Latest / INSIGHT FOR LIVING: Biblical Wisdom For Everyday Living / Will We Be Married in Heaven Msg 5_21 - Pastor Chuck Swindoll Insight for Living
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- 0:01Speaker 1: As you read through the Bible, you come to sections
- 0:04Speaker 1: that belong together. Getting beyond the Old Testament, you come
- 0:10Speaker 1: to the New. There are four books that revolve around
- 0:15Speaker 1: the life and ministry of Jesus. They're called the Gospels.
- 0:23Speaker 1: Though they cover the same era of time, the four
- 0:29Speaker 1: writers of the Gospels, often referred to as the evangelists,
- 0:35Speaker 1: look at the life and ministry of Jesus from different
- 0:39Speaker 1: vantage points. Each one adding his own perspective. Then you
- 0:49Speaker 1: get beyond the Gospels, you come to the book of history,
- 0:52Speaker 1: which is the Acts of the Apostles. And that book
- 0:56Speaker 1: takes up the story at the ending of the Gospels,
- 1:00Speaker 1: as Jesus has ascended and has been seated by the Father,
- 1:05Speaker 1: then the apostles carry out his work in the Acts
- 1:10Speaker 1: of the Apostles. This is followed by the letters, commonly
- 1:16Speaker 1: called the epistles in the Scriptures. And from Romans all
- 1:21Speaker 1: the way to Jude, the next to last book of
- 1:25Speaker 1: the Bible, these letters convey truth regarding living the Christian life.
- 1:33Speaker 1: And then last, of course, is the great book of prophecy,
- 1:38Speaker 1: the book of the Revelation. Learn to say it correctly.
- 1:43Speaker 1: It's not revelations, plural. It's the revelation of Jesus Christ.
- 1:54Speaker 1: His work in the lives of his own in the
- 1:58Speaker 1: last days, bringing in the kingdom in the days of eternity.
- 2:06Speaker 1: We're in the gospel of Matthew chapter 22. This is
- 2:12Speaker 1: my 70th message in Matthew. I remember when we were
- 2:18Speaker 1: going through Job, those laughing were here during that time.
- 2:25Speaker 1: The rest of them who heard have fled long since.
- 2:30Speaker 1: Remember one child saying to his dad, how old was
- 2:34Speaker 1: I when Pastor Chuck began the book of Job? Well,
- 2:39Speaker 1: we've spent many more Sundays in the book of Matthew.
- 2:45Speaker 1: You just cannot hurry your way through a gospel this significant.
- 2:51Speaker 1: So we come to chapter 22. and I'll be reading
- 2:55Speaker 1: verses 23 through 33 from the New Living Translation. Will
- 3:02Speaker 1: you please stand for the reading of God's word? That
- 3:12Speaker 1: same day, Jesus was approached by some Sadducees, religious leaders
- 3:20Speaker 1: who say there is no resurrection from the dead. They
- 3:26Speaker 1: posed this question. Teacher Moses said, if a man dies
- 3:34Speaker 1: without children, his brother should marry the widow and have
- 3:41Speaker 1: a child who will carry on the brother's name. Well,
- 3:47Speaker 1: suppose there were seven brothers. The oldest one married and
- 3:53Speaker 1: then died without children. So his brother married the widow.
- 4:01Speaker 1: But the second brother also died. And the third brother
- 4:05Speaker 1: married her. This continued with all seven of them. Last
- 4:10Speaker 1: of all, the woman also died. So tell us, whose
- 4:17Speaker 1: wife will she be in the resurrection? For all seven
- 4:23Speaker 1: were married to her. Jesus replied, Your mistake is that
- 4:31Speaker 1: you don't know the scriptures and you don't know the
- 4:35Speaker 1: power of God. For when the dead rise, we will
- 4:40Speaker 1: neither marry nor be given in marriage. In this respect,
- 4:48Speaker 1: They will be like the angels in heaven. But now,
- 4:53Speaker 1: as to whether there will be a resurrection of the dead,
- 4:57Speaker 1: haven't you ever read about this in the scriptures? Long
- 5:02Speaker 1: after Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob had died, God said, I
- 5:08Speaker 1: am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and
- 5:13Speaker 1: the God of Jacob. So he is the God of
- 5:17Speaker 1: the living. not the dead. When the crowds heard him,
- 5:23Speaker 1: they were astounded at his teaching. How great it would
- 5:29Speaker 1: have been to have been on earth and to have
- 5:31Speaker 1: seen the dialogue between Jesus and those who attempted to
- 5:36Speaker 1: trap him, which was impossible. Please be seated. I am
- 5:45Speaker 1: currently reading a fascinating book titled The Vanishing American Adult
- 5:54Speaker 1: by Ben Sasse. Sasse is a senator in Nebraska. Though
- 6:01Speaker 1: he is a politician, the book is not political. The
- 6:06Speaker 1: book is a lamentation. He, like I and many of us,
- 6:13Speaker 1: he's saddened that so many growing up in America, remain adolescent.
- 6:24Speaker 1: Some still in their 30s are still living at home.
- 6:30Speaker 1: Many who are already old enough to be adults do
- 6:36Speaker 1: not know that they are adults and do not conduct
- 6:41Speaker 1: themselves as adults. It's a vanishing group. As I read this, naturally,
- 6:50Speaker 1: I do analogies in my mind with my world, which
- 6:54Speaker 1: is not political. Mine is a world that deals with
- 6:58Speaker 1: the church. So I've been thinking while reading about the vanishing,
- 7:05Speaker 1: responsible believer. Easy to grow older in the church, but
- 7:16Speaker 1: not grow up. and become adult in our relationship with
- 7:22Speaker 1: God and with one another. Bow with me, please. We're grateful,
- 7:29Speaker 1: our Father, for the pleasure of worship. We come to
- 7:33Speaker 1: worship you as the king of our lives, as the
- 7:37Speaker 1: Lord of our decisions, as the master of our walk
- 7:45Speaker 1: on this earth. We want you to know, our Father,
- 7:49Speaker 1: that our love for you is not partial. It is total.
