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A New Leash On Life · Giving Pain Purpose with Lyndsay Soprano

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This is Your Pain Game podcast where we talk about the game of living in
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and with chronic pain and trauma get into the heart of how to heal.
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I am your host, Lindsay Soprano. On the show, I plan on
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discussing with doctors, chronic pain patients, holistic practitioners, loved ones, and
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anybody that is interested in having their voice heard in the chronic pain and trauma
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world that we live in. We have many things to celebrate in this life
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of ours, right, and one of them that is epic beyond epic is
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friendships. When it comes to celebration, lifelong friendships are pretty damn remarkable in
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my opinion. I mean, they eb and they flow, They go through
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up and downs like a marriage does. Right, you fight, you,
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you love hard. There are gaps in communication as we all grow up,
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right, We move around, we get married, we don't get married,
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we get divorced, we have kids, don't have kids, change jobs,
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all the things. Right, But when you have a friendship that truly has
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lasted through the years, from being a child to a teenager, to fallen
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in love, to college and then onto adult teen you hang onto those kind
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of friendships. Right. We need to hold on of them tight. And
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as we get older, I'm finding that those friendships become fewer and fewer,
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and those friendships that stay with you are so much more valuable than you thought
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that they ever could be. So today I have a guest for you guys
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who holds a spot in my heart that has a forever protected place for him.
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We grew up together from when we were little groms. We have been
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through a ton since then, and we're continuing to grow up together as adults.
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We're not really sure how today is going to go here. On this
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episode, we kind of do a practice run and then we had a big
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tear jerky version. Now we're both just exhausted. So here we go,
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unscripted, unscripted material, unscripted lifelong friends. Here to chit chat today a
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little bit with you guys, and a little bit of it, unfortunately,
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is going to be about childhood trauma, a little bit of religion, how
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to heal from some of the things that happened to us in our lives,
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but most importantly out of all of that, the power of dog rescue.
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So let's talk about it. So the further Ado, I'd like to introduce
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you today to my guest, Scott buzzbe Hey, yeah, oh, thanks
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for being here with me. Buzz. Okay, So if you heard me
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saying Buzz, that's him. Okay. So Buzz is the founder of CEO
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of Baxter Dog Media. Scott has charted a unique path by establishing his own
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publishing company, combining his storytelling passion with a steadfast commitment to animal welfare.
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Connection with Baxter, his own rescue pup you guys are going to Meet shortly
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sparked a journey of awareness and advocacy. Drawing from their unique bond, Scott
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wrote his first of many heartwarming children's books, Baxter's Second Chance, a new
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leash on life that highlights the beauty and potential of every shelter dog. He's
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on a mission, and we're going to help him get there, to change
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perceptions, encourage adoptions, and support organizations dedicated to giving vulnerable dogs a second
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chance. All Right, So I'm rolling out the red carpet for you,
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babe. I'd like to well, I mean, if anybody deserves it,
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it's you. I'd like to start talking about this power of dog rescue and
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meet Baxter and have you introduced us to him? Basically, when and why
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did you decide it was time for you to rescue a dog? You know,
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I just kind of got to a point in my life where I,
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you know, kind of everything lined up and I was working from home,
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and you know, I was in a position where I wasn't traveling as much
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and I was able to have, you know, really give the kind of
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love that you need to give to a dog. And I got to that
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point. I had wanted to have a dog for a long time and it
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just kind of felt right, that's awesome. So and did you too that
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you were you thinking about getting a dog? And were you going to rescue
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right out of the gates or what were you doing? Were you like puppy
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shopping or were you just gung hell right out of the gates you wanted to
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rescue. Yeah, So not trying to promote pet Finder, but that is
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the app that I used, and I started at pet If nobody has heard
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of it, pet Finders a really cool app that connects you know, shelter
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animals to would be adopting parents and it's, you know, a great app.
