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- 0:37What
- 0:37do
- 0:37you
- 0:38do
- 0:38when
- 0:38the
- 0:38version
- 0:38of
- 0:39success
- 0:39you
- 0:39were
- 0:39promised
- 0:40stops
- 0:40feeling
- 0:41real?
- 0:42On
- 0:42today's
- 0:43episode,
- 0:43I'm
- 0:43talking
- 0:44to
- 0:44the
- 0:44person
- 0:44who
- 0:44grew
- 0:45up
- 0:45believing
- 0:45blue
- 0:45collar
- 0:46work
- 0:46was
- 0:46the
- 0:46dependable
- 0:47path.
- 0:48You
- 0:48just
- 0:48got
- 0:49to
- 0:49work
- 0:49hard,
- 0:50stay
- 0:50consistent,
- 0:51do
- 0:52your
- 0:52part,
- 0:53and
- 0:53you'll
- 0:53always
- 0:54be
- 0:54able
- 0:54to
- 0:54support
- 0:54yourself.
- 0:56But
- 0:57for
- 0:57a
- 0:57lot
- 0:57of
- 0:57people,
- 0:58that's
- 0:59not
- 0:59the
- 0:59reality
- 0:59of
- 1:00living
- 1:00anymore.
- 1:01Jobs
- 1:02are
- 1:02getting
- 1:02delayed,
- 1:03weather
- 1:03shutting
- 1:04work
- 1:04down,
- 1:05hours
- 1:05are
- 1:05disappearing,
- 1:06and
- 1:06those
- 1:06contracts
- 1:07are
- 1:07drying
- 1:08up.
- 1:09And
- 1:09after
- 1:09doing
- 1:10everything
- 1:10they
- 1:10were
- 1:11told
- 1:11were
- 1:11right,
- 1:12they're
- 1:13left
- 1:13wondering
- 1:13if
- 1:13real
- 1:14security
- 1:14even
- 1:14exists
- 1:15anymore.
- 1:17So
- 1:17how
- 1:17do
- 1:17you
- 1:18build
- 1:18a
- 1:18future
- 1:18with
- 1:18confidence
- 1:19when
- 1:19the
- 1:20foundation
- 1:20you
- 1:20trusted
- 1:21starts
- 1:22to
- 1:22feel
- 1:22real
- 1:22fragile?
- 1:24That's
- 1:24what
- 1:24we're
- 1:25breaking
- 1:25down
- 1:25on
- 1:25today's
- 1:26show.
- 1:35Hey,
- 1:36friend.
- 1:36Ralph
- 1:36Estep
- 1:37Jr.
- 1:37Here.
- 1:38Welcome
- 1:38to
- 1:38financially
- 1:39Confident
- 1:39Christian,
- 1:40where
- 1:40every
- 1:40day
- 1:41my
- 1:41goal
- 1:41is
- 1:41to
- 1:41help
- 1:41you
- 1:42break
- 1:42that
- 1:42cycle
- 1:43of
- 1:43financial
- 1:43shame
- 1:44and
- 1:44find
- 1:45confidence.
- 1:46And
- 1:46today
- 1:47on
- 1:47the
- 1:47show,
- 1:47we're
- 1:47going
- 1:47to
- 1:47talk
- 1:48about
- 1:48how
- 1:48to
- 1:48build
- 1:48stability
- 1:49when
- 1:49your
- 1:49work
- 1:50no
- 1:50longer
- 1:50feels
- 1:51stable.
- 1:53Let's
- 1:53get
- 1:53right
- 1:53into
- 1:53today's
- 1:54listener
- 1:54question.
- 1:55This
- 1:55was
- 1:55an
- 1:55email
- 1:56we
- 1:56got
- 1:56the
- 1:56other
- 1:56day.
- 1:57Listener
- 1:57writes
- 1:58this.
- 1:58Ralph,
- 1:59I
- 1:59grew
- 1:59up
- 1:59hearing
- 2:00that
- 2:00blue
- 2:00collar
- 2:01work
- 2:01was
- 2:01the
- 2:01safe
- 2:02path,
- 2:02the
- 2:03stable
- 2:03path,
- 2:04the
- 2:04kind
- 2:04of
- 2:04work
- 2:04that
- 2:05would
- 2:05always
- 2:05keep
- 2:05you
- 2:06afloat.
- 2:07But
- 2:07now
- 2:08I'm
- 2:08living
- 2:08in
- 2:08a
- 2:08very
- 2:09different
- 2:09reality.
- 2:10Jobs
- 2:11are
- 2:11getting
- 2:11delayed,
- 2:12weather
- 2:13shutting
- 2:13work
- 2:13down,
- 2:14contracts
- 2:15are
- 2:15disappearing,
- 2:16my
- 2:16hours
- 2:16are
- 2:16getting
- 2:17cut,
- 2:18and
- 2:18suddenly
- 2:19my
- 2:19income
- 2:20feels
- 2:20unpredictable.
- 2:21No
- 2:21matter
- 2:21how
- 2:21hard
- 2:22I
- 2:22work,
- 2:24it's
- 2:24frustrating
- 2:25realizing
- 2:25that
- 2:25even
- 2:26doing
- 2:26everything
- 2:27right
- 2:27doesn't
- 2:28guarantee
- 2:28stability
- 2:29anymore.