- 7:56Speaker 1: And we gather today because we realize we cannot make
- 7:59Speaker 1: it without you. If we could, we'd be home. We
- 8:03Speaker 1: wouldn't give much thought to gatherings like this, but we
- 8:07Speaker 1: need to be here. We love being with you and
- 8:12Speaker 1: with one another. Find favor, Lord, in our presence before
- 8:18Speaker 1: you in our act of worship. And now as we give,
- 8:24Speaker 1: be honored in our giving, which is also a vital
- 8:29Speaker 1: part of our worship. In the name of the one
- 8:32Speaker 1: who is our King, our Master, and our Lord, we
- 8:37Speaker 1: pray and we give. Everyone said, Amen. Most people I
- 8:44Speaker 1: know are fascinated over the life after death issue. First
- 8:50Speaker 1: of all, we're intrigued by death itself. When we are
- 8:55Speaker 1: with one that we love and it has been a
- 8:58Speaker 1: long life and those eyes are closed for the last time,
- 9:03Speaker 1: we're there trying to imagine what it is that that
- 9:08Speaker 1: person is now going through. As his own soul and
- 9:13Speaker 1: spirit is removed from him invisibly and instantly and taken
- 9:19Speaker 1: to be with the Lord. And the body remains for
- 9:23Speaker 1: us to deal with this body with dignity and gratitude.
- 9:30Speaker 1: Death is intriguing. It's a huge mystery. Since we've never
- 9:36Speaker 1: been there, we've never talked to someone who has gone
- 9:39Speaker 1: there and has returned from it, we can only imagine.
- 9:43Speaker 1: And the imagination of people mixed with superstition is all
- 9:49Speaker 1: over the page. I read this past week about one
- 9:52Speaker 1: who truly believed that angels give guided tours of heaven
- 9:58Speaker 1: to all people who enter. the portals of heaven. There
- 10:04Speaker 1: are people who visit cemeteries to talk to gravestones. My
- 10:09Speaker 1: mother led the lady across the street from us to Christ. Mrs.
- 10:14Speaker 1: Roberts had married later in life and she dearly loved
- 10:17Speaker 1: her husband. The two of them, Mr. and Mrs. Roberts,
- 10:20Speaker 1: were delightful people. He suddenly was taken by a heart
- 10:24Speaker 1: attack and she buried him and her heart was broken.
- 10:29Speaker 1: My mother's heart went out to this lady across the
- 10:32Speaker 1: street and she said to me one day, I'm going
- 10:35Speaker 1: to take some lemonade and cookies and I'm going to
- 10:39Speaker 1: talk to Mrs. Roberts. because I understand she's been regularly
- 10:43Speaker 1: going to the cemetery and trying to connect with her husband.
- 10:47Speaker 1: And I want to help her know what death is
- 10:50Speaker 1: all about and what life is about beyond this life,
- 10:54Speaker 1: as the Bible teaches. So pray for me. And I
- 10:57Speaker 1: remember as a little boy praying for my mother, she
- 10:59Speaker 1: walked across the street. She came back all smiles. The
- 11:03Speaker 1: cookies were gone. I also noticed that. And the lemonade
- 11:06Speaker 1: had been enjoyed. She had led Mrs. Roberts to Christ
- 11:11Speaker 1: And Mrs. Roberts had from that moment on made her
- 11:13Speaker 1: last visit to the cemetery. Well, maybe I shouldn't put
- 11:16Speaker 1: it like that. She did return, but she returned to
- 11:20Speaker 1: talk to people, other people at the cemetery who were
- 11:24Speaker 1: trying to connect with the dead. And she regularly and faithfully,
- 11:29Speaker 1: as far as I remember, almost to the last of
- 11:32Speaker 1: her own life, she faithfully told others about Christ. As
- 11:38Speaker 1: I say to folks, she's the only cemetery evangelist I
- 11:41Speaker 1: had ever met. She regularly talked about Jesus with those
- 11:46Speaker 1: who had gone with their hearts broken. Superstition has a
- 11:50Speaker 1: field day with the whole subject of life after death.
- 11:55Speaker 1: Did you know that the ancient Greeks often placed a
- 11:59Speaker 1: coin in the mouth of the corpse to pay his
- 12:05Speaker 1: fare across the the mystic river of death into the
- 12:10Speaker 1: land of immortal life. Norsemen of old were often buried
- 12:19Speaker 1: with their horse so that they might ride proudly through
- 12:25Speaker 1: the gates of heaven and along the streets of gold
- 12:29Speaker 1: on their horses. Eskimos in Greenland for years, when their
- 12:35Speaker 1: children died, would often bury the child with the dog
- 12:41Speaker 1: that the child had loved, so that the dog would
- 12:45Speaker 1: help guide them through what they called death's cold wasteland.
- 12:52Speaker 1: All of it's superstitious. None of it referred to in
- 12:57Speaker 1: the scriptures, but all of it a matter of tradition
- 13:00Speaker 1: that was believed by a number of people over the years,
- 13:04Speaker 1: and I've hardly scratched the surface. The whole idea of
- 13:08Speaker 1: being raised from the dead and changed so that our
- 13:13Speaker 1: bodies live forever is intriguing to us because we are
- 13:18Speaker 1: so riveted to this earth. Everything around us is based
- 13:23Speaker 1: on life on this earth, of course, and we can
- 13:28Speaker 1: hardly even imagine life beyond this earth. Eternity will not
- 13:35Speaker 1: be like this earth at all. Life beyond the grave
- 13:40Speaker 1: will not be like life before the grave. And when
- 13:46Speaker 1: you attempt to study that subject, you're left to all
- 13:50Speaker 1: kinds of human opinions and ideas, and as I stated earlier, superstition.
- 13:58Speaker 1: One of the larger books in my library is a
- 14:01Speaker 1: book titled simply Heaven by Randy Alcorn. Randy's a reliable author.
- 14:09Speaker 1: He's written a 516-page book on that one subject and
- 14:17Speaker 1: admitting all the way through it is not an exhaustive work.
