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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and welcome to stuff I Never
- 0:07Speaker 1: told you production of iHeartRadio and welcome to another classic.
- 0:22Speaker 1: I am a solo today, but Samantha will be back soon.
- 0:27Speaker 1: In this episode I wanted to bring back even though
- 0:33Speaker 1: it's kind of recent and kind of more specific to
- 0:38Speaker 1: the tech industry. But unfortunately here in the United States,
- 0:44Speaker 1: we are seeing a lot of layoffs right now, a
- 0:48Speaker 1: lot of people losing their jobs as this comes out.
- 0:53Speaker 1: I'm recording it on October twenty eighth, twenty twenty five,
- 0:58Speaker 1: but it's coming out a little bit later. The government,
- 1:01Speaker 1: the US government is still shut down, and it has
- 1:04Speaker 1: been used as an excuse to not only fire or
- 1:08Speaker 1: lay off a lot of people, but also to particularly
- 1:13Speaker 1: target things organizations or jobs that are in any way
- 1:20Speaker 1: about helping women or helping marginalize people. And so even
- 1:27Speaker 1: if the numbers aren't there yet because the government is
- 1:29Speaker 1: shut down so they stop reporting on that, we do
- 1:35Speaker 1: know that that is happening and that that does have
- 1:39Speaker 1: a larger impact on marginalized people and women. So it's
- 1:44Speaker 1: something that we're going to have to keep an eye on,
- 1:47Speaker 1: and it's something that's really sad because that's just decades
- 1:52Speaker 1: of work that's being lost in some cases, like I
- 1:55Speaker 1: have people I know who worked in some of those
- 1:57Speaker 1: sectors and they are just devastated because that's they'd finally
- 2:03Speaker 1: built up on all of this, finally got to this point.
- 2:07Speaker 1: You know, we've recently talked about that with We're finally
- 2:10Speaker 1: studying actually women and their health, and this backtracking is
- 2:17Speaker 1: just really upsetting. So, as I said, even though this
- 2:21Speaker 1: episode is a bit more specific, I just wanted to
- 2:24Speaker 1: bring it back. And also I hope everyone out there
- 2:28Speaker 1: is okay. If you've lost your job, I'm really sorry.
- 2:32Speaker 1: And if you have anything you want to write in
- 2:33Speaker 1: about that you think we should talk about, or any
- 2:35Speaker 1: resources you would like us to share, please let us know.
- 2:39Speaker 1: But in the meantime, here is this classic episode. Hey,
- 2:48Speaker 1: this is Annie and Samantha, and welcome to stuff I've
- 2:50Speaker 1: never told you production of iHeart Radio. Content. Warning, as
- 3:03Speaker 1: the title suggests, we are talking about layoffs and losing
- 3:06Speaker 1: a job just not fun. Have you ever been laid
- 3:11Speaker 1: off or fired, Samantha.
- 3:13Speaker 2: Yes, I have rood of you to ask, but I'm
- 3:15Speaker 2: going to tell you anyway. But essentially I think it
- 3:17Speaker 2: was more pragmatic and it's just the timing of everything,
- 3:21Speaker 2: but it did feel great. I did get unemployment though
- 3:26Speaker 2: for a while. Oh, that was an interesting process.
- 3:30Speaker 1: That's that's nice. You'll have to tell me because we
- 3:32Speaker 1: are going to talk about that briefly. Yeah, in here
- 3:35Speaker 1: you'll have to tell me about that. I have never
- 3:39Speaker 1: been laid off. I have lost a position before where
- 3:45Speaker 1: they were like, you're just not good at this, why
- 3:47Speaker 1: don't you do this? That's all right, you've been re arranged.
- 3:51Speaker 1: I was rearranged. I kind of feel like I was
- 3:54Speaker 1: stell fired from Longhorned Steakhouse, which.
- 3:57Speaker 2: I told that story before, Like you didn't even though
- 4:01Speaker 2: I both.
- 4:02Speaker 1: Feel I was still fired, but also I wasn't showing up,
- 4:05Speaker 1: so there was no official process. We just both kind
- 4:09Speaker 1: of ghosted to each other.
- 4:12Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to think if I have ever had that.
- 4:15Speaker 2: I don't think so. I've always put in my notice
- 4:17Speaker 2: and left.
- 4:19Speaker 1: I had I've worked for a company that went I
- 4:24Speaker 1: don't think it went under, but something happened where within
- 4:26Speaker 1: the first week I didn't have a job. Yeah, but
- 4:29Speaker 1: I didn't feel like I was. It felt like that
- 4:31Speaker 1: whole thing just went away, so right, but I had
- 4:34Speaker 1: to go find another job quickly. Because I was in
- 4:36Speaker 1: Europe and I was anticipating That's why I was there,
- 4:41Speaker 1: and I did. I was very fortunate. Yes, we've through
- 4:47Speaker 1: the time I've worked at this company, which long.
- 4:51Speaker 2: Time now, Yeah, I kind of forget you have other jobs.
- 4:54Speaker 2: You've ever had other jobs, That's right.
- 4:58Speaker 1: It feels weird to me too, to remember. We have
- 5:02Speaker 1: had rounds of layoffs and it is scary. We had
- 5:06Speaker 1: a pretty emotional one when I was an intern, where
- 5:09Speaker 1: like I was young and I didn't it was my
- 5:14Speaker 1: first time I think ever when at this particular instance,
- 5:18Speaker 1: they like sat us all in a room and told
- 5:20Speaker 1: us about it and that people were crying and like
- 5:24Speaker 1: people were packing up, and.
- 5:26Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that you feel like, well, it's just
- 5:30Speaker 3: a very destabilizing feeling. Yeah, And we recently had around
- 5:34Speaker 3: the layoffs here and several of my friends were laid off.
- 5:41Speaker 1: So it is it's scary, and there have been there's
- 5:46Speaker 1: been a lot of stuff written about what's happening in
- 5:48Speaker 1: the tech industry, specifically with a lot of the layoffs
- 5:53Speaker 1: that have It kind of started in twenty twenty but
- 5:56Speaker 1: twenty twenty three and twenty twenty four were a big
- 6:00Speaker 1: year for les unfortunately, and they impacted more women and
- 6:05Speaker 1: marginalized folks, and we're going to talk about that and
- 6:07Speaker 1: why that is. I would say you can check out
- 6:10Speaker 1: our past episode spoiler alert on pregnancy discrimination, our work
- 6:15Speaker 1: from home episodes Women and Unions perhaps, and the episode
- 6:20Speaker 1: we did What's Happening at Blizzard which we should update
- 6:24Speaker 1: that one. Oh my, but okay, so yes, for this,
- 6:28Speaker 1: we're specifically looking at several rounds of tech and journalism
- 6:32Speaker 1: layoffs that happened this year and how they have disproportionately
- 6:35Speaker 1: impacted women and people of color and throughout the year,
- 6:39Speaker 1: this year being twenty twenty four, we have seen several
- 6:42Speaker 1: high profile rounds of layoffs and we're going to look
- 6:45Speaker 1: at a few examples that highlight some troubling trends.
