Latest / Murder Files Unsealed / The Psychological Autopsy of Kristen Trickle
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- 0:00Speaker 1: So to start off this deep dub, I really want
- 0:02you to put yourself in this environment, like vividly picture
- 0:05this scene as it unfolds.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, let's set the stage.
- 0:08Speaker 1: It is a freezing, heavily snowing Halloween morning out in Kansas.
- 0:13The time is exactly five point three seven am.
- 0:16Speaker 2: Which you know is pitch black at that time of year.
- 0:18Speaker 1: Exactly, So first responders are rushing through the dark, cutting
- 0:23right through the snow to this house. It's got this
- 0:26distinct red and white trim.
- 0:28Speaker 2: Right, a very typical suburban house, right, But.
- 0:30Speaker 1: Out on the front porch, standing in the freezing cold
- 0:33is a husband waiting for them.
- 0:35Speaker 2: Oh wow, just waiting outside.
- 0:37Speaker 1: Yeah, and he is choking back tears. He's hyperventilating so
- 0:40hard that the officers can actually barely understand what he's saying.
- 0:44Speaker 2: That sounds incredibly intense, it is.
- 0:47Speaker 1: And he leads a police sergeant inside the house, down
- 0:49a hallway and into this dark bedroom. Okay, and there
- 0:53lying in the bed is his twenty six year old wife, Kristen,
- 0:57and she has a gunshot wound located directly under her chin.
- 1:00Speaker 2: God, I mean, it creates just an incredibly chilling image.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Right, it really does.
- 1:05Speaker 2: Yeah, the juxtaposition is what makes it so striking. You
- 1:08have this quiet, snowy early morning on a holiday, you know,
- 1:12a day usually associated with kids.
- 1:14Speaker 1: In candy, right Halloween.
- 1:16Speaker 2: Yeah, and inside this totally ordinary house you have just
- 1:19absolute horror.
- 1:20Speaker 1: And the husband, who we will come to know as
- 1:23Colby trick Less, he tells the police a very simple,
- 1:27very tragic story.
- 1:29Speaker 2: Let me guess. He says she did it herself.
- 1:31Speaker 1: Exactly. He tells them his wife took her own life.
- 1:34And honestly, if you were to just look at the
- 1:36raw physical evidence in a complete vacuum, Yeah, the authorities
- 1:40actually agreed with his assessment. At first, it looks on
- 1:42the surface like a tragic suicide.
- 1:45Speaker 2: Wow, but I'm assuming that's where the narrative starts to
- 1:49fall apart.
- 1:49Speaker 1: Oh, completely fractures because you know, to the people who
- 1:52knew Kristen Best, her family, her friends, her coworkers, her
- 1:56psychological profile screamed the exact opposite, which you.
- 1:59Speaker 2: Know, is one of the most fascinating and frankly dangerous
- 2:02tensions you can encounter in the criminal.
- 2:04Speaker 1: Justice system, Right, Like, what do you do when the
- 2:06physical evidence says one thing, but the behavioral evidence says
- 2:08another exactly.
- 2:10Speaker 2: What happens when the initial, rushed interpretation of the physical
- 2:13scene tells one story, but the victim's behavior tells a
- 2:18completely contradictory one.
- 2:19Speaker 1: And that is exactly what our deep dive is venturing
- 2:22into today. It's this extraordinary case that sits squarely at
- 2:26that intersection.
- 2:27Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a story that really exposes the extreme danger
- 2:30of initial assumptions and the blind spots in forensic science
- 2:36when people just do not communicate.
- 2:38Speaker 1: Oh, the lack of communication here is staggering. But it's
- 2:41also about how an investigation that was completely dead in
- 2:45the water got blown wide open.
- 2:47Speaker 2: Right by a really groundbreaking technique.
- 2:49Speaker 1: Okay, so let's unpack this technique because you're referring to
- 2:51what's called a psychological.
- 2:53Speaker 2: Autopsy, right I am. Yeah.
- 2:54Speaker 1: I mean just the phrase autopsy of the mind is
- 2:57utterly fascinating to me.
- 2:59Speaker 2: It sounds totally sci fi, doesn't it.
- 3:01Speaker 1: It really does. We are so conditioned to think of
- 3:03autopsies as strictly clinical, right, just purely physical procedures.
- 3:07Speaker 2: Right, like weighing organs, checking toxicology reports, measuring.
- 3:10Speaker 1: Wounds exactly, So the idea of like post mortem profiling
- 3:15a person's mental state to solve a crime. It feels
- 3:18pulled straight out of a movie.
- 3:19Speaker 2: It does sound like something a screenwriter would invent, but
- 3:23I assure you it is a highly rigorous, intensely complex investigative.
- 3:29Speaker 1: Tool, and we are going to explore exactly why it
- 3:32was literally the only key left to unlock this mystery.
- 3:36Speaker 2: Because sometimes you know, when the physical scene is muddled,
- 3:39or when the medical establishment makes a premature ruling, maybe
- 3:43the absolutely do here right, which legally handcuffs the police.
- 3:46When that happens, critical thinking and meticulously connecting those circumstantial
- 3:51behavioral dots are your only options.
- 3:53Speaker 1: You really have to reconstruct the invisible mind of a
- 3:55victim to spring a trap on a killer.
- 3:57Speaker 2: Exactly, So, should we go back to the mechanics of
- 4:00that snowy Halloween.
- 4:01Speaker 1: Morning, let's do it so. Sergeant Brandon Hallman is the
- 4:04first to arrive at the scene. Okay, he walks into
- 4:06that master bedroom, which remembers pitch black. He finds Kristen
- 4:10lying in bed and she is almost entirely undressed.
- 4:13Speaker 2: Oh wow, just in her underwear, right.
- 4:15Speaker 1: Yes, wearing only her underwear and lying awkwardly across her
- 4:20abdomen is the weapon, and we.
- 4:21Speaker 2: Should clarify this is not some small, easily concealed handgun
- 4:24we're talking about here.
- 4:25Speaker 1: No, not at all. This is a massive, heavy, eleven
- 4:29to twelve inch point three five seven magnum revolver.
- 4:33Speaker 2: Yeah, we really need to pause and seriously consider the
- 4:36logistics of a weapon like that.
- 4:38Speaker 1: I mean, twelve inches is huge for a handgun.
- 4:40Speaker 2: It is a point three five seven magnum revolver with
- 4:44a twelve inch profile is not just heavy, it is incredibly.
- 4:47Speaker 1: Cumbersome, right because of the barrel length.
- 4:49Speaker 2: Exactly, the center of gravity is far forward because of
- 4:53that long barrel, So it requires a significant amount of
- 4:57grip strength, reristability, and overall dexterity just to hold it
- 5:01steady aiming forward.
- 5:02Speaker 1: So aiming it backward at yourself would be a nightmare.
- 5:05Speaker 2: Maneuvering a piece of steel that size and a reverse
- 5:07angle pointing it back at yourself under the chin. It
- 5:10requires severe physical contortion.
