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Johnjay and Rich Present: SECOND DATE UPDATE · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: We're getting ready for Second Date Updates. Chris, Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: what's going on with you?
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  Speaker 2: I went on a date with this girl and I
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  Speaker 2: thought we hit it off really well, and now she
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  Speaker 2: ghost to me.
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  Speaker 3: I have no idea what happened.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we'll find out. We'll get her on the phone,
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  Speaker 1: find out why she's blowing you off. Second Date Updates
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  Speaker 1: starts next with John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: Somebody said they saw.
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  Speaker 4: That.
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  Speaker 2: I can say, you gotta do you don't go back
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  Speaker 2: to me.
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  Speaker 4: The next segment we're going to do is called Second
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  Speaker 4: Date Update, because that's what we're going to try and
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  Speaker 4: get and that's what the bit is called.
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  Speaker 1: Second Date Updates starts right now on John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich, it's time for Second Date Update.
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  Speaker 1: You meet somebody you've got on a date, you expect
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  Speaker 1: there to be a second date. There isn't one. You
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  Speaker 1: come to us. That's what Chris is doing. Good morning, Chris,
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  Speaker 1: what's your Sorry?
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  Speaker 5: I'm really certain what.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know? So I met this girl on Facebook dating.
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  Speaker 5: Of all places. I really don't know what's going on. Honestly,
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  Speaker 5: her name's Amani. She's awesome, funny, we went out. She's
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  Speaker 5: a big foodie. I know, we were talking all these
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  Speaker 5: restaurants and stuff, and then you know, I have had
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  Speaker 5: a date went well and we were you know, texting
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  Speaker 5: that forwards and just got less and less frequent as
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  Speaker 5: time went on, and now she just stopped talking to me.
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  Speaker 2: She did the drift like you text right away and
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  Speaker 2: then she starts texting less and less to sort of
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  Speaker 2: fade out. And so it's not like a total ghost.
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  Speaker 6: Is there anything you can think of that would make
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  Speaker 6: her do that other than she just wasn't feeling it.
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  Speaker 5: No, we we ended the date. She hugged me and
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  Speaker 5: kissed from the cheek like I thought it went well,
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  Speaker 5: Like I'm not getting a kiss on the cheek or
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  Speaker 5: she you know, like I don't want to talk this
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  Speaker 5: guy again.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, pretty impersonal, right, I'm would kiss my friend, you know.
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  Speaker 5: You good bye?
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  Speaker 1: Okay. So since then you've texted her and no response.
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  Speaker 1: Is that where it's left.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's pretty much where we're left off.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So what we will do is we will call
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  Speaker 1: it imani and we're gonna find out why she's blowing
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  Speaker 1: you up. How long ago was the most recent connection
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  Speaker 1: with her or contact with her.
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  Speaker 5: It's like a week or two, okay, all right.
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  Speaker 2: Looks back to see exactly what it was.
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  Speaker 1: But a week or two okay, all right, So hang time,
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  Speaker 1: we'll get her on the phone. We're gonna find out
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  Speaker 1: why she's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Second date Update. It continues next with John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich, we're in the middle of second
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  Speaker 1: date update. You got Chris Animani.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Chris Cinemani had a great first date. They met,
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  Speaker 2: they chatted, the conversation seemed like it was going swell.
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  Speaker 2: The date ended with a kiss on the cheek that
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  Speaker 2: might have been the kiss of death. As Imani has
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  Speaker 2: faded into the ether like a phantom. Chris wants to
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  Speaker 2: know what quent from.
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  Speaker 1: So is she maybe what did he say? Not feeling it?
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  Speaker 1: Is that what he says?
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  Speaker 2: That's what I said?
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  Speaker 5: I said?
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  Speaker 6: Is there something else that I mean? Because it seems
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  Speaker 6: to me like she just wasn't feeling it. So she
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  Speaker 6: just kind of stopped talking to him, all.
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  Speaker 5: Right, Chris.
