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Cesar Millan Shows Amy and T.J. How Calm Assertive Energy Will Not Only Transform Your Dog, It Will Transform YOU. (Part Two) · I Do, Part 2

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  Speaker 1: Welcome everyone to this edition of Amy and TJ.
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  Speaker 2: This is actually part two of our fascinating conversation with
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  Speaker 2: the dog Whisperer, Caesar Milan, And what struck us the
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  Speaker 2: most is you don't have to be a dog owner
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  Speaker 2: to actually glean so much information from this man, because
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  Speaker 2: he's talking about being a good human and that's how
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  Speaker 2: you end up having a good dog. Hadn't really thought
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  Speaker 2: about it in those terms before.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, all you folks out there and think you got
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  Speaker 3: bad dogs, No, those dogs are bad owners. That's you.
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  Speaker 3: And that's how he explains it. But we never imagine
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  Speaker 3: that a conversation with him, the great famous dog whisper,
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  Speaker 3: would turn into a philosophical conversation therapy for a lot
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  Speaker 3: of us as well. And of course I know you
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  Speaker 3: wondering how many dogs does this guy have? Yeah, we
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  Speaker 3: got into that as well. So here now part two
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  Speaker 3: of our conversation with the man himself, Caesar Milan. Let
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  Speaker 3: us know how many dogs do you have? Are you
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  Speaker 3: training or you? How many are on the.
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  Speaker 4: Rain right now? I only have ten, only have ten,
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  Speaker 4: but I have Lamas, I'll Pacas and EMUs and I
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  Speaker 4: have all the I have seventeen different species. They require
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  Speaker 4: also to walk, yes, So that's why I slowed down
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  Speaker 4: on the dog amount so I can have other species
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  Speaker 4: because I like to help people to also achieve for
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  Speaker 4: a dog not to have prey drive. So a lot
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  Speaker 4: of dogs have prey drive, right, So that's why I
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  Speaker 4: bring the farm animals so people learn. Yes, So what
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  Speaker 4: happens when a person has an incident or an accident
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  Speaker 4: with a squirrel and the dog you know, catches the
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  Speaker 4: squirrel that get scared, But they have never had that
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  Speaker 4: experience with a lama. So I bring them around the
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  Speaker 4: lama so have a new experience and so they can
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  Speaker 4: see that they can do it. You see it, because
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  Speaker 4: once the person achieved the wrong thing, it's really hard
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  Speaker 4: to remove that. They can believe and that's not going
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  Speaker 4: to happen, you see it. So I bring a new
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  Speaker 4: species that you never had a problem with, You never
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  Speaker 4: had a trauma with it, so it's not in your
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  Speaker 4: mind because you only become afraid of what you saw.
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  Speaker 4: But what you didn't see is a possibility, you see it.
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  Speaker 4: So that's why I need to bring different because my
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  Speaker 4: goal is to rehablet the humans do right. So at
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  Speaker 4: one point I have to become a human whisper.
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  Speaker 3: It sounds like it. Now we've talked a lot on
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  Speaker 3: this podcast hell and even our personal lives and dealing
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  Speaker 3: with a lot of I mean therapy and trauma and
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  Speaker 3: people trying to live better and reading. Ekhar totallyan you
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  Speaker 3: in talking to you now, and look, I'm familiar with
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  Speaker 3: you over the years. You sound like one of those
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  Speaker 3: philosophers who is yeah, we're talking about dogs, but you are.
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  Speaker 3: You sound to me like you're finding humans a path
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  Speaker 3: forward and being more connected to Earth the moment, the environment,
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  Speaker 3: what is in front of you is was that I
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  Speaker 3: know you need to train the humans to get the
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  Speaker 3: dog trained. Yeah, but you sound like more in my opinion,
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  Speaker 3: you get what I'm saying along those lines.
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  Speaker 1: Of a spiritual philosopher.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, but the dog makes it tangible. See, Ekar totally
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  Speaker 4: can make it tangible. Right because Kytolia is going to
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  Speaker 4: tell you things. They are gonna go to your mind.