- 5:12Speaker 1: That physical awkwardness is a massive detail. But honestly, the
- 5:15most pressing issue for Sergeant Hallman in that split second wasn't.
- 5:19Speaker 2: The firearm, right, because Kristen is actually still alive when
- 5:21he walks.
- 5:22Speaker 1: In exactly he can see her jaw moving. She is
- 5:26clinging to life. Oh my god, So he immediately moves
- 5:30that giant revolver away from her body. He scoops her up,
- 5:33carries her into the living room where there is more
- 5:35space and light, and he starts CPR.
- 5:38Speaker 2: That's just a terrifying situation for a first responder, it is.
- 5:42Speaker 1: And tragically, despite those desperate efforts, she does not survive
- 5:46the morning.
- 5:46Speaker 2: Which you really forces us to scrutinize the husband's account
- 5:50of what happened in that dark bedroom right.
- 5:52Speaker 1: And those minutes before the police sirens arrived.
- 5:54Speaker 2: Because Colby Trickle claims he was asleep in the bed
- 5:57right next to her. He says he woke up with
- 5:59his ears ringing from the concussive blast of the gun.
- 6:03Speaker 1: And he says he found his wife bleeding, moved the
- 6:05gun away from her neck, grabbed his phone and dialed
- 6:07nine to one one.
- 6:08Speaker 2: Right, But then, according to his own official statement, he
- 6:11claims he had this brief, agonizing moment where he contemplated
- 6:15shooting himself out of grief. Okay, sure, he says he
- 6:18decides against it. But then, and this is crucial, he
- 6:21takes this heavy, bloody revolver and deliberately places it back
- 6:25onto her stomach before the police walk in.
- 6:28Speaker 1: Wait, he put him back on the dying person's stomach.
- 6:30Speaker 2: Yes, that specific action is what Detective JB. Burkeholders zero's
- 6:36in on when he arrives.
- 6:37Speaker 1: I mean he spots red flags immediately, right, because if
- 6:41you imagine the sheer panic of waking up to your
- 6:43spouse bleeding out.
- 6:45Speaker 2: Your brain is in pure survival and rescue mode.
- 6:47Speaker 1: Exactly. You're on the phone with dispatch, you are desperately
- 6:50trying to stop the bleeding.
- 6:52Speaker 2: Right, deliberately picking up the murder weapon and placing it
- 6:56resting on the abdomen of a dying person. That defies
- 6:59every known human instinct.
- 7:01Speaker 1: It is the total antithesis of a trauma response.
- 7:04Speaker 2: Yeah, because when a loved one is injured, the primate
- 7:07brain dictates that we clear the area of danger and
- 7:09render aid. Putting the gun back suggests a completely different
- 7:14cognitive process.
- 7:15Speaker 1: Like what what is the brain doing there?
- 7:17Speaker 2: It indicates a panicked, rushed attempt to reset a stage.
- 7:21The person taking that action is actively calculating how the
- 7:24physical tableau will look to the approaching authorities. Wow.
- 7:27Speaker 1: So they are prioritizing the visual narrative over the life
- 7:30of the person bleeding in front of them. I mean,
- 7:32it feels like watching a play where a terrible stage
- 7:35director got the props completely wrong.
- 7:37Speaker 2: That's a perfect analogy.
- 7:38Speaker 1: You're trying to set the stage for a tragic, spontaneous finale,
- 7:43but you completely forget to check the rest of the set.
- 7:47Speaker 2: Because the gun placement is just the first bizarre incongruity
- 7:51in that house.
- 7:52Speaker 1: Right, So Detective Burkholder is standing in the house taking
- 7:55in the scene, and suddenly he hears an alarm clock
- 7:58going off in the background. Oh wow, Yeah, it's Kristen's phone.
- 8:02She had set her mourning alarm to wake up and
- 8:05get ready for her shift at work.
- 8:06Speaker 2: See, that is a fundamental piece of behavioral evidence.
- 8:09Speaker 1: Really, just an alarm clock.
- 8:11Speaker 2: Yes, because the psychology of suicide tells us that individuals
- 8:14who have made the final, agonizing decision to end their
- 8:17own lives rarely engage in mundane future planning.
- 8:21Speaker 1: Like setting a work alarm for a few hours later.
- 8:24Speaker 2: Exactly, the act of suicide is a profound disconnection from
- 8:27the future. Setting an alarm is an inherent expectation of
- 8:30participating in that future.
- 8:32Speaker 1: And to add to that expectation of the future, there
- 8:35was Halloween candy deliberately set out in the kitchen area.
- 8:38Speaker 2: Oh really for trick or treaders.
- 8:40Speaker 1: Yeah, Kristin and Colby actually had plans to participate in
- 8:43trick or treating later that evening.
- 8:44Speaker 2: So you have an alarm set for a morning shift
- 8:47and candy prepped for an evening activity.
- 8:50Speaker 1: Right, every single environmental marker pointed to a woman who
- 8:54fully expected to live out her Thursday.
- 8:57Speaker 2: And in addition to those environmental clues to take to
- 9:00evaluated the physical mechanics of the wound itself.
- 9:03Speaker 1: Because it's pretty unusual, right.
- 9:05Speaker 2: Very a gunshot wound to the head, specifically angled under
- 9:09the chin, is statistically anomalous for female suicide victims. Why
- 9:14is that, Well, the forensic literature indicates that women, generally speaking,
- 9:18tend to consider their physical appearance after death. Oh I see, Yeah,
- 9:21so they typically choose methods that are less physically destructive
- 9:25to the face or head.
- 9:26Speaker 1: Right, And when you couple that statistical rarity with the
- 9:29sheer physical awkwardness we discussed earlier, a.
- 9:31Speaker 2: Smaller female trying to maneuver a massive twelve inch magnum
- 9:35revolver under her own chin.
- 9:37Speaker 1: In the dark, completely undressed.
- 9:40Speaker 2: Yeah, the entire physical narrative just collapses under its own weight.
- 9:43Speaker 1: But you know, while all of those physical environmental clues
- 9:46are screaming homicide to the detectives working inside the house, right,
- 9:51the behavioral clues happening outside the house are somehow even
- 9:54more jarring. Oh with Colby on the porch, Yes, because
- 9:58while Kristen is inside a living room literally bleeding out,
- 10:02receiving frantic chess compressions from a police surger.
- 10:06Speaker 2: Her husband is just chatting outside.
- 10:08Speaker 1: Holby is out on the front porch, casually chatting with
- 10:10the backup police officers.
- 10:12Speaker 2: And the topic of conversation is what makes it so chilling, Danna,
- 10:17that he was talking about video games. Yes, he is
- 10:20discussing video games. He's talking to the patrol cops about
- 10:24playing counter Strike, Call of Duty and Minecraft.
- 10:27Speaker 1: I mean, if you try to map that behavior onto
- 10:30a normal human experience, it fails.
- 10:32Speaker 2: Completely, Holy fails.
