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The Daily Mess Who Goes Through The Follow Through Plus Baby Talkin With Our Pets · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: happens in your mind and heart when the real feeling
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  Speaker 1: is to follow through with something? Follow through? What is
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  Speaker 1: that plus talking baby talk with your dogs and cats?
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  Speaker 1: How normal is this? My name is Arrow. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: daily writer, a silent wolf. I stand on the sidelines
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  Speaker 1: and do nothing but watch, listen, study, then activate. I
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  Speaker 1: happen to call it the daily Mess because it's a
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  Speaker 1: chronological way through an everyday world. It is my morning
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  Speaker 1: people tend to throw things to the side because we
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  Speaker 1: are convinced that we're going to deal with it later on. Well,
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  Speaker 1: when a subject arrives inside of me, it is time
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  Speaker 1: to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal, but
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  Speaker 1: by doing the research, asking the questions, the picture becomes clearer.
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  Speaker 1: This is the daily mass. Well, now that you've lived it,
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  Speaker 1: what are you going to do about it? Is there
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  Speaker 1: a follow through? Short and simple, No, people do not
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  Speaker 1: follow through consistently. They don't do it, but it's not
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  Speaker 1: because they're lazy or fake. Following through is something that
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  Speaker 1: isn't a skill, it's not a personality trait, and most
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  Speaker 1: mental environments don't support the follow through. Mental health leaders
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  Speaker 1: say that the act of experiencing something and then asking
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  Speaker 1: what is to follow through is actually the first steps
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  Speaker 1: of someone breaking things down. The gap between experience, intention,
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  Speaker 1: and action. How is this even possible? The emotional spike
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  Speaker 1: begins to fade, the intentions are vague, any type of
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  Speaker 1: friction is going to win, and the identity lags behind,
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  Speaker 1: so that means there's not a follow through. Those who
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  Speaker 1: do follow through don't rely on motivation. They attach behavior
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  Speaker 1: to existing habits, expect resistance, and track behavior. The follow
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  Speaker 1: through is actually small, repeatable actions following through is proven
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  Speaker 1: by what you repeat, and then the feeling is gone.
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  Speaker 1: That's when you should do your follow through. I'm Meryl
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  Speaker 1: coming up next. We talk baby talk to our dogs, cats, birds,
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  Speaker 1: and more. How normal is that? Hey, thanks for coming
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  Speaker 1: back to the Daily Mess. How common is it to
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  Speaker 1: talk baby talk with your cats and dogs? All of
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  Speaker 1: this is a huge topic because baby talk with our
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  Speaker 1: fuzzy kids is very common, almost universal. Its official name
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  Speaker 1: and title pet directed speech. Eoh, that's kind of boring,
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  Speaker 1: but seventy to ninety percent of all adults do talk
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  Speaker 1: baby talk with their cats and dogs. Shift it to
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  Speaker 1: a higher level pitch. That's what we'd like to do
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  Speaker 1: with our sing songy voices. Why does something like this
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  Speaker 1: even happen, Well, it grabs your pets attention. It really
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  Speaker 1: does strengthen the bond between you and your pet. It
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  Speaker 1: mirrors how we treat our dependence. Now, if you're ever
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  Speaker 1: caught talking baby talk to your dogs and cats in public,
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  Speaker 1: the thing to do, play along with it, enjoy being
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  Speaker 1: noticed in that moment. I mean, who doesn't talk baby
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  Speaker 1: talk to their pets? Now? Those who don't do that
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  Speaker 1: didn't grow up with pets. How about the avoids, they
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  Speaker 1: do all they can to get away. Plus, if you
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  Speaker 1: don't interact with your dogs and cats, you ain't talking
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  Speaker 1: baby talk. Such behavior is seen as being extremely normal.
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  Speaker 1: It's social and trust me, your pets like your baby
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  Speaker 1: voice a lot better than your normal voice. I'm aero
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  Speaker 1: and that's the daily mess.