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- 0:00I'm Stephanie.
- 0:00I'm Meredith.
- 0:01And welcome to This is My Circus.
- 0:03I love your glasses.
- 0:05Thank you.
- 0:05You look so adorable.
- 0:07Thanks.
- 0:08I love it.
- 0:08Thanks.
- 0:09Um, I'm to the age where I need them a lot to see things that are really close.
- 0:14I love your whole vibe today.
- 0:15Oh, thank you very much.
- 0:16I've got on just little earthy tones.
- 0:18I love it.
- 0:19You look fabulous.
- 0:20Thank you for, for Monday when, you know, it's just been such a Like, okay, so we're recording on Monday.
- 0:27This will drop tomorrow.
- 0:28So it's yesterday, but you know, that, that whole clump of time from when the kids were out of school to when they, even though we're working, it's just like.
- 0:38Things just don't matter.
- 0:41The days of the week are just all screwed up and morning and night is flipped around.
- 0:46It's like, plus if you're sick.
- 0:48Yes, as I was for like ever.
- 0:51I swear.
- 0:53I actually, I bought a bunch of zinc I did not leave the house.
- 0:58When I tell you, it was like, six days.
- 1:00Like I was, Oh my gosh.
- 1:03Oh my gosh.
- 1:05Well, have you started taking the zinc then?
- 1:06Have you been taking it?
- 1:07It upsets our stomach.
- 1:09I can't, I mean, our plural cause I'm talking about myself like I'm whatever.
- 1:14Um, but yeah, like everybody in my house, we can't take it.
- 1:17It upsets our stomach.
- 1:18So I can tolerate that.
- 1:21and then I was also taking lysine and yeah, that's supposed to be really good.
- 1:24Something else.
- 1:26Vitamin C.
- 1:26Yeah.
- 1:27so.
- 1:28Well, you can get the new China thing or are we glad that you might have already had it?
- 1:34Now you'll be immune from it.
- 1:35We'll see.
- 1:36There's something always new coming out.
- 1:38There is.
- 1:39Yeah.
- 1:40we were talking about this too.
- 1:41Just like, you know, the symptoms are the cough, the runny nose, the sneezing, the headache, the fever.
- 1:46Oh, it's like COVID with a new name.
- 1:48Yeah.
- 1:49Yeah.
- 1:50Well, you know, we'll see.
- 1:52But there's no flu anymore.
- 1:54Yeah, like They got rid of the flu and now we've got 46 billion different strains of COVID.
- 1:59But they test you for the flu every time you go to the doctor, but I don't know if anybody ever has it.
- 2:03I haven't heard anybody have the flu since COVID came.
- 2:06You know, you're, I think you're right.
- 2:09Oh my goodness.
- 2:09If you've had the flu since 2020, let us know.
- 2:12Dying to know.
- 2:14I, I try to avoid the doctor.
- 2:16So even if I had the flu, I wouldn't have known it.
- 2:19Like when I'm sick, like you were, I keep thinking, well, it's either just a cold and it'll or I keep thinking, well, tomorrow will be better tomorrow, be better.
- 2:26And then I'm six days in, I'm like, it's got to get better.
- 2:28Yeah.
- 2:29So, I mean, it's like, and then also there's nothing they can do for that kind of stuff.
- 2:33Well, they give you whatever that flu thing is, which I think is such a flu.
- 2:38Freaking scam.
- 2:39Well, that makes people nauseous okay.
- 2:41So Dylan in elementary school before he got his tonsils out we get sick so much like he was, you know, constantly sick and the one here He had like Flu A, whatever, like, the different letters of the alphabet they were giving him here.
- 2:57And so they gave him the medicine for that.
- 3:00And it wasn't for whatever reason covered under my insurance.
- 3:03It was like a hundred dollars.
- 3:04Are you kidding me?
- 3:05But this kid was so sick.
- 3:07And I'm like, I will pay whatever to, to make him better.
- 3:10He took that thing within two minutes.
- 3:12He threw it all up.
- 3:13And I'm like, well, literally a hundred dollars.
- 3:16Yeah.
- 3:16Yeah.
- 3:17Same with Jackson.
- 3:18And then like a month later, he got like.
- 3:21Flu C or whatever the next strain was and the nurse had asked like, well, did you, we don't ever get the flu shot and she said, did you get in the flu shot?
- 3:30I said, no.
- 3:30And she said, well, this wasn't either of the strains.
- 3:32Anyway.
- 3:34Thanks for checking nurse.
- 3:37Right.
- 3:38Like, so what's the point of the flu shot if it doesn't.
- 3:41So my understanding is, and I am not a doctor.
- 3:45I just play one on TV.
- 3:47Um, is that the flu shot sick medical advice from you over that I have seen in a doctor's office.
- 3:55So, my understanding is that the flu shot, like, basically treats last year string, which I guess, I don't know.
- 4:02I don't want to get into all that they say it's supposed to, I guess, lessen your symptoms and whatever, but the only year, well, I got the flu twice.
- 4:10So the first time was the year I got the flu shot and I got the flu horribly that year.
- 4:14Yeah.
- 4:15And that was the last time I ever got the flu shot.
- 4:16Yeah.
- 4:17Same.
- 4:17and then I got the flu because I was with Dylan.
- 4:21Yeah.
- 4:21Taking care of him.
- 4:22And we were both on the couch, dying for three days.
- 4:25Yeah.
- 4:25When I used to work, in the doctor's office, we had to.
- 4:29Take the flu shot.
- 4:30Yeah.
- 4:30And, gosh, that was like 25 years ago.
- 4:34Oh, my God.
- 4:35Anyway, I got really super sick and I was like, I guess I've got the flu for the time.
- 4:40I've declined it if I could.
- 4:43After that.
- 4:43Yeah.
- 4:44No, thank you.
- 4:45Yeah.
- 4:47I'm good.
- 4:47Thanks.
- 4:48I'm good.
- 4:48Thanks.
- 4:49you see, I got Rex's.
- 4:50Is this a play pen?
- 4:52Well, so when I have to travel.
- 4:54A lot of the places they have to be crate trained and he's never been in a crate ever in his life.
- 4:58Yeah.
- 4:59Well, I mean, I don't know prior to us, but since I've had him and so I wanted to start get him getting used to it.
- 5:04So I put his bed in that he lays on all the time.
- 5:06Yes.
- 5:07No, he doesn't go in there now.
- 5:09Be like, if I go in there with him, because the thing is so big, it is huge that him and I can both get in there and lay in there comfortably.
- 5:17If I go in there with him, he'll lay in there.
- 5:19Until I get out.
- 5:22It's got a sunroof and everything.
- 5:23Yeah, so Dylan goes, Mom, it's bigger than some apartments in New York.
- 5:27It is.
- 5:28Have you, have you ever seen some of those house tours they do for apartment tours in New York?
- 5:32It's crazy.
- 5:33And they tell you what their rent is.
- 5:35Oh! Um, so you've got somewhere for him to go?
- 5:38I actually, I just interviewed this girl yesterday, and I like Good vibes?
- 5:43Oh my gosh.
- 5:44Good.
- 5:44Awesome.
- 5:45Good.
- 5:45So, we, I think we found our person.
- 5:47Good.