- 6:49Speaker 2: Right and some baseline numbers to start off here. Since
- 6:52Speaker 2: the beginning of twenty twenty three, huge companies like Google, Meta,
- 6:56Speaker 2: and Amazon have laid off tens of thousands of their employees.
- 7:00Speaker 2: More recently, Tesla laid off fourteen thousand. The amount of
- 7:03Speaker 2: jobs lost in the tech sectors are estimated to be
- 7:06Speaker 2: upwards of three hundred and forty thousand, and the number
- 7:09Speaker 2: has sense grown yep.
- 7:10Speaker 1: In April of twenty twenty four, Tesla fired the five
- 7:14Speaker 1: hundred ish members of their supercharger team, including the top
- 7:19Speaker 1: woman manager, Rebecca Tanucci, who was the company's top female employee.
- 7:24Speaker 1: Allegedly Elon Musk, who if you somehow managed to avoid it,
- 7:28Speaker 1: in which case, congrats to you. Runs tell us your
- 7:31Speaker 1: secreta secret, that's his company. He sent out a questionnaire
- 7:38Speaker 1: requiring managers to justify their human resources with an email
- 7:42Speaker 1: that contained the line, hopefully these actions are making it
- 7:45Speaker 1: clear that we need to be absolutely hardcore about headcount
- 7:48Speaker 1: and cost reduction. Meanwhile, many industry journalists reported that this
- 7:53Speaker 1: action made no sense for the success of Tesla, like
- 7:57Speaker 1: that was a big project. It didn't make sense. Another
- 8:02Speaker 1: Elon Musk company, Twitter, slash X, also saw mass layoffs
- 8:06Speaker 1: fifty seven percent of those layoffs for women, and that
- 8:10Speaker 1: that company is embroiled in so many lawsuits and some
- 8:13Speaker 1: of them are about that right.
- 8:16Speaker 2: Just especially with the amount of money this specific dude
- 8:20Speaker 2: gets for doing nothing. But reek havoc. I mean, you're
- 8:23Speaker 2: going to say, probably tens of thousands of jobs just
- 8:26Speaker 2: by cutting your salary in half. Other companies like Dell
- 8:29Speaker 2: have been accused of stealth layoffs targeting women. With their
- 8:32Speaker 2: return to office policies in early twenty twenty four, they
- 8:36Speaker 2: gave their employees two options, a hybrid option of coming
- 8:39Speaker 2: into the office and working remotely or continuing to work
- 8:42Speaker 2: completely remotely. However, choosing that option came with penalties, so
- 8:47Speaker 2: one of them were quote no funding for team on
- 8:50Speaker 2: site meetings, even if a large portion of the team
- 8:53Speaker 2: is flying in for a meeting from other Dell locations,
- 8:56Speaker 2: no career advancement, no career movements, and remote status will
- 9:01Speaker 2: be considered when planning or organization changes aka workforce reductions.
- 9:07Speaker 1: Yes, and according to one employee interviewed, if someone got
- 9:12Speaker 1: promotion while working remotely, it required them to come in
- 9:15Speaker 1: thirty nine days every quarter to accept it. And just
- 9:22Speaker 1: a note, Dell wasn't even necessarily providing these offices or
- 9:28Speaker 1: they didn't have enough space, I guess, and working remotely
- 9:33Speaker 1: was and had been a part of their hiring policy.
- 9:35Speaker 1: Was how they hired a lot of people who were like,
- 9:37Speaker 1: I just want to work remote, and they're like, we
- 9:39Speaker 1: got you. We're a cool company, and that's great.
- 9:44Speaker 2: For the cool mobs.
- 9:49Speaker 1: Yeah, they kind of they were all about.
- 9:51Speaker 2: It, and which is what tech does I feel like?
- 9:54Speaker 2: And Dell is such like the boomer of tech company.
- 9:58Speaker 2: Let's just be really honest. It's like they're like, look,
- 10:01Speaker 2: look we're cool. Not only can you work from home,
- 10:04Speaker 2: but yes we originated with the open spaces and the
- 10:08Speaker 2: unlimited PTO which you really can't take, and snacks and
- 10:11Speaker 2: maybe a cool concert here and there.
- 10:13Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we're gonna in a second, but yes, this
- 10:19Speaker 1: is pretty It's pretty ridiculous though, because this is from
- 10:24Speaker 1: the standard you were reading, Samantha. Those that was from
- 10:27Speaker 1: like an official Dell email and to say like JB,
- 10:32Speaker 1: well you better come in or you're not going to
- 10:37Speaker 1: get any career advancement, and you're going to be the
- 10:40Speaker 1: first we consider when we're thinking about cutting our workforce.
- 10:45Speaker 1: And as we did discuss in our women working remotely episode,
- 10:50Speaker 1: it does benefit a lot of women, especially if there's
- 10:53Speaker 1: childcare involves. I mean, obviously that still sucks if you
- 10:59Speaker 1: have to work while doing child care, but it is
- 11:04Speaker 1: a way that people were able to have these jobs
- 11:06Speaker 1: where maybe they couldn't before. Okay. In November of twenty
- 11:11Speaker 1: twenty three, a woman laid off from Octa in twenty
- 11:14Speaker 1: twenty filed a civil suit in San Francisco Superior Court.
- 11:18Speaker 1: She alleged that, along with other women, she came forward
- 11:21Speaker 1: with concerns about gender discrimination and then after that her
- 11:25Speaker 1: views dropped drastically until she was eventually fired, and the
- 11:29Speaker 1: suit claimed that women experience quote, severe bias and inequity.
- 11:34Speaker 1: The lawsuit read, like other women, missus Ho was encouraged
- 11:37Speaker 1: to speak up and was told that this is a
- 11:39Speaker 1: safe place to tell all that it was a big trap.
- 11:42Speaker 1: Once she found courage to speak, she was retaliated against.
- 11:45Speaker 1: And that's in the larger conversation about retaliation that were
- 11:50Speaker 1: not necessarily getting into today, but that is part of this.
