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INSANE Am I The A-HOLE Reddit Stories · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: Hello, everybody, and welcome back to my YouTube channel. We're
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  Speaker 1: in Canada. Again. Yeah. And we're here with Jessica, my sister.
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  Speaker 2: My oldest sister, who has a child now, and who
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  Speaker 2: decided to stay up here.
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  Speaker 1: She's really f * * * ed up. I'm just kidding.
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  Speaker 2: I thought it'd be fun and she thought it'd be
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  Speaker 2: fun mostly because she just wants to get her hair
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  Speaker 2: done and I need to record a video that will
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  Speaker 2: kill two birds with one stone and read some Reddit stories.
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  Speaker 1: Am I the scallywag Reddit stories?
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  Speaker 2: And we're in, my office is completely empty and boring
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  Speaker 2: so I thought I'd go into my retro 60s shroom
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  Speaker 2: room guest bedroom themed room.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, this is this room. It's really fun. And yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we're going to be fixing her dork ass hair. You
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  Speaker 1: know when you did it last? Super blonde, I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: December. And we just did like a quick little thing
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  Speaker 3: because George was a little anxious first time.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna bust up her hair. We're gonna make this
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  Speaker 1: blonde as f * * * and we're gonna read
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  Speaker 1: some red. Mommy makeover! Exactly. George might make an appearance
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  Speaker 1: at some point. You probably will. She's fine with him
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  Speaker 1: being on camera. I'm fine.
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  Speaker 3: I don't care.
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  Speaker 2: But she said she's like, he's cute, sharing with the world,
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  Speaker 2: my grandchild. He's downstairs with grandma right now or nana.
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  Speaker 2: So let's get to it. Give them a compliment first before.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my mom brain. I'm going to compliment your brains.
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  Speaker 1: It's good.
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  Speaker 3: Because mine's leaving and you all have very beautiful brains
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  Speaker 3: for just living day in, day out, following my sister,
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  Speaker 3: enjoying yourselves, like just having humor in your life.
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  Speaker 1: It's great. So I compliment your brain. It's great. Let's
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  Speaker 1: get to it.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: First, am I the or am I the scallywag? Sorry.
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  Speaker 3: Am I the scallywag for yelling at my sister after
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  Speaker 3: she leaked private videos of my room?
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  Speaker 1: Okay. I, 19.
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  Speaker 5: Female, live with my parents, my younger sister, 16 female,
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  Speaker 5: and our four dogs.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry.
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  Speaker 5: Recently, my sister sent private videos.
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  Speaker 3: Of my room that she took when I was at
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  Speaker 3: my lowest point mentally to her friend.
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  Speaker 1: Oh. Oh, because it was messy. This friend then sent
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  Speaker 1: the videos to all of our friends. Oh. For everyone
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  Speaker 1: we knew to see.
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  Speaker 3: My boyfriend, 22 male, and several of our friends saw
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  Speaker 3: it before.
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  Speaker 1: They finally took it down because my mother told them to.
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  Speaker 3: My sister's friend said he did it because I needed
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  Speaker 3: to learn my place and that no one was going
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  Speaker 3: to give me any sympathy because I didn't deserve it.
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  Speaker 3: I screamed at my sister and her friend and called
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  Speaker 3: them out for invading my privacy and humiliating me purposely.
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  Speaker 3: I blocked my sister's friend and unadded them on everything.
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  Speaker 3: I still haven't really talked to my sister. My mother
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  Speaker 3: said that I had done it to myself and.
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  Speaker 1: That I should have kept it clean.
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  Speaker 3: Though she knows that I was not at all mentally
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  Speaker 3: stable while at those times those videos were taken.
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  Speaker 1: Am I the scallywag?
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 1: Holy shit, no. Like just. No. That's crazy. As someone that, listen, okay.
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  Speaker 1: I got some problems, all right?
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  Speaker 2: When I get low, and she can attest to this,
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  Speaker 2: I do not take care of myself, let alone my
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  Speaker 2: f * * * ing room, and it becomes so messy.
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  Speaker 2: She's probably been through it as well.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. I'm sure a lot of you guys have
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  Speaker 1: been through it too. Oh, yeah. But like, holy shit,
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  Speaker 1: that is so embarrassing. And I'd be mortified. Like, I
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  Speaker 1: was so embarrassed to have anybody over, so I just
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  Speaker 1: never had anybody over. Yeah. That's so, that's such a greasy.