- 14:22Speaker 1: Much more could have been written because there is much
- 14:25Speaker 1: to be learned from the scriptures. And the whole subject
- 14:29Speaker 1: of reincarnation is adding to our confusions. Some believe that
- 14:37Speaker 1: you don't really pass from this life, you return in
- 14:40Speaker 1: another body, adding to the chaos of the subject. Scripture
- 14:46Speaker 1: does not teach reincarnation. It teaches that we die once,
- 14:52Speaker 1: and after death, we face the future. Judgment, time before
- 15:01Speaker 1: the Lord where we give account of our deeds, Eternity
- 15:05Speaker 1: in heaven with our Heavenly Father and His Son Jesus
- 15:10Speaker 1: and with one another. Amazingly, in spite of all that's
- 15:14Speaker 1: been written in the Bible, many people, I would even add,
- 15:19Speaker 1: most people have real serious questions about the resurrection. Many
- 15:26Speaker 1: do not believe we will be raised at all. We live,
- 15:31Speaker 1: we die, and that's it. But that's not what scripture says.
- 15:39Speaker 1: Listen to these words. The Lord himself will descend from
- 15:44Speaker 1: heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel,
- 15:47Speaker 1: with the trumpet of God, and the dead in Christ
- 15:50Speaker 1: shall rise first. Then we who are alive and remain
- 15:55Speaker 1: shall be caught up together with them in the clouds
- 15:59Speaker 1: to meet the Lord in the air. And so shall
- 16:03Speaker 1: we ever be with the Lord. And then that added
- 16:08Speaker 1: word at 1 Thessalonians 4, verse 18, comfort one another
- 16:13Speaker 1: with these words. Be comforted to know that those who
- 16:20Speaker 1: have died will be raised. Those who have known and
- 16:23Speaker 1: loved the Lord in life will not be forgotten. They
- 16:27Speaker 1: will in fact be rewarded and will have an eternal
- 16:32Speaker 1: kind of life that they will live face to face
- 16:36Speaker 1: with Jesus, and with one another in a conscious, glorified state.
- 16:45Speaker 1: Not only are there people today who do not believe that,
- 16:48Speaker 1: there were people in Jesus' day who did not believe
- 16:52Speaker 1: in a resurrection. In fact, there was a whole religious
- 16:55Speaker 1: group who didn't believe in life after death. We meet
- 17:02Speaker 1: up with them in verse 23 of Matthew chapter 22.
- 17:09Speaker 1: I invite you to turn there with me. As I
- 17:12Speaker 1: mentioned earlier in this series, Jesus is in his final
- 17:16Speaker 1: week on earth before he is taken under arrest, declared guilty,
- 17:22Speaker 1: not proven guilty, for he wasn't guilty. He goes through
- 17:26Speaker 1: the mockery of six illegal trials. He is then tortured,
- 17:33Speaker 1: nailed to a cross, and left to die. And he
- 17:38Speaker 1: too would be resurrected three days later. But before I
- 17:43Speaker 1: go there, let's go back to this final week. The
- 17:47Speaker 1: Pharisees have tried again and again to stump him, to
- 17:51Speaker 1: prove that he's not qualified to be who he claims
- 17:54Speaker 1: to be, the Messiah. Each time they have been knocked
- 17:59Speaker 1: back on their heels, each time they have simply gone
- 18:03Speaker 1: away realizing that they were not able to make their point. Well,
- 18:08Speaker 1: the Sadducees decide to give it a try. We meet
- 18:12Speaker 1: them here in verse 23, the same day Jesus was
- 18:16Speaker 1: approached by some Sadducees. And the writer adds, they are
- 18:24Speaker 1: religious leaders who say there is no resurrection from the dead.
- 18:31Speaker 1: There you have it. The Sadducees are smaller in number
- 18:37Speaker 1: than the Pharisees. They were wealthy, sophisticated liberals of that day.
- 18:48Speaker 1: Let me summarize. They rejected all things supernatural. Did not
- 18:56Speaker 1: believe in angels, the existence of angels, or any supernatural spirits.
- 19:04Speaker 1: They denied it all. They did not believe there was
- 19:08Speaker 1: life beyond death. Therefore, there was no such thing as
- 19:13Speaker 1: future judgment, future rewards, penalties, or punishment. No heaven, no hell.
- 19:24Speaker 1: One man writes, they were mean-spirited, rude, arrogant, self-righteous, bigots.
- 19:36Speaker 1: That's why they were sad, you see. Therefore, they come
- 19:40Speaker 1: with a question. I couldn't pass it up. It's just
- 19:42Speaker 1: laying right out there, and anybody with half a sense
- 19:45Speaker 1: of humor would have seen it. So there it is. Now,
- 19:48Speaker 1: they come with a question that like a word problem.
- 19:51Speaker 1: Remember word problems when you were in school and you
- 19:55Speaker 1: studied math and didn't you hate them? They always had,
- 19:58Speaker 1: they're like a conundrum. A boy has a sack of
- 20:02Speaker 1: five apples and he gets on the bus and And
- 20:05Speaker 1: he sits down by his friend who has 18 apples.
- 20:08Speaker 1: He gives him four of his 18 and the boy
- 20:11Speaker 1: gives him three of his five apples. What color is
- 20:15Speaker 1: the bus? That's the part of the word problem I
- 20:18Speaker 1: could never figure out. It never asked the question you
- 20:21Speaker 1: expected to ask. Now, these Sadducees think they are so smart,
- 20:28Speaker 1: they're gonna stump the brightest mind of the centuries. How
- 20:33Speaker 1: stupid of them to think they could do it. But
- 20:36Speaker 1: of course, when you're arrogant, self-serving, rude and mean-spirited, and
- 20:43Speaker 1: you have no place in your theology for the supernatural,
- 20:46Speaker 1: you come at Jesus with this kind of question. Look
- 20:50Speaker 1: at it. They say to Jesus, Moses said if a
- 20:55Speaker 1: man dies without children, his brother should marry her the
- 21:02Speaker 1: widow and have a child who will carry on the
- 21:05Speaker 1: brother's name. But that's too simple. Let's make it complicated.
