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What activities does your family frown upon doing...? · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake up with a bang.
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  Speaker 2: And the club on nine four seven. I remember when
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  Speaker 2: I was fifteen years old, about a two and sixteen
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  Speaker 2: years old, I told my parents I want a motorbike.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you would have sworn.
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  Speaker 2: I was telling my mom that I want her to die.
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  Speaker 2: She threw herself on that floor.
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  Speaker 1: On the floor. What a normal reaction in my world.
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  Speaker 2: And this is the thing that adjust some things. When
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  Speaker 2: you tell your family, oh, I'm going to do this,
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  Speaker 2: they're just like, Okay, do you want to die? Are
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  Speaker 2: you done? Living? Like, oh, I'm gonna go skydiving? She
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  Speaker 2: wants to jump out of her plane?
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  Speaker 3: Is suicide down, That's what That's what my mom did
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  Speaker 3: because I did.
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  Speaker 1: I did go skydiving once.
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  Speaker 3: And when I told the I'm going to skydiving in
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  Speaker 3: this weekend, it was like she was saying goodbye, like
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  Speaker 3: she was done. She's like emotionally preparing herself. My CN
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  Speaker 3: this Bylacer It's nice to know you. We had a
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  Speaker 3: wonderful family growing up, you know, like my mom was
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  Speaker 3: saying goodbye to me like I'm at a funeral.
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  Speaker 2: Same Duch just on Twitter said, I announced to my
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  Speaker 2: very African family that I intend to go shark diving.
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  Speaker 2: Ah Right. Then she says her family had a meltdown,
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  Speaker 2: They had intervention, they had meetings. Uncles were called, grandparents
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  Speaker 2: were called. Talking out of it. It's just shock. Caage
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  Speaker 2: diving brought you in a cage.
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  Speaker 4: No, No, it's a cage in the ocean.
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  Speaker 1: Guys, what's shark.
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  Speaker 2: There's a cage between you and the shark.
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  Speaker 1: That's not enough protection.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm telling you now, those sharks have gotten lazy.
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  Speaker 2: I've seen how they hit those cages. Now. They used
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  Speaker 2: to like bank themselves against trying to get you. Now
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  Speaker 2: they're just like huh huh, Like it's so boring. They're
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  Speaker 2: just like, we know this trick. You guys are basing us.
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  Speaker 2: We're not gonna eat you guys.
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  Speaker 3: But I mean it speaks to doing things that put
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  Speaker 3: you in danger right for No, and the I think the
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  Speaker 3: families generally have this thing. It's there's no reason to
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  Speaker 3: do this. Why why do you want to test yourself
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  Speaker 3: in this way? There is no reason to go climb
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  Speaker 3: Mount Everest. But yet this is ever season. So I
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  Speaker 3: just see videos on Mount Everest of like hundreds of
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  Speaker 3: people walking up the mountain.
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  Speaker 5: And it's not even that deep. My mother in law
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  Speaker 5: used to freak out every time I go running. So
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  Speaker 5: I just stopped her stop telling her when I got running. Well,
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  Speaker 5: you know, and when you're running in the streets, I
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  Speaker 5: panic about you, and I'm like, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I just stopped telling her, now.
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  Speaker 2: You run, and she's.
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  Speaker 1: The wise night.
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  Speaker 5: But also I did that big swing. No, that the
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  Speaker 5: one in Pomelanga. Oh yes, crasscorp, I think it is. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: And I did that big swing and then I put
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  Speaker 5: the afterwards, put the video in my family group, and
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  Speaker 5: my dad was like, I was a grown adult with
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  Speaker 5: my own grown children. I think I was like forty something,
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  Speaker 5: my dad, why.
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  Speaker 2: Did you do this? There are just some activities that
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  Speaker 2: your family frowns upon. What are they?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: One? One, eight, eight thirty eight nine four seven? Does
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  Speaker 2: your family say pray every time you go side? They're like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: well there you go.