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  Speaker 2: bitch thing to do like and not helpful in any.
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  Speaker 3: Way no not at all you're not the skywig man
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  Speaker 3: um no because like even well now like even just
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  Speaker 3: not mentally low like life gets busy it's hard to
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  Speaker 3: keep it's hard to keep up with stuff and then.
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  Speaker 1: This world is just moving so fast that.
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  Speaker 3: I finally once you finally get into your area of
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  Speaker 3: just being by yourself you're just like i just.
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  Speaker 1: Want to be by myself yeah i want to I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to use my free time to clean right now. Absolutely.
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  Speaker 5: And sometimes it just kind of, what do you call it?
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  Speaker 1: Tumbleweeds? No. It gathers and it just gets it worse
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  Speaker 1: and whatever.
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  Speaker 3: Spiral.
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  Speaker 1: Spiral. Yeah. But yeah, no, you're not the scallywag.
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  Speaker 3: Not at all.
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  Speaker 1: No. That was so rude that she used that. That
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  Speaker 1: was not okay.
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  Speaker 3: And like, Okay, now I'll just even play, like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: say your sister did share it with her best friend.
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  Speaker 1: Why did you even go that much farther to share
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  Speaker 1: it with everybody else? Yeah, that's crazy. Like, that's just,
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  Speaker 1: that's what you're, her sister's a bully. Yeah. That's just bullying. Like,
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  Speaker 1: that's not okay. Like, my family was just like, what's
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  Speaker 1: wrong with you? Like, you need help? You need to
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  Speaker 1: talk to somebody? You need help cleaning up? Yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: then it's, yeah, that's what you do. Do you need
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  Speaker 1: help cleaning up? Yeah. Like, you don't make them feel
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  Speaker 1: bad for what they're going through. Oh my goodness, the
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  Speaker 1: amount of times that, like, Well, Alyssa, our other sister Alyssa.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like we put her to work every time
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  Speaker 2: she comes home from Missouri.
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  Speaker 5: We're like, hey, so do you want to make some
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  Speaker 5: money and help me clean.
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  Speaker 1: Up this place? Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 3: The amount of times I've made, not made her, I've
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  Speaker 3: asked her if she wanted to help clean up my
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  Speaker 3: place and I've paid her.
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  Speaker 1: It's worth it for me. Absolutely. Anyway.
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  Speaker 2: I forgot to screenshot the comments below, but I'm sure
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  Speaker 2: that they agree with us.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. On to the next. On to the next. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Am I the scallywag for not getting my girlfriend a
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  Speaker 3: pastry because she's on a diet?
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  Speaker 1: Let's read into it. My girlfriend of two years is
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  Speaker 1: an absolute gorgeous, stunning woman. I love every inch of her,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't think anything needs to change.
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  Speaker 3: Over the past few months, she went through a really
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  Speaker 3: rough time with some family and work stuff, and as
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  Speaker 3: a result, ditched a lot of her exercise and.
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  Speaker 1: Healthy eating habits.
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  Speaker 5: As a result of overeating junk food, she put on
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  Speaker 5: 10 pounds.
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  Speaker 3: While I tell her every day that she's beautiful, and
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  Speaker 3: I mean it too, she is uncomfortable, and two weeks
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  Speaker 3: ago started talking about how she wants to cut out
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  Speaker 3: junk food, start exercising again, and go back to her
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  Speaker 3: baseline weight. I support her efforts to return to healthy habits.
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  Speaker 3: Last week on my way home from work, as I
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  Speaker 3: often do, I stopped in her favorite bakery in the city.
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  Speaker 3: I usually stop at least once per week, and while
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  Speaker 3: in the past I would always pick something up for
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  Speaker 3: myself and my girlfriend, this time I only got something
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  Speaker 3: for myself because she's being vocal about it. She will
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  Speaker 3: cut out pastries. I got myself a big cinnamon roll
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  Speaker 3: with cream cheese glaze.
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  Speaker 1: Delicious. When I got home, she saw the bakery bag
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  Speaker 1: and she asked, what did you get?
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  Speaker 3: I had to admit that I didn't get anything for
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  Speaker 3: her since she said she wants to cut out the pastries.