- 5:48And then she only keeps, one family dog at a time.
- 5:51Okay.
- 5:52He immediately, I mean, he's like most people.
- 5:55Yeah, I'm not really seen a bad reaction or anybody, but he would know.
- 5:59No, I'm special.
- 6:01Mine and his relationship is unlike any other, but he liked her.
- 6:05Yeah.
- 6:06And she's like, he is so good.
- 6:07He is the best boy.
- 6:08He is so chill.
- 6:09He is sounds a good boy.
- 6:11I think we found our person I'm so good.
- 6:14She has like a whole separate room just for like dogs staying over works at a vet.
- 6:18Oh.
- 6:19part-time.
- 6:19So she knows how to, so she, I told, went over separation anxiety.
- 6:22She's like, I, I've done it before.
- 6:24You're good.
- 6:24Yeah.
- 6:25I promise I'll send you videos or pictures, whatever you want.
- 6:28So I think, is she close by?
- 6:30Um, in York.
- 6:31Okay.
- 6:31So like 20 minutes.
- 6:32Yeah.
- 6:32That's not bad.
- 6:33I am going to need her to give them back though.
- 6:37I, I don't trust a lot of people with him.
- 6:41It's not my dog.
- 6:43But yeah, good.
- 6:44You got any trip coming up then?
- 6:46At the end of the month.
- 6:47Nice.
- 6:47Jackson plays Australia in basketball this week.
- 6:50They come to, The U.
- 6:52S.
- 6:52I guess like every couple of years or something.
- 6:54Oh my god You're gonna like be dying listening to that.
- 6:56I'm gonna sit with them Can I just sit on your bench with you guys I I know I would be like have you ever seen a real kangaroo?
- 7:07Oh my gosh.
- 7:07Yeah.
- 7:08Oh my god I would be asking all the like weird animal I think I want to and I want to ask him.
- 7:13What's a wallaby?
- 7:15You can do like a Tell me when we'll interview people Okay, it's third the real accents Are you saying mine is not?
- 7:24I've done nothing but get offended today.
- 7:27I'm pretty sure it's Thursday.
- 7:28I'll let you know.
- 7:29Yeah, I can't wait though.
- 7:31Gosh.
- 7:31I'm totally just to hear the coaches yell get back on defense.
- 7:36I don't even know how to help.
- 7:37No, no, all of my accents on the same.
- 7:41But anyway, well, speaking of, foreign, yeah, I was scrolling, you know, all time doing your thing.
- 7:48Yeah.
- 7:49Well, I was dying in bed sick and in Peru.
- 7:54Mm-hmm Did you hear about this, the jug bust?
- 7:56No.
- 7:56Okay.
- 7:57So.
- 7:58Okay picture yourself as a as a drug dealer in your drug house or wherever you stash your stuff and The door busts open okay, and The head of the raid is dressed like the Grinch.
- 8:14Oh my god The police officer dressed like the Grinch in the full Grinch costume You hear?
- 8:19Full Grinch uniform busted in the door.
- 8:22Totally Grinched out or Grinch with a police uniform on top of it.
- 8:25So in the Santa Grinch suit.
- 8:28And all he had was like his little like police badge on the front.
- 8:33Oh my gosh.
- 8:35And so the article that I read said, undercover police officer wearing a Grinch costume has carried out a drug raid in Lima, Peru.
- 8:44Video distributed by the National Police Agency shows officers smashing a door in before entering a house.
- 8:51Three people were arrested.
- 8:52Several small packets of cocaine were found during the raid.
- 8:54But this is the best part.
- 8:56This isn't the first time they dressed up for a drug raid because for Valentine's Day last year, he dressed up like a big teddy bear when they raided the house.
- 9:05This officer has the best sense of humor.
- 9:08Imagine.
- 9:08No.
- 9:09Just seeing this big green Grinch.
- 9:11No.
- 9:12Busting your door.
- 9:12Busting through your door.
- 9:14I love it.
- 9:14No.
- 9:15I think that is amazing.
- 9:17Me too.
- 9:19Like, that's okay, I guess.
- 9:21It doesn't matter.
- 9:22I don't care.
- 9:24I don't care.
- 9:24Undercover?
- 9:25Yeah.
- 9:26Nobody could identify him.
- 9:28Oh my gosh, that is pretty amazing.
- 9:30That was awesome.
- 9:32And he's done it before.
- 9:33Oh my gosh.
- 9:34That's hilarious.
- 9:35Yeah.
- 9:36I don't know what I would do.
- 9:37You know, I find it hard to take people serious when they're dressed up.
- 9:41Like when we did our Halloween thing and I kept looking like I would see you, you know what I'm saying?
- 9:47when I worked in the doctor's office, everybody would dress up and I just found it like so difficult to be professional and charge people for an eye exam when I'm dressed like a lady bug.
- 9:56Like it just is so hard for me.
- 10:01But I love, I love seeing it.
- 10:02Yeah.
- 10:03I just, I wanted to see the dude's face.
- 10:07Yes.
- 10:08I want to see it.
- 10:09Like, I wish that the dude, yeah, exactly.
- 10:12Exactly.
- 10:13But I want both perspectives.
- 10:14I want the Grinch's perspective and I want the perspective of him when he walks in or whatever the Grinch says.
- 10:22What's he say?
- 10:25My french accent is not good either.
- 10:26Well, you know, we'll work on that.
- 10:28Yeah We've got some time.
- 10:31that is great though.
- 10:32That is great.
- 10:33So i'm speaking of grinchy Yes This time of year stores do a lot have a lot of returns and oh, yeah service is they they get put through the ringer Oh, yeah, and people are just not kind anymore Oh, and I found this article and it had When businesses clap back at bad reviews.
- 10:54Okay, so would you like to read a couple of these?
- 10:57Oh my god I was dying.
- 10:59This would probably be great.
- 11:01Yeah.
- 11:01and having worked in customer service, especially around the holidays.
- 11:05And owning a business, like I totally get it.
- 11:07Well, so my sister and I were looking for a house to rent for my nephew's upcoming wedding and looking on like VRBO and Airbnb and reading the reviews.
- 11:16And once, you know, people leave less than the five stars and they comment that something was broken.
- 11:21And then the home owner says, Yeah, that would be me too.
- 11:27I couldn't just let it go.
- 11:29I could not let it go.
- 11:31Yeah.
- 11:31Okay.
- 11:32All right.
- 11:32So.
- 11:34This is on ranker.
- 11:35com and they have got all sorts.
- 11:37I've never seen this website before, but like I was on this website for hours.
- 11:43It's just got so much.
- 11:45There's just so much.
- 11:46It's like there was one article and it was like, past presidents you would want to go on a bender with, and it was like ranked and why they would want to go on benders with them.
- 11:56That's hilarious.
- 11:57Amazing.
- 11:58That's hilarious.
- 11:59Who do you want to go on a bender with?
- 12:01I mean, I don't know that much about them, but like Kennedy would have probably been fun.
- 12:05Yeah.
- 12:05And I think that, Bill Clinton would have been fun.
- 12:10You'd end up at a strip club.
- 12:11Probably, probably, probably, but I mean, again, fun.
- 12:16Yeah.
- 12:17Yeah.
- 12:18How about you?
- 12:19I think Kennedy for sure.