- 10:34Speaker 1: Your wife of five years is fighting for her last
- 10:37breath fifteen feet away from you, and your brain decides
- 10:40to make small talk about the graphics in Minecraft.
- 10:42Speaker 2: It is a staggering level of emotional detachment's insane well,
- 10:46it revers the fragility of a staged persona. When we
- 10:50study the psychology of offenders whose stage crime scenes, they
- 10:53often struggle to maintain the grieving widower act continuously.
- 10:57Speaker 1: It's exhausting for them to keep it up.
- 10:59Speaker 2: Yes, it requires immense cognitive effort to perform a manufactured emotion,
- 11:06so when they aren't actively being interrogated, when that spotlight
- 11:09is turned off, they instinctively revert to their psychological baseline
- 11:13to self soothe.
- 11:14Speaker 1: And for Colby, his baseline comfort zone was casually chatting
- 11:18about his hobbies exactly.
- 11:20Speaker 2: He completely lacked the authentic, messy, uncontrollable physiological distress you
- 11:26would naturally expect from someone whose entire world had just
- 11:28violently shattered.
- 11:30Speaker 1: So, okay, the detectives are looking at this absolute mountain
- 11:32of discrepancies, right, the work alarm, the halloween candy, the
- 11:36absurdly large gun for the method, the bizarre staging of
- 11:39placing the weapon back on her stomach, and a.
- 11:41Speaker 2: Husband casually reviewing video games on the porch while his
- 11:44wife dies.
- 11:45Speaker 1: Right, So, to the seasoned investigator standing in that house,
- 11:48this is a glaringly obvious neon lt homicide investigations without
- 11:52a doubt. But here is where the momentum completely stalls
- 11:56and the case hits a massive, infuriating and administrative brick wall.
- 12:01Oh oh enter corner Lyell Nordhook, Oh boy.
- 12:05Speaker 2: This juncture of the case serves as a textbook tragic
- 12:08example of the danger of information silos in the criminal justice.
- 12:11Speaker 1: System, because just three days after Kristen's death, coroner Nordhook
- 12:16signs a piece of paper and officially rules the manner
- 12:18of death a suicide.
- 12:20Speaker 2: Three days that is unbelievably fast.
- 12:24Speaker 1: It boggles the mind how a medical professional arrives at
- 12:27such a definitive case closing conclusions so quickly when the
- 12:31detective standing in the actual house are drowning in red frags.
- 12:34Speaker 2: Well, the explanation lies in the parameters of his focus.
- 12:37His rationale was entirely localized to the physical body resting
- 12:41on his autopsy table.
- 12:42Speaker 1: Completely stripped of any environmental.
- 12:44Speaker 2: Context, exactly stripped of all behavioral context too. He looked
- 12:47at the close range gunshot wound under the chin and
- 12:50concluded strictly from a ballistic standpoint that the angle is
- 12:53typical for self inflicted injuries.
- 12:55Speaker 1: Which, as we know, is already a stretch for this
- 12:57specific gun and a female victim.
- 12:59Speaker 2: Right, But he also examined the body for signs of
- 13:02a physical struggle. He looked for defensive wounds on the hands,
- 13:06fresh bruising scratches under the fingernails.
- 13:09Speaker 1: Could he find any?
- 13:10Speaker 2: He found none. He also looked for older healing injuries
- 13:14that might indicate a history of progressive, long term physical abuse.
- 13:18Again he saw none.
- 13:19Speaker 1: Okay.
- 13:20Speaker 2: Therefore, in the total absence of obvious physical trauma beyond
- 13:24the single gunshot wound, he made the decision to take
- 13:27the husband's initial statement at what he termed word value.
- 13:31Speaker 1: Word value. Taking a suspect's story at word value during
- 13:34a death investigation seems incredibly reckless.
- 13:37Speaker 2: It is highly problematic.
- 13:38Speaker 1: He basically rubber stamped Colby's story because the physical tissue
- 13:42alone didn't jump off the table and definitively prove him wrong.
- 13:46Speaker 2: Yeah, and I really want you to consider the immense
- 13:48legal weight of an official title here. Oh, absolutely, think
- 13:51about how much power a piece of paper with the
- 13:53word suicide typed on it holds over an entire police department.
- 13:56Speaker 1: It legally forces them to stop treating the husband as
- 13:59a prime suspect now right.
- 14:01Speaker 2: Exactly, it mandates the treat him as a grieving victim.
- 14:04The paralysis it causes is absolute.
- 14:08Speaker 1: Prosecutor Aaron Cunningham actually noted later that this specific ruling
- 14:12severely crippled the ability of law enforcement to aggressively pursue
- 14:16the case.
- 14:16Speaker 2: Of course it did, because if the official medical determination
- 14:20by the county is suicide, the Fourth Amendment comes into play.
- 14:24Speaker 1: Right, getting search warrants becomes impossible.
- 14:27Speaker 2: Judges are far less likely to grant search warrants to
- 14:30seize digital devices, come through bank records or search homes.
- 14:34For a murder that officially legally did not happen.
- 14:37Speaker 1: The police needed probable cause of a crime to investigate,
- 14:41and the coroner just erased the crime.
- 14:43Speaker 2: It is a terrifying bottleneck in the system. The pathologist
- 14:47is operating in a completely sealed off environment, entirely independent
- 14:51from the detectives pounding the pavement and corner.
- 14:53Speaker 1: Northook actually admitted much later after the trial concluded that
- 14:57the police did not share critical information with him before
- 15:00he made his ruling. Oh really, yeah, he didn't know
- 15:03the exact dimensions and extreme weight of the weapon. He
- 15:06just knew a gun was involved.
- 15:07Speaker 2: That is a critical missing piece of context.
- 15:10Speaker 1: And he was completely unaware of the morning alarm, the
- 15:14tri or treat candy, or the casual call of duty
- 15:17conversation on the porch. He was making a medical determination
- 15:20in a total vacuum.
- 15:21Speaker 2: Well, when you failed to cross pollinate investigative findings between departments,
- 15:26confirmation bias takes root incredibly fast.
- 15:29Speaker 1: He just saw what he expected to see, exactly.
- 15:31Speaker 2: He expected to see a suicide because the initial dispatch
- 15:35report and the husband cited a suicide without any contextual
- 15:40evidence provided to shatter that preconceived expectation. He simply verified
- 15:44the bullet trajectory and closed the file.
- 15:47Speaker 1: That clinical vacuum sealed perspective was infuriating to Kristen's family.
- 15:51Speaker 2: I can only imagine.
- 15:52Speaker 1: Her aunt Dellan and uncle brant Rice, who happened to
- 15:55be a local pastor. They were absolutely adamant from day
- 15:58one that Kristin did not take her own life, and.
- 16:01Speaker 2: Their reasoning wasn't just denial, was it.
- 16:03Speaker 1: No, not at all. It was deeply rooted in their
- 16:05lifelong understanding of Kristin as a complex human being, not
- 16:09just as a subject on a stainless steel table.