- 2:31And
- 2:31what's
- 2:31messing
- 2:31with
- 2:31me
- 2:32the
- 2:32most
- 2:32is
- 2:32the
- 2:32feeling
- 2:33that
- 2:33I
- 2:33built
- 2:33my
- 2:34expectations
- 2:35around
- 2:35a
- 2:35vision
- 2:36of
- 2:36security
- 2:36that
- 2:37may
- 2:37not
- 2:37even
- 2:37exist.
- 2:39And
- 2:40now
- 2:40I'm
- 2:40questioning
- 2:41everything.
- 2:42I'm
- 2:42even
- 2:42questioning
- 2:43whether
- 2:43I
- 2:43should
- 2:43change
- 2:44directions
- 2:44entirely.
- 2:46Ralph,
- 2:47how
- 2:47do
- 2:47you
- 2:47make
- 2:48long
- 2:48term
- 2:48life
- 2:49decisions
- 2:49when
- 2:50the
- 2:50stability
- 2:50you
- 2:50counted
- 2:51on
- 2:51keeps
- 2:52proving
- 2:52fragile?
- 2:54Yeah,
- 2:55that's
- 2:55a
- 2:55tough
- 2:55question.
- 2:57And
- 2:57I
- 2:58hear
- 2:58so
- 2:58many
- 2:58people
- 2:59asking
- 2:59that
- 3:00same
- 3:00question.
- 3:02I
- 3:02want
- 3:02to
- 3:02start
- 3:02off
- 3:02with
- 3:02today's
- 3:03big
- 3:03idea
- 3:03for
- 3:03the
- 3:04show.
- 3:04Real
- 3:05stability.
- 3:05Today
- 3:06often
- 3:06isn't
- 3:07about
- 3:07finding
- 3:08perfect
- 3:08predictability.
- 3:10It's
- 3:10about
- 3:10building
- 3:11faithful
- 3:11resilience
- 3:12in
- 3:12an
- 3:12unpredictable
- 3:13world.
- 3:14So
- 3:15how
- 3:15do
- 3:15we
- 3:15do
- 3:15that?
- 3:15Because
- 3:16that's
- 3:16what
- 3:16we
- 3:16got
- 3:16to
- 3:16get
- 3:16to.
- 3:17We
- 3:17got
- 3:17to
- 3:17figure
- 3:17out,
- 3:18how
- 3:18do
- 3:18we
- 3:18build
- 3:18that
- 3:19faithful
- 3:19resilience
- 3:20in
- 3:20an
- 3:20unpredictable
- 3:21world?
- 3:23I
- 3:23think
- 3:23we
- 3:23got
- 3:23to
- 3:23start
- 3:23by
- 3:24saying
- 3:24this.
- 3:25We've
- 3:25got
- 3:25to
- 3:26grieve
- 3:26the
- 3:26reality
- 3:27honestly.
- 3:28If
- 3:29we're
- 3:29going
- 3:29to
- 3:29get
- 3:29anywhere,
- 3:29we
- 3:30got
- 3:30to
- 3:30say
- 3:30it
- 3:30plainly.
- 3:31The
- 3:31world
- 3:31has
- 3:31changed.
- 3:33The
- 3:34world
- 3:34that
- 3:34your
- 3:34parents
- 3:35grew
- 3:35up
- 3:35in,
- 3:35that
- 3:36my
- 3:36parents
- 3:36grew
- 3:36up
- 3:37in,
- 3:37my
- 3:37grandparents
- 3:38grew
- 3:38up
- 3:38in
- 3:39is
- 3:39not
- 3:39the
- 3:39same
- 3:39world
- 3:39we're
- 3:40living
- 3:40in
- 3:40today.
- 3:41It's
- 3:42especially
- 3:42true
- 3:42for
- 3:43certain
- 3:43industries.
- 3:44Certain
- 3:45industries
- 3:45have
- 3:45completely
- 3:46been
- 3:46decimated
- 3:47by
- 3:47production.
- 3:48Facilities
- 3:48are
- 3:48completely
- 3:49different.
- 3:49If
- 3:50you
- 3:50look
- 3:50in
- 3:50the
- 3:50United
- 3:50States,
- 3:51there
- 3:51are
- 3:51very
- 3:52few
- 3:52places
- 3:52in
- 3:53the
- 3:53United
- 3:53States
- 3:53that
- 3:54are
- 3:54manufacturing
- 3:55things.
- 3:55And
- 3:55I
- 3:55think
- 3:55that's
- 3:56a
- 3:56problem.
- 3:56But
- 3:56we
- 3:56have
- 3:57to
- 3:57realize
- 3:57that
- 3:58is
- 3:58the
- 3:58truth.
- 4:00Another
- 4:00thing
- 4:00that
- 4:00is
- 4:01true
- 4:01is
- 4:01the
- 4:02cost
- 4:02of
- 4:02living
- 4:02has
- 4:03changed.
- 4:04The
- 4:04cost
- 4:04of
- 4:05doing
- 4:05everything
- 4:05is
- 4:06more
- 4:06expensive
- 4:07now.
- 4:07Our
- 4:07income
- 4:08patterns
- 4:08have
- 4:09changed.