- 12:21I think it would be like I think once he got drunk and he'd like loosen up.
- 12:25and then Nixon, I think.
- 12:27Oh yeah.
- 12:28He would be.
- 12:30Yeah.
- 12:30I bet some of those, because like.
- 12:32He is kind of like criminally.
- 12:34Uh huh.
- 12:35Uh huh.
- 12:35I bet some of those like before Kennedy's time, like before then.
- 12:40I don't, yeah, I just don't know any.
- 12:41I don't know a lot of them either.
- 12:43I think Abe Lincoln would not be fun.
- 12:44He would not be fun.
- 12:45Nobody invited him to parties.
- 12:48He was not fun.
- 12:50He was not fun.
- 12:50Yeah, I'd go on Kennedy, Nixon.
- 12:53Yeah, those are good ones.
- 12:54And Bill.
- 12:55Hi, Bill.
- 12:56But, but his wife would not be invited to the party.
- 12:59No, definitely not.
- 13:01Okay, so the first bad review.
- 13:03And I think this is for some kind of like animal place.
- 13:05Okay.
- 13:05They took out the names of the businesses and the names of the reviewers.
- 13:08Yeah.
- 13:09Yeah.
- 13:09So this is a one star.
- 13:11Horrible, unprofessional staff, no uniforms, not family friendly, poor care for the animals, and lack of passion for the animals.
- 13:19Go anywhere else.
- 13:21And the response from the owner.
- 13:23Hello, name retracted.
- 13:26I'm sorry you felt that way.
- 13:27We take great pride in our facility and love our dogs.
- 13:30We do good things in our community.
- 13:32Every staff member at our facility had a dog warden shirt on.
- 13:35If they did not, they were volunteers trying to help out.
- 13:38If you'd like to talk more about what really happened, like you accidentally letting your foster dog loose in our parking lot, Not helping get him back to safety, us running around in the pouring rain to make sure he was safe, then saying the dog was untrainable and leaving him at our facility.
- 13:55I'd be happy to talk about it.
- 13:56I can also send you the video and audio if you'd like, in case you forgot what really happened.
- 14:01Thank you.
- 14:01Have a great day.
- 14:04Burn.
- 14:08Burn.
- 14:09I love when there's video.
- 14:10I don't know, like there's no room for debate.
- 14:14No, that's that's period.
- 14:16Yes.
- 14:18Yeah.
- 14:19Okay.
- 14:19Can I redo this one?
- 14:20Okay.
- 14:20So this one has two stars.
- 14:21It's called shame on you.
- 14:23I love the food here, but not tonight.
- 14:25I've had awesome asparagus until tonight.
- 14:28It was out of date asparagus told manager and he argued with me.
- 14:32Who does that?
- 14:32I'm a manager at a hair salon.
- 14:34Customer's always right.
- 14:35No matter what response from the owner, our asparagus has brought in fresh daily.
- 14:41You know, the food was excellent.
- 14:43You wrote this because you were caught walking your tab, literally.
- 14:47Snuck out the back door without paying your bill or your server.
- 14:52Shame on you.
- 14:54How dare you try to do that and then leave a bad review?
- 14:58Yeah.
- 15:00Oh my gosh.
- 15:03People suck.
- 15:04Yeah.
- 15:05But I love it.
- 15:05I love the clapbacks.
- 15:07I love it.
- 15:08I mean, how, like you've already tried to get away with free food and now you're just, oh, okay.
- 15:12Okay, next.
- 15:13Okay.
- 15:13this one is a one star and it says, we've been getting the runaround for over two weeks, again and again, rudely giving us no information as to why they weren't able to give us the gun that we already paid for.
- 15:26Ben today called my mother and very rudely told her that she absolutely was not getting to get the gun and it couldn't possibly be for her.
- 15:34Why?
- 15:35Because she's older than a woman.
- 15:38Response from the owner.
- 15:40Your mom isn't giving you the whole story It appears she's buying guns for her sons who according to online court records has a felony conviction Oh, that's super legal For both of them.
- 15:52We weren't going to post anything publicly about this.
- 15:55But well, here we are.
- 15:57Oh, yes Here we are.
- 16:00Welcome to the party.
- 16:01Oh my god Oh, okay.
- 16:05Something isn't adding up.
- 16:06This is a one star.
- 16:07Burritos reminded me of Taco Bell in USA.
- 16:10Completely.
- 16:11Whoa, they're smashing Taco Bell.
- 16:13I can't do this.
- 16:14Okay.
- 16:15Completely plastered in sauce.
- 16:17Self service or no service.
- 16:18Ridiculous high price for cafeteria food.
- 16:21Beer was the best.
- 16:22Their own milk alert.
- 16:24Can beer therefore one star otherwise no stars to them no stars Okay response from the owner.
- 16:31We cannot take this review seriously since we do not serve burritos That is awesome Okay, one star the staff is super rude never again and the response from the owner.
- 16:50Hi, we have not been open to the public since before the pandemic.
- 16:54So I am not sure how anyone could have been rude to you.
- 16:58They're rude.
- 16:59Cause they weren't there.
- 17:01That is crazy.
- 17:03Oh my gosh.
- 17:04This one looks like a lengthy one.
- 17:06Yeah.
- 17:06We ready?
- 17:07Yeah, we're ready.
- 17:07All right.
- 17:09Melissa deserves better neighbors.
- 17:11One star.
- 17:12Your associate, Melissa, is absolutely rude and would never step foot in this place with how she represents herself both in and outside of work.
- 17:20Sounds like they know Melissa outside of work.
- 17:22I think so.
- 17:23Okay.
- 17:24response from the owner.
- 17:26This person is not in our computer system and has never been a member of our gym and therefore cannot speak for how our employees represent themselves inside of work.
- 17:34This person is a neighbor of our associate Melissa and has a personal vendetta against her.
- 17:40She's attempting to negatively impact her employment status by harassing her online while harming a company's reputation that she has never been to.
- 17:49Melissa continues to be an excellent employee and has done great things for our company.
- 17:53Oh my goodness.
- 17:55You've seen those things.
- 17:56It's kind of the opposite of that where like somebody says something on social media about Jeff and they're like, Jeff's trying to find this girl or dah, dah, dah.
- 18:05And then people start responding.
- 18:06I know Jeff, he saved me from drowning one time.
- 18:09Or I know Jeff, he loaned me 18 million when I needed it most.
- 18:14Or, you know, those are hilarious to me.
- 18:18I love when, um, the police department posts the wanted pictures and then all the comments especially when the person that's wanted comments in the comments section.
- 18:26Oh, yes.
- 18:27Pure gold.
- 18:28That, I just.
- 18:29Don't understand why they I mean, I guess they want to defend themselves.
- 18:33But yeah, it just cracks me up Yes, 100 percent I'm with you and the one dude was like, yeah, he's a real bad guy and it's him Like his mugshot is basically the exact same as this profile picture.
- 18:48Yeah we got another one.
- 18:49This one is a one star.
- 18:51Yep.
- 18:52The lady was rude when I called back.
- 18:56And the response from the owner, when you apply for a position and you don't show up to the interview the first time because you are busy, then give another chance and not show up for two more times.
- 19:06You should at least not complain when we tell you good luck.