- 16:12Speaker 2: Right, their behavioral evidence stood in stark screaming contrast to
- 16:17the physical ruling.
- 16:19Speaker 1: They pointed out two major psychological incongruities. First, Kristin was
- 16:23absolutely terrified of firearms, she actively avoided them.
- 16:27Speaker 2: Wow, okay, that's huge.
- 16:28Speaker 1: And second, she was a deeply modest person regarding her
- 16:31physical body.
- 16:32Speaker 2: Which makes the scene make even less sense.
- 16:35Speaker 1: Exactly, a woman with a phobia of guns decides to
- 16:38end her life, and instead of I don't know, taking
- 16:40pills or finding another method, she chooses the loudest, heaviest,
- 16:44most destructive handgun in the house.
- 16:46Speaker 2: And a deeply modest woman chooses to do this while
- 16:49completely undressed.
- 16:51Speaker 1: Right, It violently violates the established baseline of her character.
- 16:55Speaker 2: But despite the family's please and the detective suspicions, the
- 16:58coroner's ruling held all the legal power, so the police
- 17:02investigation ground to a halt.
- 17:03Speaker 1: Yeah, but the irony is that while the official ruling
- 17:06provided Colby Trickle with a perfect shield, his own psychology
- 17:09couldn't leave well enough alone.
- 17:11Speaker 2: They rarely can.
- 17:12Speaker 1: He was busy leaving a massive trail of digital breadcrumbs
- 17:15that were essentially ticking time bombs, waiting for a prosecutor
- 17:18to find them.
- 17:19Speaker 2: So let's examine the illusion Colby tried to build for
- 17:21the police, because it tells you everything you need to
- 17:24know about who he really is.
- 17:26Speaker 1: Yes, let's talk about that initial interview.
- 17:28Speaker 2: Right, shortly after Kristen died, Colby voluntarily sat down for
- 17:33an eleven hour initial interview with investigators. Eleven hours, and
- 17:37the character he decides to play in this interview is
- 17:40nothing short of delusional.
- 17:41Speaker 1: He tries to construct this narrative of himself as a
- 17:45highly trained, deeply experienced military operative.
- 17:48Speaker 2: Right. Yes, he confidently tells the investigators that he served
- 17:52as a US military human intelligence officer.
- 17:55Speaker 1: A human intelligence officer, Okay.
- 17:57Speaker 2: He claims he was deployed to hot zones in the
- 17:59Middle East and Central America performing what he literally called
- 18:03spy stuff and actively cultivating networks of informants.
- 18:07Speaker 1: To use the phrase spy stuff in a homicide interview
- 18:10is wild, It really is. Naturally, the police are going
- 18:14to verify the background of someone sitting in their interrogation room,
- 18:17and when they run his military jacket they find the
- 18:19complete opposite of adjacent Bourne narrative.
- 18:22Speaker 2: Yeah, the military records confirmed he was merely a reserve officer.
- 18:25He had absolutely zero overseas deployments on his record, none, none.
- 18:30He had never set foot in the Middle East or
- 18:32Central America for the military, and he possessed exactly zero
- 18:37intelligence training or experience.
- 18:39Speaker 1: The entire persona was a total.
- 18:41Speaker 2: Fabrication, a total lie.
- 18:43Speaker 1: You really have to ask yourself what possesses a person
- 18:46to do that. You are sitting in a police station,
- 18:49your wife is dead, the police are asking you basic questions,
- 18:52and you voluntarily decide to spin a massive, easily disprovable
- 18:56lie about your career.
- 18:57Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels less like a lieon more like an
- 19:00attempt to establish dominance in the room.
- 19:02Speaker 1: Exactly. That's exactly what it feels like.
- 19:04Speaker 2: It's a classic move in criminal psychology. This behavior touches
- 19:07on the concept of stolen valor, but in the context
- 19:10of a domestic homicide, it reveals a deeply ingrained, pathological
- 19:15need for grandiosity and control.
- 19:17Speaker 1: So he's just compensating for something exactly.
- 19:20Speaker 2: Individuals who fabricate these elaborate, heroic military backgrounds usually do
- 19:25so to mask profound, crippling feelings of inadequacy. They have
- 19:30an overwhelming compulsion to be perceived as the smartest, most capable,
- 19:34most dangerous person in the.
- 19:35Speaker 1: Room, which is terrifying for whoever is married to them.
- 19:38Speaker 2: Persisely, that specific personality profile someone obsessed with controlling their
- 19:44image and projecting unearned authority. It aligns perfectly with the
- 19:48profile of a coercive domestic abuser. They resort to extreme
- 19:52violence when they feel that carefully constructed control slipping.
- 19:56Speaker 1: Away and losing control over Kristin is exactly what prosecutor
- 19:59Consuningham argued was the catalyst for this murder. When the
- 20:03case finally made it to court years later, he laid
- 20:05out the motive using a very memorable framework, the ABC's
- 20:09AB and.
- 20:10Speaker 2: C I love frameworks like this. Let's walk through those letters,
- 20:12starting with a.
- 20:13Speaker 1: A stands for affair, of course, because while Polby was
- 20:16busy portraying himself to the police and the public as
- 20:19the devastated, loyal husband whose world had just collapsed.
- 20:22Speaker 2: Let me guess his digital footprint told a.
- 20:24Speaker 1: Different story, a completely different story of active infidelity. Investigators
- 20:29discovered he was having what they described as a sexy
- 20:32snapchat affair with a woman he had met through an
- 20:35online video game group chat.
- 20:37Speaker 2: The audacity of how he managed this affair is just
- 20:40hard to fathom.
- 20:41Speaker 1: It gets worse. Remember that eleven hour police interview where
- 20:44he's talking about doing spy stuff. Investigators pulled the time
- 20:48stamps on his phone records and discovered that during that
- 20:50very interview, just hours after his wife died violently in
- 20:54their bed, while he is physically sitting in the police station,
- 20:58he is actively texting.
- 21:00Speaker 2: This mistress, you have got to be kidding me.
- 21:02Speaker 1: He actually typed the words I wish I could talk Wow.
- 21:06Speaker 2: It is a stunning display of psychological compartmentalization and just
- 21:11malignant narcissism. Seriously, his primary emotional concern in the immediate,
- 21:16bloody aftermath of his wife's death was maintaining his romantic
- 21:19and sexual connection with a woman he met online.
- 21:22Speaker 1: It completely shatters the illusion of the grieving widower. His
- 21:26brain isn't processing loss, it's processing how to maintain his
- 21:29alternate life.
- 21:30Speaker 2: Right. So, moving from A for affair, we look at B,
- 21:33which stands for breakdown of control.
- 21:35Speaker 1: This is where we really see the power dynamics of
- 21:38the marriage shifting.
- 21:39Speaker 2: Because Christen's family had long observed and noted Colby's controlling nature,
- 21:43they described him as a partner who demanded immediate replies
- 21:47to text messages and expected her to be at his
- 21:50constant beck.