- 4:10And
- 4:10what
- 4:11so
- 4:11many
- 4:11of
- 4:11us
- 4:12felt
- 4:12dependable,
- 4:13what
- 4:13we
- 4:13thought
- 4:13was
- 4:14going
- 4:14to
- 4:14be
- 4:14the
- 4:15way
- 4:15it
- 4:15was,
- 4:15was
- 4:16going
- 4:16to
- 4:16always
- 4:16be,
- 4:17doesn't
- 4:17feel
- 4:17dependable
- 4:18now.
- 4:19And
- 4:19that
- 4:20disappointment
- 4:20you're
- 4:21feeling
- 4:21is
- 4:21real.
- 4:22You
- 4:23have
- 4:23to
- 4:23grieve
- 4:23that.
- 4:23You
- 4:24have
- 4:24to
- 4:24accept
- 4:24it.
- 4:24This
- 4:25is
- 4:25not
- 4:25what
- 4:25I
- 4:25expected.
- 4:28So
- 4:28don't
- 4:29spiritualize
- 4:29away
- 4:30the
- 4:30frustration
- 4:32and
- 4:32don't
- 4:32shame
- 4:32yourself
- 4:33for
- 4:33feeling
- 4:33unsettled.
- 4:34This
- 4:34is
- 4:34an
- 4:35unsettling
- 4:35time
- 4:35in
- 4:36your
- 4:36life,
- 4:37and
- 4:38you're
- 4:38not
- 4:38weak
- 4:38for
- 4:38feeling
- 4:39this
- 4:39weight.
- 4:41But
- 4:41before
- 4:41you
- 4:41make
- 4:42a
- 4:42major
- 4:42decision
- 4:42and
- 4:43I
- 4:43hear
- 4:43what
- 4:43you're
- 4:43saying,
- 4:43you're
- 4:44like,
- 4:44ralph,
- 4:44maybe
- 4:44I'm
- 4:44going
- 4:45to
- 4:45make
- 4:45a
- 4:45pivot
- 4:45here.
- 4:45I'm
- 4:45going
- 4:45to
- 4:46make
- 4:46a
- 4:46major
- 4:46change.
- 4:47You
- 4:47got
- 4:47to
- 4:48respond
- 4:48to
- 4:48reality
- 4:49clearly,
- 4:49not
- 4:50just
- 4:50reacting
- 4:51in
- 4:51the
- 4:52sense
- 4:52of
- 4:52pain
- 4:52that
- 4:53you're
- 4:53in.
- 4:55One
- 4:56of
- 4:56the
- 4:56things
- 4:56I'm
- 4:56going
- 4:56to
- 4:56encourage
- 4:56you
- 4:57to
- 4:57do
- 4:57is
- 4:57stop
- 4:57asking
- 4:58one
- 4:58source
- 4:59to
- 4:59carry
- 4:59all
- 4:59your
- 5:00security.
- 5:01I
- 5:01think
- 5:01this
- 5:01is
- 5:02a
- 5:02world
- 5:02we
- 5:02live
- 5:02in.
- 5:03My
- 5:03grandfather
- 5:04worked
- 5:04for
- 5:04the
- 5:04dupont
- 5:05Company.
- 5:05When
- 5:05he
- 5:06went
- 5:06to
- 5:06work
- 5:06for
- 5:06the
- 5:06dupont
- 5:07Company,
- 5:07it
- 5:07was
- 5:07just
- 5:07a
- 5:08suit,
- 5:08and
- 5:08he
- 5:08was
- 5:09going
- 5:09to
- 5:09work
- 5:09there
- 5:09the
- 5:09rest
- 5:10of
- 5:10his
- 5:10life.
- 5:10And
- 5:10when
- 5:10he
- 5:11retired,
- 5:11he
- 5:12would
- 5:12get.
- 5:12He
- 5:12called
- 5:12it
- 5:13his
- 5:13pension
- 5:13check
- 5:14from
- 5:14Uncle
- 5:14Doopie.
- 5:15That's
- 5:15what
- 5:15they
- 5:15called
- 5:15it.
- 5:16And
- 5:16everybody
- 5:17just
- 5:17assumed
- 5:17that
- 5:17way
- 5:17it
- 5:18was
- 5:18going
- 5:18to
- 5:18be.
- 5:19But
- 5:19that's
- 5:19not
- 5:19the
- 5:20world
- 5:20we
- 5:20live
- 5:20in
- 5:20anymore.
- 5:22We
- 5:22can't
- 5:22rely
- 5:22on
- 5:23one
- 5:23employer
- 5:24to
- 5:24carry
- 5:24all
- 5:24of
- 5:24our
- 5:25peace.
- 5:26That
- 5:27one
- 5:27income
- 5:28stream
- 5:28that
- 5:28so
- 5:28many
- 5:29of
- 5:29us
- 5:29counted
- 5:29on
- 5:30can't
- 5:30carry
- 5:31all
- 5:31of
- 5:31our
- 5:31futures
- 5:32anymore.
- 5:33That
- 5:33industry
- 5:34that
- 5:34you
- 5:34thought
- 5:34was
- 5:35always
- 5:35going
- 5:35to
- 5:35be
- 5:35the
- 5:36case,
- 5:36maybe
- 5:36you're
- 5:37an
- 5:37assembly
- 5:37worker,
- 5:38maybe
- 5:38you
- 5:38work
- 5:38for
- 5:39a
- 5:39car
- 5:39manufacturer.