- 11:53Speaker 1: While a lot of what we are talking about is
- 11:55Speaker 1: tech specific, journalism also has been really impacted and in
- 11:59Speaker 1: a lot of ways, a lot of that industry has
- 12:02Speaker 1: become a tech industry. In early twenty twenty four, a
- 12:05Speaker 1: wave of layoffs hit the journalism industry, and people raise
- 12:09Speaker 1: the alarm that a lot of them hit women and
- 12:10Speaker 1: people of color, and how that was going to negatively
- 12:13Speaker 1: impact the landscape of our news and information was being
- 12:17Speaker 1: reported on how it's being written. According to the Coalition
- 12:20Speaker 1: for Women in Journalism, they reported that there were seventeen
- 12:23Speaker 1: thousand layoffs in this space in twenty twenty three. Entertainment
- 12:29Speaker 1: companies like Netflix and Disney also have similar conversations to
- 12:32Speaker 1: be had, but those are very different episode. Also, this
- 12:37Speaker 1: is not at all just a US problem, but we
- 12:39Speaker 1: are talking mainly about US based companies today, and a
- 12:43Speaker 1: lot of those companies are so big people all over
- 12:46Speaker 1: the world work for them. And a lot of this
- 12:50Speaker 1: has been underscored by the fact that when many of
- 12:53Speaker 1: these companies were just getting started, they were mostly run
- 12:56Speaker 1: and staffed by white men. As more attention land on
- 13:00Speaker 1: that point, as more people were like, hey, it's the
- 13:04Speaker 1: calls for change grew, these companies made bold promises and
- 13:08Speaker 1: being more inclusive in their hiring practices in the twenty tens,
- 13:11Speaker 1: especially as they got bigger and made more money and
- 13:13Speaker 1: became more structured in corporate but a lot of them
- 13:17Speaker 1: were still really famous for the yeah, the thinking outside
- 13:20Speaker 1: the box in terms of office life, of like happy
- 13:23Speaker 1: hours and gaming areas and bowling alleys and movie theaters,
- 13:27Speaker 1: all of that stuff that in a lot of ways
- 13:30Speaker 1: didn't suit women, especially if they had kids. But even
- 13:34Speaker 1: things like feeling safe with your employees or employers after
- 13:37Speaker 1: hours or getting home late, and that's what we talked
- 13:39Speaker 1: about in the Blizzard episode, kind of the difference between
- 13:45Speaker 1: a woman going to a conference and having a drink
- 13:48Speaker 1: versus a man doing it, and how it can look
- 13:51Speaker 1: really gross in office space. On top of that, a
- 13:55Speaker 1: lot of companies supported and encouraged people moving during the pandemic,
- 14:00Speaker 1: and we've discussed it before, but those policies again did
- 14:03Speaker 1: benefit a lot of women and marginalized people. So one
- 14:08Speaker 1: of the things that can get kind of lost is
- 14:10Speaker 1: that some of the numbers indicate more men were laid
- 14:12Speaker 1: off in these cases percentage wise, but the key thing
- 14:16Speaker 1: is women often represent less percentage wise than the workforce.
- 14:20Speaker 1: So for instance, in one analysis of three four hundred
- 14:25Speaker 1: people laid off, fifty five percent were men, forty five
- 14:27Speaker 1: percent were women. However, women only made up thirty nine
- 14:32Speaker 1: percent of the total workforce, so it impacted them far more.
- 14:36Speaker 1: Some estimates put the number of women laid off as
- 14:39Speaker 1: higher in the women in the industry also as lower.
- 14:43Speaker 2: So a piece of this is that women are more
- 14:45Speaker 2: likely to get hired in positions that are more easily
- 14:48Speaker 2: cut at least to the higher ups, like customer service
- 14:52Speaker 2: or HR. When it comes to seniority too, men are
- 14:55Speaker 2: more likely to have been there longer. This isn't even
- 14:58Speaker 2: touching on women or marginalized folks who left because of
- 15:00Speaker 2: burnout or harassment.
- 15:03Speaker 1: Other episodes we've done, Yes, yep. Studies show that women
- 15:08Speaker 1: are less financially prepared for layoffs than men, and this
- 15:12Speaker 1: could be because of a lot of things like the
- 15:14Speaker 1: ginger wage gap, pink techs, all kinds of stuff. Women
- 15:18Speaker 1: who relocate for their spouses, especially in the military, are
- 15:21Speaker 1: disproportionately impacted too, and this brings us to the pregnancy
- 15:27Speaker 1: discrimination part. In the wake of the tech layoffs that
- 15:31Speaker 1: happened in May of twenty twenty four, a disturbing number
- 15:34Speaker 1: of accounts about pregnant folks, people with postpartum or on
- 15:38Speaker 1: parental leave came out, about them being a large percentage
- 15:43Speaker 1: or a significant percentage of the ones that were cut
- 15:46Speaker 1: in terms of the number that they represented. Lawyers reported
- 15:50Speaker 1: receiving calls about pregnancy discrimination across the country. However, there
- 15:55Speaker 1: just aren't safeguards in place specifically protecting pregnant folks or
- 15:59Speaker 1: people on parental leave under the grounds of business necessities.
- 16:04Speaker 1: The discrimination is difficult to prove in the face of
- 16:07Speaker 1: mass layoffs too. But the thing is like a lot
- 16:11Speaker 1: of these big companies use their parental leave plans to
- 16:15Speaker 1: attract new employees too, especially women. But in these recent
- 16:19Speaker 1: waves of layoffs, a lot of the people who were
- 16:21Speaker 1: laid off were women, especially women on leave, So it
- 16:26Speaker 1: doesn't seem to be matching up right.
- 16:29Speaker 2: And that's not even the conversation about like FLSA and
- 16:32Speaker 2: what you have to do to qualify for that and
- 16:35Speaker 2: how to get through that and how to fire before
- 16:38Speaker 2: getting with that. So it's really scary to lose your
- 16:52Speaker 2: job at any time, but especially when you've had a
- 16:55Speaker 2: big life change like having a kid, that is going
- 16:58Speaker 2: to put more financial pressure on you and your family.
- 17:01Speaker 2: On top of that, if you have a baby and
- 17:03Speaker 2: no access to childcare, is going to be difficult, if
- 17:06Speaker 2: not impossible, to get a new job for at least
- 17:09Speaker 2: a little while.
