Latest / Everyday Ancestral with James Barry / Is Your Child’s Diet Causing Their Diagnosis? Julie Matthews on Autism, ADHD, and the Food No One Talks About
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- 0:00Welcome back to every day in Sestrel. I'm your host James Berry. Have you ever heard the saying
- 0:06children are our canaries in the coal mine? That's referencing is that if there is anything going on
- 0:12in our environment with our food, anything it usually shows up in our kids first. So we can really
- 0:20look towards what is going on illness-wise or chronic disease-wise in our children to see like
- 0:27maybe we have some issues. And that's why I'm really excited to share my next guest, Julie Matthews.
- 0:34She's a certified nutrition consultant and published researcher specializing in personalized
- 0:39nutrition for complex neurological conditions, particularly autism spectrum disorder
- 0:45in ADHD for over 20 years. She received her master's degree in medical nutrition with distinction
- 0:52from Arizona State University and she's co-author of two research studies demonstrating the efficacy
- 0:58of nutrition and therapeutic diet intervention for autism spectrum disorder. And she has a
- 1:04brand new book the personalized autism nutrition plan. So please join me in welcoming Julie Matthews.
- 1:12You have chosen to focus on autism ADHD really kids. Why kids? I know they're the canary in the
- 1:20coal mine, but is there a specific story as to why you you focused on autism and ADHD?
- 1:28Maybe a bit of a strange story. Different than what most people would expect. Most people would
- 1:31think that maybe I had a child at the time or child on the spectrum or something. I did not. I
- 1:36didn't even have kids at the time. You know, long story short, I was in nutrition school and I was
- 1:41out running around this park and there was this kid's fair outside and it was filled with donuts
- 1:46and pizza and I thought this has to have something to do with all the ADHD in the world today.
- 1:52And that was pretty much the start of the whole thing. So my first year in school I studied ADHD
- 1:58and when I went to study ADHD, the man that I met recovered his kids from autism and he just wanted
- 2:03to talk about autism the whole time. I did my paper on ADHD, but the next year I, you know, was
- 2:09talking to my teacher and said, you know, should I do autism this year as my final paper? And so
- 2:17she encouraged that the connection started out random and the thought was a bit random, but once
- 2:23I found out there was so much you could do that the children we're talking about are not, you know,
- 2:28children with a little neurodiversity. These are usually kids that are very sick, sometimes in
- 2:33diapers till they're teenagers or beyond, banging their head, not able to talk, you know, it might
- 2:39be severe autism, not just mild, you know, more level one type autism. So when I found out that
- 2:45there was a lot of suffering going on and that there were things that you can do and that nobody
- 2:50was talking about it because this was 20 some years ago. I just felt driven and to the cause,
- 2:57really, really, it almost sounds like it was like you were at the right place at the right time.
- 3:03I find autism ADHD. I find a lot of these kind of names that we give to kids nowadays. One of the
- 3:10things that comes up is, well, when I was younger, I didn't see anyone that had a lot of this. So
- 3:17is that true in your opinion? Like, is it true that it didn't exist to the level it does now?
- 3:22Or is it just that we didn't diagnose it that way then?
- 3:26There are some studies on this topic because it is a big question that people have.
- 3:32Back in the, you know, 70s, the rates were about one in 10,000. So if you had, you know,
- 3:39a special needs classroom, you might have a person with autism, but that's not how it is today. So
- 3:46that's kind of the first bit of argument on the subject is just where are all the adults in
- 3:51their 40s and 50s with autism right now if it was as prevalent as it was. But there's actually real
- 3:57science showing that they looked at this and they said that, you know, it cannot be found to be
- 4:04diagnostics alone. They said that we, you know, even a more moderately conservative study found
- 4:09that maybe about 50% or so. Maybe we could attribute to that, but there's something else going on
- 4:15where, you know, 50, 60% is something else. You can also think that, you know, there's no
- 4:21genetic epidemics. So there's something going on.
- 4:25You mentioned you've now been in this 20 years. So what's your answer to what is going on?
- 4:32I think it's a combination of genetic predisposition and environmental assaults. That's what I
- 4:37think it is. And there are a lot more environmental assaults we've had in the last 50 years with all
- 4:44the chemicals. And we'll just take chemicals as one of them. If you have poorer detoxification,
- 4:51you're more likely to be injured by those. And if there is more toxins, that's going to be a factor.
- 4:55But also toxins can actually affect your epigenetics or how our genes express the ability to detoxify
- 5:04and so sometimes toxins can also affect our genes. So we have just that one thing alone can have a,
- 5:10you know, really a cyclical effect. I think that is one of the main things that's going on.
- 5:17When you talk about toxins, you're talking about in the air, so environmental, you're talking about
- 5:24in our food. What is it all encompass, you know? Yes, all of them, you know, do we use more pesticides
- 5:30in our home? Do we use more on our food? Do we have things like glyphosate now that disrupt the
- 5:37microbiome? We know the microbiome is a big area of difference and challenge and concern in people
- 5:44with autism. So just that alone, antibiotics again, they're wonderful things, you know, we need them
- 5:50for life saving, but they do affect our microbiome. I actually went off a little bit. I went into the
- 5:56microbiome conversation. We just stick with a toxin topic. Yes, toxins in our food, food additives,
- 6:02chemicals in our environment, all of these types of things can affect the brain. Some of them
- 6:09are neurotoxins. They kill bugs by damaging the nervous system. So I think that's a factor. And
- 6:16some of them affect the brain directly. Some of them affect the mitochondria. You know, some of them
- 6:21affect all sorts of different systems that can affect the brain. It is something, and obviously
- 6:28parents are getting more and more tuned to us. Okay, we need to rethink, you know, the choices
- 6:33we're making in our lifestyles and in the food we put in our bodies. But I think people are also
- 6:39getting very stymied by all the different influencers, all the different voices that are saying,
- 6:46well, do this or do that. And everyone kind of is pointing in slightly different directions,
- 6:50sometimes grand directions, like completely opposite from each other. You've worked with
- 6:56thousands of families. I mean, can you share one transformation story that has given you goosebumps
- 7:05in terms of what changed and how it showed up? Yes, probably one of my favorite stories is the
- 7:11story that if people have my book in the introduction and then the conclusion is the individual I'm
- 7:17talking about. And he was a client of mine when he was about five. He's now 21. He had pretty
- 7:27significant autism, tantrums, some challenges with language, challenges sleeping. You know, it was
- 7:36challenging for him, you know, in school and all of that. His mom worked on diet as well as
- 7:42nutrition for many years, kind of step by step, changing different things, a gluten-free diet,
- 7:48going and casing free diet, then, you know, evolving into different diets and doing testing and
- 7:53doing supplements and things. And today he is graduate from high school. He's an eagle scout.
- 8:00He's in college. He wants to be a writer. He won an award for writing at his college last year.
- 8:08So he is really doing amazingly well. And in the conclusion, he talks in his own words about how
- 8:14important diet has been for him and really how helpful. And so I think that's just one because it's
- 8:21nicely here from the person themselves and their journey and what it felt like and how important
- 8:26the diet piece was. So that's probably one of my favorite stories. Well, so many cultures, you know,
- 8:32if you think about they relied on a lot of the foods I've talked about in previous episodes,
- 8:36you know, these traditional and sexual foods like organ meats and fermented vegetables.
- 8:41Because that's ultimately I think what people want to know is like, okay, so what foods
- 8:44did support him or what, what ancestral foods are you finding, you know, are the most supportive
- 8:49for these kids with autism and ADHD? Well, I think starting even with just a whole foods diet,
- 8:55right? So artificial added is colors, flavors. We know we're in the research that they create
- 9:00significant hyperactivity and behavioral challenges. So that's just one start with whole foods and
- 9:08you're all are going to be avoiding entire categories of MSG. We know glutamate causes problems
- 9:14in the brain. It's excitatory. So just that alone is a good start. I really do like things like
- 9:20liver. So in my book, one of the recipes is burgers with liver and just, you know, getting a little
- 9:26bit in in a way that's tasty and enjoyable. You know, it's fairly hidden, but it really enhances
- 9:33the flavor of the burgers actually quite good. So liver is one of my, you know, favorites for ancestral
- 9:38foods. Getting good quality grass fed more similar to how maybe, I mean, obviously they are,
- 9:45there's a husbandry involved, you know, it's like it wasn't necessarily wild as our true ancestors,
- 9:50but getting close to that wild caught fish, grass fed meat, those kinds of things. Usually most people
- 9:58I work with don't do wheat gluten or dairy. So, you know, staying away from those farmed grains,
- 10:06but particularly things like wheat and dairy. If you were working with a parent these days, you
- 10:14know, starting to work with somebody, is there just like one to three foods that you're just like,
- 10:18look, if you want to work with me, you have to be willing to cut these out. Is there, because I know
- 10:23you're very into bio individuality, but is there kind of like here are the foods I believe everyone
- 10:29should not be eating? I mean, I think a big one are things like sugar, but you know, honestly,
- 10:34that's a little bit of maybe even more difficult than something like gluten because gluten we can
- 10:40just take it out with sugar, you know, it's a little, I mean, I want them to reduce sugar as much as
- 10:46possible, but the things that absolutely zero of, I mean, like again, to be wonderful, there was,
- 10:52you know, zero added sugar. It depends how I answer the question. If I answer it from one side,
- 10:57it's no artificial colors, flavors, preservatives, all of those additives,
- 11:03ideally, be no refined foods, no refined sugar, no refined flour, things like that.
- 11:09However, on the other side, I'd say no gluten, no dairy. Is it almost like, let's eliminate these
- 11:17things at first and see how they're moving the needle or not moving the needle for your child? Exactly,
- 11:22that's why it's a little hard for me to answer the question. When you mention that it is, I have a
- 11:2712 step approach and the first one is remove the artificial stuff, but then second is add the
- 11:33good stuff and then we don't get to, you know, like avoid gluten and casing until we get to like
- 11:39step five, but I do think it's one of the most often valuable dietary trials. So that's why I
- 11:47guess it took me a little while to kind of answer that question. It does depend on the person.
- 11:52However, I do find that those are some of the things that are either generally not good for our
- 11:59health as humans in general or particularly problematic for people with autism.
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- 12:18ancestral on Apple or Spotify and let's stay curious together. It sounds like nutrition for you is
- 12:26kind of the number one marker to look at with kids that are autistic or have ADHD or any other
- 12:35neurodevelopmental disorders, right? So why do you think it's the last thing that conventional
- 12:41medicine is looking at? Oh, that's a hard one because I don't necessarily know why, you know,
- 12:49it's not the first thing to think of. It's not that those other things aren't valuable. I always
- 12:54recommend people work with a great integrative medicine physician.
- 12:59This thing for me is that, you know, if we can work on some of the what I call the low hanging
- 13:03fruit, if we can improve hyperactivity, irritability, sleep, aggression with removing foods that are
- 13:10bothering them and adding good foods, then maybe their doctor can say, okay, we still have some
- 13:16issues in this area. Let's look at this medical thing or that thing or while they're waiting to
- 13:21get in with their pediatrician, I'm not even saying that the doctor needs to be second, but sometimes
- 13:26it highlights and brings to the forefront the things that really need a more significant approach.
- 13:34So I had a client that had severe aggression. And you know, if you're thinking that wow, I might
- 13:41have to get them some strong medication or I might have to put them in institution, but diet
- 13:47fixed to the problem, most parents are going to pick that approach first. And so trying to see if
- 13:55you can address certain things with diet, I think is a great way to go. So that's how I feel about
- 14:00it. I think it's just the school of thought that you're trained in and I give a lot of credit
- 14:05to doctors because they do very important life-saving amazing things. I actually did some research
- 14:12on this for my book and they only do get a couple hours of nutrition training in med school.
- 14:20And that's just a fact and they have other important, you know, life-saving things that they
- 14:26are spending their time on. I wish they'd spent more time on it. It's interesting they learn
- 14:32all the systems of the body, exactly how the biochemistry of the brain works and the liver works,
- 14:39but they don't really say, well, these are the nutrients we have to take into the body to create
- 14:45that glutathione or to do whatever it is that we need to do. It felt like it's an odd disconnect
- 14:51for me. I wish there was a little bit more of that. Yeah, absolutely. Really what we're talking about
- 14:57is, okay, so doctors have their place, but then clearly someone who focuses on the nutrition also
- 15:03has their place. And maybe they are separate roles, but maybe what needs to change is that we have
- 15:08to see them as separate roles. A lot of people see their doctors being the catch all for everything
- 15:13and maybe they're not, in a sense. So for the person that is like, if they have a child that's
- 15:20exhibiting ADHD, that's exhibiting autism, what do you think are the first steps someone should be
- 15:27taking? And if they are to, let's say, focus on food, what are they looking for in those first
- 15:34steps as they reach out side of their own family? There's clearly a role for nutritionists and
- 15:40dietitians in the world. I like that that a doctor doesn't have an hour and a half to necessarily go
- 15:46through every food. And so they're absolutely a role for people that specialize in nutrition.
- 15:52The thing is that most people go to their doctor as their first step, which again is great,
- 15:58important, wonderful. That's where I feel like if the first line, the doctors had a little more
- 16:05knowledge education in the power of nutrition, they might more readily recommend to people that could
- 16:13really be a great resource. Somebody in the nutrition field to help them. So that's what I would say.
- 16:18And then I would say if first steps for people, well, I think it does depend on their resources.
- 16:24I mean, I do have families in 146 countries that are part of our community. And so, you know,
- 16:31people have vastly different resources in their community and different things like that. So for
- 16:36some people, it might be going online and getting support from other families, learning what they
- 16:41did, figuring out, you know, their parents can be a wealth of information in terms of what could
- 16:47be some first steps. Why would I look at a gluten free and dairy free diet? How can I find
- 16:52products in my area that are free of the chemicals and dyes and things like that? So parents
- 16:57can be a great first step also talking to them about some good practitioners in their area that
- 17:04are well versed in nutrition. Maybe there's a good nutritionist or already or somebody in their
- 17:08area that is knowledgeable or find somebody online that's knowledgeable. And then that way they
- 17:15can get more personalized support. What is there anything though that you've experienced or you've
- 17:22learned in your 20 years that really kind of completely changed the way you even feed yourself.
- 17:29Because obviously you went down this path, you mentioned you got kind of focused on autism,
- 17:36you focused on the kids, but during I have to imagine that during that research, during writing
- 17:42these books that you may have actually learned something that may have been surprising first of all.
- 17:48And then too that you actually maybe changed how you even treated your own life.
- 17:53Definitely what's interesting is I must have studied this for many years before I realized I have
- 18:00a some of the similar underlying factors that kids with autism do. Now I'm not claiming by any
- 18:06means I am on the autism spectrum, but what's interesting is that certain things like methylation,
- 18:13they can affect people and it can create autism or ADHD or anxiety or depression or
- 18:19heart disease or cancer. And so sometimes even in a family, the child might have autism,
- 18:24but the sibling might have anxiety and the mother might have a digestive issue and the father might
- 18:29have an autoimmune issue. It's all the same underlying or very similar underlying genetics
- 18:35and even environment, but it's manifested differently. I learned a lot about myself in terms of
- 18:41some of my underlying factors and some of the nutrients that could be helpful to me, you know,
- 18:49things like methylation. Also, I think one of the things I learned with working with lots of
- 18:53families is, you know, there isn't one diet that works for everyone. There isn't even one
- 18:58diet that works for autism, which is why I talk about so many different diets. And I think that's
- 19:04one of the things I applied in my own life. And one of the things I think is an important point,
- 19:09say, whether it's in the book or just with practitioners, I train or whatever is evolving the
- 19:15diet over time and the diet is not static all the time. But the first family I told you about that
- 19:21first boy, he now, young man, he didn't a number of different diets over time. I could say,
- 19:30probably five different diets that I can think of over time and evolving it and it still evolves.
- 19:36And I would say that's one of the things I learned in my own life is that, oh,
- 19:40we went to a third world country, we got a parasite. Okay, I know that different kind of diet
- 19:44for my gut right now. Okay, we're dealing with this challenge in our family now. Okay,
- 19:50we're noticing a reaction to these types of foods. But my goal isn't to remain on that diet forever
- 19:54unless, unless it's, you know, somebody has celiac disease or something that just can't do
- 19:59something forever like gluten. But usually I like to think of the diets as kind of healing diets
- 20:05or removing the things that are causing inflammation. But then working on healing those underlying
- 20:12systems that are affected. So I try to think of diets use more that way. So I'd say that's one thing
- 20:18or a couple things that I have learned that I apply in my own family.
- 20:23So you haven't found necessarily one diet that supports, you know, the different levels of,
- 20:28let's say autism, like, oh, well, if it's mild than this diet works, if it's extreme,
- 20:34there's literally no through line for you. I would say there isn't. I would say that there
- 20:39are maybe through lines. So for example, in a study that we published about a year ago,
- 20:46we looked at 13 different therapeutic diets for autism. And not only did we find that they were
- 20:52significantly better in terms of overall benefit to the individuals compared to things like
- 21:00psychiatric and seizure medications and even actually nutritional supplements. And we also
- 21:05found that they were significantly less likely to create adverse effects. Inside of that study,
- 21:12though, if we dig down further, we looked at 24 different symptom improvements and different
- 21:17diets helped different symptoms more than others. So certain ones were better at improving certain
- 21:24symptoms. So last example is seizures. We've known for decades the ketogenic diet is a great
- 21:30diet for seizures. And yes, the study showed that for seizures, the ketogenic diet is the best
- 21:36diet. So there are some things I think we can take. We can look at underlying factors. We can look
- 21:43at symptoms and create these likely scenarios that certain diets are going to be maybe the best
- 21:51or beneficial with certain things, but not kind of more of a protocol. Like you have this,
- 21:57you do this diet. It's more complex. I know we started this out talking about the toxins that
- 22:02are in our world, but do you think that there is any contribution to autism and ADHD?
- 22:08You know, I use ancestral lots. So even though I'm not talking about our paleolithic answers,
- 22:13I'm just talking about like pre-i-phones. So do you think some of these technologies,
- 22:20some of these newer modern lifestyles are contributing to the symptoms?
- 22:26I do. You know, by both while it is on diet, there is a section on toxins and one of the things
- 22:34I put in there are EMFs. So there was a great series of papers by Dr. Martha Herbert who is a
- 22:41pediatric neurologist who looked at kind of the underlying biology going on in autism and compare
- 22:49that to the things that can happen to an organism or a cell or a person with EMFs and found a lot of
- 23:00correlations with that. And there are groups and organizations dedicated to really looking at that.
- 23:07So I think from a number of perspectives, also the brain involves a lot of neurotransmitters. And so
- 23:13I feel like we're getting and let's say too much dopamine or whatever it is from being on our
- 23:18screens all the time. I don't think that's going to be advantageous when we're already trying to work
- 23:24on the neurochemistry. So I think from the up perspective, there's a few things. And also if we look
- 23:29at ancestral living, there was a lot more activity, physical activity than we have in our world today.
- 23:37And that survey that I was talking about, that study we did on diet and looked at psychiatric
- 23:43and seizure medications and other things also looked at other therapies and looked at things like
- 23:47physical activity and it's physical activity has been shown to be very beneficial for people with
- 23:53autism. And I can tell you parents will often tell you the same thing. So I do think, you know,
- 23:58going back to even our childhood, not so maybe ancestral, but even even just a couple dozen years ago,
- 24:06we can see that a way of a more natural way of living, getting outside, getting out in nature,
- 24:13riding a horse, riding a bike, going for a walk, some sort of physical activity and less of that
- 24:20indoors on screens, I think does an important beneficial component.
- 24:27What about the pallets and textures for kids that have ADHD or autism? Sometimes it,
- 24:36depending on on the level of either those two specifically autism, it can play out where they
- 24:43are very picky, correct? Like very picky and very specific about what foods they're willing to eat.
- 24:51What are some of the tips you found to help break some of those cycles?
- 24:56Well, first I would say you're absolutely right. And so for parents that are listening,
- 25:01don't be disheartened or I would hope you won't be disheartened if you're struggling around feeding,
- 25:08you know, your child, because it is very common. 80% of kids with developmental delays have
- 25:14picky eating and with autism, there are more picky eating behaviors that in some of them very
- 25:20specific to autism. So a vast majority of my clients have picky eating habits. Even if your child
- 25:28has picky eating, I'm still including you in the conversation about improving diet because
- 25:36it is possible. I like to suggest things like texture is a big one. So how do we make vegetables,
- 25:46maybe crispy and crunchy at the beginning, to get them used to them, to get them more
- 25:50familiar with them in a texture they like, you know, over time you can evolve things as you can,
- 25:56but for now that's beneficial. And figuring out what it is they do like, so do they like certain
- 26:03textures and how can you make whatever it is, whether it's protein, maybe protein is too chewy for
- 26:09them, too dry and chewy. And so maybe you marinate it in a sauce or you braise it or you know,
- 26:18something like that. So figuring out how they like it and providing it that way. So you know,
- 26:24again, one of the recipes is like chicken pancakes. So it's like it's chicken and eggs into a pancake
- 26:31but in a form that kids tend to like. So I like to do that kind of thing. We're really look at
- 26:38how can I make it in a way that they're more willing to accept it.
- 26:44What do you say to some of those parents? I'm sure you've heard this before like, well, I don't
- 26:49think I should hide food from my kid, you know, I should, you know, they should know exactly
- 26:53what they're eating. What do you say to those people that come at diet and nutrition with very
- 26:59dogmatic perspectives? I wouldn't say you have to know your child because I would agree whenever
- 27:07I suggest ideas for getting vegetables in, I always say if you're going to hide it, you need to
- 27:12know your child because if you hide it for a child that is only has a few foods is highly suspicious
- 27:20and unlikely to take it and highly likely to reject it, you might lose an important food. So I
- 27:27think that, you know, I like to honor that there is some truth to it. However, on the other side,
- 27:33there are kids that, you know, they're just like, oh, I don't like anything green. It's yucky
- 27:38and it's just more of a mindset thing, but if you put it in a sauce, they don't know, they don't care.
- 27:45They just don't want to see it or they don't like the texture of it. And so you've put it in a form
- 27:49that is visually more appealing for them or texturally more appealing to them. So I think it does
- 27:55depend and I think it can be a tool, but not for everybody. You mentioned when you went down this path
- 28:02that you didn't have kids. Do you have kids now? Yes, I do. I do have a daughter.
- 28:08Oh, wonderful. But I'm curious early on when you didn't and you hear you were dispensing, you know,
- 28:15advice and support to parents, did you get any pushback of like, well, you don't know what I'm
- 28:19going through or anything like that? Surprisingly not. I mean, maybe they said it behind my back.
- 28:24I never heard that. I think people, I don't know, saw my sincerity and I always try to make things
- 28:31very based in science. So that's one of my favorite things that I've published to research papers.
- 28:36I love science. So most of what I talk about and recommend is based in the science behind it.
- 28:44And also a lot of evidence from a clinical perspective.
- 28:51How do you, though, reconcile? I mean, I feel like just in the last
- 28:5610 years, we have been revealed that so many scientific papers were doctored or were influenced by
- 29:05some big food or big pharma or something. So how do you reconcile trusting and digging into
- 29:11the science when we're also on the flip side being revealed that it's some of it and a lot of it
- 29:17is BS, that it's it's been human affected. Yes. That is a little more difficult. And I would say
- 29:25a couple things, a lot of studies. So I read a lot of studies. And some of it I did learn
- 29:32when getting my master's degree, like, how do you really tell a good study? So that might be a
- 29:36little challenging, maybe for some, you know, I'm not saying that everybody needs to understand
- 29:42what a good study design looks like. But what I would say is, okay, you want to know about the
- 29:47gluten-free dairy-free diet and a new paper. I'm just making this up right. A new paper comes out saying
- 29:52there isn't any science to it. It doesn't work. The media tends to really latch on to the stories
- 29:58that say diet doesn't work. But when the study comes out showing that diet does work,
- 30:03there's no buzz about it. You often don't hear about it. So that's why if you can read a number of
- 30:10studies, you can see the one, okay, let's read the ones that show it doesn't help. And let's read
- 30:15the ones that show it does help. And, you know, then you might find differences in how they were
- 30:20conducted. The randomized control trial we did, we did diet, but we also looked at whole-fazed
- 30:27approach of six different things, a multivitamin mineral formula, then essential fatty acids,
- 30:33all the way through a healthy gluten-free casing-free and soy-free diet. And we followed them for a
- 30:37year. So, you know, if you're following them for a few weeks, or you don't know how the diet
- 30:44was put together, or, you know, different things like that, you might not get the same results,
- 30:48or they don't follow it strictly. So with something like a gluten-free dairy-free diet,
- 30:53you really have to follow it very strictly in order to really get the benefits. If you're
- 30:58doing it 80%, you might not see those benefits. So I think reading the
- 31:03myriad of research on the topic will give you a broader perspective. And you'll see, you know,
- 31:08sometimes a study doesn't show something. And that's okay, but I don't know if you'll find any
- 31:13topic where a hundred percent of studies show that it works. And that could be from a variety of
- 31:20different factors. You know, we talked about ancestral food. So where do you think that
- 31:25ancestral intuitive instinct or knowledge comes in to play when you're trying to support these
- 31:32families? Like, because you know, there's always that piece of like mother's intuition, right?
- 31:38We talk about that. But when a child has autism, is their intuition kind of not as regarded
- 31:49because it's based on the condition, or if it's not as regarded, then is there any room for
- 31:56intuition in this circumstance? You know, I do very much believe in mother's intuition.
- 32:03So when I'm working with somebody, I will often, I might make a suggestion. But then I always
- 32:08check in with them. Does it resonate with them? Does it seem like the path they want to go down?
- 32:12That's that's number one. So I do believe in mother's intuition. I also think from the individual
- 32:18child, it does get a little tricky because I always want to honor any individual, whoever they
- 32:23are, whatever the age. So I always consider what they're, you know, let's say their behavior is
- 32:30like they don't want to eat something. Let's say I always consider that because I wouldn't want to
- 32:33ignore anybody, especially if they're nonverbal, there could be something that could be that that
- 32:39food is giving them heartburn. And it's not good for them right now or, you know, something like that.
- 32:45At the same time, they often do crave the very things that are the most problematic for them. So
- 32:52gluten and dairy, they can convert to opiates, they get strong cravings for those foods.
- 32:58That doesn't mean eat more of those foods. That might mean in that case that those foods are
- 33:02creating negative compounds. There are other foods like that where they often crave the very
- 33:08things that are problematic. So what I try to do is, okay, let's look at the foods that they want to
- 33:13eat. There are certain symptoms that are more associated in my experience with certain foods.
- 33:21So someone said that they had, let's say, pain, but they had pain and fatigue and other symptoms
- 33:31versus they had pain and hyperactivity and couldn't sleep at night. It might tell me something
- 33:36a little bit different, you know, different. So I like to look at what symptoms do they have?
- 33:41Did they correlate with the foods they're eating a lot of in my experience? And if so, then maybe
- 33:47those foods are contributing to those symptoms that they're having. And maybe that's kind of a red flag
- 33:53to look more at those foods. You know, if you crave sugar, should we say, oh, yeah, my intuition
- 34:01is telling me sugar is good for me. Most of us will say no, because sometimes we do crave the
- 34:06things that aren't good for us. But, you know, you'd be surprised. Sometimes the opposite is the case,
- 34:12but I like to, I just like to dig further and figure out what might be behind it.
- 34:19Yeah, I mean, because like in your example, maybe it's not literal. Like, oh, you're craving sugar.
- 34:25And I know most people would say, well, then that means they have a sweet tooth, but maybe it's
- 34:29that they need more fat in their diet or, you know, right? So it's just an indication of maybe that
- 34:34there's something else going on. So that's that's a nice way to look at, you know, look at the
- 34:38situation with what in your opinion, though, and from your experiences, the single biggest mistake
- 34:46parents make when trying to fix their child's diet. And what should they do instead?
- 34:52I would say that the first maybe mistake is that not realizing how important diet actually is.
- 34:59And, you know, there are a lot of challenges on a daily basis, just being a parent. And then if
- 35:05a parent with a child with some sort of ADHD, autism, special needs, developmental delays, there's
- 35:11a lot more day-to-day challenges. And it can be hard to commit to doing diet. So I would say that
- 35:18maybe the first one is not realizing the potential power of diet. For example, I gave of the child
- 35:25aggression, yeah, I'm sure it was work, but the power of that was pretty profound for them.
- 35:34And a lot of times parents don't realize that diet can have such an effect. So I think that might
- 35:43be one of the biggest maybe misconceptions. And I would say that maybe the biggest mistake they're
- 35:49making when they're doing diet might be that yes, a little bit can hurt. So they say, all right,
- 35:56well, we're doing gluten free and dairy free. But, you know, they go and spend a weekend with grandma,
- 36:03you know, every month. She loves to show love by baking her favorite cookies. And so, you know,
- 36:09can't hurt that much. I mean, everybody is well-meaning, but they might just they might not realize
- 36:15that actually the amount of a grain of rice or less than that could affect somebody for weeks.
- 36:24And could keep that inflammation going and those negative problematic compounds going for a long
- 36:31time. And so they never quite can get out of that. So I would say committing to the diet, just
- 36:37trying at 100% just to really get a sense of if it's working. You know, I have to imagine that
- 36:44stress is huge for families with children that are really exhibiting any of these, any of these
- 36:54issues, but particularly they really intense ones, right? That stress stresses must be just so high.
- 37:00So what tips do you have from your experience with all the families you've worked with in terms of
- 37:05managing that stress when they are first starting down this path of focusing on nutrition and food
- 37:12and making it's just starting to make these changes? Yeah, I'm glad you brought that up because
- 37:17my book is based on a program. And you know, I have 12 steps that I mentioned and I struggle because
- 37:22it's a it's a nutrition program. But the middle step of the program is take care of yourself.
- 37:30Because if you don't, then it's hard to help anybody else. It's hard to have the energy,
- 37:36the mental fortitude, everything that you need on a daily basis in order to help your child.
- 37:42And so I struggled on, you know, is this going to resonate with people? Should I put this in?
- 37:47Because they want to help their child with nutrition. That's what the the book is for. That's
- 37:51what the program is for. But I that's no, I've got to put it in because like you said, it is so
- 37:56important. So, you know, there's a whole chapter on stress, stress relieving things, nourishing
- 38:03yourself. I mean, one of the things I talk about is I personally love EFT. So tapping, I personally
- 38:09really find that to be helpful. But maybe it's going for a walk connecting with your friends.
- 38:17You know, when I'm going through something stressful, you know, I've got some good friends
- 38:20on speed dial and I could call them every day sometimes because sometimes you just get triggered
- 38:27and or you get negative thoughts or stressed out and you just need somebody to help you in that
- 38:33moment. So somebody that understands you, that's why having a community like this is so valuable.
- 38:39In fact, I'm surprised sometimes that some people say that in my nutrition program,
- 38:44the most valuable thing is the community. And I'm thinking not all the nutrition advice,
- 38:49but really truly that is very important. So I would say for stress, you know, whether it's
- 38:56get out, go for a walk, take care of yourself, eat something yourself. Parents are often the last
- 39:01people to take care of themselves. You know, they cooked food for everybody else in the family and
- 39:05then they don't eat themselves. So really encouraging them to find time that they eat and get
- 39:12some fresh air and and do those kinds of things. Loss of community seems to be one of the biggest
- 39:20culprits of so many of our disorders in modern society, you know, that we've lost. And
- 39:24sesterly, I think we were designed to be parts of communities and and it just seems to be isolation
- 39:33just seems to be increasing more and more with our modern lives. So tell us about the bio individual
- 39:40nutrition institute speaking of community. Yes. All right. So that's actually for my practitioner.
- 39:46So if practitioners want to learn how to do personalized nutrition, they can learn that at
- 39:51bio individual nutrition. Again, it's one of those things we meet every month. We go through,
- 39:56you know, all sorts of really valuable things like how to help people with autism. The other
- 40:02community that I think might resonate really with people that are interested and I'll just share
- 40:07with them. So my new book that just came out has a program associated and has a community associated
- 40:14and that is nourishing hope. They can absolutely get the book, find it online, but if they want
- 40:21that community, they can join us over there and really get that support on how to implement these
- 40:28things, you know, all of that. So there are a variety of ways I try to support parents. So those are
- 40:34kind of the main two communities and the nourishing hope community is the one I mentioned that has
- 40:39146 different countries. People represented from all over the world. You would be surprised,
- 40:47which is why sometimes even something like coconut might be very, very difficult to find or might
- 40:52be very easy to find. So, you know, every, you know, it depends where they're from and that's why
- 40:57being able to connect with others and just, you know, also emotionally as well as getting
- 41:02nutrition help, which really kind of puts even more fuel towards the bio individual eating.
- 41:07If you're working with so many people throughout the world, you can't really say like, okay,
- 41:12everyone eat this because it's to your point. It's not going to be available everywhere.
- 41:17Absolutely. In fact, my first book that I had written was published in Japanese and when we
- 41:22really dove into it, there's different foods. There's different foods. They obviously,
- 41:26every culture has different foods. They have access to, but there's different foods that they
- 41:29eat a lot of. They might have some additional sensitivities based on the foods they eat a lot of.
- 41:36You know, so obviously we know that different cultures have different foods, different availability
- 41:41of foods, different traditions, but also they might have somewhat unique reactions to foods,
- 41:47which is again, where that personalized element comes in.
- 41:51Well, I'm grateful for you taking the time to talk about your work and your experiences,
- 41:56because I really do, I said this when we started, but you know, kids really are, I believe,
- 42:01the canaries in the coal mine and that it's really important to take note of the health of our
- 42:07children because they're a guide for how well things are in my judgment. You know, like,
- 42:14how is our environment? How is this modern way of living working? How are these, you know,
- 42:20standard American diet foods working? You know, they are the indicators, because they are
- 42:25going to affect them on a deeper level than maybe someone who's, you know, in their 50s,
- 42:30who was grew up at a different age or whatnot, right? Their systems are more delicate early on,
- 42:35right? So they're, it's going to show up. Any issues that we are experiencing as a society
- 42:40are going to show up in our kids first in my judgment? Absolutely. And I used to have a slide for
- 42:47many years that children with autism are the canaries in the coal mine, because in addition to
- 42:52being children, they tend to often, maybe their systems are, you know, maybe like, again,
- 42:59go to detoxification, right? It's a little bit, might be a little bit less. They tend to react
- 43:04more. They tend to be a little more deficient. They tend to need more of the good nutrition
- 43:09and more of the therapeutic diets than maybe even other children might need. So I agree with you
- 43:15completely on how important our children's health is because they are more sensitive and they're
- 43:23smaller beings compared to the level of toxic load that they would get exposed to.
- 43:30Thank you again for joining. And what are some other ways people can learn and connect with you?
- 43:37I would say maybe the primary way would be they can go on, if they want to get a copy of my new book,
- 43:42the personalized autism nutrition plan, they can go to any major retailer, look up Julie Matthews,
- 43:48autism nutrition, they'll be able to find it. That might be a really great way to
- 43:53for them to connect with me besides the websites that I was mentioning. Any last kind of tip you
- 43:59want any families that are just getting exposed to realizing their child has autism or even their
- 44:05child just got diagnosed with ADHD. Any last remaining tip you just would like to impart to them?
- 44:11Keep going and then we go back to the intuition, intuition, trust your intuition. If you feel
- 44:17that there might be something related to their diet, they may think it needs to be improved
- 44:22more or if you feel that there's something in there that's bothering them to just follow that and
- 44:28do some research, do some reading, see what you can figure out and maybe talk to somebody,
- 44:33try something, but it really goes down with trusting your intuition and exploring it further.
- 44:40Yeah, and I would echo that and just say that, and you mentioned this early on, but it's the
- 44:44lowest hanging fruit. It's the thing that we do daily, multiple times daily, and my judgment should
- 44:50be the first thing we look at because it doesn't require paying a lot of money to just start being
- 44:56curious about is this affecting our health? You simply can just go online, start looking it up,
- 45:02start pulling out certain foods, try new things. It truly is the lowest hanging, lowest cost fruit
- 45:09because once you start going to a practitioner, bills will start to get higher.
- 45:14Exactly. It's true. It's something we all have to eat and it's something we have control over
- 45:21because we feed ourselves, we feed our children. It's nice in that way as well because we have
- 45:27it's something that can empower us. Yeah, well, thank you, Julie, and thank you all for
- 45:34participating in this episode. Just keep curious and keep asking those questions, and if there's
- 45:40anything we learned today is, is try to incorporate those ancestral concepts of real nutrient
- 45:47foods, community, and getting outdoors. Thank you so much for joining me on everyday ancestral.
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