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you things that you can practice
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  Speaker 4: right away, and you can see that that your silence
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  Speaker 4: is your spirit. So you're better than that car is no, No,
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  Speaker 4: it's a good friend of mine. Yeah, because we all
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  Speaker 4: go after the better of the human.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 4: That's what the new show is called, Better Human, Better
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  Speaker 4: Planet or better human, Better dog, you know. But it's
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  Speaker 4: definitely my contribution, you know, from all the guys deep
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  Speaker 4: At Obrien and Wayne Dyer and er Car Cooley and
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  Speaker 4: you know, and Tony Robbins, all of those, they want
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  Speaker 4: the human to become the best energy, the best philosophy,
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  Speaker 4: the best action. But where are you going to practice, right,
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  Speaker 4: So then the dog, because a dog is very forgiving.
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  Speaker 4: You can practice over and over and over before you
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  Speaker 4: go into the human. The human doesn't forgive as much.
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  Speaker 4: So you can make us millions of mistakes with the dog.
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  Speaker 4: But the day they do it right, boom. They live
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  Speaker 4: in the moment, so they change and they say, oh
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  Speaker 4: I finally change. See with a human, they give you
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  Speaker 4: two three chances. And that's it. Is that he says
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  Speaker 4: he's like a dog.
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  Speaker 3: He makes me want to get a dog. Yeah, because
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  Speaker 3: to his point, you can practice all these things the
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  Speaker 3: tools he's given you. You can see the results different from
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  Speaker 3: a cart that is I've never thought about it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: And then for guys or ladies who are going to
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  Speaker 4: become parents anytime, make sure that you practice with a dog,
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  Speaker 4: you said, because pet parent. It requires the same energy
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  Speaker 4: and same actions. The only thing that changes is the philosophy,
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  Speaker 4: because one is a human the other one is a dog.
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  Speaker 4: But a kid or a dog needs patient's calmness, confidence, love,
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  Speaker 4: joy to be raised a kid or a dog. A
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  Speaker 4: dog needs exercise, di benefection.
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  Speaker 1: It's like a starter child.
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  Speaker 3: I like that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, well you can make mistakes and and and you
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  Speaker 4: can always fix it. With a child, you make me
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  Speaker 4: mistake that you're traumatized the.
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  Speaker 1: Therapy, you gotta spend money later.
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  Speaker 4: You spend money in the beginning, and then with a dog,
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  Speaker 4: it's just okay, I'm going to get to see myself.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe you get a second chance after you've already raised
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  Speaker 2: your children and made all the mistakes, and then you
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  Speaker 2: can get the dog.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Can you teach an old dog nu tricks?
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  Speaker 3: I have? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: It must the dogs not humans.
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  Speaker 2: Is it that much harder once they've already had established patterns?
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  Speaker 4: Are repetitions right? It's three sixty five repetitions of the
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  Speaker 4: wrong thing. So it just takes a little bit more months,
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  Speaker 4: but not years. I mean the longest case, I it
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  Speaker 4: took me three months and the dog was already six
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  Speaker 4: years being aggressive, but aggressive like already being successful biting things.
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  Speaker 1: Have you been bit by a dog?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: I figured the answer had to be yes. And you
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  Speaker 2: have you ever had a fear of dogs? If you're
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  Speaker 2: dealing with an especially aggressive dog, how do you handle that?
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  Speaker 1: Mentally breathing.
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  Speaker 4: And then believing? So I believe that I can change
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  Speaker 4: through my breath and my knowledge. See the love and
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  Speaker 4: the joy is after. I can only celebrate once I
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  Speaker 4: achieved the com surrender because that dog in a fight mode, right,
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  Speaker 4: So how you remove chaos? You believe you breathe, you
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  Speaker 4: do it. You believe you breathe, you do it, and
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  Speaker 4: then thought you get it.
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  Speaker 1: That's actually reminding me.
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  Speaker 2: So I am a dog owner, but he's this cute,
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  Speaker 2: little fluffy multipoo who doesn't look like he would harm
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  Speaker 2: a fly, and he never has. However, I'm also a runner,
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  Speaker 2: and I have experienced multiple times very frightening experiences where
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  Speaker 2: a dog is off the leash or got out of
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  Speaker 2: the fence, or even worse to me, has been in
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  Speaker 2: a foreign country where they could be rabid, they're not
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  Speaker 2: well taken care of, they're aggressive, and I have had
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  Speaker 2: absolute fear just ripple through me. And I never know
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  Speaker 2: what to do. I've solely backed away, but I've how
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  Speaker 2: do you how do you give yourself power or be
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  Speaker 2: empowered in that moment to find a way to connect
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  Speaker 2: with that dog or not have that dog attack you.