- 19:09Leaving a review as a customer, but it's really because you didn't get the job.
- 19:14I am speechless.
- 19:15If they would have put as much energy into going to the interview as they did for leaving the review.
- 19:22That's the kind of stuff that blows my mind.
- 19:24Yeah.
- 19:24Okay.
- 19:25Exposed.
- 19:26One star.
- 19:27My wife and I have gotten chicken cheesesteaks from here three times.
- 19:31Every time my wife and I both had upset stomachs after eating the food, would not recommend buying food.
- 19:38Tried Maryland crab soup, it was all broth, no crab meat.
- 19:42None of that sounds good.
- 19:43No, if you do a cheesesteak, it's gotta be a cheesesteak.
- 19:46Okay, so the response from the owner, this first sentence got me.
- 19:53We are sorry we had to call the police because you had hit one of our employees cars parked outside while driving under the influence and not telling us and running away.
- 20:02Also, if the chicken cheesesteak gave you an upset stomach, why would you order it again two more times?
- 20:07This is not the place to take out your frustration on something non related to the business.
- 20:12Your name is the same as it is on the police report.
- 20:16Oh, gosh, they're idiots.
- 20:21Yes.
- 20:22Yes.
- 20:22Like, why wouldn't you change your name for your review?
- 20:25People are stupid.
- 20:27Yeah.
- 20:28When you're the problem is the name of this one.
- 20:31It's a one star review.
- 20:33I received an uneven and problematic haircut here.
- 20:35I'd say go to a place that will be sure to do an even job and seem to care more about their work.
- 20:41I'm disappointed and unhappy with this haircut.
- 20:44Business response.
- 20:46Hi, Megan.
- 20:47Like we talked about before, we are so sorry that you're unhappy with your experience.
- 20:50I think you should mention that you cut your own hair before you came in and we did the best that we could with what we had to work with to help you grow it out although we weren't able to make you love your hair.
- 21:01We always take pride in our work and we felt we did the best we could.
- 21:05given the situation.
- 21:06That's tough.
- 21:07That's really tough.
- 21:08When you go to a hair salon and your hair has been butchered, they're just doing the best they can.
- 21:13Yeah.
- 21:14Yeah.
- 21:14Yeah.
- 21:15Um, let's do one more.
- 21:18Okay.
- 21:18Yep.
- 21:19One more.
- 21:19Okay.
- 21:19Hmm.
- 21:21One star, very bad quality, non expensive with garbage taste.
- 21:25They don't even know how to make pink tea.
- 21:27I'm very disappointed.
- 21:29I'm very disappointed with their lack of punctuation.
- 21:33Okay.
- 21:33Thanks.
- 21:34We appreciate your feedback and I'm Upset with their use of your with an apostrophe.
- 21:39Okay.
- 21:39Sorry focus.
- 21:40Thanks.
- 21:40We appreciate your feedback Gandu we've been closed for over a month.
- 21:44So we don't know where you got your not These people I swear have you ever left a bad review like a public review?
- 21:54Yes.
- 21:55So am I But I was like really really mad and it wasn't a legit bad book and it was yeah It wasn't like a heat of the moment.
- 22:03Let me let me it was like i've cooled down But I still need to have the last word probably the kind of thing.
- 22:09Yeah.
- 22:10Um, i've left a bad.
- 22:12Oh, this is terrible I can't believe I'm gonna do this You know, have you ever been on glassdoor?
- 22:17So, you know, it's a where employers are ranked.
- 22:20I've left a bad review for an employer Mm hmm Was it like a skating review?
- 22:25It wasn't.
- 22:26It was just like, I gave them my heart and soul for eight years and then they just let me go with barely any severance.
- 22:34I mean, it was totally first world problems, right?
- 22:35But it was just, it needed to be said.
- 22:38Yeah.
- 22:39Well, mine was very recent.
- 22:41Oh, what was the experience?
- 22:42I ordered, you know, like hydrogen water is like the new big thing right now for like health or whatever.
- 22:48And over a black Friday weekend had ordered.
- 22:52it was a pitcher and had two water bottles and like some extra stuff.
- 22:55And it was their Black Friday deal.
- 22:57TikTok shop?
- 22:58No, it was like on a regular website.
- 23:00A real place.
- 23:00Yeah.
- 23:02So I got the deal and it said express shipping, you know, two, three day shipping or whatever.
- 23:07Cool.
- 23:08Order it, a week goes by, nothing.
- 23:09They don't get the notification, nothing.
- 23:12And it's a Shopify app and so, we have a Shopify store as well, so I know how Shopify works.
- 23:18So I email customer service and I'm like, hey, um, do you know when this is going to ship?
- 23:21It's a Christmas present, you know, ordered it, Black Friday, has not come.
- 23:26Get the, Stupid response of, Oh, we're working so hard to get all of the orders out.
- 23:31Da, da, da, da, da.
- 23:31And I'm like, well, can you please give me a date?
- 23:33Like this is for Christmas.
- 23:35you know, the exact same response, like it was like an automated, whatever.
- 23:39Right.
- 23:40So then I'm, then I'm mad.
- 23:42Right, right.
- 23:42Then they have opened up.
- 23:44So then I keep emailing until I get an actual person to respond.
- 23:49And this person is like, well, didn't realize how quickly all of our bundles were.
- 23:53And we've, they wouldn't say they oversold, but they oversold.
- 23:56They didn't have any products to ship.
- 23:58And we assure you that your, your order is being worked on in the warehouse.
- 24:03And so.
- 24:04I was like, listen, I have a Shopify store too.
- 24:07So you had the sell went out of stock button checked off.
- 24:10Yeah they're like, oh, well, we'll give you a free whatever right for your water.
- 24:15I'm like, I don't want a free sleep I just want the things I ordered right and So email them a couple days later You said this is in the warehouse being worked on.
- 24:24There's no shipment.
- 24:25No tracking number.
- 24:26No, nothing, right?
- 24:26They wouldn't cancel the order, they wouldn't refund me my money, and so I put in a thing with my credit card, so then I go on I chair.
- 24:33Right?
- 24:33Right.
- 24:33Like you can't leave anything on their website.
- 24:36They have however many five star reviews on their website.
- 24:39Right.
- 24:39You can't leave a Uhhuh a review on it.
- 24:42I went to the Better Business Bureau website.
- 24:45I went to trust whatever trust score or whatever.
- 24:47Yeah.
- 24:48Cause they have on their website that they have like a 4.
- 24:515 star review with Trust Pilot.
- 24:53Trust Pilot.
- 24:54Yeah.
- 24:54well on Trust Pilot, it's now like a 3.
- 24:572 because so many people ordered during Black Friday and have not gotten their stuff.
- 25:04So I went to every review website you could go to and left a review.
- 25:07And then I keep getting their Facebook ads.
- 25:09Yeah.
- 25:10Yeah.
- 25:10Yeah.
- 25:10And so on every Facebook ad, I was like, right, right.
- 25:13They blocked me on Facebook.
- 25:18I've seen those a lot.
- 25:19So, yeah, all the, all the ads on Facebook and it just shows up in your feed and then you start clicking on the reviews and they're like, you have your handful of people that are like, I just got mine.
- 25:28It's great.