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  Speaker 4: No, I told you guys this. Moving to Johannesburg was
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  Speaker 4: it a pretty deal because my remember my mother watched
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  Speaker 4: Tottie and jerusalema so in her mind she was gonna
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  Speaker 4: have to confine me in hillbrow, strung out on a pavement.
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  Speaker 3: No, I was going to say exactly that it's not
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  Speaker 3: even beginner moving to the city, right, But you're like, mom,
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  Speaker 3: we're going to We're going to go to Vietnam on holiday,
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  Speaker 3: and they and they lose their minds.
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  Speaker 1: What you know, how, father is why are you going there?
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  Speaker 6: Is?
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  Speaker 1: What? What is in Vietnam? That's missing?
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  Speaker 2: Frankie now more. That's all they're thinking. They watch good Morning?
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  Speaker 2: What what's good morning Vietnam? Yeah, that's what it is there.
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  Speaker 2: It's just a military base, exactly. It's all your parents
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  Speaker 2: see what activities do? Does your family frown upon? Send
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  Speaker 2: us a voice thought as well? Zero eight four double
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  Speaker 2: zero double zero nine four seven.
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  Speaker 7: Sure. When I stopped eating meat twenty two years ago,
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  Speaker 7: my grandmother told the entire family that I've converted to
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  Speaker 7: being a Rastafarian.
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  Speaker 2: My family friends upon me hiking, guys hiking, Oh my goodness,
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  Speaker 2: my son and rugby.
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  Speaker 7: Every time it goes to a rugby match, I figuret
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  Speaker 7: I pray, I fast. Mine is having to go to
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  Speaker 7: uh breads and walk with the lions there.
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  Speaker 2: Do you guys talk about hectic stuff? Well, my grandmother
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  Speaker 2: who told me not to give people a left every
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  Speaker 2: time I'm driving, and I'm thirty seven years old, he
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  Speaker 2: still does that.
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  Speaker 1: She's right, it is dangerous.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, it's not that type of hold anymore. Let him walk,
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  Speaker 2: Let him walk, Dylan and Kempton Park. What activities does
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  Speaker 2: your family frown upon?
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  Speaker 6: I have? Are you guys doing this morning?
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  Speaker 1: Dylan? Good?
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  Speaker 6: Thank you. I'm not sure you guys a bit heard
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  Speaker 6: of caving?
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  Speaker 2: Caving?
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  Speaker 6: Yes, basically talking guarded to her. I'm obviously I'm sure
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  Speaker 6: you're the familiar with stack fentein more, let's up. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: But the one I'm talking about is bat caves and
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  Speaker 6: Mother's Drift, where basically you're given a hard hat, a light,
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  Speaker 6: of battery pack and overalls. A guy takes you on
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  Speaker 6: a little hike and then he finds a little hole.
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  Speaker 6: Basically he drops everyone in close hole. You go about
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  Speaker 6: fifty meters underground, and then once he comes in after you,
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  Speaker 6: he drops the rope and the only way out is forward.
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  Speaker 6: And then you've got about a three hour caving adventure
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  Speaker 6: about eighty meters underground, where it gets quite tarts and
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  Speaker 6: a bit sketchy in some places.
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  Speaker 1: And is this what they call? Is it spelunking? What
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  Speaker 1: do they call it? Is it that?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah? Splunking?
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  Speaker 1: That's correct, all right?
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  Speaker 3: So it's basically Zamazama for tourists one hundred percent.
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  Speaker 1: Why why Dylan?
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  Speaker 6: Why? Quickly enough? It was a team building at a
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  Speaker 6: company I worked at a few years ago. It seems
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  Speaker 6: like a good idea for the whole team to go.
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  Speaker 6: And I don't think any of us work together anymore.
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  Speaker 2: The trauma, Yeah, you guys can't look at each other
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  Speaker 2: any longer because it reminds you of those type spaces
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  Speaker 2: that you guys were stuck in and what happens if
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  Speaker 2: you overweight? What happens?
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  Speaker 6: Then?