- 5:41That
- 5:41industry
- 5:42can't
- 5:42guarantee
- 5:42lifelong
- 5:43protection
- 5:43anymore.
- 5:44And
- 5:44that's
- 5:45not
- 5:45being
- 5:45cynical.
- 5:47People
- 5:47might
- 5:47listen
- 5:48to
- 5:48this
- 5:48and
- 5:48go,
- 5:48ralph,
- 5:48you're
- 5:49being
- 5:49really
- 5:49cynical.
- 5:49No,
- 5:50that's
- 5:50just
- 5:50being
- 5:51wise.
- 5:53Security
- 5:53used
- 5:54to
- 5:54be
- 5:54defined
- 5:54as
- 5:55predictable,
- 5:55but
- 5:56now
- 5:56it's
- 5:56often
- 5:56defined
- 5:57as
- 5:57resilience.
- 5:58That's
- 5:58what
- 5:58real
- 5:58security
- 5:59is
- 5:59now.
- 5:59It's
- 6:00not
- 6:00predictability,
- 6:01it's
- 6:01resilience.
- 6:03So
- 6:03right
- 6:04now,
- 6:04at
- 6:04this
- 6:04moment,
- 6:05ask
- 6:05Yourself.
- 6:06All
- 6:06of
- 6:06us
- 6:06need
- 6:06to
- 6:06ask
- 6:07this
- 6:07question.
- 6:08Where
- 6:08am
- 6:08I
- 6:08over
- 6:09dependent
- 6:09right
- 6:09now
- 6:10on
- 6:10a
- 6:10particular
- 6:11thing?
- 6:13If
- 6:13one
- 6:14part
- 6:14of
- 6:14my
- 6:14income
- 6:14shifts
- 6:15right
- 6:15now,
- 6:16what
- 6:16am
- 6:16I
- 6:17exposed
- 6:17to?
- 6:19Because
- 6:19peace
- 6:19will
- 6:20grow
- 6:20when
- 6:20you
- 6:20stop
- 6:21expecting
- 6:21one
- 6:21fragile
- 6:22system
- 6:22to
- 6:22do
- 6:23what
- 6:23only
- 6:23wise
- 6:24stewardship
- 6:24can
- 6:25do
- 6:25over
- 6:25time.
- 6:27So
- 6:27what
- 6:27does
- 6:27this
- 6:27tell
- 6:27us?
- 6:28It
- 6:28tells
- 6:29us
- 6:29that
- 6:29we
- 6:29need
- 6:29to
- 6:29build
- 6:30flexibility
- 6:30into
- 6:31our
- 6:31financial
- 6:31lives.
- 6:33That's
- 6:33what
- 6:33we
- 6:33need
- 6:34to
- 6:34do.
- 6:35Start
- 6:36by
- 6:36looking
- 6:36at
- 6:36your
- 6:36fixed
- 6:37expenses.
- 6:38What
- 6:38are
- 6:38those
- 6:39things
- 6:39that
- 6:39you're
- 6:39spending
- 6:40money
- 6:40on
- 6:40every
- 6:40month?
- 6:41What
- 6:41can
- 6:41be
- 6:42reduced,
- 6:42what
- 6:42can
- 6:43be
- 6:43renegotiated,
- 6:44or
- 6:44what
- 6:44can
- 6:44be
- 6:45simplified?
- 6:46You
- 6:47got
- 6:47to
- 6:47lower
- 6:47that
- 6:47pressure
- 6:48where
- 6:48you
- 6:48can.
- 6:48And
- 6:49fixed
- 6:49expenses
- 6:49is
- 6:50where
- 6:50that
- 6:50pressure
- 6:50builds
- 6:51up.
- 6:51The
- 6:51house
- 6:52payment,
- 6:52the
- 6:52car
- 6:53payment,
- 6:53all
- 6:54those
- 6:54things
- 6:54that
- 6:54are
- 6:54fixed.
- 6:56Another
- 6:56thing
- 6:56you
- 6:56can
- 6:56do
- 6:57is
- 6:57start
- 6:57building
- 6:57or
- 6:58rebuilding
- 6:58an
- 6:59emergency
- 6:59fund.
- 7:00You're
- 7:00probably
- 7:00getting
- 7:00a
- 7:00headache
- 7:01from
- 7:01hearing
- 7:01it
- 7:01all
- 7:01the
- 7:01time,
- 7:03but
- 7:03that
- 7:03cushion
- 7:03creates
- 7:04breathing
- 7:04room.
- 7:05It
- 7:05gives
- 7:05you
- 7:06that
- 7:06flexibility
- 7:06when
- 7:07something
- 7:07happens.
- 7:07Like
- 7:07you
- 7:08mentioned
- 7:08in
- 7:08your
- 7:08voicemail
- 7:09today,
- 7:10when
- 7:11you
- 7:11lose
- 7:12hours
- 7:12or
- 7:12when
- 7:12a
- 7:13contract
- 7:13changes
- 7:14or
- 7:14when
- 7:14the
- 7:14weather
- 7:14changes.
- 7:16Another
- 7:16thing
- 7:16you've
- 7:16got
- 7:17to
- 7:17think
- 7:17about
- 7:17is
- 7:18what
- 7:18are
- 7:18some
- 7:18skills
- 7:19you
- 7:19can
- 7:19have?
- 7:19Maybe
- 7:20it's
- 7:20not
- 7:20just
- 7:20one
- 7:21skill
- 7:21anymore.