- 21:51Speaker 1: And call, which is exhausting.
- 21:53Speaker 2: Very he had engaged in behaviors that systematically isolated her
- 21:57from her support network for a time. But you know,
- 22:00in the months leading up to Halloween, the dynamic was changing.
- 22:03Kristin was finding her footing in her voice.
- 22:05Speaker 1: Yeah. The digital forensics team recovered text messages from April
- 22:08twenty nineteen, about six months before her death, where Kristin
- 22:11was actively and explicitly pushing back against his dominance.
- 22:15Speaker 2: Good for her, What did she say?
- 22:16Speaker 1: She sent him a text saying I'm just deciding to
- 22:19stick up for myself. I'm taking control of the situation.
- 22:22Speaker 2: Oh wow. See for personality type that relies on absolute control,
- 22:26the kind of person who invents a fake military intelligence
- 22:29career just to feel powerful. A spouse asserting their independence
- 22:34is not just an annoyance.
- 22:35Speaker 1: It's a threat.
- 22:36Speaker 2: It is a massive psychological threat. It is a destabilizing
- 22:40event that threatens their entire constructed reality. When an abuser
- 22:44realizes they are losing their grip on their victim, that
- 22:48is statistically the most dangerous period in the relationship.
- 22:51Speaker 1: Which brings us to the final and perhaps most damning
- 22:54letter in the prosecutor's motive.
- 22:57Speaker 2: C let me guess cold heart cash.
- 23:00Speaker 1: You got it. During that initial eleven hour interview, the
- 23:03detectives explicitly asked Colby a standard question, did he have
- 23:07any life insurance policies on Kristin?
- 23:09Speaker 2: And he lied.
- 23:10Speaker 1: He let them dead in the eye and said no.
- 23:12He mentioned he had a policy on himself through the
- 23:14military reserves, but claimed there was nothing on her.
- 23:17Speaker 2: The digital forensics once again proved he was blatantly lying.
- 23:20Speaker 1: Oh, they tore that lie apart. A deep dive into
- 23:23his phone data revealed that exactly ten days before Kristen's death,
- 23:27he performed a highly specific Google search.
- 23:30Speaker 2: Just ten days before, just ten days.
- 23:32Speaker 1: He searched for the exact payout amount for a military
- 23:35spouse life insurance policy commonly known as SGLI.
- 23:39Speaker 2: Think about that timeline. Ten days before she supposedly makes
- 23:43a spontaneous, tragic decision to end her life, her husband
- 23:47is researching exactly how much of a financial windfall he
- 23:50will receive if she dies.
- 23:52Speaker 1: It's premeditation at its finest right.
- 23:55Speaker 2: And when the detectives eventually confronted him with this undeniable
- 23:58search history His reaction was so illustrative of his character.
- 24:03He didn't just deny it.
- 24:04Speaker 1: He immediately tried to deflect the blame onto the victim.
- 24:07Speaker 2: Exactly. He constructed a new lie on the spot. He
- 24:11claimed that they shared an access code to the phone
- 24:14and suggested that Kristin must have been the one who
- 24:16performed the Google search about her own life insurance payout.
- 24:19Speaker 1: It is a constant, exhausting stream of deflection, but the
- 24:22detectives were meticulous. They didn't just look at the search term.
- 24:26They looked at the exact minute and second of the timestamp.
- 24:29Speaker 2: Okay, smart.
- 24:30Speaker 1: Then they drove to the local Walmart where Kristin worked
- 24:32in the gardening center. They requested the security surveillance video
- 24:36from that exact moment in time, and let.
- 24:38Speaker 2: Me guess, she wasn't on her phone.
- 24:40Speaker 1: The footage showed Kristin actively working her shift, interacting with
- 24:44the environment, and absolutely nowhere near a mobile phone.
- 24:48Speaker 2: Brilliant. It trapped him in a definitive, mathematically provable lie
- 24:54regarding a massive financial motives. Yep, and you know it
- 24:57wasn't the only critical lie they caught him in using
- 24:59the contents of his own phone.
- 25:01Speaker 1: Right there was the gun photo.
- 25:02Speaker 2: Yes, Colby had initially told the police that the massive
- 25:06point three to five seven magnum revolver was technically Kristen's
- 25:10gun and that she always kept it on her side
- 25:12of the bed. He used this detail to explain why
- 25:15she had such easy immediate access to it in the
- 25:17dark that morning.
- 25:18Speaker 1: But the police scrolled back through his photo gallery and
- 25:21found a picture taken just a month prior to the shooting,
- 25:25and what did it show? The photo clearly showed that
- 25:27exact same distinctively massive point three five seven revolver resting
- 25:32squarely on his side of the bed.
- 25:34Speaker 2: Unbelievable. Every single piece of digital and behavioral evidence contradicted
- 25:39his verbal narrative, the hidden affair, the premeditated financial research,
- 25:44the true location of the weapon. But tragically, because of
- 25:47that initial coroner's ruling of suicide, Colby remained a free man.
- 25:52The legal system was completely paralyzed.
- 25:55Speaker 1: He thought he had committed the perfect chrome, and for
- 25:57a significant, agonizing period of time, he actually did.
- 26:01Speaker 2: He walked out of that police station free as a bird,
- 26:04and he immediately started cashing the checks.
- 26:06Speaker 1: Which brings us to arguably the most grotesque and surreal
- 26:09chapter of this entire story.
- 26:11Speaker 2: Oh boy.
- 26:11Speaker 1: In the winter of twenty twenty, just months after Kristen's death,
- 26:15Colby collects a total of one hundred twenty three thousand
- 26:18dollars in life insurance payouts.
- 26:20Speaker 2: That's a huge payout.
- 26:22Speaker 1: Yeah, it consists of twenty three thousand dollars from a
- 26:24basic Walmart employee policy and a massive one hundred thousand
- 26:28dollars payout from the US military SGLI policy he had researched.
- 26:31Speaker 2: Well, if you apply the logic of a truly tragic suicide,
- 26:35a grieving husband might use that substantial amount of money
- 26:37to pay off marital debts, or establish a memorial fund
- 26:40in her name, or simply put it in savings while
- 26:42he figures out his life right.
- 26:43Speaker 1: Instead, Colby burns through the entire one hundred and twenty
- 26:46three thousand dollars windfall in just eight months.
- 26:49Speaker 2: Eight months. To blow through over one hundred grand in
- 26:52a small Kansas town in under a year requires a
- 26:55dedicated effort of spending.
- 26:57Speaker 1: Oh, he was dedicated. But it's what he spent the
- 26:59blood mone money on that really Through the investigation for.
- 27:02Speaker 2: A loop, what did he buy?
- 27:04Speaker 1: The most shocking single purchase discovered in his financial ledgers
- 27:07was a payment of nine and forty two dollars to
- 27:11a company called True Touch Dolls.
- 27:13Speaker 2: Oh Wow. For context, True Touch Dolls is a company
- 27:17that manufactures highly realistic, anatomically correct life size sex dolls.