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I was scrolling through looking at different animals and Baxter and one other dog
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kind of popped out at me, and I had been doing that for probably
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a couple of months at this point, and so I made the decision that
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I was going to reach out to the shelter and h just go through that
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process. And that was my first time ever rescuing. So I didn't know
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what I was doing. I didn't know how often do we really know what
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we're doing? Big picture? I mean, but I mean, you grew
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up with a dog, because I remember, and you know, so you
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were lucky that you had an animal grown up. I didn't like my parents
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super Remember I didn't have a dog. I had like a turtle on a
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hamster. It was so lame. And the power of the relationship that you
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the bond that you make with animals, especially dogs. I know we're dog
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people on this particular show here, but I mean, my dogs are so
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incredibly important to me, the ones that are in heaven and the ones that
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are here with me. I mean, if I'm crying in the other room,
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one of ours, Tommy will come barreling down the hallway little Weeni dog
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style and find me and attack me and kiss me and make sure that he
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knows that I know that I'm comforted in that I'm loved and he's got me.
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You know. It's like it's such a special place. And for people
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that I've been through a lot in life, that bond and that emotional support,
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if you will, I really find valuable in my healing as I continued
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to heal from all the dynamite stuff that's happened in my life. So I'm
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proud of you for going and rescuing, because that's cool. It's really cool.
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Thank you. Yeah, So what was your experience like? So I
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found Baxter in one other dog and the both Baxter and the other dog were
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posted Ontipetfinder by a rescue organization called The Little Red Dog here in Orange County,
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and I, yeah, I didn't really know much about them or anything,
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but you know, they had an email address and they had an application
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process, and so I filled it an application and I ended up having a
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zoom meeting interview with the founder of the Little Red Dog. And she's a
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super neat lady, but she grilled me. I mean, she put me
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through the ringer like she I mean, she's asking me the questions about my
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living space and you know, asked me questions about dog behavior and you know,
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just really was trying to understand me and make sure. I mean,
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she did such a great job. She wanted to make sure that he went
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to a home where he was going to stay. And they steered me towards
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Baxter and couldn't have made a better match than that. So I mean they
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say they pick you, yeah, and you know, and then you kind
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of pick them back. I know, when we rescued Gucci, it was
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literally like the minute we found out about COVID, like we were just like
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holding our shirts up over our noses, you know, like we did not
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know what was going on. We were already rescuing a dog before COVID started,
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so don't everybody freak out. We kept ours too. But we were
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there and we had gone on Petfinder ourselves and we had found this other little
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dog and we got there and the dog was just like she looked like she
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was going to be ours on the website. When we got there, Gucci
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just looked at us and we were like, Okay, that's our dog.
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And she's just been the sweetest thing that man. Her story is just absolutely
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traumatic and sad. Do you know the backstory of Baxter. I don't know
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the full backstory. I got bits and pieces. I've asked the Little Red
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Dog since then, I've talked to them quite a bit since the book came
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out, but I don't really know. He was maybe a year to a
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year and a half. He's half French bulldog, half shitsu. I did
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a DNA test and actually in the interview process PG told me that he was
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a bullshit, which I didn't believe her because I thought she just was looking
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at me and was like, Oh, this is the kind of guy that
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would totally want a dog. One. Yeah, she was totally right.
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She was totally right, but I didn't believe her because I thought she was
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just trying to sell me on this dog. And so after the fact,
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I ended up paying for my own DNA test for him. And she was
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I mean, she was spot on, just pretty much exactly half French bulldog,
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half shits. But so I went to their house. They have a
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facility now in Anaheim, but I went to their house and when I met
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Baxter, he was really kind of anxious and not interested in anybody. In
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fact, they told me that he wasn't really he was like as men in
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particular had to be careful around him, just like a loof or more like
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skidding. Ye, well, he was the guy that introduced me to him
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at that event, was like, you need to make sure and like he
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doesn't snap at you and bite you, so be very careful when approaching him.
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Okay, So anyhow, I kind of let him do his thing.
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I let him do his thing, let him check me out. And we
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weren't really vibing at all in the beginning for like a good twenty thirty minutes.
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And my buddy and I were hanging out there and just kind of letting
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Baxter do his thing, and they said, look, you should take him
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for a walk down the street. So I took him for a walk about
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a hundred I don't know, a hundred fift the yards down the street,
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sat down on the curb. It was just him and I and I let
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him sniff around me. I kind of had my like elbows on my knees
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and I'm just sitting there holding the leash, let him do his thing.
