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He's Not Actually Yeshivish... But 10K People Think He Is | Gav Ayden · Call Her Tatty

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Girls are not sneest in Miami guys. I don't know if you've been here, but you might want to come check it out
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It's crazy over here. I am not dating her. I'm very married
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If you can build a wife, but you want in a woman. I get confused talking to so many women
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It's tough. I want her skirt to be dragging so long that it makes screeches on the floor
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It's just such a different world. The issue was all about you. She wish max. Now we have the real gov Aiden when you draw the line
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Hi
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Hi, shape of us today. I have a very funny and special guest
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You've probably seen him on Instagram. And he is looking for a shit. I'm gonna introduce you the one and only gov Aiden
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Thank you so much for having me
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Really nice me. I'm smouting. It's very hot. Yeah, but I um in the girls are not sneest in Miami guys
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I don't know if you've been here, but are you coming? You might want to come check it out
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It's crazy over here. How not sneest are we talking? Just I
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Had to take my contacts out and put in my newer prescription to make sure I could really see you know
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But guys you should not look at that stuff, especially the buck with my receiver. We'll get into the you see
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Yeah, thank you so much for having me muskie
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Thank you so much
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Where are you coming from?
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I'm coming from Cleveland, Ohio. That's where my receiver is based. Okay, it's where the issue was based and
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Well, where are you coming from when you're in Miami?
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I am coming from Palm Beach. That's one of the new locations that we just opened. It's fancy. Yeah, it's very fancy
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Shout out to our fun raising team, which is myself
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That we were able to raise a lot of money, and we still need to raise more money
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Sorry, I've called you the wrong name by the way. It's okay. I get confused. I'm talking to so many women
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So on a scale of the issue fish to really issue fish. What do you consider yourself?
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Well, I'm basically on the highest possible level of
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How greasy are we talking very greasy? I have a flip phone
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I dive in four times a day
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So most of during the weekdays is what I incorporated into my routine and
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And
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The issue was all about you see this maxing right so learning machinized teaching guys how to fry snittle with the perfect level of crispiness
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How to you know sleep with girls on the first day. No, no
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Not actually guys. It's not what you think. It's more just spending the night without touching
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It's what we're doing. So there is what we're focused on and a lot of guys want to join the receiver
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So you're in the parcia
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And dating only if it's Tazria, Matora. That's my favorite. What does that mean? It was about a month ago was the parcia Tazria, Matora
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You seem like a great catch. Thank you
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What qualities you have on your resume?
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Well, the first thing that's on my resume is that I'm leading a Yashiva. There is 45,000 guys
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Yeah, so just now my phone has been buzzing in my pocket the entire time. I probably miss 70 calls already
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But my greatest quality is that
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I'm very good at commanding people what to do
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So just bossing them around and you know doing that type of thing
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I've learned that from the rest of the people in my family. We're gonna get to trauma soon
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I really would rather not get into it
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So if I called a shotgun
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And asked the shotgun, do you know
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God Eden and they say yes. What do you think they're gonna say about you?
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Well
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They will know me by your chesco dovid
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That is my name. I prefer that you guys call me your chesco dovid
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That is my name. God Eden. It's just a state name
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To make low-level buckram feel
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Better for themselves because I have a better name than them and I'm superior in every single way possible
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Uh, but the shot thing will probably say that I'm a good guy that I like learning clever and doing midsvice that I keep shabby say
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Uh, I keep yontif as well, which is basically the same thing just during the week
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And not sure if we realize there, but it's just shabby's during the week
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But the shotgun will have good things to say. I mean, I'm gonna correct you there with all the learning that you've done
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Yeah, you can cook on the under that's true, but you have to have somebody in your house that could cook
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Like you know as long as you don't turn the burner off. Okay. That's what
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Sorry, go ahead. It's okay. It's okay
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I'm gonna ask you something and I hope you can give us a true story
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What's the most awkward date you've ever been on?
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Uh the most awkward date that I have ever been on
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Was probably when I decided to go on the apps
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We have a kosher phone. I know, but it still has access
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So it's a new thing
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But I basically met up with this girl her name was Sepora and the whole time I by mistake called her Devora
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Oh, and so she was upset especially because
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I picked up
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Devora instead of Devora, so I completely missed the date. Oh
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It's not that good of a story because I'm basically just
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I'm basically just finding girls
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Then I like asking them out. I don't like to go to Shachanem. It's just extra calls. What do you think?
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Do you like Shachans? I think Shachanem work for certain people and I think Shachanem don't work for certain people and
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Depending on what you're looking for. I'm assuming you're looking for somebody who
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Is in the same boat as you in from kite, right? Yeah in the same kayak
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I
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Want to be on the same raft. Yes. Yes. I do. I do want somebody very from how from how if you can build a wife
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What would you want in a woman? I want her skirt to be dragging so long that it makes screeches on the floor
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That's what I want
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Uh, if I was doing build a wife
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They have things like this by the way now AI you could do it. I mean, they still have build a bear
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It's pretty close. It's pretty tough nowadays, but guys are building women. It's not webkins, you know
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It's a lot of plastic surgery
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You could build a wife with that. I don't want to I really am not into plastic. You're not into it. Okay
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I talked to me to say though, because
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I really just want a nice a nice girl. That's most important. That is very important
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How often do you have in mind when you are dovening in your kavana to find the shira
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I it's on my mind a lot, but I also
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Have a lot of be talk on so I don't have to consistently
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Ask for it and think about because I know the bunch of times gonna make it happen when the time is right
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and if he doesn't then I will just be
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Continuing my shira and the only difference is I will not have a family
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Which will be very sad because then I will be a loser just kidding
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Hey
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Next question, please start about the it
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What's your late your learningsator looking like now?