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  Speaker 4: Well, you visualize before you actually go in that situation, right,
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  Speaker 4: and then you tell your brain, brain, if this happens
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  Speaker 4: to me, this is how I want to react. And
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  Speaker 4: then you start practicing on the mirror, right, And so
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  Speaker 4: you start preparing because you have because remember, the mind
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  Speaker 4: believes it's real even though it's not real. Right, So
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  Speaker 4: you can start practicing this and Ericause says, so you
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  Speaker 4: already saw it. But then you're telling your mind this
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  Speaker 4: is how I want to practice. This is how I
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  Speaker 4: want to behave next time. So you're running, you're running,
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  Speaker 4: the dog is barking.
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  Speaker 1: You stop, You breathe, your calm.
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  Speaker 4: Then you make the energy bigger because as you're moving
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  Speaker 4: your prey.
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  Speaker 1: Right, I know that's how I feel.
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  Speaker 4: Look at the cats when they protect themselves from a dog,
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  Speaker 4: they stop.
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  Speaker 3: Sease. I love you. I don't know if I can
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  Speaker 3: be on board with this one.
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  Speaker 5: Because I've been running on smiling. You know, we have
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  Speaker 5: to figure out where we don't know this path, and
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  Speaker 5: we get up to this neighborhood and you know, there's
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  Speaker 5: some cars on blocks and some construction going on.
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  Speaker 3: All of a sudden, I hear a dog. That dog's barking,
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  Speaker 3: and that dog takes off after me, right, and I'm
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  Speaker 3: already mid run. I promise you I've done this on
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  Speaker 3: more than one occasion. Try to outrun that dog. I
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  Speaker 3: never never crossed my mind. And I'm not going in
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  Speaker 3: the mirror today season to practice well standing to the
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  Speaker 3: idea of this whatever dog screaming coming after you full speed,
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to stop.
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  Speaker 4: Remember you're passing their home. Yeah, because you're passing by
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  Speaker 4: their home, not because they're doing that they want to
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  Speaker 4: bite you. They just want to take you away from
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  Speaker 4: their territory. So barking and chasing you away from the territory.
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  Speaker 4: So for them for you to stop, they're not expecting
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  Speaker 4: that reaction.
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  Speaker 3: They want me to get the hell out of there,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm wanting to get out of there, and.
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  Speaker 4: You will once the dog turns back and said.
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  Speaker 3: Oh you're too strong, okay, all.
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  Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I know, I know.
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  Speaker 2: Actually I have actually on runs said to myself mentally,
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  Speaker 2: I am I'm sending you love. I know this sounds
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  Speaker 2: really fun, but I've just I've tried to like put
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  Speaker 2: an energy.
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  Speaker 1: Of love to do to the dog.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well they haven't sort of chased me. They're barking
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  Speaker 2: at me, and they could start chasing me. So I
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  Speaker 2: actually stop running and I walk slowly and I send
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  Speaker 2: them love in my head.
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  Speaker 1: I don't I haven't been bitten yet.
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  Speaker 4: Knock on works and you will never get bitten. You
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  Speaker 4: got to create that, okay, you have to. You have
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  Speaker 4: to send the message of you know, to to to universe,
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  Speaker 4: to God and tell how you want to be protected,
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  Speaker 4: direction protection love. So you can't just send love, you
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  Speaker 4: have to send direction protection energy. That's your calm confidence source. Right,
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  Speaker 4: that's the one that's the one that creates the leadership.
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  Speaker 4: That's the one that moved things.
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  Speaker 3: What does it say about why does a dog bite
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  Speaker 3: in the first place? We usally all they're misbehaving or something,
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  Speaker 3: But why is the dog bite?
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  Speaker 4: But when it bites naturally, like when a mom bites
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  Speaker 4: their children, is to correct them because they broke a
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  Speaker 4: rule bond limitation. So by it I mean they don't
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  Speaker 4: have hands, right, so they do that. It's just to
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  Speaker 4: let them know, hey, you broke a rule, boundary limitations.
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  Speaker 4: That's a normal bite, right, that's not aggressive bite, that's
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  Speaker 4: a discipline bite.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 4: But when the dog is you know, like and your
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  Speaker 4: if you're passing by their territory and you don't stop
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  Speaker 4: and they go after your ankles, it's because you're passing
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  Speaker 4: by their territory, right, or the dog. You allow the
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  Speaker 4: dog to overprotect food and then you come close back bites.
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  Speaker 4: That's because you let him become too dominant.