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And he came around and he put his head underneath my armpit and rested his
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chin on my thigh and he just let out this sigh like oh God,
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and I'm like, okay, dude, okay, you're coming I get the
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tissues out immediately. Yeah, oh my god. And that's that's we've talked
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about. That that sigh of relief, that feeling of safety, that feeling
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that we all long for when you know, especially when we've been through the
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like I'm musing on this episode, the dynamite things that have happened to us,
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you know, because when we do find those safe havens, and we
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do find those friendships and relationships in our lives, we have to hold on
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to him and and but also embrace that and and be open to what that
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relationship can be, no matter what what kind of relationship we're talking about.
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You even know, we're talking about dogs right now. But it works in
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life that way too. When you find those people, you really got to
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give him love and be grateful for that. The friendships that you have,
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no matter how short or long they've been, you know, so well,
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that's really cool. So you end up so so then you ended up just
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taking him that day, or I took him home that day. He got
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to my place, and you know, I think one of the first things
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I did was take him to pet Smart to get some toys and stuff.
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And of course he's like peeing on everything in pet smart. I'm like,
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no, you know, like just a boy he was. He was so
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anxious because I don't think he he didn't have a home, he didn't know
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where his place was. He you know, just kind of observing him.
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He you know, he marked up my home like for weeks, and you
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know, I didn't really know what I was. Like I said, I
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didn't know what I was doing. The Little Red Dog had an app to
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help me. They had they had so many different tools. They followed up
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with me, you know, they set my first vet appointment and all of
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that stuff. But I made the decision that I was going to just stay
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with him twenty four to seven and make sure that he knew that this was
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his home. I wanted to make sure that there was no doubt that this
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was his space. So I think for the first two months, I never
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left his side for even like a minute. That's awesome. Did you just
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instacart like a like a motherfucker? H Yes, I did. I did.
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I did. But but I mean if I went somewhere, if I
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went out, you know whatever, I went somewhere that I could take him,
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yeah, you know, And I mean maybe I left him for one
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or two minutes here and there, but all of those issues stopped, all
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of the peeing and my place stopped, all of the issues stopped and over
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the next you know, I've had him for two and a half years.
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Everything. I've just watched this dog go from being so anxious, so skittish
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around other people, to now being excited and like jumping on people. And
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my friends all love him, and everybody that I know have watched him,
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and now he's like everybody's favorite dog. But at the beginning they're like,
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the what kind of dog did you get? Scott like you know it.
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So it's been a it's been a really awesome experience watching him become comfortable in
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his own skin essentially. Yeah, well, and feel safe. Yeah,
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you know, I mean that that is a huge deal. And I always
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say that I have safety issues. I do. I think I probably will
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always have them to a certain extent. But there are places and people and
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things not unlike Tommy and Gucci who make me feel safer, who make like
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at night, if Tommy isn't next to me, I like cannot sleep.
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Screw my sweetie and Gucci, sorry you too, But if Tommy's not there,
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I am like I am up. I'm checking for him. I don't
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know where he is. I'm like, is he okay? It's total like
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maybe more. I'm almost having anxiety and panic even though he's okay, I'm
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one needing him. It's funny, it's a catch twenty two for me.
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It's like, if he's in bed with me, I can't sleep, and
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if he's not, I can't sleep. It's like, either he's getting in
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my way, yeah, like you know, on top of the comforter,
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and I'm like, dude, why are you hogging all the blankets? Like
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yeah, either way, it's like, you know, I feel like you
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guys wear the same pjs working on it. Actually, I'm going to order
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some that have for him that have my face on them and for me that
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have his face absolutely perfect. Yes, I would love every second of that.
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You can sell them little pjs, Baxster pjs, so cute. See,
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we're already trying to turn your book into an empire. One's one episode
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out of Time become a series, that's for sure, it absolutely is,
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and we're going to continue to follow that journey. But I want to get
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back to talking a little bit about the safety and that that the safe haven
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in the home that you've been able to provide for Baxter and that wonderful experience,
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and you've talked about it with me as well, But how much he
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changed, But you've also mentioned so much about how he helped change you.
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Can we talk a little bit about that? Yeah, I don't think you
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know when you when you change slowly and you heal slowly over time, you
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don't notice things as much, right, But then when you look back over
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time and you're like, oh wow, can you remember certain events and you
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remember certain situations? You know? I I mean I've had Look, I've
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had a lot of trauma throughout my life. You know, I don't compare
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my trauma to anybody else's because everybody's as different. Everybody's experience is different.