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6 a.m. cold plunge mishniyes
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That's the 730 730
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Shokhanara okay
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830 a.m. We have guys coming in that are delivering Schnitzel from Muncie as well as chicken wings from Lakewood
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Keep in mind you see was all over
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There we have a lot of locations. We have 85 locations. What is the franchise?
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No, it's not a franchise. I just run all them. Oh, I'm very busy. I don't think you really tell much, you know
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I'm extremely busy. What's like the craziest thing a bacher ever did
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The craziest thing which a bacher now you shiva yeah
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The craziest thing that a bacher ever did our you shiva was
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Probably bringing a girl back to the you shiva for the night
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That's pretty bad, but we didn't care when we realized that she was just a maid. She was cleaning
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So it was not a big deal and he did cover the cost so we still win win really for everybody
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Besides for her because the dorms were filthy
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I know I did
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Are you a chavrusa guy or do you like learning by yourself?
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Chavrusa I am a chavrusa guy. Who's your chavrusa?
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Rabbi Feigenbaum. That's my rub by the way. You know what's funny my last name was originally Feigenbaum
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Are you related to the rabbi Feigenbaum or what I don't think so you should just say yes
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That is cool. I was wondering actually if it was if it was Feigen it was it is Feigen it's not Feigenbaum
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It used to be before the war and then my grandfather changed it so this is like
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Not Hashgah protest. This is what
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I'm like blinking right now. I don't even know. It's just
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When it's meant to be that you're supposed to it's but sure that we that we met it is but guys
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She's very nice lady. I'm not dating her. I'm very married and I'm not sure if she happens to have a daughter
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I would be interested. She's 34. I'm just I'm not sure what's happening, but
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34 no kids. Okay, guys. Um, sorry about the it
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Okay
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Let's talk about by the way, I love these question cards. These are nice guys call it tati the number one
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Not another from podcast check it out. This is the best. I'm telling you all the guys in the you see well watch this
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Before they go to bed because it's very stimulating and that's what you're supposed to do before you go to sleep
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So check it out. It is sick. It is the best
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Great production here. Great team. I love all the people that I met. Everyone treated me with respect
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They flew me in from Nigeria to do this. So we are really rolling. We are rocking and rolling here today
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I'm having a lot of fun with Kava also shout out to my parents. I love you guys because you gave birth to me
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Thank you so much for that in my siblings. I also love you guys
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Very much. We just do a quick game before you run
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Yes, no problem. We're gonna do with this or that game with you
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Cholent or Cougal
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Cougal
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Get filled to fish or chop liver. You felt the fish
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Flashek Shabbas or Milchig Maitse Shabbas
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Flashek's always
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Maim Chayam or Perry A
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See, I just prefer me and Chevy's. I'm not sure you didn't include that one
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That's probably the most popular one. That's why I miss. It's extremely high-mish
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Where I'm from. It's very high-mish. But I will say Maim Chayam because it has a nice flow to it. It's more bubbly
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It's like really bubbly bubbly. Yeah, Perry A is like bubbly
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Maim Chayam is bubbly. A lot of the girls they talk to are bubbly. It's not necessarily such a good thing
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Kiddish Club or Dovening?
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Dovening of course. Totally. Of course
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Now I'm gonna ask you about other things. Barrow Parker Lakewood
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Lakewood because that's where most of the Ishivas are. Oh, yes, yes, yes. Yeah, yeah. Flatbush or five pounds
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Flatbush
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Velvet Yamaka or keep us through that
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The Velvet is the best
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Ishiva in Israel or start working right away air to soil air to soil definitely air to soil
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Learning in Kolel or working in cash advance
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Learning in Kailal and then instead of cash away and I would say a BA what's that's a new thing. It's basically
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The government pays and you set up a system that
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You give you know services to kindalakh who who need help
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But a lot of the hidden are doing it in some ways which
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Whatever, I don't want to exactly talk about it
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But it's maybe not the most kosher thing. It's like trying to try and okay. It's like kind of culture
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But not totally so but yeah, I'm a little ADHD by the way if you if you don't notice, yeah
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What else what are you also besides ADHD
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Well, I have severe ADHD, which means I'm very creative, but I'm not quite smart enough to be autistic
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That's what that means
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There is a spectrum. No, yeah, I don't even have internet. So what's the Ishivish accent? That's what I really need to ask you
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what is that
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Where do we get that from?
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We had it from the war
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That they all sound the same no matter what state you're from they all sound the same
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No offense
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I just
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I just love it. I really love it. I don't have any answers for shy less like that
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Because they've been doing this so long
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This is all that I know this is basically Coca-Cola
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Stock every year. It's gonna keep going up same with Walmart. It just continues to go up. That's how I feel about the Ishivish accent
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It's an interesting quality to have
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This is a lot of fun
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Do you need to run to minha? Yeah, I do have to get to minha
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Okay, thank you guys
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If you moments later
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Now you could be yourself
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All right, yes, what is your full name?
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Gabrielle Chaim is my full name
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Gabrielle Chaim, I'm like I'm okay for the record. I have no idea
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Like how you grew up where you're from and we spoke about this on the phone
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And I said I want to save it for the podcast because I like shock value and I like getting to know somebody on camera
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Not getting the you know
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Yeah, the behind-the-scenes story
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So who are you really?
