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Johnjay has an update to the ELLA LANGLEY Concert LORE · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: So get this.
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  Speaker 2: A music sales and chart tracker called Chart Data released
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  Speaker 2: a list of the top, the 10 highest selling songs
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  Speaker 2: released in 2026. Country dominates the top half the list,
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  Speaker 2: but the number one song, like I thought, like if
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  Speaker 2: you were to guess, you would probably go.
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  Speaker 3: Ella Langley.
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  Speaker 1: She's in Texas. Let me go over the top 10
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  Speaker 1: with you real quick.
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  Speaker 2: Sleepless in a Hotel Room, Luke Combs. Risk It All,
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  Speaker 2: Bruno Mars is number nine. Drop Dead, Olivia Rodrigo. Be
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  Speaker 2: By You by Luke Combs. I Can't Love You Anymore,
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  Speaker 2: Ella Langley and Morgan Wallen. E85, E85, Don Toliver.
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  Speaker 4: That's such a good song.
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  Speaker 2: Boston by Stella Lefty. Number three is Janice, STFU by Drake.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that's good too.
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  Speaker 2: Number two is I Just Might by Bruno Mars. And
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  Speaker 2: this is the number one selling song in 2026 songs.
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  Speaker 5: She drinks wine by the glass, not by the bottle.
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  Speaker 4: She ain't stuck on the past, ain't worried about tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: She's a lover, a mother, a sister and wife.
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  Speaker 4: She rolls over in the morning to.
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  Speaker 1: The love of her life.
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  Speaker 4: Only smokes one on vacation, says just what she thinks.
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  Speaker 4: She don't need validation or much of anything. I just
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  Speaker 4: want to be her so bad it hurts.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my God, I heard this song. I've been listening
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  Speaker 1: to Ella Langley nonstop. I know this. I love this song.
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  Speaker 1: It's a good song. I was like thinking it was
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  Speaker 1: so clever. I want to be heard so bad. I
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  Speaker 1: heard so bad. I want to be heard. I thought
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  Speaker 1: that was so clever.
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  Speaker 4: It is very clever.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to go see her, you know.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, you decided you are going to go?
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  Speaker 1: Kinda.
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  Speaker 3: You're just like speaking, you're convincing yourself right now.
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  Speaker 2: I've been listening to her playlist on a loop because
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  Speaker 2: I really want to go to know her music, but
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  Speaker 2: I like her more and more and more.
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  Speaker 4: Her live shows are pretty good too.
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  Speaker 5: Well, because your friends invited you and you didn't want
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  Speaker 5: to be the lame friends because you didn't know any
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  Speaker 5: of the songs, but now you're like, you're learning the
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  Speaker 5: song so you'll be able to sing along too.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want to go because I think I'm a
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  Speaker 1: lame concert goer.
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  Speaker 6: But not if you like this song and the artist.
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  Speaker 4: I saw you at Drake, you were vibing.
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  Speaker 1: I was sitting in a chair.
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  Speaker 4: You're vibing.
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  Speaker 5: Your husband was vibing.
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  Speaker 2: All right, so look, we got into why it's great
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  Speaker 2: to be single. Now think about being happy if you're
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  Speaker 2: a happy couple.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: So there was a question that was posed online. Do
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  Speaker 5: happy couples actually need more fun together? And then Psychology
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  Speaker 5: Today did this piece about something they called joint savoring.
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  Speaker 5: And I kind of love this because it's saying basically
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  Speaker 5: couples don't just benefit from doing enjoyable things together. They
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  Speaker 5: benefit from actively noticing and sharing the enjoyment while it's happening.
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  Speaker 5: So not that it's not enough to go do fun
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  Speaker 5: things together, but it heightens your experience and really kind
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  Speaker 5: of makes you a more happy couple.
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  Speaker 4: I get that.
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  Speaker 5: If per se, while you're out having a great night,
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  Speaker 5: you look at each other and say, this is such
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  Speaker 5: a great night.
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  Speaker 4: We should do this more. I am really enjoying myself.
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  Speaker 5: I am enjoying being with you. Naming a good moment
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  Speaker 5: can actually make it more meaningful. Even if you're thinking it,
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  Speaker 5: just say it out loud. Cause then your joint, you're
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  Speaker 5: savoring that moment with your partner.
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  Speaker 1: That's a really interesting point of view because you know,
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  Speaker 1: over the weekend I was with my wife, we were
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  Speaker 1: in Cancun for a medical convention and I was supposed
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  Speaker 1: to do a bunch of podcasts and do whatever. And
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  Speaker 1: it didn't happen. And none of the podcasts happened. I
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  Speaker 1: was just, and I was like, and she was like.
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  Speaker 2: We're in beautiful Cancun for three days.
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  Speaker 1: Isn't this fun? I was like, No.
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  Speaker 4: No. That's not joint savoring.
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  Speaker 1: She was savoring it.
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  Speaker 4: That's your wife savoring it. That's not a good example
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  Speaker 4: of that. This is you have.