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  Speaker 1: Goodness, so he bites the handy feets, which is which
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  Speaker 1: is wild.
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  Speaker 2: You've got your halo hoodie on there, tell us about
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  Speaker 2: So it is a fascinating thing when.
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  Speaker 1: You do travel with your dog.
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  Speaker 2: And my dog definitely has to be on a leash
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  Speaker 2: because he will take off and it has been scary
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  Speaker 2: a couple of times.
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  Speaker 3: If you haven't heard, Brody is a problem.
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  Speaker 1: He's a sweet. He's a sweet.
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  Speaker 4: It's not the dog.
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  Speaker 1: It's not the dog, that's true.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, had him on a hike and yeah,
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  Speaker 2: he will take off and I know he has to
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  Speaker 2: say on a leash, But you actually have a remedy
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  Speaker 2: for folks, especially if they're needing to have some sort
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  Speaker 2: of boundary that maybe they haven't created or the we
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  Speaker 2: don't have that connection where he can walk next to
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  Speaker 2: me without a leash.
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  Speaker 1: Halo is the answer, at least for.
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  Speaker 4: So AI can help. I mean a smart technology. The
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  Speaker 4: first smart technology we learn to use as a leash.
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  Speaker 4: That's what you know, A long long time ago, that's
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  Speaker 4: how we tought the dog to stick clothes. Right, It's
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  Speaker 4: a long line. That's how people used to teach a
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  Speaker 4: dog boundaries. So people will bring a long line to
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  Speaker 4: the beach and the dog will learn that only forty
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  Speaker 4: feet twenty feet. So that's kind of uncomfortable, right, but
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  Speaker 4: that's practically what it is, you know, it is to
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  Speaker 4: tell the dog through technology. Eight. The human forget to
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  Speaker 4: remind you the rules by limitations, but the collar is
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  Speaker 4: going to is programmed to remind the dog A don't
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  Speaker 4: touch the turkey, A don't bark at the window, A
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  Speaker 4: you're going too far. Eight is the limits of playing
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  Speaker 4: with that dogs overcome back. That's what you want. You
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  Speaker 4: want that that under that reminder to the dog, and
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  Speaker 4: then that's how the dog stays organized. And that's how
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  Speaker 4: you fear goes away. And then you experience freedom. That's
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  Speaker 4: what everybody wants, right, nobody gets a dog so we
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  Speaker 4: can be isolated, right, But they end up being isolated
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  Speaker 4: because the energy is wrong, the philosophy is wrong, and
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  Speaker 4: the actions are wrong. That's how a dog ends up
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  Speaker 4: being on a leash and he can't really you know,
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  Speaker 4: be a leash where the where the person feels that
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  Speaker 4: my dog is not gonna go away? And have you
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  Speaker 4: ever been at the beach where where his dog dogs
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  Speaker 4: in it?
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  Speaker 1: Yep?
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  Speaker 4: You see when people are at the beach with the dogs,
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  Speaker 4: those those humans are allow more relaxed versus the people
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  Speaker 4: who are in dog parks.
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  Speaker 1: That's so true.
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  Speaker 4: See, that's freedom and that's what I want people to get.
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  Speaker 4: That energy that you see people when people go to
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  Speaker 4: the beach with their dogs, because that's mother nature. That's
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  Speaker 4: a whole. That's a beautiful combination of mother nature, your
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  Speaker 4: dog and yourself. What do you go to the beach for?
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  Speaker 4: For peace? How do you want to feel safe? What
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  Speaker 4: do you feel after that? Love?
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  Speaker 3: Safe?
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  Speaker 4: Peace?
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  Speaker 2: Love?
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  Speaker 4: Why because you're practicing trash respect?
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  Speaker 3: Love?
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  Speaker 4: Why because your dog nows rules by the limitations? Why
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  Speaker 4: because you have connection, communication, relationship, That's what happens naturally
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  Speaker 4: when you have freedom and no fear.
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  Speaker 2: You mentioned that it didn't matter. I was talking about
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  Speaker 2: the breed, and I was doing research and all that.
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  Speaker 2: But are there better breeds for certain families who have
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  Speaker 2: young kids or for someone who is older.
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  Speaker 1: Do you suggest different types of breeds?
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  Speaker 2: Or can any dog be good for anyone given the
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  Speaker 2: right training and energy.
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  Speaker 4: I suggest middle of the pack dogs, and then you
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  Speaker 4: just choose what breed you like. You know, you like
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  Speaker 4: with no hair, long hair, short legs, you know what
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  Speaker 4: I mean, Accents like this, you know, But how do.