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  Speaker 3: She got upset and said I should have texted her
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  Speaker 3: when I'm in the bakery and asked if she wanted anything.
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  Speaker 3: I said I just didn't think she would since she'd
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  Speaker 3: been vocal about wanting to cut.
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  Speaker 1: Out certain foods.
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  Speaker 3: She then said I shouldn't have gotten anything for myself
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  Speaker 3: either since now I'm just flaunting it and making her
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  Speaker 3: feel fat.
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  Speaker 1: She cried a lot and she was a bit... cold
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  Speaker 1: towards me. I'm generally confused. Okay, so what.
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  Speaker 3: I'm getting here is she just found the bag. So
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  Speaker 3: it's not like he ate it in front of her,
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  Speaker 3: like brought it home and ate it.
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  Speaker 1: In front of her. Oh, he didn't? Well, I thought
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  Speaker 1: he said he came home with the bag.
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  Speaker 5: When I got home, she saw the bakery bag.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, why don't you just eat it and get rid
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  Speaker 3: of the bag?
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  Speaker 1: I was just going to say, eat in the car.
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  Speaker 1: We all do it sometimes, okay? Like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, oh, I got goodies.
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  Speaker 5: I bought my lunch today.
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  Speaker 1: Usually I'll buy it for somebody else, but then, yeah, like.
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  Speaker 6: that's i don't know i mean i understand i understand
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  Speaker 6: where you're coming from but you aren't um you aren't
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  Speaker 6: thinking of the other person how that would make them
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  Speaker 6: feel especially women I'm just going to say it.
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  Speaker 1: Most women, that's going to be their reaction.
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  Speaker 2: That's you saying, hey, McFatty Fatterson, you don't deserve a pastry.
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  Speaker 1: No. That's what it says in our heads because that's what,
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  Speaker 1: that's just how we function. That's tough. I mean, that's
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  Speaker 1: not for every woman. I'm just like, I'm deeply insecure.
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  Speaker 1: So I know I would think that as well. And
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  Speaker 1: I have been in those situations where it's like.
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  Speaker 3: Well, what, like if she wanted so bad, why don't
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  Speaker 3: you just say half-half?
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  Speaker 1: Or that, yeah. Be like, you know what? I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: Or like, I mean, that could have been the easy
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  Speaker 1: way out. There's, yeah, there's a.
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  Speaker 2: Good way to communicate about that too. You could have
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  Speaker 2: been like, he could have said what he said. It's like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: I just thought that you were doing this and I
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  Speaker 2: thought it would help you.
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  Speaker 1: Is that what he said? He kind of did. He said,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. She got upset.
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  Speaker 3: I said, and said, I should have texted her. I said,
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  Speaker 3: I just didn't think she would since she's been so
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  Speaker 3: vocal about.
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  Speaker 1: Wanting to cut out certain foods.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Is that my drinky?
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  Speaker 1: Is it? Come here. We went and looked outside, but
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  Speaker 1: it's raining pretty hard. Oh no, that's not fun. Mommy
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  Speaker 1: looks funny right now. George, it's here. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I understand. You weren't like, you're not the asshole, I
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  Speaker 1: don't think.
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  Speaker 3: No. Oh, sorry.
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  Speaker 1: What did you think we're doing up here? Why did
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  Speaker 1: you just sit? My mother, she knows we're filming. You
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  Speaker 1: just sat in the frame and said, oh, sorry, are
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  Speaker 1: you filming?
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  Speaker 2: No, no, where's my body?
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  Speaker 1: No, it's fine. Just sit. Oh, you're just watching, buddy?
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  Speaker 1: George is on the ground. He can usually go on
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  Speaker 1: the bed, Mom.
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  Speaker 5: I'm fine with it.
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  Speaker 1: No, I don't.
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  Speaker 5: I honestly don't think he's a scoundrel.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, I got emotional. All right. I immediately thought that
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  Speaker 1: you came home flaunting it. Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And you didn't think of her feelings, which maybe, but
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  Speaker 2: I understand where you come from.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 5: You're also young.
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  Speaker 1: You're young. Are they? They were together for two years.
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  Speaker 1: It's still, like, honeymoon-ish. You'll figure it out.
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  Speaker 5: All good.