- 17:10Speaker 1: Yes, and so this also goes back to a point
- 17:14Speaker 1: we've discussed before, but a lot of these companies just
- 17:16Speaker 1: put into place these diversity equity inclusion DEI initiatives around
- 17:21Speaker 1: women and people of color and LGBTQ plus people and
- 17:24Speaker 1: people with disabilities, but without really making any change to
- 17:27Speaker 1: how the company functioned to make those things work. Look,
- 17:30Speaker 1: they didn't think it out beyond just saying, yeah, we're
- 17:33Speaker 1: going to do this, or to account for the reality
- 17:36Speaker 1: of what being truly inclusive would mean. So we've also
- 17:42Speaker 1: seen a lot of companies doing away with those initiatives entirely.
- 17:47Speaker 1: In recent years. It's become something of a controversial issue
- 17:52Speaker 1: in our political landscape.
- 17:54Speaker 2: That's literally a platform like that people are using to
- 17:57Speaker 2: be like I should be your governor, your congressman, your
- 18:01Speaker 2: board of directors, whatever, Like it's absurd, like I will
- 18:05Speaker 2: get rid of DEI. I mean, we need to come
- 18:08Speaker 2: back and talk about the fact that the damn Asian
- 18:10Speaker 2: person who was puppet essentially coming after DEI initiatives and
- 18:16Speaker 2: inclusivity initiatives for higher education and now the number of
- 18:21Speaker 2: Asian students being accepted has lowered, no other numbers, just
- 18:25Speaker 2: the Asians. I'm like, yeah, that's what you get.
- 18:30Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And there's a lot, there's a lot going
- 18:36Speaker 1: on with this, because it really does feel to me
- 18:41Speaker 1: that well, I mean, number one, obviously most obviously their companies,
- 18:47Speaker 1: and they want to make money, and they thought like
- 18:49Speaker 1: saying these things would make them money.
- 18:52Speaker 2: And they still do even during this time when it
- 18:55Speaker 2: like when it benefits them, aka like pride parades are like,
- 18:58Speaker 2: we're going to be in here even though we've already
- 19:00Speaker 2: backtracked in all of these policies, right, And it's.
- 19:06Speaker 1: Like the second that it becomes oh they're striking or
- 19:12Speaker 1: oh they're doing this, we don't need this, and it's
- 19:16Speaker 1: just like they're just saying it to get the points
- 19:19Speaker 1: and then not doing anything about it. But I also
- 19:21Speaker 1: truly do think they didn't even think it through about
- 19:25Speaker 1: how this would work or look, or they didn't want
- 19:28Speaker 1: to mess up with their their boys club, bowling alleys
- 19:32Speaker 1: or whatever.
- 19:33Speaker 2: Right they're happy hours.
- 19:36Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, exactly. And there are a couple of like
- 19:40Speaker 1: key things people have written about we've spoken about on
- 19:43Speaker 1: the show. One is the importance of mentors in spaces
- 19:48Speaker 1: like this, but if all the mentors are white men,
- 19:53Speaker 1: doesn't really work. And then there is the myth of
- 19:56Speaker 1: the white male genius who, so I can never make
- 20:04Speaker 1: a mistake, is like the god of whatever company. Uh.
- 20:09Speaker 1: And then so even when they clearly do make mistake,
- 20:13Speaker 1: they never face these consequences, but everyone else who is
- 20:17Speaker 1: not there.
- 20:18Speaker 2: Does, right, I mean the president again?
- 20:23Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I laugh because I'm miserable. There's also going
- 20:33Speaker 1: back to what you kind of mention Smith, that there's
- 20:35Speaker 1: this this return that we're seeing happen to hardcore bro culture.
- 20:42Speaker 1: And so Elon Musk is a great example because when
- 20:47Speaker 1: he took over Twitter, he was like boasting about you're
- 20:52Speaker 1: going to sleep at work, You're gonna be working all
- 20:54Speaker 1: the time. You're like all of these things, as if
- 21:01Speaker 1: this is a good thing, right, But that is that
- 21:04Speaker 1: was the myth of a lot of these companies that
- 21:07Speaker 1: started to startups was like you lived there, That's yeah,
- 21:11Speaker 1: that's how it worked. But it's strange because that company
- 21:14Speaker 1: was successful, right.
- 21:17Speaker 2: But you start looking at the companies that have this
- 21:20Speaker 2: these thought processes. They made a whole freaking movie on
- 21:23Speaker 2: Facebook alone, and you realize the majority of the success
- 21:26Speaker 2: comes from stealing things from people. Yeah, more than that,
- 21:30Speaker 2: like not Napster, all of those things. You're like, wait,
- 21:34Speaker 2: these boys are not geniuses. They just know how to
- 21:36Speaker 2: get away with stealing.
- 21:37Speaker 1: Exactly and exactly they are taking credit, yeah, just taking
- 21:41Speaker 1: credit for other people's.
- 21:42Speaker 2: Work, right, and Elon Musk Bezos is the same thing.
- 21:45Speaker 2: And then I know you're about to get into it,
- 21:47Speaker 2: but it's amazing, this whole mentality, like you have to
- 21:50Speaker 2: dedicate your life for a company, but we're not going
- 21:52Speaker 2: to reward you obviously, And like even the fact that
- 21:57Speaker 2: Amazon had that whole day they could not go take
- 21:59Speaker 2: back and breaks, so they were peeing in bottles, and
- 22:02Speaker 2: of course women can't freaking do that really at all.
- 22:06Speaker 2: And they have this mentality that if you leave that
- 22:08Speaker 2: station and you are stealing time, stealing time from work, yeah,
- 22:14Speaker 2: which is absurd, being paid for not working. You're like,
- 22:17Speaker 2: that's not how this works. And we're backtracking on all
- 22:20Speaker 2: these things that were protected so that people could have
- 22:23Speaker 2: access to be human, right in this whole culture of like, no,
- 22:27Speaker 2: but if you really care about making money, if you
- 22:30Speaker 2: really want to be successful.
- 22:31Speaker 1: This is what you do right, right, And if you can't,
- 22:36Speaker 1: if you can't hack it, then get it, then.
- 22:38Speaker 2: You're going to be fired and will replace you.
- 22:40Speaker 1: You're easily replaceable, exactly, exactly, And it's just it's bizarre
- 22:45Speaker 1: also because of course they try to paint it as
- 22:51Speaker 1: if you were being weak women. You're like, really, you
- 22:56Speaker 1: think people just want to sleep at work or eat more.
- 23:01Speaker 2: Like you think that this is a thing that they
- 23:04Speaker 2: like being human once again is a detriment like eating right,
- 23:10Speaker 2: I'm sorry, we are hungry. You cannot live that way.