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It's such a loaded question. Okay, well, we're gonna start from where did you grow up? Yeah, I grew up in Cleveland
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Which is a great place to grow up a lot better than New York
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and
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Now I live in New York now for what's the idea? Did you grow up very Ishivish? No, okay. Yeah, I didn't grow up
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Ishivish I just grew up normal not mono orthodox not you very middle of the road
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Just normal like totally from but TV in the house. Yeah, but no cable
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Because we didn't know how to connect the chords
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So where did this personality because you're only known really on Instagram for your personality with in this like Ishivish
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Character where did that come from
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Well, I actually have been making rap music for
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Starting in 2020 and that's what I was doing for a long time
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Uh putting out songs doing shows in Cleveland very I'm very passionate about that
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It was doing it and it wasn't quite growing the way I wanted it to I was making some content and then
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I told myself I'm like I got to find a way to get people to see this and
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I spoke with my sister on the phone and she was like why don't you try doing some funny Jewish videos
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There was no Ishivabacher thing at that point
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And I was like, I don't know and she sent me some of the people that were doing the Jewish stuff
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And I was like, I didn't think it was so good necessarily, but
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I was like, I saw try so I did one shirach video uh shirach date with the Ishivabacher
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And that video went viral
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Yeah, I'm like viral
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That video got a lot of views and then I was like
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Once I started doing it, I knew I'm like, of course I'm doing the Ishivabacher videos
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It just made a lot of sense
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So the comedy isn't coming it's not coming from a place of trauma, but just being funny
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No, it's just being silly
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When did you find didn't when did you realize you were like actually funny
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Because some people try and they fail miserably
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I always have been able to just make stuff up
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On the spot so
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I never did the Ishivish voice though
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And now I'm talking the Ishivish voice all the time at home
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Like I'll be home with my parents when I'm in Cleveland
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And I'll be like
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He's breakfast almost ready dead like what's going on
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He's taking a very long time
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And what they're just cracking up is
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Yeah
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So you're not sitting and learning in Ishivab
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No, I'm not in Ishivab
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So I did go to Ishivabacher
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So first of all how old are you
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Uh, mid to late 20, I'm just kidding
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26
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Hey, I'm just kidding
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But sometimes people like message me the how old are you and I'm like in my 20s
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It's just like you are in your 20s
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No, just yeah
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So what do you do?
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I uh
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Besides for these videos
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I work for a video game studio that's in Scandinavia
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And I'm basically the Ishivabacher is in the video game
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And it's something that i've been super lucky to be a part of
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This guy found me on instagram who's developing a video game
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And he needed a
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A Jewish character in the game
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So yeah, so I got a job working for him
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He's absolute legend
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Paxton
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I just wanted to shout out his name
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But amazing person
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And we're creating a huge game
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And it's going to be really cool
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It's a
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Video game with the Ishivabacher in it
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Yeah, I can't get too much into it
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But the Ishivabacher is in the game
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And you're the
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But is it after your character?
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Yeah, oh my god
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I'm in the game
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So
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It's going to be very cool
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And uh
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Just like grateful for the opportunity
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It's been the craziest thing to come out of
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You know, these videos
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Besides
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Oh, sorry
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Besides for being uncolored at you with the one and only
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So when was the exact moment
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You said I'm going to start doing
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This comedy because now you started doing shows
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Yeah, I'm doing my first show in a couple weeks
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May 28th
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It's like a week
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Yeah, I got to get this stuff together
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But
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A bunch of people have been telling me I should do it
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So I'm like, you know what?
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I'll try to do one show
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We'll see where it goes from there
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Did you ever find
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Did you ever feel like
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You were in the comedy space?
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No, I have no interest really in doing stand up
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At all
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I'm not into comedy
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People are like, this is the comedian
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I'm like, I guess
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I don't know, you know
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I'm just like
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Just trying to like fall asleep at night
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You know, I'm not a comedian
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But I'll take it, you know
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It's silly though
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Do you write your own bits
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Or do you just organically form it?
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For the comedy shows?
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Yeah
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Yeah, I've been writing stuff in my notes
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And what about when you play your character?
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I write some lines that are like
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Good lines to say
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A lot of the shit updates I just make on the spot
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But I film like five minutes
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And then the actual clips are only like 45 seconds
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So we just take out the interesting stuff
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But yeah
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Very good question
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Who do you find as a great
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Influence in the comedy space
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That you look up to and say like
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That is
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Somebody that knows what they're doing
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And maybe try to model your
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Comedy skills after that person
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I can't, I really
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Do you have a favorite comedian?
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Um, there's this guy Phil Hanley
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Who I saw who's hilarious
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But no, I don't have a favorite comedian
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I've been to like two comedy shows
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Really?
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Yeah
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So
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But I think just the creators who do comedy
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The ones who are most consistent
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That's the best thing
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For the algorithm, you know
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Yeah
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You're posting every day, so
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What's like a clip or a bit
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That you thought would have gone viral
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And it totally flopped
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Um
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I did a lulove shaker video
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Like different types of lulove shakers
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It didn't flop, but I thought it was gonna
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Get a lot more views
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Yeah, it was
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It was funny
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Do you know how many views it has?