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  Speaker 1: So we're gonna get on the phone. Okay, So you
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  Speaker 1: stay quiet, Okay, all right, so just relax. This could
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  Speaker 1: go horribly wrong.
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  Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, is.
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  Speaker 4: This a moni?
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  Speaker 5: Hi?
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  Speaker 4: My name is Peyton I'm with a John, Jay and
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  Speaker 4: Rich and we just wanted to talk to you on
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  Speaker 4: the radio really really quickly if you have time this morning.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, sure, this won't take long.
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  Speaker 1: But we do a radio show and a lot of
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  Speaker 1: our radio shows about relationships right communication, And we were
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  Speaker 1: talking to a guy that said he went on a
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  Speaker 1: date with a girl. He said he was a great date,
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  Speaker 1: he thought there was something there and now there's nothing
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  Speaker 1: going on between him and the other person. And we're
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  Speaker 1: calling you because you are that other person. So we
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  Speaker 1: kind of wanted your opinion on the date and maybe
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  Speaker 1: why did things fizzle out? Did you not like him?
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  Speaker 1: Did you like him too much? Does that ring a
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  Speaker 1: bell at all? Imani?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I know what you're talking about.
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  Speaker 1: You do?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Who I'm gonna say, I'm gonna count one, two three.
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  Speaker 1: Let's say his name is Sam. One, okay, two three, Chris,
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  Speaker 1: It's Chris, Yes, go ahead, Okay.
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  Speaker 7: Well, I mean, I'll be honest, I haven't really been
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  Speaker 7: getting back to him because I just I don't think
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  Speaker 7: we're going to work long term. And I kind of
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  Speaker 7: knew it pretty quickly after the date, so I don't know,
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  Speaker 7: I just didn't want to like, Okay. When we first matched,
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  Speaker 7: like I looked at this profile and I saw, like,
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  Speaker 7: all these pictures have been traveling, and I thought that
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  Speaker 7: was amazing because I love going on vacation, Like I'm
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  Speaker 7: always down for a trip somewhere you, somewhere warm with
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  Speaker 7: good food and drinks and just relaxing. But when we
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  Speaker 7: actually went on the date and started talking about it more,
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  Speaker 7: I realized we mean two totally different things when we
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  Speaker 7: say travel, Like, this man is not a vacationer. He
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  Speaker 7: is a traveler. I'm talking Antarctica trip hiking through jungles,
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  Speaker 7: backpacking through mountains, waking up at five am to go explore.
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  Speaker 3: Like some remote villa.
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  Speaker 2: Sounds cool, oh sure, But like.
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  Speaker 3: For me when I think, like I want to go
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  Speaker 3: to Hawaii and I want to lay on the beach
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  Speaker 3: and you know.
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  Speaker 7: Drink something fruity, get a massage, eat good food, and
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  Speaker 7: he's talking about like we'll rent a car and drive
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  Speaker 7: around the island and hike volcanoes.
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  Speaker 3: Twelve hours, and I'm just thinking like absolutely not. Like
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  Speaker 3: I respect it.
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  Speaker 7: It's cool that he's sort of adventurous and everything, but
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  Speaker 7: it just sounds exhausting to me, and.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. I just realized pretty quickly our versions
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  Speaker 3: of fun are.
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  Speaker 7: Just not the same, and so I don't learn how
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  Speaker 7: to say that without sounding like a jerk. And now
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  Speaker 7: the texting's just kind of fizzled out.
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  Speaker 3: So you know, here we are.
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  Speaker 6: It's actually really smart that you think of that. My
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  Speaker 6: best friend is in a relationship like that. She's like you,
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  Speaker 6: she wants to sit on the beach, have some cocktails
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  Speaker 6: and relax. Like a vacation to her is her doing nothing,
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  Speaker 6: and her husband is the hike. He wakes up at
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  Speaker 6: five am to go for a hike, and he's go, go,
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  Speaker 6: go the entire time. And she's like, this is a
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  Speaker 6: relaxing vacation. I do not feel reset whatsoever afterwards. And
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  Speaker 6: it is a point of contention. So I kind of
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  Speaker 6: feel like it's smarter of you to realize that before
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  Speaker 6: you get into it.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.
