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Trent and Brea from My Carolina CBS 17 - Worst First Dates · The Erica Show

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  Speaker 1: G105, it's the Erica Show. Trent and Brea from MyCarolinaCBS17
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  Speaker 1: in studio. Check them out weekdays at 9. And of course,
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  Speaker 1: they always have a packed show. But getting to know
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  Speaker 1: y'all a little bit, let's get in your business. I
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  Speaker 1: want to talk about first date experiences. So this girl
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  Speaker 1: went viral because she had a horrible first date experience,
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  Speaker 1: which made me think about the days of when I
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  Speaker 1: was dating. It's so tough. I know you're booed up, Trent.
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  Speaker 1: You've been with somebody for a while. still single?
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Do you ever go on dates still like, or?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, every now and then. I don't think I've had
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  Speaker 3: a bad first date experience.
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  Speaker 4: Really?
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  Speaker 3: I've just had people who were boring.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, and you walked out.
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  Speaker 1: I said, do you sit through that day or do
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  Speaker 1: you leave? Because I usually am a sucker and I
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  Speaker 1: would sit through it. There was one in New York
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  Speaker 1: City where he was telling me how to design German
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  Speaker 1: shoes and I was like, this is a waste of money.
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  Speaker 4: Design German shoes?
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  Speaker 3: I didn't care.
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  Speaker 4: You're like, I don't even know the intricacies of that.
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  Speaker 1: I just found my $ 25 or whatever to cover like
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  Speaker 1: a burger I got and I was like, I'm out.
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  Speaker 4: Get on out of here. Bray, when you're locked in
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  Speaker 4: a dinner and dessert, how do you get out of
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  Speaker 4: the boring one?
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  Speaker 2: I see, I'm like Erica, I'm too nice. So I've
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  Speaker 2: always stayed the entire time. But I remember one guy,
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  Speaker 2: I went when I lived in New York City briefly
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  Speaker 2: and He was just so boring to talk to.
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  Speaker 3: Like, I would keep trying to ask him questions. He
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  Speaker 3: was back for more.
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  Speaker 4: And I couldn't get anything out of him, you know?
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  Speaker 3: And I felt like I was talking the entire time.
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  Speaker 3: Then I got a little lit. So I think I
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  Speaker 3: was talking too much.
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  Speaker 4: There we go. Leaning up to the date, was he
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  Speaker 4: better in messaging? Like, he was a much better texter. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: That happens often.
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  Speaker 3: But our families had set us up. So I think that.
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  Speaker 2: Was the other thing.
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  Speaker 4: The familial connection.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't like an app.
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't a random person.
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  Speaker 1: The last time my family set me up on a date,
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  Speaker 1: We were related by marriage, and it happened at a funeral.
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  Speaker 3: No kidding.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, at a funeral.
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  Speaker 4: How extremely related?
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  Speaker 1: It was my stepdad's nephew or something. So it was
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  Speaker 1: by marriage, so we weren't blood related. And I went
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  Speaker 1: on a date. I went on a date with a dude.
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  Speaker 4: Was he kind of cute?
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  Speaker 1: Hey, at least you didn't get married. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: this is kind of weird. So it didn't work out.
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  Speaker 1: But I hooked him up with my roommate in college.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, then it all really did work out. Did they
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  Speaker 3: end up together?
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  Speaker 4: Just, they.
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  Speaker 3: Briefly with David.
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  Speaker 4: You're a matchmaker.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I was down the rabbit hole apps for a decade plus.
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  Speaker 3: Have you had a bad day?
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  Speaker 4: I was a founding member of Grindr. What?
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  Speaker 1: Grindr's just a hookup site, though.
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  Speaker 4: For me, I thought I was going to find marriage.
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  Speaker 3: Well, maybe back in the day it wasn't.
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  Speaker 4: Well, no, there always was. But I thought that it was,
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  Speaker 4: I'm just going to find my prince on one of
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  Speaker 4: these apps. And then you know how you see the profile,
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  Speaker 4: you see the full profile, and then they're bald. Or
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  Speaker 4: then they're quite large. Or, you know, which is great.
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  Speaker 4: I like a rotund man, but not when they deceive me. Like,
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  Speaker 4: I want them to look like their pictures.
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  Speaker 1: They catfished you, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: A little bit.
