I was so scared. So that's
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  Speaker 2: when I learned I had to trust myself. There was
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  Speaker 2: no one there to take care of me. So that
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  Speaker 2: right there, I had to learn how to be perfect.
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  Speaker 2: I had to learn how to take care of myself.
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  Speaker 2: I had to learn how to not cause waves. All
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  Speaker 2: that great stuff, right. That is part of my core
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  Speaker 2: wound now is feeling perfect. Right. I don't want to
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  Speaker 2: be less than ever. That's why I hate criticism. I'm
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  Speaker 2: doing much better now, but it's been a thing. Right.
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  Speaker 2: So we want to look at that pattern and we
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  Speaker 2: want to heal that pattern. And you don't always have
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  Speaker 2: to heal it yourself. I've had many coaches. I'm a
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  Speaker 2: money coach. Y'all hook me up, message me, get a
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  Speaker 2: hold of me. I'll take you through this pattern. We'll
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  Speaker 2: clear these old beliefs right quick. Exercise number three rewriting
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  Speaker 2: the belief. This is where the diamond shift is applied.
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  Speaker 2: Now we don't try to force a new belief. We
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  Speaker 2: shift it gently, step by step. So if your belief
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  Speaker 2: is I can't hold onto money, we don't jump into
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  Speaker 2: oh I do great with money, because it just won't stick.
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  Speaker 2: Your body's going no, you don't. You can't hang onto it.
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  Speaker 2: We can't do something that our body doesn't agree with. Instead,
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  Speaker 2: we're going to soften it a little bit. The diamond
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  Speaker 2: method is we're going to start with wouldn't it be
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  Speaker 2: nice if so? Write this down? Wouldn't it be nice?
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  Speaker 2: If so? If our statement is I can't hold onto money,
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  Speaker 2: We're going to turn that around to you. Wouldn't it
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  Speaker 2: be nice if I felt more comfortable holding onto money.
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  Speaker 2: That's just one little move up the emotional scale, right,
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  Speaker 2: That's just one little step. Wouldn't it be nice? If
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  Speaker 2: I felt more comfortable holding onto money? Wouldn't it be nice?
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  Speaker 2: If I felt more comfortable with money increasing in my
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  Speaker 2: bank account? Okay, once that, wouldn't it be nice? Feels
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  Speaker 2: really good, and go through a whole slew of different statements.
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  Speaker 2: When that feels good, then we go to the next step,
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  Speaker 2: which is, I'm starting to feel I'm starting to feel
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  Speaker 2: a little more at ease with money staying around. You
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  Speaker 2: could say I'm starting a little more at I'm starting
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  Speaker 2: to feel a little more at ease with money bringing
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  Speaker 2: more of its friends over. I mean, you can make
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  Speaker 2: a joke out of it, but it's serious. I want
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  Speaker 2: more money and their friends to come over. That goes
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  Speaker 2: back to what would you say if money walked into
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  Speaker 2: the door right now? So I'm starting to feel a
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  Speaker 2: little bit more ease with understanding my money. I'm starting
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  Speaker 2: to feel a little bit more at ease with my
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  Speaker 2: money growing a little bit. I'm starting to feel a
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  Speaker 2: little bit more at ease with money, I said, growing
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  Speaker 2: with money growing even bigger, like step by step by step. Right,
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  Speaker 2: Once you solidify that and that feels really good, then
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  Speaker 2: our third and last step under the diamond. Under the
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  Speaker 2: diamond shift me that is it is nice that I
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  Speaker 2: am to write this down. It is nice that I am.
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  Speaker 2: Then you fill it in. It is nice that I
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  Speaker 2: am learning how to hold on and manage my money.
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  Speaker 2: It is nice that I'm learning how to invest my
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  Speaker 2: money to let it grow. It is nice that I'm
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  Speaker 2: learning how to understand my old patterns and clearing my
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  Speaker 2: old beliefs and stepping into my new beliefs. It is
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  Speaker 2: nice that I'm stepping into the new empowered wealthy woman
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  Speaker 2: that I know that I am. It is nice that
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  Speaker 2: I am learning how to be confident, control and have
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  Speaker 2: all of the clarity around my money. It is nice
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  Speaker 2: that I am learning how to have my money grow
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  Speaker 2: and what to do with it? You know what I mean. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: that's exercise three, Exercise four safety practice. It's very powerful.
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  Speaker 2: It's simple, but it's powerful. The next time money comes
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  Speaker 2: in any amount at all, I want you to pause,
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  Speaker 2: don't do anything with it right away. Just sit with it,
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  Speaker 2: even just for thirty seconds, and say it's safe for
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  Speaker 2: me to have this. Let your body feel that, because
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  Speaker 2: you're not just changing thoughts, we're teaching our body that
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  Speaker 2: it's safe to hold the money. I like this, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna say you sit with that for a day
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  Speaker 2: or two. Remember that good old saying, I don't do
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  Speaker 2: anything until I sleep on it for twenty four hours.