- 25:28And everybody else is like, hadn't received mine.
- 25:31This company is trashed.
- 25:32I always trust their abuse.
- 25:34So did you ever get your product?
- 25:36No, Did you get your money back on your card?
- 25:38They do the initial refund, and then the company can try to fight it, but I haven't gotten the product, and And they blocked you on Facebook.
- 25:46And they stopped responding to any of my emails, but then I was sending like a daily email just because I had, I was sick and I had nothing else to do.
- 25:52And I'm like, your company's trash.
- 25:53Hey, here's your daily reminder that your company is trash.
- 25:56Oh my gosh.
- 26:01That is funny.
- 26:01Yeah.
- 26:02That is funny.
- 26:03But, and then I also did report them to Shopify as well.
- 26:07Oh, you, you just went everywhere.
- 26:10Like you had a month to ship that thing out.
- 26:14A whole month.
- 26:15Even if you were getting it from China, it could have gotten here faster.
- 26:18Well, and even if they would have said, look, we have our salt.
- 26:21Yeah, no.
- 26:22Sorry, it's going to be six weeks.
- 26:23Do you still want us to refund you?
- 26:24Nope.
- 26:26We can't refund your order.
- 26:28But we assure you, it'll be worth the wait.
- 26:30It is not worth the wait.
- 26:31It is not.
- 26:32I could have ordered from three other companies.
- 26:34Right?
- 26:35From China.
- 26:35I could have gone to China and bought it from China and brought it back.
- 26:39And beat.
- 26:39And beat.
- 26:40Yours here.
- 26:42Oh my gosh.
- 26:43That was my reason.
- 26:44Oh my gosh.
- 26:46some celebrity stuff.
- 26:48Yeah.
- 26:48Did you see that Brad and Angelina's divorce is finally final eight years later?
- 26:53I did see it, but I didn't like read it.
- 26:55I didn't dig into it just because I don't really like a lot of legal stuff, but I was just like, Finally, I didn't realize it was not final yet.
- 27:04I assumed it was, I feel like, right.
- 27:06I feel like their kids are all almost grown now except for like the one who's like 16 or whatever.
- 27:13Like, that's just crazy to me that it took that long.
- 27:16I guess they were arguing over money and stuff is what I'm figuring and all that, but rich people problems, rich people problems.
- 27:25I got no idea what that's like.
- 27:29I've got no idea what that's like.
- 27:31yeah, I thought that was crazy that it took that like you said, I thought that was already done.
- 27:37Yeah.
- 27:38Did you see that?
- 27:39big gene, which was puppies old bodyguard just did an interview.
- 27:43Oh, no, it's another it's a podcast.
- 27:47I'd be recommend.
- 27:48It's like an hour and 45 minutes.
- 27:49So I listened to the whole thing and I just took the cliff notes for pod.
- 27:54and it was on, let's see, anything goes with James English.
- 27:58He is from Scotland and he's got the Scottish accent.
- 28:02Right up your alley.
- 28:02Okay.
- 28:03The whole time.
- 28:04How was he involved with interviewing Big Gene?
- 28:07He interviews a lot of people.
- 28:08It's like a kind of like a Joe Rogan style podcast.
- 28:11But he was in New York.
- 28:13I guess he traveled to New York.
- 28:14I mean, I guess people outside the U.
- 28:15S.
- 28:16can care about all that stuff.
- 28:17That's fine.
- 28:18Well, they were in like, just like a random hotel room.
- 28:20Yeah.
- 28:21Like doing the interview, you know, like it was like, they say those are so awkward.
- 28:24Like the, you know, the table and just like a random hotel.
- 28:27Right.
- 28:27Exactly.
- 28:28Or just like sit on the bed and chat like, and he's a big dude.
- 28:32Like, well, his name is Big G so what are the highlights?
- 28:35Okay, so what actually got me looking I didn't realize that this podcast was even out there and it just aired like three days ago.
- 28:42Okay.
- 28:42But, I saw something about people are now looking at Ashton Kutcher Mm-hmm And then.
- 28:49He was also involved in that murder.
- 28:50back in like 2001 where he was supposed to go on a date, saw the girl was dead through the window and just dipped, never called the cops, nothing.
- 28:58He saw her like stabbed on the ground.
- 29:01I forgot about that.
- 29:03Like I had totally forgotten about that.
- 29:04and then he started the trafficking foundation foundation for the, yeah.
- 29:10And now they're speculating that.
- 29:12Some of those kids from that foundation possibly were people that he was trafficking.
- 29:17So, basically, he might have had a foundation to support the thing that the foundation was supposed to be.
- 29:24Yes.
- 29:24So Big G just put a new book out.
- 29:26Okay.
- 29:27So I think that was part of promoting his book or whatever.
- 29:30and.
- 29:31It is my world of bodyguarding a hip hop star the last big night.
- 29:37That's the name of the book so He says in his book, he does go big into the night Vicky died.
- 29:43Okay.
- 29:43And he said he carried around a lot of guilt, with that night.
- 29:47another person that was involved in that evening, um, also just made a statement saying that he tried to get Biggie not to go to this after party.
- 29:56and Biggie, like there was no stopping him.
- 29:58And so he said that that lifted a lot of his guilt that he was feeling.
- 30:03But All right, some bombs are dropping.
- 30:05Okay, I'm ready, I'm ready, I'm ready.
- 30:07So, Puffy's mom was supposedly, there was like rumors that she was like a hooker or prostitute back in the day, but Gene says that she was not because he has like some contacts from like back in the day, like the old school, and she was actually a madam.
- 30:25She was not doing the things.
- 30:27She was sending the girls out to do the things.
- 30:29Oh.
- 30:31Yeah, so she was a madam.
- 30:32Okay.
- 30:33He says that the, the government has known all about everything going on since before 2011 with Puffy.
- 30:40Oh, that they had arrested somebody that was in the industry, and said that, was trying to get him to flip on puffy.
- 30:48I mean, they've known all of this.
- 30:48They, they laid it out for the dude said that if you give us what we need, we'll let you go.
- 30:54I guess you didn't do it because he valued his life.
- 30:58but they've known all about everything this entire time.
- 31:01And all of these people that have gotten, you know, Traumatized and killed since.
- 31:07Oh, my gosh.
- 31:08But yeah, yeah.
- 31:09He says the government's known this entire time.
- 31:11FBI has files and files and files on him for years.
- 31:15I mean, like starting back in like 13, 14 years ago.
- 31:18More than that.
- 31:19He says.
- 31:20Yeah.
- 31:21That was just when the one dude got interviewed, but like they, Oh, this has been known for a long time.
- 31:27Okay.
- 31:27Let's see, he said someone got sick of puppies antics and that's why this is all going down.
- 31:34That was going to be my question.
- 31:35Like, if they've had this information.
- 31:37Wow.
- 31:38All of a sudden.
- 31:38So somebody got sick of it.
- 31:40Somebody, one of his higher up puppies higher ups.
- 31:42Okay.
- 31:43is like, just sick of dealing with him because.
- 31:46I mean, that's a lot.
- 31:47Yeah.
- 31:48and that's why this is all gone down.
- 31:50supposedly a lot of the tapes, evidence, whatever, that was confiscated is not there anymore.