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  Speaker 5: To enjoy it and savor it together. So, for instance,
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  Speaker 5: if you are doing something new together, like they say
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  Speaker 5: this is really great because novelty gives couples something fresh
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  Speaker 5: to share. And then another positive thing they say is if...
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  Speaker 5: If you are like sitting with your partner just on
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  Speaker 5: the couch or in the car driving somewhere, remembering those moments.
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember when we tried paintballing?
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  Speaker 5: That was so fun. And reliving moments where you were
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  Speaker 5: having a great time can actually make you a happier couple.
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  Speaker 6: That makes complete sense to me because... I feel like
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  Speaker 6: I do that a lot with my girlfriends. Like whenever
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  Speaker 6: we go out to go do something fun together, like
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  Speaker 6: it's always a text in the group chat.
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  Speaker 4: That was so much fun. I had the best time.
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  Speaker 4: Let's do it again.
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  Speaker 6: Or if we're in the car driving somewhere, we're reminiscing
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  Speaker 6: on the old times. And I feel like we constantly
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  Speaker 6: do that. And every time I'm with my friends, I
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  Speaker 6: feel fulfilled. Now, if I do it with my partner
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  Speaker 6: and being more intentional with that, I think I could
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  Speaker 6: get that.
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  Speaker 4: Same exact feeling. Your partner, you're married, you're a husband now. Exactly. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: my man. Yeah, my man.
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  Speaker 5: I had read the study and so it was kind
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  Speaker 5: of like in the back of my mind. And one
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  Speaker 5: of the things on here is like celebrating tiny wins,
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  Speaker 5: not just like huge milestones for your relationship, but like
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  Speaker 5: everyday positives too. And last night we were literally laying
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  Speaker 5: in bed. If you guys remember when we got our puppy,
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  Speaker 5: we had a sleep divorce. We did not sleep in
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  Speaker 5: the same bed together for months.
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  Speaker 1: And I looked at my.
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  Speaker 5: Husband and I go... Let's celebrate this small win right now.
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  Speaker 5: We are laying in bed together. We are about to
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  Speaker 5: go to sleep, and both dogs are in.
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  Speaker 1: The bed being peaceful and getting along. That's big.
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  Speaker 6: Let's celebrate this moment.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: And I don't know if Scott necessarily appreciated it as.
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  Speaker 4: Much as I did, but I was like, this is
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  Speaker 4: really good.
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  Speaker 5: This is also a good one. And, John Jay, you
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  Speaker 5: said that you've been actively trying to do this, and
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  Speaker 5: so you didn't even know you're putting in effort to
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  Speaker 5: be a happier couple.
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  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 5: By putting your phone down when something good is happening.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, because it's a problem.
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  Speaker 5: Your active attention helps the moment register. So oftentimes, like,
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  Speaker 5: I'll have my phone with me and I'm like, well,
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  Speaker 5: I want to take a picture of this. But then
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  Speaker 5: you're not necessarily actively being in the moment.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 5: And so that can actually make you a happier couple
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  Speaker 5: just by doing that. And then they also say one
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  Speaker 5: of the most important things is having little traditions. So
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  Speaker 5: repeated positive experiences just become.
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  Speaker 4: Part of your shared identity.
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  Speaker 5: Like we always go get coffee together on National Coffee Day.
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  Speaker 4: Why wouldn't we? It's what we do.
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  Speaker 3: That's why I think the little once a week date,
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  Speaker 3: even if it's like in the afternoon and it's one
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  Speaker 3: little thing, is such a big deal. And one of
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  Speaker 3: my favorite things to do right now with Stacey is
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  Speaker 3: it doesn't cost anything, but I love going to an
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  Speaker 3: open house in a neighborhood.
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  Speaker 4: I'm with you on that.
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  Speaker 1: It's so fun.
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  Speaker 4: I love that. I love it.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 4: Especially if it's somebody's house. It's so fascinating. Yes. I
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  Speaker 4: want to be nosy.
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  Speaker 5: That's why I relate to Nina.
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  Speaker 6: Nina Scott.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Oh my God.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, of course I'm going to walk through your house.
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  Speaker 3: Like I feel the same way. Does that happen in
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  Speaker 3: an episode or something?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: She walks through Riley's house.
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  Speaker 3: You get this big old house and she wants to
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  Speaker 3: see what's up there.
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  Speaker 4: So she just takes off and goes and checks it out.
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  Speaker 5: So last on this list together, I think that this
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  Speaker 5: is actually very important because it is looking forward to
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  Speaker 5: something together. Sort of having anticipation itself can add enjoyment,
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  Speaker 5: but also making plans together helps you work towards a
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  Speaker 5: common goal and And that can actually make you a
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  Speaker 5: happier couple. And I kind of love that because it
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  Speaker 5: kind of makes you more of a team. Like we're
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  Speaker 5: looking forward to this together because we're in this together
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  Speaker 5: and we get to do this and experience this together.