- 7:21Maybe
- 7:22it's
- 7:22one
- 7:22or
- 7:23two
- 7:23or
- 7:23three
- 7:23transferable
- 7:24skills.
- 7:25You
- 7:26got
- 7:26to
- 7:26think
- 7:26in
- 7:26terms
- 7:26of
- 7:26flexibility
- 7:27and
- 7:27not
- 7:27live
- 7:28in
- 7:28this
- 7:28constant
- 7:28fear
- 7:29that
- 7:29everything
- 7:30is
- 7:30going
- 7:30to
- 7:30go
- 7:30away.
- 7:31A
- 7:31lot
- 7:31of
- 7:31people
- 7:31are
- 7:31worried
- 7:32about
- 7:32this
- 7:32with
- 7:32AI
- 7:33right
- 7:33now.
- 7:34What's
- 7:34going
- 7:34to
- 7:34happen
- 7:34with
- 7:35jobs
- 7:35and
- 7:35AI?
- 7:37Yeah,
- 7:38you
- 7:38got
- 7:38to
- 7:38have
- 7:38flexibility,
- 7:39but
- 7:39you
- 7:39can't
- 7:39live
- 7:39in
- 7:40fear
- 7:40of
- 7:40what's
- 7:40going
- 7:40to
- 7:40happen.
- 7:41This
- 7:42is
- 7:42a
- 7:42great
- 7:42time
- 7:42to
- 7:43consider
- 7:43some
- 7:43side
- 7:44income.
- 7:44Maybe
- 7:45there's
- 7:45something
- 7:45you
- 7:45enjoy
- 7:46doing.
- 7:46Maybe
- 7:46it's
- 7:46something
- 7:47that
- 7:47gives
- 7:47you
- 7:48passion
- 7:50and
- 7:50you're
- 7:50able
- 7:50to
- 7:50create
- 7:51that
- 7:51margin
- 7:51before
- 7:51you
- 7:52need
- 7:52it.
- 7:53See,
- 7:53this
- 7:53is
- 7:53the
- 7:53problem.
- 7:53So
- 7:54many
- 7:54people
- 7:54wait
- 7:54till
- 7:55that
- 7:55crisis
- 7:55happens
- 7:56or
- 7:56they
- 7:56wait
- 7:56till
- 7:57that
- 7:57problem
- 7:57happens.
- 7:58The
- 7:58job
- 7:58gets
- 7:59lost.
- 7:59You
- 7:59got
- 7:59to
- 8:00build
- 8:00that
- 8:00margin
- 8:00ahead
- 8:01of
- 8:01time.
- 8:02Like
- 8:02I
- 8:02said,
- 8:03cut
- 8:03one
- 8:03recurring
- 8:03expense.
- 8:04It
- 8:04isn't
- 8:04serving
- 8:05your
- 8:05priorities
- 8:05every
- 8:06month.
- 8:07Save
- 8:07one
- 8:08week
- 8:08of
- 8:08expenses
- 8:08as
- 8:09a
- 8:09target.
- 8:09You
- 8:09don't
- 8:09have
- 8:10to
- 8:10send
- 8:10thousands
- 8:11of
- 8:11dollars.
- 8:11Maybe
- 8:11it's
- 8:1150
- 8:12bucks.
- 8:13Learn
- 8:13an
- 8:13additional
- 8:14skill.
- 8:15Reconnect
- 8:15with
- 8:16those
- 8:16people
- 8:16you
- 8:16worked
- 8:16with
- 8:17before,
- 8:17Build
- 8:17those
- 8:18referral
- 8:18sources
- 8:19and
- 8:19update
- 8:20your
- 8:20resume
- 8:20before
- 8:21you're
- 8:21desperate.
- 8:23But
- 8:23in
- 8:23all
- 8:24of
- 8:24these
- 8:24things,
- 8:24you've
- 8:25got
- 8:25to
- 8:25make
- 8:25decisions
- 8:26from
- 8:26wisdom,
- 8:26not
- 8:27panic.
- 8:28It's
- 8:28real
- 8:29easy
- 8:29to
- 8:29get
- 8:29into
- 8:30a
- 8:30point
- 8:30of
- 8:30panic.
- 8:30We
- 8:31covered
- 8:31a
- 8:31question
- 8:31on
- 8:32the
- 8:32show.
- 8:32I
- 8:32guess
- 8:32it
- 8:32was
- 8:32a
- 8:33week
- 8:33or
- 8:33two
- 8:33ago
- 8:33where
- 8:34somebody
- 8:34was
- 8:34thinking
- 8:34about
- 8:35downsizing
- 8:35everything
- 8:36and
- 8:37he
- 8:37was
- 8:37living
- 8:37in
- 8:37panic.
- 8:38You
- 8:38can't
- 8:38blow
- 8:38up
- 8:39your
- 8:39whole
- 8:39life
- 8:39in
- 8:39one
- 8:40emotional
- 8:40weekend
- 8:41because
- 8:41you're
- 8:41feeling
- 8:42bad
- 8:42about
- 8:42what's
- 8:42going
- 8:43on.
- 8:44And
- 8:44you
- 8:44also
- 8:44can't
- 8:45assume
- 8:45that
- 8:45discomfort
- 8:46means
- 8:46you
- 8:46need
- 8:46to
- 8:47abandon
- 8:47everything.