- 31:59So, I'm assuming one of the higher ups of Puffy paid off the FBI, whomever, to get the, the stuff that they needed back.
- 32:09Oh, my gosh.
- 32:11but you know, it would implicate them.
- 32:13Right, right.
- 32:14so Ashton Kutcher.
- 32:16Yes.
- 32:17He was asking like, what was, there's something off about him because of, you know, all these things.
- 32:22Well, connecting him with Danny Masterson, who is in jail.
- 32:26I was a co star on that 70s show.
- 32:28The redheaded dude.
- 32:29Yeah.
- 32:29The curly hair.
- 32:30Yeah.
- 32:31So he actually, when that murder happened in 2001, he called Danny Masterson freaking out.
- 32:38I guess.
- 32:39during Masterson's trial for sexual assault.
- 32:43One of the victims, that was testifying said that she was there when Ashton called Danny when they found her and they had like, they made this plan cause they didn't want to tarnish his whatever.
- 32:56Yeah.
- 32:56Almost a career good boy kind of.
- 32:59Yeah.
- 32:59and he left the scene of the crime and called Danny So Danny handled it.
- 33:06I don't call him, you know, just leave.
- 33:09Do not mention this to anybody.
- 33:11oh, my gosh.
- 33:12Yeah.
- 33:13So, wow.
- 33:15Yeah, Oh, Brittany Murphy.
- 33:17So, oh, yeah, I love Brittany.
- 33:19Oh my god Yeah, absolutely adored her as an actress.
- 33:23Yeah, the homie.
- 33:24Yeah I loved all of her movies.
- 33:26Yes So he Ashton was cheating on Demi Moore with Brittany Murphy.
- 33:31Okay, and Kept getting caught by paparazzi Okay, so Jean said that he was at a basketball game or somewhere, um mm-hmm And Ashton was saying this to Puffy and Puffy's like, well, it's either her, the doorman or your security that's tipping off paparazzi.
- 33:49Mm-hmm And shortly after that, she died of the same exact thing as Kim Porter.
- 33:55Oh my gosh.
- 33:56So, that's when Ashton and, and Puffy were super tight.
- 34:00Oh my gosh.
- 34:01Yeah.
- 34:02That is crazy.
- 34:04Yeah.
- 34:05Ashton was also somehow intertwined with Abercrombie and Fitch.
- 34:09He modeled for them.
- 34:10but that dude just got arrested not too long ago.
- 34:13Yes.
- 34:13For the human trafficking.
- 34:14Yep.
- 34:16So, speculating.
- 34:18So we know that Brittany's husband died too, not long after, maybe a year after Brittany of the same thing, supposedly.
- 34:28So, maybe he knew we don't know.
- 34:32Okay.
- 34:33Just another weird.
- 34:34Yeah.
- 34:35Yeah.
- 34:36So.
- 34:37Now he was doing that child protection agency, whatever, which.
- 34:42Is now being looked at to see if it's starting or if, you know, they were handing off kids or oh, my gosh.
- 34:51Yes, there was also, a leaked interview, or a lost interview, however you want to say it, of Aaron Carter.
- 35:00Okay.
- 35:01Saying that he went to a Diddy party when he was 15 and he had had to stay there and he was, had to stay in Puffy's room and was basically told this is how things go, this is how you do your career.
- 35:13And said bad things happen to him.
- 35:15He didn't go into detail.
- 35:16Mm-hmm We can assume.
- 35:17Right.
- 35:18and that was a big turning point for him in his downfall.
- 35:24Mm-hmm Oh, yeah.
- 35:28Gene said that this, this whole system of control and how they're controlling people with these videos and, and making them do things that normally wouldn't do.
- 35:37is all learned.
- 35:39He believes that this all happened to Puff and that's why he is just continuing the cycle.
- 35:44Yeah.
- 35:45No excuse.
- 35:46No, no, no, no, no.
- 35:48oh this one, what the F.
- 35:52Gene said that Puff used to talk about bringing down Jay Z and using Ja Rule to do it.
- 35:57Now Ja Rule, like, Like why Ja Rule would be your choice to try to bring down Jay Z?
- 36:03Blows my mind because 50 Cent destroyed him.
- 36:07Right, like what's Ja gonna do?
- 36:11But Puff was then playing to Jay, he was playing both sides.
- 36:13But he wanted to take down Jay Z.
- 36:15Of course he was more powerful than him.
- 36:18he was talking about the tunnels and these tunnels have been there forever.
- 36:21This isn't just something new that's going on.
- 36:23this has been going on for a very long time.
- 36:27Yeah.
- 36:27And he doesn't understand why people are so surprised by the tunnels.
- 36:32Because we don't have tunnels in regular people houses.
- 36:35Puff.
- 36:37Um, let's see.
- 36:39So Jonathan Odie.
- 36:42Told the feds five to seven years ago that he was doing the freak off parties and he contracted STDs Was paid millions of dollars to stay quiet He said that the liquid like the baby oil was liquid cocoa and that's cocaine I'm assuming it's what they were referring to.
- 37:01Okay, and that that's how it was being brought in that was how it was being shipped to Rick Ross.
- 37:09He said his breaking point, being Diddy's bodyguard was when Diddy started saying that if Dan and D'Kane didn't quit giving him problems, he was going to drug them up and then pimp the girls out to his Ninjas, but the other word.
- 37:25Oh my gosh.
- 37:27Yes.
- 37:28And the last bite that I got from it was that Jennifer Lopez's mother hated Puffy.
- 37:34He kept trying to like buy her gifts and buy her stuff and she kept returning everything.
- 37:37She wanted nothing to do with this man.
- 37:40Good for her.
- 37:41She knew.
- 37:42Yeah.
- 37:42Oh my gosh That Brittany Murphy thing is in just another Like you said, dying like Kim Porter and Kim Porter had said, everybody's dying.
- 37:51Pneumonia.
- 37:52Yeah.
- 37:53crazy.
- 37:54Super crazy.
- 37:58Yeah.
- 38:00I'm glad you stumbled on that.
- 38:02I'm definitely going to have to look at that.
- 38:03You want to do, am I the a hole?
- 38:04Oh yeah.
- 38:05Okay.
- 38:05Okay am I the a hole for offering a job application to angry customers who are complaining about wait times and service in my restaurant?
- 38:13No We can just stop there Okay, like most other restaurants in the area.
- 38:19We are short on staff.
- 38:20I like to think we run a good operation So it's not because people are unhappy because of management.
- 38:25It's just that unemployment is low, so it's hard to hold on to people.
- 38:29Even if understaffed, as a manager, I try my best to make up for everyone working twice as hard.
- 38:34The business hasn't slowed down though.
- 38:36We're busier than ever, which is tough on everyone.
- 38:39We might have a line out the door with one person taking orders, and the kitchen still gets behind.
- 38:45As you can imagine, this leads to some unhappy customers.
- 38:47Usually when someone comes to me complaining about the wait, I'll try my best to apologize.
- 38:52I try to stay happy and energetic for the employees, but it does take a toll on me.
- 38:57Plus all the complaints from customers about how slow we are with one person in the kitchen.
- 39:02I thought of a new comeback when customers complain about wait times or service to me.
- 39:07I'll offer them an application.