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  Speaker 3: You identify middle of the pack.
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  Speaker 4: I mean they're literally worn like this.
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  Speaker 1: He's doing a little bit literally like that, lucky.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. So the back of the pack a little bit
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  Speaker 4: more shy, the front of the pack the po So
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  Speaker 4: if you watch a litter of puppies, there's going to
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  Speaker 4: be only one that is to pick up the letter,
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  Speaker 4: and it's going to be the biggest one. Is going
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  Speaker 4: to take over when mom is breastfeeding. He's going to
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  Speaker 4: move the brothers and sisters, he said, And it's only one.
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  Speaker 4: Then the rest when you come and meet and you're
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  Speaker 4: going to see these guys, and then you're going to
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  Speaker 4: see the back of the pack, like who are you?
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  Speaker 4: And you can see.
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  Speaker 3: Well, but even to a lay person, we'd be able
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  Speaker 3: to walk in and notice that.
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  Speaker 4: Now you're looking for it, Now we're looking for you said,
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  Speaker 4: you need to know what you're looking for, right, which
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  Speaker 4: is something there we learn later in life. So what
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  Speaker 4: do I want? You know what you need to do.
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  Speaker 4: You need to make money, but you know where, how,
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  Speaker 4: with who? Right? So you learn that along the way.
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  Speaker 4: But once you know, once you have very clear what
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  Speaker 4: life is all about, that's all you put in your
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  Speaker 4: head and that's what you look for.
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  Speaker 3: On the family. Since she was talking about and how
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  Speaker 3: I think we've known folks recently even who have a
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  Speaker 3: baby and they get rid of the dog because there's
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  Speaker 3: an incident or something like that. Is it easier? Is
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  Speaker 3: it an easier transition? It doesn't matter to have the
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  Speaker 3: kid first and then introduce a dog into the home,
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  Speaker 3: or to already have a dog and then introduce introduce
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  Speaker 3: a child into the home, whatever you want. Either way
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  Speaker 3: it can work.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Because so if you raise a dog first,
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  Speaker 4: the dog has rules, by limitations, trust, respect, love, right,
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  Speaker 4: So then you bring a baby human into the picture,
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  Speaker 4: and the way you introduce a baby human into the
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  Speaker 4: picture is the dog is quiet and calm at a
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  Speaker 4: distance social distance. Okay, it's almost like the way people
• 15:41
  Speaker 4: greeted the Queen of England. Right, social distance. You bow,
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  Speaker 4: then she tells you to come in as a ritual,
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  Speaker 4: So think about a baby like a ritual when people
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: meet the Queen of England. Social distance, come down, where
• 15:56
  Speaker 4: your turn? Come in?
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  Speaker 1: But people get emotion.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because look at your brother. Oh look, just gonna
• 16:04
  Speaker 4: love him. Right.
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  Speaker 2: But I get nervous when I see people who don't
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  Speaker 2: know what they're doing, who haven't read your philosophy or
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: know about it, and they'll sit there and put the
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: dog right next to the baby's face. I get nervous
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: as a parent and a dog owner when I see that.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: Do you as well?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, are there some rules that you should actually
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: or at least some research you should do before you
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  Speaker 2: put a dog in a baby's face?
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: Yes? Of course you have to be because you're doing
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  Speaker 4: the introduction right. So you're the link between the baby
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: human and the dog. You're the link. You're the one
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: that's gonna say, I want safe peace, love between both
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: both of you. I want trustrespect with both of you.
• 16:46
  Speaker 4: But the baby is going to be the pack leader
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  Speaker 4: of you. Why because you are giving the energy to
• 16:50
  Speaker 4: the baby. This is your genetic pack. He's part of
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: the family, it is not. But he's also a stinct one,
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: you get it. So it's very important for a dog
• 17:01
  Speaker 4: to understand that you want absolute come surrender to that baby,
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: right because if you will have a gorilla, what would
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: you want the gorilla to feel about your come surrender? Indeed, exactly.
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: So my point is is in the animal world, if
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: you ask for come surrender, they give you loyalty. But
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: if you want their love and the excitement, they will
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: give you the accident wow you because you're talking to
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  Speaker 4: the spirit and the instinct, not the specie. You want
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: a cat, a mouse, a squirrel to become surrendered to
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  Speaker 4: your children, and that's how your child is going to
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: be safe because they're giving you their their most respectful
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: side of them, which is there comes surrender.