- 27:22Speaker 1: Your wife dies violently in your own bed, and a
- 27:24few months later you take the life insurance money generated
- 27:26by her death to buy a two thousand dollars sex doll.
- 27:30Speaker 2: It's repulsive.
- 27:31Speaker 1: The psychology of that choice is staggering.
- 27:34Speaker 2: It really is. When clinicians analyze the behavior associated with
- 27:37a genuine grieving process, it typically involves a period of
- 27:40profound social withdrawal, deep sadness, and a distinct lack of
- 27:44interest in seeking out new romantic or sexual connections. Immediately
- 27:47purchasing a hyper realistic sex doll with the victim's life
- 27:51insurance money demonstrates a complete, chilling, emotional detachment from the
- 27:55reality of her death. It reduces her existence and her
- 27:58passing to a mere trend action that funded a fetishistic purchase.
- 28:02Speaker 1: And the defense attorney, Cassie Zeigler, actually had to stand
- 28:06up in court and address this purchase.
- 28:08Speaker 2: How do you even defend that?
- 28:09Speaker 1: Her defense strategy was to claim that Colby was having
- 28:12trouble sleeping alone. She argued that he was very open
- 28:15about this struggle, pointing out that he even discussed the
- 28:18purchase of the doll with his own mother, with his
- 28:21mother yes, claiming he just needed it for quote comfort
- 28:24and warmth.
- 28:26Speaker 2: That is a fascinating, almost desperate defense strategy. It attempts
- 28:30to normalize a profoundly abnormal, highly specific behavior by framing
- 28:34it as a common symptom of grief. But it completely
- 28:37falls apart when you subject it to basic scrutiny.
- 28:40Speaker 1: Right, if you are genuinely seeking comfort and warmth because
- 28:43you miss the presence of another being in your home,
- 28:46you buy a weighted blanket, or.
- 28:47Speaker 2: You know, adopt a dog from a shelter.
- 28:49Speaker 1: Exactly, which, by the way, is exactly what Kristin actually
- 28:52wanted to do for a living. She loved animals. Really, yes,
- 28:55you do not drop two thousand dollars on a life size,
- 28:58silicone true touch doll and then have a casual chat
- 29:01with your mother about it over coffee.
- 29:03Speaker 2: The pathology of replacing a human spouse who was asserting
- 29:07her independence with a completely compliant, silent, silicone object perfectly
- 29:13mirrors his motive. He wanted ultimate control, and a doll
- 29:17offers exactly that.
- 29:18Speaker 1: Beyond the sheer absurdity of the defense, it further shatters
- 29:21the behavioral profile of a devastated widower. And this total
- 29:25lack of authentic grieving wasn't just hidden in his bank statements.
- 29:29Speaker 2: It was public.
- 29:29Speaker 1: It was highly visible to the entire community. He was
- 29:32putting on a daily performance while he was blowing through
- 29:35this money. He started posting self help videos on his
- 29:38Facebook page, videos where he is lecturing his followers about
- 29:41pushing forward and enjoying life, acting like some enlightened lifestyle
- 29:45guru who has conquered adversity.
- 29:47Speaker 2: Oh, that is nauseating.
- 29:48Speaker 1: He was also parading around town, bringing his guitar to
- 29:51local restaurants and singing for the crowds. The lead detective
- 29:55on the case went on record saying that seeing Colby
- 29:57outperforming and soaking up attention made his skin crawl.
- 30:02Speaker 2: It is the pure arrogance of a perpetrator who firmly
- 30:06believes they have successfully outsmarted the system. He wasn't hiding
- 30:10in shame or grief. He was actively reveling in his new,
- 30:14unencumbered funded life.
- 30:15Speaker 1: He really thought he won.
- 30:17Speaker 2: And because the system was deeply stuck in that information silo,
- 30:20paralyzed by the coroner's official ruling. Nearly two entire years passed,
- 30:26two years of Colby living his life completely broke after
- 30:28spending all the money, but completely free from consequence.
- 30:32Speaker 1: It felt like Kristen's case was destined to end up
- 30:34in a dusty cardboard box in a basement, labeled as
- 30:37a closed suicide.
- 30:38Speaker 2: But then something changed.
- 30:39Speaker 1: Yes, the political landscape of the county changed, and it
- 30:42changed the trajectory of the entire investigation. In January twenty
- 30:46twenty one, a newly elected county attorney named Robert Anderson took.
- 30:50Speaker 2: Office, okay, a fresh set of eyes.
- 30:52Speaker 1: Literally within days of him moving into his office, the
- 30:54detectives cornered him.
- 30:56Speaker 2: They essentially staged a professional intervention for this cold case
- 30:59right exactly.
- 31:00Speaker 1: They laid out the entire mosaic of circumstantial evidence, the
- 31:04hidden affair, the one hundred and twenty thousand dollars financial motive,
- 31:08the bizarre behavior with the sex doll and the glaring
- 31:11physical incongruities of the scene.
- 31:13Speaker 2: They pleaded with the new attorney to help them figure
- 31:15out a way to nail down a homicide charge.
- 31:17Speaker 1: But Anderson immediately ran into the exact same brick wall
- 31:21the police did. Coroner nord Hook flatly refused to change
- 31:25the official ruling from suicide to homicide without a formal
- 31:28adversarial court proceeding.
- 31:30Speaker 2: The medical establishment was just digging its heels in protecting
- 31:33its initial assessment.
- 31:34Speaker 1: Yep. So Anderson realizes he has to circumvent the physical
- 31:39autopsy entirely. He decides to utilize a tool that was
- 31:42entirely unprecedented in Kansas criminal history.
- 31:45Speaker 2: A psychological autopsy.
- 31:46Speaker 1: He orders a formal psychological autopsy, which.
- 31:49Speaker 2: Raises a critical question for anyone analyzing evidence, what exactly
- 31:53is a psychological autopsy and how does it meet the
- 31:56rigorous standards required to hold up in a court of.
- 31:59Speaker 1: Law Because it sounds so subjective.
- 32:02Speaker 2: It does, but it's not. When a traditional medical examiner
- 32:05looks at a body, they are looking for physical biological
- 32:09causes of death, tissue damage, toxicology, organ failure. But when
- 32:13a forensic psychologist conducts a psychological autopsy, their objective is
- 32:18to meticulously reconstruct the victim's state of mind in the weeks, days,
- 32:22and hours leading up to their death.
- 32:24Speaker 1: So they are searching for the psychological cause of.
- 32:27Speaker 2: Death, or crucially, in this case, the absolute lacks thereof.
- 32:30Speaker 1: To execute this unprecedented move, Andersen brings in doctor Ashley Christensen,
- 32:35a forensic psychologist. Her assignment is basically to become the
- 32:38foremost expert on the internal life of Kristin Trickle.
- 32:41Speaker 2: Without having a physical body to examine exactly.
- 32:44Speaker 1: Instead, she examines the digital and emotional residue Kristen left behind.