- 21:12Speaker 1: Suppose there were seven brothers. The oldest one married and
- 21:18Speaker 1: then died without children. So the next brother married her
- 21:22Speaker 1: and died. There were no children. And the next brother
- 21:26Speaker 1: married her and died without children. And it goes all
- 21:30Speaker 1: the way down to the seventh of them, last of all,
- 21:33Speaker 1: the woman also died. Which one will be her husband
- 21:43Speaker 1: in heaven? Now, the thing that makes this so weird
- 21:49Speaker 1: is that they don't believe in heaven. They don't believe
- 21:53Speaker 1: in a resurrection. But they're asking him about this so-called
- 21:57Speaker 1: life after death with their eyes rolling. thinking they could
- 22:01Speaker 1: probably stump him if they add the number of brothers
- 22:05Speaker 1: and they've got this woman who is finally the widow
- 22:09Speaker 1: of all of these men and ultimately she goes to heaven.
- 22:13Speaker 1: Who's going to be her husband there? For them to
- 22:19Speaker 1: think they could stump Jesus, it just isn't enough to
- 22:22Speaker 1: make you smile. It's kind of like my stepping in
- 22:25Speaker 1: the ring with Mike Tyson or maybe playing a little
- 22:28Speaker 1: hoop with LeBron James. Who am I kidding? I couldn't
- 22:34Speaker 1: hold a candle to either one of them. They come arrogantly,
- 22:39Speaker 1: but they look stupid. Jesus listened to the question, by
- 22:43Speaker 1: the way. He knew where they were going. He was
- 22:47Speaker 1: all ready with an answer, but he let them finish
- 22:49Speaker 1: their question. And then he, what I would call, comes
- 22:56Speaker 1: to terms with the whole issue with his opening comment.
- 23:01Speaker 1: It's in verse 29. Look for yourself. You are deceived,
- 23:08Speaker 1: or your Bible may read, you err. This New Living
- 23:16Speaker 1: translation renders it, your mistake is that. Then he goes
- 23:21Speaker 1: on to tell them, the word is planao, P-L-A-N-A-O. We
- 23:26Speaker 1: get a word planet from it. It's the idea of wandering,
- 23:31Speaker 1: going astray, getting off course. You've gotten way off course.
- 23:38Speaker 1: You're out to lunch, we would paraphrase it, because you
- 23:43Speaker 1: do not know the scriptures and you do not know
- 23:47Speaker 1: the power of God. I'll give you a little tip
- 23:51Speaker 1: here that might help you in your own walk. This
- 23:55Speaker 1: is a verse worth memorizing. This, in summary, explains why
- 24:02Speaker 1: most people are confused spiritually. That's it, in a nutshell.
- 24:11Speaker 1: It's not meant to be insulting. It's meant to be informing.
- 24:16Speaker 1: The fact is, Sadducees, you don't know what you're talking about.
- 24:23Speaker 1: You don't know what the Scriptures teach. Furthermore, you don't
- 24:30Speaker 1: know anything about the power of God. I'll add this
- 24:37Speaker 1: little sidebar before I go further. If you want to
- 24:40Speaker 1: trace areas of chaos in your own walk, you can
- 24:46Speaker 1: trace the chaos back to one of these two reasons,
- 24:50Speaker 1: maybe both. Either you got off course, away from what
- 24:56Speaker 1: Scripture teaches, Which is easy to do if you don't
- 24:59Speaker 1: know the scriptures. Or you were not aware of the
- 25:06Speaker 1: doctrines that relate to the power of God. A knowledge
- 25:12Speaker 1: of the truths of God mixed with a knowledge of
- 25:16Speaker 1: the word of God. Let's put it this way. They
- 25:20Speaker 1: didn't know the word of God and they didn't know
- 25:25Speaker 1: the God of the word. When you are in that
- 25:30Speaker 1: no man's land, hear me, you are at the mercy
- 25:37Speaker 1: of anyone who comes knocking at your door or leaning
- 25:43Speaker 1: across your desk at the office or some neighbor, well-meaning
- 25:49Speaker 1: neighbor who says, I've got a real insight regarding life
- 25:55Speaker 1: as it ought to be considered. and they offer you
- 25:58Speaker 1: some thoughts regarding new age or the whole movement of
- 26:03Speaker 1: whatever may be the latest fad. If you do not
- 26:07Speaker 1: know the scriptures and you're not plugged into the power
- 26:10Speaker 1: of God, you are at the mercy of that individual.
- 26:17Speaker 1: But I'll tell you, if you know both, you are
- 26:20Speaker 1: calm and deliberate in your response. You are discerning and
- 26:25Speaker 1: able to see through it all. and able to give
- 26:28Speaker 1: an answer that makes sense, as Jesus does. Now, let's
- 26:33Speaker 1: look at his careful explanation. Look for yourself. By the way,
- 26:37Speaker 1: he reverses the order for some reason when he answers
- 26:41Speaker 1: the question. He first answers the power of God issue,
- 26:46Speaker 1: and then he turns to the scripture issue. Regarding the
- 26:50Speaker 1: power of God, look at what he says. Verse 30.
- 26:54Speaker 1: Let's take our time. When the dead rise, they will
- 27:01Speaker 1: neither marry nor be given in marriage. In this respect,
- 27:07Speaker 1: they will be like the angels in heaven. Look at
- 27:13Speaker 1: the verse. If you were sitting at your kitchen table
- 27:17Speaker 1: or in your study at your desk, you'd be able
- 27:20Speaker 1: to take that verse apart and make three significant statements
- 27:25Speaker 1: about it. Because that's what Jesus does. He's addressing the
- 27:30Speaker 1: power of God. Please observe first how much he believes
- 27:35Speaker 1: in the resurrection. Not if the dead will be raised,
- 27:40Speaker 1: but when the dead rise. We stop right here and
- 27:46Speaker 1: assure you. When your loved one who has known the
- 27:50Speaker 1: Lord Jesus through life passes from this life to the next,
- 27:55Speaker 1: you can be sure that that body will be raised
- 27:59Speaker 1: from the dead. God will see to it. The body
- 28:03Speaker 1: will never be lost, overlooked, or abandoned. Jesus says, when
- 28:10Speaker 1: the dead rise. So he believes clearly in a resurrection.