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  Speaker 3: So how did you meet Matt?
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  Speaker 4: How did I meet Matt? On the apps.
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  Speaker 2: On the apps.
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  Speaker 4: He lived down the street. It all worked out. But yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I've had some tragic ones. One time I left an
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  Speaker 4: apartment and he was like, you can go now. And
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  Speaker 4: as I was leaving, okay, my shoes were off. So
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  Speaker 4: I had to collect my shoes and I realized as
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  Speaker 4: I was going down those dark stairs, it was Valentine's Day.
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  Speaker 4: And it all hit me. I was like, wow, I'm
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  Speaker 4: having this hookup and it's V-Day. And I'm being told
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  Speaker 4: to leave. Oh, my gosh. No, but those things are
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  Speaker 4: with me always, and I love them always. I hope
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  Speaker 4: you found someone.
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  Speaker 2: I want to dive in.
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  Speaker 3: This is for podcast.
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  Speaker 1: This is an extra bonus. Why did he tell you
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  Speaker 1: to leave?
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  Speaker 3: Y'all just hooked up, and you.
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  Speaker 4: Like, yeah. Yeah, like, it was, like, over.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: Like, it's over.
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  Speaker 4: Like, what are we doing? Yeah, like, so I get it.
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  Speaker 1: Again, this part is for the podcast. But, so, my
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  Speaker 1: bestie in New York City, when I lived there for
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  Speaker 1: many years, was a gay man. And there would be
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  Speaker 1: times we'd go to the bar together. And he would
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  Speaker 1: leave with the man. And then I'm like, why don't
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  Speaker 1: I leave with y'all? And I'd end up at his apartment.
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  Speaker 1: I've seen some crazy stuff. But, like, yes, the hookup
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  Speaker 1: phase would happen. And then it was over. And I
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  Speaker 1: would just be in the kitchen or whatever. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: y'all done? Everything's wrapped up? And he's like, yeah, he
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  Speaker 1: has no need for him to stay. And I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, y'all are such hoes around here.
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  Speaker 4: I know. Right? And I'm not saying I'm a jizzy prince,
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  Speaker 4: but if you don't go far enough, then they're like,
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  Speaker 4: you can leave now.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I mean, guys?
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  Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. I wasn't, I'm like, okay, like,
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  Speaker 4: can't we just cuddle? Because I'm not going to go further.
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  Speaker 4: And he's like, well, why are you here? And I'm like,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm 19 and I'm coming out. Aren't you like,
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  Speaker 1: aren't you my hero?
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  Speaker 4: He's like, honey, no.
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  Speaker 1: I'll never forget you.
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  Speaker 3: It's midnight.
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  Speaker 1: Don't. I had a guy, we are really getting into
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  Speaker 1: our business. I had a guy fly all the way
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  Speaker 1: from L.A. to New York to come on a date
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  Speaker 1: with me. And he took me to like the Yankees
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  Speaker 1: game or something like that. And he thought after he
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  Speaker 1: was going to get some because he flew from California.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, no, honey. I am a princess.
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  Speaker 1: And you're not getting it just because you bought a
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  Speaker 1: plane ticket. I don't care. Even if you came in
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  Speaker 1: here on your own private plane, it's not happening. And
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  Speaker 1: I just remember him being so disappointed. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I'll drive home for you, but I'm not going any
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  Speaker 1: further than that.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, Erica!
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  Speaker 1: That's where we'll draw the line.
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  Speaker 3: And then he never called me again.
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  Speaker 1: But now I still see him creeping on my page
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  Speaker 1: all the time.
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  Speaker 4: Really?
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  Speaker 3: Honestly, that was his fault for assuming.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, this girl don't put out like that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm booted up for a long time before you get anything. Exactly.
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  Speaker 4: You made an effort once, but don't act like you're
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  Speaker 4: going to get the whole count for a friend. The
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  Speaker 4: milk don't come with it.
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  Speaker 1: You just bought a plane ticket.
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  Speaker 4: That ain't... Uh-huh.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 3: You want to dive in anything?
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: I was about to share my best friend's business, but
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  Speaker 2: I figured I'd save it for later.
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  Speaker 4: Okay. All right.
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  Speaker 1: You can listen to them in their more professional setting. MyCarolinaCBS17.
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  Speaker 1: I like to get in their business here at J.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.