- 8:49But
- 8:49it
- 8:49also
- 8:49doesn't
- 8:50mean
- 8:50you
- 8:50got
- 8:50to
- 8:50ignore
- 8:51it.
- 8:53That's
- 8:53where
- 8:54wisdom
- 8:54matters.
- 8:56Evaluate
- 8:56the
- 8:57patterns
- 8:57you're
- 8:57living
- 8:57in,
- 8:58not
- 8:58just
- 8:58bad
- 8:58weeks.
- 8:58You
- 8:59might
- 8:59have
- 8:59listen.
- 9:00Right
- 9:00now,
- 9:00where
- 9:00I'm
- 9:01at,
- 9:01it's
- 9:01raining
- 9:01and
- 9:02it's
- 9:02been
- 9:02raining
- 9:02for
- 9:03several
- 9:03days.
- 9:03If
- 9:04I
- 9:04worked
- 9:04outside,
- 9:05guess
- 9:05what?
- 9:06That's
- 9:06going
- 9:06to
- 9:06be
- 9:06a
- 9:06pattern
- 9:07for
- 9:07this
- 9:07week,
- 9:07but
- 9:08that's
- 9:08not
- 9:08the
- 9:08pattern
- 9:08for
- 9:09the
- 9:09entire
- 9:09season.
- 9:11So
- 9:11ask
- 9:12yourself,
- 9:12is
- 9:12this
- 9:12seasonal?
- 9:13Is
- 9:13it
- 9:13cyclical?
- 9:14Or
- 9:14is
- 9:14it
- 9:14structural?
- 9:15And
- 9:15get
- 9:15honest
- 9:16about
- 9:16your
- 9:16numbers.
- 9:17Get
- 9:17some
- 9:18help
- 9:18if
- 9:18you
- 9:18need
- 9:18it.
- 9:20Move
- 9:20prayerfully
- 9:20and
- 9:21strategically.
- 9:23You
- 9:23don't
- 9:23need
- 9:23to
- 9:24panic.
- 9:24But
- 9:25you
- 9:25do
- 9:25need
- 9:25a
- 9:25plan.
- 9:27And
- 9:27as
- 9:27you're
- 9:28building
- 9:28that
- 9:28plan,
- 9:29redefine
- 9:30what
- 9:30stability
- 9:30really
- 9:31means.
- 9:33Stability
- 9:34doesn't
- 9:34mean
- 9:34nothing
- 9:35ever
- 9:35changes.
- 9:36If
- 9:36you
- 9:37would
- 9:37have
- 9:37asked
- 9:37my
- 9:37grandfather,
- 9:38hey,
- 9:38what
- 9:39about
- 9:39changing
- 9:39to
- 9:39another
- 9:40career?
- 9:40What
- 9:40about
- 9:40changing
- 9:41to
- 9:41another
- 9:41employer?
- 9:41He
- 9:42would
- 9:42have
- 9:42said,
- 9:42that's
- 9:42not
- 9:42the
- 9:43way
- 9:43we
- 9:43do
- 9:43things.
- 9:44And
- 9:44he
- 9:44was
- 9:45right
- 9:4540
- 9:45years
- 9:45ago.
- 9:47But
- 9:48that's
- 9:48not
- 9:48what
- 9:48stability
- 9:48looks
- 9:49like
- 9:49now.
- 9:50Stability
- 9:51means
- 9:51you
- 9:51can
- 9:52withstand
- 9:52change
- 9:52without
- 9:53collapsing,
- 9:53without
- 9:54falling
- 9:54apart.
- 9:56It
- 9:56means
- 9:56being
- 9:57prepared.
- 9:57It
- 9:58means
- 9:58being
- 9:58adaptable,
- 9:59and
- 9:59it
- 9:59means
- 10:00building
- 10:00that
- 10:00margin.
- 10:02It
- 10:03means
- 10:03having
- 10:03sober
- 10:04expectations
- 10:05and
- 10:05steady
- 10:05habits.
- 10:07It
- 10:08means
- 10:08your
- 10:08peace
- 10:08isn't
- 10:09built
- 10:09entirely
- 10:09on
- 10:10circumstances
- 10:10and
- 10:11staying
- 10:11easy
- 10:12on
- 10:12things.
- 10:12That's
- 10:12not
- 10:12selling
- 10:13for
- 10:13less.
- 10:13That's
- 10:14just
- 10:14building
- 10:14wiser
- 10:17friend.
- 10:17Biblical
- 10:17stability
- 10:18isn't
- 10:18perfect
- 10:19control.
- 10:19You
- 10:19can't
- 10:20control
- 10:20everything.
- 10:22You
- 10:22can't.
- 10:24If
- 10:24I
- 10:24burst
- 10:24your
- 10:24bubble,
- 10:25sorry,
- 10:25but
- 10:25that's
- 10:26just
- 10:26a
- 10:26fact.
- 10:28But
- 10:28biblical
- 10:29stability
- 10:29is
- 10:30wise
- 10:30stewardship
- 10:31under
- 10:31changing
- 10:31conditions.
- 10:32And
- 10:32hey,
- 10:32we've
- 10:33got
- 10:33changing
- 10:33conditions.
- 10:35But
- 10:35let
- 10:35me
- 10:35take
- 10:36this
- 10:36a
- 10:36little
- 10:36deeper.