- 28:15Speaker 1: They did not. Didn't hold him back because he knew
- 28:19Speaker 1: what the truth was theologically. When the dead rise, that's first.
- 28:26Speaker 1: when the dead rise. Second, please notice what he says
- 28:32Speaker 1: about marriage. They will neither marry nor be given in marriage.
- 28:41Speaker 1: So in eternity future, there will not be wedding ceremonies.
- 28:47Speaker 1: There will not be dads giving daughters away. there will
- 28:53Speaker 1: not be the familiarity related to the marriage life on
- 28:58Speaker 1: this earth. Now, this is a good place for me
- 29:01Speaker 1: to pause and extend this reminder. You must discipline yourself
- 29:08Speaker 1: to think outside the terms of the familiar. What's familiar
- 29:14Speaker 1: to all of us is life on this earth. We,
- 29:20Speaker 1: to the best of our ability, pretty well understand what
- 29:23Speaker 1: life is about. We're familiar with weddings. We're familiar with
- 29:30Speaker 1: people falling in love. We're familiar with dads who go
- 29:34Speaker 1: through giving away daughters and moms who are at the wedding.
- 29:38Speaker 1: We're familiar with that scene. That's very earthly. Has nothing
- 29:43Speaker 1: to do with eternity. Okay? When you're thinking about life
- 29:48Speaker 1: after this life, you must remove from your mind and
- 29:53Speaker 1: discipline yourself to think outside the realm of the familiars.
- 29:59Speaker 1: as you focus on the unfamiliar. Okay? So let's let
- 30:04Speaker 1: Jesus' words stand. They will neither marry nor be given
- 30:12Speaker 1: in marriage. Now, let's get very practical. You mean I
- 30:20Speaker 1: won't know my wife in heaven? Doesn't say that. You
- 30:25Speaker 1: mean you won't be close to your spouse? If you're
- 30:29Speaker 1: married on earth, you won't be close. It doesn't say that.
- 30:33Speaker 1: This is talking about the act of marriage and giving
- 30:37Speaker 1: people into the commitment of marriage. I mentioned earlier Randy
- 30:43Speaker 1: Alcorn's book. Let me quote from what he's written. Perhaps
- 30:46Speaker 1: he makes it clearer than I could. And by the way,
- 30:50Speaker 1: remember in the vows that you take when you're married,
- 30:53Speaker 1: till death do us part? At death, there's a parting.
- 31:00Speaker 1: obviously a parting on this earth, and there is a
- 31:02Speaker 1: different kind of relationship when we step into eternity. Now Alcorn,
- 31:07Speaker 1: I quote, Earthly marriage is a shadow, an echo of
- 31:13Speaker 1: the true and ultimate marriage, a perfect marriage with Christ.
- 31:20Speaker 1: Once that ultimate marriage begins, all the human marriages that
- 31:26Speaker 1: pointed to it will have served their noble purpose and
- 31:32Speaker 1: will be assimilated into the one great marriage they foreshadowed.
- 31:40Speaker 1: The purpose of marriage on earth is not to replace heaven,
- 31:45Speaker 1: but to prepare us for it. Then he gives his
- 31:50Speaker 1: own personal illustration. He names his wife, says, she's my
- 31:56Speaker 1: best friend. my closest sister in Christ. Will we become
- 32:02Speaker 1: distant in heaven? Of course not. We'll become closer, I'm convinced.
- 32:10Speaker 1: The joys of marriage will be far greater because of
- 32:14Speaker 1: the character and love of our bridegroom, Christ. On earth,
- 32:20Speaker 1: the closer we draw to him, the closer we draw
- 32:23Speaker 1: to each other, surely the same will be true in heaven.
- 32:28Speaker 1: Jesus said the institution of human marriage would end, having
- 32:34Speaker 1: fulfilled its purpose, but he never hinted that deep relationships
- 32:41Speaker 1: between married people would end. So understand, we could take
- 32:48Speaker 1: it for what it says. Be careful when you do
- 32:50Speaker 1: that not to add to it. Put some restraint on
- 32:56Speaker 1: your imagination. Let's let it say what it says. The
- 33:02Speaker 1: dead will rise. So resurrection is a sure thing. We
- 33:09Speaker 1: will not be marrying or giving in marriage. So that's
- 33:13Speaker 1: also a fact. Look at the third part of the verse.
- 33:19Speaker 1: They will be like the angels in heaven. Maybe you've
- 33:23Speaker 1: never done this. but I suggest that you make a
- 33:26Speaker 1: study of the angels. You will learn much about your
- 33:31Speaker 1: eternal state when you study about the angels. I'll give
- 33:36Speaker 1: you a quick little glimpse. Angels worship. We will worship.
- 33:43Speaker 1: They exalt their Lord God, our creator. We will do
- 33:46Speaker 1: the same. However, they do not engage in sexual relations.
- 33:51Speaker 1: We will not. They do not reproduce, nor will we
- 33:55Speaker 1: in heaven. They do not give birth, nor will we.
- 34:02Speaker 1: Angels are sinless, deathless, and ageless. The same will be
- 34:09Speaker 1: true of us. They delight in the will and presence
- 34:14Speaker 1: of their creator. So will we. These are the benefits
- 34:20Speaker 1: of thinking theologically. He says you will be as the
- 34:25Speaker 1: angels in heaven when you read that. Set your mind
- 34:29Speaker 1: free to go to the scriptures and study what the
- 34:34Speaker 1: Bible says about angels and you'll be free from superstition
- 34:40Speaker 1: and theological error. Now make one more statement here before
- 34:46Speaker 1: I move on. Ignorance is not bliss. All my life
- 34:51Speaker 1: I've heard, well, ignorance is bliss. Nothing blissful about ignorance.
- 34:58Speaker 1: Ignorance about slavery kept people enslaved. Ignorance about God keeps
- 35:06Speaker 1: people atheistic. Ignorance about Christ causes most people not to
- 35:13Speaker 1: understand the love of God and the offer that he
- 35:16Speaker 1: makes possible through his son, through himself. at the cross.