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Yep. I can tell you that I have struggled my whole life with feeling
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like I'm good enough and feeling like I'm never going to be good enough,
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and it's a horrible feeling to have. And Baxcher doesn't care. I am
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always good enough for him, and it's likely and and also like just having
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him in my life and and doing all the fun things that we do together,
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I feel like one of the main ways that it's helped that he's helped
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me is I'm not jumping from crappy relationship to crappy relationship anymore. I'm not
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out there seeking for acceptance from other people as much, well, at least
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in a romantic standpoint. And and whether I coulntribute that to Baxter or not,
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since I've gotten him my and since my last crappy relationship, whatever,
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but I if I'm in a relationship there's any sort of red flags, I'm
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out. I'm like, I'm like, I'm out. I'm like, I
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don't want to introduce Baxter into this garbage, Like yeah, he like I
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care way too much about him, and maybe I should care more about myself.
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But it's almost like I care way too much about him that I'm not
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going to put him into any sort of situation that's unhealthy. And also I
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don't need to because I'm happy with just him. And I think that that's
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that is your way, that you've put up a boundary of providing yourself with
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better self care. And you and I both have done our fair share of
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all of our substances. Yes, put that nicely and kindly. We both
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some together some not, but we you know, over the years of some
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of the abusive things that we've done to our bodies and to ourselves for lack
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of a better term. I know for me, it was perfectionism that I
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was never going to hit, so why bother. There was that kind of
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element behind a lot of my rebellion. I also had to adult so so
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young because I was put into such icky situations at such a young age that
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adulting had to start so early that I feel like I missed out a lot
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on what junior high and even high school was kind of about, because I
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felt like I was so tainted and I was already so eh that I don't
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even know why, Like I didn't hang on to all of these memories.
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I bounced, as you know, from school to school, and I had
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all of these different friends circles, and I never felt like I was good
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enough or that I was ever gonna be like I was ever gonna find a
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safe spot because I had to move. You know how much I've moved.
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I mean it's nuts, not just schools, but out of state, multiple
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times, out of the country. I mean, it's been nuts. You
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also were a seeker, like you mentioned, you know, seeking outside of
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ourselves. And I think a lot of what Baxter has helped provide you,
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at least from my perspective, is giving you that safety as well, in
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that you don't have to go do all all of these wack could do things
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too get attention or or or try to strive for somebody or something that you're
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not, or who you'll never be, who you never even wanted to be.
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I mean, I think it's I think it's pretty awesome that it came
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into your life. So there, Well, I will tell you that you
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were you were always good enough, and I loved you exactly the way you
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were, so you for all the listeners out there, Oh godess I knew.
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I knew Linz when we were kids, and I was just absolutely in
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love with her, adorter, She was my very best friend. We started
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walking home from school together as freshmen in high school, and you know,
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I mean, I was so stoked. I was just stoked being around you.
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So, you know, I think oftentimes, I mean, the way
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we view ourselves in our own head is so different than the way other people
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see us, for sure, you know. And I think one of the
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hardest things is converting how you feel inside to a pausive thing, especially when
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you've just experienced so much crap. Yeah, you know, I went through,
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you know, thousands and thousands of dollars of therapy in my thirties to
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you know, get over this feeling of and I'm still not totally over it,
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but I'm way better this feeling of not being good enough and like you
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know, and healing some of that trauma. You know. It's yeah,
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And you know, anyways, I think you're the bomb. I think you're
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fantastic. Well, thank you. I really appreciate that. And you're not
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too shabby you're self concern. Thanks, No, we just we've had such
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an interesting friendship and relationship with each other over the years, and it's been
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it's been awesome being part of your life and to see where you've been and
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where you were and where you are now and where you're wanting to go.