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  Speaker 2: I want you to sleep on that. I want you
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  Speaker 2: to enjoy that money. I want you to feel that money.
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  Speaker 2: It is safe for me to have this money. And
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  Speaker 2: we're going to have a couple other things stepping up
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  Speaker 2: from that. Right, it's safe to have this money. Not
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  Speaker 2: only is it safe, I enjoy the safety of this money.
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  Speaker 2: The safety of this money is making me feel dot
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  Speaker 2: dot dot, making me feel blessed, making me feel appreciated.
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  Speaker 2: It's making me feel empowered, it's making me feel strong,
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  Speaker 2: It's making me feel worthy, like, this is why we
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  Speaker 2: want money, right, We want to feel strong and worthy
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  Speaker 2: and capable. All of these things is why we want money.
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  Speaker 2: So it is safe for me to have this and
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  Speaker 2: then feel your body makes sense. You don't lose money
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  Speaker 2: because you're bad with money. You release money when it
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  Speaker 2: doesn't feel safe to keep it. I'm gonna say that again.
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  Speaker 2: You don't lose money because you're bad with money. You
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  Speaker 2: release the money because you don't feel safe keeping it.
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  Speaker 2: That was such a big aha for me just saying
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  Speaker 2: thing ding ding ding, because I was been on that
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  Speaker 2: rollercoaster for years and years and years. All right back
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  Speaker 2: to the framework. This is where all of our tools
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  Speaker 2: come in. When we feel the urge to react, we
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  Speaker 2: want to make sure that we use the diamond reset.
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  Speaker 2: Stop breathe, feel shift. My nose is so itchy. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: stop breathe, feel shift. That's what we want to do, ah,
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  Speaker 2: Instead of react, calm our body first. Then we shift
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  Speaker 2: our thought. We move up the emotional scarce scales slowly,
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  Speaker 2: and over time, we're going to build the capacity to
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  Speaker 2: have our money grow as much as we possibly want
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  Speaker 2: it to grow. You're not trying to hold onto more money.
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  Speaker 2: You're becoming someone who feels safe holding onto money. The
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  Speaker 2: first step again is to know notice how you feel
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  Speaker 2: when money comes in. Do you feel calm? Do you
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  Speaker 2: feel pressure? Do you feel in control? Do you feel
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  Speaker 2: like you need to do something right away? Do you
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  Speaker 2: feel like you can just sit on that for a minute.
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  Speaker 2: Do you feel like you can just relax? This reaction
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  Speaker 2: is going to tell you everything about what comes next.
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  Speaker 2: Do you feel insecure, like you don't know enough about
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  Speaker 2: money to do anything next? And again, don't go alone.
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  Speaker 2: Don't do this alone. Call your financial advisor, your money coach,
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  Speaker 2: your spouse, You and your spouse's or you and your
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  Speaker 2: best friend can talk about this. How do you feel
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  Speaker 2: about this? How does your friend feel about this? You
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  Speaker 2: could even start a little money group with your own
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  Speaker 2: little neighborhood or something. You don't have to talk about
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  Speaker 2: zeros with everyone. I know a lot of people don't
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  Speaker 2: like to share how much money they have and all that,
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  Speaker 2: but the feelings around money is very important to understand
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  Speaker 2: and have clarity around it. I want you to be
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  Speaker 2: able to manifest whatever life you want, and you can.
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  Speaker 2: We are all creators. We are creating our own reality.
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  Speaker 2: We are stepping into that future that we wish for ourselves. Right,
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  Speaker 2: So look at that reaction when that money comes in,
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  Speaker 2: because if money immediately creates tension, your system is going
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  Speaker 2: to relieve that tension. It's going to bring you back
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  Speaker 2: down to that temperature that it feels you are worthy of.
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  Speaker 2: So here's one other exercise for you. Draw a great
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  Speaker 2: big tea on your paper, the capital T on the
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  Speaker 2: top left hand side or no. On the top of
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  Speaker 2: the tea. I want you to write, I am worthy
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  Speaker 2: of wealth. Write that down. You could also change that
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  Speaker 2: to I deserve to be wealthy. Whichever statement resonates with you,
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  Speaker 2: best write that down. I am worthy of wealth, I
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  Speaker 2: deserve to be wealthy. Now on the left hand side,
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  Speaker 2: I want you to just brain dump everything negative that
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  Speaker 2: pops up on the left hand side. No, I'm not worthy.
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  Speaker 2: I don't have any money. I'm broke. I've never had money.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how to do money, I don't know
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  Speaker 2: how to make money grow. I'm I don't deserve ser money.
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  Speaker 2: I've never been good with money. I'm a spender. You know,
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  Speaker 2: all the negative stuff that comes out on the left
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  Speaker 2: hand side. And then on the right hand side, I
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  Speaker 2: want you to put the negative into us into a positive.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm broke would be too. I'm getting on the
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  Speaker 2: right track. You bring in money, you can't say I'm broke,
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  Speaker 2: I'm wealthy because your body's going to go no, you're not.
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  Speaker 2: So you have to say something your body is going
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  Speaker 2: to accept. I don't deserve money, Well deserve to me.