- 10:38Because
- 10:38what
- 10:38may
- 10:38really
- 10:38be
- 10:39shaking
- 10:39you
- 10:39isn't
- 10:40just
- 10:40your
- 10:40income.
- 10:42I
- 10:42think
- 10:42that's
- 10:42part
- 10:42of
- 10:42it.
- 10:42But
- 10:43as
- 10:44I
- 10:44look
- 10:44at
- 10:44your
- 10:44question,
- 10:44I
- 10:45go
- 10:45a
- 10:45little
- 10:45deeper
- 10:45in
- 10:45this.
- 10:46I
- 10:46think
- 10:47it
- 10:47might
- 10:47be
- 10:47the
- 10:47realization
- 10:48that
- 10:48that
- 10:48life
- 10:49blueprint
- 10:49you
- 10:49trusted
- 10:50doesn't
- 10:50work
- 10:50the
- 10:50way
- 10:51you
- 10:51thought
- 10:51it
- 10:51would.
- 10:53And
- 10:54that
- 10:54feeling
- 10:54can
- 10:54be
- 10:55disorienting.
- 10:57It
- 10:57can
- 10:57feel
- 10:58disappointing.
- 11:00It
- 11:00can
- 11:00even
- 11:00feel
- 11:01unfair.
- 11:03But
- 11:03fragile
- 11:04systems
- 11:04don't
- 11:05mean
- 11:05that
- 11:05God
- 11:05has
- 11:05abandoned
- 11:06you.
- 11:08Your
- 11:08future
- 11:08was
- 11:08never
- 11:09meant
- 11:09to
- 11:09rest
- 11:09entirely
- 11:10on
- 11:10one
- 11:11job
- 11:11or
- 11:12one
- 11:12employer
- 11:13or
- 11:13one
- 11:14contract
- 11:15or
- 11:15one
- 11:15industry.
- 11:17Our
- 11:18responsibility
- 11:19is
- 11:19faithfulness.
- 11:21God's
- 11:21role
- 11:21is
- 11:22still
- 11:22sovereignty.
- 11:25So
- 11:25if
- 11:25what
- 11:26once
- 11:26felt
- 11:26secure
- 11:27now
- 11:27feels
- 11:28shaky,
- 11:29this
- 11:29may
- 11:30be
- 11:30a
- 11:30season
- 11:30where
- 11:30God
- 11:30is
- 11:31teaching
- 11:31you
- 11:31something.
- 11:32Maybe
- 11:33God
- 11:33is
- 11:33telling
- 11:33you
- 11:33to
- 11:34build
- 11:34with
- 11:34deeper
- 11:35wisdom,
- 11:35maybe
- 11:36to
- 11:36have
- 11:36a
- 11:36clearer
- 11:36vision
- 11:37and
- 11:38greater
- 11:38dependence
- 11:39on
- 11:39him.
- 11:41Maybe
- 11:41you
- 11:41just
- 11:42need
- 11:42to
- 11:42look
- 11:42to
- 11:42him
- 11:42and
- 11:42say,
- 11:42lord,
- 11:43help
- 11:43me
- 11:43build
- 11:43wisdom
- 11:43and
- 11:44resilience
- 11:44instead
- 11:44of
- 11:45living
- 11:45in
- 11:45fear
- 11:45of
- 11:46uncertainty.
- 11:48Fragile
- 11:49systems
- 11:49don't
- 11:50mean
- 11:50you're
- 11:50a
- 11:50failure.
- 11:52But
- 11:52let's
- 11:52get
- 11:52to
- 11:52today's
- 11:53win.
- 11:53Here's
- 11:54what
- 11:54I
- 11:54want
- 11:54you
- 11:54to
- 11:54do
- 11:54today.
- 11:54I
- 11:55want
- 11:55you
- 11:55to
- 11:55write
- 11:55down
- 11:55one
- 11:56practical
- 11:56way
- 11:56to
- 11:57increase
- 11:57flexibility
- 11:58in
- 11:58your
- 11:58finances
- 11:59or
- 11:59your
- 11:59career
- 11:59this
- 12:00week.
- 12:00That's
- 12:00what
- 12:00we
- 12:00really
- 12:01need
- 12:01to
- 12:01figure
- 12:01out.
- 12:01What's
- 12:02one
- 12:02practical
- 12:02thing
- 12:03you
- 12:03can
- 12:03do?
- 12:04Maybe
- 12:04cut
- 12:04one
- 12:05bill,
- 12:05save
- 12:06your
- 12:06first
- 12:06hundred
- 12:06bucks,
- 12:07Update
- 12:08your
- 12:08resume,
- 12:09Identify
- 12:09one
- 12:10new
- 12:10skill
- 12:10to
- 12:10develop.
- 12:12Focus
- 12:12on
- 12:13adaptability.
- 12:13That's
- 12:14the
- 12:14key
- 12:14word
- 12:14for
- 12:15today.
- 12:15How
- 12:15do
- 12:16I
- 12:16adapt
- 12:16to
- 12:17what's
- 12:17going
- 12:17on
- 12:17around
- 12:18us
- 12:18and
- 12:18stop
- 12:18panicking?