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It probably has like 30k
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Okay, that's not bad
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No, no, it's good, it's good
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It's not like Quirk Millian, but it's so good
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Yeah, it's a lot
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It's more than I ever got making music, you know
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Like
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When the first video hit 10k, I was like
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Oh my god, 10k
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That's crazy
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I mean, once you hit 10k, that's one virality hits
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Uh-huh
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That's facts
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Yeah
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What's a video that blew up
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That you almost didn't post
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Probably just the first one
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Which was what
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Like Shilakh Day with the Shiva Bacher
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Because
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Is that pinned on your profile?
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Not the first one
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It's down
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You guys could scroll for like that long
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That's good
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But I was like what am I doing?
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Because you gotta understand
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I have all this music stuff on my page
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I've been doing music videos
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I've been dropping songs
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And now I'm just like
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Oh, here's a type of video
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And I didn't have any Jewish followers
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Like some
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Right
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You know, so
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Do you feel pressure
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To be
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Accepted
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And liked
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As your character
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In terms of
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When you come on
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In character
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Sometimes you may offend some people
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Or they don't find it funny
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And they're like
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Oh, we really like that
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So it's not funny
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How do you respond to that?
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There hasn't been that much of that
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There's just this one guy
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You know why?
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They don't have Instagram
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Or they shouldn't
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Yeah
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They shouldn't have Instagram
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That's true
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I don't think I'm really making funny
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Shivish people
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I'm just acting silly
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And the Shivish outfit
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Because the things I'm doing are just ridiculous
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Now I'm jumping in a pool
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Like it's not actually a Shivish thing
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The Shivish thing would be like
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To drown in the pool
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Because they would not swim
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My favorite
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Bit that you did
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Was you going to the club?
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Yeah
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That was funny
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Did you actually go to a club
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Dress as a Shivish boy?
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Yeah, it was a club
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It was a
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It was an Israeli party
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Oh, okay
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But it was a club
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Like it was lit
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Like it was in New York City
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Like it was in New York City
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Yeah
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I was like waiting for you to go to like marquee or something
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Oh, I went to marquee
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Actually
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As I'm dressed
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I just didn't take any of the videos
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Yeah
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Bro, that would have been like
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I know it was crazy
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It was on Purim
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And
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Probably like 50 people
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Or like
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Yeah, that guy who does the videos
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It was ridiculous
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Because when I wear it actually
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People recognize you
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And then
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Yeah, people recognize me without it
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But then with it
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It's like every person
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It's just very like funny to me
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You know, it's very silly
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Is it weird when people come up to you
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And they're like, oh, I watched your videos
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You're so funny
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No, it's not weird
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It's nice, I would say
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Yeah
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But
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Like sometimes I have to shut the conversation down