- 23:14Speaker 2: We've had people die recently, a couple of incidences at work,
- 23:18Speaker 2: and no one found them because they did not care
- 23:21Speaker 2: about these people.
- 23:23Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's the thing is like, you know, Elon
- 23:29Speaker 1: Musk is gonna be fine, essentially, like even.
- 23:32Speaker 2: With the millions that he's gonna be sued. He may
- 23:34Speaker 2: be sued, he may go to courts and may even
- 23:37Speaker 2: go to jail. He'll still be fine.
- 23:39Speaker 1: He'll be fine. And so he's just asking his employees
- 23:43Speaker 1: to fix something he broke and bruin your life while
- 23:48Speaker 1: doing it.
- 23:50Speaker 2: He's broken in so many times. Can we talk about
- 23:54Speaker 2: how moody his whole thing is, Like the whole new
- 23:56Speaker 2: block thing is rumored that because he didn't want he
- 24:00Speaker 2: wanted his ex wife's access to hit her account, and
- 24:03Speaker 2: is she blocked in and so the reason that they
- 24:06Speaker 2: changed that up recently is so that he could still
- 24:09Speaker 2: access her stuff.
- 24:10Speaker 1: That's the rumor, isn't that Like that comes up an
- 24:15Speaker 1: embarrassing amount for you white male geniuses, is that it
- 24:20Speaker 1: was a woman that hurt you somewhere and so.
- 24:23Speaker 2: Therefore he has to do all these things in retaliation.
- 24:26Speaker 2: I'm like, how petty he's going to be. And You're like,
- 24:29Speaker 2: so you changed the whole blocking access, which did not
- 24:32Speaker 2: that's the one thing that didn't really need to be
- 24:34Speaker 2: fixed because you were upset that you could not see
- 24:38Speaker 2: your ex wife's content. Really again, rumors, this is not.
- 24:44Speaker 1: Surprise me.
- 24:45Speaker 2: But I'm like, it's really coincidental.
- 24:49Speaker 1: It would not surprise me at all. What I mean. Also,
- 24:55Speaker 1: I want to come back and do an episode on this.
- 24:58Speaker 1: But when I say like return to this hardcore bro culture,
- 25:02Speaker 1: it's happening online as well, and it's happening in a
- 25:05Speaker 1: lot of spaces that some of them we've touched on.
- 25:08Speaker 1: I've seen some around the world that are happening. But
- 25:12Speaker 1: a part of it is because of this, because of
- 25:15Speaker 1: people like Elon Musk who come in and do all
- 25:20Speaker 1: these terrible things, Fire all the people of color, fire
- 25:22Speaker 1: all the women. And so the technology that is people
- 25:27Speaker 1: are using is really boosting that content, and it's been
- 25:31Speaker 1: sadly effective in a lot of ways. But yeah, that
- 25:37Speaker 1: kind of were we got away from it for a minute.
- 25:42Speaker 1: But then I also I was reading a very depressing
- 25:45Speaker 1: article about this, but Essentially it kind of snapped backwards
- 25:52Speaker 1: in the way so many of these things often do
- 25:57Speaker 1: for a lot to for reasons, but.
- 26:01Speaker 2: Well, I think I wonder if it just looked that
- 26:04Speaker 2: way once again. It was just a pay perspective, because
- 26:07Speaker 2: when we talked about the Google creator and content developer
- 26:12Speaker 2: and the things that she went through, she was like,
- 26:14Speaker 2: a this AI stuff is not going to go well,
- 26:17Speaker 2: this's going to be racist and we should not be
- 26:19Speaker 2: doing any of these things. And she immediately got fired
- 26:22Speaker 2: and everybody's etcter like it was always there, but it
- 26:27Speaker 2: was better hidden, and now just people just don't care anymore,
- 26:30Speaker 2: especially with the fact that the government allows so much
- 26:33Speaker 2: leeway for tech companies to do whatever the hell they want,
- 26:36Speaker 2: which is a whole different conversation that we've repeatedly have
- 26:39Speaker 2: had to have, and no one's really talking about these issues,
- 26:42Speaker 2: Like I've really upset and concerned that we are. Again.
- 26:47Speaker 2: Abortion is a huge issue. Don't get me wrong, I'm
- 26:49Speaker 2: not talking about that. Queer rights huge issues, but all
- 26:54Speaker 2: these things are happening, but we're like, what about the
- 26:55Speaker 2: underlying things that we need to talk about with each
- 26:58Speaker 2: one of these Congress people, which a few people have
- 27:01Speaker 2: brought up, including John Ossoft being like, ay, so we
- 27:04Speaker 2: should not allow government officials to be a part of
- 27:07Speaker 2: the stocks, but that should not be able to practice
- 27:10Speaker 2: in trading because there's some really shady stuff happening. And
- 27:14Speaker 2: I completely agree with that on both sides. This is
- 27:18Speaker 2: where I'm like, this whole system is corrupt, So I
- 27:22Speaker 2: have a whole like, ah, yes, I am far leading
- 27:25Speaker 2: left and I am losing it, like I am going
- 27:27Speaker 2: faster on that track because we are seeing like even
- 27:29Speaker 2: the people that we were supposed to trust and that
- 27:31Speaker 2: we put on pedestals, and we're so proud of calling
- 27:34Speaker 2: our representatives or at least like representatives in the States, like, oh,
- 27:37Speaker 2: but you just made tons of money on this one
- 27:39Speaker 2: thing that really hurts the American people.
- 27:41Speaker 1: And you know this.
- 27:42Speaker 2: That's why like cracking and those issues are such a
- 27:44Speaker 2: hug just because you are putting money and banking on
- 27:48Speaker 2: how much money you're going to make and using your policies.
- 27:51Speaker 2: So all these conversations that this is a huge thing
- 27:53Speaker 2: we should be looking at, but we haven't really even
- 27:55Speaker 2: considered it at all. And I say we, including myself,
- 27:58Speaker 2: because we have to look at the You're a huge
- 28:00Speaker 2: victor first to save democracy. Second, yeah, we'll come back
- 28:05Speaker 2: to the big issues with like the constitutional stuff at
- 28:07Speaker 2: the Supreme Court. And then thirdly we'll come to these
- 28:09Speaker 2: other things of like why are they doing this and
- 28:11Speaker 2: whose interest this is for?
- 28:13Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's the thing too, is like a lot
- 28:16Speaker 1: of these big companies they do get occasionally, they do
- 28:20Speaker 1: get fined, but for them, it's nothing like it's.