- 39:08I tell them if they would like to see a decrease in wait times, they should join the team.
- 39:13When they refuse, I thank them for being patient.
- 39:15My friend thinks I'm being an a hole.
- 39:17I think I'm trying to kill them with kindness, which is the verdict.
- 39:20I love it.
- 39:21I love it.
- 39:22As long as you don't get in trouble for it, I guess it depends on the restaurant.
- 39:26I love it.
- 39:27Like are we talking about a super$200 a meal thing?
- 39:30Right, right, right.
- 39:32I don't think the manager of that kind of restaurant's gonna be posted on Reddit.
- 39:38a manager of that kind of restaurant always wears a tux and has a towel over his arm all the time, even at home.
- 39:44I don't think it's like the most professional thing in the world, but I love I love it again.
- 39:49probably Applebee's.
- 39:50Yeah, I don't know why Applebee's popped up in both of our minds.
- 39:56I don't think he's an a hole.
- 39:57Maybe a touch unprofessional, but I don't care in this situation because people should be patient.
- 40:03Yeah.
- 40:04this is five years ago too.
- 40:05So this was like pandemic time, I think.
- 40:07Close.
- 40:07Yeah.
- 40:08That was 2020, right?
- 40:09Mm hmm.
- 40:10God, that was already five years ago?
- 40:12Mm hmm.
- 40:14I'm struggling today, too, and I have no excuse.
- 40:16Yeah, that seems like yesterday, doesn't it?
- 40:19I know.
- 40:20We've been through a whole nother, uh, presidential election.
- 40:21Half a decade.
- 40:23Right.
- 40:24We've been through that.
- 40:26We've been through multiple schools between our kids.
- 40:29Yes.
- 40:29Multiple sports, multiple girls.
- 40:32I'm just okay.
- 40:33Stop.
- 40:34I don't think it's like the most professional thing I've ever heard, but I think it's great.
- 40:38It's totally something I would do.
- 40:39I can see it, especially the 1 person that kept emailing your business and you responded back.
- 40:45Yeah, with cookie monster account.
- 40:47Yes.
- 40:49Yes, which the count counts.
- 40:51It counts.
- 40:52Yeah, no, go for it, dude.
- 40:54I love it.
- 40:55There is a t shirt website and I can't remember what it is.
- 40:58I gotta find it for next week.
- 40:59But they have a wall of shame for, like, customer complaints.
- 41:04Do they really?
- 41:05Yeah, but it's like such a like, it's a sarcastic t shirt website, and it's inappropriate shirts.
- 41:09Yeah.
- 41:10And it's like a grandma, I bought this beaver shirt for my grandson, and he wore it to school and got in trouble, and you're, you should.
- 41:18Oh my gosh, that is funny, that is funny, but yeah.
- 41:23It's like mean emails that this company gets, and they have, they post it on the wall of shame for everybody to read.
- 41:30I mean.
- 41:31It's gonna attract business now because we know about it.
- 41:33I died laughing.
- 41:35I'm like, I so wanted to do this.
- 41:37Uh huh.
- 41:37But yeah No, I could know God spoil sport.
- 41:45I do think that this is great though.
- 41:46I don't think like if I saw this happen, I would be like I would start laughing.
- 41:52I would make it 10 times worse.
- 41:55You'd be like, do you want a pen?
- 41:59No, that's great.
- 41:59I can fill it out for you.
- 42:00Right, right.
- 42:02While you've got time to wait on your food, why don't you go ahead and do it now?
- 42:04You want to tell them what our plans are for this year for our books?
- 42:09Yes, we have some exciting news.
- 42:12Yes.
- 42:12Lovers of our pod.
- 42:13Yes.
- 42:14We are going to do, book reviews still every week.
- 42:18I like having them at the end of the pod.
- 42:19Uh huh.
- 42:19Um, but our plan is we're going to go in alphabetical order.
- 42:23So we're going A through Z, as you guys know that's alphabetical order.
- 42:27And, we've actually got the whole year's book list compiled already.
- 42:31So we're going to start with A this week.
- 42:33We already read it.
- 42:33We'll talk about it.
- 42:34We won't give spoilers.
- 42:35Because we didn't announce it last week.
- 42:37Yeah.
- 42:37Well, we didn't do anything last week.
- 42:39Yeah, we gave up.
- 42:40so we'll, we'll tell you what we read for A, and then we'll tell you what we're going to read next for B.
- 42:46And then we'll, so we'll cycle through the alphabet twice is our plan.
- 42:49Right.
- 42:50Did I cover everything?
- 42:51I think so.
- 42:51Okay.
- 42:52Yeah.
- 42:52So this week we read At the Coffee Shop of Curiosities by Heather Weber so I'm going to read the blurb.
- 42:59When Ava Harrison receives a letter containing an unusual job listing one month after the sudden death of her ex boyfriend, she thinks she's being haunted.
- 43:07The listing, a job as a live in caretaker for a peculiar old man and his cranky cat in Driftwood, Alabama, is the perfect chance to start a new life.
- 43:16A normal life.
- 43:17Ava's always been too fearful to even travel, so no one's more surprised than she is when she throws caution to the wind and drives to the distance.
- 43:25Beachside town.
- 43:27I love this book.
- 43:28Okay.
- 43:29I think what I had said it to you.
- 43:30I was sick and dead, like dying.
- 43:33And I just needed something like uplifting.
- 43:35I did not need a murdery, yes.
- 43:37Spouse being evil, like not too much.
- 43:41Yeah.
- 43:41I was looking for an a book This just sounded like it was going to be like a horror movie, which it was, it really was.
- 43:48It was what I needed to listen to this week.
- 43:52Yeah.
- 43:52Well, good.
- 43:53but I, I loved it.
- 43:55For what it was.
- 43:56Okay.
- 43:57Yes.
- 43:57it was what you were looking for, for that moment.
- 43:59And you, yeah.
- 44:00did you like it?
- 44:01You didn't like it.
- 44:02Okay.
- 44:02And, okay.
- 44:03My first problem came was I couldn't get it on an audio book.
- 44:07Oh, okay.
- 44:07And so I, I bought the real book and I was reading it.
- 44:11You looked at me like, what?
- 44:14You gotta do what you gotta do.
- 44:15and I was maybe a quarter of a way through and then the hoopla became available.
- 44:20So then I picked it up.
- 44:21So I was already feeling kind of frantic about it and I wanted to love it, especially because I'd seen it on TikTok on booktalk.
- 44:27and everybody said a Hallmark movie.
- 44:30They loved it.
- 44:31They loved the vibe of it.
- 44:32Like it was just such a good, I did not, I was bored.
- 44:35I was very bored.
- 44:37Okay.
- 44:37I don't know.
- 44:38Did you finish it?
- 44:39I did finish it on 1.
- 44:4075.
- 44:42No, I'm just kidding.
- 44:43I did finish it because I, you know, I'd made it to that far and I wanted to, um, to be able, it, it's not that it was a bad book.
- 44:51I was just very bored.
- 44:52Okay.
- 44:53I was bored.
- 44:54And nothing was happening, but then too much was going on.
- 44:57If that makes any sense at all.
- 44:58Well, so we got two different perspectives.
- 45:00Yes.
- 45:01and Ava travels to this town and ends up staying and working there.