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And I'm not going to spill any beans because they aren't yours to be spilled
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yet. But he's got all kinds of incredible things that he's working towards,
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and all this because he rescued Baxter. So let's chit chat a little bit
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about what you're up to, what you've been doing. I want to talk
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about your roadship, what you're planning on doing as far as your book,
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how we can help and what, you know, talk a little bit more
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about the proceeds and your book pledge and all that stuff. Yeah. So,
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you know, as I spent the last I don't know, two and
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a half years with Baxter, as I watched him grow and heal and myself
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heal, I just kept having this like recurring thought of how can I enjoy
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how can I truly enjoy my time with this awesome little guy, knowing that
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so many other dogs out there don't ever get the same chance that he did.
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Yeah, And so that's the reason why I wrote the book. And
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you know, I mean literally, I was sitting around one day. I
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had been looking, you know, looking in so many different places for my
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next project, and I was literally sitting there with a couple of buddies and
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I'm like, I'm going to write a children's book about Baxter, and and
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they're like, okay, dude, sure, you know, like your kid.
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And so I wrote the first draft within the next week, and I
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shared it with some people that are close to me, and I got a
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really positive response, and I came up with the title, which is Baxter's
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Second Chance, a New Leash on Life. And I reached out to the
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Little Red Dog and I said, hey, can I use your name and
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likeness and logo and stuff in this book because I want to write a thank
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you and a dedication to you. And they're like, of course you can,
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like yes, yeah, of course, yeah, and so yeah.
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So I wrote the book and I went through the process of getting it published,
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and I found like this new Like I mean, honestly, I've I've
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done a lot of different things in my life from a career perspective, and
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I've I've made a couple of transitions, you know, throughout there, but
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I'd done kind of the same thing for the last you know, fifteen plus
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years working in technology. But you know, I was burnt out. But
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yeah, I for the first time I could say in my adult life that
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my business endeavor is also my passion. I mean, I am so not
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only did I discover how much I really enjoy the writing and making things rhyme
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and you know, going through the creative process with the illustrators and putting together
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this work of art that I can share to people. And then obviously my
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ego gets all excited because it's like, oh my god, oh well,
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yeah, I make I make these jokes to my friends, like when we're
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out, and I'm like, I'm like, well, as a published children's
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book author, like you know, but but I really and I say that
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tongue in chic obviously, right, I'm not like, you know, I'm
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not like super prideful about it because I just feel really lucky. No,
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that's not who you are though as a person anyway, that's not that you
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don't even have that kind of a bone in your bod. So good for
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you on that way, Thank you, thank you, of course. So
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you know, I wrote the book, I got up published. I went
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through that whole process, but what I learned was a how much I enjoyed
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doing the writing and the creative part of it. And I've always been creative,
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but I kind of stifled that to go into other stuff for most of
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my life, which now I feel alive. Also I get to hang out
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with my dog. But what that has morphed into is this business with a
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whole series that I'm launching. And so the business is Baxter Dog Media.
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You know, I formed the LLC, I got all that stuff, and
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I mean, look, starting your own business is a lot of work.
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I could talk about all the trauma from that, but we're doing a m
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d R just because of that. I went, I went, I went
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through that process, and just kind of briefly going into that, I I
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launched the book, got the business. I'm giving half of the profits of
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all of the book sales to animal rescue organizations. I'm working on a series
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called The Adventures of Baxter Dog, which now that he has a home,
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now he's going out into the world and he's you know, he's learning life
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lessons and he goes to exotic places, meets animals that are indigenous to that
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area, learns different characteristics about them, but then learn some sort of a
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valuable life lesson and that everything about that series is all everything's going to be
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going to help other dogs like Baxter get their own second chance, and cats
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too. I mean, whatever animal rescues. This is only for dogs.
25:37
This is an only dog show. Now we're trying to help animal rescues,
25:44
and unfortunately cats and dogs seem to be there more. And you know,
25:51
if I have to watch one, we're ASPCA commercial. You know, Sarah
25:55
McLaughlin we love you. But my god, time I hear it, I
26:00
just want to like slit my wrists or go save a million dogs. I
26:03
mean, it's just unbelievable, and we can do better. We can do
26:08
better in our shelters, we can do better as human beings. You know,
26:15
you've got these bully breeds. They weren't born bullies, guys, you
26:18
know it is. It is how they're raised and how they're or how they're
26:22
not raised, and if they're encouraged to fight and kill people, guess what
26:26
they're gonna do, fight and kill people Like it gave me a break.