- 32:48She pours over text messages, reads diaries, analyzes the syntax
- 32:52and tone of social media posts.
- 32:54Speaker 2: She's essentially mapping out Kristen's emotional landscape.
- 32:57Speaker 1: Right. She conducts exhaustive structured in with Kristen's friends, her
- 33:01family members, and her coworkers.
- 33:03Speaker 2: And what is truly fascinating here is the clear, undeniable
- 33:07pattern that emerges from doctor Christensen's rigorous research in the
- 33:12field of suicideology. Suicidal ideation almost always leaves a detectable
- 33:17behavioral footprint.
- 33:18Speaker 1: People usually leave clues.
- 33:20Speaker 2: Yes. People making that decision often begin giving away prize possessions,
- 33:25They withdraw noticeably from their social circles, and their communications
- 33:29express a profound, pervasive hopelessness. But doctor Christensen found the
- 33:33exact opposite behavioral markers in Kristen's life.
- 33:37Speaker 1: She found a woman who was highly optimistic and incredibly driven.
- 33:41Kristin wasn't just drifting through life. She was making very concrete, active,
- 33:45complex plans for her immediate future.
- 33:48Speaker 2: Didn't she want to start a business?
- 33:49Speaker 1: Yes, she was actively researching and planning to launch her
- 33:52own pet boarding and dog grooming business. She had gone
- 33:55so far as to pick out a specific little house
- 33:57south of town that had a bar and she wanted
- 33:59to convert for the business.
- 34:00Speaker 2: Wow. The logic is simple. You do not map out
- 34:03real estate acquisitions and draft business plans for a small
- 34:06enterprise if you are actively planning to end your life.
- 34:09Speaker 1: Based on this overwhelming behavioral evidence of prospective, future oriented thinking,
- 34:15doctor Christensen concluded in her official psychological autopsy report that
- 34:19it was quote relatively less likely that Kristen's death was
- 34:23a suicide.
- 34:24Speaker 2: That phrasing is incredible in the careful, highly measured, scientifically
- 34:28conservative language of forensic psychology. That phrase is a damning,
- 34:33screaming indictment of the coroner's rutched medical ruling.
- 34:36Speaker 1: But of course, Colby's defense team recognized the threat the
- 34:39support posed, and they fought back incredibly hard against it,
- 34:42they had to attorney. Zeigler argued to the court that
- 34:45doctor Christensen's report was fundamentally flawed. She pointed to Kristen's childhood,
- 34:50noting that she had suffered immense trauma. Her biological mother
- 34:54had abandoned her when she was just two years old.
- 34:56Speaker 2: So the defense tried to construct an alternate narrative of
- 34:59a fragile woman who had been successfully masking a deep, lifelong,
- 35:03hidden depression from everyone around her.
- 35:05Speaker 1: Right.
- 35:06Speaker 2: The defense also fiercely attacked the methodology of the psychological
- 35:10aucopsy itself. They argued that because the interviews with friends
- 35:13and family were conducted nearly two years after the actual death,
- 35:17human memory is inherently malleable and prone to shifting.
- 35:20Speaker 1: Oh So, they suggested a phenomenon where Kristen's family was
- 35:24viewing her entirely through the rose tinted glasses of grief.
- 35:28Speaker 2: Exactly subconsciously remembering only her positive attributes and actively filtering
- 35:33out any signs of depression. To avoid the stigma of suicide.
- 35:36Speaker 1: And to counter the family's glowing optimistic memories, the defense
- 35:41brought in their own character witness, didn't.
- 35:42Speaker 2: They yep, Colby's mother, Tina Cryer, Her description of Kristin
- 35:47was drastically different from everyone else's. She described her daughter
- 35:51in law as emotionless and hard to read, trying to
- 35:54plant the seed that Kristin was capable of a sudden
- 35:57dark act, which creates a classic I Stake's courtroom battle
- 36:01of competing narratives. How does a jury measure the objective
- 36:05weight of concrete future plans like setting a morning alarm
- 36:09clock or plotting a real estate purchase for a business
- 36:12against a defense attorney's theoretical claim of hidden lifelong childhood trauma,
- 36:18it's tricky to bolster their theory. The defense argued that
- 36:22discovering Colby's online snapchat affair was the acute last straw
- 36:27that pushed this supposedly fragile, masking woman over the edge
- 36:31into self harm.
- 36:32Speaker 1: But here's where Colby's pathological need to lie completely torpedoed
- 36:36his own defense's narrative.
- 36:38Speaker 2: He just couldn't help himself.
- 36:39Speaker 1: When the police first interviewed him on the day of
- 36:41the murder, he swore up and down that Kristin didn't
- 36:44know a single thing about his online snapchat affair. But
- 36:46years later, when he was interviewed by doctor Christensen for
- 36:49the psychological autopsy, he completely changed his story. He claimed
- 36:53that she did know about the affair and that it
- 36:55had caused a massive fight that ruined their relationship the
- 36:57week of her death. He simply couldn't keep his lies straight.
- 37:01His compulsion to manipulate the narrative of the moment ended
- 37:05up providing the prosecution with proof of his deceit.
- 37:08Speaker 2: The implementation of the psychological autopsy was brilliant because it
- 37:11provided the behavioral framework the jury needed to understand why
- 37:15the initial suicide ruling was a mistake.
- 37:17Speaker 1: It painted a vivid, data backed picture of a victim
- 37:20who desperately wanted to live. However, behavioral evidence, no matter
- 37:25how compelling, rarely secures a first degree murder conviction on
- 37:29its own right.
- 37:30Speaker 2: You need the physical proof exactly.
- 37:32Speaker 1: To truly trap Colby and secure a life sentence. The
- 37:35prosecution still needed to prove the physical mechanics of the
- 37:38murder in that dark room. They had to prove exactly
- 37:41how he did it.
- 37:42Speaker 2: And that takes us to September twenty twenty three, when
- 37:45the trial finally begins in earnest. Finally, the defense's entire
- 37:48strategy leans incredibly heavily on the administrative air we've been discussing.
- 37:53They essentially hide behind the coroner. They just keep pointing
- 37:56to the official death certificate, begging the jury to find
- 37:59reasonable day out. Because the county's own appointed medical examiner
- 38:03officially deemed it a suicide, it is an undeniably strong
- 38:06defense strategy on paper. If the state's own medical expert
- 38:10testifies that it's a suicide, how can a jury ethically
- 38:14convict a man of murder beyond a reasonable doubt.
- 38:17Speaker 1: So to overcome this, the prosecution had to completely dismantle
- 38:20the medical examiner's physical findings, using a superior interpretation of
- 38:24their own physical evidence.
- 38:26Speaker 2: And prosecutor cutting in steps up to deliver. He brings
- 38:29out the final, devastating, undeniable piece of physical evidence, and
- 38:34it all comes down to a tiny forensic detail called
- 38:37the site imprint. The site imprint, Yes, he stands in
- 38:40front of the jury box holding a heavy, life sized
- 38:43replica of that massive Zo point three to five seven
- 38:45magnum revolver to demonstrate the biomechanics of the weapon.