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  Speaker 5: I'm with you.
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  Speaker 2: Chris just laughing.
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  Speaker 3: Wait what is that noise?
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  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, that's just that's hilarious.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, who's laughing?
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  Speaker 5: Oh me? Chris?
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  Speaker 7: Wait, oh god, yeah, that's okay, got off the laugh,
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  Speaker 7: got it?
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  Speaker 3: I remember, I forgot about that laugh Okay?
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I mean I mean good enough.
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  Speaker 7: That's my defining trait.
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  Speaker 3: I knew it's sounding familiar, but I'm like, who in
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  Speaker 3: the world is like cackling like that in the background.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, first off, it's not tackling in the seconds. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: I put this together because I could tell you were
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  Speaker 5: kind of pull it away and I had no idea why.
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  Speaker 6: Uh so you.
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  Speaker 7: Actually called the radio station because you liked me that much?
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  Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I thought that they went great, and then
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  Speaker 5: the textas started getting weird and I was like, well, okay,
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  Speaker 5: what did I do?
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's actually kind of cute. I'm not gonna lie,
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  Speaker 3: but I have.
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  Speaker 5: To say the reason you gave that I traveled too much?
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  Speaker 7: Do you travel too much?
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  Speaker 3: It's the way you.
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  Speaker 5: Traveled because I like to explore.
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  Speaker 3: Chris, you said if we went to Hawaii, we'd wake
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  Speaker 3: up early and hike volcanoes. I go to Hawaii to
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  Speaker 3: sit on the beach with a drink.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, fair, but like there are beaches after the hike.
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  Speaker 3: The hike is what I have a problem with.
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  Speaker 2: Man, this sounds an awful lot like a conversation I've
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  Speaker 2: had with my own wife.
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  Speaker 5: Listen, I'm not against relaxing. I just like to see
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  Speaker 5: stuff too.
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  Speaker 7: I just don't want to be climbing a mountain on vacation.
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  Speaker 3: But honestly, I hang out again.
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  Speaker 2: Though we'll start there.
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  Speaker 5: I love it not on a hike. I'm guessing right,
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  Speaker 5: I'm with her.
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  Speaker 4: I hate hiking, like walking just to walk, like for
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  Speaker 4: no reason, no things. I know the views are probably nice,
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  Speaker 4: but I'm good. I can look on that on Instagram.
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  Speaker 4: But I'm with you too, Kyle, Like I feel like
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  Speaker 4: if you have to, if you feel like you need
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  Speaker 4: a vacation from your vacation when you get home, that
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  Speaker 4: wasn't a vacation.
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  Speaker 1: But there's a happy medium, Like if they became a couple,
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  Speaker 1: you go to Hawaii, she can hang out of the
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  Speaker 1: beach and then he can go explore the foot volcanos,
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  Speaker 1: or you do a little bit of both. I have
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  Speaker 1: this friend that I go hiking with all the time,
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  Speaker 1: and he travels the world and goes hiking, and his
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  Speaker 1: wife doesn't like to do that a lot. So he
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  Speaker 1: will go like a week in advance and do the
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  Speaker 1: hiking stuff, and then she meets him and then they
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  Speaker 1: do all the foodie stuff.
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  Speaker 2: And that's cool. Yeah that could be you guys, find
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  Speaker 2: a way around it.
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  Speaker 1: I like you guys, Oh, do you guys want to
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  Speaker 1: go out again?
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  Speaker 3: It's like to yeah, I'm down, okay, all.
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  Speaker 1: Right, well hold on, we will set you guys up
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  Speaker 1: on a fun Maybe we can send you guys over
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  Speaker 1: to r I to get some hiking boots and go
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  Speaker 1: to one of those climbing go to a climbing as.
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  Speaker 6: Like, maybe maybe a give car to a bar.
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  Speaker 1: That's Second Date update with John Jane Rich