- 12:20Which
- 12:20leads
- 12:20me
- 12:20to
- 12:21Today's
- 12:21Bible
- 12:21verse
- 12:22comes
- 12:22to
- 12:23us
- 12:23from
- 12:23the
- 12:23book
- 12:23of
- 12:23Proverbs
- 12:2424:3.
- 12:27It
- 12:27says,
- 12:27by
- 12:27wisdom
- 12:28a
- 12:28house
- 12:28is
- 12:29built
- 12:29and
- 12:30through
- 12:30understanding
- 12:31it
- 12:31is
- 12:31established.
- 12:33Long
- 12:34term
- 12:34stability
- 12:35is
- 12:35built
- 12:35through
- 12:36wisdom
- 12:36and
- 12:36preparation,
- 12:37not
- 12:38through
- 12:38assuming
- 12:38life
- 12:39will
- 12:39always
- 12:39stay
- 12:40predictable.
- 12:41My
- 12:42grandfather
- 12:42said
- 12:42it
- 12:42the
- 12:43one
- 12:43thing
- 12:43about
- 12:43life
- 12:43is
- 12:44it
- 12:44is
- 12:44unpredictable.
- 12:47So
- 12:47build
- 12:47that
- 12:47adaptability.
- 12:49How
- 12:49about
- 12:49we
- 12:49pray
- 12:50together?
- 12:51Heavenly
- 12:51Father,
- 12:52I
- 12:52lift
- 12:53up
- 12:53the
- 12:53person
- 12:53who
- 12:54feels
- 12:54uncertain
- 12:54about
- 12:55their
- 12:55future
- 12:55right
- 12:56now.
- 12:57You
- 12:57see
- 12:57the
- 12:57frustration
- 12:58they
- 12:58carry.
- 12:59You
- 13:00see
- 13:00the
- 13:00disappointment
- 13:01they
- 13:01feel
- 13:02and
- 13:03that
- 13:03fear
- 13:03underneath
- 13:04of
- 13:04all
- 13:04of
- 13:04it.
- 13:05Give
- 13:06them
- 13:06wisdom
- 13:06as
- 13:06they
- 13:07make
- 13:07decisions
- 13:07about
- 13:08what
- 13:08comes
- 13:08next.
- 13:09Help
- 13:10them
- 13:10build
- 13:10steady
- 13:11foundations
- 13:11even
- 13:12in
- 13:12an
- 13:12unpredictable
- 13:13world.
- 13:13And
- 13:13we
- 13:13know
- 13:14we
- 13:14live
- 13:14in
- 13:14an
- 13:14unpredictable
- 13:15world.
- 13:16Replace
- 13:17fear
- 13:17with
- 13:17discernment,
- 13:19replace
- 13:19panic
- 13:20with
- 13:20patience
- 13:21and
- 13:21replace
- 13:22exhaustion
- 13:22with
- 13:23renewed
- 13:23strength.
- 13:24Help
- 13:25us
- 13:25all
- 13:25to
- 13:25face
- 13:26reality
- 13:26honestly
- 13:27without
- 13:27losing
- 13:28heart
- 13:29and
- 13:29remind
- 13:29us
- 13:30that
- 13:30our
- 13:30ultimate
- 13:30security
- 13:31rests
- 13:31in
- 13:31you,
- 13:31Lord,
- 13:32not
- 13:32in
- 13:32a
- 13:32changing
- 13:33economy
- 13:34or
- 13:34in
- 13:34unstable
- 13:35circumstances.
- 13:36And
- 13:37I
- 13:37ask
- 13:37this
- 13:37in
- 13:38Jesus
- 13:38name.
- 13:39Amen.
- 13:42Friend.
- 13:42If
- 13:42today's
- 13:42episode
- 13:43encouraged
- 13:43you,
- 13:45I
- 13:45want
- 13:45you
- 13:45to
- 13:45remember
- 13:45this
- 13:47stability
- 13:48today
- 13:48is
- 13:48built
- 13:49through
- 13:49wisdom,
- 13:50through
- 13:50flexibility
- 13:51and
- 13:51resilience.
- 13:53Just
- 13:54take
- 13:54that
- 13:54away
- 13:54today.
- 13:54Wisdom,
- 13:55flexibility
- 13:56and
- 13:57resilience.
- 13:58And
- 13:59maybe
- 13:59you've
- 13:59got
- 13:59a
- 13:59question
- 14:00you'd
- 14:00like
- 14:00me
- 14:00to
- 14:00answer
- 14:00on
- 14:01a
- 14:01future
- 14:01episode.
- 14:02I'd
- 14:02love
- 14:02for
- 14:02you
- 14:03to
- 14:03head
- 14:03over
- 14:03to
- 14:03financiallyconfidentchristian.com/question
- 14:08We'll
- 14:08put
- 14:08a
- 14:08link
- 14:08in
- 14:09the
- 14:09show
- 14:09notes,
- 14:09but
- 14:09again,
- 14:09that's
- 14:10financially
- 14:11confident.
- 14:11Christian,
- 14:14I
- 14:14just
- 14:15want
- 14:15to
- 14:15thank
- 14:15you
- 14:15so
- 14:15much
- 14:15for
- 14:16joining
- 14:16me
- 14:16today
- 14:16and
- 14:17until
- 14:17next
- 14:17time,
- 14:18stay
- 14:18financially
- 14:19savvy
- 14:20and
- 14:20may
- 14:20God
- 14:20bless.
- 14:38We
- 14:39rise.