- 28:23Speaker 2: It's better to be fined than to correct something and
- 28:26Speaker 2: do something that's better for the people. Like that's right,
- 28:30Speaker 2: that's this is the biggest concern. Is like even with
- 28:32Speaker 2: the small companies that had good intent, they've grown into
- 28:34Speaker 2: such big companies that have been taken over and or
- 28:37Speaker 2: that have made enough money that they're like, I don't
- 28:39Speaker 2: care anymore. This is that makes me sad. But the
- 28:44Speaker 2: fact that all of these things are happening and these
- 28:46Speaker 2: big tech companies do not care. They would rather have
- 28:49Speaker 2: a fine and have a whole like smear campaign about
- 28:52Speaker 2: the fact that they are sexist and racist and like
- 28:55Speaker 2: all of like anti LGBT, like all of those things
- 28:58Speaker 2: that homophobic as hell. They don't care because it still
- 29:01Speaker 2: makes the money and it doesn't do it much like
- 29:04Speaker 2: because the governments and or policies have held them up
- 29:09Speaker 2: and being like yeah, yea, but you can still do that.
- 29:10Speaker 2: That's racist, but it'll probably help us in the end
- 29:13Speaker 2: and we can we can make better jobs, bigger, more jobs,
- 29:17Speaker 2: and events, which is not true. But like all of
- 29:19Speaker 2: these conversations that I'm like, yeah, that's part of the
- 29:22Speaker 2: big problem is that these companies will never change because
- 29:26Speaker 2: they're never ever and they're also not taxed correctly. Yeah.
- 29:30Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well that's the whole secret. I know.
- 29:35Speaker 2: I'm opening up both all these doors. But like when
- 29:37Speaker 2: we see these conversations, these layofs why they don't care
- 29:40Speaker 2: and they put on like the lipstick on the pig
- 29:43Speaker 2: type of conversation is literally like that's what they do,
- 29:47Speaker 2: and knowing that, they'll just talk about the next company
- 29:49Speaker 2: that does it. Yeah, and we'll be lumped in here,
- 29:52Speaker 2: but they'll they'll forget because there's so many of us
- 29:54Speaker 2: and they can't do anything to all of us because
- 29:55Speaker 2: the policies protect.
- 29:56Speaker 1: Us, right right, And it does, I mean so many
- 30:01Speaker 1: there are so many things in place like this, coming
- 30:04Speaker 1: back to coming back to the office and coming back
- 30:08Speaker 1: to the like hardcore pro culture. I mean, it does
- 30:11Speaker 1: these models. So many of these models, even with the
- 30:14Speaker 1: like oh now we're open space, do favor men. They
- 30:19Speaker 1: were designed with men and mine, right, And so having
- 30:22Speaker 1: this idea of like coming into the office that's better.
- 30:25Speaker 1: It shows that you like, really care and like even
- 30:29Speaker 1: if they won't, they'll tell you, well, it won't penalize you.
- 30:33Speaker 1: But if you don't come in, they do, even if
- 30:37Speaker 1: it's not purposeful, even if it's like just in the
- 30:41Speaker 1: back of someone subconscious.
- 30:43Speaker 2: Right, the more you're seeing, the more you're likely to
- 30:45Speaker 2: be remembered. This is kind of that conversation too. But
- 30:49Speaker 2: if I had it interesting, I'm going to go back
- 30:51Speaker 2: to Ireland experience. The last time we were in the
- 30:54Speaker 2: studio and we had Maya, our executive producer, who was
- 30:59Speaker 2: a powerhouse. I didn't know, like, I didn't know how
- 31:02Speaker 2: strong she really was. So I'm willing to stand up
- 31:04Speaker 2: for like what she felt was a wrong. But the
- 31:07Speaker 2: fact is, have we not? We were being pushed over
- 31:10Speaker 2: for men, like it was so interesting how quickly people
- 31:14Speaker 2: wanted to side with a bigger name, any of those
- 31:18Speaker 2: like on there's two separate sides. There's a radio side
- 31:21Speaker 2: and there is a podcast side. This was one of
- 31:23Speaker 2: the things that came together during the pandemic in hopes
- 31:27Speaker 2: that they could save money. Ab they're being like, we're
- 31:32Speaker 2: gonna be working from home anyway, so it's fine. Then
- 31:36Speaker 2: they started being like, come back into work. We were
- 31:38Speaker 2: like why, but then like, we did come back to work,
- 31:40Speaker 2: and the moment we did, we were like being pushed
- 31:43Speaker 2: as a secondary in comparison to a bigger, like male
- 31:47Speaker 2: group of broadcasters. It wasn't their fault, but everything they
- 31:53Speaker 2: were doing was literally like, no, but but we were
- 31:56Speaker 2: more important. Oh no, but yeah, we have a system
- 31:59Speaker 2: where it's set ups to sign things up on like
- 32:01Speaker 2: a whole big calendar. But that's that doesn't matter unless
- 32:06Speaker 2: because we are more important. It was a whole different
- 32:08Speaker 2: like and I feel like most of that and this
- 32:12Speaker 2: is again on us, but at the same time on society,
- 32:15Speaker 2: where we were like, oh, okay, okay, we don't want
- 32:19Speaker 2: to cause conflict, We'll move okay, okay, but Maa being like,
- 32:23Speaker 2: oh hell no, no, no, I will fight with you.
- 32:26Speaker 2: I will fight with the heads in here.
- 32:28Speaker 3: Let's go.
- 32:29Speaker 2: And she made sure to get put the respect and
- 32:31Speaker 2: she's like, we being like, you are disrespecting us, and
- 32:35Speaker 2: she never really says that she was just like, this
- 32:36Speaker 2: is absurd, this is not how it goes. We need
- 32:39Speaker 2: to set a boundary. And I was like, damn okay,
- 32:43Speaker 2: because it's like societally we would have just moved on,
- 32:46Speaker 2: like that was what we have always been told. We've
- 32:48Speaker 2: even in the old office, there's moments we were.
- 32:50Speaker 1: Like, why is this happening?
- 32:52Speaker 2: We have to shrink and people wonder why, and then
- 32:55Speaker 2: when we did, and I was like they impressive, Like
- 32:58Speaker 2: everything worked out. But it just feels like that type
- 33:00Speaker 2: of culture is what we have seen so often. Yeah,
- 33:04Speaker 2: in like the likes of any like any space. And
- 33:08Speaker 2: I'm not saying anything bad about our company necessarily in
- 33:12Speaker 2: this in this specific moment, but like things like this
- 33:16Speaker 2: have continued to happen in the office to the point
- 33:17Speaker 2: that this is why Maya was like, I'm done, I'm
- 33:20Speaker 2: done well, and.