26:30
So if we're better humans as a whole, not just to each other,
26:33
but to the animals and to our planet, I mean, gosh, we
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can find There was a statistic that you brought up, and I'm totally putting
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you on the spot, so I'm sorry if you don't have it, but
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you had mentioned something about how many dogs, How was it, how many
26:48
years you could what was the stat Well, so the stats that I know
26:55
last year, three point two million dogs wound up in shelters last year,
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and last year, three hundred and sixty thousand of them didn't make it out
27:06
alive. I'm sure that some of them were put down because of health issues
27:11
or old or you know or whatever. Right, I mean, some of
27:15
them might have been they weren't right, right, Yeah, but the vast
27:19
majority of them was because of the fact that these shelters are just they run
27:25
out of space. They they are government funded, they have very finite budgets,
27:30
and they're doing the best they can. And when new dogs come in,
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they're overwhelmed and the dogs that have been their longest just run out of
27:37
time and they have to be put down. And Baxter was one of those.
27:41
He was in that spot, and thankfully for the little red dog,
27:45
he was saved before his time. Yeah, and we can do more as
27:49
people too, you know, instead of I mean the adopt, don't shop
27:52
is a legit thing, you know, And don't go get a dog just
27:56
because it's Easter. You know. It's just why they say don't go buy
28:00
rabbits for Easter, because it's like one of the worst things that you can
28:03
do. Don't do it. Also, don't turn them into a coat.
28:07
Okay, so but when it comes Yeah, lessons from PETA Definitely don't definitely
28:15
don't turn them into a coat. These don't do these things. No,
28:19
but we can spend more. We can give a little bit more energy to
28:22
our communities that are around. Within our communities because there are shelters around.
28:27
I mean, it only takes a little bit of time to even volunteer or
28:30
bring toys or bring dog bet you know, there's things that you can do
28:33
that don't take a lot of your time either, that are at least helping
28:37
the welfare of the animals and the people that are trying to save them.
28:41
So I'm sorry, that's a little just like slide us. I think.
28:45
I think the other statistic that you were referencing was, you know, the
28:48
way that I've set up my business and I'm built I mean writing these books
28:52
and you know have a plan to write many many more. Is so let
28:56
me remind there's two things that are that are basically stopping us from being able
29:02
to save those three hundred and sixty thousand dogs. One is money and the
29:06
other one is adoptive parents or foster parents. Right, there's other things that
29:11
we want to do about the adoptive parents foster parents side that I'm working on
29:14
the back of my head, But the first and foremost is if we could
29:18
get all of the animal rescue organizations that exist today, if we could get
29:22
them enough money to save all of those three hundred and sixty thousand dogs,
29:30
those three hundred and sixty thousand dogs could be saved. And so the way
29:33
that I the math that I've done is like, if a quarter of the
29:37
households in the United States were to buy one of my books each year,
29:41
we could raise enough money to save all of them. Essentially, that's what
29:45
I was trying to get at. I couldn't put it into words. Even
29:49
though this is a podcast, I knew it was your statistic, so it
29:53
was like your your brain math that you put together for that. But yeah,
29:56
so that's the point that if we could, mean we put everybody on
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this that's listening, you're gonna go buy this book, Okay, thanks,
30:04
and we'll put all of that in show notes and all that stuff too.
30:07
So yeah, it's really long, No, it's darling, And I'm just
30:17
so proud of you for all of this, because I've seen that it didn't
30:21
just get a new leash on life for Baxter, but it did for you
30:25
too, And it's really nice to see because and I understand turning your passion
30:30
into business because that's what's happening here with my show. I don't find this
30:33
to be work. It's work, but I don't find it to be work,
30:37
you know what I mean. It's like I wake up and this is
30:41
all I want to do because I want to help others meet people like you.
30:45
I want to have other people meet other people that can help them heal
30:48
in whichever way they want to and hear messages of hope. And I think
30:52
that we both have been in some pretty dark places in our lives, and
30:56
I lost hope in a lot of those dark places, and you're one of
31:00
those people that saw me through some of those and vice versa, I think
31:06
for sure. And they happen the dark and twisty, and it's okay,
31:11
there is hope, and you've got me, You've got Scott, You've got
31:15
Baxter, you got Tommy sometimes Gucci, but we're always here. You know,
31:19
if you want to slip into our DMS, you know, suit me
31:22
and email what have you. I can make any connections that you want to
31:25
with Scott, myself, or anybody else that's on this show. Furthermore so,
31:30
anyways, this has been really fun having you on. I'm so proud
31:33
of you, and I'm excited to see where you end up. And we're
31:34
gonna do everything we can here to help you succeed in whatever way we can.