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  Speaker 2: Do they do they look at you and say, buddy,
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  Speaker 2: you are one hundred and twenty kilograms on a Monday.
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  Speaker 2: You're not going to make it. You're are of here?
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  Speaker 2: Do they measure you?
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  Speaker 6: They don't measure you. And I mean there were a
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  Speaker 6: couple of ladies who to say they were well end out,
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  Speaker 6: you know, and they struggled in certain places where it
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  Speaker 6: got quite far to walk up. But they don't measure you,
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  Speaker 6: away you or anything like that.
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  Speaker 2: I can think of nothing worse. Now. You can't go back,
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  Speaker 2: you can't go forward.
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  Speaker 6: I remember, But I told you the serious part is
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  Speaker 6: in during the briefing, they told you that obviously if
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  Speaker 6: your battery, tack does, or your life does, and you
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  Speaker 6: get separated from the group. You literally can't see your
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  Speaker 6: hand in front of your face, it's so dark. So
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  Speaker 6: they told you to sit where you are, and what
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  Speaker 6: they basically do is they send down a.
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  Speaker 1: Dog to come look for you.
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  Speaker 6: And then what you're going to hear is this dog
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  Speaker 6: painting and running in the pitch dark and I saw you.
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  Speaker 3: Not to be worried, Dylan. Okay, so there's so many
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  Speaker 3: things here. Why would I be separated from the group.
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  Speaker 3: What is happening that that I'm not with the group?
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  Speaker 3: How does that happen? Polar Do we go off on
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  Speaker 3: our own?
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  Speaker 1: Can I? I mean you should not a shopping mall.
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  Speaker 6: This tunnel, No, No, the entire cave is not explored,
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  Speaker 6: so there will obviously be professionals who go down, and
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  Speaker 6: then they actually actively explore that unexplored parts. And there
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  Speaker 6: is obviously the route that you take is the main
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  Speaker 6: route that the guards would use.
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  Speaker 2: So have I'm Dylan, there's a chance of me ending
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  Speaker 2: up in a cave that's unexplored. So even the dog
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  Speaker 2: doesn't know I'm there.
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  Speaker 6: The dog will show you and it will come down
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  Speaker 6: and you tend to find you, so it will find
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  Speaker 6: you anywhere.
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  Speaker 3: Can I tell you why I don't like this? I
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  Speaker 3: remember this very clearly. We went to the Caango Caves.
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  Speaker 3: I think it was a school trip at some stage.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know how old I was. It must
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  Speaker 3: have been primary school, is right. And I remember there's
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  Speaker 3: that one part where you go up there. It's very
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  Speaker 3: very tight and you go up through the tunnel it's
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  Speaker 3: called something as well in the Ganger caves, and I
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  Speaker 3: remember getting a little bit stuck. I didn't even get stuck.
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  Speaker 3: I just got a little bit stuck.
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  Speaker 2: And you freaked out.
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  Speaker 1: I freaked out, and.
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  Speaker 3: And it's still that's still with me when I think
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  Speaker 3: of caves and tunnels.
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  Speaker 1: That's still with me.
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  Speaker 6: You know, Look, it's it is quite frightening. You just
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  Speaker 6: got to get yourself, you know through the first step.
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  Speaker 6: One step dropped you, and you kind of have to
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  Speaker 6: deal with it.
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  Speaker 2: So no, no, don't worry. Didn't I'm never gonna have
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  Speaker 2: to deal with this because tell you what, I'm never
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  Speaker 2: going there. But thank you for this. And I'm on
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  Speaker 2: your family's side. Tell them that they must have me
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  Speaker 2: in the WhatsApp family meetings whenever they're frowning upon you,
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  Speaker 2: wanting to go deep into the Congo caves wherever they are.
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  Speaker 1: Just be safe, telling please, he's going already in.
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  Speaker 2: I can't breathe, like I'm literally I'm getting a clos
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  Speaker 2: the phobic just hearing it. We're going to Mandy or
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  Speaker 2: Kelly wrap it up for us. Your dad's good.