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  Speaker 1: Is there comments? Yes, there is. First one, you're not
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  Speaker 1: the scallywag, but you fell right into the trap. Yeah, exactly. Exactly.
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  Speaker 3: No matter what they say, always ask the question, I'm
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  Speaker 3: at the pastry store.
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  Speaker 1: Would you like anything beer? Trust me on this one.
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  Speaker 1: Save yourself a headache. Yeah. It's just a lesson.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It's just a lesson you learned. You know, it's a
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  Speaker 1: tough lesson, but it's a lesson. I think it's the
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  Speaker 1: only sane and healthy answer, no matter what. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I see your point, but I also would find.
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  Speaker 1: It thoughtful and supportive if they were.
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  Speaker 3: purposely didn't get me baked good because of the goals
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  Speaker 3: I expressed.
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  Speaker 1: Promotions are valid. They did nothing wrong.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. So we're, yeah, we got there. We got there. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Head on over to sour.gg to get your sour boys on.
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  Speaker 1: New drop every Friday.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so she's a tower. Now, we had a baby emergency.
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  Speaker 2: George was being a baby, and we needed to take
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  Speaker 2: a break. And while they had a break, I just went,
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  Speaker 2: f * * * him.
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  Speaker 1: So we're back. We're like halfway done. Let's get back
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  Speaker 1: to it. Let's get back to it. Okay, am I
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  Speaker 1: the scout? for hiring a private investigator to catch my
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  Speaker 1: husband cheating? Probably not. Probably not. Well, unless he's not
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  Speaker 1: cheating on us, that's embarrassing. Let's hear it.
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  Speaker 3: Over the past couple of weeks, I've noticed my husband
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  Speaker 3: acting differently. He's been coming home later, taking more frequent
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  Speaker 3: trips to conferences, and just overall being more distance. It's
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  Speaker 3: probably been a month since we've had flanks, and not
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  Speaker 3: for a lack of trying on my part, he always
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  Speaker 3: says he's too tired or he's not in the mood,
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  Speaker 3: which is fine, but it's just been all.
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  Speaker 1: Of the sudden and very not like him.
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  Speaker 3: One of my friends suggested I hire someone to see
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  Speaker 3: where he's going and if he's actually being truthful.
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  Speaker 1: She said I was well within my right to be concerned.
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  Speaker 1: It's not a lot of context. All right. No, like,
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to talk to him? I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I hired a young woman through a company to follow him.
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  Speaker 3: He had surgery conference in a city about two hours away.
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  Speaker 3: He told me exactly where the conference would be. After
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  Speaker 3: thinking the decision over for several days, I decided.
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  Speaker 1: To go through with it.
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  Speaker 5: I told the woman I hired to go to the
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  Speaker 5: hotel and see if he.
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  Speaker 1: Actually is cheating.
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  Speaker 3: I gave her pictures of him, pictures of his car,
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  Speaker 3: and even told her what he would be wearing. I
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  Speaker 3: was constantly having second thoughts or whether I'm insane for
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  Speaker 3: even going to such lengths.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: She said he respected her boundaries and was just making conversation.
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  Speaker 3: She told me that most guys she's been hired to
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  Speaker 3: follow are usually much more forward and flirty, but it's
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  Speaker 3: not out of character for my husband to be more
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  Speaker 3: patient and a methodical guy in the room.
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  Speaker 5: Anyway, she went to the bathroom and called me to
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  Speaker 5: tell me what's happening.
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  Speaker 3: After describing their conversation, it didn't sound like he was
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  Speaker 3: trying to get with her, but she said she could
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  Speaker 3: be more flirty if I wanted to.
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  Speaker 1: So this girl, I thought it was a PI, but
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  Speaker 1: it sounds like she hired her to... Okay, keep going.
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  Speaker 1: And trap him, basically?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. But she said she could be more flirty if
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  Speaker 3: I wanted her to. I reluctantly gave her permission to
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  Speaker 3: try and get my husband to cheat. Oh! And a
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  Speaker 3: couple hours later, she said she convinced him.
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  Speaker 5: To go up to her hotel room to.
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  Speaker 3: Edit, she didn't actually go through with it. This happened yesterday.
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  Speaker 3: I was shocked. I'm still shocked. It was that easy.
