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Autism Late Diagnosis - Everything YOU NEED To Know (5 ESSENTIALS) · Aspergers & Autism Podcast [The Aspie World] AuDHD

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  Autism and a Late Diagnosis. This is Everything You Need to
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  Know from 5 Essential Tips to Help You once you have a
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  diagnosis later on in life. Hey guys, welcome back to the
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  aspy world. My name is Dan, I have Autism,
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  ADHD, OCD, and dyslexia and I make weekly videos all about
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  this stuff. So if you're on your around here
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  and you'd like to learn more and see more videos, remember to hit
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  OK guys, welcome back. What is up?
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  Different thinker fam. The place where we think
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  differently daily. Yeah, it's good.
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  It's, it's good. It's December for me.
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  I don't know when you watching this video, but it's December
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  right now. It's cold and it's like minus
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  whatever outside. But it still doesn't stop me.
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  autismhacks.net. Do that now, guys.
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  What's going on? Late autism diagnosis.
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  Oh gosh, this is a good one because I was diagnosed 26 years
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  old with Asperger's syndromes. This is a really late diagnosis
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  of autism. But I do know of people who
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  diagnosed in their 70s. I did an interview on my podcast
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  with a woman who released a book because about her mother, who
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  her mother was in the 70s and diagnosed with autism.
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  Absolutely fantastic, really interesting, insightful book.
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  And if you want to check out my podcast, it's linked down below
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  in the description of this video, but definitely check out
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  my podcast to do, you know, weekly podcast episodes and it's
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  super awesome. Anyway, so late diagnosis ain't
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  no mystery or new thing or new concept, but typically people
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  are diagnosed between the age of three and five years old with an
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  autism spectrum disorder. But if you're unlucky enough to
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  for them to notice it when you're younger, probably in your
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  20s to 30s is typically when they'll diagnose it later on in
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  life. And this can kind of leave you
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  very lost. And I didn't know anything when
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  I was diagnosed with autism. They basically said OK, you got
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  asked where to syndrome an HD and OCD and all this stuff, and
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  then they said OK, he's a I think it was a leaflet and a DVD
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  to watch. It was terrible.
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  And then they said see you later and like push you out the door.
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  I was like, OK, but then they assigned me an awesome
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  development worker and he was great.
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  And he actually invited me to all these groups and all
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  everything. And then he kind of taught me
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  how all ways of like how to access, support and help and all
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  these things. And it was just absolutely
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  fantastic. So I do salute that guy
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  amazingly well because he just, he was just so awesome.
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  It was just amazing. So that brings me to thinking,
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  well, maybe I could like jot down five of the most, like
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  interesting and essential kind of tips and strategies that I
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  had after I was diagnosed. I could hand on to you guys
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  because after all, I'm just trying to help you and that
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  would be a beautiful thing. So let's get stuck into these
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  five essentials for you guys. Okay.
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  So number one is search for local authority.
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  So doing research for your local kind of authority to support and
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  help for autism is your first point of call.
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  Now they will be able to direct you to all support assets and
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  avenues that they have available.
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  Now, depending where you are in the world, your government or
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  local authorities may have autism programs themselves.
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  But if they don't, they'll be able to say, oh, look, we don't
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  offer any support, but we do know this charity or this one
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  that we do work with because at the end of the day, there is a
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  duty of care around autism and local authorities need to be on
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  it. You know, I've done loads of
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  meetings with councils and local authorities and governments
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  about the fact that, you know, they have autism provisions in
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  place to help people and access support and help.
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  And, you know, all those things are in place.
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  So definitely do this. First of all, local authorities
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  and see what help and support that they offer for people on
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  the autism spectrum. And a bonus tip here is speak to
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  your utility energy providers and ask them if there's any
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  additional support for people who are disabled.
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  Because if you have an autism spectrum diagnosis then that is
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  registered as disabled and classed as disabled.
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  Now all energy providers do have additional services that they've
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  bolt on for free because you're disabled or vulnerable person in
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  their eyes, which is a great thing to know that you are, you
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  know, eligible for that and why not?
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  You know you, it's there to for you and help you, so definitely
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  check that out. OK, so #2 is look for local
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  autism charities. Now locating your autism charity
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  is a must, your local one at least, because you know they
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  have access points to help you in certain situations.
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  Now there are a bunch of different autism charities all
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  over the world and in every town, every city, in every
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  state, everywhere in the world. So I would say the first thing
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  you do is just go onto Google, you know, key in autism, support
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  your local area and see what comes up.
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  And actually a better tip than this is to go on Facebook and
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  just type it in in, you know, you know, autism charities, my
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  area, and see what comes up because that is going to be
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  your, your kind of initial introduction to support from a
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  charitable side of things. OK, so #3 I found super
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  important was autism support groups.
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  So when I was diagnosed, I had so much help from actually
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  visiting autism support groups and I'm just going there and
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  listening to the talks and conversing with other people in
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  them. So what I would do is I just go
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  on Facebook and type in autism support groups and you may find
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  a Facebook group doing it like a digital one.
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  But usually because your location is set on Facebook,
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  because Facebook knows where you are in the world, when you go
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  and type into Facebook like awesome support groups in my
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  area, they'll find you a support group in your area that will
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  have actually a physical kind of meet ups or whatever or support
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  kind of chats and stuff like that.
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  Absolutely amazing. I found this so, so helpful and
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  I really loved it. Yeah, I really did love it.
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  OK, so #4 is tell your work or school.
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  So one of the things that I did as soon as I was diagnosed was
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  tell my friends, family and and place of work that I was on the
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  spectrum. Because you know, all these
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  people will have a duty of care regards to their family, friends
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  or even just a coworker. They'll have a duty of care for
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  you. You as a person, you still
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  matter, You still have feelings and you know and they still care
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  about you. So I would say that tell them
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  straight away because then they'll, you know, you start off
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  on the right foot. You don't want to spring it on
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  them about five years after and be like, Oh yeah, by the way,
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  dude, I'm on the auto inspection, so I'm not going to
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  come to that company retreat. They're going to be like, oh,
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  you never told us this. Like, you know, imagine all
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  those years of help and support that they could have given you
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  because there are reasonable adjustments that people can, you
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  know, put in place at work in schools and colleges and
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  universities. So definitely tell those people
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  that you're spending most of your time with because it's
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  important that they know. OK, so a #5 is carrying on from
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  #4, which is tell your friends and family.
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  The first thing I did was tell my friends and family because,
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  you know, they're the people who are around you most of the time
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  and they're going to be the ones who would want to know.
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  And those are the people who will support you through pretty
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  much everything and they're going to be there for you.
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  So if they can understand you better, then tell them straight
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  away. This is the first thing I did.
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  I I just literally went to my my family straight away.
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  I was like, hey, I'm on the Austin spectrum.
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  And they were like, OK, cool, what's this?
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  We'll have to check it out. We don't understand what what it
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  is, blah, blah, blah. But then also they were like, Oh
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  yeah, this makes sense because I've seen somebody who's on the
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  Austin spectrum and you very much resemble that person, yada,
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  yada. Everything's great.
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  It was cool. So telling friends and family is
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  a must and I highly recommend just doing that.
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  If you guys have anything to add to these tips, then pop it in a
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  comment down below. I'd love to have that discussion
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  with you and also if you want to share this because it might be a
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  value, share it on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and give
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  this video a thumbs up. I'll see you next time guys.