- 35:21Speaker 1: Ignorance is not bliss. Ignorance is chaotic. So your goal
- 35:28Speaker 1: as a believer is to be informed. That's why you
- 35:33Speaker 1: will often choose to attend a class where good information
- 35:37Speaker 1: is given that prepares you with knowledge that replaces long-time suspicion,
- 35:46Speaker 1: long-time ignorance. I wrote a book on grace years ago,
- 35:52Speaker 1: and I don't know how many people have written me.
- 35:55Speaker 1: I didn't know what the response would be, but I've
- 35:57Speaker 1: had so many. I would say now hundreds, maybe even
- 36:01Speaker 1: thousands say to me, I had no idea what grace
- 36:05Speaker 1: was all about until I read this. And you know what?
- 36:08Speaker 1: All I did was pull from the scriptures what it
- 36:12Speaker 1: says about grace and help people see in writing that
- 36:17Speaker 1: what that subject is all about, how to live in grace,
- 36:20Speaker 1: how to extend grace, how to treat people in grace.
- 36:25Speaker 1: The same is true here. So don't let yourself, when
- 36:29Speaker 1: death gets near, to be caught up in a lot
- 36:32Speaker 1: of fear, a lot of worry, a lot of anxiety
- 36:37Speaker 1: about what's it going to be like, like the comedian
- 36:41Speaker 1: who said, I'm not afraid of it. I just don't
- 36:44Speaker 1: want to be there when it happens. Well, when you're informed,
- 36:47Speaker 1: you want to be there when it happens. My granddad
- 36:51Speaker 1: used to say, I don't want to be taken up
- 36:53Speaker 1: to be with the Lord when I'm alive. I want
- 36:55Speaker 1: to go through the whole process of death. I want
- 36:59Speaker 1: to see how all of that is going to work
- 37:02Speaker 1: and come together in such a beautiful way. The Lord
- 37:05Speaker 1: did not make you then wonder what he's going to
- 37:07Speaker 1: do with you when you're no longer on this earth.
- 37:10Speaker 1: He has a perfect plan. Perfect plan. And he gives
- 37:15Speaker 1: us a little hint of what life will be like
- 37:18Speaker 1: as he says we will be as the angels in heaven.
- 37:21Speaker 1: Now he goes even further and he addresses the scriptures.
- 37:26Speaker 1: Look at this. He's talking to people who think they
- 37:28Speaker 1: are so sharp in the scriptures. The problem with the Sadducees,
- 37:33Speaker 1: they based everything on just what the first five books
- 37:37Speaker 1: of the Bible taught called the Pentateuch or the law.
- 37:41Speaker 1: I think it's genius of Jesus to quote from the law.
- 37:45Speaker 1: and use a verse from the very passages that they
- 37:48Speaker 1: would be familiar with to put the quietus on their argument.
- 37:55Speaker 1: Look at what he says. He says, but now as
- 38:00Speaker 1: to whether there will be resurrection of the dead, haven't
- 38:04Speaker 1: you ever read about this in the scriptures, which is
- 38:07Speaker 1: a rather open-faced slam against them, these people who thought
- 38:12Speaker 1: they were walking Bibles? Haven't you ever read in the scriptures?
- 38:17Speaker 1: Long after Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob had died, God said,
- 38:22Speaker 1: I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac,
- 38:26Speaker 1: and the God of Jacob. Emphasis on the I am.
- 38:31Speaker 1: I am the I am of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.
- 38:36Speaker 1: What makes it interesting is all three of them have
- 38:39Speaker 1: long been dead. But in Exodus 3 and verse 6,
- 38:44Speaker 1: where that verse is found, Jesus quotes from it. He says,
- 38:50Speaker 1: God is the God of the living, not the God
- 38:52Speaker 1: of the dead. If there were no resurrection, what is
- 38:55Speaker 1: he doing talking about being the God of Abraham, Isaac,
- 39:00Speaker 1: and Jacob? And they're standing there with their mouths open,
- 39:05Speaker 1: wondering what they ought to say in response, so they
- 39:08Speaker 1: say nothing. See that little blank space at the end
- 39:11Speaker 1: of verse 32? That represents their brain at this point.
- 39:18Speaker 1: They don't know what to say. He's got them. But
- 39:23Speaker 1: he doesn't flaunt it. He just leaves it. See, when
- 39:27Speaker 1: you know what you're talking about, to those who don't
- 39:32Speaker 1: know the scriptures, you don't have to scream and shout
- 39:35Speaker 1: and yell and insult and go through all of that.
- 39:40Speaker 1: The Bible speaks for itself. Jesus, drawing from Exodus 3-6,
- 39:48Speaker 1: makes the statement, Statement that had been made to Moses.
- 39:52Speaker 1: And he says he's the God of the living, not
- 39:55Speaker 1: of the dead. Look at the response of the crowd.
- 40:00Speaker 1: When the crowd heard him, they were astounded at the teaching.
- 40:07Speaker 1: By the way, I've looked through this 22nd chapter, and
- 40:11Speaker 1: I've got three verses that I've marked with an arrow.
- 40:15Speaker 1: Each is a response to Jesus' answer. Verse 22. Look
- 40:22Speaker 1: at what the Pharisees and the Herodians responded. His reply
- 40:27Speaker 1: amazed them and they went away. No argument. There's no
- 40:33Speaker 1: room for argument. He answered them in their silence. The
- 40:38Speaker 1: one we just saw, verse 33. When the crowds heard him,
- 40:43Speaker 1: they were astounded at his teaching. No argument. No pushback.
- 40:49Speaker 1: Just astonishment. And look at verse 46. No one could
- 40:55Speaker 1: answer him. And after that, no one dared to ask
- 40:58Speaker 1: him any more questions. I can't speak for you, but
- 41:03Speaker 1: I've had the privilege in my student days of sitting
- 41:07Speaker 1: in classrooms that were taught by very competent professors. Very
- 41:13Speaker 1: reliable individuals who knew their subject. And as is often
- 41:20Speaker 1: true in a class like this, I'm referring to my
- 41:22Speaker 1: years at Dallas Seminary, there will always be a few
- 41:25Speaker 1: students who think they've come today to stump the professor.