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  Speaker 3: All it took was some woman in her thirties to
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  Speaker 3: be flirty and he would throw away years of marriage.
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  Speaker 1: I'm numb. I'm not sure how to feel. I don't
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  Speaker 1: even know if.
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  Speaker 3: This would have happened had I not hired the private
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  Speaker 3: investigator in the first place.
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  Speaker 1: Was I out of line?
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  Speaker 5: Am I the asshole here? What does, am I the
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  Speaker 5: scallywag here? What does this say about me as a spouse?
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  Speaker 5: What escort service did you hire this PI from?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, no. See, I think this would be even worse
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  Speaker 3: for me because I'm like, okay, so has he cheated?
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  Speaker 1: Was this the first time he cheated? Yeah, of course.
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  Speaker 3: Especially because you said that you haven't been active in.
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  Speaker 1: A loving way for like only a month. Yeah. And
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  Speaker 1: like years of marriage, like only a month. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, you know your husband best and his like,
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  Speaker 3: or his like habits and how he goes through, you know,
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  Speaker 3: life and everything like that. But it's still like this
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  Speaker 3: private investigator didn't seem so His P.I.
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  Speaker 1: Works in corn, I think. Yeah, like, that's not what
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  Speaker 1: I want. That's crazy. I don't know, man. So I'm
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  Speaker 1: assuming they've had a conversation. I don't know. Maybe she
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  Speaker 1: just didn't even have a conversation about it.
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  Speaker 2: And she just went fully like, he's probably cheating and
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to send a P.I.
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  Speaker 1: Out rather than being like, hey, we've been distant lately.
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  Speaker 2: You're feeling off. Like, give him the benefit of the doubt.
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  Speaker 2: Give him the chance to say something.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Like, even like depression or I don't know. I'm not
• 13:33
  Speaker 2: taking his side, right? No.
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  Speaker 1: He shouldn't have cheated. No. No. But also, you didn't
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  Speaker 1: trap your husband, which is so weird. And I'll give
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  Speaker 1: you this. Like, you do have those gut feelings for sure.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. They're, I would say, like a lot
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  Speaker 3: of the times they can be right, but sometimes they're not.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. Okay, I don't think you're necessarily like
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  Speaker 3: a scallywag, but I would have hired.
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  Speaker 5: Someone that was a little bit more discreet.
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.
• 14:01
  Speaker 3: And not coaxing my husband into it. Like, I just
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: want to see if he's lying about this whole conferencing.
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: I might have like had the private investigator like, you know,
• 14:10
  Speaker 3: watch him for like a month.
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: You'd have hired a PI, okay? No, I wouldn't have.
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying if I was... Okay, if you're in
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: her situation. No, I don't think I would. I feel
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: like I could be my own private investigator.
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: Right? Yeah.
• 14:20
  Speaker 3: I would hire anybody.
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: I just hired my best friend. I was like, I'll
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: just hire my sister. It's fine. She'll follow. I can
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: go in a wig and... Yeah.
• 14:26
  Speaker 5: Oh, let's see what the comments say. What escort service
• 14:29
  Speaker 5: did you hire?
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: I was behind him. Yes, seriously. It's kind of rough. Yeah.
• 14:32
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you're kind of everybody's asshole a little bit.
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Seems low. Yeah.
• 14:55
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: You're both a little bit of scallywags, I would say.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: He's more. He's more. He's more. Definitely more. But it's
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: a weird situation. I've never been in it. Don't want
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: to be in it. Nope. I hope you both find
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: people that actually are good for each other. Honestly, my
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: husband's too lazy. I'm too lazy. Caleb just doesn't go
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: out anywhere. Not that he would. Not that he would.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: But he also just stays home with the cows.
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: You know, if he has a little, like, you know,
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: maybe a little flirtation with a cart girl with all
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: of his golfing.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be excited if Caleb went out. I'd be like, oh, wow.
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: But if that, I would be like, you know, if
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: the cart girl flirted with Adam, I.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: Just take that as a compliment. Because I'd be like, yeah, right,
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: I have good taste.
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: And I'm scallywag for never telling my wife I cheated
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: on her.
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: All right. Uh-oh.
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: Sounded like it. Let's dive in. Last week was my
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: 30th wedding anniversary.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: Dang.