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Because I can't
23:51
Just make new friends with like
23:53
New people, you know
23:54
No, no friends
23:55
You know
23:56
No, I can
23:56
Like people are friendly
23:58
But like
23:58
I can just like
23:59
You know, it's
24:00
I have to protect my
24:01
I'm making it out to be like
24:02
I'm Taylor Swift
24:03
Like I'm not actually
24:04
It's not that
24:05
But you know what I'm saying
24:06
I go what you're saying
24:08
Is there anything about
24:10
Jewish culture
24:11
Where you see
24:12
Jewish culture
24:13
You're afraid to joke about
24:15
Like where
24:16
Where do you draw the line
24:20
I don't want to do things that would
24:22
Be a khalasham for sure
24:24
I don't go places
24:26
And bother employees
24:29
I just
24:29
I don't like that
24:30
So I don't do that
24:31
I don't go in stores
24:32
And like ask employees questions
24:34
And stuff like that
24:34
Or
24:36
So that would be where I draw the line
24:38
I would say
24:40
I would draw it
24:43
What's the most
24:44
Jewish
24:45
Or is she this thing about you
24:51
Probably that my friends
24:52
Some of my friends call me
24:54
Gifilta
24:54
Like they call me fish
24:56
That used to make jokes about
24:57
Gifilta fish as a kid
24:59
What do you mean
25:00
I don't know
25:01
I came into school one day
25:02
I had calls people
25:03
Gifilta
25:04
I came into school and someone was like
25:06
Fish
25:07
And so a bunch of my friends call me fish
25:09
Uh
25:09
Did you smell
25:11
No I didn't smell
25:12
I don't smell
25:13
I have no scent
25:14
I just
25:15
Even like my buddy
25:16
My buddy lab
25:17
His girlfriend's like
25:18
What's up fish
25:21
It's funny
25:23
Okay so we know you have an upcoming show
25:26
In a couple of weeks
25:27
Yeah in like 10 days
25:28
Okay well by the time this is out
25:31
You will probably have done the show already
25:34
Do you have any more shows planned in the future
25:39
Um
25:41
We'll probably do shows
25:42
It just depends
25:44
How much I want to pursue this like
25:45
I'm still in a place where I'm posting
25:48
But this is not my life
25:49
You know
25:50
Even after um
25:53
Like we'll see what happens after this game is out
25:55
And what I'm doing
25:56
And I don't know if
25:57
Five years from now I'm going to be posting videos
25:59
And stuff
25:59
I'm more just doing it
26:01
To see what opportunities come from it
26:03
But
26:04
People seem to like it which makes me happy
26:06
Like people have told me they really enjoy it
26:08
So I'm like, if random people like it then
26:11
I guess I'll take it you know
26:13
I imagine the your core audience
26:16
Are people who
26:18
Are you know from from birth
26:20
Or even Boltshuva
26:21
Do you ever have people watch your content
26:24
Who just find you
26:26
Funny who are just not in that world
26:29
I don't think it really gets pushed out
26:31
So
26:32
That Pete those people as much you know
26:34
Right
26:34
I guess it
26:35
I guess it gets somewhat of like an echo chamber
26:37
Because it's like
26:38
It's so niche
26:39
It's very niche
26:40
So because it because it's so niche
26:43
Do you
26:44
Maybe plan in the future
26:45
If you're following grows
26:48
To maybe do a different character
26:51
Or maybe you know
26:53
Yeah
26:53
Push push the
26:55
Character in a different direction
26:57
Or just do something to just reach a broader audience
27:00
Maybe it's depends what my goal is and stuff
27:03
You know
27:03
Uh
27:05
I haven't maxed out the issues
27:06
Character though
27:07
Like there's a world where I could lock in
27:09
And make five six reels a week
27:10
I'm just not there yet
27:12
Focused enough yet on it
27:14
You know
27:15
It's a good question though
27:16
But I also
27:18
Then if I have a bunch of non-Jews following me
27:20
And I'm making Jewish content
27:21
Then they're not understanding
27:23
It's not as good
27:23
Like I'd rather kind of keep it
27:25
You know
27:26
One
27:27
Sector
27:28
No I totally get it because what's interesting is
27:31
A lot of people especially from work
27:33
They'll watch my podcast
27:34
I'll watch my clips
27:36
And they're like
27:37
Hava I didn't understand
27:38
Half of what was said
27:40
And I like
27:41
Like I guess because I throw out a lot of Yiddish words
27:45
Or
27:46
It's just such a different world
27:49
Than maybe like the secular world
27:50
Like they just can't comprehend
27:52
Yeah
27:53
I mean obviously I would love my podcast to go mainstream
27:56
But at the end of the day
27:57
It's like
27:58
It is very niche
28:01
So I hear what you're saying
28:02
It's doing well
28:03
It is doing well
28:05
Things to the haters mostly
28:09
I mean it's really hard to like get out of that echo chamber
28:14
But I think that there is a way
28:15
Once you establish a following
28:17
And a good audience
28:19
Who's like
28:20
Very into your content
28:21
Like they tend to be open-minded
28:23
When you do
28:25
Expand
28:26
And broaden your horizons
28:30
If you
28:31
Can choose a place to perform
28:35
It could be a pay-soch program
28:37
It could be at a Shava Brechos
28:39
Where do you think your character would do well?
28:46
Um
28:47
I think Shava Brechos would be cool
28:49
Because this way I you know
28:51
Free meals it's better than on pay-soch
28:54
Why if a pay-soch program invites you they should be feeding you
28:56
If they have food you guys know
28:58
Sometimes there's issues on these programs
28:59
Oh my god
29:00
I don't really know that
29:02
I don't want to talk like this
29:05
No some pay-soch programs don't have food
29:08
We don't get into that
29:09
But uh
29:12
I haven't really thought about comedy and performing
29:14
I'm doing this show
29:15
I'm going to see how it goes
29:16
And see if I want to continue that
29:19
So do you have a five-year plan in place?
29:23
A five-year plan
29:24
No, I don't know a five-year plan
29:26
You're just taking it like basically month by month at this point
29:29
No, I don't even have a month by month plan
29:32
So what do you
29:33
What do you mean?
29:34
The plan is to just find a good girl
29:37
And get married to have a family that's the plan
29:39
Okay, so real talk real talk
29:41
That's like that's the plan
29:42
Let's see
29:42
This is going to be a free resume advertising
29:46
for you
29:48
26
29:49
Okay
29:50
You live in New York City
29:52
What are you looking for?
29:53
For reels though
29:54
For reels
29:55
In Asia-Skaya
29:56
Shkaya
29:57
What else?
29:58
Someone who has two arms and two legs and has a beating heart
30:01
What else?
30:01
No, but actually someone
30:04
Who's really excited to be a mom
30:06
And like have kids
30:07
You know
30:08
Okay
30:09
I feel like that's not popular
30:11
You know
30:12
Necessarily
30:13
So
30:14
But somebody
30:15
Sorry, go ahead
30:16
I don't think that it's
30:18
Hard to find
30:19
Yeah
30:20
But I'm sure that
30:21
If you're looking for a girl with like certain qualities
30:23
And you have like this checklist
30:26
Of everything you want
30:28
Yeah
30:28
If you're not going to like
30:30
Maybe
30:32
Be open-minded to other
30:35
Things like in terms of
30:36
If she doesn't check every box
30:38
Yeah
30:38
It's going to be very hard to find that perfect
30:40
I don't know the checklist
30:40
You don't
30:41
No, it's just has to be
30:44
A good fit
30:45
You know
30:45
Somebody I'm on the same page with
30:48
You know I'm from Cleveland
30:49
So it's
30:50
You're out of people from
30:52
New York
30:53
I'm just I'm not on the same page with them at all
30:55
It's Tuchas from Cleveland also
30:57
Tuchas did not
30:58
By the way, you're talking Tuchas over and does not
31:00
We're not calling somebody just an ad
31:01
By the way guys, she's very good girl
31:03
It's more than just the Tuchas
31:05
It's more
31:06
I actually used to learn with her father
31:08
He's a good guy
31:10
No
31:11
I didn't
31:12
I think she lives in the Midwest
31:14
I won't
31:15
I don't know exactly where
31:16
Wait, but you're from Cleveland
31:18
Oh, hi, oh
31:19
Isn't she from
31:20
No, she's not Columbus
31:21
So high
31:21
No, she's not
31:22
She's not
31:23
I don't know if I can drop her location
31:25
So I'm not going
31:25
I don't know
31:27
I'm like either L.A. New York, Florida
31:28
L.A. That's what I know
31:30
It's funny because
31:31
Somebody who I know in Cleveland
31:33
Who's a really good guy in the community
31:37
Told me
31:38
Not to
31:39
Marry someone from New York, California, or L.A.
