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The thoughts of our own dysfunction · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim. Every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  Today we are talking about practicing the thoughts of your
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  own dysfunctional. Boy, that's like a big one to
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  think about, isn't it? Because we all do it, we all buy
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  into our own stories and we all allow ourselves to spin those
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  stories and then those dysfunctions that we have in our
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  head become a reality. It's becoming more and more
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  prevalent right now because there are things out there that
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  we can complain about. We can complain about interest
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  rates, we can complain About gas prices food prices.
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  We can complain about customer service at any company you call,
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  which is definitely something that's horrific right now.
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  When you experience it it's typically horrific, take your
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  pick, doesn't matter how the amount of work your do, you
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  companies are expecting people to do while we're in this
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  interesting Market time and transition time of shifting from
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  you know, out of the pandemic mode into this new mode, that is
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  Typically more of what we were experiencing pre-pandemic.
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  But, you know, neither here, nor there we are practicing our own
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  dysfunction over and over and over again.
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  So, what do I mean by practicing this, we keep having the same
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  thoughts and we manifest by our thoughts, and our emotions.
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  We have a thought, then you have an emotion, then there's energy
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  around it. And before, you know, it, we are
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  manifesting because it is a vibrational match.
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  And when you have a vibrational match, all sudden you have a
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  reality because you're creating it and it's it's I can't explain
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  enough how much people don't get this, because they'll say, well,
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  I'm trying I'm trying, I'm really am trying, but the
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  reality is, you're practicing the thoughts of the dysfunction.
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  So you stay in the state of dysfunction, your emotions are
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  not shifting. You might be working to shift
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  your thoughts, but you're not shifting the emotion.
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  So in other words, if you are panicked about something you're
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  panicked about your business. Let's say and You keep saying
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  well I'm going out there and talking to people and I'm
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  connecting with people and I'm doing those the actions I'm
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  doing, you know, income producing activities, which is
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  always a great thing. People love to say, I'm doing
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  the income producing activities, but behind the scenes, the
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  expectation is not that they will work the expectation or the
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  fear that's predominant in, in the mind of the person who's
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  having this experience is that they are desperate.
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  Oh my God. What if this doesn't work, they
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  are in a state. Eight of uncertainty, and they
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  keep staying in that state of uncertainty saying, I'm going to
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  do the activity, but I don't know if it's going to work, so
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  they're not seeing the end result as done and that does not
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  help the mind. Make it happen, that does not
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  help you come across as someone who's confident.
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  Can you imagine sitting across from the table from someone
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  who's really telling you one thing out of their mouth.
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  But behind the scenes, they're feeling another and you're
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  picking up on something and you just don't know what it is.
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  You're going, I don't know what that is.
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  What am I feeling right there? I don't know what it is about
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  that person. I just don't think they're going
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  to get the job done. Well, that's the difference.
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  And that's what we're talking about.
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  When you are in this place of practicing the thoughts of your
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  own dysfunction, don't think they're not leaking out of you
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  because they are and they're leaking out to everyone around
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  you. Whether it's your team of people
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  that you work with or for whether it's your kids, your
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  family, anybody if you are having these dysfunctional
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  thoughts, they are Are coming out elsewhere and they are
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  affecting not only what you make happen in your life, but they
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  are affecting the people around you.
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  It is impossible for it, not to affect it.
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  So I have to say, I cannot stress this enough, I have
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  implore you to pay attention to it, because what you think about
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  consistently is what shows up in your world.
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  What you feel? Because you're thinking about it
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  is connected, so you're thinking about it, it's creating a
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  feeling it's manifesting. The world you're thinking about
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  it, you're manifesting it showing up in the world, it's
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  just a loop that you get stuck in over and over and over.
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  So, what's so incredibly important right now?
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  Especially in shifting markets and specially as this instead of
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  thinking of it as saying, well, the world is so uncertain.
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  The world has always been on certain the world has never
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  ever, ever, ever, ever, ever. Not been uncertain at there have
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  been times when it's been way worse than this way, worse than
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  where we are right now. There have been Way more
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  situations that could have happened, way more unstated
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  instability in the world. We more unstable leaders.
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  I mean, we have it so much better than our ancestors ever
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  had it, but we get stuck in what we believe right now.
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  And so, we hunker down in this and say, I've got to live in
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  fear. I've got to live this way or I
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  don't want to live this way, but it's so scary.
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  I don't know what to think. Well, yes you are.
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  We do know what to think. You have to put the cloak on and
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  say, I can't change this. I can't go out there and change
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  anything right now except my own Focus, my own intention.
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  So I'm going to put the cloak of my on myself.
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  I'm not going to take in this crappy energy.
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  I'm going to focus on myself. I'm going to read good stuff.
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  I'm going to listen to good stuff and for those of you who
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  say, well, I don't know, I mean, I don't do that.
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  I never do that. YouTube is a resource where
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  there are hundreds of thousands if not Millions.
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  Ins of videos up there from different authors and speakers
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  and trainers. And everybody out there talking
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  about positivity and manifesting and I mean, it's everywhere.
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  I drown myself in it all the time.
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  It's how I stay stable. It's how I stay positive.
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  It's how I stay focused because I don't allow negativity to come
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  in. I just don't allow it because it
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  doesn't serve me and it doesn't serve you.
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  You can't become - enough to change the world.
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  All it does is change you. So when you feel the negativity,
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  when you feel these things coming up there, supposed to be
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  a signal to say to you. Okay, stop.
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  This is not the right direction or shift.
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  What's going on? Change your approach, do
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  something different, their signals.
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  They're not meant to stay in them forever and, and you've got
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  to shift yourself out of that. You've got to get out of your
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  own way and move your ass towards what you want?
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  Not towards what you Don't want. So this is in, I can't again.
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  Cannot stress. This enough.
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  Your thoughts are the beginning, the key.
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  And they lead to the emotions and your thoughts and your
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  emotions together lead to the outcomes.
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  So, you must control, the thoughts and the emotions
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  without the control you have, you know, the Situation's you
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  don't want. So, go out there, Stop having
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  the dysfunction by changing the initial thoughts and the
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  emotions associated with them. Get out of your own way, move
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  your ass, get yourself into a different energy, different
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  thought pattern, different emotional pattern, so that you
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  can get to where you want to go. Because sitting in this place
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  doesn't ever get you where you want to go.
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  So, I hope you guys have a very eventful day, moving yourself
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  and very blessed day and I will see you tomorrow.
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  Bye. Bye.