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: Today I turn 54 and it's the first day of
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: retirement for my wife and I.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: My wife and I met when.
• 15:49
  Speaker 5: We were 16 through friends and started dating shortly after.
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: We were both complete virgins, but we met so we
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: learned and experienced everything together. We dated all throughout high
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: school and long distance through college, tough, and ended up getting.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: Married at 23. Dang. We have two sons and a
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: daughter now, 27, 24, and 22.
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: When I was 27, I slept with another woman because
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: I was curious, drunk, and very stupid i don't remember
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: many of the details and they aren't.
• 16:13
  Speaker 4: Important but it was a woman that neither of us
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: had ever met and i never heard from her again
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: as far as i know my wife has never found
• 16:20
  Speaker 4: out about this or had any hesitation in trusting me
• 16:23
  Speaker 4: ever my wife went to college but didn't end up.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: Pursuing much of a career opting to take care of.
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: The kids it was tough for a while and we
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: both were stressed and this was around the time of
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: the affair Not making excuses for myself, just context to
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: explain why I would be so shortsighted and why I
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: was drinking. But I eventually got a better job. We
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: started budgeting, paid off our loans from there. Money has
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: never been an issue and we have been happy ever since.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: I've accepted the fact that I will never truly be
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: happy again.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: What?
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: I've accepted the fact that I will never truly be
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: happy again if I want her to get the happiness
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: she deserves. I don't want to pretend that guilt still
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: eats me. me alive every day i still love my
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: wife and she still loves me we have had so
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: many happy and amazing memories and still do every day
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: though most usually come with a lingering feeling of guilt
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: too She spent her whole life dedicated to me, to
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: her child.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: Children, and her family.
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: Now that we have all the freedom we've been waiting
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: for in our lives, I feel as if I have
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: to come to the crossroads and I only have two options.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: One, continue living life as.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: Normal, take trips with my wife, play with my grandchildren,
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: give her the retirement and the end.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Of life she deserves with her husband, who she loves.
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: I'm not really happy and I'll never be, but I
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: am also not in a bad place. I could take
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: this level of pain for the rest of my life
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: and I probably deserve that.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: Is he just saying because he cheated he's not happy?
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: I think so. That's what it sounds like.
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: Two, tell her I don't know whether she would leave
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: me now or forgive me. I think she deserves to
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: know the truth, but I also think it could crush
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: her at the time in her life where.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: She's supposed to be the happiest. Oh. So I need
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: to know, am I the... Scallywag, not telling my wife.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: And is.
• 17:54
  Speaker 5: It's time to tell her now. Edit for clarification.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: I know that I was scuttywig for not telling her
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: when it happened. And I know every year I didn't
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: tell her makes me more of a scuttywig.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: That's what I was going to say. But what now? Shoo, buddy.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: Oh, shit, bud.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: Damn, that's hard. I mean, it's not hard. I would
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: just say, I don't know. I'm just coming from a
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: place with me.
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: I would not, first of all, wouldn't cheat, but also
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: would not be able to live with myself.
• 18:22
  Speaker 5: No.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: In like every happy moment that we've had or any like,
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: cause everybody talks about like, oh my gosh, like this
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: person cheated on this person, like with their other, with
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: their significant other. And then like, oh, I can never
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: do that. And like in the back of your head,
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: you know, you, oh, oh, the guilt would eat me alive.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: I like, I couldn't.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: And then I, I like, how you did say, I
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: could take this level of pain for the rest of
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: my life and I probably deserve that. I'm like, okay,
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: I hear what you're saying. Cause like, yeah, I think
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: you do deserve that. And kind of protecting.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Her own peace. I get it.
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: But at the same time, I think it's also a
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: level of respect for your wife.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: She's a grown person to make her own decisions and
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: you deserve whatever she decides to do.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's not that, yeah, you don't deserve to be like.
• 19:07
  Speaker 5: I get that.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: You're like, Oh, I'm trying to look over her happiness,
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: but you've had how.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Many years to tell her? Yeah. And I get it.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: It builds up.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: Like I, I don't get it, but I like, I
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: get it. Like just being devil's advocate. It's just like, no,
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: it's a one, one thing. It was a one time thing.
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: And you know what?