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  Speaker 1: That's good stuff, Kyle. Good, happy couple stuff. You know, Peyton,
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  Speaker 1: you said something that really stuck with me. You said
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  Speaker 1: something about being fulfilled.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So I always thought it was fulfilled until I wrote
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  Speaker 2: it down. I write it down the right way.
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  Speaker 1: Fulfilled. But I always say for-filled.
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  Speaker 4: For, like, for your field.
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  Speaker 1: Man, I'm so fulfilled. It's fulfilled. It's kind of like
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  Speaker 1: when you, you know the word bury, when you bury somebody?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, it was buried in the ground. When you read it,
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  Speaker 1: it's bury. Yeah. It's so weird.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 1: Fulfilled, for-filled.
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  Speaker 5: I kind of feel like any word you say over
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  Speaker 5: and over again, you start to go, is that really
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  Speaker 5: the word?
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  Speaker 6: Like, why is that the word?
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  Speaker 4: It's kind of weird.
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  Speaker 2: For-filled.
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  Speaker 1: For-filled. Man, I'm really for-filled.
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  Speaker 5: Fulfilled.
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  Speaker 4: Fulfilled.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you did say it's National Coffee Day today.
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  Speaker 1: We've been talking about that this morning. I have some
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  Speaker 1: quick coffee trivia.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, really?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Let's go. Okay, okay. Ready?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So, is it a real coffee brand or is it
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  Speaker 1: something I just made up?
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Rich, Death Wish Coffee. So, if I give you, if
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  Speaker 2: it's a real Joe, you say Joe, right?
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  Speaker 1: Cup of Joe. Joe. Or no Joe. No Joe. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Death Wish Coffee.
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  Speaker 4: That is real. That is Joe.
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  Speaker 1: Joe, it is. Death Wish Coffee is.
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  Speaker 2: An American coffee brand out of Albany, New York, famous
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  Speaker 2: for producing exceptionally strong high-caffeine coffee.
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  Speaker 1: Peyton, the human bean. Ooh, that definitely sounds like Joe. Joe,
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  Speaker 1: it is. Human bean currently has 260 locations.
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  Speaker 4: A couple of them around here.
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  Speaker 1: I've seen them. Kyle, jittery Joes.
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  Speaker 5: I love that, but then I'm going to say no Joe.
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  Speaker 1: It is a Joe.
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  Speaker 2: Jittery Joe's real coffee company with multiple cafe locations, primarily
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  Speaker 2: in Georgia.
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  Speaker 6: I don't like that.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like it would make you feel like negative
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  Speaker 5: towards it, but okay. All right.
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  Speaker 4: Jittery Joe's.
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  Speaker 1: Rich. Aroma Joe's.
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  Speaker 4: No Joe.
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  Speaker 1: It is a Joe. Oh, it is a Joe. New
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  Speaker 1: England coffee chain known for drive-thrus and friendly service. Peyton.
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  Speaker 1: Mocha Joe's.
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  Speaker 4: That's cute.
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  Speaker 5: No Joe.
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  Speaker 1: No Joe.
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  Speaker 4: That's a.
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  Speaker 1: Kirby enthusiasm.
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  Speaker 4: Kyle.
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  Speaker 1: Latte Larry's.
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  Speaker 5: I want this to be real, so I'm going to
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  Speaker 5: say that's Joe.
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  Speaker 1: No Joe.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, Larry.
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  Speaker 4: Open up Latte Larry's. Great idea for all the Larry's
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  Speaker 4: out there.
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  Speaker 1: It is from Kirby Enthusiasm. He opened it next to
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  Speaker 1: Mocha Joe's.
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  Speaker 4: Spice Store. Okay. Rich Central Perk. Central Perk, no Joe,
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  Speaker 4: but it's Friends, right?
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  Speaker 1: Friends. Peyton, Hot Bikini Brew.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, yep.
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  Speaker 6: That's definitely Joe.
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  Speaker 1: It is a Joe.
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  Speaker 2: Hot Bikini Brews, a coffee chain that has good looking
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  Speaker 2: women serve coffee in the morning wearing bikinis.
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  Speaker 6: Which it's a bummer when they're not wearing bikinis because
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  Speaker 6: sometimes they aren't.
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  Speaker 1: Because there's also the one here, Bikini Beans.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Peyton, Hooters Coffee of Clearwater, Florida.
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  Speaker 6: I'm going to say that's a Joe.
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  Speaker 1: No Joe. What? No Joe. Kyle, Badass Coffee of Vermont. Okay.
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  Speaker 4: There's, yes, yes, that's Joe.
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  Speaker 1: No Joe.
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  Speaker 6: What?
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  Speaker 1: Rich, Badass Coffee of Hawaii. Ah, Joe. That is a Joe. Peyton,
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  Speaker 1: Bottoms Up Espresso.
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  Speaker 4: Uh, no Joe.
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  Speaker 1: It is a Joe.
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  Speaker 5: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: Kyle, Scooter's Coffee.
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  Speaker 4: I love Scooter's Coffee.
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  Speaker 1: That's definitely a joke. It's a joke. That's a joke.