31:42
What, a California, L.A. is in California
31:45
Sorry, New York, Florida, or L.A.
31:49
Or New York, Florida, or California
31:50
Like those areas
31:51
Why?
31:52
Because it's just a different vibe
31:53
I mean, we're like in town
31:55
It's just different, you know
31:57
Like
31:57
Are we just too cool?
31:58
No, it's not too cool
31:59
It's just certain like
32:01
Attitude
32:02
Attitude
32:03
And oh, I need to have this
32:05
And expectations
32:06
And you know
32:09
It just doesn't
32:10
It's just not a fit
32:11
Well, girls in New York
32:12
No, no, but that's not
32:14
That's not just that truth though
32:15
You know, obviously I would
32:17
It's just
32:18
But you live in the city
32:20
Yeah
32:20
Upper West
32:21
Yeah, I do
32:22
Classic
32:23
I know
32:24
We all did time there
32:25
It's like temporary prison
32:28
You're like in a jail cell
32:29
Everyone thinks you're having fun
32:30
It's not fun
32:32
I didn't have fun
32:33
It's okay
32:34
People are like it's such a party
32:35
It's not a party
32:37
What, like you're Friday night
32:38
Like potluck meals
32:39
Those are not fun
32:41
First of all, you don't know who's making what
32:43
Where they're making it
32:44
Like
32:47
Not for me
32:49
Um
32:50
I'm just there to get married
32:51
And then I'm gonna leave
32:52
Everyone says that
32:53
What year, how many years have you been there?
32:55
Lesson year
32:56
Okay, you're finished
32:57
And I'm like done next year's my last year
32:58
I think that's healthy
32:59
Yeah, yeah
33:00
Because some guys
33:00
They stay there for like 10, 15, 20 years
33:02
And they just marinate
33:03
And it's like
33:05
God, like move on with your life
33:07
It's tough, I mean
33:08
I think there's too many options
33:10
Really?
33:11
In New York, yeah
33:12
There's just too many options
33:14
And how are that
33:15
And how are that
33:16
People just can't decide upon people
33:18
Like I know even for me
33:19
There's girls in New York
33:20
That if I met them in Cleveland
33:21
I would
33:22
In a smaller pool of people
33:23
I would have gone out with them
33:24
And maybe like data them
33:25
But
33:26
It's not like that in New York
33:27
Because it's just
33:28
You know
33:29
More and more
33:30
And there's so many
33:31
So do you
33:31
So you plan on moving out of New York City
33:33
In the next year or two?
33:35
Please God
33:36
Yes
33:37
So then why did you move in on the first place?
33:39
I told you to do that
33:40
Just to meet someone
33:41
Yes
33:42
Trust me, it doesn't work like that
33:44
No, well not just to meet someone
33:45
I also was time to get out of Cleveland
33:47
And meet some new people
33:49
But yeah
33:50
I feel like it could work like that
33:51
Okay
33:52
Maybe
33:53
You know
33:54
Do you use Shachanem apps?
33:56
No, I don't use Shachanem
33:58
Why?
33:59
Because it's not for me
34:00
Okay, what about apps?
34:04
I like apps
34:04
I prefer the main meal
34:06
But apps are good too
34:08
So you meet people at meals?
34:09
I was just kidding
34:10
I was making a joke
34:13
No, I mean
34:14
Apps are not so good
34:15
I try to meet people
34:17
And in person
34:18
I'd show or at events and stuff
34:21
But again, there's just so many people
34:24
It's a real thing
34:25
Like analysis for us
34:26
It's like people meet so many people
34:27
And it's
34:28
I know
34:29
People are just
34:30
This and that
34:31
And
34:31
Guys, I will go out with you
34:32
If you're from New York just
34:34
I just
34:37
You know
34:37
It has to be a good fit
34:38
It's most important
34:39
Is the fit is right
34:41
So
34:42
What is the biggest misconception people have about you?