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: I like, you also said, what else did you say? Oh, here.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: It was tough while we were both stressed. And this
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: was around the time of the affair. And you were like, take,
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: like taking care of the kids and everything like that.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: Like as a new mom, that consumes me.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: I'm sure maybe I'll get a little bit better as
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: time goes on and everything, but it's like navigating a
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: relationship with a baby and with kids.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Is a whole new thing. I can't even imagine.
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: It's a whole new thing. It's a whole new dynamic
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: to the relationship. You're learning so much more about each
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: other and you guys.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: Pretty easy not to go f * * * somebody though.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Am I right?
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: Just saying.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I get that you went to a bar. Yeah,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: that's fine. But how, like, you took the next step.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: For me, it's like when somebody cheats on somebody, I'm like,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: there's so many times where you could have just left
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: the situation. Oh, that's the thing. That's why I don't
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: have sympathy. I'm just like, no, you're a grown-ass adult. Like,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: you know what you're doing. You know that you drank.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: You know that you put yourself in that situation.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I still think you should tell your wife and
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: she should just be like, I know that you're like, oh,
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: this should be the happiest of her life right now.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: She'll be the head of it. It should be the.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: Happiest time of her life right now, but it's also like,
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: let her.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: Like, you owe her. You owe her, honestly.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: She needs the respect to leave you and go live
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: a different life or to forgive you and you guys
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: can get over it together.
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and actually truly be happy with each other and
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: not carrying this guilt.
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: She could probably read into it.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: After a while. Yeah. She could think, Oh, maybe he's,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: he's especially more than once.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 20:49
  Speaker 5: Or especially since you've retired and everything like that.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Like now you're spending all this time together.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: Who's to say you're obviously the scallywag, but like you said,
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: I would just sit her down and be like, listen,
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to think what, like, let's say Adam.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Like I don't like this situation.
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: Me too.
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: I will.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: I will too.
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: If my husband, if my husband, she like, we've been
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: together for 10 years now. He said, Hey, by the way,
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: you're too old. By the way, year two, you know,
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: when I was at school in Lethbridge, there was this
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: one time that I, and I'll be like, I'd probably
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: be like, okay, I need to know every little detail
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: that happened.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: To torture myself. Because I would torture myself. But I
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: would feel like.
• 21:28
  Speaker 5: I need to know why they made this decision.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: And it'd probably take me some time.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: I don't think I'd leave him though.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like if you've had a really good
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: marriage and all this stuff and she had the capacity
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: to believe.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: Him that he didn't do it, I think they probably
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: would stay together. It sounds like, or I keep looking
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: at this camera, it sounds like.
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah, the other thing would be my kid. Yeah, like
• 21:49
  Speaker 5: being a, you know, we're both.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: Like, our parents didn't stay together. I mean, we were
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: super young.
• 21:55
  Speaker 5: We didn't know any different anyways.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: No, I was born a bastard. I don't know any better.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: I don't.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: I was only like.
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: But.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Not even two. Yeah. But it's like. You know, try
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: to keep the family together, I guess, as well. Yeah,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: but I mean, the kids are out of the house.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: That's true, too.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know. That's a tough one.
• 22:11
  Speaker 5: Tough situation.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Shouldn't have done it. Don't f * * * ing cheat. Okay,
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: we're back. She's all washed. I finished. The camera turned off.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: This is not a proper, I don't know. This video's
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: been a bit of a shitshow, but hopefully it's made
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: sense to you. But we're back. We're blonde.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna blow dry it, but I'm first gonna cut it,
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: and Jessica's gonna read one more story, and then we'll
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: see the final result.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Oh, my scallywag for refusing to celebrate my own birthday. Me,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: pretty much.
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: As older I get, I'm like, meh. One of our
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: managers just loves to celebrate birthdays. Apparently, they make their
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: own a huge deal.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Firstly, if you like it, the more power to you.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I do not like it.
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: I'm very uncomfortable being sung to, uncomfortable with all the attention.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: I am fine with the occasional happy birthday, but that's it.
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: At the celebration of another coworker's birthday, I did not
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: eat any of the cake. I did wish them a
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: happy birthday, but I do not like cake. I do
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: not eat it at home.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Never been a cake fan.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: I did not. The manager questioned why I didn't have
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: any and I explained I do not care for cake,
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: never have. They asked me what I usually do for
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: my birthday celebration and when I explained I do not
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: do anything, they did not believe me. As my birthday approached,
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: I made it clear I did not want any attention
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: nor did I want any sweets. I do not eat
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: the sweets, I expressed myself to management and three co-workers.