31:40
So let's talk really quick. Where can I know you gave the pledge,
31:44
but do it again. Give me what you're doing with the book and
31:48
the donation of profits where we can find you, so on and so forth.
31:52
So you can find the book today on my website. It's www dot
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Baxterdog dot com. That's b a x T e R d Og dot com,
32:02
DG yes, Baxterdog dot com. And as far as the series is
32:10
coming along, we're gonna be launching maybe the end of this month, a
32:14
kickstarter to raise funds to publish, illustrate, publish, and get the first
32:20
of the Adventures of Baxter Dog series going. The first book is called Baxter's
32:24
Rainforest Rumble and the subtitle is a Ferocious Friendship and Baxter goes out into the
32:31
jungle to prove himself and find a worthy foe, and he ends up running
32:36
it at Jasper the Jaguar. They duke it out, get exhausted and realize
32:40
why are we fighting when we can just become best friends. So we're gonna
32:45
be launching that a Kickstarter, so you can look out for that. Yeah,
32:50
that's for now. That's it. That's it, all right, Well,
32:53
it's been a pleasure. Yeah. You can also fight him everywhere on
32:59
social media at Baxter Dog Media, FOLLO him on and stub. We're trying
33:04
to increase as much awareness of what his mission is here with Baxter and his
33:08
books and trying to help save all of these animals that we've got in these
33:12
shelters across the United States and hopefully globally. My gosh, it would be
33:15
amazing to see where you are in ten years, which I will, So
33:17
there you go. Is there anything that you'd like to leave us with before
33:22
we hit the dusty trail? I don't know. I think I think this
33:28
has been really productive. I think it's been a great time. I always
33:30
love talking to you, so oh well, thank you. I love talking
33:32
to you too. And you've got such good voice for podcasting too. But
33:36
you already knew that we're going to be we're going to be doing some advertising
33:42
for you guys for on the show and PLoP in some of your own vocals
33:45
and maybe a little bark from Baxter here and there too. Oh, there
33:50
is one thing I could introduce Baxter. But I did have a great experience
33:53
this last week is I had somebody bring my book in and they sent me
33:58
a private message and they said me a video of them reading with their with
34:01
their daughters and like matching pajamas. It was adorable, right, and I'm
34:06
running some ads right now using that. But I got a private message and
34:08
she said, we were so impressed with your book that we ended up taking
34:13
our name off of the Purebred Breeders' List waiting list, and we went to
34:17
the shelter and we went and rescued a dog. I love it, and
34:21
I was so stoked. I mean, that was so awesome. But we'll
34:23
see if we can get Bachelor. Come up, come on, come on,
34:27
We'll see. We'll see if he'll come and make an appearance. He's
34:29
coming, Come on, buddy, is he coming? Ye? Come on
34:31
up. Well, I love hearing success stories like that for you, Scott,
34:36
so early on in the game too, because that's so that's so awesome,
34:39
you know, immediately getting affirmed in the work that you're doing so quickly.
34:45
I think that's awesome. And for those of you that are just listening,
34:49
let's see if maybe he'll snort. Do you feel he'll give us a
34:52
grantce when when I'm like petti him and levin on him, he just does
34:54
out these like we'll see. Oh I know, buddy, I know,
35:00
I know. You're on the spot right now. Oh my gosh. Well,
35:02
you guys can't see him or hear him, but those that can't see
35:05
him, there he is. And he's got a big long mohawk that goes
35:07
all the way down his back. It's really cute too. So well,
35:12
thanks for saving my buddy. Thanks for saving my buddy. Yeah, actually,
35:17
you guys rescued. There's that old adage, right, who rescued?
35:21
Who? So you two little cuties. I love it. Thanks so much
35:25
for being here today with me, Scott, I appreciate. And Baxter,
35:29
of course, thanks for making an appearance. Buddy, it's been a pleasure
35:32
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