34:46
That I'm super-y-she-vish
34:48
Guys, he's not that-y-she-vish
34:51
I'm not-y-she-vish at all
34:53
Just
34:54
I would say I'm on our orthodox
34:56
Is where I would put myself
34:58
But there's way too many labels anyway, you know
35:01
It's not a good thing
35:02
Like I wasn't keeping Shavis and kosher for a long time
35:06
And now I am again
35:07
And
35:08
You know, I hate when people are like
35:09
All that person's off the derrach
35:11
This is just no good
35:12
You're finding your own path
35:14
No, but it's like
35:15
Maybe not everybody is supposed to be doing this
35:17
Or doing that, you know
35:18
People need to do what's good for them
35:20
It's funny that you say that
35:22
Because my husband and I
35:23
When we filmed my first episode
35:24
We were literally talking just that
35:27
Yeah
35:27
Where
35:29
We're not going off the derrach
35:30
We're making our own derrach
35:32
Yeah
35:32
And
35:33
Whatever
35:34
I'm paving my own road
35:36
You got to
35:36
And
35:37
Sometimes it might look a little different
35:39
But the destinations are the same
35:41
So it was the same
35:43
So it's the same
35:44
You heard it guys
35:47
What do you think is the best
35:48
Jewish neighborhood in America right now
35:56
Probably Dallas is a cool spot
35:59
I'll say Dallas
36:01
I sister lives there
36:02
My sister also does
36:03
No way
36:04
Yeah, I'm not
36:04
I can't say a name
36:05
I'm not going to say a name either
36:06
That's okay
36:07
Maybe they know
36:07
They probably know each other
36:08
Maybe
36:09
I mean it's a small place
36:11
It's nice though
36:12
It's nice
36:12
Yeah
36:12
Hot as hell though
36:14
It is
36:14
But so is Miami
36:16
I know
36:16
But here we at least we have an ocean
36:19
What do you think is the most
36:20
Underrated
36:22
Jewish
36:22
Or high-mished food
36:25
Um
36:28
It's such a funny question
36:32
I think Kichol is pretty good
36:34
Kichol
36:34
Yeah
36:35
It's very dry
36:36
It's very random
36:37
It's good though
36:38
I like Kichol
36:40
By itself
36:42
Yeah
36:42
I mean I'm not going to put like horse radish on it
36:45
I'm not
36:45
I'm not
36:46
We put herring on it
36:47
I don't eat herring
36:48
What
36:49
I even I eat herring
36:50
I love herring
36:51
I just like to promote it
36:52
Because it's good
36:53
It's
36:54
It's gishmok
36:55
I feel like you would do
36:55
Gishmok
36:56
Like really good
36:57
At like promoting
36:58
Like high-mished food companies
36:59
Maybe
37:00
I think you'd do amazing
37:02
Like chop liver
37:02
What do you guys think
37:03
When you get caught in the comments
37:05
If you want me to
37:06
No like imagine like
37:07
I could see you like promoting
37:08
Like a good like Friday night
37:10
That's sorry
37:10
Thursday night
37:11
Cholens bought
37:13
Yeah, I would do that
37:14
I think it's so if so on brand
37:16
It's one to do a video for them, you know
37:18
What's one thing you would change
37:20
About the from world if you could
37:25
You're everything
37:26
I think davening is a little too long
37:29
That's what I want to shorten it
37:30
It's got to come on
37:31
Go to come on
37:32
No, it's not shorter, it's just starting later
37:34
I feel like they just go through it so much faster
37:36
So it just feels shorter
37:38
And they skip a lot, especially on the untold
37:40
Okay fine, it's not too long
37:41
Let's just not repeat Shimon's ass right there
37:43
Shkuch
37:43
I got it
37:50
What's the
37:50
So I asked you what you're the craziest dating story
37:53
Yeah
37:54
That you ever had
37:55
Yaresco
37:58
What
37:58
Yaresco
37:59
Because that's
37:59
The Shimon Macher is Yaresco
38:01
Right
38:02
Yeah
38:03
But what's the craziest shidder story that you've heard from a friend
38:09
Unless you don't want to say
38:10
No, I actually
38:12
I can't say that one
38:13
But
38:16
From a friend
38:18
My friends, we don't really go on shidder dates
38:21
We just
38:21
We need girls
38:22
A date
38:23
A date
38:25
I was on a date with a girl
38:26
She was checking your email the whole time for work
38:29
And I was like
38:31
I was almost going to leave
38:32
But
38:34
Then I was like
38:35
Rachmanus
38:36
You know
38:36
I really don't have anything better to do
38:41
So did she take you out
38:43
No, no I took her out
38:44
But it was super lame
38:45
Ya know
38:46
It was super lame
38:47
But I'm more
38:48
I'm now I'm serious
38:50
Like I'm actually I'm looking for a wife
38:51
Because as you said
38:52
I have to get out of the upper west side
38:54
You do
38:54
Yeah, it's not it
38:55
It's not a healthy place
38:57
Not because
38:58
People
39:00
Like people think it's like a party town
39:02
And everyone's like fooling around
39:04
I think it's just bad because
39:06
There's nothing pushing you to actually get married
39:09
When you're there and you're comfortable
39:10
And you find a group of single friends
39:12
And you can do things together
39:14
Yeah
39:14
But like when
39:16
When you're out of that
39:17
You're like
39:18
Oh my god
39:19
Like
39:20
Like when does real life kick in
39:23
I just don't think it's a healthy place
39:24
Especially for men
39:26
Women I feel like are more pressure
39:28
To find somebody
39:30
And be serious
39:31
Because
39:32
Our biological clocks
39:34
Are ticking a little bit faster than men
39:37
I know, I know how it works
39:42
What do you think Hashem thinks of your content
39:45
He loves it
39:46
Hashem probably loves it
39:48
Hashem loves it
39:49
Could Shabriq who loves it
39:50
Reboin a Shalilam loves it
39:51
They all love it
39:52
They eat it off
39:53
That's the big three
39:54
Not the Shabriq
39:55
Shabbing that off us
39:56
It's
39:57
Hashem
39:58
Could Shabriq who
39:58
And the Reboin a Shalilam
40:00
Who shops the most
40:01
Nahas from your content
40:03
Oh I think
40:05
I mean
40:06
In my family
40:07
My dad really likes it
40:08
He's happy
40:10
And
40:10
His friends like it
40:12
Being Jewish is just funny
40:13
Because like when I was in school
40:15
And like second grade
40:16
I got a showrush
40:17
A showrush
40:18
Right
40:18
And then like
40:19
Like you know
40:20
Showrush is like three letters
40:21
Yeah I know what a showrush is
40:22
It's the root of the word
40:24
And I had a rab
40:25
I just like chuck a laffy taffy at me
40:27
It's just like so Jewish
40:28
You know
40:29
We have such random things
40:31
You know
40:31
It's like we're so specific
40:33
Yeah
40:33
But yeah
40:34
Laffy taffies are very Jewish
40:37
Something you're reby
40:39
From Yashiva
40:41
Would be proud of
40:42
And something he would
40:43
Not be proud of
40:44
Uh he would be proud
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That I put on to fill in every day
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So he'd be proud of me for that
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You guys heard that
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I was just kidding
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Oh and uh
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He
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He wouldn't be proud that
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Um
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I can't think of anything
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I'm just kidding
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If is that some kosher for the pod
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I can't even think it wouldn't be proud of
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I mean
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I think he's a good guy
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He would just be proud of me either way
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Okay
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Because he's a legend
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He's done La Capsuchus
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Yeah
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I feel like a politician
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The way I ducked that question
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You know
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One word to describe
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Your Yashivish a character
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Uh spontaneous
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I would say
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Batampt
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Batampt
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What is that
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Honestly, I don't even know what I mean
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My mother just says it with everything