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: They kept asking me what treats I like and.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: What is my favorite cake.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: Well, on the day my cubicle was decorated and all
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: of these people were coming up to me, wishing me
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: a happy birthday. My spouse told me to just let
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: it go. So I did until lunch. At lunch, they
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: tried to get me into a conference room to sing
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: to me and had cake and everything. I refused to
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: go in, explained again how much it makes me uncomfortable
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: and how I do not like sweets. Another coworker told
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: me I needed to understand how much effort went into
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: getting me something and decorating.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: They said I should apologize to the manager for refusing.
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: Once I got home and told my spouse what happened,
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: they said I was wrong and I should have just
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: enjoyed the fact they wanted to celebrate me. I feel
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: they just want a cake party and were using me
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: as an excuse to do that. Am I the scallywag
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: for not wanting to party and not participating in the party?
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Y'all, they just want to... Cake. Okay. Is this an
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: office job or something, right? Yeah, typical. They want cake.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Get over yourself a little bit. I mean, I get
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: you don't like to be celebrated. I hate it. I
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: hate it.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: I hate parties, like birthday parties. I've never liked them.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: I totally get that. But also, I don't think it
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: was that big of a deal. Like you could, I
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: don't know. I understand like it's a respect thing too,
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: but at the end of the day, everyone loves cake, man.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: It's just an excuse for them to have fun at work.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: How long is happy birthday? 20 seconds? Yeah.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: And then you get a couple happy birthdays. However, I mean,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: my brother-in-law.
• 24:36
  Speaker 5: Who special needs, we cannot sing him happy birthday.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair. But that's a very special case.
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah. But I get it. I get it. I get
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: what you don't.
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: But then again, yes, they probably should have just respected it.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: And they could have just had a cake in your honor. Right.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: And then be like, hey, there is cake if you
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: want it. They could have gone about it in a
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: less aggressive way.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: That's fair.
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: That's fair.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Because I don't like to be put on the spot
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: like that either. No. So let's see what people say. Yeah.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: I'm curious. They said no.
• 25:01
  Speaker 5: One person said no. You made it clear you didn't
• 25:02
  Speaker 5: want the party.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: They threw it anyway. That's on them.
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: When I worked in an office, I always used PTO
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: on my birthday for the exact reason that I didn't
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: want to deal with any birthday nonsense.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Another person said no. Another person said no. This person
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: said you shouldn't be put into a situation where you
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable. I take it back. I take it back.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: That was the people pleaser in me. I would personally
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: never say that. Like if somebody did something that went
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: out of their way to do something.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Even if it was kind of selfishly for them, I'd
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: be like, it's fine. Yeah. Like I'm just like water
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: over the water under the bridge. Like it's not worth it.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I'm just too old now where I'm just like.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: It's fine.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. Who cares? So yeah.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: I get it.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: Pretty much. No, pretty much. No, I don't think you are.
• 25:39
  Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, a little bit of suck it up.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: It is what it is. Yeah. That's just how we
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: grew up. But at the same time, it's just like,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: I also respect your wish. If somebody told me, I
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: hate my birthday. I don't like being celebrated. I wouldn't
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: do it. I'd be like crazy.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: They hate their birthday, but we want cake. So I'm
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: just going to tell them we're using their birthday for
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: an excuse for cake. I'd probably just be that straight up.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: We're using your birthday as an excuse. I'd be like,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: go ahead, dude. That's fine. I'll grab a piece or
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: she didn't like cake. So that's fair. The world keeps spinning. Okay.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: You will see her hair in three, two, done. Hopefully
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: that looked good. Look at how blonde and beautiful and
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: shiny she is. Oh my God.
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: I feel so good.
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  Speaker 1: Stunning. I think I did 200 foils. You did. You
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  Speaker 1: guys were gone for a lot of it. Yeah. But
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  Speaker 1: we're done. I accidentally put my sister to work just
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  Speaker 1: for a few days. She came back to visit me.
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  Speaker 1: I used you. I used you for a video. It's fine.
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  Speaker 3: Bye.