- 45:06and then you learn that all of these lives intertwine.
- 45:09Yes.
- 45:10And so again, I was Feeling horrible and just wanting to right stay under the blankets and Wanted something to cheer me up.
- 45:18So to me if this is like a beach read, easy summer type of reading whatever set in the beach town.
- 45:26Yep, oh and you know What I love is in the audiobook they didn't overdo the southern thing like they did not and I appreciated Yeah, I think there was one character that had a she had a really heavy southern accent.
- 45:38Um But other than that, yeah, it wasn't wasn't terrible.
- 45:42I thought personally that the characters were developed really well.
- 45:45Like, you got a lot of background that you felt could connect with the characters.
- 45:48Yeah.
- 45:49And I love to sell.
- 45:50Yeah.
- 45:51The baddie old lady.
- 45:51She was my favorite.
- 45:52Yeah.
- 45:53She was my favorite.
- 45:54she, Yeah.
- 45:55I mean, I loved, I love the book.
- 45:57Yeah.
- 45:58And that's, that's okay.
- 45:59I mean, we usually are kind of on par and agree with things, but sometimes we won't.
- 46:04And when we do, we just need to realize that you're wrong.
- 46:06And no, it just, so, the main story is about the two ladies and the one that moves to this town and the one who is already there and they have this friendship and, um, Then like you said the sub characters that come in and just the the there's some love interest in there And there's some you know, the history and family drama and there there's a lot of aspects that I like I just don't know why I don't know if it was like the little mystical vibe I don't know if I was putting too much into the curiosities, um, but something about it just did not really make me Love it.
- 46:49And I've read other books by her.
- 46:51I'm blanking on what the name of it was.
- 46:53Um, Or what they were, but I, and I liked them.
- 46:56Yeah.
- 46:57So, just one of those that wouldn't get it for me.
- 46:59Yeah.
- 46:59That's okay.
- 47:00Yeah.
- 47:00but I loved it and I would have given it like a nine.
- 47:02Okay.
- 47:03Like you said, easy, be treed, Paul Mark type right.
- 47:06Feel good Bob now.
- 47:08and no spoilers, but the ending was a little unpredictable to me.
- 47:12Yeah.
- 47:12I, I enjoyed that.
- 47:14It's not that it was just bland and, Everybody lived happily ever after.
- 47:19Right.
- 47:19It was, there was some twists.
- 47:20It was interesting.
- 47:22I would probably give it like a four.
- 47:24Yeah.
- 47:25I'm sorry.
- 47:25It's okay.
- 47:26Yeah, we can agree to disagree.
- 47:28We can.
- 47:29And what do we say when that happens?
- 47:30You're wrong.
- 47:32No, I'm just kidding.
- 47:33You know that.
- 47:34but I like that.
- 47:35I like that sometimes we don't 100 percent agree because there was one book that I read that we did here and you read it and I listened to it and I loved it.
- 47:43And you were like, Alexa read it to me and I hated it.
- 47:45Yeah.
- 47:46so sometimes just a different point of view.
- 47:48If you are wanting like a Hallmark feel good book.
- 47:51And it definitely was that.
- 47:52Yeah.
- 47:52I won't disappoint.
- 47:53If that's what you're looking for.
- 47:54That was, yeah, that was it.
- 47:56That's not our normal style book.
- 47:58We do throw them in here and there, but yeah, need some palate cleansers every once in a while.
- 48:02so our next book is going to be The Boyfriend by Freda McFadden.
- 48:06Yes, and we have read Freda McFadden before.
- 48:08Yep so I think we're going to switch things up and we'll read next week's book blurb this week.
- 48:15Very good.
- 48:16so that way people can decide if they want to read it or not.
- 48:18Okay.
- 48:19I'm excited because I don't know what this one's about other than a boyfriend.
- 48:22And I just started listening to it today.
- 48:24All right.
- 48:24Sydney Shaw, like every single woman in New York has terrible luck with dating.
- 48:28She's seen it in men who lie in their dating profile, men who stick her with the dinner bill and worst of all men who can't shut up about their mothers.
- 48:36But finally she hit the jackpot.
- 48:38Our new boyfriend is utterly perfect.
- 48:40He's charming, handsome, and works as a doctor at a local hospital.
- 48:43Sydney is swept off her feet.
- 48:45Then the brutal murder of a young woman, the latest in a string of deaths across the coast, confounds police.
- 48:51The primary suspect, a mystery man who dates his victims before he kills them.
- 48:56Sydney should feel safe.
- 48:57After all, she's dating a guy of her dreams, but she can't shake her own suspicions that the perfect man may not be as perfect as he seems because someone is watching her every move.
- 49:06And if she doesn't get to the truth, she'll be the killer's next victim.
- 49:09Hmm.
- 49:10So that's kind of more of our alley.
- 49:13Again, I like the, the Hallmark feel every once in a while, but this is more, I'm twisted.
- 49:17Yeah.
- 49:17Well, same.
- 49:18Yeah.
- 49:19I'm very dark and I have mental problems.
- 49:21So, this, I'm looking forward to Frito.
- 49:23She's not disappointed us yet.
- 49:25Very good.
- 49:25Oh, I've started watching on Netflix.
- 49:29Squid games?
- 49:29Uh huh.
- 49:30Have you ever watched it?
- 49:31I did not.
- 49:31Dylan did.
- 49:32What did he think?
- 49:33He likes it.
- 49:34It is the worst thing, but I cannot stop watching it.
- 49:38Like, I must know how all of it plays out.
- 49:40I would be so horrible at that game.
- 49:43It's where you have to freeze, right?
- 49:45That, so it's basically a series of kids games is what it ends up being.
- 49:50So basically every episode or every couple episodes, this big group of people has to play a kids game.
- 49:57And if you lose, you are eliminated.
- 50:01Like for real life.
- 50:01Yeah.
- 50:02Yes.
- 50:03Yes.
- 50:03So the first game is red light, green light, and they think they're getting eliminated, not eliminating.
- 50:11So all of a sudden somebody, you know, they, you know, you know how hard it is to stop, especially when you're moving fast.
- 50:17and all of a sudden they do that first red light and everybody, you know, still kind of shaken or whatever.
- 50:25And I mean, just plows people down and it is.
- 50:29The craziest show and it is super intense and it's terrible because It's Korean and it you've got to read the subtitles and the lips don't match when you're reading it in or when they're doing English But I must watch it.
- 50:48And I know I'm not the only one.
- 50:49No, Dylan watched it.
- 50:50I Listened to our um, I'm gonna say I listen to our percent We dropped last week, which is our first episode and we had done the seven husbands on that one You go, that's the only book I think we've ever given a 10 to No, how about that one with that by that dude?
- 51:03Paul something.
- 51:05I think we might have given him, what did we give it a 10?
- 51:07I might've been at 9.
- 51:085.
- 51:08Okay.
- 51:09Well, listening to it, we were both like, I give it a 10.
- 51:11I was like, we were very generous for our first episode.
- 51:14Well, I, yeah, we didn't know what we were doing.
- 51:17We didn't, we didn't still don't know what we're doing.
- 51:22all right.
- 51:22Well, please, like subscribe, tell your friends we love you and we will talk to y'all next week.
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- 51:28Bye.