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: But do dogs get jealous?
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: No, they're like to share. They live in a group.
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: They live in a group. See, they're very they're very
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: family oriented, community oriented. We are the one that creates
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: all this new stuff. Oh it's being jealous. Is available right,
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: it's available, is available right. It's like, why would a
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: dog not share home family food? Why would not? That's
• 18:14
  Speaker 4: the way to keep the whole packup life. That's how
• 18:16
  Speaker 4: they do it right. So the whole jealousy thing is
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: because a lot of times people say, oh, it's because
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: he loves me so much. He said, that's why. No,
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: it's because you let them. I raised my kids. I
• 18:31
  Speaker 4: have two kids who are now thirty and twenty seven.
• 18:33
  Speaker 4: But when my kids were little, it was sixty.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Five dogs, sixty five sixty.
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: Five whites, people's German shepherds in the hood. I was
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: in South Central and my kids were born and raised around.
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: This pack of dogs. And they're still my kids, still alive.
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: They have no urs. Yes, of course they have no choice. Man.
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: This is the last one question I have, and this
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: has to do everybody deals with this if you have
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: a dog or not, especially here in New York. What
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: is the proper way to behave when you encounter someone
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: dog on the street. First, for someone who is with
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: a dog and someone without a lot of people jump
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: in they want to pite somebody's dog. So tell what
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: what's the right interaction there? And also, I don't understand
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: dog owners stopping on the corner to let the dogs
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: do whatever they do together. Apparently you're supposed to. But yeah,
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: all that thing. What's the correct way to interact on
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: the street with a foreign dog?
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: Well, no touch, no talking right contact right, that's no touch,
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: no talk, right contact, Let the let the dog be calm,
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: surrender and that he comes to you. He wants to
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: smell you. He doesn't want to see you, he doesn't
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: want to hear. He wants to smell you. And then
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: you just stay calm, confident. And then there's that human
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: smells this way, but he wants the front position. So
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: your energy is what tells them what position you want.
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: Your scynth is your name. But if you go how
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: you doing?
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: Look at me?
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: That's what everybody does.
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: It's like, oh, I wanted to smell. The dog can
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: smell you from me to a mile away like a
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: you know what I mean? Like she doesn't come to
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: the dogs, The dog goes all the way to next town. See,
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: the scent is what makes a dog a dog is
• 20:23
  Speaker 4: his nose. A dog can be blind and deft, and
• 20:26
  Speaker 4: he still finds home. He will bring you back home
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: even though he's blind. It's the nose of a dog
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: and the trust of his instincts that keeps him alive.
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: And when when Brody interacts or they come upon another
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: dog on the street, what's the right thing to do.
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: Well, first of all, not excited dogs, because they can
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: create a fight maybe or an attack, especially a big
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: dog and a little dog, right or the least can
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: take so, you see, and so as best they both
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: of the dogs going to come surrender. Think about the
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: dogs they live with. People with disabilities, you know, people
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: who are blind. They keep a dog colm surrender, right,
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: and then when they meet the boss comes and then
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: they let him go. So it's from zero to ten,
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: not from ten to one hundred.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: It's about the calmness ahead of time and throughout the.
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: Walk everything in life, you know, as we grow, Oh
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: it's about silence. Oh it's about commonists. Oh, it's about surrendering.
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: And then it's the happy, go lucky. And then it's
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: the calm confident. Right now, we don't want to be
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: in a camp confident all the time. You know. The
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: way you learn is by silence, come surrender. The way
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: you celebrate is happy, go lucky. The way you make
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: things happen is calm, confident, But then you got to
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: turn that thing off.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Caesar, I had no idea that we were going to
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: learn about human philosophy as we were talking about dogs.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: That was amazing, SERI, that was phenomenal. I learned so
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: much things I probably should have learned a decade ago.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: But I am going to be applying this into my
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: personal life.
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: I was reading Gaby Bernstein and we had her in
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: studio not long ago. I need to talk to the
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: dog to get my life.
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: Simple. I make it simple. You know, English is not
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: my first language, so I have to life simplify words, natural, simple, profound, trouserspect, love,
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: ruled by limitation. Everything has a formula, rituals and symbols.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: Well, congratulations on all your continued success. Just and it's
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: it's no surprise after having this conversation. Why you are
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: who you are?
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: The dog whisperer.
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah,