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The art of the backhanded compliment · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Yeah, wake you ass up, John Jay and rich Man,
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  Speaker 1: what's cracker like? And this is the big bulls dove
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  Speaker 1: snoopy deegle.
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  Speaker 2: Double gigsel dang boom, what you don't do.
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  Speaker 1: We're not talking about ridden t and we're not talking
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  Speaker 1: about last year. If the One and Only goes, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the glasses last, they pick smooth people, double jib in
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  Speaker 1: your face to me and in the place to be
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  Speaker 1: and you're listening to John Jay and Ridge, wake your ass.
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  Speaker 3: I think this is a backhanded compliment. I think so
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  Speaker 3: I want to tell you what happened. And then also,
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  Speaker 3: if you have a backhanded compliment, call us at eight
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  Speaker 3: seven seven nine three seven one o four seven. It's
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  Speaker 3: a backhanded Backhanded compliments make you feel good.
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  Speaker 4: Sometimes, but they also make you feel like, hey, I
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  Speaker 4: wonder if that was an insult that they were just
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  Speaker 4: kind of dressing up nice.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So somebody said something to me yesterday morning,
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  Speaker 3: twenty four hours ago, and it's been on my mind NonStop.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: If it's a compliment or it's something that this guy
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  Speaker 3: says to people because it's so good, like you can't
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  Speaker 3: argue it, you can't really, it's like you don't want
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  Speaker 3: to argue it. So here's what he said to me.
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  Speaker 3: I'm on my way to the bathroom. We both go
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  Speaker 3: in the back. He's walking out of the bathroom. I'm
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  Speaker 3: walking in the bathroom, and he says, are you losing
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  Speaker 3: weight on purpose? And I was like no, And then
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  Speaker 3: I went like I had a stupid giggle. And then
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  Speaker 3: after that, I was like, that's an interesting Are you
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  Speaker 3: losing weight on purpose? Because that makes me feel good? Right,
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  Speaker 3: I'm losing weight. It's not like when you go up
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  Speaker 3: to someone, oh my god, you've lost weight. Then what
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  Speaker 3: you're saying to them is you're kind of saying to
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  Speaker 3: them you're a little chubby, you're losing something. You know
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  Speaker 3: how people say, don't say are you losing what? You've
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  Speaker 3: lost weight because you're insinuait. Are you losing weight on purpose?
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  Speaker 5: That's almost a double compliment.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 6: It like, he noticed you're losing weight, but on purpose
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  Speaker 6: would mean you didn't need to lose weight in the
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  Speaker 6: first place.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: It's so it's genius, like, I wonder do you just
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I want to find him and say, do
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  Speaker 3: you say that to everybody? Or did you happen to
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  Speaker 3: say to me and you meant it like? And then
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, am I losing weight? I'm not losing weight?
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  Speaker 3: My canswer tight?
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  Speaker 4: Could it also mean like, are you losing weight on purpose?
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  Speaker 4: Like you're not dying from a crippling disease, that's why
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  Speaker 4: you look thin, which I think you would also take
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  Speaker 4: as a company.
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  Speaker 2: I would, But I just been generally speaking, like I
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  Speaker 2: want to start saying that to people.
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  Speaker 4: It's pretty good, right, I mean you certainly wouldn't be
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  Speaker 4: offended if you heard that, right, No, you would think
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  Speaker 4: it was kind of cool.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: I actually feel like that's maybe the nicest way you
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  Speaker 6: could ask someone about that.
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  Speaker 3: I know, it's so good. I always want to call
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  Speaker 3: a guy I like that hair. It works down the hall.
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  Speaker 3: I can you ask him? Ay man, did you say
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  Speaker 3: it to me? Like anybody? Like, what are talking about?
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  Speaker 3: You do not losing weight?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? Sorry?
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  Speaker 3: Like what if he did said I was talking to you,
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  Speaker 3: are you losing weight on purpose?
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  Speaker 2: Freaking genius?
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  Speaker 7: Man?
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  Speaker 2: Made me feel so good, That's what I'm saying. It
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  Speaker 2: made me feel good, right, yeah, I think you should
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  Speaker 2: feel good.
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  Speaker 6: But then afterwards you were like questioning it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't believe him.
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  Speaker 3: And then I was talking to this guy the other
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  Speaker 3: day in my podcast, my successful podcast, this guy Joe Polish.
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  Speaker 2: This guy really made an impact on me. I can't
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  Speaker 2: wait to do drap the podcast.
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  Speaker 3: But he was telling me that, you know, people in life,
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  Speaker 3: you need to learn how to take a compliment right,
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  Speaker 3: and some people don't.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't think I take a.
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  Speaker 4: Comple It doesn't like words like like I like words.
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  Speaker 4: I like when people say nice things. Kyle doesn't really
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  Speaker 4: buy that stuff.
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  Speaker 6: That's so funny because literally yesterday Scott told me on
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  Speaker 6: two different occasions, I can't believe how different we are.
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  Speaker 6: And he is like, if you if you talk like
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  Speaker 6: love languages, his number one love language is words of affirmation.
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  Speaker 5: And that's my bottom one.
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  Speaker 4: Huh.
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  Speaker 6: So he was watching an Instagram reel and it was
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  Speaker 6: this wife and she was talking to her husband and
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  Speaker 6: she was just so overly gushing like we have all
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  Speaker 6: these nice things, we have the ability to hang out
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  Speaker 6: as a family because of you.
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  Speaker 5: We have all this.
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  Speaker 6: You're such a hard worker blah blah blah blah blah.
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  Speaker 6: And I was like, oh, there's something wrong in that relationship,
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  Speaker 6: and he looks at me like, I'm so damaged.
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  Speaker 5: He's like, what is your problem?
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  Speaker 6: Like it's like he's getting emotional because of how sweet
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  Speaker 6: the sentiment is, and I'm the cynic, like, what's really
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  Speaker 6: going on there?
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  Speaker 5: Just really going on there?
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  Speaker 2: Well, like this marriage another version of that.
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  Speaker 3: It's so funny because I'm about to post this video
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  Speaker 3: screen recorder the whole conversation.
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  Speaker 2: My wife texted me pretty.
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  Speaker 3: Much the same thing that you were saying is in
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  Speaker 3: that video, and I just chatchab to the response Chris,
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  Speaker 3: I know, but it was very similar to that.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, she said this really nice. Let me
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  Speaker 2: text I don't have time for this.
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  Speaker 6: That's when I have a problem with using chatjepet for
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  Speaker 6: a response. If you're really genuinely trying to come up
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  Speaker 6: with something nice and kind to say back, then use
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  Speaker 6: the chatchapeute. But I don't have time for this.
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  Speaker 5: That's not a good r.
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  Speaker 2: I'm on the air doing a show, so I'm like, wait, I.
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  Speaker 3: The response is exactly how I felt, Melissa, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: What's a backheaded compliment? What did someone say to you?
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  Speaker 7: So I took my twin daughters to Safe Way to
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  Speaker 7: get a donut and me a coffee one morning years ago,
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  Speaker 7: and the lady said to me, oh my gosh, they're
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  Speaker 7: so cute good looking.
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  Speaker 5: That's a big time.
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  Speaker 4: Example, right, God's hilarious, Melissa, That's exactly what we're talking about.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks for calling him.
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  Speaker 3: I have a great day. Thanks for listening. Hey, my
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  Speaker 3: friend here is in the studio, James T.
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  Speaker 2: Harris.
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  Speaker 3: So something happened to you and me yesterday and I
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  Speaker 3: need clarification. We were in the bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: I was going to the.
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  Speaker 3: Bathroom, coming out of the bathroom, right, and you said
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  Speaker 3: to me, you said, are you losing weight on purpose?
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  Speaker 2: I did? Right? Okay?
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  Speaker 3: So is that something you say to people all the
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  Speaker 3: time or did you look at me and think that
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  Speaker 3: I need say.
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  Speaker 2: That to a man?
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  Speaker 8: You can't say that. Well, you can say that to
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  Speaker 8: a woman too. I said it to you because you
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  Speaker 8: actually look good. I'm like, what happened?
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  Speaker 2: What are you doing? You're doing this on purpose? Or
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  Speaker 2: what are you ill? Because I thought what you said
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  Speaker 2: was so clever?
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  Speaker 5: Isn't there?
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  Speaker 4: Though?
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  Speaker 5: Was the backhanded company?
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  Speaker 6: Because I thought you actually looked good?
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  Speaker 2: Are you doing workout?
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  Speaker 8: I know you know where you're going on, but for
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  Speaker 8: for some reason yesterday you looked particularly slim trim fit.
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  Speaker 3: Oh thank you for that. But so that's not something
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  Speaker 3: like you're not going to say that to someone later today,
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  Speaker 3: Like it's not. It's because that was such a well
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  Speaker 3: put together phrase and it stuck with me all day.
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  Speaker 8: That is something that I could say to somebody. I
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  Speaker 8: know you could, But have you ever said that before?
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  Speaker 8: Like the way you it's not like you look at
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  Speaker 8: you're losing weight. That came from that you you invoked
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  Speaker 8: something in me.
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  Speaker 2: It just came right out of me when I saw.
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  Speaker 8: It's not something that I say often, but it was
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  Speaker 8: something that was real in the moment.
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  Speaker 6: We thought it was pretty genius because it's like the
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  Speaker 6: nicest way to say that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you got to copyright that. You should like yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: like are you losing weight on purpose? Genius?
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  Speaker 2: I was like you, like, I want to talk about
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  Speaker 2: something you said in the bathroom my mom.
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  Speaker 5: Oh lord.
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  Speaker 4: Right, that might be the only politically correct I think
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  Speaker 4: James T has.
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  Speaker 3: Only rich compliment into politics. All right, Well, thank you,
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  Speaker 3: James C. I know you got to go do your
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  Speaker 3: more show. Thank thank for Sama donor thank you absolutely Shannon,
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  Speaker 3: good morning.
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  Speaker 7: Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: You got to back at a compliment I do.
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  Speaker 5: So.
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  Speaker 9: I work in an oral surgeon office. And so with
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  Speaker 9: the patient they were leaving, the father gave me a compliment.
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  Speaker 9: He's like, oh my gosh, have such a beautiful smile.
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  Speaker 9: And then before he was and then he was like, uh,
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  Speaker 9: you must have a lot of work done. And then
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  Speaker 9: they walked out. So I'm like sitting there, I'm like,
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  Speaker 9: is that a compliment or was he saying that I
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  Speaker 9: had a lot of work?
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  Speaker 4: Chore, you must have had a lot of work done.
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  Speaker 4: I'd be thinking about that a while to just.
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  Speaker 2: Leave it at you have a beautiful flow.
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  Speaker 3: See, that's the that's the kind of comment negatively that
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  Speaker 3: would impact you all day. Yeah, Like what James Harris
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  Speaker 3: said to me affected me positively all day, right, But
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  Speaker 3: being cynical, I was like, what did you mean by that?
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  Speaker 3: Your compliment, Shannon would mess me up a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: But then again, it looks good, right, but did you
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  Speaker 3: have a lot of work done?
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  Speaker 9: Or no?
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  Speaker 10: No, I had no work done.
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  Speaker 4: Well, so then you can you can take it as
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  Speaker 4: a compliment because you've had no work that's just your smile.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, And well, I think what his compliment was was like,
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  Speaker 9: you probably don't. Oh you probably get a.
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  Speaker 10: Lot of free services, is basically what he said.
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  Speaker 5: How rude.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I think your smile looks great to us.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you up up is John Jay and Rich.
• 8:45
  Speaker 5: Do you guys know it's singles Day today?
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  Speaker 11: No, yeah, cheese.
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  Speaker 2: Single the American craft singles.
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  Speaker 12: No single slices of cheese just like actually single people like,
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  Speaker 12: we celebrate you guys today. So we're going to talk
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  Speaker 12: about your single era energy based on your zodiac side.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning, Shane, Good morning, John Jay, Good morning, got
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  Speaker 3: Rich Peyton, good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 10: I am officially taken.
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  Speaker 5: Now okay, well look at that.
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  Speaker 12: So now you're off the market. But before you were,
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  Speaker 12: we're talking about your single era. So you Scorpios, you
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  Speaker 12: guys are really mysterious and highly selective, so you've kind
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  Speaker 12: of built a like velvet rope vip around your heart.
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  Speaker 12: So people are obsessed with you because they just can't
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  Speaker 12: figure you out. So stay magnetic, Scorpios. But let someone
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  Speaker 12: earn that backstage pass. And sounds like your new book
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  Speaker 12: did just that.
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  Speaker 10: She has the all access only access.
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  Speaker 2: Yes she is.
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  Speaker 5: I love that.
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  Speaker 3: All right, Thank you guys, Thank you Shane, have a
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  Speaker 3: great day you do.
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  Speaker 2: Xander, good morning, Hey, good morning. What's your sign? Xander?
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  Speaker 11: I am a Sagittarius.
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  Speaker 5: All right, Sagittarius.
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  Speaker 12: So when you guys are single, your single era is
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  Speaker 12: kind of a vacation for you, literally, like you're booking flights,
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  Speaker 12: collecting stories. You act like commitment is like a poorly
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  Speaker 12: designed app or something. Freedom looks really good on my Sagittarius.
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  Speaker 12: But you guys should run for something from something real
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  Speaker 12: if it finds.
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  Speaker 7: You go called out in a way, putting you on
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  Speaker 7: blast this morning.
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  Speaker 12: How about Libras, Libra Kyle for my libras. When it
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  Speaker 12: comes to your single era, your single era is flirty.
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  Speaker 12: It's aesthetic and it's an Instagram story coded. So you
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  Speaker 12: love the attention and the soft launches of like the
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  Speaker 12: we're just talking situations. Romance is a Libra sport, though,
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  Speaker 12: So don't confuse chemistry with compatibility ever again, because there's
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  Speaker 12: a difference.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, that's funny, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Henry, what's your sign?
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  Speaker 12: Good morning, Aquarius? Okay, So for my Aquarius. When it
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  Speaker 12: comes to you guys in your single era, your single
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  Speaker 12: era is giving. I'm not emotionally unavailable, I'm just difficult.
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  Speaker 12: You don't want a soulmate that feels like friendship, freedom
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  Speaker 12: and kind of a conspiracy theory your partner or something
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  Speaker 12: like that. So, my Aquarius, if your single, keep your
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  Speaker 12: heart unlocked and at least or at least on guest.
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  Speaker 5: Mode, you know, let some people in. Okay, I feel
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  Speaker 5: like that's a good one for you guys. Definitely, Thanks, Harry.
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  Speaker 3: Have a great day. A lot of guys calling for
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  Speaker 3: the horse clop. Okay, let's see Lawrence. Good morning, good morning. Wow,
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  Speaker 3: all guys with deep voices today, Lawrence, what's your sign?
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  Speaker 5: Okay?
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  Speaker 12: So for my virgos, when you virgos are single, your
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  Speaker 12: single era is organized and it's intentional, and it comes
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  Speaker 12: with a list of non negotiables. And you guys, you
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  Speaker 12: guys aren't anti dating. You're kind of just anti nonsense.
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  Speaker 12: So if you're single, stay open. Not everyone is a
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  Speaker 12: walking red flag.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's about right, all right, Lawrence, Thanks brother, thank you?
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  Speaker 11: Bye.
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  Speaker 2: How about for.
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  Speaker 12: Leo's Yeah, for Leo's, I'm a Leo. Our single era
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  Speaker 12: is kind of our glam rebrand. We glow differently when
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  Speaker 12: we are the prize and we know it. We turn
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  Speaker 12: heads without even trying and admire, stay stuck like glitter,
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  Speaker 12: stay are up, and energy is untouchable.
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  Speaker 5: And I totally feel that because.
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  Speaker 12: When I'm single, I look so good walking around in
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  Speaker 12: my cute little outfits, and now that I'm taking I'm
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  Speaker 12: just like sweatpants.
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  Speaker 5: And hair tie, no makeup.
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  Speaker 2: How about Piscey Rich.
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  Speaker 12: When you're in your single era, your single era feels
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  Speaker 12: like this, like dreamy music video. You're romanticizing everything, even
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  Speaker 12: your loneliness. But this chapter, your single chapter, is gonna
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  Speaker 12: teach you what you need, not just what you want
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  Speaker 12: to give.
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  Speaker 5: So leve will hit differently once you choose yourself first.
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  Speaker 4: For my Piscey, Yeah, listen to that, Piscey, get right
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  Speaker 4: with yourself first, exactly.
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  Speaker 5: How can you love anyone if you can't love yourself?
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  Speaker 2: True? You know if we need it to your son.
• 12:38
  Speaker 3: They're all posted on our website right now at John
• 12:40
  Speaker 3: Jayndrich dot com.
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  Speaker 13: I was gonna see dreda data, so the other day,
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  Speaker 13: I'm coming at you completely naive because I've never seen
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  Speaker 13: this before, and I never thought about it until I
• 12:54
  Speaker 13: went through this.
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  Speaker 3: I went to Peyton's Friends restaurant. It was twenty five
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  Speaker 3: bucks the park and I'm like, screw.
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  Speaker 2: That, right.
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  Speaker 3: So I found out when I when I go into
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  Speaker 3: the restaurant to order my food, they go, I go,
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  Speaker 3: we parked there? Go yeah, but it's twenty five dollars. Like,
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  Speaker 3: oh crap, I'm moving my car. So Dutch orders the
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  Speaker 3: food for us, which by the way, was fabulous. Now
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  Speaker 3: I got to find a parking space and it's pretty fast.
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  Speaker 3: I mean it's like CHIPOTLEI They're scooping it up right
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  Speaker 3: there for you. So I get my car. I'm trying
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  Speaker 3: to find a parking space and I I'm not that
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  Speaker 3: far away and block away, and I see a bunch
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  Speaker 3: of parking meters, and parking meters are everywhere, but and
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  Speaker 3: there's like one parking meter that's open.
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  Speaker 2: And I pull into this.
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  Speaker 3: It's like a little curve, like there's all these spaces
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  Speaker 3: and then a big curve and there's a handicap signed
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  Speaker 3: on the street, you know how they paint it blue.
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  Speaker 3: But there's a space in front of it. So I
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  Speaker 3: pull up into the space and it's a parking meter
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like, am I in a handicap spot?
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  Speaker 2: And do they do parking meters for handicap people? Oh?
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  Speaker 4: I don't think so.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think so either, But I'm telling you the
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  Speaker 3: spot I was in was a handicapped spot and I
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  Speaker 3: had a parking meter in it.
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  Speaker 2: That's weird.
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  Speaker 3: And I took a picture of it, and I was
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  Speaker 3: gonna post it because I wanted to bring it up,
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  Speaker 3: and I asked my son when we went, because then
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  Speaker 3: I went to goet I go, I think I'm in
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  Speaker 3: a handicap parking So we got a hustle or I
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  Speaker 3: go instead of paying twenty five dollars, I don't have
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  Speaker 3: to PA three hundred dollars. Yeah, And I'm like, let's go.
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  Speaker 3: So they scarf the food down and I get back
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  Speaker 3: to my car and I'm like, is this a handicap space?
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  Speaker 2: Because it is?
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  Speaker 3: Dad, And I'm like, why do they have a parking meter?
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  Speaker 3: I just seem right to me, right, I don't think
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  Speaker 3: I've ever seen that.
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: I've never seen it either, except for right here. So
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: I took pictures of it so that you guys wouldn't say.
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: I thought you guys were to go. Were you parked
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: in a normal space? Like, No, I wasn't. I'm parked
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: in a handicap party space.
• 14:28
  Speaker 4: Now we need to call somebody and ask like a
• 14:29
  Speaker 4: governor or something, write somebody in charge of things.
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: I've never seen that before.
• 14:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you would think that that wouldn't be a thing.
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: Good morning, David, what's happening?
• 14:37
  Speaker 11: Hey?
• 14:37
  Speaker 10: I just was tuned in on the fly and I
• 14:41
  Speaker 10: wanted to let you guys know. I am a male
• 14:44
  Speaker 10: courier for the coirk of the Court. So there are
• 14:47
  Speaker 10: handicapped spots with meters all around, you know, wherever you
• 14:53
  Speaker 10: park downtown. So I don't know where you guys were,
• 14:56
  Speaker 10: but I.
• 14:57
  Speaker 14: Just let you know they do make handicap spots and
• 15:01
  Speaker 14: I go from there.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: Isn't that like kind of rude?
• 15:04
  Speaker 10: Why would it be rude?
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: Because you're a handicapped you already get your parking there
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: because you need access to wherever you need to go,
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: right easy access.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: So also you need to make money. You can't just
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: get out of your car and go to where you
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: need to go.
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: Now you got to somehow stop and if you're you know,
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: severely handicapped or whatever, now you got to somehow put
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: money in a meter. You've got to, you know, Like,
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: there's a guy at my gym. He has a van,
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: he's in a wheelchair and he has a dog. And
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: I've tried to help him out, Hey, you need help.
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: He's like, I got it, and he gets he rolls
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: out of the van. He's got one of those machines
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: right then he's then he rolls into the gym. Like
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: the fact that he has to now roll around and
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: go to a parking meter and put money in the
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: meter seems like an Actually, it seems like it's it's
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: taking away what the handicap parking space is force to
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: make it accessible and easy for the person.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: Makes sense.
• 15:50
  Speaker 10: That makes sense, and it would be nice if they
• 15:52
  Speaker 10: gave that luxury to people like that, like they like
• 15:56
  Speaker 10: you would when you pull into a store or something.
• 15:58
  Speaker 14: But there again, at least they're making a spot for
• 16:01
  Speaker 14: somebody downtown, uh, you know.
• 16:04
  Speaker 10: To be able to park somewhere close. And then you know,
• 16:09
  Speaker 10: you get some people that abuse it.
• 16:12
  Speaker 14: I was talking to one of the parking meters and
• 16:15
  Speaker 14: people that give out the tickets, and there's people that
• 16:17
  Speaker 14: have their dead grandma's placard. They put it in numbers
• 16:22
  Speaker 14: don't match boom ticket.
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, no, there's there's always those there but ruin
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: it for the rest of right. But David's first statement was, hey, man,
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: you gotta make money, so they don't care where you park.
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: You're gonna get a meter in front of it, is
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: what you're saying.
• 16:36
  Speaker 14: I think the city wants to make money no matter what.
• 16:38
  Speaker 14: I don't work for the city, but you know that's
• 16:41
  Speaker 14: my feeling, all right.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: David, Hey, thanks for calling in. Man, have a great day.
• 16:44
  Speaker 11: All right, Take care, John Jay and Rich MICHAELA.
• 16:55
  Speaker 10: Good morning, Good morning.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: Do you have a dirty little secret?
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: I do.
• 17:03
  Speaker 9: I've been sleeping with my boss but the last two years,
• 17:06
  Speaker 9: and honestly, he kind of sucks. I don't even really
• 17:08
  Speaker 9: like him, but my job is kind of boring and
• 17:11
  Speaker 9: it makes them more interesting.
• 17:12
  Speaker 6: So I bet if you don't even really like him, like,
• 17:16
  Speaker 6: how do you even get to the point where you
• 17:18
  Speaker 6: get that intimate with someone.
• 17:22
  Speaker 9: Boredom and kind of like this little underlying hate maybe?
• 17:25
  Speaker 6: Right, so, like is he attractive at least?
• 17:29
  Speaker 10: Oh?
• 17:29
  Speaker 9: Yeah, he's a good looking guy, and I think there's
• 17:31
  Speaker 9: like this danger of like maybe somebody will find out
• 17:33
  Speaker 9: that is exciting to me.
• 17:34
  Speaker 12: Are you guys like only sleeping with each other at work?
• 17:37
  Speaker 12: Do you get any benefit from sleeping with your boss?
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: Can you give me a bonus?
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: Last year?
• 17:43
  Speaker 9: And yeah, mostly work.
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: Sometimes hotels are either of you in relationships outside of
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: this one.
• 17:50
  Speaker 7: He's married.
• 17:50
  Speaker 12: Oh, it makes it so much dirtier.
• 17:54
  Speaker 6: Yeah, so well, why why do you do this?
• 17:56
  Speaker 7: Then?
• 17:58
  Speaker 9: I don't know.
• 17:59
  Speaker 7: I think I'm like into like the danger and like
• 18:02
  Speaker 7: the excitement of it all.
• 18:03
  Speaker 9: I know it's bad.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: I think as long as you guys don't like throw
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: each other on the bus later when you get mad,
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: like if you literally have a professional sexual relationship at work,
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: if you can keep it under the umbrella like that
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: and don't be like, well you I did the saying,
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: Now I'm mad you didn't turn up your your your
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: project in the time, I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: tell your husband that you're sleeping with her right like then,
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: it's like it's not fair.
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: It's like friends with benefits literally, but in the workplace.
• 18:27
  Speaker 6: I would be on the same page as you until
• 18:29
  Speaker 6: she said he was married.
• 18:30
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's no good. It's like, wow, yeah
• 18:33
  Speaker 5: you should it doesn't I'd be like, okay, well that's
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: that's a fun little thing.
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: You're waiting for the lightning to strike, something's gonna happen.
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm scared for you. MICHAELA.
• 18:44
  Speaker 6: Thank you, but we're not so like I feel I am.
• 18:48
  Speaker 12: Judging if you are actively sleeping with a man who
• 18:51
  Speaker 12: is married, like no, fat, are you worried at all.
• 18:54
  Speaker 5: About like karma?
• 18:56
  Speaker 9: His wife is having an affair too?
• 18:58
  Speaker 5: Oh and how do you know this?
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: That's that's what he tells you.
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: Okay, so he's just doing that to make himself feel.
• 19:04
  Speaker 6: Better, unless she is, I mean, unless they have this
• 19:07
  Speaker 6: weird I don't know, like no agreement, like, hey, you're
• 19:10
  Speaker 6: gonna have a fair. I canna have a fair, Like
• 19:12
  Speaker 6: that's your one, this is my one.
• 19:13
  Speaker 10: I don't know.
• 19:13
  Speaker 5: You're all past. People are very progressively, but.
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: She's got a dirty little secret that keeps on giving
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: dirty little secret.
• 19:20
  Speaker 6: Yeah, there is like tentacles to like.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: If they have integrity within their relationship at work, it
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: works like they're bored, they have sex.
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: I'm bored you. Let's go in the back room and
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: tear it up for a little bit, all.
• 19:30
  Speaker 6: Right, And there is something about that When you say
• 19:33
  Speaker 6: integrity with this situation, I'm saying, but.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: That's what that's the part that's It's like it's like
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: these uh, these mobsters in the mafia, they're killing people,
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: but they also have a code.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: Like Dexter, like Dexter.
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: Right, so you you are in the work relationship, having
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: a professional work relationship, but you have a code between
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: two people that no matter what, you won't break that code.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: It's his integrity and I respect that. Mikayla, thank you.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: Thanks for sharing your dirty It'll.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Figure with us all right by if you ever got
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: a dirty little secret, tax us or call us eight
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: seven seven nine three seven one oh four seven.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Time for Staxson hacks. I have sax information, Rich has
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: life hacks.
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: I'd like to start out today's hacks with a clip
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: of a new movie that's coming out that I had
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: no idea about. And when I play you the movie clip,
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: I think you're really really gonna like it, especially.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: For those of us that are big fans of the
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: Greatest Showman.
• 20:26
  Speaker 6: I don't know what you're talking about.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: Get this, especially you know the the you know the
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: TV show on Netflix with Kate Hudson. She plays the Lakers,
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: the owner of the Lakers. Hugh Jackman and Kate Hudson
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: have a movie coming out. I'm gonna tell you I
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: think it gets Oscar nomination. And here's why it's gonna
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: sound crazy, but it's about Hugh Jackman and Kate Hudson
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: in a Neil Diamond tribute band.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that could be big. Okay, let me play
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: the clip and then let me explain.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: What do you think.
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: You don't want to be a Neil Diamond impersonator. You
• 20:55
  Speaker 5: want to be a Neil Diamond interpreter.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Only we can't stay love.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: We should call us those lightning and thunder.
• 21:03
  Speaker 11: By God things. We gotta get job.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: So you be lightning and I'd be thundered. I wouldn't
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: go any shorter than this. I wanted to ripple on
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: wave when wind blows my shirt wing.
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: I'm stopping it there because I want you to go.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: We'll put it up on our Instagram stories. Because I
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: listened to it, I'm like, this sounds kind of fun.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: I love Neil Diamond songs. And then I watched the
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: clip and it is like he's a Vietnam vet. He
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: has flashbacks. It's like traumatic. There's like she has kids,
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: he has kids. It's like this whole like holy smokes. Yeah,
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: and then you see the montage, but you see her,
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: you like her so much, Like it's just I'll put
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: the clip in so and and plus we all love
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: Neil Diamond songs because you know, obviously the rest of
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: the trailer is sweet.
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: You know that's gonna be fun.
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: It's like the Next Star is Born or something like that.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but first I thought it was gonna be like
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: the Greatest show Me or something sought it Bema.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's so. It's cold.
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: Song Song Blue Song Sung Blue, And I'll put the
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: trailer up on our on our Instagram feed. People are
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: freaking out after Congress shared a video footage of rich
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: I'm surprised you brought this up.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: Do you see this yet?
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: I did of a UFO appearing to survive apparently survived
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: a direct hit from a missile, not just any mischel.
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: Like like one of those Tomcat missiles. It bounces right
• 22:22
  Speaker 4: off whatever this thing.
• 22:23
  Speaker 5: Is kind of was it a triangle?
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: It was alar. It's kind of hard to see. It's
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: it's like because it's radar. It's a radar thing when
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: it was off the coast of Yemen or something.
• 22:33
  Speaker 6: All the technology we have, of course, the UFO video
• 22:37
  Speaker 6: is hard.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: I watched the video, and you know what hard to see?
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: Really, it looks like you're watching a microscope of like cells, multiplying.
• 22:46
  Speaker 12: And then there's a little I mean ironic, is that
• 22:50
  Speaker 12: the right word to use, the fact that we really
• 22:52
  Speaker 12: can't don't have a single clear thing of a suppose.
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: To you all the time? Want to say all the
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: time us. You know, because I talk about UFOs a
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: lot in my life. I don't know why they need lights.
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: If they're like intergalactic like vision, probably don't need the
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: headlights on there on their spaceships.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: Kyle, this is for you. I think you can agree
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: to this. It's his parent. Did some research.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: Parents worry a total forty seven times per day, roughly
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: seventeen and fifty five times a year, except for leap years,
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: when it's seventeen thy seven hundred and two.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: They worry about their children, how they're feeling, what they'll eat,
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: and so on.
• 23:28
  Speaker 6: Yeah, agreeable, It might be more than that, I think
• 23:31
  Speaker 6: so with us.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: It's non stop, dude, the kids, especially the kids. This
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: is currently in the dorm room. It's non stop, man. Anyway.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: Microsoft has a new report out that claims office employees
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: are interrupted by meetings, emails, and chats every two minutes.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: Every two minutes, I think I told you guys. At
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: my house, I play this a little game where I
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: try to see how long I can watch.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: TV before I get interrupted. Which is your office? Yeah,
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: that is your office watching TV two.
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: Minutes and thirty five second kids yesterday before I got
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: a judge and I got to do that.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: I think, why I pause it? And I like to
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: breathe pause.
• 24:08
  Speaker 5: The inconvenience.
• 24:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, life acts rich, all right, Well, there's hacks to
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: commanding a room. If you're either you know, in a
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: relationship with friends at work, they say, change the way
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: you say things and it will change the way people
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: look at you. Like, if you want to get the
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: room's attention, don't say excuse me. They say that sounds weak.
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: They say, hey, can I have your attention?
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: That's it?
• 24:34
  Speaker 7: Do that.
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: Don't say I think, say I strongly believe. And then
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: they say, don't say I'll try, say I'm gonna get
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: that done. Change those things and you will command the room.
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: There's a bunch of them. In fact, we put a
• 24:47
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• 24:50
  Speaker 4: Rich dot com.