- 33:22Speaker 1: It's like this was a very particular instance. But in
- 33:26Speaker 1: this instance, uh, everyone involved had done everything right, everything correctly.
- 33:32Speaker 1: We had the space, many of the other most of
- 33:39Speaker 1: other studios were open, so it was it wasn't it
- 33:43Speaker 1: was odd. It was odd. A lot of threads here, obviously,
- 33:47Speaker 1: but I'm glad. I'm so glad Maya stood up and
- 33:53Speaker 1: before it worked out fine, but it took time out
- 33:56Speaker 1: of our day and I ended up getting home I
- 33:59Speaker 1: think three hours later then I had planned, right, and
- 34:03Speaker 1: that was unnecessary. It was unnecessary. It was a waste
- 34:06Speaker 1: of time, right.
- 34:07Speaker 2: And honestly, like in this like scope of what we
- 34:11Speaker 2: was but it just so the bottom line on this
- 34:13Speaker 2: was like, it feels like a standard because we've had
- 34:15Speaker 2: this done to us a few times the few times
- 34:17Speaker 2: that we were in the studio, we've had this done
- 34:19Speaker 2: multiple times where we were like, eh, scooch over sorry,
- 34:23Speaker 2: and that's that expectations. And typically it has always been
- 34:26Speaker 2: men who overtake our studio. Am I wrong? Every time?
- 34:30Speaker 2: I remember those situations always been dudes. Yeah, because they yeah,
- 34:37Speaker 2: they feel like this is a this is a standard.
- 34:39Speaker 2: I can do this, we can do this, and it's
- 34:41Speaker 2: kind of a and even even when we had been like, hey,
- 34:46Speaker 2: this is an issue, they'd be like, oh, just comply
- 34:49Speaker 2: for now and we'll fix this later, which again teaches
- 34:52Speaker 2: us and them nothing's going to be done. And I
- 34:55Speaker 2: think this is where this is the first time again
- 34:58Speaker 2: why we saw my being like, nah, I'm over this,
- 35:04Speaker 2: and which again I was so thoroughly impressed that. I
- 35:07Speaker 2: was like, oh, because this is the first time we've
- 35:08Speaker 2: seen it from someone who was in charge of our
- 35:11Speaker 2: our time in studios place, so it was impressive for
- 35:14Speaker 2: that matter, But also this has been It wasn't a
- 35:17Speaker 2: big deal, but it is the bigger scope of things
- 35:20Speaker 2: of like why is this a standard and y'all think
- 35:24Speaker 2: this is okay? And then y'all want us to be
- 35:26Speaker 2: in here and talking about being empowered and acting like
- 35:30Speaker 2: this is a safe work space when you obviously show
- 35:32Speaker 2: how little we mean as a part of this family company.
- 35:49Speaker 1: When I was thinking about this topic of running through
- 35:51Speaker 1: my head, I also I wanted to do an episode
- 35:54Speaker 1: on the origins of the phrase go back to the kitchen,
- 36:02Speaker 1: because I've just seen it. It's it's so it's everywhere,
- 36:05Speaker 1: and it's been everywhere. It's like one of the first
- 36:08Speaker 1: things usually men will say to a woman who they
- 36:12Speaker 1: don't agree with. And I was just like thinking about that,
- 36:15Speaker 1: and I still I feel like that can kind of
- 36:18Speaker 1: translate here where it is still seen as like, well,
- 36:23Speaker 1: they can they don't have to be here, they can
- 36:25Speaker 1: go back home, they.
- 36:26Speaker 2: Can go do that as as people are expendable.
- 36:28Speaker 1: Right, like that idea just permeated, and I was also
- 36:33Speaker 1: thinking about a lot of the invisible work people do
- 36:38Speaker 1: women do usually and we've done episodes on on it,
- 36:44Speaker 1: like the whole spectrum of it. But like as a
- 36:47Speaker 1: single woman, you can get asked to do a lot
- 36:49Speaker 1: of the parties, the planning, all of these events that
- 36:54Speaker 1: you don't get paid for, really don't get recognized for
- 36:56Speaker 1: because you don't have kids, so what are you doing?
- 36:59Speaker 1: But then on the other sid side, people with kids
- 37:01Speaker 1: being penalized because they have kids, right and they have
- 37:04Speaker 1: to go home. So it's just sort of all of
- 37:09Speaker 1: these expectations are punishments that are just there, even if
- 37:17Speaker 1: they're not writing, they.
- 37:19Speaker 2: Are there, right, And the extra amount of work that
- 37:21Speaker 2: is expected again, planning a party is a pretty significant
- 37:25Speaker 2: deal when you're having a giant group of people. To
- 37:28Speaker 2: be fair, I think like people have realized this is, yeah,
- 37:34Speaker 2: an ordeal for the most part, especially when people don't
- 37:38Speaker 2: knew it. They're like, no, I'm not giving this anymore.
- 37:42Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. Yeah.
- 37:44Speaker 2: I think that that conversation is like the whole women
- 37:47Speaker 2: in layoffs and then really figuring it out to the
- 37:49Speaker 2: they're expendable, we can easily replace them. We could all
- 37:54Speaker 2: these conversations and putting again putting them at positions are
- 38:00Speaker 2: replaceable in their minds, whether or not they understand how
- 38:03Speaker 2: big of a conversation like no, they're not as explicable
- 38:07Speaker 2: as you think, right, but especially when they put the
- 38:11Speaker 2: load that they do on most of these types of
- 38:14Speaker 2: positions that they think it's so minial in their bigger
- 38:18Speaker 2: scheme of conversations when like I know, the saying goes
- 38:22Speaker 2: is essentially you rise up to do less work like
- 38:25Speaker 2: if you don't, if you actually want to not have
- 38:28Speaker 2: to do much, get a promotion type of thing and
- 38:31Speaker 2: people will do the work for you. And I think
- 38:34Speaker 2: that's what we see and which is why again white
- 38:38Speaker 2: women are at the forefront of being laid off and
- 38:40Speaker 2: or excuse like again the pregnancy, which blows my mind
- 38:46Speaker 2: in every respect. I'm like, I just I don't understand
- 38:48Speaker 2: why that's the qualifier. Just okay, whatever, There's so many
- 38:53Speaker 2: things in this conversation that needs to be again readdressed.