- 41:30Speaker 1: And they give it a try. And they ask a question,
- 41:35Speaker 1: and the prof, who has probably had 15 other students
- 41:40Speaker 1: just like him or her, answer the same question years past,
- 41:45Speaker 1: will sit and listen and let the student share with
- 41:49Speaker 1: him some of his intelligence that he can't afford to lose,
- 41:54Speaker 1: but he lets him go ahead and run off at
- 41:57Speaker 1: the mouth. And when he finishes, the prof, just like
- 42:01Speaker 1: a surgeon, just surgically takes the issue apart. And I
- 42:08Speaker 1: remember sitting and thinking the best response to this is silence.
- 42:14Speaker 1: Just be quiet. Now, normally a student like that won't
- 42:20Speaker 1: be quiet. Well, what are you going to do with
- 42:22Speaker 1: verse so-and-so and so-and-so? I'm thinking, you idiot. You keep
- 42:26Speaker 1: this up. He's going to saw you off that limb
- 42:29Speaker 1: with a hard set of facts. You'd be wise not
- 42:32Speaker 1: to say anything else. Why? Because that man or that
- 42:37Speaker 1: woman knows what they're talking about. Jesus knew where they
- 42:44Speaker 1: were going and what they were trying to do, and
- 42:45Speaker 1: he simply gave them the facts. And you know what
- 42:49Speaker 1: else he left us? He left us a pretty good
- 42:52Speaker 1: guideline for our lives. Let me show you why I
- 42:55Speaker 1: say that. Go back to verse 29. Let's see how
- 42:59Speaker 1: this affects us today. I want to talk about the
- 43:03Speaker 1: two major flaws in the lives of most Christians. Here
- 43:09Speaker 1: we go. Verse 29. The first mistake is He said, no,
- 43:17Speaker 1: we're not real well versed in the scriptures. We don't
- 43:21Speaker 1: know the scriptures. Do you? Can you defend your case
- 43:29Speaker 1: from the scriptures regarding resurrection and life after death? Can
- 43:35Speaker 1: you show from the scriptures that we will literally see
- 43:41Speaker 1: Christ face to face, have a relationship with him? Could
- 43:47Speaker 1: you describe the crowns that will be ours, that will
- 43:50Speaker 1: be granted as rewards for life lived on earth? Do
- 43:53Speaker 1: you know the scriptures on the crowns? Do you know
- 43:58Speaker 1: what the Bible teaches about eternal hell? By the way,
- 44:02Speaker 1: it teaches more about that than about heaven. Are you
- 44:06Speaker 1: aware of the biblical teaching? I know you know what
- 44:11Speaker 1: your friend says. I don't care what your friend says.
- 44:16Speaker 1: I care what the book says. When the Bible states it,
- 44:21Speaker 1: you're on solid ground because God never lies to his own. Now,
- 44:29Speaker 1: where am I going with this? Not simply to rebuke
- 44:33Speaker 1: or reprove us, but to encourage you to begin a
- 44:38Speaker 1: program of Bible study. We live in a day when
- 44:42Speaker 1: there's so much available for this. You can go online.
- 44:48Speaker 1: You can tune into many a broadcast that teaches the Bible.
- 44:53Speaker 1: You can get into a program that's a home Bible study.
- 44:59Speaker 1: And as a group, you can learn together. You can
- 45:02Speaker 1: take a short course at most Bible colleges or seminaries
- 45:06Speaker 1: where you can do your own study. And I'll tell
- 45:09Speaker 1: you this, it won't cost you a thing, except the
- 45:11Speaker 1: price of a book. I wrote a book called Searching
- 45:14Speaker 1: the Scriptures. I never talk about my stuff, but I
- 45:17Speaker 1: do it here because it's appropriate. You get that book
- 45:20Speaker 1: and you sit down at your table with that book
- 45:23Speaker 1: on one side and your Bible on the other. You
- 45:25Speaker 1: can do your own Bible study. You'll learn how to
- 45:29Speaker 1: observe the Scriptures, interpret the Scriptures, compare Scripture with Scripture,
- 45:34Speaker 1: and apply Scriptures. You can do it. You can do it.
- 45:40Speaker 1: And I'll tell you what else. It will equip you
- 45:43Speaker 1: and take away your uncertainty regarding life. You will no
- 45:49Speaker 1: longer be confused about suffering. You'll learn why we suffer.
- 45:56Speaker 1: You'll learn what it means to remain stable in the
- 46:02Speaker 1: midst of storm. You'll learn how you can live a
- 46:06Speaker 1: life without fear. I mean, you can't beat that. Begin
- 46:10Speaker 1: your own study searching the scriptures on your own. I
- 46:17Speaker 1: would say this, start with a reading program. You don't
- 46:20Speaker 1: have to get a book. Start on your own. You've
- 46:23Speaker 1: got 66 books right here. Begin in Genesis. Begin in
- 46:28Speaker 1: the Psalms. Start in Proverbs. Take one of the letters
- 46:32Speaker 1: of Paul. On your own, you read 30 minutes a day,
- 46:38Speaker 1: sit down with your Bible open, TV off in a
- 46:43Speaker 1: place where you won't be interrupted and pour over what
- 46:48Speaker 1: you're reading. Read aloud. Read repeatedly. Read thoughtfully. And I'll
- 46:56Speaker 1: tell you the crowning part. Begin a scripture memory program.
- 47:01Speaker 1: Jesus said the word memorized. He quotes directly from Exodus 3,
- 47:05Speaker 1: 6 and in other places. He's not walking around with scrolls.
- 47:09Speaker 1: He's got it memorized. The Navigators is a great program
- 47:13Speaker 1: to begin with. Connect with them and they'll help you
- 47:16Speaker 1: know how to get underway in your own scripture memory program.
- 47:19Speaker 1: It's the method I use. And I still employ the
- 47:23Speaker 1: same principles as I did when I first became acquainted
- 47:27Speaker 1: with it. You become a student of the memorized word,
- 47:33Speaker 1: trust me, you will begin to really know your Bible.