- 38:49Speaker 1: This moment is where physical forensics finally syncs up with
- 38:52the behavioral forensics.
- 38:53Speaker 2: The prosecution firmly established that Kristen was right handed. The
- 38:57sight of a revolver is that little metal fin sticking
- 38:59up at the very end of the barrel used for aiming. Okay,
- 39:01I can picture that if a right handed person is
- 39:04going to hold a heavy twelve inch barrel and physically
- 39:07turn it backward to shoot themselves under the chin, the
- 39:10natural ergonomic mechanics of the human wrist and arm dictate
- 39:14how that gun will rest against the skin.
- 39:16Speaker 1: Right because your arm only bends certain ways.
- 39:18Speaker 2: Exactly when the gun is pressed hard into the soft tissue,
- 39:22that metal fin will leave a temporary stamp. Based on
- 39:25human anatomy, that mark will inevitably land somewhere between the
- 39:29nine o'clock six o'clock position on the neck relative to
- 39:33the chin.
- 39:33Speaker 1: But when the prosecutor blew up the high resolution autopsy
- 39:37photos for the jury to see that little divot from
- 39:40the gun site wasn't at nine o'clock, It wasn't at
- 39:43six o'clock.
- 39:44Speaker 2: Where was it?
- 39:44Speaker 1: It was perfectly cleanly stamped at the three o'clock mark
- 39:48on the right side of her neck.
- 39:49Speaker 2: Think about the biomechanics required to achieve that angle to
- 39:53get a three o'clock imprint on the side of the
- 39:55neck while holding the gun yourself. A right handed person
- 39:59would have to hold the gun perfectly sideways, twisting their
- 40:02arm into a physically impossible contortion that would essentially require
- 40:06disjointing the elbow.
- 40:07Speaker 1: It's impossible that three.
- 40:08Speaker 2: O'clock angle is completely unnatural, if not impossible, for a
- 40:11self inflicted wound. However, that precise three o'clock mark perfectly,
- 40:17flawlessly matches an entirely different mechanical scenario.
- 40:20Speaker 1: It matches the exact scenario where a husband grabs his
- 40:23massive revolver from his own nightstand, rolls over in bed,
- 40:27reaches his arm across the mattress, presses the gun sideways
- 40:30under his sleeping wife's chin from the right side, and
- 40:33pulls the trigger.
- 40:34Speaker 2: That tiny, easily overlooked divot, That split second impression of
- 40:39metal pressed against skin was the absolute physical anchor the
- 40:42jury needed to ground the case. Wow, The psychological autopsy
- 40:46proved beyond a shadow of a doubt that she wouldn't
- 40:48do it. The digital forensics, the Google searches, and the
- 40:51snapchat messages proved he had the financial and personal motive
- 40:55to do it. And the biomechanics of the three o'clock
- 40:57divot proved exactly how he physically executed the act.
- 41:01Speaker 1: The synchronization of all those different types of evidence was overwhelming.
- 41:04It completely shattered the illusion Colby had built.
- 41:06Speaker 2: What did the jury do?
- 41:07Speaker 1: It took the jury less than two hours of deliberation
- 41:10to completely reject the coroner's official ruling and toss out
- 41:14the defense's theories of childhood trauma.
- 41:16Speaker 2: Two hours is incredibly fast.
- 41:18Speaker 1: They found Colby Trickle guilty a first degree premeditated murder.
- 41:22He was sentenced to life in prison with no possibility
- 41:25of parole for.
- 41:26Speaker 2: Fifty years, and does he admit it now.
- 41:29Speaker 1: No dru to his narcissistic profile. To this day, he
- 41:33continues to deny his guilt.
- 41:35Speaker 2: Typical and in a moment of extreme albeit heavily delayed
- 41:39vindication for the investigators in the family, coroner Nordook finally
- 41:44amended the official death certificate.
- 41:45Speaker 1: Oh, he finally did it.
- 41:46Speaker 2: Yes, he legally crossed out the word suicide and officially
- 41:50changed the manner of death to homicide.
- 41:52Speaker 1: The relief for Christen's family is hard to even quantify.
- 41:55Imagine spending years of your life fighting an official government
- 41:58document that coldly stayed the woman you loved simply gave
- 42:02up on life.
- 42:02Speaker 2: It must have been agonizing.
- 42:04Speaker 1: After the guilty verdict was read, they said they finally
- 42:06felt like they could breathe again. They got their own
- 42:08lives back. Her cousin Chloe even wrote a beautiful goodbye
- 42:12song for her to help process the grief. That's lovely,
- 42:14and the family says they still routinely drive by that
- 42:17specific little house south of town, the one with the
- 42:20barn that Kristin dreamed of turning into her dog boarding business.
- 42:24They affectionately call it Kristen's House.
- 42:27Speaker 2: It represents a profound emotional closure, but it's crucial to
- 42:31remember that it was a closure that had to be
- 42:33fought for tooth and nail against a bureaucratic system that
- 42:36was perfectly content to close the book and walk away
- 42:39on day three.
- 42:40Speaker 1: It truly was an incredible, grueling journey, an investigation that
- 42:44dragged on for over three years, kept alive only by
- 42:47a stubborn detective who refused to ignore a ringing alarm
- 42:50clock and a bowl of Halloween.
- 42:51Speaker 2: Candy, and a brand new county attorney willing to risk
- 42:54a trial on an unprecedented psychological tool.
- 42:57Speaker 1: Right and a forensic psychologist who a meticular mapped the
- 43:00mind of a woman she had never even met. All
- 43:03of this monumental effort was required to overturn one rushed,
- 43:08vacuum sealed medical conclusion.
- 43:11Speaker 2: If there is a core takeaway for you as you
- 43:13process this deep dive, it is that context is absolutely everything.
- 43:18Physical data, no matter how scientific it appears, is only
- 43:22as good and only as accurate as the contextual reality
- 43:25surrounding it. Exactly, whether you are analyzing data metrics for
- 43:29a presentation at work, reading a news headline, or looking
- 43:32at a piece of physical evidence. Taking things at word value,
- 43:35or operating inside an information silo is incredibly dangerous. The
- 43:39real truth usually exists in the friction between different types
- 43:43of information.
- 43:43Speaker 1: So I'll leave you with this final chilling thought, Tom
- 43:46all over. We started by looking at a cold, snowy
- 43:48Halloween morning and a stage forensic scene that almost worked perfectly.
- 43:53Speaker 2: It was so close to being a perfect crime.
- 43:55Speaker 1: It took years of relentless advocacy, deep digital forensics, and
- 43:59an entirely unprecedented psychological autopsy to overturn just this one
- 44:03mistake in suicide ruling. YEA, So you have to wonder
- 44:06how many perfectly staged homicides are sitting in cold case
- 44:09files right now, permanently locked away in an administrative silo,
- 44:13simply because no one thought to perform an autopsy of
- 44:15the victim's mind.