- 38:56Speaker 2: But yeah, as I am going on my tigh rate
- 38:58Speaker 2: of like, it doesn't change the culture of business. Who
- 39:03Speaker 2: says they're trying to appreciate the marginalized people are the
- 39:06Speaker 2: same people who are like, yeah, but you need to
- 39:08Speaker 2: be able to be shrunk, you need to be smaller
- 39:11Speaker 2: so we can exist as an peaceful office, like you
- 39:16Speaker 2: need to make peace, you need to be okay and
- 39:19Speaker 2: don't make any waves here. And it's such an interesting
- 39:22Speaker 2: thing in that same way, but like they're willing to
- 39:24Speaker 2: get rid of those people. Well, probably the peace keepers
- 39:29Speaker 2: of the office.
- 39:30Speaker 1: Probably and are most likely doing a lot more work
- 39:35Speaker 1: than you're not realizing. Right. Also, this whole conversation has
- 39:42Speaker 1: also brought up conversations around things like just cause. So
- 39:47Speaker 1: that means that they have to Companies legally have to
- 39:51Speaker 1: give you a reason why you're fired. Not always you
- 39:57Speaker 1: have to fight for that in some cases, but in layoffs,
- 39:59Speaker 1: it's it's a kind of ambiguous space. So, like I said,
- 40:04Speaker 1: some of this is that's why it's been so hard
- 40:07Speaker 1: to prove as you can, it's difficult. Also, severence policies
- 40:11Speaker 1: that that's come under come to light and discussion has
- 40:15Speaker 1: been had about that and how good are bad they are.
- 40:20Speaker 1: But I did want to ask you how so you've
- 40:23Speaker 1: got some unemployment?
- 40:24Speaker 2: I did, and the amount I don't think unemployment has
- 40:28Speaker 2: gone up either, since I've had unemployment, and that was
- 40:31Speaker 2: fourteen years ago. I think the amount State of Georgia
- 40:34Speaker 2: has made the same because that, y'all, it doesn't it's
- 40:39Speaker 2: not much. And what sucks is it's tax It's taxed awfully. Yeah,
- 40:45Speaker 2: So essentially a weekly benefits from the for the State
- 40:49Speaker 2: of Georgia goes from fifty five dollars to three hundred
- 40:51Speaker 2: and sixty five dollars a week, but it is taxed,
- 40:53Speaker 2: so one third of it is gone. So essentially you
- 40:56Speaker 2: may be able to get twelve hundred dollars a month.
- 41:02Speaker 2: Can you imagine living on that? And if you get
- 41:05Speaker 2: a part time job that goes away, right, you cannot
- 41:09Speaker 2: make money and you have to show every week that
- 41:12Speaker 2: you are trying to find the job. The amount of
- 41:14Speaker 2: things that you have to do to get unemployment, and
- 41:16Speaker 2: you can easily be removed the amount of taxes that
- 41:21Speaker 2: you have to pay because you can choose not to
- 41:23Speaker 2: have a tax at the beginning and then at the end. Man,
- 41:26Speaker 2: that hurt me, Yeah, it hurt me a lot. And
- 41:31Speaker 2: I was trying to find the job. This is what
- 41:33Speaker 2: I just turned thirty. Everything from like the worst and
- 41:35Speaker 2: I was trying my damnness, and like trying to find
- 41:39Speaker 2: a job and try to get back into social all
- 41:41Speaker 2: these things. But the fact that it has not changed, yeah,
- 41:46Speaker 2: in that long of a period, that's the most absurd. Yeah.
- 41:53Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean the thing that's like if a company,
- 41:56Speaker 1: companies don't have to offer severance policies, and even even
- 42:00Speaker 1: if they do, if they can find a way to say,
- 42:04Speaker 1: like they had just cost, they had a reason to
- 42:07Speaker 1: fire you, right, they don't have to give it to you.
- 42:09Speaker 2: And unemployment is also contingent on that. If they had
- 42:12Speaker 2: just cause and you got fired and it's your fault
- 42:14Speaker 2: if you quit any of those things, you don't get unemployment. Yeah,
- 42:19Speaker 2: and a job can fight against you, yes, to not
- 42:24Speaker 2: get unemployment because it comes from their taxes, brads.
- 42:28Speaker 1: So it's so gross, it is. And then again going
- 42:33Speaker 1: back to so many of these things, but especially with
- 42:37Speaker 1: women who might have children or people who might have children,
- 42:41Speaker 1: like finding a job and it's not easy. Finding one
- 42:47Speaker 1: where you can maybe have flexible hours or work from
- 42:50Speaker 1: home also not easy. So it is a huge tax
- 42:58Speaker 1: on women and people of color. And then yeah, it's
- 43:03Speaker 1: just hard to find a job. And you know, you
- 43:07Speaker 1: might have really cared about your job, and so you
- 43:09Speaker 1: don't quite feel like just moving on, or maybe you're
- 43:13Speaker 1: a little depressed. Right, there's a lot going on where
- 43:19Speaker 1: twelve hundred dollars a month is not gonna right.
- 43:23Speaker 2: Get it. Also just that conversation of the fact that
- 43:26Speaker 2: you have to give a reason as to why you're
- 43:28Speaker 2: laid off. Hopefully that you're like, oh, it was just
- 43:31Speaker 2: a mass decision, Da da da. But we know a
- 43:33Speaker 2: lot of these companies have become vindictive and saying they're
- 43:38Speaker 2: laying off based on performance.
- 43:40Speaker 1: That's true, and that in itself is like a marker.
- 43:43Speaker 2: On many of those people who are being laid off,
- 43:47Speaker 2: and then some who are vindictive and give bad recommendations,
- 43:53Speaker 2: which by the way, is illegal technically, well weirdly.
- 43:58Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's a mess. Obviously, there's a lot of
- 44:06Speaker 1: other paths we could go down with this one, but.
- 44:11Speaker 2: Oh god, yeah, I'm thinking about the fact that if
- 44:13Speaker 2: there's a gap in your resume, they get they see
- 44:15Speaker 2: that as a negative. So if you're just off because
- 44:17Speaker 2: you were out with your child, they see that as
- 44:19Speaker 2: a negative. There's so many bad things there.
- 44:23Speaker 1: I'm sorry there are. It's warranted, it's warranted, but yeah, uh, listeners,
- 44:29Speaker 1: If you have any thoughts on this, if you were
- 44:33Speaker 1: I know some of you were impacted I think by
- 44:36Speaker 1: some of the twenty twenty three layoffs, please let us
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