- 47:38Speaker 1: It will give you a confidence boost that you've never
- 47:41Speaker 1: had before. You won't have to rely on what I'm teaching.
- 47:46Speaker 1: You'll pull it out for yourself. Now, when you're involved
- 47:50Speaker 1: in worship like this, it'll only verify what you're digging
- 47:53Speaker 1: out on your own. So let me encourage you to
- 47:57Speaker 1: begin your own study of God's Word. I know you've
- 48:02Speaker 1: heard this. You've heard it since we've started as a church.
- 48:05Speaker 1: Your tendency is to think, you know, I'm I can't
- 48:10Speaker 1: remember how many times you've said this. Well, how many
- 48:12Speaker 1: times have you done it? What are you doing about it?
- 48:19Speaker 1: You don't learn to drive a car by reading. You
- 48:23Speaker 1: learn by doing it, being trained in it, putting it
- 48:27Speaker 1: into action. That's all part of learning the script. Now,
- 48:32Speaker 1: here's the second. Second factor is not knowing the power
- 48:37Speaker 1: of God. Many of you are more familiar with the
- 48:42Speaker 1: power of our government than you are with the power
- 48:45Speaker 1: of God, which ain't much power, by the way, I
- 48:48Speaker 1: might add. You're familiar with the power of those people
- 48:52Speaker 1: that are in authority over you, maybe your boss or
- 48:56Speaker 1: those who have a responsible position. How about the power
- 49:00Speaker 1: of God? I'm talking about a life of faith that
- 49:05Speaker 1: begins with prayer. I'm talking about beginning every day coming
- 49:11Speaker 1: before the Lord with simple words like, Here I am, Lord,
- 49:17Speaker 1: facing this day. I've got some things that I'm going
- 49:21Speaker 1: to have to deal with that won't be easy. Go
- 49:23Speaker 1: before me. Help me through them. I'm going to lay
- 49:28Speaker 1: all of this in front of you, Lord, and I'm
- 49:29Speaker 1: going to trust you. I want to see your power
- 49:33Speaker 1: go to work in my life. I want you to
- 49:36Speaker 1: work this out because frankly, it's beyond me to do it.
- 49:40Speaker 1: The power of God. Confident prayer. Can I mention one
- 49:46Speaker 1: other discipline and then I'm through. Begin your own journal.
- 49:53Speaker 1: I'm not talking about a diary. Your own private journal.
- 50:00Speaker 1: You're not writing down all the stuff you're doing 10 o'clock, 1130, 134.
- 50:03Speaker 1: That's a diary. A journal, you write down what God
- 50:10Speaker 1: is showing you, what you were learning. And then you're
- 50:15Speaker 1: able to look back over the previous weeks and see
- 50:19Speaker 1: how God worked, and it strengthens you. As you record
- 50:24Speaker 1: this today, you were in church, and you listened to this,
- 50:29Speaker 1: and you were encouraged to begin to make notations about
- 50:35Speaker 1: God's hand in your life. And you record how he
- 50:38Speaker 1: worked this out. Or maybe the struggle you're going through.
- 50:42Speaker 1: And you're trusting him, so you write your prayer in
- 50:45Speaker 1: your journal. What a great way to build into your
- 50:51Speaker 1: life with your own fingers. Thoughts disentangle themselves over the
- 50:57Speaker 1: lips and through the fingertips. Thoughts disentangle themselves over the
- 51:02Speaker 1: lips and through the fingertips. Write it out. Think it through.
- 51:11Speaker 1: Pray over it. Trust God. I want you to bow
- 51:17Speaker 1: your heads with me, please. You've listened so well. I
- 51:20Speaker 1: want you to continue to for just a few more moments.
- 51:25Speaker 1: Are you absolutely certain that you know the Lord? Maybe
- 51:29Speaker 1: you don't know the scriptures because you really don't know Christ.
- 51:35Speaker 1: I mean, you know of him. You know about him,
- 51:38Speaker 1: but you and he are not really on speaking terms.
- 51:44Speaker 1: And you'd love to be. You'd love to have a
- 51:47Speaker 1: relationship with God that's meaningful and personal and really transforming.
- 51:56Speaker 1: And that's possible. It begins with simple words like a prayer. Lord,
- 52:06Speaker 1: I'm Coming before you today to admit that things have
- 52:15Speaker 1: not been right between you and me. I'm lost. I've
- 52:22Speaker 1: been going my own way long enough. I wanted to stop.
- 52:29Speaker 1: I'd love to know your book and I'd love to
- 52:31Speaker 1: know your power. But first, I want to know Jesus.
- 52:39Speaker 1: I invite him to come and take residence in my
- 52:42Speaker 1: life and become for me my own Savior and Master,
- 52:49Speaker 1: my guide. Thank you, Lord, for coming into my life.
- 52:59Speaker 1: We would love to help you in this journey, but
- 53:01Speaker 1: we can't if you don't ask. So please ask. Or
- 53:07Speaker 1: maybe you'd just rather write us. Do that. Let us
- 53:11Speaker 1: help you begin to know Christ, to know the scriptures,
- 53:18Speaker 1: the power of God. Thank you, Father, for the hope
- 53:23Speaker 1: that there is in this life. That not even death
- 53:28Speaker 1: is enough to derail us and depress us. For there
- 53:37Speaker 1: is hope beyond the grave through Christ. Help all of
- 53:41Speaker 1: us today to realize the value of knowing the scriptures
- 53:46Speaker 1: and being plugged into the power of our God. Make
- 53:53Speaker 1: that a reality, Lord, and begin today. Give us an
- 53:59Speaker 1: intense dissatisfaction with where we are that we might turn
- 54:05Speaker 1: our lives over to you. May we have the discipline
- 54:08Speaker 1: to follow through on these challenges. Which we have heard
- 54:13Speaker 1: this day. Now Father dismiss us with the encouragement. That
- 54:18Speaker 1: only you can bring. Through Christ our Savior we pray.
- 54:23Speaker 1: Everyone said. Amen. Amen.
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