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No, Batampt is a real word
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Oh, Stark Stark
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I think it's Stark
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No, Batampt is different than Stark
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Okay
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No, but that's the word
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Oh, Stark
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Stark
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Absolutely
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Yes, Stark
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Okay, and if you had to describe
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Yourself
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Your real self in one word
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What was you use
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Um
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Uh
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Ambitious
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That's what it says
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Yes
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Okay
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And when you were a little kid
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What did you think you were actually going to do
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With your adult life
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I never thought of it
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Really
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The teacher came
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The guidance counselor came
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To me in 12th grade
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To be like
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Talk it
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Let's talk about colleges
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I was like
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Like no
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I'm not really in the mood
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Yeah
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Did you go to college?
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I tell people I didn't
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But I did
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I went to college
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And then I dropped out
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Which college
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I went to community college
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Okay
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So
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And what was your major
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Logistics
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Supply chain management
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Okay
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With supply and chains
42:46
We're doing um
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But it's funny because
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I mean people in that right away
42:51
They're like
42:52
Where'd you go to college
42:52
And I'm like
42:53
I didn't go to college
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And they're just like
42:54
Oh
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So it's just funny
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Because it's different
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It's a different path
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You know
42:58
I was never going to go to four-year college
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Right
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And settle down and get a job
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And
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I mean college is
43:04
College is not as popular
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As what it used to be
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And I feel like a lot more people are not going to college
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All my friends who went to college
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And have good jobs
43:12
Tell me
43:14
That they needed the degree to get the job
43:15
But nothing they learned
43:16
They're not using anything they learned in college
43:19
I totally hear that
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Which is just like kind of
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A scam
43:22
I don't know
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It is
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Absolutely
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And
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And a lot of places
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When they hire you
43:27
They care more about
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Your work experience
43:30
And your actual degree
43:31
So like
43:32
How can you be 26 years old
43:33
With like 15 years of experience
43:35
Like
43:35
Doesn't really add up
43:39
That is a very
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Aschievous resume
43:41
Like CEO of security
43:43
International
43:44
For two years
43:46
In
43:46
Tampa, Florida
43:48
Like
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Oversaw operations
43:50
Like
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Bits
43:52
Yeah
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And
43:54
Nice couches by the way
43:56
Really nice
43:57
You know these
43:58
I like these
43:58
So
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Yeah, we sometimes have a couch
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Sometimes you do chairs
44:01
I felt like
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It was more sneeze
44:03
This is like
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I like the couch
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Chair
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Oh yeah
44:07
This is the chair
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My bad
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So
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Is there any special message
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You want to
44:16
Leave off with our viewers today
44:20
Anything you want to set the record straight on
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This is the time
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Just do what you want
44:29
Because it's your life
44:30
And
44:32
You know
44:32
Trying to care about what people think
44:34
Because you don't see anybody after high school
44:36
Because it's for like your three friends
44:38
So
44:39
You know
44:40
You never know what could happen
44:41
When you try things
44:42
None of this was even
44:44
A thing for me
44:45
And a lot of opportunities have come from it
44:47
That I'm super grateful for
44:49
So
44:50
You know
44:50
Don't be afraid to put yourself out there
44:52
That's what I would say
44:52
And to the Bachman
44:54
Keep doing what you're doing
44:55
You guys are killing it so far
44:57
You guys are absolutely crushing you
44:58
I'm very proud of you guys
45:00
All 45,000 deep
45:02
45,000 deep
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Also, if your husband wants to join the Yashiva
45:08
I do not want him joining the Yashiva
45:09
He needs to make money
45:10
The benefits are good
45:11
The benefits are good
45:12
I got benefits for my work
45:14
It's fine
45:15
Just we have good ones as well
45:17
Oh my god
45:18
Anyways
45:19
Guys, thank you so much for tuning in this episode
45:23
You can find gob Aidan on Instagram
45:26
Yes
45:26
So it's at gob underscore Aidan
45:29
G-A-V underscore A-Y-D-E-N
45:31
We'll put in the plug
45:32
Are you on TikTok also?
45:34
I am on TikTok
45:35
Same name
45:36
Yeah
45:37
Okay
45:37
Same name
45:38
I don't know, I follow you on Instagram
45:40
It's good
45:40
It's good
45:42
Thank you so much for having me on the podcast
45:43
My pleasure
45:44
This has been really fun
45:45
This has been a hell of a day
45:49
All right, guys
45:50
Thank you so much
45:51
See you next time