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  Speaker 8: Morning, team morning, how are you. I'm fantastic. My dad
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  Speaker 8: has such a problem with my husband and are going
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  Speaker 8: to the spinning it well, then smoke the Cushatio's spinning.
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  Speaker 8: He loses his mind.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, wait, how how often are you guys going to
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  Speaker 2: go watch the Gustatiers spinning?
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  Speaker 8: Every Thursday night?
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  Speaker 6: We go.
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  Speaker 8: If there's day events, we go. It's just it's such
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  Speaker 8: a throw for us to watch. But my daddy is
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  Speaker 8: convinced that our whole Kelly is sitting in the car
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  Speaker 8: spinning in the passenger seat towards everybody, and I'm like, Dad,
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  Speaker 8: we stand behind barriers and He's like, there on top
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  Speaker 8: of it, you come on smelling like tires, So what
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  Speaker 8: are you doing there?
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  Speaker 1: And Kelly between us?
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  Speaker 3: Now, have you been inside Cuttia before?
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  Speaker 1: I have you seen that? I? Have you see?
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  Speaker 2: No? No, air bag. But he doesn't know the no
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  Speaker 2: air bag just tall you right now. There's no ebag
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  Speaker 2: in this all.
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  Speaker 8: No, there isn't.
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  Speaker 1: But but you.
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  Speaker 3: You think he doesn't know that, but he does. Dad's no, Kelly.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just saying your dad knows.
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  Speaker 2: He knows you were getting into a coffin and getting
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  Speaker 2: spun around here, getting flung in all sorts of places.
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  Speaker 2: I don't get that. I hate hot laps. Oh we're
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  Speaker 2: going to do the hot lap. No, I don't want to.
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  Speaker 2: Not even Lewis Hamilton could convince me to get into
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  Speaker 2: a car. Then we're going on a hot lap. It's
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  Speaker 2: just there's no fun in it. Or your head is
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  Speaker 2: knocking everywhere.
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  Speaker 3: No, man, But I've got to say, Kelly, those cutiasis
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  Speaker 3: are cool.
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  Speaker 1: That that spending is super cool. If I was closer to.
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  Speaker 2: You guys, is that the one Kelly where the driver
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  Speaker 2: gets out and he's the on top of the bonnet.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: They were currently at Red Bull.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. And then I remember because when I was hosting
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  Speaker 2: something and came down, the one guy took a he
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  Speaker 2: was drinking a Red Bull, and then he put it
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  Speaker 2: there on the roof, on the roof, on the tower.
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  Speaker 2: And then he started and then he started doing around,
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  Speaker 2: like doing donuts around.
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  Speaker 8: Such a throw your monee, that's such a throw. You
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  Speaker 8: don't need to go in the call. Just go and
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  Speaker 8: watch it.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know what?
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  Speaker 8: It's not even about the spanning. It's about the people
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  Speaker 8: you meet there. You meet so many people that just
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  Speaker 8: come together and they random people start talking to you
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  Speaker 8: while the cause are spaning. They're much a vib.
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  Speaker 2: Genuinely, insurance risks like to hang out together. They just
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  Speaker 2: find each other.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's called well.
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  Speaker 8: We're from the South, were all insurance.
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  Speaker 3: It's are two questions, Kelly. What do they serve food wise?
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  Speaker 3: Is there nice bodies there? It sounds like a place
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  Speaker 3: they have bodies.
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  Speaker 8: No, they serve alcohol. And then they've got these trailers.
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  Speaker 8: People make bruval s, rolls thetis they're coming.
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  Speaker 2: Stop talking. Okay, we're coming. You got us at the first.
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  Speaker 3: But Kelly, it's called the community, and obviously you guys
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  Speaker 3: come up together as a community to enjoy this. You
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  Speaker 3: know where our stairs a community?
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  Speaker 1: Kelly? At church on a Sunday, Well that's my church.
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  Speaker 6: That's okay.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying there's a safer church to go to.
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  Speaker 2: Making Your Morning and a nine four seven