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  Speaker 2: Split that up and is to serve. So anybody that
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  Speaker 2: to serves someone deserves money because money's going to come
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  Speaker 2: in when you're serving someone else, either your job, you're
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  Speaker 2: a business, your clients, whatever it might be. So on
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  Speaker 2: the left hand side, when it says I don't deserve money,
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  Speaker 2: on the other side, is I serve others for money.
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  Speaker 2: You trade time for money, you trade your skills, your attributes. Whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Left hand side something negative. I don't know how to
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  Speaker 2: handle money. Right hand side, I am on my way
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  Speaker 2: to learning about handling money. Does that makes sense? It's
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  Speaker 2: something your body can accept. And these are the mantras
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  Speaker 2: I want you to do. On the right hand side,
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  Speaker 2: alls we're doing is shifting our brain cells, y'all. We're
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  Speaker 2: just shifting our old patterns to our new patterns. Now,
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  Speaker 2: does this happen overnight?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 2: This is our money muscle we're growing. So every day
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  Speaker 2: I want you to ride all those things down the right.
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  Speaker 2: I want you to put them on yellow stickies all
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  Speaker 2: around your house, your bathroom, mirror, your car dash, every place,
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  Speaker 2: your refrigerator, every place that you look, your TV, wherever
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  Speaker 2: you're looking. You can make a bunch of mantras and
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  Speaker 2: put it on your screen saver. This is an everyday
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  Speaker 2: money muscle that we're doing. And as soon as you
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  Speaker 2: start not believing it, we've got to go back and
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  Speaker 2: make sure that the statement that we are saying we
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  Speaker 2: absolutely believe it does that make sense. So instead of
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  Speaker 2: saying why can't I hold onto money, We're going to
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  Speaker 2: say how do I feel when I have it? The
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  Speaker 2: real question is stop, breathe, feel then shift. Remind your
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  Speaker 2: body that it's safe. Talk to your body. Talk to
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  Speaker 2: your younger self. My younger self. I call her Star.
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  Speaker 2: She's in a white little negligee, short little hair, little tiny,
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  Speaker 2: itd bitty thing. She looks anorexic, poor little thing. My
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  Speaker 2: little girls just she was very very tiny. But I
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  Speaker 2: love her and I pick her up and I hug
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  Speaker 2: her all the time. I play games with her. She
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  Speaker 2: likes to play cards and games like I spend time
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  Speaker 2: with my little girl because I'm healing her. Right. She
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  Speaker 2: grew up in that alcoholic home and I have to
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  Speaker 2: heal her, and so sometimes I have to make sure
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  Speaker 2: that she's okay so that I can allow more money
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  Speaker 2: to come in, or relationships to come in, or something
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: good to come in. So we're going to remind our
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: body that it's safe, and then we're going to say,
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: wouldn't it be nice if I felt more comfortable holding
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: onto money. I'm starting to feel a little more at
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: ease with this. It is nice that I'm learning how
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: to manage my money. You're building capacity, you're not forcing it,
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: and as your state and emotions change changes, I promise
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: you it does. Every time it's law, you don't rush it,
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: you don't need to react, and you just make clear
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: decisions when you're in the three SE's, the three seeds
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  Speaker 2: or clarity, control, and confidence, because holding onto money isn't
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: about discipline alone. It's about your money muscle growing and
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: that you feeling worthy of wealth. I believe every woman
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  Speaker 2: feeling worthy of wealth will change this world. That is
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  Speaker 2: my mission on this planet. Absolutely, for sure. I want
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: a woman at every decision making table in this country
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: and then the world. And I want all of us
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: women feeling worthy of wealth. Could you imagine what we
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: could accomplish if we actually felt worthy of wealth. We
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: wouldn't have any of those subconscious thoughts bringing us down
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  Speaker 2: all the time. Last thing I'm gonna say, look at
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: your words. Pay attention to negative words. Pay attention to Oh,
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: I'm so stupid, I left my keys. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: I can't belave you do that. Pay attention to the
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: world or your self talk and words to others. Let's
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: try to keep everything in appreciation. I'd love us to
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: become appreciation creators every day, all day long. I appreciate
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  Speaker 2: all you being here and listening to my podcast. I
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: know my voice gets so boring after a while, so
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: I appreciate your time here. I appreciate you trusting me
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: and trying some of these exercises. I appreciate my microphone
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: and my little pink case. Right, I appreciate I appreciate
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: this beautiful day. I appreciate my producer, Rebel, who's doing
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: all this for me. I love this. Let's become appreciation creators,
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: and let's shift our money up to worthy of all
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: the wealth that we can absolutely imagine. It's there, we
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: just have to allow it and receive it. I'm so
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: glad you're all here with me today. Check out another chapter.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: We got another chapter coming up. I want you all
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: to be able to say and walk away and say,
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: I rack my finances.
• 19:57
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• 20:15
  Speaker 3: It's about the F word, feelings, feelings. Jennifer can't wait
• 20:20
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• 20:24
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